WEBVTT - How do you know if they are 'THE ONE'? 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:22.120 Hi, guys, and welcome back for another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:26.239 I'm Laura and I'm Brittany. Hi Brittany, I've missed you 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:26.760 this week. 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:30.560 You've been busy. I haven't seen you. I know. It's 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:33.000 the longest time we've ever gone. Oh my gosh, how 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:34.080 did you coat you? Poor me? 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:36.800 It was a tough week. No, I've had two copies 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.440 this morning. I'm feeling jacked. Oh I'm only one d 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:44.279 So this is a Sunday morning, guys. On Valentine's Day weekend? 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.360 What did you do for V Day? Nothing? Guys. 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:50.199 We missed our ask Uncut episode this week, and that 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:52.839 is because there's been a few things going down. But 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.640 one of them was that my grandfather was really unwell 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:58.360 and I've been done in Wollongong with him. Our family 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.520 has been rallied around him. But you know what, he's 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.200 actually come a bit better over the last couple of days. 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:05.760 So that was well, I feel like we're getting into 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:08.399 our suckond sweet already. That was definitely the massive low light. 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.040 But the fact that he's doing a little bit better 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:12.520 at the moment is great. But he's also a huge 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.240 part of your life, right Yeah, massive, like he was 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.759 my father figure growing up. So it's been Yeah, it's 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:20.920 been a really, really tough couple of days. So I 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:24.160 spent most of Valentine's Day with him down at the hospital, 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.520 and then I spent the evening with Matt and we 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:31.319 had a no phone, no TV takeaway dinner, sitting on 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:33.480 the couch, just having a chat. 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.360 I love that. I love screen ban and. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.320 It was enforced by him. We sat down with our 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:39.560 pizza and I was like, what are we going to 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.399 watch tonight? Matt was like, let's just talk about our. 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:45.840 Feelings and I was like, you are so weird and 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:46.520 I like it. 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:48.920 You were actually messaging me before your screen band, so 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.120 otherwise you were like doing it under the pillow so 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.440 he couldn't see because you told me about your pepperin pizza. 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:55.680 Oh yeah, no, no, I was still on my screen during 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.280 screen band. Whenever he left the room, I was like, 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.480 Brittany helped me. I have to talk to my partner. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:01.200 Dear God, I don't know what to talk to him about. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:02.240 Give me some content. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:06.520 Oh that actually sounds nice because you two probably actually. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:09.440 Don't stop often and just sit there and talk like 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.079 you guys have lives at a million miles an hour 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:12.640 all the time. 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.560 So it's nice just to sit down and talk. 0:02:14.760 --> 0:02:17.200 It is nice to sit down and talk and be like, hey, 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:18.880 that's right, we're engaged. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:22.840 How have you been dad? How is your Valentine's Day? 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:27.480 My v day actually escalated super quickly. It was supposed 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.120 to be just like low key. I had a Gallantine's 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:33.679 Day with my girlfriends. There were five of us, and 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.080 two of them are married. Three of us were not. 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:38.520 So the two that are married sacrifice their love day 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:40.000 because they were like stuff that I want to come 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:42.440 out with the girls so overrated. I feel like, if 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:46.000 you're in a long term relationship, you can just celebrate 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:48.760 your love on a totally different day when every freaking 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.960 restaurant in Sydney is not booked out. So I'm all 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.600 for being like, seebabe, stay home with the kids. I'm 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:56.400 going out with the girls for sure. And we'll get 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.000 to that in a second about what we actually think 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:01.760 about Valentine's Day. But we went to dinner at Toddy's because. 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.320 We are obsessed with Toddy. 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:07.040 We went to dinner at Toddy's. We just started drinking. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.440 The champagne was flowing. Before I knew it. 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.760 I was outside the Royal and I met a guy there. 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:15.280 Of course he did, yeah, he Oh my god, I 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:17.720 haven't shown you the video yet. A video surfaced of 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:19.799 he and I doing the macarina out the front of 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.720 the Royal and I don't even remember it, but my 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.920 girlfriend apparently filmed it. He asked for my number. I 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.400 got mad at him because he didn't remember my name. 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.480 I said, I'll give you my number if you remember 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.600 my name, and he's like, shit, I forgot. Why do 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.720 people always forget my name? Is it not memorable? 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:34.280 Member, baby? 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.920 It's because you keep meeting guys who are blind drunk 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:37.640 at the pub. 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:40.160 No, I'm that was why they don't remember your name. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:43.160 Anyway, I gave him my number, but I put it 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.280 in as the girl that you can't remember her name. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:46.640 I forgot. 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:48.880 I even did this fast forward to the next day 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:50.720 and I get a message from him. So yesterday I 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:52.280 get a message from him being like, hey, I'm the 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:55.240 guy that forgot your name, and we've been chatting NonStop 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.040 ever since. He wants to take me out. So that 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:01.360 was a success. So your Galvalentine's Day, you ditched the 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.920 girls and got a guy's number. I didn't ditch. I 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:05.800 spoke to him for only for two minutes. We run 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.960 into each other, we did the macarina, we swapped numbers quickly, 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:11.320 and then I was out, You're wild, You're wild. I 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:14.800 was sitting on the couch eating pepperoni pizza, watching my 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:16.280 fiance talk connecting. 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:20.320 Yeah, you connected. I connected with the defil Oh my god. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:21.760 You know what we actually talked about. We actually talked 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:25.680 about podcast topics. So yeah, it was full of romance. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.400 I do Look, I had a really great night, But 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:32.120 I think Valentine's Day as a day is overrated. I think, 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.839 go and show your love on a day that's not expected, 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:36.440 surprising with a gift. 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:37.880 I think, do that in another day. 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:41.560 This is my life mantras surprise and delight people. Valentine's 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.880 Day is completely commercialized. We all know that it is 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.840 nice when your partner gives you something on Valentine's Day 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:50.320 because you're like, ah, you didn't not do it, and 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.120 that's embarrassing. I have to tell my friends that my 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:56.719 boyfriends are But at the same time, I don't expect anything, 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:58.919 like I don't need flowers, I don't need a card, 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.839 I don't need any anything on Valentine's Day. I feel like, 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.280 for me when I'm saying I'm like single Brittany, it's like, 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:08.200 oh my god, Valentine's Day. So ever rated relationship, Brittany 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:09.120 would be like, bitch, it's. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:12.240 Give me how my presences, my chocolate. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:13.080 So I think I. 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:15.760 Will cut you with these roses if you don't get 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.280 them for me. So I think it's very dependent. But 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.440 as a general rule, yeah, but there were so many 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:23.200 single people out on Valentine's Day it was nuts. I mean, 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:24.800 I think I put this on the I did put 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:26.359 this on the Instagram. I don't think I put it 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:29.160 on the Instagram. Why is there a Valentine's Day but 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:30.640 there's no like single Lady's Day? 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:31.640 Yeah, I need that. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:33.880 Obviously, there's a talk like a pirate Day, but we 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:35.320 don't have a single Lady's Day. 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:36.680 Do we have a single Lady's Day? 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:36.920 You know what? 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:39.160 There probably is? Did you research that? Did you google it? 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:41.000 Why would I google that? I'm not a single lady 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:42.920 for me? For my benefit? 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.880 Other than that, I guess I've been getting a lot 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:50.440 of dms on an update on you know who? 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:51.320 So guys. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.560 One of the biggest questions we get asked every week 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:59.320 on our Instagram is what the fuck happened to meet Raphul? 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.600 What I want to know also because I don't really 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.400 know what happened to meet Raffle. One day he was 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.760 here or MEETI Raffling and the next day gone. I 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:10.440 wish there's so much more to the story, and I 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:12.240 just can't. I just don't want to, like flood you 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:15.719 guys meat Raffle didn't turn out to be the prime cut. 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:17.240 Oh, but it that way. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.920 That was a good analogy. I like that, Yeah, was 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:22.120 he was? He like beef cheeks, although beef checks are 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:23.760 pretty good if you slow cook them. You know the 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.000 one that you end up going to the budge and 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.599 you're like, do you have anything left over for the dog? 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.320 You have some chuck steak or minute steak that I 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:33.080 can feed to Buster. 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:34.400 I thank you. That would be perfect. 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.120 The long story is he did not treat me very 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:40.279 well at the end. He wasn't being very respectful. I'm 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:43.159 not going to go into detail, but he wasn't the 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.320 person you would want your daughter to be with, right, 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:47.200 And I think that says like I would not want 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.559 my daughter to be with spoken to like he spoke 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.560 to me or treated the way. Well, you're being so vague. 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:56.159 I need more details. Oh I don't want he's killing me. 