WEBVTT - Would You Be Mad At Your Housemate For This? 🏠 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.600 The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast, brought to you by. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:12.080 Listen here, folks, listening, I am looking around my studio. 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.080 There's a makeup brush on the floor. 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:15.400 Yeah, I did document that. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:19.360 So makeup brush on my side table. There is a 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:23.239 plate with shit on it. There's a coconut sugar, there's 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.439 my two hundred dollars Colleen Strata water bottle. And there's 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.960 two other people in the studio, Josh and Brook. And 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.960 of course there's you, the rabbid bush pig, sitting across 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.760 from me. Really making me quite sick actually, just witnessing 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:36.960 you behaving like a bush pig yourself. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:38.720 Who's gonna believe that. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:45.080 Flex is currently sitting She's got shit on her feet. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:45.920 Her feet are. 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:50.120 Really dirty, and there's stuff in between the toes, and 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:54.000 the toenails are a raggedy because she's been beat biting them. 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:56.880 Do you ever know anyone in Premiers with that bit 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:57.480 their toenails? 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:58.040 I don't think so. 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:00.800 My neighbors did. Really, I've got a good story about 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:01.960 them coming up in a few weeks. 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:03.120 Do you know what I was seeing the other day? 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:07.280 My neighbor, He was like a little kid. Maybe I 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:08.560 don't know. When I was in high school. He was 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.720 in primary school, like a little feral year threer, That's 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:14.520 how I remember him. And he used to go there 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:16.880 after school to his grandma's house. His grandma was like 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.240 our grandma. We shared a grandma. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:18.840 It was amazing. 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:21.480 But one day he came over and he picked up 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:24.399 a snail and he took the sluggy bit out of 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:27.440 the shell and he ate it. And it was seriooked 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.320 because I just saw a video the other day of 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:32.680 how it's really bad to eat slugs and snails, and 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.880 I saw this guy eat a slug and now he's paralyzed. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:36.560 Yes, So I'm like, what happened to that kid? 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:37.600 You die when you eat? 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.880 Because honestly, that's my last memory of him. 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.200 So I couldn't go on I'm a celebrity, Get me 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:44.400 out of here Number one. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:46.840 Not quite at the celebrity status needed to go on 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.760 the show. That's right, number two actually, and I was 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:51.080 watching it last I was watching. 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:52.760 Ready Runs in my housemate last night and we're like, 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:56.200 she's super outdoors and like really fit, loves going for 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:58.320 runs every day. I could not come on that show. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:01:59.920 It's my worst night. May I thought I'd love it. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.960 Just couldn't eat eyeballs, but everything else. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:06.960 Testical shake, We'll put it out there. Everyone's always there, 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:07.600 are ops everywhere. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:10.560 Someone's always waiting to get your next job. 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.040 To get me out of here. Maybe in two years, 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:15.400 give me a few more gigs on my belt. Yeah, anyway, 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.600 I don't even know its. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:19.160 Far. 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:21.640 Send us some more am other assholes, all. 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:25.480 Right, yeah, just dilemmas always or just some you know what, 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.560 I would love to hear gossip. If you have any 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:31.720 gossip that is like low risk for us to know, 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.120 but high risk for you to share. 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:37.119 Bring that in flex and frooms. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.640 It is impulsive tattoo season. I did warn you last week. 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:43.600 I feel like people thought I was taking the piss, 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.280 maybe doing a little bit one thing about me. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.480 I don't joke. People might laugh when I speak. I 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:50.079 never joke. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:53.760 It's a bit scary that which bit you say things 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:58.200 and I'm cracking up, but I'm thinking, wait, h is 0:02:58.240 --> 0:02:59.200 this meant to be funny? 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:02.240 No, I'm I mean yeah, but also never a joke. 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:05.120 What's that saying? I might tell a joke, but I 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:05.639 never lie. 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.960 Oh do you know what I'm saying? So like we 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.800 can all laugh. But I meant it anyway. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.880 So last week I said that it's impulsive tattoo season, 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.320 and between last week and this week, I mean, in 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.680 the last fortnite, three new tattoos. 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.200 You might say, why so many all at once. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.960 It's strategic because in the summertime, I want to have 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:30.360 my arms out, you know, arms out, limbs out. I 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.040 want sunshine on my skin. If my tattoos are not 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:36.160 healed by then, I can't be in the pool. I 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.120 can't be at the beach. I can't be in the sunshine, 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:42.040 you know. And I want to be decorated for summer time. 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:43.560 I feel it's gonna be really good summer. I really 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.600 feel at my bones. So I uploaded some videos of 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:49.240 me getting my tattoo done, and I was met with 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:53.080 people trying to school me on tattoo etiquette joking. The 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.440 thing is, when I post up to get a tattoo, 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:57.960 I'm gonna be there, jed. First of all, I'm friends 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.520 with my tattoos, so that's a different dynamic. Number one, 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:03.400 get you one, okay? Number two If on me post 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.400 it up for three four hours, huh, what do you 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:07.160 think I'm doing? 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:07.760 Stuff? 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.920 I might watch something, listen to something type an email 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.480 or whatever, and my tattoos went out of his way. 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:15.160 It's like a little station for me so I can 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:15.680 do just that. 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:19.640 Why are people like, oh, you know, you're getting in 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:22.400 his way? He can't work. You think he can't say? 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.440 People are just randomly damning you literally, Oh. 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:29.359 People, And I'm going scrolling on profiles. Where are your tattoos? 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:31.760 Some of us have thirty five? Where are yours? 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:32.680 Are you talking about? 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:32.880 Oh? 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.520 That must make it really hard for him. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.000 Why do people talk? 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:41.760 Why do people talk? But why are people it's why 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.840 do people talk? Number one? Why people assume the worst? 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:45.479 Number two? 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:48.400 What makes you think that he didn't set this up 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:52.400 proactively and say, hey, I already know you're gonna want 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.559 to do something, so I've practically sepustation so it doesn't 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:56.760 bother me, right. 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:57.760 Number two? 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:02.880 People asking me what tattoos mean, it's not for you. 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.640 It's like asking someone how their holiday was. You know 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:08.840 how we feel about this? Zip it with responct, vibe 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.919 it out, you know, feel what you feel. Because the 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:16.039 thing is telling someone what a tattoo means encourages more questions. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:20.080 I don't have answers to or the answers become too complex? 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.440 Why you got merried on your shoulder? 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.360 Babes? Have you seen you people? I'm scared. 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:29.640 And it's spiritual protection on your back. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:34.640 Literally, she's right there waiting, waiting. Okay, why did you 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:36.120 get the cherub? Babe? 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:39.160 Have you seen how scary life is? Pain and suffering? 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:40.960 I want a bit of love. Why do you get 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:41.560 a dragon? 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:44.680 Is it not obvious. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:46.000 Anyway? 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:47.640 Are you gonna get the whole rig? Done? 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:48.520 Whole rig? 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:51.440 But I have to go and order. So here was 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:54.080 my strategy with the tattooes. Started with the thighs because 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.600 I needed to assess what my pain tolerance was in 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.719 my head. I'm five foot ten, can't handle pain. In 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.760 real reality, I might be five to seven, can handle 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.120 a lot of pain. Actually, So started with my thighs. 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:06.160 Just se get a vibe for. 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.240 Like what the star was, what the flavor is? 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:10.920 Get a few ones like you know, I didn't find 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.120 an artist, I didn't know where I wanted to go, 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:13.880 go to a different. 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:14.400 Country, get a tattoo. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:17.560 Whatever kind of filed it up, you know, And you 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:19.600 spend all this money get getting tattoos. You know where 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:21.760 short things no one can see them. Then I'm like, 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:23.960 let me move to the arms. No, I did stomach 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.680 next hot, No, actually no I did arms. I did arms, 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.240 and then I was like, okay, cool. But now I'm like, 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.600 I'm over identifying with the arms, and like it's a 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:33.360 bit weird to have like one little rogue tattoo on 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:35.039 an arm. It's like, do you even get tattooes or 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.720 do do you not? Then I said stomach because I 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:42.040 want to be rigged out right midriff out. Stomach was easy. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:45.480 I said, back to the arms. I'm pushing thirty. You know, 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:48.320 I can make some mistakes. So we're gonna do the arms. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.480 Get the arms all done, then we're gonna do back 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.960 to stomach, back neck. 