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Speaker 1: Is it the wind? Is it the wind? The wind

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Speaker 2: I have a grape with you real quick, nothing too major,

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Speaker 2: go on. I called you yesterday willing for a rant. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you didn't call me back to finish the rant. Do

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Speaker 2: you know what it's like singing the tune of a

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Speaker 3: You called credit to me. I answered, panting, I was

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Speaker 3: on the treadmill. You didn't even you didn't even question

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Speaker 3: deal with what's the deal with married couples who were celebrities?

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Speaker 3: And I was just like, can I call you back?

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Speaker 3: And You're like, you never did give me half an

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Speaker 3: hour of peace. Welcome back to two noting dads.

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Speaker 1: I am Maddie Jay and I'm disappointed.

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Speaker 3: This is a podcast all about parenting.

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Speaker 1: It is the good, the bad, and the disappointing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: actually disappointed day and the relatable.

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Speaker 3: Tell me what the grape was?

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Speaker 2: A slow news day must have been for the wider

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Speaker 2: community in the news area. Not that I fall within

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Speaker 2: that category, but apparently Nicole Kidman don't get me started, and.

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Speaker 3: Who are Just for the record, for the record, I

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Speaker 3: dislike we know that if we ever are in the

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Speaker 2: I'm going to side with her to hear out my gripe.

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Speaker 2: This was my gripe I had. Yesterday the News reported

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Speaker 2: years of being married. Great, that's not my fucking problem.

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Speaker 2: My problem here is who are they to give advice?

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, what's the advice?

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Speaker 2: I didn't hear the advice because I just got annoyed

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Speaker 2: ask someone who They probably haven't been in the same

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Speaker 2: And then she's off filming garbage movies. So how you've

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Speaker 2: googled it, haven't you? What's the advice?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what says here? Because it could be good advice.

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Speaker 3: If this is good advice, then we'll both have to

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Speaker 3: just shut up and never shit on. Nicole Keaban and

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Speaker 3: Keith urban.

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Speaker 1: Over again, no promises hit him.

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Speaker 3: I do think before I read the advice. I do

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Speaker 3: think that Look, if you're in a marriage that can

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Speaker 2: You're never in the same room together, which is like,

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Speaker 2: when are you spending any time together? I feel like

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Speaker 2: they need to get advice from fucking Shazar and Dazzer

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Speaker 2: have been together for twenty years, stuck in their fucking

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Speaker 1: Fifteen kids, and they're still together.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me find out this advice. It is Keith

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Speaker 3: Urban knows the secret to loving somebody like Nicole Kidman

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Speaker 3: asked the question what's the secret, and he goes okay.

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Speaker 3: In his defense, he says, if I answer that, it'll

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Speaker 2: So he's not giving advice. So I've been fitter news article.

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Speaker 3: And then he says, I have no advice for anybody.

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Speaker 1: Well, stomp on my grass. We're good. I've been lied

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Speaker 1: to by a traditional media. How surprising clickbait me.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, Keith and Nicole, I am sorry too. I would

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Speaker 1: of that. Enough about Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman. Should

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Speaker 1: something more important please? That is the beverage which is

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Speaker 3: This is far more superior it is.

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Speaker 3: I was out on the weekend, Ash. We had a

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Speaker 3: little barbecue, just a lobster barra mundy, oh skin on always.

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Speaker 3: I love a bit of christ you know that Lemon.

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Speaker 3: When people think about me, I want them to know

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. I'm not Bruty Aromas.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure if that was the intention making it

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Speaker 1: You know what. I think it might be gone with fish.

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Speaker 2: What is great with fish is citrus, citrusy after taste,

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Speaker 1: You're not just a pretty face, my friend Byron main bottle.

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Speaker 1: I would say cheers, some say hmm, she's my friend.

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Speaker 2: And thank you Stonewood for making this episode happen as

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Speaker 3: We wouldn't have it any other way. Can I give

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Speaker 1: It was just what have I missed? It was just

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Speaker 3: is a shame. I'm always looking. I just wait, always

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Speaker 1: What have I missed? It's the fact that Lola's giving

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Speaker 2: Oh I thought she was trying to check you out.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she was. She's so weak. I'm mistaken that my friend.

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Speaker 3: So many people said, go to see you two, to

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Speaker 3: That was the last day? That was? That was day

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Speaker 1: You were the last resort for survival, saying.

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Speaker 3: I even think she turned to Buster for a while

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Speaker 1: And no, no, you're missing a legs.

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Speaker 3: And then she was like fine, Oh, I guess, sprit.

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Speaker 3: Your chest there, man, No, it was just I was

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Speaker 3: On the fact that I knew Lola I would quickly

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Speaker 3: Well there you go, and like, okay, in the mornings,

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Speaker 1: It's great. Yeah, that's what we do, that thing.

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Speaker 3: It's our routine. And it was it was good daddy

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Speaker 3: Who wants to come? Any takers? Nah? No?

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Speaker 1: She said, nah, yeah, because I don't want to come.

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Speaker 1: Are you broke it out of here? Sure? We broke

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Speaker 2: This family exile island. Yeah it sucks, man, it sucks.

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Speaker 3: To then go away. I was working on the weekend.

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Speaker 3: Oh yes, I was in the Blue Mountains, working hard

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Speaker 3: You know. There is one thing that I love in

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Speaker 1: there's one thing I love even more. Oh yeah, stuff.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's so good, so good. Just gives you

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Speaker 1: Recharge fill your cup.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and that does not just you for other parents,

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Speaker 3: But then it was it was a shame that I

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Speaker 3: Then you know she comes back, and then the moment

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Speaker 3: I'm up there for a night, and you know, there's

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Speaker 1: I believe I know where you are going.

