Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the
Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb
Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on
Speaker 1: this land for thousands of years, and we show our
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Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive
Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations,
Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve.
Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation,
Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's
Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life.
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Hello, my loves, and welcome back to
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquered Potty. I'm so excited to be
Speaker 1: back in your ears in twenty twenty five. I know
Speaker 1: we've been in twenty twenty five for a while, but
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say happy New Year, and I
Speaker 1: hope that you guys are feeling fresh. You're feeling inspired
Speaker 1: and motivated and all the things. I had such a
Speaker 1: lovely holiday. My parents stayed with us for about two weeks,
Speaker 1: which was beautiful because obviously just a lot of family
Speaker 1: time and my parents just they treat me like a
Speaker 1: child in the way of they just look after me.
Speaker 1: They cook and clean, and you know, they're just very doting.
Speaker 1: So I love when they stay with us. So in
Speaker 1: this episode, I want to talk about if you're feeling
Speaker 1: stuck or confused and you're like, I'm just not certain,
Speaker 1: I just don't know, I'm not sure. Obviously, you know,
Speaker 1: if you want a very generic answer, you can chat
Speaker 1: GPT and you will get very generic stuff like, you know, reflect,
Speaker 1: reconnect to your why, journal through it, break it down,
Speaker 1: declutter your environment, experiment and tests, and let go of
Speaker 1: perfection and look, that is amazing And I feel like
Speaker 1: those things, you know, can really really help if you're
Speaker 1: not feeling clarity. But I wanted to bring in another
Speaker 1: conversation which just might be something that you haven't thought about.
Speaker 1: With the new year, most of us are looking for clarity.
Speaker 1: We are looking to feel certain, we are looking for Okay,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm about, this is what I'm going
Speaker 1: to do, and I understand it and I have a
Speaker 1: plan and I feel really really good. So when we're
Speaker 1: not feeling like that, and we do feel this confusion,
Speaker 1: this uncertainty, not having clarity. I do believe it can
Speaker 1: be limiting beliefs and blocks that we are giving ourselves.
Speaker 1: And when you unmask why it's happening and why it
Speaker 1: might be happening and really kind of dig deeper, you
Speaker 1: can then find the clarity. Or if it's not finding
Speaker 1: the clarity, it's just like realizing that you're probably overthinking it.
Speaker 1: And I know, like clarity is one of the biggest
Speaker 1: blocks and limiting beliefs that keep us small and keep
Speaker 1: us stuck. So that's what we're going to do in
Speaker 1: today's episode. We're going to unmask how you can move
Speaker 1: through uncertainty and step into your next level with clarity.
Speaker 1: I wanted to give you, I guess, like shadow work
Speaker 1: perspectives of lack of clarity. Again, like you said, like
Speaker 1: if you want a very generic answer, I'm sure there's
Speaker 1: a lot of like podcasts and youtubes and stuff about
Speaker 1: it where it's just like generic answers of like clean
Speaker 1: your environment, do a least blah blah blah. But I
Speaker 1: wanted to really get you to think about could this
Speaker 1: lack of clarity be you not wanting to move forward
Speaker 1: because subconsciously you know how uncomfortable it is, how this
Speaker 1: next action might be actually the thing that quantum leaps you,
Speaker 1: and that might scare you because often we can use
Speaker 1: lack of clarity as a reason to why we haven't moved.
Speaker 1: So if you know, your friend or your mom or
Speaker 1: your sister's like, well, if you don't like your job,
Speaker 1: why don't you quit, And it's like, oh, well, I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm not sure what I want to do. This
Speaker 1: might be consciously or unconsciously, and so it can stop
Speaker 1: us from moving, and you can become obsessed with trying
Speaker 1: to find the next level, trying to be clear on
Speaker 1: the next step, trying to be clear on what you
Speaker 1: have to do next, rather than taking action. Do you
Speaker 1: see what I mean? Like you're saying you're stuck, but
Speaker 1: that's what's keeping you stuck. So if you do know
Speaker 1: that you want different and you want to move different,
Speaker 1: and you want something different, and you're talking to your
Speaker 1: friends about it and your you know, your mom and
Speaker 1: your sister and what not, but you're like, I really
Speaker 1: hate my job. I know it's just not for me anymore.
