WEBVTT - #60 Daddy Needs His "Special Time"

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the wind? Is it the wind? The wind

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<v Speaker 1>going my name?

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<v Speaker 2>I have a grape with you real quick, nothing too major,

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<v Speaker 2>go on. I called you yesterday willing for a rant. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't call me back to finish the rant. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you know what it's like singing the tune of a

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<v Speaker 2>song and then someone going stop and you're not being

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<v Speaker 2>able to finish it.

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<v Speaker 3>You called credit to me. I answered, panting, I was

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<v Speaker 3>on the treadmill. You didn't even you didn't even question

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<v Speaker 3>why I was panting. You were just like, what's the

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<v Speaker 3>deal with what's the deal with married couples who were celebrities?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was just like, can I call you back?

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<v Speaker 3>And You're like, you never did give me half an

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<v Speaker 3>hour of peace. Welcome back to two noting dads.

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<v Speaker 1>I am Maddie Jay and I'm disappointed.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a podcast all about parenting.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the good, the bad, and the disappointing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>actually disappointed day and the relatable.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me what the grape was?

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<v Speaker 2>A slow news day must have been for the wider

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<v Speaker 2>community in the news area. Not that I fall within

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<v Speaker 2>that category, but apparently Nicole Kidman don't get me started, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Who are Just for the record, for the record, I

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<v Speaker 3>dislike we know that if we ever are in the

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<v Speaker 3>same room together, Nicole and myself, it'll be so awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to side with her to hear out my gripe.

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<v Speaker 2>This was my gripe I had. Yesterday the News reported

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<v Speaker 2>that they have some marriage advice for people after seventeen

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<v Speaker 2>years of being married. Great, that's not my fucking problem.

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<v Speaker 2>My problem here is who are they to give advice?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, what's the advice?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't hear the advice because I just got annoyed

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<v Speaker 2>with it. I got annoyed with it because it's like

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<v Speaker 2>ask someone who They probably haven't been in the same

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<v Speaker 2>room for as long as you and Laura have been

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<v Speaker 2>in the same room, or myself and April have been

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<v Speaker 2>in the same room, because he's off touring seeing any

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<v Speaker 2>country pop shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I don't mind it music.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she's off filming garbage movies. So how you've

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<v Speaker 2>googled it, haven't you? What's the advice?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what says here? Because it could be good advice.

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<v Speaker 3>If this is good advice, then we'll both have to

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<v Speaker 3>just shut up and never shit on. Nicole Keaban and

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<v Speaker 3>Keith urban.

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<v Speaker 1>Over again, no promises hit him.

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<v Speaker 3>I do think before I read the advice. I do

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<v Speaker 3>think that Look, if you're in a marriage that can

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<v Speaker 3>survive Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 2>You're never in the same room together, which is like,

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<v Speaker 2>when are you spending any time together? I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>they need to get advice from fucking Shazar and Dazzer

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<v Speaker 2>have been together for twenty years, stuck in their fucking

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<v Speaker 2>fibro house with their.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifteen kids, and they're still together.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let me find out this advice. It is Keith

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<v Speaker 3>Urban knows the secret to loving somebody like Nicole Kidman

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<v Speaker 3>seventy marriage. He's at a red carpet. There was a

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<v Speaker 3>CMT Country Music Awards on the red carpet. He got

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<v Speaker 3>asked the question what's the secret, and he goes okay.

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<v Speaker 3>In his defense, he says, if I answer that, it'll

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<v Speaker 3>come across as advice for other married people.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's not giving advice. So I've been fitter news article.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he says, I have no advice for anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, stomp on my grass. We're good. I've been lied

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<v Speaker 1>to by a traditional media. How surprising clickbait me.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, Keith and Nicole, I am sorry too. I would

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<v Speaker 3>like to apologize for absolutely nothing. He did say something

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<v Speaker 3>else he said following that, he goes, you guys, I

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<v Speaker 3>guess he's referring to, like the general public, figure out

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<v Speaker 3>whatever works for you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, I'm glad we got to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Enough about Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman. Should

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<v Speaker 1>something more important please? That is the beverage which is

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<v Speaker 1>situated right in front of him.

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<v Speaker 3>This is far more superior it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a stonewod Pacific a cheer. My friend is.

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<v Speaker 2>M Barron Bay in a bottle, they say, some say,

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<v Speaker 2>some don't say that I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Some others won't.

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<v Speaker 3>I was out on the weekend, Ash. We had a

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<v Speaker 3>little barbecue, just a lobster barra mundy, oh skin on always.

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<v Speaker 3>I love a bit of christ you know that Lemon.

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<v Speaker 3>When people think about me, I want them to know

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<v Speaker 3>that I like my barrel moundy with crispy skin and

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<v Speaker 3>also with a side of stone and wood seafood. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just it's a match made in heaven.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. I'm not Bruty Aromas.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure if that was the intention making it

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<v Speaker 3>for me. When I'm having my barrel Monday with the

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<v Speaker 3>crispy skin.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I think it might be gone with fish.

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<v Speaker 2>What is great with fish is citrus, citrusy after taste,

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of passion fruit in there, lovely aromas. On

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<v Speaker 2>top of that, I'm guessing beautifully cooked piece of fish,

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<v Speaker 2>well said, reminds me of the Pacific Ocean, which is

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<v Speaker 2>what this bottle is named after, being the Pacific Ale.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not just a pretty face, my friend Byron main bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say cheers, some say hmm, she's my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank you Stonewood for making this episode happen as

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<v Speaker 2>you have been doing with the last few episodes and

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<v Speaker 2>more episodes in the future.

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<v Speaker 3>We wouldn't have it any other way. Can I give

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<v Speaker 3>you some devastating news?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I had the week with Laura Away.

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<v Speaker 3>I do recall she was in Bali, Bali and I

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<v Speaker 3>got a lot of comments regarding a video that I

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<v Speaker 3>put on my social media with Lola. It was just something.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just what have I missed? It was just

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<v Speaker 1>something mine and my friends story or real.

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<v Speaker 3>Just a story, just a casual little story. And I

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<v Speaker 3>know you don't really react to my stories anymore, which

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<v Speaker 3>is a shame. I'm always looking. I just wait, always

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<v Speaker 3>in person, always waiting, can you see Lola tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>What have I missed? It's the fact that Lola's giving

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<v Speaker 1>me a hug.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I thought she was trying to check you out.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was. She's so weak. I'm mistaken that my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>That's such a loving cuddle.

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<v Speaker 3>So many people said, go to see you two, to

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<v Speaker 3>talk again, and I forgot. I guess over the period

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<v Speaker 3>of a week slowly, was that like the last day?

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<v Speaker 3>That was the last day? That was? That was day

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<v Speaker 3>number seven? And it comes down to the fact that

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<v Speaker 3>she's only like this when there is no other option.

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<v Speaker 1>You were the last resort for survival, saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I even think she turned to Buster for a while

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<v Speaker 3>and was like, can you make me dinner? Can you

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<v Speaker 3>help me out here?

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<v Speaker 1>And no, no, you're missing a legs.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like, I'm a dog with three legs.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't help you.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she was like fine, Oh, I guess, sprit.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, and then dude straight back in the blink of

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<v Speaker 1>an eye, I do feel sorry for you. Eye. How

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<v Speaker 1>how was the trip for young Laura? Who cares? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who cares? She looks like you want to get something off.

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<v Speaker 3>Your chest there, man, No, it was just I was

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<v Speaker 3>just disappointing. I was trying to tell myself that this

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<v Speaker 3>would happen. I wanted to manage my own internal expectations.

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<v Speaker 3>On the fact that I knew Lola I would quickly

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<v Speaker 3>return back to Laura as soon as she stepped foot

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<v Speaker 3>back into this house. It wasn't that quick, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was I would say. It was the morning and she

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<v Speaker 3>came in and I had Lola on my lap, and

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<v Speaker 3>she turned around, clocked to Laura, looked at me. She

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<v Speaker 3>didn't actually do this, but she may as well. She

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<v Speaker 3>spat in my face, slapped me the bowl of porridge

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<v Speaker 3>I was feeding her, flung onto the floor and she said,

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<v Speaker 3>don't you fucking touch me?

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<v Speaker 1>Times up brutal ran round to Laura.

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<v Speaker 3>Well there you go, and like, okay, in the mornings,

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<v Speaker 3>we like to go and get baby Chino's.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great. Yeah, that's what we do, that thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's our routine. And it was it was good daddy

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<v Speaker 3>daughter time. And then I said, this is when Laura's

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<v Speaker 3>already back home. I said, hey, does anyone to go

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<v Speaker 3>get a baby? You know, daddy's gone for a walk.

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<v Speaker 3>Who wants to come? Any takers? Nah? No?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, nah, yeah, because I don't want to come.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you broke it out of here? Sure? We broke

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<v Speaker 1>up yesterday. Man, it sucks, so that's it. So did

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<v Speaker 1>Marley go.

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<v Speaker 3>Nah, she didn't want to come with me either, So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm back to being the weakest link in.

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<v Speaker 2>This family exile island. Yeah it sucks, man, it sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>But it does suck because I had.

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<v Speaker 3>To then go away. I was working on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, I was in the Blue Mountains, working hard

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<v Speaker 3>to try and support this family, put food on the

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<v Speaker 3>table and make sure the rent is paid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, slash mortgage. Can you pay my rant? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 3>You know. There is one thing that I love in

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<v Speaker 3>this world more than anything.