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Speaker 3: With this pleasure, deep erotic pleasure. It is deep and

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Speaker 3: we've been talking it up. We don't really like sex?

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Speaker 1: Are you a teenager?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I was just like, well, what did I say? I

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Speaker 3: set the mood. I was like, I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be the best thirty seconds of you laugh. No,

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Speaker 1: I think I was like, I kind of what I said.

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Speaker 1: I don't do you know?

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Speaker 3: Do you You don't write?

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Speaker 2: You don't say that I'm an adult, bro, I just

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Speaker 2: send the pictures of my dick.

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely don't do any of that. Yeah, you don't.

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Speaker 3: How do you plant this seed with April?

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Speaker 1: No vine text? That's what Joe?

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Speaker 3: What do you do? How do you make it known

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Speaker 3: that today maybe the day.

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Speaker 2: It could come different in different ways. I would say, like, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Because I know what. I knew that I had to

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Speaker 3: That's the first problem.

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Speaker 2: make it real bad. But no, you have the opportunity

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Speaker 2: a good opportunity to say that, resolve it. Think how

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Speaker 1: I did you know what? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Very well explained.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that I'm here and you're also

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you've got to have the you've got to

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Speaker 1: But you got to skip everything the Gandhi and me

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Speaker 3: We cleaned the garden. What if no one has said

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Speaker 1: We did some nice so you trimmed the pubes? All right,

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Speaker 3: Let me just say the garden didn't have any weeds

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Speaker 1: I'm uncomfortable. The hedges were fertilized trimmed, fertilized.

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Speaker 1: That video that you did did a breen job of

442
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Speaker 1: doing that.

443
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:50,239
Speaker 2: You mentioned in there though about if you were to

444
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Speaker 2: have another kid you would have a gender reveal and

445
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 2: how you would do it in a commodore. We have

446
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 2: to get a commodore. Should we get like a real

447
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 2: sick old commodore, like.

448
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a like a late nineties commodore, like a

449
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 3: ve or something. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I just want

450
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 3: like billowing smoke pink or someone's one up ja Yeah

451
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 3: big time?

452
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 1: What have they done? Also great to have inspiration if

453
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: we do.

454
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 3: Have a third kid.

455
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: You do probably have the budget for this. Three fighter

456
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: jets flying over for a gender reveal.

457
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 1: I got fucking goosebumps.

458
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 3: That is the sickest thing I've ever seen in my

459
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 3: entire life.

460
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Speaker 2: You got a budget for that, We'll find it. We'll

461
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Speaker 2: find the budget, my god.

462
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 3: Three fucking fighter jets, three fighter jets, and it was

463
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Speaker 3: a boy.

464
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: It was a boy.

465
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:45,879
Speaker 3: That is amazing.

466
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: That's a lot of productions.

467
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 3: Even just looking at.

468
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: The balloon wall that wish.

469
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 3: They had, like, that's that's got to be like one

470
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Speaker 3: hundred cago.

471
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 2: I can't hold that blue wall. That's fucking out of control.

472
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 3: I still impressive as that is. I just think the

473
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 3: co was much better.

474
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, do heaps less, get a commodore.

475
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 3: But also if there's any other ideas for gender reveals,

476
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 3: please please send them, send them in. We'd love to

477
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 3: see them. I'm over to any suggestions. I'm not locked

478
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 3: into the colodoor.

479
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: And we don't have to have video evidence. If you've

480
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 1: just got something on your mind and you thought.

481
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: Do you know what would be fucking great? Send it

482
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: to Hello at two Doting Dads dot com. Any ideas,

483
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 2: because if Matt and Laura decide they are going to

484
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 2: have another child, we will make one of those ideas happen.

485
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 3: Do you know what is a nice touch? Which high risk,

486
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 3: but I think it's worth it if you can do

487
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 3: it properly. Is when you have I normally that the

488
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 3: female will have I don't know what it's made out of.

489
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: It as a ball.

490
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: The mom this man crack him up so much, he's

491
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 3: not going to have all the equipment in the room.

492
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 2: Oh man, sorry about that, but please.

493
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Speaker 1: It sounded like a documentary female. I don't know what.

494
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 3: It's made out of, like a ceramic, like a ball.

495
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 3: She'll lop it up and then the guy will then

496
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 3: with a baseball smash it and then I quite like

497
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 3: the thought of that.

498
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 1: That's a good one, thank you.

499
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: My cousins had a golf ball and he hit the

500
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 2: golf ball and the golf all exploded. Yeah, exploded into

501
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 2: a golfer. I think he does a little bit of golf.

502
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: I don't think it's I think it's his main sport.

503
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 2: Surely we can come up with something that has never

504
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: been done. Surely, surely we'll have a think about it.

505
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,679
Speaker 3: That it would be nice to have something aerial is

506
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 3: a nice touch. Yeah, skydiver maybe like a skydiver and

507
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 3: they have you know, like at the NRL Grand Final

508
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 3: they have they parachute into the stable with the ball

509
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 3: and they have like a big flag like attached to

510
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 3: them and.

511
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: A big fan and then they fly off again.

512
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if it came in like behind the skydiver

513
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 3: was like a big flag of like a boy anyway,

514
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 3: just an idea again, can't wait this. None of this

515
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 3: has been vetoed by Laura. She doesn't ever say it,

516
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 3: but I think she's had it her way the first

517
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 3: two times. She doesn't say it's time that I took charge.

518
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 3: Put your foot down?

519
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: Thank you? What do I do want to talk about?

520
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: And I'm very proud of this, but a proud moment

521
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: for a dad because for my whole life, Matthew, I

522
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 2: have supported a particular football team by the name of

523
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: the Manly Sea Eagles. Okay, I do have a son.