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:57.680 When the neck tatty pulls through, Wow, this game over. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.080 That's gonna look immaculate. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.960 Literally, A don't think about the neck and the chest 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:05.560 with a little with a little open blazer a sexual. 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:08.400 I just actually disassociated as you were speaking because I 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:10.240 was imagining how nice it would feel to get someone 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:13.320 to touch my back. Yeah, even if with a tattooga. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.720 Even with if I like that, I'll touch you more. 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:18.800 Physical touch is good. 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:23.280 Please flex and frooms, Hello mon Cherry's and little tiny 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:26.280 freaks running through the forest. It's flexing frooms here and 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.440 I haven't am I the asshole sent through by a 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:29.520 woman called Tessa. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.480 That's a made up name. She follows Cassada flex I 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:33.080 can see. 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.360 Per Let's all go to Hobart. Everyone google that if 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.840 you don't know what we're talking about. She goes, Hey, frooms, 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.000 I'm wondering if you could please let me know where 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.200 I can send an am I the arsehole for flexing frooms? Right? 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:43.360 I said, right here? 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:43.760 Bubbs? 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:47.280 She goes, yeah, okay, so bit of context. I met 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.760 my housemate through a mutual friend always a mistake. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:54.480 Really yeah, whoa. 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:57.440 We became friends and moved into a small apartment. Recently 0:07:57.800 --> 0:07:59.600 he had some mates of a fi drinks at our place, 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.240 which I said that was all good. It ended up 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:05.000 being an absolute ragar and music and yelling until about 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.720 twelve am, and then him and a chick stumbling home, 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.960 cooking food in our kitchen and just generally being inconsiderate. 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.960 At about five am, I had to get up and 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.640 ask them to be quiet, which I hate doing. The 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:18.679 next day I had planned to study, but was struggling 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:22.480 because of the lack of sleep. My queen anyways, found 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:24.240 out later that he did know that I was pissed 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:27.480 off with what the quiet pres escalated to, but he 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:30.520 hasn't said sorry once and actually complained to the mutual 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.320 friend that I was upset about the noise, wanting to 0:08:33.320 --> 0:08:35.160 know if I'm the asshole for being upset with a 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.840 loud music and five am wake up. Keep in mind, 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.160 I'm a party girl myself, and I get that things 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.439 get out of hand, but a simple sorry. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:43.640 It would have gone a long way. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.600 Thanks for your time, which I have replied, Oh okay, 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:49.520 I reply, I said you had. 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:51.640 Me at cooking food in the kitchen. 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:54.160 This is amazing. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:56.320 I'll tell you when it's going to. 0:08:56.320 --> 0:08:57.040 Go on the podcast. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:58.199 Just walk up hill. 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:02.280 Thank you, queen, to which she replied a bit of 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:03.079 a back and forth. 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:06.559 Okay, I'm glad you enjoy If you want some more context. 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:11.760 The cooking food involved repeatedly trying to put chips in 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:17.240 my air fryer that they actually broke at the preeze. So, 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:18.959 I don't know if you're familiar with the noise and 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.040 air fry makes when you open and shut, but it's 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:22.840 like metal clanking together. 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:27.680 I'm familiar, all right, flexie initial thoughts I wow, wow 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.400 wow wow wow wow thoughts. 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.960 Don't she made it so it sounds like wild fots? 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:38.600 Yeah yeah, yeah, wow, Okay, say no more. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:41.440 And then I was an Okay, the word wasn't coming, 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.440 so we're gonna let it go. I love hearing about 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:52.240 interpersonal into habitattual the lemons because in my head, I 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:55.480 always I always think two things. Number One, it is 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:58.000 what it is. You're two strangers in the house. It's 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:00.480 what's gonna happen. But the other part of is like, 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.679 you're two strangers in a house. Where's the common courtesy? 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:07.320 You know, where's the mutual respect? Because that's the other 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:09.720 thing what's happening here. There is a lack of respect 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:14.760 that is so obvious because realistically, if you respected the 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.280 person who was sleeping up so you'd be like, oh, 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.240 you know what, let's move it to someone else's house. 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.600 It's getting rowdy, let's go out, like my housemates sleepy. 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:25.080 Not only did you make the noise, you've broken the oven. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:29.080 You haven't said sorry. This person fundamentally does not care, 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.360 which is like a hard pill to swallow sometimes when 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.400 it's really personal to you, but they don't care. 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:34.640 And they will do it again. 