WEBVTT - MINI: Ask  Uncut... My boyfriend doesn't post me on socials 📸

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's a Thursday, ladies, so we have to

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<v Speaker 1>do this. We do it every week. It's our favorite,

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<v Speaker 1>as pat Usk Gun Cut. You do it on your

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<v Speaker 1>podcast Life on Cut. Every week we have a listener

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<v Speaker 1>who's gotten in touch with us. They've got a question

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<v Speaker 1>in their life. Today we're going to try and help

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<v Speaker 1>out Kate. Kate is struggling with her partner. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>post her to social media, which is an issue that

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<v Speaker 1>red flag we've all faced. Kate, Hello, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Give us the details?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey guys, Yeah, so you hit the nail on the head, meach. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and

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<v Speaker 2>I've just never made an Instagram official, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>even on his grood at all. It's almost like he's

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<v Speaker 2>not even in a relationship. And like, I love him

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<v Speaker 2>so much and obviously there's no problems like in our

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<v Speaker 2>real life, but it's I just don't understand why he

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<v Speaker 2>won't post me or post any pictures of us on

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<v Speaker 2>social media. It just seems a bit strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Kay.

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<v Speaker 4>Is he someone who's active on social media or does

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<v Speaker 4>he just never use it so therefore he doesn't post

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<v Speaker 4>you or anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he does but like, like, but this is the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>He'll post pitches with him and his friends, like nights out,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, even brunch and stuff like that, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you'll go out with them and post photos at brunch

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. And I'm like, okay, well, like, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>never really wanted to ask. I don't know how do

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<v Speaker 2>you approach this? That's the thing. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>to bring it up.

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<v Speaker 4>It's definitely upsetting if the avocado on toast makes the

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<v Speaker 4>grid and you don't like for me, I'm like, well

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<v Speaker 4>you put the poach egg on there? Do you have

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<v Speaker 4>you actually asked him why? Because for me, I think

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<v Speaker 4>three is deep. If people are using social media, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I tend to lean towards there trying to hide something

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<v Speaker 4>and I hate saying that, but at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the day, that's what it is. Like you should be

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<v Speaker 4>pretty important. So what has he said when you've asked him?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've kind of hinted, So I've never really gone

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<v Speaker 2>in and been like, hey, why don't you posting on

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<v Speaker 2>social media? Because I don't want to seem like needy

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<v Speaker 2>or anything as well, Like I kind of just go, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a nice picture of you. And your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not needy anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't need to hint or droppings. Also, do you

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<v Speaker 4>post him on your social media? Because like do you

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<v Speaker 4>post him in your stories and then you tag him

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<v Speaker 4>and he just never shares your stories? Like what's happening there?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that is actually how I've tried to see if

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<v Speaker 2>he'll reshare it, because when I've tagged him, because I

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<v Speaker 2>posted about him all the time. See, that's the other

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<v Speaker 2>thing I post all the time thinking Okay, he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to reshare it. Never reshare that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so he wants to appear single, And I reckon, I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Done I've done some thinking if you only ever posts

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<v Speaker 1>him out with his boyfriends and he's posting brunch, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of gay friends do that every single weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>You watch RuPaul's drag race by Chats Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we love it. We watch it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sitting down. I'm going to tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>I fear your boyfriend the other one. He might be

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of Dudy's.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's like, he's he's You just need to I

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<v Speaker 3>think three years, let's be serious, three years.

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<v Speaker 4>You are at a place where you should be able

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<v Speaker 4>to sit down and say it makes me feel a

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<v Speaker 4>bit insecure that you don't post me. Can are you happy?

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<v Speaker 4>Bit me on the ground, and if he says no,

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<v Speaker 4>there's definitely something more at play, because anyone should be

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<v Speaker 4>able to be like, you know what, You're right. It

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<v Speaker 4>has been three years and no one knows you exist, so.

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<v Speaker 2>So you think I should just go straight in and

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<v Speaker 2>just say, look, yeah, why don't you post me? Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>The other alternative is to hack into his phone and

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<v Speaker 4>upload something to his grid without him knowing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I always wanted to do that, but I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even talk to him about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that would be What you should do is

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<v Speaker 1>get the grinder sound effect from YouTube, play it in

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<v Speaker 1>the same room as in his eyes light up. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>right if he is, it'll be it'll be stressful for

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<v Speaker 1>a bit, but trust me, you'll have a new best

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<v Speaker 1>friend back.

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<v Speaker 2>Please help me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, he'll You love having someone help with your outfits,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. You can get in touch if you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a question that you need answered. Oh four nine nine

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Britt, what do you o't gat.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I just always wonder.

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<v Speaker 4>I always am about to tell you guys something stupid

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<v Speaker 4>that have done, And then I have this moment where

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, why do I cantinuously talk about the stupid

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<v Speaker 4>things I do? Because we get paid to do it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I embarrassed on the hugely with a listener. Yeah it

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<v Speaker 4>went down like a lead balloon.

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<v Speaker 1>I pick up listener.

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<v Speaker 4>It was an auto correct.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't my fault.

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<v Speaker 4>I am innocent, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>That next the court room of the pick up.

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<v Speaker 4>After this