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<v Speaker 1>My children. Didn't think you were going that way with that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there's one thing I love even more. Oh yeah, stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's having a weekend away from them.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it's so good, so good. Just gives you

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<v Speaker 4>a chance to miss them all. It was just one night,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was It was pretty good. Great bed, beautiful,

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<v Speaker 4>and after having the kids come in and wake me

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<v Speaker 4>up all fucking throughout the night over the course of

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<v Speaker 4>a week, it was just lovely to get eight hours

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<v Speaker 4>of just uninterrupted sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Recharge fill your cup.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, and that does not just you for other parents,

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<v Speaker 2>for mom's dads to go off and fill your cup.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very important.

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<v Speaker 3>But then it was it was a shame that I

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<v Speaker 3>had to go because Laura has been away for a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you know she comes back, and then the moment

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<v Speaker 3>that she's back, I've got to go to the Blue Mountains.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm up there for a night, and you know, there's

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<v Speaker 3>one thing that is missing, has been missing for the

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<v Speaker 3>last you know, now eight nights.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe I know where you are going.

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<v Speaker 3>With this pleasure, deep erotic pleasure. It is deep and

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<v Speaker 3>we've been talking it up. We don't really like sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a teenager?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, well, what did I say? I

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<v Speaker 3>think I was trying to be I was trying to

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<v Speaker 3>set the mood. I was like, I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 3>suck out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be the best thirty seconds of you laugh. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was like, I kind of what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you You don't write?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't say that I'm an adult, bro, I just

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<v Speaker 2>send the pictures of my dick.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I definitely don't do any of that. Yeah, you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you plant this seed with April?

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<v Speaker 1>No vine text? That's what Joe?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you do? How do you make it known

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<v Speaker 3>that today maybe the day.

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<v Speaker 2>It could come different in different ways. I would say, like, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>For example, for example, this weekend, h what do you got?

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<v Speaker 2>We were finishing bath and stuff from putting kids to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's part of the routine. And I had already gone

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<v Speaker 1>out and picked up dinner and I brang it back.

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<v Speaker 1>You have we got?

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<v Speaker 2>So we just got some pizzas, something really nice and cool.

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<v Speaker 2>We just both felt like pizza summer, which is rare.

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<v Speaker 2>We both felt like the same thing. It's not the

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<v Speaker 2>only thing we both felt like.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like April actually eight before we did bath,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, man, I just want to enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>it without the kids going give me some and then

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<v Speaker 2>having a bite or something and then it's throwing in

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>But we all know how you get after having a

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<v Speaker 3>meal sleepy. Yeah, they really lestargic.

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<v Speaker 2>And I had also picked up there's like a little

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<v Speaker 2>confectiony shop next to this pizza shop that has all

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<v Speaker 2>the American chocolates and candy and whatever they call it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like oh, I grab something different for

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<v Speaker 2>after It's Sunday night, so I went and got that. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>I just had a thought that it was nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>do with that. Nothing, it was something.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like I was going to say body chocolate, but.

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<v Speaker 3>That's where I thought this is going.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 2>She got something that's like like that. We would never

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<v Speaker 2>usually have butt plug. Sorry, how did you know a

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<v Speaker 2>chocolate butt plug? And I was child and we were

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<v Speaker 2>finishing the BATHROOMT ten and I said to April, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to go have dinner and then I said I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I also got like a special treat for us after

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<v Speaker 1>you And she was like, oh, cock fuck? What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Ash?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, yeah, it's a cockmeat sandwich.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I got something special for after dinner for us, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if we're watching a movie or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop pulling sexually sexual.

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<v Speaker 3>Imo Like, no, this is great. I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in the room with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I would hope not, which I love. Continue they're killing

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<v Speaker 1>me here, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, she was like, oh, I thought I thought we

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<v Speaker 2>could have another type of a special treat.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, April's going to kill me for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, yeah, yeah, then what happened. She's gonna kill

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<v Speaker 1>me for this, PI.

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<v Speaker 3>Cares, and I was like, sorry, rephrase that, April. We

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<v Speaker 3>do care about the way that you feel about certain

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<v Speaker 3>stories being told. But this is very important because I

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<v Speaker 3>need to learn, because I don't know what I'm doing

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<v Speaker 3>in this department.

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<v Speaker 1>Through I continued.

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<v Speaker 2>I went downstairs, I got my dinner ready, sat in

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<v Speaker 2>front of the TV, took one look at it and thought,

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<v Speaker 2>if I eat all this, I'm going to be useless

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<v Speaker 2>to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So I packed the dinner back up, put it away.

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<v Speaker 2>I walked back upstairs and I poked my head in

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<v Speaker 2>the room and it was finishing putting kids sleep, and

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm gonna eat later, and I ate later.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's put it that way. Wow, And that's how you

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<v Speaker 2>do it. That's exactly how you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sacrifices, Matt, My pizzare very cold.

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<v Speaker 3>Sacrifice is an interesting word, because that was something I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't willing to make. Laura was in Wollongong, I was

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<v Speaker 3>in the Blue Mountains. We got back at a similar time,

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<v Speaker 3>but the kids to bed. We had dinner. Okay, we ate. Laura,

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<v Speaker 3>as she often does, gets a bit of work done

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<v Speaker 3>after the kids are in bed, and she's been very busy,

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<v Speaker 3>which is all the time standard. But she was working.

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<v Speaker 3>I was starting to get a little bit tired. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>not forget that, just so people know full context. I

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<v Speaker 3>had to get up very early on that Sunday, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was up very very early.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was about five point thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I said to Laura it was four point thirty, because

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<v Speaker 3>all good stories need a little bit of embellishment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But it then got to nine o'clock, it got to

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<v Speaker 3>nine thirty, it got to ten o'clock. Laura's at the

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<v Speaker 3>kitchen table working. I'm still watching TV on the couch.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just scrolling through.

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<v Speaker 1>A new time. Well, you were biding new you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, all of a sudden, I wasn't just

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<v Speaker 3>sitting on the couch. I was getting horizontal. I was,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I was falling deeper and deeper into the couch.

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<v Speaker 3>I was getting very tired. I was a tired boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's fine, Ash.

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<v Speaker 3>And so then Laura finally finishes work. It's ten thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go to sleep for hours. Let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well you go to bed at six thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've had sex, eaten and then gone to bed.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I'm far behind, miles behind young I think

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<v Speaker 3>I even text you the series of events, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was and that's what got me frustrated. Oh sorry, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like no, no, I I was like, I'm jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at this guy and say by ten thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also just want to say that Laura told

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<v Speaker 3>the story on her podcast, so I'm just telling my

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<v Speaker 3>version of events, okay, just to defend myself, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 3>As we got into bed, I was kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>I was a little bit short because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to I'm going.

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<v Speaker 1>To and you're six one and a half and that

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<v Speaker 1>must be tough.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. And so then coming into bed and then

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<v Speaker 3>Laura goes give me a cuddle, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Cut oh the balls on this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I know what. I knew that I had to

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<v Speaker 3>be strong. You know how people are making a protest

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<v Speaker 3>and they don't eat for like a number.

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<v Speaker 1>Of days for a serious matter.

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<v Speaker 3>Like Gandhi, Like didn't it for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was a little bit more serious.

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<v Speaker 3>That's but I was tapping into that level of determination.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, wait for Gandhi, I won't break. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I did as Gandhi did, didn't break.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, I'm not going to cuddle Laura

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<v Speaker 3>because I know what she's trying to do here. Cuddling

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<v Speaker 3>is the gateway to sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we all know that, So hang on.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't want to suck it up like a big

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<v Speaker 2>boy and have a cuddle to get the ultimate reward.

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<v Speaker 3>I was tired.

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<v Speaker 1>I was tired, man, I gave up food. Think about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I hear.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that exists. It's a physical thing. Yours is

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<v Speaker 1>stubbornness doesn't physically exist.

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<v Speaker 3>So I opted out. I said, you opted out. I

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<v Speaker 3>said you can cuddle me if you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I said you can. You're more than welcome to.

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<v Speaker 3>Cuddle and and she was like, well, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 3>to cuddle you. And so then she was like it's

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<v Speaker 3>good to be back, and I was like, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>great that you're back. So you and she was like,

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<v Speaker 3>don't worry about it. I said, I'm not you sick.

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<v Speaker 3>And then she went to one side of the bed.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to the other. And then I know, I

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<v Speaker 3>know that Laura cannot sleep until the argument is resolved

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<v Speaker 3>with an apology. Doesn't have to be from like both,

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<v Speaker 3>but just like one person has to apologize. And again

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<v Speaker 3>I said, what would Gandhi do in this situation? So

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<v Speaker 3>I dug my heels in and I was not even

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<v Speaker 3>slightly tied at that point. There was no there was

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<v Speaker 3>no way I was going to sleep. But we lay

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<v Speaker 3>there maybe five ten minutes, and then she broke and

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<v Speaker 3>she said, do you want to talk about this?

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<v Speaker 1>And you said, I said, no, bro, I'm good a

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<v Speaker 1>And that's it. That's how it ended.