Speaker 1: I don't want to do something different, but I'm just
Speaker 1: not certain on what I want to do, so I'm
Speaker 1: going to stay in it. Do you see how like
Speaker 1: the uncertainty is keeping you in that cycle? So again,
Speaker 1: we are creatures of comfort. We love to be comfortable,
Speaker 1: and I get it. It's like when we are comfortable,
Speaker 1: we are certain. Even if it means you're certain of
Speaker 1: the outcome you don't want, that is still going to
Speaker 1: be more comfortable than when you're not certain of the
Speaker 1: outcome you don't want, but that might be the thing
Speaker 1: you want, if that makes sense. So then rather than
Speaker 1: taking action, we will just continuously say I'm uncertain, I'm unclear,
Speaker 1: and it feels good because we have identified that we
Speaker 1: don't want to stay where we're at, But it gets
Speaker 1: to keep us where we're at. And I really think,
Speaker 1: you know, if it's not consciously, it's this subconscious thing
Speaker 1: that you're doing. And it also protects your ego because
Speaker 1: our ego again is a beautiful thing where it does
Speaker 1: keep us safe and comfortable. So your ego will give
Speaker 1: you things like, oh, well we can't move towards certain Well,
Speaker 1: you're just not clear about this, whereas really it's about
Speaker 1: taking the action and moving through it and getting clear
Speaker 1: as you go. So this can show up in a
Speaker 1: few ways. So you might think about what you want
Speaker 1: and then it just immediately scares you, and a limiting
Speaker 1: belief pops up of why you shouldn't do that thing,
Speaker 1: and you squash the dream, and then you lean into well,
Speaker 1: I'm just not sure what's next for me. An example
Speaker 1: of this is maybe you're like I said you maybe
Speaker 1: you're stuck in that job you hate, but you say
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what I want next, but you do
Speaker 1: know what you want next, Like, you might not be
Speaker 1: very specific on like I want to be blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: but I'm sure you know how you want to feel
Speaker 1: when you wake up, how you want to feel with
Speaker 1: the people around you. So maybe it's like you don't
Speaker 1: like the job you're in, but you know you want
Speaker 1: to be in a job where your boss respects you,
Speaker 1: your other colleagues inspire and motivate you. You have flexibility
Speaker 1: for your side hustle, you can pick your work hours,
Speaker 1: you know, blah blah blah. Even if you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't know the exact thing, you will know the feeling.
Speaker 1: You will know your values and like the surrounding specifics.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you. But this is when the confusion comes in,
Speaker 1: because it's easier to stay still. And that's the thing is, like,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe you want to jump to like a
Speaker 1: whole new industry, and that really scares you, and that
Speaker 1: really scares your ego. I've had instances with clients with
Speaker 1: you know, my alumni where they are saying, I'm confused,
Speaker 1: I'm like blah blah blah, and they actually believe it,
Speaker 1: like they're not lying to me. And then like once
Speaker 1: we understand what their ego is trying to do, once
Speaker 1: we understand how subconsciously they're scared, they don't want to move,
Speaker 1: they don't want to be uncomfortable, no joke, they get clarity,
Speaker 1: but it's like their ego will literally make them feel confused.
Speaker 1: Like I'm definitely not saying you're lying about the confusion
Speaker 1: or the lack of clarity. I'm saying, can you dig deeper?
Speaker 1: And is there a level of you are actually extremely
Speaker 1: clear on what you want, but you're scared or there's
Speaker 1: a limiting belief or it's easier to sit in the
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, but I'm not sure blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: But I'm just feeling confused. I actually caught myself out
Speaker 1: with this this morning. I was on a walk with
Speaker 1: my partnerships manager, so she helps me any relationships, so
Speaker 1: you know, like my partnership with LSKD. I don't really
Speaker 1: do a lot of ads or anything these days. But
Speaker 1: she's a long time girlfriend too, So we went on
Speaker 1: a walk together and I was saying the words I
Speaker 1: just feel really confused about like the content I want
Speaker 1: to create and like who I want to be on Instagram,
Speaker 1: And she kind of turned around and she's like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about. You know exactly who you are,
Speaker 1: you know exactly what content you enjoy, what you want
Speaker 1: to watch on Instagram, who you want to be on Instagram.