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:59.920 He wasn't. He was not nice to king. So who called? 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:00.880 Who called it? 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.280 So? Okay the reason I called it, and I was like, look, 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.880 we're in different places, we want different things. I really 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:08.400 like who you are as a person. Because he hadn't 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.000 gone that downhill yet. Maybe we can still be friends. 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:13.400 But I just want you to know, like, this was nice, 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.600 but it's not going anywhere. You did the soft break, 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.720 although you did try and do a hard break, and 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.360 then you went to the movies with him, so maybe 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.360 he was getting some mixed signals from you. Okay, I 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:24.680 did the break, I did the herdbreak, and then he 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:26.520 didn't understand that. He messaged me and he's like, what 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:28.240 are you doing? I was going to the movies by myself. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:30.480 We discussed this also, PS, guys, going to the movies 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.520 by yourself is fine. I was like, I'm going to 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:34.440 movies by myself. He's like, well, one a night is come. 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:35.560 I'm like, you know what, if you want to meet 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.080 me there, meet me there, that's cool. So he just 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.600 didn't really he was really trying. But I was always 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.240 very clear that like it wasn't going where he wanted 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:45.240 it to. Went to the movies, and I think he 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:48.240 thought that that was like, you know, an opening and 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.160 gain gonna get married. So then I had to do 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.440 the second cut where I messaged him again and it 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:53.760 was so I mean, I'll read it to you. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.800 I sort of told you did it on Valentine's Day week, 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:56.200 no wonder. 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.720 He was depressed and he did not handle it well 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.640 like he's He just became different person. He was like aggressive, 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:04.480 he was rude, the things he was saying to me. 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:06.120 I actually said to him, I was like, I don't 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:07.880 know who you are right now as who deals well 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.000 with rejection. Then I think that's what it is. I 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:11.680 think his ego took a hit. I don't think he 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:14.240 actually probably likes me that much. It was more ego 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.480 he couldn't get what he wanted. Isn't it funny how 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:20.040 some people take it as such a person like and 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:22.680 of course it's personal, like no one wants to be rejected, 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.080 but they take it as such a personal attack, And 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:27.680 I think it's a massive reflection on who that person 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:29.160 is and their personality. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:33.200 If they they don't deal with that well, and putting. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.160 That back on you and being angry and aggressive because 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.120 someone doesn't want to date you is never gonna get 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.600 you anywhere in the first place anyway. 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.880 But also, I have been shut down and let down 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:41.600 so many times. 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:43.199 I have been in a position where I've wanted to 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.679 date someone and they said, oh, I just don't think 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.160 it's going anywhere. And I didn't go full psycho. I 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.800 was like, oh cool, okay, by like nice, No, you're 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:51.800 not my penguin. Dude, You're not my penguin. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.400 Like that's anyway. 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:57.840 Guys, I'm really sorry that didn't work out for you, 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:00.600 because I know you're all rooting for me. But onwards 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.960 and upwards, I'm actually going to take a break from dating. No no, no, no, no, 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:08.440 no no no no. So pretty said to me, I'm 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:11.679 taking a break from dating. She goes, I've deleted all 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:14.880 of my dating app I did, I'm done, and then said, 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.079 but I re downloaded them two days later and I'm 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:17.400 back on. 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:19.120 But I needed that cleanse for. 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:23.480 Forty eight hours, Like she's just had some wakening. Guys, 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:25.679 any of you know that are on dating apps that 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.280 this happens, It's a vicious cycle. Oh, I'm done with this. 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:30.800 I don't want anything part of it. I'm going to 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:33.600 go meet someone the wild. You delete your apps, and 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.120 then twenty four hours later you're like, oh, what if 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:38.840 someone's newies in the area, Like trying to find myself 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.000 a new sausage sizzle in I go off to Bunning's. 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:43.760 I like that. 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:46.439 The idea of a sausage sizzle and a dating app 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.640 just has so many other underlying metaphors there as well. 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.760 I might suggest that is my next date. I might 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.600 be like, do you want to get a sausage sizzle? 