524
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 2: Not wouldn't matter if it was a daughter.

525
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: I do have a daughter. Do there you go news

526
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: to me?

527
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: But Oscar is at the age now where I watch

528
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: football at home and he's like, oh, football is on

529
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: and he's noticing it. He's also going to be playing

530
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: like a form of rugby union this year. Just because

531
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: of his age under fibes, I decided to take him

532
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 2: to his first football game live.

533
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 3: I joked about it being a taste of disappointment early on.

534
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 2: For the last how many years, thirteen years, I've been

535
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 2: very disappointed because Manly hasn't won the premiership and it's

536
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 2: been really tough, lots of controversies, lots of coaches, lots

537
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: of players coming and going, except for one who's still

538
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 2: there who's breaking records. But it was David Cherry Evan's

539
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: three hundred and tenth game and it was against the

540
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: reigning Premiers Panthers.

541
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: Now I know a lot of people that are like, fuck,

542
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: I don't really give a shit about football. It's not

543
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: the point. So just hang in there for this story.

544
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: Can I just also highlight that three hundred and ten games,

545
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 3: that's the record for Manly. Yeah, most games played, so

546
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 3: big occasion, very big deal, very big deal.

547
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: But I took your advice.

548
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: One of the thought, let's get into this game, getting

549
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: used to the disappointment that backfiright because they won. We

550
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 2: went with another friend and his kid who's been before,

551
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: so he knew what to expect. Same age, a little

552
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 2: bit younger than Oscar. But you know, we sat in

553
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 2: that weaseled my way to the friends and family area.

554
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 3: How do you do that?

555
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: Never? You mind? And well right at the front is

556
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: great because and there's the.

557
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: The All the players come up past there because their

558
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 2: families are there.

559
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: So Oscar's like, what the fuck's going on here and then.

560
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: They have two eagle mascots they come up and take

561
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: photos of the kids. It was brilliant and I was

562
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: sitting there with him thinking, holy shit, this is why

563
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: you do it.

564
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

565
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 2: This was a moment where it's like this why core

566
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: core call memory? Hard call memory. And I was like,

567
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 2: you know, trying to you know, because you know.

568
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: What toddlers are like of that age.

569
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 2: Well, kids at that age like four and a half,

570
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: they get distracted really easy. As soon as the fireworks

571
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:40,479
Speaker 2: went off, by the way, daytime fireworks, it's good. The noise,

572
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 2: bit of fire, bit of smoke. He was like, holy fuck, yeah,

573
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: when are the fireworks coming back?

574
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, whenever we score, there's gonna be fire.

575
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: Did they put fireworks at the start? Yeah?

576
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was like five o'clock.

577
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And they're like they're kind of like smoke works.

578
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 2: There's no fire involved.

579
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,719
Speaker 1: Interesting call from at a home game. Blew the whole budget.

580
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 2: He was following along with the score because he can

581
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 2: read numbers now, can't count that high. So when Manly

582
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 2: started to really flog them and he's like what number

583
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: is that, I was like, that's right, son, it's high

584
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 2: it's up.

585
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: You know, Manly's doing well when I can't even read

586
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: the score.

587
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: I did say to him early on, I said, it's

588
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: Manly versus the Panthers, very specifically, but because we beat

589
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: them so badly, he started calling them the pandas.

590
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 3: Yes, love that and take that.

591
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, take that. So you know, Daddy had a few

592
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: beers because I was excited.

593
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 3: Did it make it more special? Like it's a big

594
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 3: game to win against, a huge game to win. Yeah,

595
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 3: like core memories for Oscar. But to me, that's that's

596
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 3: pretty He's.

597
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: Never going to another game again, so he can hold

598
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 2: his perfect record.

599
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 3: But it must be pretty I don't want to sound

600
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 3: corny here, but it must pretty magical as.

601
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: It was awesome honestly, one of the highlights of my

602
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 2: parenting career. Wow, So me and Cherry had big days

603
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 2: that day. Oscar got to meet daily Cherry Evans.

604
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: It was brilliant. And then you.

605
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 2: Know, making the way out of the fortress and it

606
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 2: was like, fuck, what a successful afternoon is?

607
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 3: Anything you do differently?

608
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: No, I think get there early with them. They love it.

609
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 2: Honestly, we got there pretty early because there's like a

610
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 2: New South Wales game before like that's how we got

611
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: into that. We just walked into this section, got a

612
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: wristband and then we're in there. But like right at

613
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 2: the front, kids are a lot of As soon as

614
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: any player walk past, you know they're giving them away,

615
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 2: and which is a credit to the NRL, both teams Penrith,

616
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 2: Pandas and Manly. Anytime that a sub would walk past

617
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: and there was all these kids in the area.

618
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: I was they were The players were like hey, like it.

619
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: Was great, misimagining all the kids there and you're there

620
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 3: like wedged in between them, like HET's me.

621
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: But it was great, and I just wanted to highlight

622
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: that it was very, very one of my favorite parenting moments.

623
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Speaker 1: I think that is beautiful.

624
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 3: Yet to take Marley to any kind I took it

625
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: to a cricket match when she was two. Didn't like it,

626
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 3: as you can appreciate.

627
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: It's just like, do you don't like pointing out players?

628
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: That's it. That's it. And she was the lab of Shane.

629
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 3: But I cannot wait.

630
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: Oh. I was really.

631
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 2: Apprehensive at first because you know, he is only four

632
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 2: and a half, well nearly five actually in a couple

633
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: of months. But like they're so easily distracted. They get

634
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 2: so easily bored with him.