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<v Speaker 3>I can Okay. So I just want to say, in

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<v Speaker 3>my defense, I felt like work was prioritized over the

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<v Speaker 3>cuddling time. Okay, that's a fair point, and I understand

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<v Speaker 3>that work is important. In my mind, it was after

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<v Speaker 3>not being together for that long, I felt like I

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<v Speaker 3>should have I should have trumped the work, which I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I think your points valid, but also.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't, yeah, because I like, again, we started this

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<v Speaker 2>off very childishly with the sex thing comin. Guys, you're adults,

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<v Speaker 2>you're fully grown.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the first problem.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the first problem.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you've sulked about it and instead of just

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<v Speaker 2>doing the maturer thing about it, which is saying, hey, Laura,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like right now, you are prioritizing work over

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<v Speaker 2>relationship time together with each other, reconnecting, have that mature conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>and so do you mind if you finish work, we

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<v Speaker 2>can maybe have a chat, maybe have a drink, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>have a maybe have a cuddle, maybe have a laid down,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe have a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Good night. Sorry, usually I'm the childish one. Usually I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the hurt I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Being I'm taking the high road here with this one,

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<v Speaker 2>because I think you could have resolved that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they like they say, don't go to bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Angry, go to bed furious if you're going to do anything,

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<v Speaker 2>make it real bad. But no, you have the opportunity

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<v Speaker 2>to sack up.

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<v Speaker 1>But also your point is very valid.

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<v Speaker 2>You felt like she was prioritizing work over you, So

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<v Speaker 2>that's a fair feeling, yes, but also might have been

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<v Speaker 2>a good opportunity to say that, resolve it. Think how

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<v Speaker 2>the good sex would have been after that.

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<v Speaker 1>I did you know what? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>There was a thought after we resolved the argument, and

0:21:03.560 --> 0:21:06.520
<v Speaker 3>we kind of we both kind of said what you

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<v Speaker 3>were saying. Essentially, communication is always the most important part.

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<v Speaker 3>Very well explained.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I appreciate that I'm here and you're also

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<v Speaker 1>bang on.

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<v Speaker 3>When I did think, I was like, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>would be really great right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a bit of makeup sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you've got to have the you've got to

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<v Speaker 2>hush hush it out and actually come to a conclusion

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<v Speaker 2>to have the makeup.

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<v Speaker 1>But you got to skip everything the Gandhi and me

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<v Speaker 1>was still being like, you know, I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to break. But we're back. We're back,

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<v Speaker 1>We're good. The next night I was worried. The next

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<v Speaker 1>night we sorted it out, sort of. If you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, I do know what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 3>We cleaned the garden. What if no one has said

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<v Speaker 3>clean cleaned the garden?

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<v Speaker 1>We did some nice so you trimmed the pubes? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, you glad you're back.

0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:08.760
<v Speaker 3>Let me just say the garden didn't have any weeds

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<v Speaker 3>in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I would fucking hope not.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're picking up I think, Laura, if you're listening,

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<v Speaker 2>you have too many plants in this house. It's starting

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<v Speaker 2>to use plants and gardening as sexual analogies, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not liking it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm uncomfortable. The hedges were fertilized trimmed, fertilized.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're telling me, Actually, I know what you're telling me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I won't say it. I want to show you

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<v Speaker 2>something really quick actually because it did happen a couple

0:22:38.200 --> 0:22:39.639
<v Speaker 2>of episodes ago, and we did get a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people reach out about gender disappointment.

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<v Speaker 1>That video that you did did a breen job of

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<v Speaker 1>doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned in there though about if you were to

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<v Speaker 2>have another kid you would have a gender reveal and

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<v Speaker 2>how you would do it in a commodore. We have

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<v Speaker 2>to get a commodore. Should we get like a real

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<v Speaker 2>sick old commodore, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like a like a late nineties commodore, like a

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<v Speaker 3>ve or something. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I just want

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<v Speaker 3>like billowing smoke pink or someone's one up ja Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>big time?

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<v Speaker 1>What have they done? Also great to have inspiration if

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<v Speaker 1>we do.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a third kid.

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<v Speaker 2>You do probably have the budget for this. Three fighter

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<v Speaker 2>jets flying over for a gender reveal.

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<v Speaker 1>I got fucking goosebumps.

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<v Speaker 3>That is the sickest thing I've ever seen in my

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<v Speaker 3>entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a budget for that, We'll find it. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>find the budget, my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Three fucking fighter jets, three fighter jets, and it was

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<v Speaker 3>a boy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a boy.

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<v Speaker 3>That is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of productions.

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<v Speaker 3>Even just looking at.

0:23:50.240 --> 0:23:52.320
<v Speaker 1>The balloon wall that wish.

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:54.840
<v Speaker 3>They had, like, that's that's got to be like one

0:23:54.880 --> 0:23:55.440
<v Speaker 3>hundred cago.

0:23:55.600 --> 0:23:58.639
<v Speaker 2>I can't hold that blue wall. That's fucking out of control.

0:23:59.160 --> 0:24:02.159
<v Speaker 3>I still impressive as that is. I just think the

0:24:02.440 --> 0:24:03.320
<v Speaker 3>co was much better.

0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do heaps less, get a commodore.

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.880
<v Speaker 3>But also if there's any other ideas for gender reveals,

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:12.879
<v Speaker 3>please please send them, send them in. We'd love to

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:15.560
<v Speaker 3>see them. I'm over to any suggestions. I'm not locked

0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 3>into the colodoor.

0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:18.240
<v Speaker 1>And we don't have to have video evidence. If you've

0:24:18.320 --> 0:24:20.280
<v Speaker 1>just got something on your mind and you thought.

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:22.480
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what would be fucking great? Send it

0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:25.960
<v Speaker 2>to Hello at two Doting Dads dot com. Any ideas,

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.359
<v Speaker 2>because if Matt and Laura decide they are going to

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 2>have another child, we will make one of those ideas happen.

0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:35.399
<v Speaker 3>Do you know what is a nice touch? Which high risk,

0:24:35.520 --> 0:24:36.800
<v Speaker 3>but I think it's worth it if you can do

0:24:36.840 --> 0:24:39.600
<v Speaker 3>it properly. Is when you have I normally that the

0:24:39.680 --> 0:24:42.440
<v Speaker 3>female will have I don't know what it's made out of.

0:24:42.440 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>It as a ball.

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 3>The mom this man crack him up so much, he's

0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:53.560
<v Speaker 3>not going to have all the equipment in the room.

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:57.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh man, sorry about that, but please.

0:24:57.680 --> 0:25:01.960
<v Speaker 1>It sounded like a documentary female. I don't know what.

0:25:01.880 --> 0:25:05.000
<v Speaker 3>It's made out of, like a ceramic, like a ball.

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 3>She'll lop it up and then the guy will then

0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 3>with a baseball smash it and then I quite like

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:15.160
<v Speaker 3>the thought of that.

0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:16.640
<v Speaker 1>That's a good one, thank you.

0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 2>My cousins had a golf ball and he hit the

0:25:21.840 --> 0:25:25.120
<v Speaker 2>golf ball and the golf all exploded. Yeah, exploded into

0:25:25.119 --> 0:25:28.320
<v Speaker 2>a golfer. I think he does a little bit of golf.

0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:30.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's I think it's his main sport.

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:32.640
<v Speaker 2>Surely we can come up with something that has never

0:25:32.680 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 2>been done. Surely, surely we'll have a think about it.

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:40.679
<v Speaker 3>That it would be nice to have something aerial is

0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:46.159
<v Speaker 3>a nice touch. Yeah, skydiver maybe like a skydiver and

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:48.439
<v Speaker 3>they have you know, like at the NRL Grand Final

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 3>they have they parachute into the stable with the ball

0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 3>and they have like a big flag like attached to

0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:54.240
<v Speaker 3>them and.

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>A big fan and then they fly off again.

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:58.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like if it came in like behind the skydiver

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:00.960
<v Speaker 3>was like a big flag of like a boy anyway,

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:05.359
<v Speaker 3>just an idea again, can't wait this. None of this

0:26:05.480 --> 0:26:08.920
<v Speaker 3>has been vetoed by Laura. She doesn't ever say it,

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:10.440
<v Speaker 3>but I think she's had it her way the first

0:26:10.440 --> 0:26:13.639
<v Speaker 3>two times. She doesn't say it's time that I took charge.

0:26:13.680 --> 0:26:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Put your foot down?

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Thank you? What do I do want to talk about?

0:26:17.680 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 2>And I'm very proud of this, but a proud moment

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:24.040
<v Speaker 2>for a dad because for my whole life, Matthew, I

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:27.240
<v Speaker 2>have supported a particular football team by the name of

0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 2>the Manly Sea Eagles. Okay, I do have a son.

0:26:30.840 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 2>Not wouldn't matter if it was a daughter.

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:35.840
<v Speaker 1>I do have a daughter. Do there you go news

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to me?

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:40.920
<v Speaker 2>But Oscar is at the age now where I watch

0:26:40.960 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 2>football at home and he's like, oh, football is on

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 2>and he's noticing it. He's also going to be playing

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 2>like a form of rugby union this year. Just because

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 2>of his age under fibes, I decided to take him

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 2>to his first football game live.

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:59.399
<v Speaker 3>I joked about it being a taste of disappointment early on.