Speaker 1: You're just not being maybe completely honest with yourself about
Speaker 1: like how you want to go about it, or like
Speaker 1: you're limiting beliefs or blocks or you know, like maybe
Speaker 1: you're scared what people will think, call blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, You're actually completely right.
Speaker 1: I do know, And this is like a question you
Speaker 1: can So it's like if anything was possible, if whatever
Speaker 1: outcome you want was possible, if it didn't cost money,
Speaker 1: if it didn't hurt anyone, if no one could say
Speaker 1: anything to you, what would you do that will bring
Speaker 1: clarity because most of the time it's like we do
Speaker 1: have clarity, we're just worried what other people think. We're
Speaker 1: worried that it's too uncomfortable. We're worried that we won't succeed,
Speaker 1: We're worried that it's going to be too hard, it's
Speaker 1: going to be too much, et cetera, et cetera. So
Speaker 1: I want you guys to just be very conscious of
Speaker 1: where you're saying I'm stuck, where you're saying, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't have clarity, where you're saying I'm confused. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure. It's fine if you feel like that big
Speaker 1: dig deeper, because I guarantee you that's not actually the problem.
Speaker 1: The problem is like in my scenario, I was caring
Speaker 1: about like showing up in a certain way, and I
Speaker 1: said to her, oh my god, like and I had
Speaker 1: the aha moment of I think now that I am
Speaker 1: a bigger, you know, Instagram account, if not all my
Speaker 1: content is doing extremely well, I feel like a failure
Speaker 1: because that's not it. But it's like I have such
Speaker 1: a high expectation of my content. So when it's like
Speaker 1: not doing all extremely well, I'm like, what's the point,
Speaker 1: which is so dramatic of me? And so then I
Speaker 1: get in this like, well I don't even know what
Speaker 1: anyone wants for me or blah blah blah, and it's
Speaker 1: so far from what I know and who I am.
Speaker 1: But again, it's all encompassed around limiting beliefs and my
Speaker 1: ego trying to keep me in this place where I'm
Speaker 1: not getting criticism. What I've realized, sometimes I won't try
Speaker 1: very hard because like if things don't go well or
Speaker 1: I don't get the result I want, I'm like, well
Speaker 1: that makes sense because I wasn't really trying. I'm sure
Speaker 1: a lot of you use that that. It's like one
Speaker 1: of my huge things that I do. I will deliberately
Speaker 1: not put effort into something, but still like kind of
Speaker 1: do it. And so when it flops or fails, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: well that makes sense, And it's such a big shadow
Speaker 1: of mine because I get to hide behind it, I
Speaker 1: get to not move, I get to be okay being subpar,
Speaker 1: and you know, all those sorts of things. So that
Speaker 1: went often a bit of a tangent of all my
Speaker 1: own shit. But I just wanted to give you an example.
Speaker 1: I think the first thing is just being really really
Speaker 1: honest about like what could you be benefiting from not
Speaker 1: having clarity? Doesn't mean you're more comfortable? Does it mean
Speaker 1: you get too plain about things? Like you know what
Speaker 1: I said about the scenario with your mum or your sister.
Speaker 1: It's like, do you get to constantly have that conversation
Speaker 1: of like, oh, but I'm not sure what I'm going
Speaker 1: to do. I don't I'm not sure what's next. I'm confused,
Speaker 1: Like we actually get hormones, we get dope. Mean when
Speaker 1: we get too winch and complain, that's why a lot
Speaker 1: of us do it. So it's like, is that you
Speaker 1: get to stay in this like damsel distress story? So
Speaker 1: I think like the first thing is just being very
Speaker 1: honest of like what are you benefiting from not moving forward?
Speaker 1: Like me, I'm benefiting from not trying as hard as
Speaker 1: I know I could in certain aspects because if it
Speaker 1: flops or fails, I don't have to be disappointed. So
Speaker 1: that's how I benefit from that, And for my ego,
Speaker 1: that feels better because it's more comfortable. The next thing
Speaker 1: that you could really think about to overcome. This is
Speaker 1: when something pops up because guys, like your brain is
Speaker 1: so intelligent that it is giving you solutions all the time.