635
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean probably three or four movies

636
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 3: with the kids a couple of times loved it. It's

637
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 3: that the way through, start to finish. A couple of

638
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 3: times after that five minutes and they're like, well I'm done. Yeah,

639
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,719
Speaker 3: I'm sit down any longer. And you know, I imagine,

640
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 3: I can imagine if imagine if like halftime, you know,

641
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: game was on the line, Manly is winning, an Oscar's like,

642
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: I want to go home.

643
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: Too bad. He didn't even mention that he wanted to

644
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: go home, which I was shocked.

645
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 3: Well, congratulations, not just to Manly but to you as dad.

646
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: As a sports fan. It's a milestone. Winds are around

647
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: for dad.

648
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: It's easy to forget just how much of an impact

649
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: that is on Oscar's little life. Yeah, obviously it's a

650
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: core memory for you as a parent, being like, hey,

651
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: this is one of the highlights. I still remember. My

652
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 3: mum took me to my very first game, Yeah, to

653
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 3: Bristin Broncos. It was Petro seven receiver's first game. I remember,

654
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 3: it's weird. I remember it was aynz Ed Stadium and

655
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,959
Speaker 3: it was me and my mom and I don't know

656
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: she was in for some reason. I think she was

657
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 3: just like trying to give me lots of experiences that

658
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 3: little kids would enjoy. And you know, she pushed me

659
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 3: into cricket, pushed me into NRL, and that to me

660
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 3: sticks in my mind.

661
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it's easy to forget that.

662
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: Oscar is going to remember that for the rest of

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Speaker 3: his life.

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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely.

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Speaker 2: There's like when I was a kid too, Like I

666
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Speaker 2: remember going to brook Vale Oval, you know, as as

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Speaker 2: at a similar age.

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Speaker 1: It's like wild.

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Speaker 2: I vividly remember going to a Sydney King's game when

670
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Speaker 2: I was a few years older than that. And the

671
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Speaker 2: only reason I vividly remember that is that we were

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Speaker 2: in a photo in the paper, me, my sister and

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Speaker 2: the Big Lions.

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Speaker 1: And the only reason I remember it is my sister's

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Speaker 1: fly was down, so cool memory.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and look, honestly, we'll go again as much as

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Speaker 2: we can.

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Speaker 1: We have to bring Marley lungs each other, do it.

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Speaker 2: Do it in a friendship kind of waymon take because

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Speaker 2: he hopes me. Also, speaking of football, Ko has got

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Speaker 2: you covered this footy season with every game of every

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Speaker 2: round live and add break free during.

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Speaker 3: Play ash can I just really quickly give a shout

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Speaker 3: out to Brisbane Broncos. They will be playing the Raiders

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Speaker 3: on Saturday. Gosh, it's a big game. What would you

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Speaker 3: do if Manly and Brisbane are in the finals together,

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Speaker 3: We'd have to sit on different sides of the stadium.

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Speaker 1: I'd be torn. The way that you guys gave up

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Speaker 1: the win last year. I'm not worried. What else have

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Speaker 1: they got? Man Well?

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Speaker 3: Can Ferrari get both cars back onto the podium in China?

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Speaker 3: Don't miss any of the action live and four K

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Speaker 2: will be there just let you know. So if you

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Speaker 2: over say hi, and I will also capable.

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Speaker 3: and film it.

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Speaker 1: Film it.

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Speaker 2: I want to just run a scenario by you and

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Speaker 2: if it's ever happened to you and the circumstance in

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Speaker 2: which had happened to me. So on Thursdays, as you know,

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Speaker 2: I have Macy on Thursdays, but because Oscar.

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Speaker 1: Finishes candy, it like three point thirty on Thursday.

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Speaker 2: What I'll usually do in April's working from home instead

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Speaker 2: of bringing them both home, and it'd be chaos for

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Speaker 2: to try and wrap up her week because it's her

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Speaker 2: last day of the week. I usually pick them up,

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Speaker 2: and I go to there's a shopping center with a

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Speaker 2: Baker's Delight. But across from that is a park right

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Speaker 2: next to where we can park the car. So we

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Speaker 2: get out, go get something from the Bakers, like, come

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Speaker 2: back to this park.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this has ever happened to you,

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Speaker 2: A bit of a strange one got out of the car,

734
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Speaker 2: went and got.

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Speaker 1: The Baxers, like, come back to the park gated.

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Speaker 2: It's like a gated community, but the car spots are

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Speaker 2: right up against the gate.

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Speaker 1: So I walk in with the kids. Bakers are like they're.

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Speaker 2: Running around blah blah blah blah blah, and I've gone,

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Speaker 2: oh shit, left my phone in the car.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what am I going to do in the park?

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Speaker 1: You know? And I was like, I better just go

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Speaker 1: get my phone.

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Speaker 2: I can still see them, right I go out the gate,

745
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: cars right there, and I come back.

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Speaker 1: There's some people in the park still as well. It's

747
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Speaker 1: not like a park in the middle of the.

748
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Speaker 3: Roughly just give me a distance from the gate of

749
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Speaker 3: the park ten meters, okay.

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Speaker 2: Is that I don't take I can't. I can't lose

751
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 2: sight of them whatsoever. That's not the issue. The issue

752
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: is I've walked back into a park, so people have

753
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Speaker 2: walked into the park while I wasn't in the park.

754
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: Now picture this, I've walked into a park with no

755
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Speaker 2: kids with a phone and just walked my way into

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Speaker 2: a park to a dark and dingy corner of the

757
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Speaker 2: park to be on my own. The people that have

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Speaker 2: come into the park while I wasn't, I've probably now

759
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: a shit that this guy just walked into a park.

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Speaker 2: Did someone say something to someone said something to me?

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Speaker 1: What they say?

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00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 2: They walked up to me. I'm standing there on my phone,

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Speaker 2: not filming the kids. It kind of might have looked

764
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Speaker 2: like I was filming kids, and she walks.