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:02.680
<v Speaker 2>For the last how many years, thirteen years, I've been

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:06.720
<v Speaker 2>very disappointed because Manly hasn't won the premiership and it's

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:10.880
<v Speaker 2>been really tough, lots of controversies, lots of coaches, lots

0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 2>of players coming and going, except for one who's still

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:17.119
<v Speaker 2>there who's breaking records. But it was David Cherry Evan's

0:27:17.119 --> 0:27:19.359
<v Speaker 2>three hundred and tenth game and it was against the

0:27:19.400 --> 0:27:22.040
<v Speaker 2>reigning Premiers Panthers.

0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:23.440
<v Speaker 1>Now I know a lot of people that are like, fuck,

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:25.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't really give a shit about football. It's not

0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 1>the point. So just hang in there for this story.

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 3>Can I just also highlight that three hundred and ten games,

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:33.159
<v Speaker 3>that's the record for Manly. Yeah, most games played, so

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 3>big occasion, very big deal, very big deal.

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 1>But I took your advice.

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:39.600
<v Speaker 2>One of the thought, let's get into this game, getting

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:43.800
<v Speaker 2>used to the disappointment that backfiright because they won. We

0:27:43.840 --> 0:27:46.119
<v Speaker 2>went with another friend and his kid who's been before,

0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:48.840
<v Speaker 2>so he knew what to expect. Same age, a little

0:27:48.840 --> 0:27:51.080
<v Speaker 2>bit younger than Oscar. But you know, we sat in

0:27:51.119 --> 0:27:53.119
<v Speaker 2>that weaseled my way to the friends and family area.

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:54.720
<v Speaker 3>How do you do that?

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:59.399
<v Speaker 1>Never? You mind? And well right at the front is

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 1>great because and there's the.

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 2>The All the players come up past there because their

0:28:04.840 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 2>families are there.

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:09.160
<v Speaker 1>So Oscar's like, what the fuck's going on here and then.

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 2>They have two eagle mascots they come up and take

0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 2>photos of the kids. It was brilliant and I was

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 2>sitting there with him thinking, holy shit, this is why

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 2>you do it.

0:28:19.200 --> 0:28:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 2>This was a moment where it's like this why core

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 2>core call memory? Hard call memory. And I was like,

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, trying to you know, because you know.

0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:31.480
<v Speaker 1>What toddlers are like of that age.

0:28:31.520 --> 0:28:33.160
<v Speaker 2>Well, kids at that age like four and a half,

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 2>they get distracted really easy. As soon as the fireworks

0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:40.479
<v Speaker 2>went off, by the way, daytime fireworks, it's good. The noise,

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:44.520
<v Speaker 2>bit of fire, bit of smoke. He was like, holy fuck, yeah,

0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 2>when are the fireworks coming back?

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, whenever we score, there's gonna be fire.

0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Did they put fireworks at the start? Yeah?

0:28:51.280 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it was like five o'clock.

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:55.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And they're like they're kind of like smoke works.

0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 2>There's no fire involved.

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:01.719
<v Speaker 1>Interesting call from at a home game. Blew the whole budget.

0:29:03.200 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 2>He was following along with the score because he can

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 2>read numbers now, can't count that high. So when Manly

0:29:08.760 --> 0:29:11.240
<v Speaker 2>started to really flog them and he's like what number

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 2>is that, I was like, that's right, son, it's high

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 2>it's up.

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, Manly's doing well when I can't even read

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 1>the score.

0:29:18.240 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 2>I did say to him early on, I said, it's

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Manly versus the Panthers, very specifically, but because we beat

0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 2>them so badly, he started calling them the pandas.

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Yes, love that and take that.

0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, take that. So you know, Daddy had a few

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>beers because I was excited.

0:29:37.240 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 3>Did it make it more special? Like it's a big

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 3>game to win against, a huge game to win. Yeah,

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 3>like core memories for Oscar. But to me, that's that's

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 3>pretty He's.

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:49.920
<v Speaker 2>Never going to another game again, so he can hold

0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 2>his perfect record.

0:29:51.440 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 3>But it must be pretty I don't want to sound

0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 3>corny here, but it must pretty magical as.

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:58.840
<v Speaker 2>It was awesome honestly, one of the highlights of my

0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:02.320
<v Speaker 2>parenting career. Wow, So me and Cherry had big days

0:30:02.360 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 2>that day. Oscar got to meet daily Cherry Evans.

0:30:05.480 --> 0:30:08.240
<v Speaker 1>It was brilliant. And then you.

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 2>Know, making the way out of the fortress and it

0:30:10.080 --> 0:30:11.960
<v Speaker 2>was like, fuck, what a successful afternoon is?

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:13.080
<v Speaker 3>Anything you do differently?

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:16.320
<v Speaker 1>No, I think get there early with them. They love it.

0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, we got there pretty early because there's like a

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.480
<v Speaker 2>New South Wales game before like that's how we got

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 2>into that. We just walked into this section, got a

0:30:23.200 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 2>wristband and then we're in there. But like right at

0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 2>the front, kids are a lot of As soon as

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 2>any player walk past, you know they're giving them away,

0:30:30.280 --> 0:30:34.560
<v Speaker 2>and which is a credit to the NRL, both teams Penrith,

0:30:34.840 --> 0:30:38.520
<v Speaker 2>Pandas and Manly. Anytime that a sub would walk past

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:40.280
<v Speaker 2>and there was all these kids in the area.

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I was they were The players were like hey, like it.

0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 3>Was great, misimagining all the kids there and you're there

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 3>like wedged in between them, like HET's me.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:52.160
<v Speaker 2>But it was great, and I just wanted to highlight

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 2>that it was very, very one of my favorite parenting moments.

0:30:56.520 --> 0:30:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that is beautiful.

0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Yet to take Marley to any kind I took it

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 3>to a cricket match when she was two. Didn't like it,

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:05.200
<v Speaker 3>as you can appreciate.

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:07.280
<v Speaker 1>It's just like, do you don't like pointing out players?

0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's it. And she was the lab of Shane.

0:31:10.360 --> 0:31:12.800
<v Speaker 3>But I cannot wait.

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh. I was really.

0:31:14.680 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 2>Apprehensive at first because you know, he is only four

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 2>and a half, well nearly five actually in a couple

0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:22.160
<v Speaker 2>of months. But like they're so easily distracted. They get

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:23.200
<v Speaker 2>so easily bored with him.

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I mean probably three or four movies

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 3>with the kids a couple of times loved it. It's

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 3>that the way through, start to finish. A couple of

0:31:32.000 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 3>times after that five minutes and they're like, well I'm done. Yeah,

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:38.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm sit down any longer. And you know, I imagine,

0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 3>I can imagine if imagine if like halftime, you know,

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 3>game was on the line, Manly is winning, an Oscar's like,

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:47.160
<v Speaker 3>I want to go home.

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>Too bad. He didn't even mention that he wanted to

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 1>go home, which I was shocked.

0:31:50.520 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, congratulations, not just to Manly but to you as dad.

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:57.600
<v Speaker 1>As a sports fan. It's a milestone. Winds are around

0:31:57.640 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>for dad.

0:31:58.240 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 3>It's easy to forget just how much of an impact

0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 3>that is on Oscar's little life. Yeah, obviously it's a

0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:08.400
<v Speaker 3>core memory for you as a parent, being like, hey,

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:11.040
<v Speaker 3>this is one of the highlights. I still remember. My

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 3>mum took me to my very first game, Yeah, to

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 3>Bristin Broncos. It was Petro seven receiver's first game. I remember,

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 3>it's weird. I remember it was aynz Ed Stadium and

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:25.959
<v Speaker 3>it was me and my mom and I don't know

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:28.600
<v Speaker 3>she was in for some reason. I think she was

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:31.440
<v Speaker 3>just like trying to give me lots of experiences that

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 3>little kids would enjoy. And you know, she pushed me

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:38.520
<v Speaker 3>into cricket, pushed me into NRL, and that to me

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 3>sticks in my mind.

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think it's easy to forget that.

0:32:40.880 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 3>Oscar is going to remember that for the rest of

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 3>his life.

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh absolutely.

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 2>There's like when I was a kid too, Like I

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:48.160
<v Speaker 2>remember going to brook Vale Oval, you know, as as

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 2>at a similar age.

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:50.479
<v Speaker 1>It's like wild.

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 2>I vividly remember going to a Sydney King's game when

0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 2>I was a few years older than that. And the

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 2>only reason I vividly remember that is that we were

0:32:58.840 --> 0:33:01.840
<v Speaker 2>in a photo in the paper, me, my sister and

0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:02.560
<v Speaker 2>the Big Lions.

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>And the only reason I remember it is my sister's

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>fly was down, so cool memory.

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and look, honestly, we'll go again as much as

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 2>we can.

0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>We have to bring Marley lungs each other, do it.

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.680
<v Speaker 2>Do it in a friendship kind of waymon take because

0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:27.320
<v Speaker 2>he hopes me. Also, speaking of football, Ko has got

0:33:27.320 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 2>you covered this footy season with every game of every

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 2>round live and add break free during.

0:33:32.240 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Play ash can I just really quickly give a shout

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 3>out to Brisbane Broncos. They will be playing the Raiders

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:42.160
<v Speaker 3>on Saturday. Gosh, it's a big game. What would you

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 3>do if Manly and Brisbane are in the finals together,

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 3>We'd have to sit on different sides of the stadium.

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:52.479
<v Speaker 1>I'd be torn. The way that you guys gave up

0:33:52.520 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 1>the win last year. I'm not worried. What else have

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:56.400
<v Speaker 1>they got? Man Well?