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:38.600 God, it's just it's so hard. I think the term 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:42.079 respect is so loaded. Like I've never said to someone 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.720 you don't respect me because of the White House. See, 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.480 it feels crazy when you think about it. It's hard 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.480 to listen. It's a hard pill to swallow to hear 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.319 someone say that you don't respect them. 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.640 Yeah, because because can we quickly read the definition of 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:57.120 respects everyone's on the same page. It's a feeling of 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.000 deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their ability, 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.280 is qualities or achievements, or a deep respect of something 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.079 due to the regard for the feelings. 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.000 Wishes, or rights of others. 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:10.800 Due to regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others, 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:11.680 Please continue for me. 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:15.679 That makes me actually not care for respect, because we're 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.240 all humans. That's all I've got to say about that. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:20.800 Listen the air fryer, the clinking and the clanking of 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:22.760 the air fraer. I'm just imagine they'm not being able 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:25.400 to put it in yet, going giggity jaggedly, like when 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:26.120 you're trying to put. 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:27.959 The drawer get back in when it's fallen out. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.000 Very frustrating, frustrating and it's because not your air fryer, babe. 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.559 So why are you clinking clanking my air fryer? Please 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:38.480 get the uber eats, knock it off. Come on now, 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:41.959 get your car. Okay, go to McDonald's. And the thing 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.480 that gets me the person messaging in is a fellow 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:48.280 party person, so she gets it. She's like, I understand. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:50.840 I too want to get near it, babe, I too 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.840 want to be at this preeze. I want to be enjoying. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:58.000 I don't want to inhibit the enjoyment. Even worse, because 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.520 party people don't get upset like that. Part of people 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.640 respect the party, So if it's clearly hitting the spot. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:06.319 It's tricky though, because I feel like if you had 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.720 to have a big chat every time someone has a 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:14.760 potentially minor, minor ish, maybe slightly major transgression in a 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:17.280 housemate dynamic, I feel like every day you're doing a 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:17.720 big chat. 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:21.240 Hey, you know you didn't change the toilet paper, you 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.400 left the Yeah, you look your battle all there. 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.760 Oh you know, like you got out of the shower 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:27.240 and the floor is all wet, Like. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:28.240 You're constantly having to do. 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:32.360 There's something about living people who are compatible with you, 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:33.839 But it's too late now you sadly. 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:36.079 Least, I think there is a middle ground. I think 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:37.640 it would have been okay if he stayed up till 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.599 twelve oh, or it would have been okay if he 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:42.640 came in at five, But doing both is unacceptable. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.520 Yeah, and we're here now. The fact of the matter 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:49.200 is it's done. The air fry is broken. There's been 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:52.040 no story. How does she continue? 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:55.800 Think you gotta cut the leasis, jump into the pool, 0:12:56.320 --> 0:13:00.000 jump into the rental crisis. It's better where you're at now. 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:01.800 My favorite thing to do when you want to have 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:03.839 a confrontation but you don't want to be the confrontational 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.720 one is just to ask people to explain themselves. Hey, 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:08.760 what was that with the other night? 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:10.000 Like what went on? 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:10.800 Oh? 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.719 Yeah, I'm so sorry about that, you know, like just 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:15.080 trying to put in the air fryer. 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:18.240 Oh is it all right? But like the FRI's fine. Ah, no, 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.839 it is broken, that's all good. Are you gonna get in? 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:23.480 You're getting a new one? Right, Yeah, yeah, absolutely, absolutely 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:24.480 get them. 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:28.520 Well, okay, we'll use that technique always learning always. 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:31.920 This is flex and frooms on KEDA. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:36.120 So Foxy, I am entering my shopping era. Are you 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:38.959 well I just I was doing this thing that day 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.360 which required me to wear a dress. Okay, and I 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:44.600 had to wear a dress to film something. I didn't 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.640 have a single dress that I liked all that fit me. Yeah, 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:51.079 that's disappointing, very upsetting, very I had a tantrum the 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.000 day before the day that I had to wear it. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:54.120 What does that look like for you? 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:56.960 Well, I had to work it to a meeting at 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:02.000 nine am, and I went to no. I went to 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.840 my housemates. My house May has this one dress from 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:07.000 Glassons from five years ago. The cut is unmatched. It's 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.240 the best dress you've ever seen. Looks amazing on everyone. 