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Speaker 1: Up to me. She was like, do you do you

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Speaker 1: have any kids in the park. I was like classic

767
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Speaker 1: me style. I thought I'd just fuck with her a bit.

768
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: I was like, no, the fuck is and then Oscar's

769
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Speaker 2: run over and grabbed told.

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Speaker 1: Him and her face.

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Speaker 2: She was so embarrassed, To be fair, but I just

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Speaker 2: fucked with her a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: I just was like, like he used here, and then

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Speaker 1: I started to you know what my personality having a

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Speaker 1: bit of a laugh with her, and moved on. But

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Speaker 1: has it like Honestly, I am not a predator.

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Speaker 2: Looks can be to see it, But at that moment

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Speaker 2: I felt what a predator would have felt, and I

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Speaker 2: didn't like it.

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Speaker 1: I did not like it. But just the circumstance in

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Speaker 1: which that happened to me, that's that's fucking that's put

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Speaker 1: on her.

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Speaker 2: For coming up to be like yeah, because it's kind

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Speaker 2: of like, I get what they would have seen. They

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00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: would have seen fully grown cut man covered in tattoos,

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Speaker 2: walk in mustache hat on.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, wait wait wait wait wait wait.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a bit much.

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Speaker 1: To do that. She's looking at for the kids.

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Speaker 3: She's looking at for the kids. Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 3: you're not doing anything which is which is warranting of

792
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Speaker 3: someone kind of like pulling you up.

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Speaker 1: No, the only thing that I could think of was

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Speaker 1: that I had no pants on. No I was.

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Speaker 2: I you know, I just gingerly walked in and walking

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Speaker 2: around with my phone to like a corner of the.

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Speaker 1: Kids park and just stood us. I probably did in

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Speaker 1: the moment. I don't think you do. It just looks

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Speaker 1: suss enough for someone who walking What were you doing?

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Speaker 2: I was walking like Randall from Monsters, Inc. Okay, a

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00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 2: little bit skeevy. And did she apologize, Yeah, profusely.

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Speaker 1: She was very embarrassed. I was like, good on you,

803
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 1: which was wrong of me. No, I think I couldn't

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Speaker 1: help myself.

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Speaker 3: I think you react in the same way.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I had to go through that a few times. I

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00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: don't want to say this, but a few times. And

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00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 3: we've been like together, and like I've gone to the

810
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Speaker 3: bathroom and I've come back, and you've been with Marley.

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Speaker 3: People have said do you know this guy? And I said,

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00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, he's a friend of mine. Okay, wearing

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00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 3: any pants, no pants, and he's got a.

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Speaker 1: Mustache full brain. You just got that kind of like

815
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Speaker 1: get that look about you that you're up to no good.

816
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm skiving.

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00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 3: Let's not bring up your criminal record.

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00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 2: No, let's not do that anyway. Obviously it's never happened

819
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Speaker 2: to you, or has it. You did try and coax

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Speaker 2: some kids back to your house.

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Speaker 3: That was one time there was anyone Anyone doesn't know

822
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Speaker 3: they're trying to sell candy.

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Speaker 1: I didn't have cash cash back at my house. Let's

824
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Speaker 1: not go into it.

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Speaker 3: That's I've not had that happen to me, not yet,

826
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Speaker 3: not yet anyway, good to hear.

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Speaker 1: Not yet. Let's go into my favorite segment, meltdowns. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's a.

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Speaker 3: Fun Can I tell you a quick meltdown this morning

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Speaker 3: at the moment it's a little bit colder in Sydney

831
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Speaker 3: right now, winter is creeping in. Kids are into porridge

832
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Speaker 3: and made porridge this morning. Marley, big fan of porridge,

833
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Speaker 3: big porridge girl loves it. And she looked at it

834
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Speaker 3: started bawling her eyes out and I was like, what's wrong.

835
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Speaker 3: She goes, it's got milk in it. Like that's the

836
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 3: whole fucking point of porridge porridges unless you're a freak

837
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Speaker 3: like my mom and she has water.

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00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: Actually, I have done it for desperate times. I asked

839
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,959
Speaker 2: her how to melt down similar sort of situation where

840
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 2: he wanted usually in yogurt, and I put it in

841
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 2: a pink bowl instead of any other color bowl and

842
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 2: it would ended up on the floor.

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00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: Man, okay, picture of this, Matt.

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Speaker 2: I have gone to Kmart Okay, quite a big shop

845
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 2: as we know there there's all sorts of things for people.

846
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 3: Who aren't familiar with Kmart. They sell many goods from

847
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 3: home weares to sporting.

848
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: Goods, probably by the brand name of.

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00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 3: Ancho fucking great brand.

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00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 2: Anyway, there's lots of stuff in there, and you think

851
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: in a meltdown segment about kids that a kid might

852
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: be melting.

853
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 1: Down a toy. Not in this case.

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00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 2: Go on, I am in the kitchen section and I

855
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: hear this kid.

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00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 1: I date it, and I immediately thought toy. I really

857
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: thought toy.

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00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 2: And anyway, I've heard it a few times with this

859
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 2: kid not being either stopped or removed or whatever.

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00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 1: This kid's having a food meltdown.

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00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 2: I need it, I need it, screaming very loud, one

862
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 2: of those loud kids. You know, I do feel sorry

863
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 2: for that household because that child is loud as fuck.

864
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: And I pop around the corner and see all these

865
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 2: people like looking, and I'm like, what's going on here?

866
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: This kid has clung onto a trolley, like you know

867
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: how Tolally got this tiny little bars and you can

868
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: wrap your fingers around here.