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 3>The Formula One Grand Prix that is on the Chinese

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 3>Grand Prix. It is a type battle in the Constructors Championship,

0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 3>with only twenty one points separating Red Bull and Ferrari.

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:08.520
<v Speaker 3>Can Ferrari get both cars back onto the podium in China?

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:10.799
<v Speaker 3>Don't miss any of the action live and four K

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<v Speaker 2>In Nikita returns to the ring for the first time

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<v Speaker 2>this year to defend his title against Danillo Creti on Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 2>the twenty fourth of April from seven pm. Order now

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<v Speaker 2>with main event on KO Sports Now. Fun fact I

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<v Speaker 2>will be there just let you know. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>do see me there and you listen to this, come

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<v Speaker 2>over say hi, and I will also capable.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, if you're watching the fight and you see Ash

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<v Speaker 3>on screen, tag me yeah, big wave, big wag wave

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<v Speaker 3>and film it.

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<v Speaker 1>Film it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not forget to ash your favorite sport at the moment,

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<v Speaker 3>the sun Corpse super Netball. It is round two. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a Vixen's versus Thunderbirds on Saturday and Swift's versus Mavericks

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<v Speaker 3>Sunday four pm ash both games alive and what four K.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you very much, and of course there's plenty of

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<v Speaker 2>room for everyone, so get on board.

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<v Speaker 1>KO now also available on Hubble.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to just run a scenario by you and

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<v Speaker 2>if it's ever happened to you and the circumstance in

0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 2>which had happened to me. So on Thursdays, as you know,

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:27.919
<v Speaker 2>I have Macy on Thursdays, but because Oscar.

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Finishes candy, it like three point thirty on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'll usually do in April's working from home instead

0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 2>of bringing them both home, and it'd be chaos for

0:35:34.840 --> 0:35:36.360
<v Speaker 2>to try and wrap up her week because it's her

0:35:36.400 --> 0:35:38.839
<v Speaker 2>last day of the week. I usually pick them up,

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:41.880
<v Speaker 2>and I go to there's a shopping center with a

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<v Speaker 2>Baker's Delight. But across from that is a park right

0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 2>next to where we can park the car. So we

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:49.759
<v Speaker 2>get out, go get something from the Bakers, like, come

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 2>back to this park.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if this has ever happened to you,

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<v Speaker 2>A bit of a strange one got out of the car,

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:57.880
<v Speaker 2>went and got.

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<v Speaker 1>The Baxers, like, come back to the park gated.

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 2>It's like a gated community, but the car spots are

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<v Speaker 2>right up against the gate.

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<v Speaker 1>So I walk in with the kids. Bakers are like they're.

0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Running around blah blah blah blah blah, and I've gone,

0:36:10.480 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 2>oh shit, left my phone in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what am I going to do in the park?

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 1>You know? And I was like, I better just go

0:36:16.640 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 1>get my phone.

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:19.759
<v Speaker 2>I can still see them, right I go out the gate,

0:36:19.800 --> 0:36:21.839
<v Speaker 2>cars right there, and I come back.

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 1>There's some people in the park still as well. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like a park in the middle of the.

0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 3>Roughly just give me a distance from the gate of

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:30.680
<v Speaker 3>the park ten meters, okay.

0:36:30.840 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 2>Is that I don't take I can't. I can't lose

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 2>sight of them whatsoever. That's not the issue. The issue

0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 2>is I've walked back into a park, so people have

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 2>walked into the park while I wasn't in the park.

0:36:41.800 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Now picture this, I've walked into a park with no

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 2>kids with a phone and just walked my way into

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:53.600
<v Speaker 2>a park to a dark and dingy corner of the

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 2>park to be on my own. The people that have

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 2>come into the park while I wasn't, I've probably now

0:36:59.680 --> 0:37:02.520
<v Speaker 2>a shit that this guy just walked into a park.

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<v Speaker 2>Did someone say something to someone said something to me?

0:37:05.200 --> 0:37:05.879
<v Speaker 1>What they say?

0:37:06.040 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 2>They walked up to me. I'm standing there on my phone,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:11.359
<v Speaker 2>not filming the kids. It kind of might have looked

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:14.000
<v Speaker 2>like I was filming kids, and she walks.

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Up to me. She was like, do you do you

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:19.320
<v Speaker 1>have any kids in the park. I was like classic

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:21.160
<v Speaker 1>me style. I thought I'd just fuck with her a bit.

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, the fuck is and then Oscar's

0:37:26.800 --> 0:37:29.040
<v Speaker 2>run over and grabbed told.

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:29.760
<v Speaker 1>Him and her face.

0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:33.400
<v Speaker 2>She was so embarrassed, To be fair, but I just

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:34.480
<v Speaker 2>fucked with her a little bit more.

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I just was like, like he used here, and then

0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I started to you know what my personality having a

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>bit of a laugh with her, and moved on. But

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:45.400
<v Speaker 1>has it like Honestly, I am not a predator.

0:37:45.920 --> 0:37:49.320
<v Speaker 2>Looks can be to see it, But at that moment

0:37:50.120 --> 0:37:53.839
<v Speaker 2>I felt what a predator would have felt, and I

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:54.400
<v Speaker 2>didn't like it.

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I did not like it. But just the circumstance in

0:37:57.440 --> 0:38:01.359
<v Speaker 1>which that happened to me, that's that's fucking that's put

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:01.920
<v Speaker 1>on her.

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 2>For coming up to be like yeah, because it's kind

0:38:04.160 --> 0:38:05.799
<v Speaker 2>of like, I get what they would have seen. They

0:38:05.800 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 2>would have seen fully grown cut man covered in tattoos,

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 2>walk in mustache hat on.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, wait wait wait wait wait wait.

0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:16.800
<v Speaker 3>I think it's a bit much.

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:18.240
<v Speaker 1>To do that. She's looking at for the kids.

0:38:18.600 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 3>She's looking at for the kids. Yeah, but I think

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 3>you're not doing anything which is which is warranting of

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 3>someone kind of like pulling you up.

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.520
<v Speaker 1>No, the only thing that I could think of was

0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>that I had no pants on. No I was.

0:38:33.960 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I you know, I just gingerly walked in and walking

0:38:37.840 --> 0:38:40.080
<v Speaker 2>around with my phone to like a corner of the.

0:38:40.400 --> 0:38:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Kids park and just stood us. I probably did in

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>the moment. I don't think you do. It just looks

0:38:46.040 --> 0:38:49.200
<v Speaker 1>suss enough for someone who walking What were you doing?

0:38:49.719 --> 0:38:53.719
<v Speaker 2>I was walking like Randall from Monsters, Inc. Okay, a

0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:59.120
<v Speaker 2>little bit skeevy. And did she apologize, Yeah, profusely.

0:38:59.120 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>She was very embarrassed. I was like, good on you,

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:05.280
<v Speaker 1>which was wrong of me. No, I think I couldn't

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>help myself.

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:07.399
<v Speaker 3>I think you react in the same way.

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 3>I had to go through that a few times. I

0:39:10.600 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 3>don't want to say this, but a few times. And

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 3>we've been like together, and like I've gone to the

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.480
<v Speaker 3>bathroom and I've come back, and you've been with Marley.

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:22.719
<v Speaker 3>People have said do you know this guy? And I said,

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 3>I said, yeah, he's a friend of mine. Okay, wearing

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.239
<v Speaker 3>any pants, no pants, and he's got a.

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:33.440
<v Speaker 1>Mustache full brain. You just got that kind of like

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:36.239
<v Speaker 1>get that look about you that you're up to no good.

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm skiving.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not bring up your criminal record.

0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 2>No, let's not do that anyway. Obviously it's never happened

0:39:43.040 --> 0:39:47.320
<v Speaker 2>to you, or has it. You did try and coax

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:48.960
<v Speaker 2>some kids back to your house.

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:52.879
<v Speaker 3>That was one time there was anyone Anyone doesn't know

0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 3>they're trying to sell candy.

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:57.439
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have cash cash back at my house. Let's

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>not go into it.

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:02.920
<v Speaker 3>That's I've not had that happen to me, not yet,

0:40:03.280 --> 0:40:05.600
<v Speaker 3>not yet anyway, good to hear.

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Not yet. Let's go into my favorite segment, meltdowns. Yes,

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:16.759
<v Speaker 1>it's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Fun Can I tell you a quick meltdown this morning

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<v Speaker 3>at the moment it's a little bit colder in Sydney

0:40:35.560 --> 0:40:38.839
<v Speaker 3>right now, winter is creeping in. Kids are into porridge

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 3>and made porridge this morning. Marley, big fan of porridge,

0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:46.440
<v Speaker 3>big porridge girl loves it. And she looked at it

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:49.319
<v Speaker 3>started bawling her eyes out and I was like, what's wrong.

0:40:49.440 --> 0:40:52.640
<v Speaker 3>She goes, it's got milk in it. Like that's the

0:40:52.680 --> 0:40:56.840
<v Speaker 3>whole fucking point of porridge porridges unless you're a freak

0:40:56.920 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 3>like my mom and she has water.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I have done it for desperate times. I asked

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:05.959
<v Speaker 2>her how to melt down similar sort of situation where

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:08.319
<v Speaker 2>he wanted usually in yogurt, and I put it in

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 2>a pink bowl instead of any other color bowl and

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:13.280
<v Speaker 2>it would ended up on the floor.