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:57.000 That's very seductive, just trying something outside the box. All right, 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:00.320 let's get into some real content. I'm sure guys have 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.960 had enough of my stories for now. In every episode 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:06.000 we do also do an accidentally unfiltered and last week 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:08.840 I told a really stupid story about the time that 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.680 I sent out a mass email with instead of kind regards, 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:14.120 I wrote kind retards. It was very, very upsetting on 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:17.200 traumatic time in my life. However, I do have another 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:21.600 accidentally unfiltered moment that is from the past, and I'm 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.680 going to trudge it back out from the deep depths 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:27.040 of where I've kept it stored. Yes, I was dating 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.040 this guy and we'd been together for a little while. 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:31.560 There was a little bit of an overlap with his 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.880 ex girlfriend when we got together, which I didn't know 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:36.439 about at the time but then found out about, and 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.520 it made me very crazy, which I know. We've talked 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.480 about how crazy I can be in past episodes. So 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:45.000 if anyone's listened to, like the last episode, for example, 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:47.880 I have a tendency to go a bit Stage five 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.800 crazy girl. By all your stories since probably the last 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:52.560 four months that you've told me have been like, okay, 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:54.160 so this is one time was a bit crazy, and 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:55.840 I'm like, babe, I don't think it was this one time, 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:57.880 Like I think you were just crazy guys. 0:10:58.000 --> 0:10:59.160 Crazy is all situation. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.760 Although a genuinely think that we we've all got the 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:05.880 crazy flame. It's just some people enhance, some people fan 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.400 the crazy flame, and other people put it out. 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.640 I just dated guys preparing a hole on it. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:13.400 They had explained dated guys for a very long time 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.839 that fucking put meth lade and spirits on my crazy flame. 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:16.800 That's what happened. 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:20.880 So this was a guy who one hundred percent doused 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:22.439 my crazy flame in metho. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:24.600 He had an ex girlfriend. 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:27.360 There was a bit of an overlap, and instead of 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:31.760 being a normal human that's very well rounded and blaming him, 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:34.920 I blamed her because it's always fun to blame the 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:39.280 ex girlfriend for everything right and because your partner's just perfect. 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.640 So I became a little bit obsessed with her and 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:42.800 I would hate stalk her. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.920 Oh my god, you did it on social media. So 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:48.400 I hate followed his ex girlfriend, which he didn't know about. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:50.840 But I would always look at what she was doing. 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.839 I was like, became obsessed with his ex girlfriend. I 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:55.600 would look at what she was doing. I would like, 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:58.280 you know, see who she was talking to. And I 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.199 think at the end of the day, I actually just 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.280 trying to make sure that they weren't still in contact. 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:05.600 But I really, really, really like to a point where 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:07.880 it was not appropriate, would like look at her Instagram 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:09.800 or check it, no, not her Instagram, Instagram didn't exist, 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:11.320 then look at her Facebook. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:11.600 This one day. 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:13.400 And I know a lot of people have done this 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:16.319 in the past by typing in a guy's name who 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.000 they had a crush on, but I back when Facebook 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:20.559 used to be that you would type it into the 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.600 search bar your status updates. 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:24.400 I already know where this is going. I can see. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.400 Yeah, So instead of like having a situation where a 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.200 lot of girls have written in the guy they like, 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:31.720 I have been dating my boyfriend at the time for 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.400 a whole year, whole year, and I typed his ex 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:38.920 girlfriend's name into my status updates. 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:41.840 I stated my status was really drunk. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.120 I dated my status and then just went on with 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.640 my night, like totally didn't know that I'd done it 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:51.000 until I got home seven hours later and my boyfriend 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:57.600 was like, should we talk about the reason that you 0:12:57.800 --> 0:13:01.120 have Sarah and whatever her name was. Her name was 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:02.440 not Sarah. 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.760 As you're currently what are you doing, Sarah Williams. That's 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:05.280 what I'm doing. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:08.400 Literally, that's what I did. And so that was a 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:11.400 real eye opener that I stopped. I stopped hate following 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:12.480 her and I pulled my. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:15.040 Head in does she know? Oh my god? Everyone saw it. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:17.440 Every single person saw it. It became the joke of the 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:20.840 town for about a week. So did do your boyfriend 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:22.880 like did you stay together? Or was he like, you're 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:23.480 being a creep. 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.080 We stayed together for like four years, but yeah, because 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:29.600 he thought I was a creep, totally total creep, and 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.240 I am a creep, but I'm less of a creep now, guys. 