Speaker 1: All right, it's a Thursday, ladies, so we have to
Speaker 1: do this. We do it every week. It's our favorite,
Speaker 1: as pat Usk Gun Cut. You do it on your
Speaker 1: podcast Life on Cut. Every week we have a listener
Speaker 1: who's gotten in touch with us. They've got a question
Speaker 1: in their life. Today we're going to try and help
Speaker 1: out Kate. Kate is struggling with her partner. He doesn't
Speaker 1: post her to social media, which is an issue that
Speaker 1: red flag we've all faced. Kate, Hello, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Give us the details?
Speaker 2: Hey guys, Yeah, so you hit the nail on the head, meach. Like,
Speaker 2: I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and
Speaker 2: I've just never made an Instagram official, Like I'm not
Speaker 2: even on his grood at all. It's almost like he's
Speaker 2: not even in a relationship. And like, I love him
Speaker 2: so much and obviously there's no problems like in our
Speaker 2: real life, but it's I just don't understand why he
Speaker 2: won't post me or post any pictures of us on
Speaker 2: social media. It just seems a bit strange.
Speaker 3: Kay.
Speaker 4: Is he someone who's active on social media or does
Speaker 4: he just never use it so therefore he doesn't post
Speaker 4: you or anything?
Speaker 2: Well, he does but like, like, but this is the thing.
Speaker 2: He'll post pitches with him and his friends, like nights out,
Speaker 2: like you know, even brunch and stuff like that, Like
Speaker 2: you'll go out with them and post photos at brunch
Speaker 2: and stuff. And I'm like, okay, well, like, and I've
Speaker 2: never really wanted to ask. I don't know how do
Speaker 2: you approach this? That's the thing. I don't know how
Speaker 2: to bring it up.
Speaker 4: It's definitely upsetting if the avocado on toast makes the
Speaker 4: grid and you don't like for me, I'm like, well
Speaker 4: you put the poach egg on there? Do you have
Speaker 4: you actually asked him why? Because for me, I think
Speaker 4: three is deep. If people are using social media, that's crazy.
Speaker 4: I tend to lean towards there trying to hide something
Speaker 4: and I hate saying that, but at the end of
Speaker 4: the day, that's what it is. Like you should be
Speaker 4: pretty important. So what has he said when you've asked him?
Speaker 2: Well, I've kind of hinted, So I've never really gone
Speaker 2: in and been like, hey, why don't you posting on
Speaker 2: social media? Because I don't want to seem like needy
Speaker 2: or anything as well, Like I kind of just go, oh,
Speaker 2: that's a nice picture of you. And your friends.
Speaker 1: It's not needy anymore.
Speaker 4: You don't need to hint or droppings. Also, do you
Speaker 4: post him on your social media? Because like do you
Speaker 4: post him in your stories and then you tag him
Speaker 4: and he just never shares your stories? Like what's happening there?
Speaker 2: Well, that is actually how I've tried to see if
Speaker 2: he'll reshare it, because when I've tagged him, because I
Speaker 2: posted about him all the time. See, that's the other
Speaker 2: thing I post all the time thinking Okay, he's going
Speaker 2: to reshare it. Never reshare that.
Speaker 4: That's so he wants to appear single, And I reckon, I've.
Speaker 1: Done I've done some thinking if you only ever posts
Speaker 1: him out with his boyfriends and he's posting brunch, I've
Speaker 1: got a lot of gay friends do that every single weekend.
Speaker 1: You watch RuPaul's drag race by Chats Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh we love it. We watch it all the time.
Speaker 1: Are you sitting down. I'm going to tell you something.
Speaker 1: I fear your boyfriend the other one. He might be
Speaker 1: a friend of Dudy's.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like, he's he's You just need to I
Speaker 3: think three years, let's be serious, three years.
Speaker 4: You are at a place where you should be able
Speaker 4: to sit down and say it makes me feel a
Speaker 4: bit insecure that you don't post me. Can are you happy?
Speaker 4: Bit me on the ground, and if he says no,
Speaker 4: there's definitely something more at play, because anyone should be
Speaker 4: able to be like, you know what, You're right. It
Speaker 4: has been three years and no one knows you exist, so.
Speaker 2: So you think I should just go straight in and
Speaker 2: just say, look, yeah, why don't you post me? Okay?
Speaker 4: The other alternative is to hack into his phone and
Speaker 4: upload something to his grid without him knowing. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I always wanted to do that, but I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: I can't even talk to him about it.
Speaker 1: I think that would be What you should do is
Speaker 1: get the grinder sound effect from YouTube, play it in
Speaker 1: the same room as in his eyes light up. I'm
Speaker 1: right if he is, it'll be it'll be stressful for
Speaker 1: a bit, but trust me, you'll have a new best
Speaker 1: friend back.
Speaker 2: Please help me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he'll You love having someone help with your outfits,
Speaker 1: all right. You can get in touch if you've got
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Speaker 4: Okay, Britt, what do you o't gat.
Speaker 3: I just I just always wonder.
Speaker 4: I always am about to tell you guys something stupid
Speaker 4: that have done, And then I have this moment where
Speaker 4: I'm like, why do I cantinuously talk about the stupid
Speaker 4: things I do? Because we get paid to do it. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I embarrassed on the hugely with a listener. Yeah it
Speaker 4: went down like a lead balloon.
Speaker 1: I pick up listener.
Speaker 4: It was an auto correct.
Speaker 2: It wasn't my fault.
Speaker 4: I am innocent, all right.
Speaker 1: That next the court room of the pick up.
Speaker 4: After this