0:41:13.640 --> 0:41:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Man, okay, picture of this, Matt.

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:20.800
<v Speaker 2>I have gone to Kmart Okay, quite a big shop

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:23.440
<v Speaker 2>as we know there there's all sorts of things for people.

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:26.359
<v Speaker 3>Who aren't familiar with Kmart. They sell many goods from

0:41:26.440 --> 0:41:28.640
<v Speaker 3>home weares to sporting.

0:41:28.160 --> 0:41:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Goods, probably by the brand name of.

0:41:30.120 --> 0:41:32.120
<v Speaker 3>Ancho fucking great brand.

0:41:32.680 --> 0:41:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, there's lots of stuff in there, and you think

0:41:35.680 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 2>in a meltdown segment about kids that a kid might

0:41:38.600 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 2>be melting.

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:42.720
<v Speaker 1>Down a toy. Not in this case.

0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:46.319
<v Speaker 2>Go on, I am in the kitchen section and I

0:41:46.360 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>hear this kid.

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:52.440
<v Speaker 1>I date it, and I immediately thought toy. I really

0:41:52.480 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 1>thought toy.

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 2>And anyway, I've heard it a few times with this

0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:58.960
<v Speaker 2>kid not being either stopped or removed or whatever.

0:41:59.160 --> 0:42:00.800
<v Speaker 1>This kid's having a food meltdown.

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:05.359
<v Speaker 2>I need it, I need it, screaming very loud, one

0:42:05.360 --> 0:42:08.720
<v Speaker 2>of those loud kids. You know, I do feel sorry

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 2>for that household because that child is loud as fuck.

0:42:11.600 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 2>And I pop around the corner and see all these

0:42:13.160 --> 0:42:17.000
<v Speaker 2>people like looking, and I'm like, what's going on here?

0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:21.600
<v Speaker 2>This kid has clung onto a trolley, like you know

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 2>how Tolally got this tiny little bars and you can

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:25.000
<v Speaker 2>wrap your fingers around here.

0:42:24.920 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 1>And really get a good grip. He's got a good

0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:31.040
<v Speaker 1>grip of this trolley and it's shaken it like this,

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:34.600
<v Speaker 1>like fucking giving it a good old fucking go, and

0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:39.000
<v Speaker 1>he's gone, I need it. I need it, like kicking

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:40.120
<v Speaker 1>and screaming.

0:42:40.800 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, the parent didn't do anything about it pretty much

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 2>and just let.

0:42:46.480 --> 0:42:47.879
<v Speaker 1>It play out.

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I'm going to completely ignore this

0:42:51.680 --> 0:42:53.040
<v Speaker 2>as much as I can, as much as I wanted

0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:56.480
<v Speaker 2>to stand and watch, I was like, this would be

0:42:56.520 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 2>over in a moment.

0:42:57.640 --> 0:42:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I finished my shopping.

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm in the checkout line, which is no cas in

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:05.360
<v Speaker 2>the middle. This guy's at the front door having this meltdown.

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Ten minutes it had been ten whole minutes that this

0:43:09.800 --> 0:43:13.600
<v Speaker 2>kid screamed and screamed his head off.

0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I can hear your frustration directed towards the mum a

0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:21.600
<v Speaker 1>little bit.

0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I think you can't.

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:24.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'll take that back.

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to judge the mum because that's not

0:43:28.400 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 2>very fair, correct And I agree with that.

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Why didn't anyone remove the child from the situation? It

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 1>would look straw music for everybody.

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:40.040
<v Speaker 3>But then how about this? What about if that mum

0:43:40.120 --> 0:43:43.120
<v Speaker 3>needs to do a bloody shopping at kmart, So for

0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 3>her to like leave Camart is going to be a

0:43:46.120 --> 0:43:48.360
<v Speaker 3>huge meltdown. She's going to come back into Kmar.

0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing critical at Camar you need. How do you

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:54.719
<v Speaker 2>know that she named one critical item in Cama that

0:43:54.920 --> 0:44:00.440
<v Speaker 2>you would need microwave. Damn, it will die in the

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 2>house unless you get a microbe. Okay, I get what

0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 2>you're saying.

0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:05.520
<v Speaker 3>She could be at her wits end, and she could

0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:07.920
<v Speaker 3>be at the point of having a menty bee.

0:44:07.880 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Meanty be away baby.

0:44:09.560 --> 0:44:11.600
<v Speaker 3>But then she could just be like, you know, I

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:15.760
<v Speaker 3>just don't have the energy to even try and attack

0:44:15.800 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 3>this little meltdown because the kid might be dealing with

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:19.399
<v Speaker 3>something that's fair.

0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:21.879
<v Speaker 2>Usually meltdowns are really funny mat That's what I'm getting at,

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 2>but this one was a little bit.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 3>You should have gone over, given her a hug and

0:44:27.520 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 3>said it's gonna be I just got a.

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Question about being a predator, and I'm hugging random women.

0:44:32.920 --> 0:44:38.840
<v Speaker 2>We're wearing pants, right, No, I just wanted to highlight

0:44:38.880 --> 0:44:40.880
<v Speaker 2>it because it's been on my mind.

0:44:41.120 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel sorry for the mum.

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:48.279
<v Speaker 2>The grandmother was also there, I think, but I do

0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:49.879
<v Speaker 2>feel sorry for them because you don't know what they're

0:44:49.880 --> 0:44:51.000
<v Speaker 2>going through. And I don't want to sit here and

0:44:51.040 --> 0:44:52.919
<v Speaker 2>judge people, because that sucks. I would hate if someone

0:44:53.000 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 2>judged me. But also, shut that fucking kid up.

0:44:58.040 --> 0:45:01.520
<v Speaker 3>My kids have a meltdown. I find the best thing

0:45:01.640 --> 0:45:04.319
<v Speaker 3>is and this is not me giving advice. This is

0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 3>just me explaining to judgmental parents like yourself, we go

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:09.760
<v Speaker 3>on a kmart and fucking throw shade at other people

0:45:09.800 --> 0:45:13.279
<v Speaker 3>who are having identfull time. I have said finished, the

0:45:13.360 --> 0:45:16.399
<v Speaker 3>quickest she reaches her peak, the quickest you'll come back down.

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's what this parent was? I think so.

0:45:18.960 --> 0:45:19.920
<v Speaker 1>I think she don't know.

0:45:20.080 --> 0:45:23.680
<v Speaker 3>She was probably like, why is Billy taking ten minutes

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:24.320
<v Speaker 3>with this meltdown?

0:45:24.400 --> 0:45:26.080
<v Speaker 1>This is not normal. I didn't know. I didn't know

0:45:26.120 --> 0:45:29.880
<v Speaker 1>that was a thing. See ignorance, But also shut your

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:30.879
<v Speaker 1>kid up a little bit.

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:35.799
<v Speaker 2>Like if it was me, I'm not that my my

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:39.200
<v Speaker 2>method is right, I would just go We could always

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:42.080
<v Speaker 2>come back to kmar. I could always come back in

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:45.279
<v Speaker 2>some instance or circumstance. I can always find my way

0:45:45.280 --> 0:45:47.120
<v Speaker 2>back to come Do you know why? Because the sign

0:45:47.200 --> 0:45:49.840
<v Speaker 2>is just huge and I know where it is. But

0:45:50.120 --> 0:45:54.560
<v Speaker 2>if he's there having a complete crazy meltdown.

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:55.719
<v Speaker 3>What about if she took the bar it took four

0:45:55.760 --> 0:45:58.840
<v Speaker 3>buses to get to kmart, and I'm like, did that

0:45:58.960 --> 0:46:01.640
<v Speaker 3>ever end to your mind? Maybe she took her like

0:46:01.680 --> 0:46:04.440
<v Speaker 3>three hours to get the kmart and she needed the microwave?

0:46:06.040 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>How poor are you so you need to get a bus.

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:12.760
<v Speaker 1>She could be homeless. I'm not going down that way again,

0:46:13.000 --> 0:46:14.920
<v Speaker 1>because let's move on.

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 2>If you wanted to successfully make me feel bad, you've

0:46:19.239 --> 0:46:20.600
<v Speaker 2>done it, so thank you.

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 3>As she did time for questions. Also just wanted to

0:46:24.120 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 3>reiterate that we would love to have any of your

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:29.680
<v Speaker 3>questions admitted. You can do it two ways. One is

0:46:29.760 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 3>via our instagram at two Doting Dads against in a DM,

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:34.759
<v Speaker 3>or you can email us.

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 1>At hello at two Doting Dads dot com.

0:46:38.480 --> 0:46:41.400
<v Speaker 3>The first question is Ash, what do you wish you

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 3>were better at as a parent?

0:46:43.200 --> 0:46:49.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh? Good question, I think for me and I actually

0:46:49.880 --> 0:46:51.480
<v Speaker 2>tried to practice.

0:46:50.960 --> 0:46:54.480
<v Speaker 1>This on the weekend. Okay, bear with me.