Speaker 1: Like it's just it's how we are wired. If you
Speaker 1: are squashing it or saying no, I'm confused, no, I
Speaker 1: don't have clarity. I guarantee you it's because limiting beliefs
Speaker 1: are there and you really need to look at them
Speaker 1: and change them into a core belief. So, like I
Speaker 1: was saying with you know the content of like, well,
Speaker 1: if I post the content I want, I'm going to
Speaker 1: be criticized. That is a limiting belief. I don't actually
Speaker 1: even really have evidence for that. So what limiting beliefs
Speaker 1: are coming up? And how can you change that to
Speaker 1: a core belief in the work that I do. Limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs are beliefs that limit you clearly, and we all
Speaker 1: have them. Limiting beliefs can feel like truths, but they're
Speaker 1: not truths, but they do usually have evidence. So we
Speaker 1: often have limiting beliefs because there's like something that happened
Speaker 1: in a previous scenario that made us believe that. It's like,
Speaker 1: for example, this is a very like blanket one. But
Speaker 1: it's like if your dad wasn't around when you grew up,
Speaker 1: you might have a belief that it's like men don't
Speaker 1: show up, and it's because you have evidence that was
Speaker 1: your experience. So to you that feels like, no, that's truth,
Speaker 1: like that's how it is, but it's not actually truth
Speaker 1: because we know there's a lot of men who do
Speaker 1: show up who are amazing dads. But that is your experience.
Speaker 1: But that would cause you to have limiting beliefs around
Speaker 1: then maybe future partners or bosses or you know what not.
Speaker 1: Basically think of it. Limiting beliefs give us biases and
Speaker 1: it's like, well I can't do this because of that,
Speaker 1: So just be conscious of your limiting beliefs. Again, I
Speaker 1: probably explained to that very quickly, and I do whole
Speaker 1: courses on this. It is very deep work. So just
Speaker 1: notice the limiting belief and when I say change it
Speaker 1: to a core belief, it's just flipping what that app is.
Speaker 1: So for example that I'm going to be criticized if
Speaker 1: I create content and the core belief, you know, it
Speaker 1: could be an opposite belief of the more authentic I
Speaker 1: am on social media and the more authentic content I
Speaker 1: put out the more popular I become, and that's the
Speaker 1: core belief. It's the opposite. And so that's what I
Speaker 1: really want you to do, is like notice the limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs around your lack of clarity and then start changing them.
Speaker 1: And see because even saying that core belief, I had
Speaker 1: a reaction my body where I'm like, oh, yeah, like
Speaker 1: I even know that I actually have evidence of that
Speaker 1: core belief. So what you need to do with the
Speaker 1: core belief so it is like you do need to
Speaker 1: believe it. So it's like you constantly journal on it,
Speaker 1: you write it down, and you get it to the
Speaker 1: point where your ego can grab it and be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: that is a new core belief that does feel safe,
Speaker 1: and that's when you'll notice the clarity you know, coming
Speaker 1: through and the confusion lifting. So guys, that's again I
Speaker 1: just feel like that's something a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: think about when they think they're stuck or they don't
Speaker 1: have clarity. I wanted to talk about, you know, some
Speaker 1: other things that might you know, be the shadow effect
Speaker 1: of confusion and not having clarity. They're the two things
Speaker 1: of like perfectionism and thinking that you need to know everything.
Speaker 1: I honestly believe us as humans we have this thing
Speaker 1: where we're like, but just tell me it's gonna work out,
Speaker 1: and then I'll do the thing. Like I said before,
Speaker 1: it's like, well, just tell me if I put in
Speaker 1: a lot of effort, it's gonna succeed, and then I'll
Speaker 1: put in a lot of effort. But it's not how
Speaker 1: it works. You need to release the need to know everything.
Speaker 1: And this is coming from someone who was previously absolute
Speaker 1: control freak in everything I did and also huge perfectionists.
