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Speaker 1: and Frooms and FLEXI I have a story for you.
Speaker 2: Tell me.
Speaker 1: It is from a source that I know. Oh the
Speaker 1: identity I will not reveal from the archives, but just
Speaker 1: know this is someone who is real and in life.
Speaker 1: She says. I've been hanging out with the guy for
Speaker 1: the past two months. We've done little dinner dates and
Speaker 1: hung out at both of our places for what I
Speaker 1: thought was a super casual relationship. He works in finance
Speaker 1: in brackets. It's giving a rich king. See you think that.
Speaker 1: But one recession, yea one.
Speaker 2: Count change. We're split into the scent.
Speaker 1: And he would occasionally buy me little presents, which I loved.
Speaker 1: I always spoke about how I love my independence and
Speaker 1: don't want anything serious. Last week he messaged me really
Speaker 1: upset as I matched with his best friend on a
Speaker 1: dating app boy and he thought we were being ex No.
Speaker 1: Not only that, but he had told his family about
Speaker 1: me and they were planning on meeting me when they
Speaker 1: visited from interstate. What this person's a sicko, He messaged me, saying,
Speaker 1: the one riding in all of them Yeah. He messaged
Speaker 1: me saying that he can't see me anymore because it's
Speaker 1: just too painful. But two days later he's changed his mind.
Speaker 1: Of course, I said, yes, this was seeing him because
Speaker 1: the sex is great. But I can't help but think
Speaker 1: I should end things. Is it bad if I just
Speaker 1: stay with him for the sex and the free gifts?
Speaker 2: They need to twenty four need to get on this,
Speaker 2: you know, at least Hulu, at least HBO. Because that
Speaker 2: went up and down, up and down, up and down.
Speaker 1: I was feeling it a little points.
Speaker 2: Chicks man, chicks are crazy. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't get them initial thoughts.
Speaker 2: When I was younger, I really navigated dating in the
Speaker 2: way that I was like, if you have an issue
Speaker 2: with it, it's your problem. Wow, So you have to
Speaker 2: self regulate. If you want something more serious and I don't,
Speaker 2: and you choose to maintain a casual relationship with me,
Speaker 2: you know you want something more serious, it's your problem. Like,
Speaker 2: believe it. If you hurt your own feelings, you hurt
Speaker 2: your own feelings. Now I've grown up in mature it
Speaker 2: I have. I do think there's some mutual responsibility to
Speaker 2: not unnecessarily traumatize people. And in this case, I'd say,
Speaker 2: get your last couple, your couple bits in for sure,
Speaker 2: your last couple, you know the in, and then be like,
Speaker 2: you know what, Actually, based on the last couple of
Speaker 2: I can acknowledge that you want something more than I
Speaker 2: can offer. And I don't think it's really really fair.
Speaker 2: I think that you think that this could be chill.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna nip it in the bud bud. But
Speaker 2: who knows and end it?
Speaker 1: For me, I feel like if I'm seeing someone and
Speaker 1: I know that they like me more than I like them,
Speaker 1: that's a great flag.
Speaker 2: No, no, it's.
Speaker 1: A red flag. No. I just feel like I feel
Speaker 1: like I have to end it. I don't like the
Speaker 1: idea of stringing people long because I feel like my
Speaker 1: attraction wanes if I think that it's too one sided.
Speaker 2: So when you say you know someone likes you more
Speaker 2: than you like them, you're assuming it's by a landslide.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh okay, like my interest is waning, but I
Speaker 1: could continue for the intimacy. Right However, I'm just thinking
Speaker 1: this is really not I mean, it's not worth hurting
Speaker 1: someone's feelings.
Speaker 2: That's tricky because I've had some situations where I've assumed
Speaker 2: someone's way more intimate than I am into them, but
Speaker 2: they are just maybe a bit more like adept at
Speaker 2: showing like affectionate intimacy. So I was like, I'm good.
Speaker 2: You must be so keen because like you text regularly
Speaker 2: and you plan dates regularly, and they're like, I just
Speaker 2: treat you like a normal person, like relaxle, And I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: sorry that was me. I was bringing my backage and
Speaker 2: I apologize. Is that at the door next time? Sorry? Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's tricky. Do you want?
Speaker 1: That's it? Do what you want?
Speaker 2: And yeah, time to go to it feels good and
Speaker 2: update us because we do love a little bit of
Speaker 2: chaos with our love, don't we.
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