0:46:54.960 --> 0:46:56.720
<v Speaker 2>When you do go to the park with your kidders,

0:46:56.800 --> 0:46:58.200
<v Speaker 2>just say it's a Sunday morning, which it was a

0:46:58.280 --> 0:47:00.160
<v Speaker 2>Sunday morning, Like, okay, this morning, you got to get

0:47:00.160 --> 0:47:02.160
<v Speaker 2>these kids out of the house. You've got to get

0:47:02.160 --> 0:47:04.200
<v Speaker 2>them down in the park, burn some energy so they

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 2>can go home have lunch. Then we've got to pretty

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:09.320
<v Speaker 2>much do the same thing again because they just recoep

0:47:09.320 --> 0:47:13.680
<v Speaker 2>their energy so quickly. But I often find myself going

0:47:13.719 --> 0:47:16.400
<v Speaker 2>to the park and with my phone in my pocket

0:47:16.480 --> 0:47:18.759
<v Speaker 2>end up on my phone. It's so easy done. It

0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:21.239
<v Speaker 2>could be a quick message and then you just end

0:47:21.320 --> 0:47:25.839
<v Speaker 2>up doom scrolling. So what I did was I left

0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:29.320
<v Speaker 2>the phone in the car. I felt like a pretty

0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 2>good person when I did that at first, which you know,

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:35.640
<v Speaker 2>as you do into the park, I'm on the zip

0:47:35.680 --> 0:47:38.120
<v Speaker 2>line thing with Oscar, the swing with Oscar, the spinny

0:47:38.120 --> 0:47:40.200
<v Speaker 2>thing with me, see that, whatever it is. And then

0:47:40.239 --> 0:47:41.920
<v Speaker 2>I see a made of mine who's in the park

0:47:42.120 --> 0:47:45.160
<v Speaker 2>on his phone and I was like, oh when I

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 2>was a good eight and his wife was.

0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:48.319
<v Speaker 1>There playing with the kid and he's on his phone.

0:47:48.320 --> 0:47:50.520
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, yeah, I leave my phone in

0:47:50.560 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 2>the car, you know, I just find that like.

0:47:57.760 --> 0:47:59.360
<v Speaker 3>Kids get away.

0:48:00.040 --> 0:48:01.680
<v Speaker 2>And then I just said to April after they left,

0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:02.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm just gonna get my phone out of

0:48:02.880 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 2>the garden.

0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:07.080
<v Speaker 1>So I wish I was better.

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:10.840
<v Speaker 2>At sticking to separating that. Look, parks are boring. Fuck

0:48:10.880 --> 0:48:11.480
<v Speaker 2>they're boring.

0:48:11.960 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I hate it.

0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:16.280
<v Speaker 2>But I have noticed the times that I've done something

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:18.120
<v Speaker 2>similar like that, Like I was on the zip line,

0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 2>I was helping Oscar.

0:48:19.080 --> 0:48:21.239
<v Speaker 1>There was other kids on the zip line too, I

0:48:21.280 --> 0:48:22.120
<v Speaker 1>was wearing pants.

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:24.280
<v Speaker 3>Thank you for clarifying.

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 1>And it just felt like it was a more fun environment.

0:48:27.800 --> 0:48:31.040
<v Speaker 3>Dude, I'm one hundred percent the same. I it's so

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:36.759
<v Speaker 3>freaking easy to get distracted, especially weekends. I'm pretty good,

0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:40.160
<v Speaker 3>like I can focus with the kids, but like during

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.880
<v Speaker 3>the week kids come home, it's like five point thirty,

0:48:43.280 --> 0:48:45.719
<v Speaker 3>there's a little bit of the little gap before you

0:48:45.760 --> 0:48:46.600
<v Speaker 3>start having dinner.

0:48:46.680 --> 0:48:48.840
<v Speaker 1>And they were all ratty from kindom, and yeah, they're.

0:48:48.640 --> 0:48:51.480
<v Speaker 3>All tired, and but a few times Miley's wanted to

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:55.399
<v Speaker 3>play and I'm just like, oh, just needs a rat

0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:58.239
<v Speaker 3>and then like, hey, sometimes that's fine, but I've been

0:48:58.320 --> 0:48:59.080
<v Speaker 3>I've been a bit shit.

0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:02.279
<v Speaker 1>The last we can it's easy done. Yeah, I'm in this.

0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:05.960
<v Speaker 3>Bad routine of just like and even having dinner on

0:49:06.000 --> 0:49:08.960
<v Speaker 3>my phone, getting the bath and then I know, you know,

0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 3>give a few minutes in the bar before I start

0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 3>go through a routine of like washing them and brushing

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:16.399
<v Speaker 3>the teeth and just on my phone again. And I'm like, dude,

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:20.200
<v Speaker 3>I've got like arthritis in my thumb. Yeah, scrolling too much.

0:49:20.239 --> 0:49:24.240
<v Speaker 3>It's a real bloody problem. But it's so nice. Someone

0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:26.160
<v Speaker 3>said to me, it's just trying to do ten minutes

0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:29.480
<v Speaker 3>ten minutes of like kids are your attention, not on

0:49:29.520 --> 0:49:31.640
<v Speaker 3>your phone, and I'm the same. I actually thought about

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:33.920
<v Speaker 3>when I picked the kids up from daycare, I'm going

0:49:34.000 --> 0:49:36.799
<v Speaker 3>to leave my phone in the car. Yeah that way,

0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:38.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm just not tempted because if it's in my pocket.

0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:41.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah. And look, I did.

0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 2>An hour at the Park of Self Righteousness, which that's

0:49:46.800 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 2>katty impressive for an hour.

0:49:48.680 --> 0:49:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Lady was talking to a mate.

0:49:49.800 --> 0:49:53.160
<v Speaker 3>Was Oscar like, can you just back off? Leave me alone?

0:49:53.520 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 3>And also, in light of the disagreement with Laura, I'd

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:05.480
<v Speaker 3>be better at better communication with my wife. Yeah, that's

0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:07.919
<v Speaker 3>what I need to get on that one. Yeah, that's

0:50:07.960 --> 0:50:11.319
<v Speaker 3>one thing an idiot, no phone and communicator.

0:50:10.760 --> 0:50:14.319
<v Speaker 2>Taking aside Laura that one. Thank you, but also your

0:50:14.360 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 2>feelings are valid. Thank you, thank you what I did there.

0:50:17.719 --> 0:50:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Your question, My question is it's from erin. Do you

0:50:22.080 --> 0:50:23.480
<v Speaker 2>guys actually not care.

0:50:23.360 --> 0:50:30.200
<v Speaker 1>What our bodies look like after kids? That's all we've

0:50:30.200 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>got time?

0:50:31.480 --> 0:50:36.760
<v Speaker 3>I think. I think when I was I was ready

0:50:36.920 --> 0:50:39.880
<v Speaker 3>for the fact that Laura's body was going to go

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:43.120
<v Speaker 3>through a hell of a lot of change trauma too, Yeah,

0:50:43.320 --> 0:50:46.680
<v Speaker 3>because of pregnancy and then childbirth. I think for me,

0:50:49.000 --> 0:50:52.680
<v Speaker 3>the biggest deterrent from having sex with Laura was the

0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:54.480
<v Speaker 3>fact that I was so afraid that it was going

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:55.680
<v Speaker 3>to be painful for her.

0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:59.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true. Yeah, I can't remember how long we waited.

0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I think it was a day or two. I'm joking,

0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:09.440
<v Speaker 1>not a joke, joking. Put the pitchforks down, A joking, madam.

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:13.600
<v Speaker 3>I can't remember. Okay, So when Marley was born, Laura

0:51:13.680 --> 0:51:15.919
<v Speaker 3>had an episiotomy. And for any guys that are listening

0:51:15.960 --> 0:51:17.480
<v Speaker 3>who don't know what that is, it means you need

0:51:17.520 --> 0:51:22.000
<v Speaker 3>to have a cut made during childbirth, which is stitched up.

0:51:22.880 --> 0:51:26.280
<v Speaker 3>And where is the cut cut is downstairs. So Laura

0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:28.240
<v Speaker 3>had to go through that with the birth of Marley.

0:51:28.560 --> 0:51:32.680
<v Speaker 3>Very traumatic and I can't remember how long it was,

0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:35.960
<v Speaker 3>but I remember Laura was like, hey, I'm now ready

0:51:35.960 --> 0:51:39.239
<v Speaker 3>to have sex again. And I was like, I was like,

0:51:39.280 --> 0:51:40.840
<v Speaker 3>are you sure you didn't need more time? And she

0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:42.120
<v Speaker 3>was like no, like, let's do it.

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I think it took a few turns.

0:51:44.560 --> 0:51:46.960
<v Speaker 3>I was really worried. I was like, yeah, this is

0:51:47.000 --> 0:51:50.560
<v Speaker 3>we don't have to do this. That was my biggest

0:51:50.880 --> 0:51:51.799
<v Speaker 3>qualm in my head.

0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't worried about I wasn't worried about baby.

0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:57.440
<v Speaker 3>Wait, I wasn't like, hey, it's been a couple of

0:51:57.440 --> 0:51:58.839
<v Speaker 3>months now that baby waits hanging around.

0:51:58.840 --> 0:52:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Are we're gonna sort that out? Remembers you Merry Christmas?

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:05.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh, there'd be they'd be dudes out there like that. Yeah,

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:10.840
<v Speaker 2>and if they are, fuck you dudes, block us. No,

0:52:10.920 --> 0:52:11.960
<v Speaker 2>actually we need the listeners.

0:52:14.080 --> 0:52:15.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's April had.