Speaker 1: So like, releasing the need to know everything is so
Speaker 1: important because I guarantee you you're like, I hate my job,
Speaker 1: I hate what I'm doing, but I'm not clear on
Speaker 1: what i want. Like I said, I'm sure you know
Speaker 1: what time you want to wake up, how you want
Speaker 1: to feel around the people that you want to work with,
Speaker 1: how you want to feel with clients, how you want
Speaker 1: to feel during your day, Like you would know those,
Speaker 1: but there would be things that you don't know, like
Speaker 1: maybe the exact job. Maybe you know if you'll be
Speaker 1: good at it, like those sorts of things that would
Speaker 1: keep you in the well. I'm not going to take
Speaker 1: action because I don't know, a bit left field here,
Speaker 1: but like with manifestation, like surrendering with manifestation, your manifestation
Speaker 1: and being the you know this or something better, I'm
Speaker 1: going to let the universe guide me. I'm going to
Speaker 1: surrender is like the biggest block that most people have
Speaker 1: with manifestations because it's like ordering, you know, an Amazon parcel,
Speaker 1: and then once you order it, like instantly going to
Speaker 1: the door and like looking for the postman even though
Speaker 1: you know you ordered it, you clicked it, You've ordered
Speaker 1: a thousand items before, and you know it's going to come,
Speaker 1: but it's like you're constantly checking the door, you're checking
Speaker 1: the order, You're like checking, oh, where's the postman now?
Speaker 1: Like you can imagine your experience during that time compared
Speaker 1: to if you just shop and then you wait for
Speaker 1: it to rock up and then you go do something
Speaker 1: else and then it rocks up and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's here, amazing. And I think most of us do
Speaker 1: get stuck in this confusion or lack of clarity because
Speaker 1: we don't know, so we choose to stay frozen. That
Speaker 1: feels better to us. And again it's like in the unknown,
Speaker 1: could you thrive in the unknown? Could you actually figure
Speaker 1: out something that It's like, oh my god, I never
Speaker 1: thought in a million years my life could look like
Speaker 1: this or this could happen, or I could meet this
Speaker 1: person or et cetera, et cetera, and it could turn
Speaker 1: out like better than you could have imagined because you
Speaker 1: have released this need to know everything and have everything
Speaker 1: figured out and let go of like the perfectionism of like, well,
Speaker 1: I need the perfect answer now again. Going back to
Speaker 1: my story with my partnerships manager this morning, I need
Speaker 1: again I'm laughing, but it's like I need like a
Speaker 1: posting schedule, I need like blah blah blah. And she's like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: that's literally the opposite. She's like, maybe if you were
Speaker 1: a first time creator and you needed some sort of guidance,
Speaker 1: but she's like, you've literally been doing this for eight years.
Speaker 1: You know what content you like filming, you know what
Speaker 1: you know your audience responds to. You know, like you
Speaker 1: don't like, you don't need that. That again, is like
Speaker 1: a crutch. That's like a thing. It's like, well, I
Speaker 1: need this in order to get there, or I need
Speaker 1: this in order to have that. It's like a distraction. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let me figure this thing out here first, which actually
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It keeps us small, it keeps us stuck,
Speaker 1: it keeps us unclear. And also, if we're talking about
Speaker 1: in the grand scheme of things, I have done so
Speaker 1: many things in my life which hasn't been the thing.
Speaker 1: Like when I finished my law degree, sorry I finished
Speaker 1: up in my like corporate law job. I didn't get
Speaker 1: stuck and like, oh, I'm not sure, I don't know
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. I really was like, well, let's
Speaker 1: just see what happens. And I tried a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of things. I created like a food eat book. I
Speaker 1: went on like a couple of like I went on
Speaker 1: a gym shark influencer trip, you know. I did a
Speaker 1: whole bunch of things, started doing YouTube differently. I did
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of things that I wasn't like, this
Speaker 1: has to be the thing, this has to be the
Speaker 1: end goal. But it was like trying things. And then
Speaker 1: what eventuated is my life now, which is naked harvest
Speaker 1: and rise and conquer and really feeling like so secure
Speaker 1: and certain in who I am and what I do.
Speaker 1: But I had to like move, I had to figure
Speaker 1: some things out. I had to like get to know myself,
Speaker 1: I had to discover things. So I think there is
Speaker 1: such a power in not having it all figured out
Speaker 1: and not having the exact three step formula and not
Speaker 1: letting the confusion and clarity get to that's even like
Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend and she always has these incredible plans.
