1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. Well what about that married 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: a First Sight wrapped up last night the Final, the 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: final vows. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 2: The Final make anyone make it. 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: I don't think the guy that looks with the it 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: looks like Adrian Griner from Entourage with the character Vinny Chase. 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: That guy, I think him and his girl. I think 8 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: they continue. 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 2: Only one couple out of how many. 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: Twelve twelve couples. A shot wasn't in at this time 11 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: for Marridith First Sight because the players of the show 12 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: are aware of what they get. You know, I like 13 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: that what's that good? Look at Asian girl that was 14 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: on there? 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 2: She was I don't watch she was. I liked being 16 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: an Asian girl. I don't know. 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: I liked it when she was first on it. And 18 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: then she came in here and she just you could 19 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: tell that she's thinking, Okay, this is where my life begins. 20 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 2: She thought, I'm the guy, this is my moment. 21 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: It's all me now, and I said, I want come on, 22 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: come on, guys, because really it's about finding true. 23 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 3: Love's Brandon, I'm an alantic, of course you aren't. A 24 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: Psychologists put people together like who we're talking to Lyndall. 25 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: Later Lindall, yes, well, and that's you were. 26 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: Telling me earlier that they've put her with someone who 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: She says, I'm prepared to move to be with you, 28 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 3: and he says, well, by the way, I'm away for 29 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: four months ago, you and you can just live with 30 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 3: my flatmates. 31 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: And Lindall she lives in Perth, Western Australia, and she's 32 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: got cystic fibrosis, and the poor thing if anyone, if 33 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: you know anyone with cistic vibrosis, is quite a struggle, 34 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: struggle to breathe. And there's a new drug that's come 35 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: out on the market now that was quite expensive and 36 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: it was hard for Lyndall to get help, but then 37 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: they became available on the PBS. So now her life 38 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: has changed, and I guess she went I married at 39 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: first sight. So originally her first vows when she met 40 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: her husband Cam was. 41 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 2: This to my almost husband. 42 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 4: So maybe the first time in my life I'm reluctant 43 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 4: to say how I feel, maybe because this is the 44 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 4: first time I'm seeing you, or maybe because I have 45 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 4: to admit out loud how much today actually means to me. 46 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 4: But as scared as I am, I believe that if 47 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 4: you really want something you don't get it just by 48 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 4: dipping your toe in, and I guess, to put it plainly, 49 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:12,119 Speaker 4: I'm not here to spiders. 50 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: I think she made that clear. So you're not into arachnid. 51 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: It's good right now. 52 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: No, but things didn't work out with them. 53 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: No, So the final vows last night were crite, bruising, 54 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: and Lyndalls certainly didn't hold back. 55 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 4: Unfortunately, at one point or another, the man I met 56 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 4: at our wedding started fading away. In our first few 57 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 4: weeks together. You could barely sit through the smallest of 58 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 4: criticisms and constantly walked out of hard conversations, leaving me 59 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 4: to pick up the pieces. You told me you've never 60 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 4: had a relationship because you can't handle being confronted, and 61 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: so you run. Then, on several occasions you told me 62 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 4: to be silent, regardless of what was right, to stay 63 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: in my lane, or you'd run from me too. Once 64 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,119 Speaker 4: his started to form, you withdrew from this relationship completely. 65 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 4: I constantly had to beg for a shred of affection, 66 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 4: your time, your attention, and support. 67 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 2: When I was hurting. 68 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 4: I felt like I was a burden and that being 69 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: there for me as my partner was an inconvenience. I 70 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 4: drove myself insane trying to figure out how to be 71 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 4: the partner you wanted. I've realized that there was never 72 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 4: anything I could do to be the partner you wanted, 73 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 4: because you simply don't want one. This entire relationship has 74 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 4: been on your terms and yours alone. If there is 75 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 4: one good thing that cystic fibrosis has given me, it's resilience. 76 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 4: All my life, I've had to give up so much. 77 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 4: I've been held back, limited, and struggled through trauma and judgment. 78 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 4: I wouldn't wish on anyone, but I have always thrived 79 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 4: in spite of that. I have now been given a miracle, 80 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 4: a fresh start, a new version of my life that 81 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 4: is completely unburdened and unlimited. I won't spend another moment 82 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 4: of that life restricted, not by my condition, not by 83 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 4: my body, not by fear, and certainly not by you. 84 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 4: So to put it plainly, stay in your lane and 85 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 4: I'll stay in mind. I want to build a life 86 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 4: I'm proud of, and that life does not include you. 87 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: WHOA what a speech you've got. 88 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: Goose is quite amazing, and didn't say one once? 89 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: Did he take it? 90 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: Well? He was he was ready to go get his 91 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: speech out, and then Linda went with Linda went with. 92 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 2: This, before you start, just on that. 93 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 4: I just feel like, no matter what you say today, 94 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 4: it's only going to disappoint me again. 95 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: I think. 96 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 4: I think I'm just done. 97 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I think you can have that many Hi you gave 98 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: me in the car. 99 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 4: I'm out of here. That's that's very done. 100 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 3: That's made out be suited him not to have to 101 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 3: do this speech. 102 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: Well, he had his speech, he checked it on the 103 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: ground and then the cameras zoomed in on the speech 104 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: and it's just sitting there. I'd love to know what was. 105 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: In his speech, redom red room. 106 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to hey, let's buy a house, 107 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: a very big house in the country and have kids together. 108 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: I think he was he was going back to his 109 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 1: FIFA and little life and that was going to be it. 110 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: So we're going to be talking to Linda. 111 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: And I would ask this of Lindall because she's been 112 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: through real stuff in her life, she's lived real stuff. 113 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: Has does she regret this experience? Is this something that's 114 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: going to make her grow stronger? 115 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 3: And the fact that he seemed, from what you were saying, 116 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 3: like a good guy at the beginning? 117 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 2: A fake? Was that all fake? Is that all editing? 118 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 2: Has she been watching the show? Going? Well, when are 119 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 2: they going to show his true colors? 120 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: So I think maybe we might have seen his true 121 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: colors at the end. But then again, that show can 122 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: make you know idio men look great. 123 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: And he was a great husband. 124 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: Mother Terresa a demon? 125 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: That marriage was really fraught. How other Theresa an idiot? 126 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: How that's the best that I could come up with. 127 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: How will Linda go without those dramatic stings? Though? What 128 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:11,799 Speaker 1: are you going to do without those? 129 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: Followed around by a bad life? 130 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: I'd love that. I'd love that following me around everywhere.