869
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: And really get a good grip. He's got a good

870
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: grip of this trolley and it's shaken it like this,

871
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: like fucking giving it a good old fucking go, and

872
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: he's gone, I need it. I need it, like kicking

873
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: and screaming.

874
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 2: Anyway, the parent didn't do anything about it pretty much

875
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 2: and just let.

876
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: It play out.

877
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm going to completely ignore this

878
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 2: as much as I can, as much as I wanted

879
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 2: to stand and watch, I was like, this would be

880
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: over in a moment.

881
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: I finished my shopping.

882
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm in the checkout line, which is no cas in

883
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 2: the middle. This guy's at the front door having this meltdown.

884
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: Ten minutes it had been ten whole minutes that this

885
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: kid screamed and screamed his head off.

886
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: I can hear your frustration directed towards the mum a

887
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 1: little bit.

888
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think you can't.

889
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll take that back.

890
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 2: I'm not going to judge the mum because that's not

891
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: very fair, correct And I agree with that.

892
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: Why didn't anyone remove the child from the situation? It

893
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: would look straw music for everybody.

894
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 3: But then how about this? What about if that mum

895
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: needs to do a bloody shopping at kmart, So for

896
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 3: her to like leave Camart is going to be a

897
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 3: huge meltdown. She's going to come back into Kmar.

898
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: There's nothing critical at Camar you need. How do you

899
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 2: know that she named one critical item in Cama that

900
00:43:54,920 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 2: you would need microwave. Damn, it will die in the

901
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 2: house unless you get a microbe. Okay, I get what

902
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: you're saying.

903
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 3: She could be at her wits end, and she could

904
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 3: be at the point of having a menty bee.

905
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: Meanty be away baby.

906
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 3: But then she could just be like, you know, I

907
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 3: just don't have the energy to even try and attack

908
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 3: this little meltdown because the kid might be dealing with

909
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 3: something that's fair.

910
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 2: Usually meltdowns are really funny mat That's what I'm getting at,

911
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 2: but this one was a little bit.

912
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 3: You should have gone over, given her a hug and

913
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 3: said it's gonna be I just got a.

914
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: Question about being a predator, and I'm hugging random women.

915
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 2: We're wearing pants, right, No, I just wanted to highlight

916
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 2: it because it's been on my mind.

917
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: I feel sorry for the mum.

918
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 2: The grandmother was also there, I think, but I do

919
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 2: feel sorry for them because you don't know what they're

920
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: going through. And I don't want to sit here and

921
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 2: judge people, because that sucks. I would hate if someone

922
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: judged me. But also, shut that fucking kid up.

923
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 3: My kids have a meltdown. I find the best thing

924
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 3: is and this is not me giving advice. This is

925
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 3: just me explaining to judgmental parents like yourself, we go

926
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,760
Speaker 3: on a kmart and fucking throw shade at other people

927
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 3: who are having identfull time. I have said finished, the

928
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 3: quickest she reaches her peak, the quickest you'll come back down.

929
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: Do you think that's what this parent was? I think so.

930
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: I think she don't know.

931
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 3: She was probably like, why is Billy taking ten minutes

932
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 3: with this meltdown?

933
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: This is not normal. I didn't know. I didn't know

934
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: that was a thing. See ignorance, But also shut your

935
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:30,879
Speaker 1: kid up a little bit.

936
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 2: Like if it was me, I'm not that my my

937
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: method is right, I would just go We could always

938
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 2: come back to kmar. I could always come back in

939
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 2: some instance or circumstance. I can always find my way

940
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 2: back to come Do you know why? Because the sign

941
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 2: is just huge and I know where it is. But

942
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 2: if he's there having a complete crazy meltdown.

943
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 3: What about if she took the bar it took four

944
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 3: buses to get to kmart, and I'm like, did that

945
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 3: ever end to your mind? Maybe she took her like

946
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 3: three hours to get the kmart and she needed the microwave?

947
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: How poor are you so you need to get a bus.

948
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,760
Speaker 1: She could be homeless. I'm not going down that way again,

949
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: because let's move on.

950
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 2: If you wanted to successfully make me feel bad, you've

951
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: done it, so thank you.

952
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 3: As she did time for questions. Also just wanted to

953
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 3: reiterate that we would love to have any of your

954
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 3: questions admitted. You can do it two ways. One is

955
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 3: via our instagram at two Doting Dads against in a DM,

956
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 3: or you can email us.

957
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: At hello at two Doting Dads dot com.

958
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 3: The first question is Ash, what do you wish you

959
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 3: were better at as a parent?

960
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 2: Oh? Good question, I think for me and I actually

961
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 2: tried to practice.

962
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: This on the weekend. Okay, bear with me.

963
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,720
Speaker 2: When you do go to the park with your kidders,

964
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 2: just say it's a Sunday morning, which it was a

965
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 2: Sunday morning, Like, okay, this morning, you got to get

966
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: these kids out of the house. You've got to get

967
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 2: them down in the park, burn some energy so they

968
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 2: can go home have lunch. Then we've got to pretty

969
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 2: much do the same thing again because they just recoep

970
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 2: their energy so quickly. But I often find myself going

971
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 2: to the park and with my phone in my pocket

972
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: end up on my phone. It's so easy done. It

973
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 2: could be a quick message and then you just end

974
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 2: up doom scrolling. So what I did was I left

975
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 2: the phone in the car. I felt like a pretty

976
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: good person when I did that at first, which you know,

977
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 2: as you do into the park, I'm on the zip

978
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 2: line thing with Oscar, the swing with Oscar, the spinny

979
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 2: thing with me, see that, whatever it is. And then

980
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 2: I see a made of mine who's in the park

981
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 2: on his phone and I was like, oh when I

982
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 2: was a good eight and his wife was.

983
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: There playing with the kid and he's on his phone.