Speaker 1: She has like a service based business, and she always
Speaker 1: has these incredible plans to like make extra money or
Speaker 1: like kind of scale them, so she's not using her
Speaker 1: time for money, and you know, whether it's like courses
Speaker 1: or like you know, certain things she could do in
Speaker 1: her business. But again, it's always like she has this
Speaker 1: idea and then it's like, oh, but I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if it's gonna work out, and then like she never actions.
Speaker 1: And it was interesting because we were talking about something
Speaker 1: and I was like, wait, haven't you been talking about
Speaker 1: that since like COVID And she's like, oh, yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: but it's like she's only just taking the action.
Speaker 2: Now, and I'm like, godfriend, like I've probably failed three
Speaker 2: businesses in that time, Like just start just it doesn't
Speaker 2: actually have to because.
Speaker 1: That's the thing is it might be a total flop.
Speaker 1: I heard this really great quote and it was like,
Speaker 1: if you knew you were three failures from like the
Speaker 1: million dollar business or like the dream life or the Dreamman,
Speaker 1: like three dates or blah blah blah, how fast would
Speaker 1: you fail? How fast would you take action? You absolutely would,
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't give two fucks. So it's like, why
Speaker 1: are we not just taking action? And I feel like
Speaker 1: the whole I'm confused, I'm uncertain. It is this place
Speaker 1: where we get to lean into it and we get
Speaker 1: to stay stuck and stay frozen and complain about like,
Speaker 1: oh well I'm not certain, so I'm not going to move.
Speaker 1: And again it just it keeps us small, it keeps
Speaker 1: us stuck, and I really feel like if you don't
Speaker 1: play into it, it's not your reality. So again this morning,
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, you're right, like I'm not stuck.
Speaker 1: I know exactly what i want to do with my
Speaker 1: social media and I'm gonna do it. I don't have
Speaker 1: to have a twelve month social media plan. I just
Speaker 1: get to be like, no, I am actually clear, I
Speaker 1: do know what I actually do, and even that like
Speaker 1: telling myself, I'm actually like telling my ego, I'm telling
Speaker 1: my subconscious brain and it will be rewiring pathways to
Speaker 1: make that happen. We actually don't realize how much power
Speaker 1: we have over things like clarity. The whole confusion thing
Speaker 1: is a state of mind, but clarity is a state
Speaker 1: of mind you get to actually pick. Trust me, I'm
Speaker 1: saying this with so much love. I know those feelings
Speaker 1: you feel they are real, and I'm not saying they're
Speaker 1: not real. I'm just saying, can you lean into the
Speaker 1: possibility that you feel comfortable? What are you gaining by that?
Speaker 1: That's like the best thing I did last year was
Speaker 1: any time that I was in a state of mind
Speaker 1: where it felt like you know, negative or starkle, just
Speaker 1: like not good. I'm like, actually, what am I gaining
Speaker 1: from being in this? And that was always secondhand gain,
Speaker 1: which is basically just like it's almost like the gain
Speaker 1: that you're not proud of. It's the well when I complain,
Speaker 1: I get sympathy from my mom. Growing up, my mom
Speaker 1: would be you know, I'd be like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: the girls at school are like teasing me about this
Speaker 1: or whatnot, and she's like, oh, baby, come here, you're
Speaker 1: the best, You're so you're so pretty. And so that
Speaker 1: is me getting secondhand gain because it's not actually good
Speaker 1: that you know, people are teasing me and I feel
Speaker 1: like crap. But I get sympathy from my mom. I
Speaker 1: get love from my mom. So do you see how
Speaker 1: that is secondhand gain? And so my subconscious, who loves
Speaker 1: being comfortable, who loves love, is like, this is perfect.
Speaker 1: We get to stay here. So again, just really being honest,
Speaker 1: really checking with ourselves. This is all self inquiry stuff, guys.
Speaker 1: This is stuff I try to constantly do because everything
Speaker 1: is a mindset game. Everything is you hacking your own brain.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to bring these to light because again,
Speaker 1: I feel like this has really got me thinking about
Speaker 1: it a couple of things, and if you are feeling
Speaker 1: stuck or uncertain, this might be something to think about.
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. I hope you're having
Speaker 1: an amazing start to the year, and I will chat
Speaker 1: to you soon. Bye, Lustrous Christi