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:10.520 I was like, I need to wear this dress of 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:10.959 the meeting. 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.439 I'm fascinated by how frequently you borrow your housemates things. 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:16.480 Oh yeah, we're sisters. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:18.520 Yeah I should borrow your things. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.080 Rummaging through my closet, I was gonna wear this out 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.560 the other day. She comes out wearing my appro's dress 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:24.360 with the same print. 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.000 Well, I'm going to have to change. 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:26.800 I'm not going to. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:28.080 Say anything anyway. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:30.160 I'm looking for the dress, can't find it. Realized that 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.480 our other friend had borrowed it on the weekend. So 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:35.080 I start calling her frantically. I'm calling her twin brother. 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:37.560 I went to her house out the front and I 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:38.800 waited for some to come out and bring it to me, 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.640 not washed, just so I could wear it to this meeting. Well, 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.040 and that's when I thought. I came home and my 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.560 housemates said, look, you've got a problem. What is the problem. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.120 I need you to go out tomorrow to the city 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.080 in Sydney and buy some new clothes, buy some dresses. 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:54.800 She said, we can't have that happen again. And I thought, yeah, 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:55.480 it's fair enough. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.840 That's good. She called you in, my queen. 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:01.200 So I went and I went to a certain area 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:05.640 in Sydney. Call it out, No, I won't you sure? Yeah, okay, 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.640 you'll know if you know. Okay, it's a high end boutique. 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:12.080 You catered to a certain type of woman. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:14.160 Okay, we need more specifics. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:18.080 Size is six through ten, ten for the bigger girl. 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:22.640 Yeah yeah, yeah, bit queens Queen, I understood. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:24.600 And I walked in and I had not been in 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:27.120 there four or five years because I don't typically buy 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:29.400 new clothes, particularly ones that cost like three hundred dollars 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.600 for a top. So I went in and I went 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:33.840 in because there was this dress in the window that 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:38.720 was hot pink, Italian mesh, slinky dress with a little gathering. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:42.560 You know you once did that, that TikTok of you 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.840 gathering a skirt together to change the way it looks. 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:45.720 It looked like that. 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:49.000 But a dress form fan to hot pink. This was 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:50.840 me all over. I thought, I have to try that. 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:52.920 Do you went tried it on? I was like, I 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:54.160 feel sexy, Go. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:54.920 And look in the mirror. 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.520 What do I find? Umm, you don't like it as much. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:16:01.680 There's no mirror in the change room. 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.880 And when you say no mirror in the change room, 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:08.720 I have seen a few retail establishments not do the 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:11.200 mirror in the change room in favor of a communal 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.800 mirror outside entice. 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:14.240 Yeah, that's how they get you. 0:16:14.680 --> 0:16:16.920 So I'm in the change room trying on this dress. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.440 Turn around, there's no mirror. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:18.720 Son. 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.360 I reels have them to walk outside step at least 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.720 five steps to get in front of the communal mirror, 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:25.640 So I. 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:27.240 Have to literally walk. I'm looking in the road. 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.920 There's three other women staring at me. Yeah, staring at 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:32.240 every little bit of my body. I'm looking at the dress. 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.200 The dress? Was it the nicest dress. 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:34.640 I don't know, I. 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.240 Probably would have won it, but I know in that 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:37.760 moment I had to look at myself in the mirror. 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:39.960 Yeah, with an audience, it's sport. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:41.800 And in this shop, I got to tell you, the 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:45.600 smiles were few and far between, no supportive yas queen environment. 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:45.840 See. 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:49.000 The tricky thing is my mind goes to two places. 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:51.160 The first place where I'm giving them the benefit of 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.920 the doubt. I'm saying, Okay, it's really expected to fit 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:56.840 out a store putting a mirror in every change room. 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:58.000 Maybe there wasn't a budget for it. 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:02.280 If you're gonna I try a six D piece of 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:05.280 fabric that is mass produced. The least you can know 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:05.960 is put a mirrord. 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:10.400 Now my second thought is back in my clothing retail 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:14.359 days I worked at Chic there was we were told 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:16.040