984
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I leave my phone in

985
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 2: the car, you know, I just find that like.

986
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 3: Kids get away.

987
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: And then I just said to April after they left,

988
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm just gonna get my phone out of

989
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 2: the garden.

990
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: So I wish I was better.

991
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 2: At sticking to separating that. Look, parks are boring. Fuck

992
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: they're boring.

993
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: I hate it.

994
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 2: But I have noticed the times that I've done something

995
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 2: similar like that, Like I was on the zip line,

996
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 2: I was helping Oscar.

997
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: There was other kids on the zip line too, I

998
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: was wearing pants.

999
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 3: Thank you for clarifying.

1000
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: And it just felt like it was a more fun environment.

1001
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: Dude, I'm one hundred percent the same. I it's so

1002
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 3: freaking easy to get distracted, especially weekends. I'm pretty good,

1003
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: like I can focus with the kids, but like during

1004
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 3: the week kids come home, it's like five point thirty,

1005
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 3: there's a little bit of the little gap before you

1006
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 3: start having dinner.

1007
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 1: And they were all ratty from kindom, and yeah, they're.

1008
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 3: All tired, and but a few times Miley's wanted to

1009
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 3: play and I'm just like, oh, just needs a rat

1010
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 3: and then like, hey, sometimes that's fine, but I've been

1011
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 3: I've been a bit shit.

1012
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: The last we can it's easy done. Yeah, I'm in this.

1013
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 3: Bad routine of just like and even having dinner on

1014
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 3: my phone, getting the bath and then I know, you know,

1015
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 3: give a few minutes in the bar before I start

1016
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 3: go through a routine of like washing them and brushing

1017
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 3: the teeth and just on my phone again. And I'm like, dude,

1018
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 3: I've got like arthritis in my thumb. Yeah, scrolling too much.

1019
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 3: It's a real bloody problem. But it's so nice. Someone

1020
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: said to me, it's just trying to do ten minutes

1021
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 3: ten minutes of like kids are your attention, not on

1022
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 3: your phone, and I'm the same. I actually thought about

1023
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 3: when I picked the kids up from daycare, I'm going

1024
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 3: to leave my phone in the car. Yeah that way,

1025
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm just not tempted because if it's in my pocket.

1026
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. And look, I did.

1027
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: An hour at the Park of Self Righteousness, which that's

1028
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 2: katty impressive for an hour.

1029
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 1: Lady was talking to a mate.

1030
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 3: Was Oscar like, can you just back off? Leave me alone?

1031
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 3: And also, in light of the disagreement with Laura, I'd

1032
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 3: be better at better communication with my wife. Yeah, that's

1033
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 3: what I need to get on that one. Yeah, that's

1034
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 3: one thing an idiot, no phone and communicator.

1035
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 2: Taking aside Laura that one. Thank you, but also your

1036
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 2: feelings are valid. Thank you, thank you what I did there.

1037
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: Your question, My question is it's from erin. Do you

1038
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 2: guys actually not care.

1039
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: What our bodies look like after kids? That's all we've

1040
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: got time?

1041
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:36,760
Speaker 3: I think. I think when I was I was ready

1042
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 3: for the fact that Laura's body was going to go

1043
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 3: through a hell of a lot of change trauma too, Yeah,

1044
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 3: because of pregnancy and then childbirth. I think for me,

1045
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 3: the biggest deterrent from having sex with Laura was the

1046
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 3: fact that I was so afraid that it was going

1047
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 3: to be painful for her.

1048
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Yeah, I can't remember how long we waited.

1049
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 1: I think it was a day or two. I'm joking,

1050
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: not a joke, joking. Put the pitchforks down, A joking, madam.

1051
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 3: I can't remember. Okay, So when Marley was born, Laura

1052
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,919
Speaker 3: had an episiotomy. And for any guys that are listening

1053
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 3: who don't know what that is, it means you need

1054
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: to have a cut made during childbirth, which is stitched up.

1055
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:26,280
Speaker 3: And where is the cut cut is downstairs. So Laura

1056
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,240
Speaker 3: had to go through that with the birth of Marley.

1057
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 3: Very traumatic and I can't remember how long it was,

1058
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 3: but I remember Laura was like, hey, I'm now ready

1059
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 3: to have sex again. And I was like, I was like,

1060
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 3: are you sure you didn't need more time? And she

1061
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 3: was like no, like, let's do it.

1062
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: I don't think I think it took a few turns.

1063
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 3: I was really worried. I was like, yeah, this is

1064
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 3: we don't have to do this. That was my biggest

1065
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 3: qualm in my head.

1066
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't worried about I wasn't worried about baby.

1067
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 3: Wait, I wasn't like, hey, it's been a couple of

1068
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 3: months now that baby waits hanging around.

1069
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: Are we're gonna sort that out? Remembers you Merry Christmas?

1070
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 2: Oh, there'd be they'd be dudes out there like that. Yeah,

1071
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 2: and if they are, fuck you dudes, block us. No,

1072
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: actually we need the listeners.

1073
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's April had.

1074
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: Obviously two c sections, so the first one was it's

1075
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 2: like going major surgery. So there's like she pushed for

1076
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 2: so long, which also traumatized the vagina area.

1077
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: And then also had to be cut open.

1078
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 2: So it was like my main priority was obviously her

1079
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 2: recovering from a major surgery, and sexual organs were not

1080
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 2: like hurry up.

1081
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: And when I hear.

1082
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 3: About guys who are like, hey, work, when are we

1083
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 3: gonna Like when are we?

1084
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: When are we going to do this?

1085
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 3: Get back on the sex train, Like you're just a

1086
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 3: boy bro. Yeah, you know a man who's who's educating

1087
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 3: these young men.