0:52:15.680 --> 0:52:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Obviously two c sections, so the first one was it's

0:52:18.239 --> 0:52:22.200
<v Speaker 2>like going major surgery. So there's like she pushed for

0:52:22.280 --> 0:52:27.719
<v Speaker 2>so long, which also traumatized the vagina area.

0:52:29.320 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 1>And then also had to be cut open.

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:34.879
<v Speaker 2>So it was like my main priority was obviously her

0:52:34.960 --> 0:52:38.120
<v Speaker 2>recovering from a major surgery, and sexual organs were not

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:39.319
<v Speaker 2>like hurry up.

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:41.560
<v Speaker 1>And when I hear.

0:52:41.400 --> 0:52:43.719
<v Speaker 3>About guys who are like, hey, work, when are we

0:52:43.760 --> 0:52:45.759
<v Speaker 3>gonna Like when are we?

0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:46.600
<v Speaker 1>When are we going to do this?

0:52:46.640 --> 0:52:50.120
<v Speaker 3>Get back on the sex train, Like you're just a

0:52:50.160 --> 0:52:54.240
<v Speaker 3>boy bro. Yeah, you know a man who's who's educating

0:52:54.280 --> 0:52:55.080
<v Speaker 3>these young men.

0:52:55.440 --> 0:52:57.680
<v Speaker 2>It's fuck day. It's funck day when you hear shit

0:52:57.800 --> 0:53:02.600
<v Speaker 2>like that. But people are like, I think it's not

0:53:02.719 --> 0:53:03.399
<v Speaker 2>about you, bro.

0:53:05.719 --> 0:53:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Jerk off.

0:53:06.120 --> 0:53:10.279
<v Speaker 3>For a couple more monthsly, the only person who was

0:53:10.280 --> 0:53:13.920
<v Speaker 3>putting pressure on Laura to get back into the gym

0:53:14.040 --> 0:53:18.759
<v Speaker 3>to start exercising again. Was herself like she kind of

0:53:18.840 --> 0:53:22.399
<v Speaker 3>wanted to. You know, it's hard to exercise when you're

0:53:22.440 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 3>eight months with any time of pregnancy, and then even

0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:27.719
<v Speaker 3>then after birth. She was kind of like, I want to,

0:53:28.400 --> 0:53:29.359
<v Speaker 3>I want to feel good again.

0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:32.000
<v Speaker 1>And it's not just physically too mentally.

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 2>April was like a big thing about out of the

0:53:34.120 --> 0:53:35.799
<v Speaker 2>gym and wanted to get back in the gym as

0:53:35.880 --> 0:53:39.200
<v Speaker 2>soon as she could. Wasn't physically for a physical health,

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:40.200
<v Speaker 2>that was for a mental health.

0:53:40.400 --> 0:53:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So again, it's not about us, and I don't

0:53:46.120 --> 0:53:48.279
<v Speaker 1>give a didn't give a shit about what weight she

0:53:48.320 --> 0:53:51.520
<v Speaker 1>would put on or whatever after it was whether she

0:53:51.760 --> 0:53:55.839
<v Speaker 1>was feeling okay, that's my answer. Yeah, I'm the same.

0:53:55.920 --> 0:53:58.560
<v Speaker 3>I think anyone who was putting pressure on their partner

0:53:59.320 --> 0:54:02.960
<v Speaker 3>to try and return the body back to pre baby shape,

0:54:03.800 --> 0:54:04.239
<v Speaker 3>get real.

0:54:04.320 --> 0:54:05.680
<v Speaker 1>It's an absolute dick.

0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:09.759
<v Speaker 2>Get real loser, and then our way, we'll knock them out.

0:54:10.200 --> 0:54:12.680
<v Speaker 2>We'll do a very bad wow, bigger than us.

0:54:12.760 --> 0:54:12.920
<v Speaker 4>Then.

0:54:13.000 --> 0:54:16.960
<v Speaker 3>No, if they're under five foot seven, send them, we'll

0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:19.640
<v Speaker 3>set them out. Anyone who was six foot no, no, no, no,

0:54:19.719 --> 0:54:19.880
<v Speaker 3>no no.

0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:25.720
<v Speaker 2>Anyone over six foot one and a half, well Matthew,

0:54:26.120 --> 0:54:29.400
<v Speaker 2>we can finally reveal something we've been working on for

0:54:29.600 --> 0:54:30.160
<v Speaker 2>days now.

0:54:30.560 --> 0:54:33.760
<v Speaker 1>It's been countless days and sleepless nights.

0:54:33.880 --> 0:54:36.600
<v Speaker 3>Well, it's been a labor of love.

0:54:37.080 --> 0:54:39.320
<v Speaker 1>You'd call it very much, so I would agree.

0:54:39.480 --> 0:54:41.279
<v Speaker 3>And the deal has been done.

0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:42.160
<v Speaker 1>It has.

0:54:42.400 --> 0:54:47.520
<v Speaker 3>We've been mulling over this deal with Penguin Books for

0:54:47.640 --> 0:54:48.520
<v Speaker 3>a long time.

0:54:48.320 --> 0:54:52.479
<v Speaker 1>And when publishing, to be specific, has been done.

0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:56.080
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't easy. Actually, we were like, look, whatever you're

0:54:56.120 --> 0:54:56.360
<v Speaker 3>from the.

0:54:56.360 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>Table, will take it.

0:55:00.239 --> 0:55:03.240
<v Speaker 3>The book, the book we are writing, Two Doting Dads,

0:55:03.440 --> 0:55:07.480
<v Speaker 3>The Quest for Free Time, arguably a book which will

0:55:07.560 --> 0:55:08.920
<v Speaker 3>break all sorts.

0:55:08.719 --> 0:55:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Of sorts of unofficial records.

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:14.680
<v Speaker 3>It is available for pre sale purchase.

0:55:14.880 --> 0:55:17.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, there is a link in ours, so there's a

0:55:17.960 --> 0:55:19.640
<v Speaker 1>link in the show notes for this.

0:55:19.920 --> 0:55:20.360
<v Speaker 3>That's correct.

0:55:20.400 --> 0:55:22.799
<v Speaker 1>Also on both of our socials and the Two Doting Dads.

0:55:23.040 --> 0:55:25.840
<v Speaker 3>And if you'd love to see the cover please, I

0:55:25.920 --> 0:55:28.719
<v Speaker 3>thought you'd never ask, head to our socials. It is there,

0:55:28.760 --> 0:55:29.840
<v Speaker 3>we posted on Sunday.

0:55:30.920 --> 0:55:38.399
<v Speaker 1>But the story is heartfelt, humorous, convention. We've got it all.

0:55:38.680 --> 0:55:40.640
<v Speaker 3>We thought, we thought, what's going to make this book

0:55:40.680 --> 0:55:44.040
<v Speaker 3>great by putting in as many genres as possible, But head.

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:45.520
<v Speaker 1>On over the socials. Check out the cover. I'm looking

0:55:45.520 --> 0:55:49.200
<v Speaker 1>at it now. It's amazing. And if you are wondering, well,

0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:54.200
<v Speaker 1>what's the story about, look find out, but I will

0:55:54.280 --> 0:55:56.719
<v Speaker 1>tell you. We will reveal the story to you.

0:55:56.880 --> 0:56:00.359
<v Speaker 3>Guys. We wanted to write a book that not only

0:56:00.400 --> 0:56:02.800
<v Speaker 3>would the kids enjoy, but parents would enjoy.

0:56:02.640 --> 0:56:04.160
<v Speaker 1>It as well and then relate to us.

0:56:04.239 --> 0:56:07.200
<v Speaker 3>We all know that it's like the last piece of

0:56:07.360 --> 0:56:10.759
<v Speaker 3>the child puzzle of your day. And it's bloody hard,

0:56:11.320 --> 0:56:13.520
<v Speaker 3>especially harder if you've got a ship book to read.

0:56:13.760 --> 0:56:15.879
<v Speaker 1>And let's be honest, but a lot of them are shit,

0:56:16.560 --> 0:56:16.960
<v Speaker 1>some of them.

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:18.880
<v Speaker 3>Some of them I read them. I'm like this, it's

0:56:18.960 --> 0:56:22.479
<v Speaker 3>a Disney book. Disrespect Disney, but it's a pile of crap.

0:56:23.000 --> 0:56:24.520
<v Speaker 3>If we thought of Disney can do it, we can

0:56:24.560 --> 0:56:26.640
<v Speaker 3>do it as well. So it's about Ash and myself.

0:56:26.840 --> 0:56:31.279
<v Speaker 3>We're trying to meet up, trying to escape the kids. Said,

0:56:31.360 --> 0:56:33.120
<v Speaker 3>the problem is kids getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Away absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>Disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and look, we don't want to actually get away

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<v Speaker 2>for good, just so that we can fill our cups

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<v Speaker 2>and get together and bitch about them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well said two doting dads. The Quest for free Time.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh not, don't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't give them the option to back out.

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<v Speaker 1>Be like do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, I will do it and then you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh no.

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<v Speaker 1>And they'll be like.

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<v Speaker 3>I just love to give people options. Don't give them

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<v Speaker 3>Jam Okay, now we're getting barking out too many orders.

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<v Speaker 3>Doting Dad's podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout

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<v Speaker 2>peoples today. This episode was recorded on Gadagal Land.