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Speaker 1: It's well, what E Tuesday? Or Thanksully keeping foundations world's

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Speaker 1: greatest shave Laura Henshaw Steph Klesmith in the studio of

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Speaker 1: The Kick Girls keep it Cleaning Girls there has got

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Speaker 1: a brand new book. It's called You Take Care, available

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Speaker 1: all good books. So I've got to copy here in

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Speaker 1: fun of me Woods, Yes, you're you're most excited about

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Speaker 1: the fact that you found out that Steph is into

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Speaker 1: the same porn as you.

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Speaker 2: Wow, shall we?

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Speaker 3: It is absolutely not the way I was going to

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Speaker 3: bring that. I was going to be more subtle about it.

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Speaker 3: I was going to say, you know your book obviously

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Speaker 3: all good bookstores now you take Care. But Steph, you

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Speaker 3: made it very clean.

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Speaker 1: You made it very clean in there about self care.

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Speaker 3: Actually sure, but I'm not talking about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you the audio before I've got the audio.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll play the audio.

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Speaker 2: I was reading this novel I realized that this is

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Speaker 2: my kind of pawn. It is basically what happened was

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Speaker 2: I was reading this book bed with Josh and He's

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Speaker 2: like trying to give me they and I was looking

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Speaker 2: at him like no, no, no, this book is way

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Speaker 2: too good. And then I kept reading the page and

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Speaker 2: I was so excited about it that I put the

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Speaker 2: book down indeed, and he's like, wow, what book are

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Speaker 2: you reading?

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Speaker 4: Can be clear, I wasn't reading our book. It's good

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Speaker 4: for say, and that.

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Speaker 3: Your book has just sold out in Australia, that's extraordinary. No, no,

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Speaker 3: you were reading Colleen Hoover, and I have recently discovered

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Speaker 3: your book. I am reading Colleen Hoover. I love romance novels.

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Speaker 3: Have you have you read Verity?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I haven't yet because apparently it's like because

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Speaker 2: there's a lot of things with children or something triggering.

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Speaker 3: Ready to read that, but also very hot and happening

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Speaker 3: as well. Okay, so yeah, yeah, I haven't read Ugly

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Speaker 3: Last Yeah. Right, okay, I'm going to write that down.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about your book, Jesus Christ. He was so excited,

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Speaker 1: like when you heard it was like she likes the

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Speaker 1: same pot and I was like, that's not what happened.

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Speaker 3: But I would then go on walks with my partner

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Speaker 3: to the cafe and in the morning I'd be like

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Speaker 3: telling her what happened in the book, and it was

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Speaker 3: like it's exciting. Yeah, it is is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I to hear about the stories that you find

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Speaker 2: in here.

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Speaker 4: Of course, Yes, yes, let's talk about your book.

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Speaker 1: It is called You Take Care, and you guys really

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Speaker 1: do a terrific job of being super vulnerable, not with

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Speaker 1: just with each other, but also with all the audiences

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Speaker 1: that listen to. When I say all the audiences, there

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Speaker 1: are a load of people that are really into what

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Speaker 1: you guys do. It's an empire that you built now

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Speaker 1: and just looking at this book and it really is

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Speaker 1: sort of trapesing all the different parts of your life.

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Speaker 1: It follows through not just the physical stuff, but it's

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Speaker 1: now mind stuff as well. And now it's also the

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Speaker 1: connection partner. I know you're all through newspapers and stuff

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Speaker 1: on the weekend for the fact that you are so

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Speaker 1: successful because of this connection that you have as a friendship. Laura,

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Speaker 1: what part of your success do you attribute to the

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Speaker 1: fact that you guys get along so well as as

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Speaker 1: well as all this other stuff that you're talking about.

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Speaker 4: Oh, good question. I feel like almost the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: We always said that, I don't think we like, there's

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Speaker 4: no way that I would be doing what I'm doing

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Speaker 4: now without Steph. Maybe maybe you feel the same about me.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's true with the book and The book's all

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Speaker 4: about kind of getting through your twenties, because I feel

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Speaker 4: like when we finish high school, we get through our teens.

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Speaker 4: Our twenties is so hard and there's no we did.

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Speaker 4: We definitely didn't write a real book. There's no rule

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Speaker 4: book of how to get through it. But having good

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Speaker 4: relationships is what gets you through. And so for me,

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Speaker 4: having Steph always there is my life. I feel like

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Speaker 4: I can fall and there's a trampoline underneath me that's

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Speaker 4: called Steph. I just jump on me, you know, every

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Speaker 4: time I take a full puts me straight back out.

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Speaker 3: Can I just can I sort of just analyze what

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Speaker 3: the answer you just gave. I find it really interesting

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Speaker 3: that three or four times you said that you would

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't be anything without Steph. And I know that

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Speaker 3: you talk a lot about self confidence and struggling with

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Speaker 3: self confidence. Can I ask you about your journey with that,

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Speaker 3: because I know you're going to talk about this in

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Speaker 3: your new book, which I think a lot of people

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Speaker 3: can relate to. I can relate to lacking confidence as well.

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Speaker 3: And it's funny I would say the same things about Will.

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Speaker 3: It would just be like, there's no way to work

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Speaker 3: without and I'd love to jump on you will you

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Speaker 3: might trampoline. But but what but what have you done

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Speaker 3: to help your confidence in your self confidence?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: You wrote, Oh thank you, that's very nice. I think

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Speaker 4: confidence is really hard because you don't realize you don't

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Speaker 4: have it, or you need to work on it until

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Speaker 4: it's completely gone. And then when it's gone. For me,

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Speaker 4: putting myself back out there is how I am able

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Speaker 4: to build it back up. Yeah. I feel like in

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Speaker 4: life we so often let one thing that happens, you

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Speaker 4: know one maybe a bad run or a bad interview

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Speaker 4: or something a presentation at work. We let that define

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Speaker 4: the next one and the next one, and it's very

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Speaker 4: hard to take that leap into going and doing, you know,

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Speaker 4: the next thing when you might have failed or it

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Speaker 4: went wrong in the past experience. And so for me,

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Speaker 4: it was putting myself back out there, which is really

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Speaker 4: really hard, and working through not letting you know, whatever

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Speaker 4: happened in the past to fine our future, because that

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Speaker 4: would be such a sad life if you have something

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Speaker 4: that happened when we're eighteen meant that we never lived

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Speaker 4: our life. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you really subscribed that narrative, don't you. Yeah, there

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Speaker 1: are so many questions we've got for you, guys who've

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Speaker 1: also got a surprise for you.

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Speaker 4: The fruit are we getting in white shirts?

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Speaker 1: Not the fruit.

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Speaker 3: You're actually scarily close to the surprise.

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Speaker 1: Called you Take care, Laura Henshaw, Steph Claire Smith. We've

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Speaker 1: got more with them right up next on Will and What,

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Speaker 1: you don't go anywhere, and yes, our surprise does include

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Speaker 1: a photo of some description.

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Speaker 3: Next