1088
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 2: It's fuck day. It's funck day when you hear shit

1089
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: like that. But people are like, I think it's not

1090
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:03,399
Speaker 2: about you, bro.

1091
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: Jerk off.

1092
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 3: For a couple more monthsly, the only person who was

1093
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 3: putting pressure on Laura to get back into the gym

1094
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 3: to start exercising again. Was herself like she kind of

1095
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 3: wanted to. You know, it's hard to exercise when you're

1096
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 3: eight months with any time of pregnancy, and then even

1097
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 3: then after birth. She was kind of like, I want to,

1098
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 3: I want to feel good again.

1099
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: And it's not just physically too mentally.

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Speaker 2: April was like a big thing about out of the

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Speaker 2: gym and wanted to get back in the gym as

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Speaker 2: soon as she could. Wasn't physically for a physical health,

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Speaker 2: that was for a mental health.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So again, it's not about us, and I don't

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Speaker 1: give a didn't give a shit about what weight she

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Speaker 1: would put on or whatever after it was whether she

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00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: was feeling okay, that's my answer. Yeah, I'm the same.

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Speaker 3: I think anyone who was putting pressure on their partner

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Speaker 3: to try and return the body back to pre baby shape,

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Speaker 3: get real.

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Speaker 1: It's an absolute dick.

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Speaker 2: Get real loser, and then our way, we'll knock them out.

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Speaker 2: We'll do a very bad wow, bigger than us.

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Speaker 4: Then.

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Speaker 3: No, if they're under five foot seven, send them, we'll

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Speaker 3: set them out. Anyone who was six foot no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: no no.

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Speaker 2: Anyone over six foot one and a half, well Matthew,

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Speaker 2: we can finally reveal something we've been working on for

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Speaker 2: days now.

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Speaker 1: It's been countless days and sleepless nights.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been a labor of love.

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Speaker 1: You'd call it very much, so I would agree.

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Speaker 3: And the deal has been done.

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Speaker 1: It has.

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Speaker 3: We've been mulling over this deal with Penguin Books for

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Speaker 3: a long time.

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Speaker 1: And when publishing, to be specific, has been done.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't easy. Actually, we were like, look, whatever you're

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Speaker 3: from the.

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Speaker 1: Table, will take it.

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Speaker 3: The book, the book we are writing, Two Doting Dads,

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Speaker 3: The Quest for Free Time, arguably a book which will

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Speaker 3: break all sorts.

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Speaker 1: Of sorts of unofficial records.

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Speaker 3: It is available for pre sale purchase.

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Speaker 1: Yes, there is a link in ours, so there's a

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Speaker 1: link in the show notes for this.

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Speaker 3: That's correct.

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Speaker 1: Also on both of our socials and the Two Doting Dads.

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Speaker 3: And if you'd love to see the cover please, I

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00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 3: thought you'd never ask, head to our socials. It is there,

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00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 3: we posted on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: But the story is heartfelt, humorous, convention. We've got it all.

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00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 3: We thought, we thought, what's going to make this book

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Speaker 3: great by putting in as many genres as possible, But head.

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Speaker 1: On over the socials. Check out the cover. I'm looking

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00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: at it now. It's amazing. And if you are wondering, well,

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Speaker 1: what's the story about, look find out, but I will

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Speaker 1: tell you. We will reveal the story to you.

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Speaker 3: Guys. We wanted to write a book that not only

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Speaker 3: would the kids enjoy, but parents would enjoy.

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Speaker 1: It as well and then relate to us.

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Speaker 3: We all know that it's like the last piece of

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00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 3: the child puzzle of your day. And it's bloody hard,

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00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 3: especially harder if you've got a ship book to read.

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00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 1: And let's be honest, but a lot of them are shit,

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00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: some of them.

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00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 3: Some of them I read them. I'm like this, it's

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00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,479
Speaker 3: a Disney book. Disrespect Disney, but it's a pile of crap.

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00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 3: If we thought of Disney can do it, we can

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Speaker 3: do it as well. So it's about Ash and myself.

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00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 3: We're trying to meet up, trying to escape the kids. Said,

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Speaker 3: the problem is kids getting.

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Speaker 1: Away absolutely.

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00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 3: Disaster.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and look, we don't want to actually get away

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Speaker 2: for good, just so that we can fill our cups

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00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 2: and get together and bitch about them.

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Speaker 3: Well said two doting dads. The Quest for free Time.

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Speaker 3: We hope you enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: If you've enjoyed this episode, please please please close, give

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00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 2: a little review, share it with someone who needs a

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00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: little bit of a laugh.

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Speaker 3: Oh not, don't say that.

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Speaker 1: Don't.

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00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 3: Don't give them the option to back out.

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Speaker 1: Be like do it?

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Speaker 2: Do that.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, I will do it and then you're like,

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Speaker 3: oh no.

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00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: And they'll be like.

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00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 3: I just love to give people options. Don't give them

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00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 3: the option not to send it over. Also, any other

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00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 3: suggestions for guests, we would love to hear them. And

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Speaker 3: if you would like to subscribe, do whatever you have

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00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 3: to do on the platforms that listen to us to

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00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 3: make sure that.

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Speaker 1: We're locked in.

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Speaker 3: We're not going anywhere. We would appreciate that especially. We

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00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 3: would appreciate a review and any comments.

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Speaker 1: On our podcast and follow on the Instagram. Why not

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00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 1: follow as well?

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Speaker 3: Jam Okay, now we're getting barking out too many orders.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you guys next week for a year later.

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Speaker 1: Two.

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Speaker 3: Doting Dad's podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout

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Speaker 3: Australia and the connections to land, sea and community.

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Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and torrestrate Islander

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Speaker 2: peoples today. This episode was recorded on Gadagal Land.