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:37.079 I've grown, I've developed. I'm like a caterpillar and now 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.120 I'm a butterfly. You know what, I made a lot 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:41.719 of mistakes in the past, and I'm better for it now. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:45.560 Can you please keep remembering these mistakes you've made because 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:47.360 they're so funny? No, I feel like next week we 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:50.880 need to get back to your accidentally unfiltered guys, so 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:53.360 please keep writing into us. If you have had something 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:57.679 happen to you which is absolutely outrageously ridiculous, then jump 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.040 onto our Instagram at Life Uncut podcast and send us 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.200 your stupid as stories because I'm sick of divulging my 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:05.040 own to you now. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:06.559 So should we get into today's topic? 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:11.760 Yeah, guys, look, we have a topic today about the one? 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:12.880 Who is the one? 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:13.400 Who? 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:15.560 How do you know where the one? What is it? 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.920 Not in here? Are you? The one? Probably? 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:20.960 My girl? One? 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:21.720 Is that a thing? 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.760 The one? What is the one? How do you know 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:26.600 if you've met the one? How do you know if 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.920 your current boyfriend or girlfriend is the one? 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:29.800 How do you know? 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:31.720 This is what we're going to be talking about today 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:34.080 because it does come a point in your relationship where 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.760 for some people, it just they just know, it just 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:38.920 makes sense. They're like, I know that my partner is 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.960 the one, Whereas for other people, they may find themselves 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.560 down the line in their relationship thinking, how do I 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.640 know is this person the person I'm supposed to surpand 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:49.640 my life with. Is this what it feels like when 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:53.080 you've found the one? And maybe you think, out of 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.200 the seven point six billion people in the world, that 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.880 there is only one person for you. And if you 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:02.080 do think that and you find them fan lartitastic, but also. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.520 Maybe you think there's more than one person. 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:05.840 Well, you know what, guys, we did a little bit 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:09.040 of research. We went straight to a really really reliable, 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:12.040 peer reviewed, scientifically trialed and tested source. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.640 Did we my parents? 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:19.280 So, guys, in this little experiment of hours of trying 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.560 to discover how people know and what it means, I thought, 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:26.880 my parents have been married for forty two years and 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:28.840 they have been together for forty five years, and I'm 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:29.800 talking with sickening. 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:32.200 They're in love. They hold hands walking down the street. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:33.640 They are here. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.840 Actually blame them for my high standards of when I'm 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:38.720 looking for love, because I've seen it. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:39.120 Guys. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:40.960 What I did was and this was only last night. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:43.280 I didn't give them time to think about it. I 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.880 messaged them both and I was like, guys, we're doing 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.600 this segment. I want you to both independently write to me. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.720 Why you knew each other with the one? What was 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:53.880 it about each other? I said, don't talk about it. Though. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:54.680 I didn't want them. 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:56.920 To compare because they're very different people. So I thought 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:59.160 it would be really interesting to compare their answers. 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:01.440 So I'm going to read you my mom's first. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:04.160 Okay, when I met your father, I was in a 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:06.840 relationship of two years. I think I always knew something 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.080 wasn't quite right, but I just couldn't put my finger 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.200 on it until I met Tony. Not by choice, whichwas 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:15.720 a sneaky setup, but that night I just knew. It's 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.600 like they say, you just know. The reasons I knew 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:25.320 were he was handsome, peachressed well, he had nice teeth, 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.440 he had clean feet, he. 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:30.000 Was tall, and he had nice hair. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.080 But I just love Okay, we're only halfway through that, 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:36.200 but I just love that she's like her things. Her 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.640 tick off box was that he had clean feet, very important. 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.520 She's still into that and nice teeth. How did she 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:43.120 know what his feet looked like. Was he not wearing 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:47.000 shoes to dinner? No? Hang on, then, she said, now 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:49.640 I was attracted to his physical attributes. It was time 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:53.160 to get to know his personality. He spoke nicely and intelligently. 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:55.360 He wouldn't swear in front of me. Were both old 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.480 school like that where you didn't swear in front of ladies. 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:59.160