WEBVTT - Ask Uncut- Banging your boss & not setting boundaries 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.560 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.600 past and present. 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:11.399 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:24.160 recorded on de rug Wallamuta Land. Hi guys, and welcome 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:27.200 back to another episode of Life Uncut. I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:29.120 and Brittney's gun and Fear's alone. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:31.600 It's not in right now. I forgot to put it in. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:32.600 Oh my god, I forgot. 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:34.239 I've always said you had it on and then you 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:34.479 were like. 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:37.000 I was like, do you think I can record with 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:39.159 it on? And then I forgot to put it in? 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:42.760 So I did. Two days ago I got invisil line again. 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:45.720 Now I have had in Visilne. I had it five 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.560 years ago. I had it for about six or seven 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:50.199 months because my teeth weren't that bad, just a few 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.480 little crooked pick offences. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.560 Also, this is not sponsored by in Vizilin. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:56.120 It is not sponsored. No. So five years ago I 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:58.639 had in visil line, fixed my teeth right up and 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:02.720 then very unnew usual for her, but delilah. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:07.160 Ate she never eats anything that's important. Ever, She never 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.520 She only eats things very important. But she ate my retainer. 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.280 How many retainers did she eat? Two? 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:16.800 Three, four? You know, shaite two, shade two. Yeah, So 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:19.680 when you finish your in visil line, it's not just over. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:23.759 You have to then wear a plate forever at night time. 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:25.960 It's like a retainer, so every night for the rest 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.240 of existence, so that your teeth don't move. You put 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:31.040 this anyway, it's very annoying. It's hard to remember whatever. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.520 That's irrelevant. Delilah ate my visil line, set ate it, 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:36.480 tewed it to bits and I was like, that's so annoying. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.360 I have one more left. Then she buried that one 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:39.480 in the yard. Cannot find it. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.240 It's kind of like when you lose a car key 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:42.960 and then you have one car key left and you 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:44.960 just you just run it. You run it so long. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:46.399 You know you should get a spare, but you do 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.080 it so long until you also lose that one, and 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:48.760 then you're fucked. 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:51.040 And then you do lose it and it kind of 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.640 happen and then your teeth move as a matter of 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:53.919 time and you can't drive your car anymore. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:54.760 Now you're snag. 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.400 So yeah, I've got the little clips on my teeth, 0:01:57.440 --> 0:02:02.480 but I have a tiny, little they very little lisp. 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.880 It's cute when I wear it, so I have to 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.520 get used to it before I put on for the recorder. 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:08.080 I was the whole way through. 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:08.560 Do you know? 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:09.560 I think I've told you this. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.120 I used to have a gap so big between my 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:13.799 front teeth that I could fit a two dollar coin 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.280 between it. Before I got in visil line, I kind 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:20.800 of face is like, what that's a little gapping map. Yeah, 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.400 like a gapping gapster. I used to be able to 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.680 like put coins between it. My mom, Oh, it was 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:27.280 a joke. I used to get called a piggybank. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:31.919 That's really mean. 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:34.000 Is it cute? It's so mean. Yeah, I've got lots 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:35.960 of childhood trauma. We could start unpacking it one day 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:36.480 if you want to. 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:39.680 There are supermodels with gaps that are only supermodels because 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:40.239 of their gaps. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.480 So yeah, that's where I went wrong. I got mine 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.320 closed up and then the career was over. 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.120 That was the only Yeah. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.919 Yeah, well, I mean yesterday we went to Melbourne, had 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:49.480 a cute day. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:51.600 Yeah, down and back just for lung, did. 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:53.720 A fly by, and now we're here, ready to answer 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.440 all your deep dark and you're burning questions. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.160 So I had this realization this morning. Do you know 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:01.880 those like how do you know your partner's not gonna 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:03.680 cheat on you? Kind of thing? They're pretty funny. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:07.480 Wait, you had a realization that Ben wasn't gonna cheat 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:09.320 on you, or you realize you were't gonna cheat on bed. 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:11.320 Well, it's made me want to put this out to 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:14.600 the life is right because I had a realization this morning. 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:17.520 I was getting ready for work, and I always FaceTime 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:21.600 Ben in the morning. I'm usually this is my preference. 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.239 I'm usually waxed down there. 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:27.000 Do you wax? Do laser? Do you? So? 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.440 I lasered many moons ago and then I didn't again, 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:31.200 didn't do the follow up the same as it's retainer. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:34.560 You just get away from me. It's like, that's a 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:35.720 real theme going on here. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:37.000 Now you wax the stragglers. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:40.240 Well, no, it's no, it didn't. It just grows back aftertime. 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.680 If you don't continue your laser, it goes back to 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:43.880 pretty much normal. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.760 So is it not like thinner or whispy. 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.320 There's not a wisp. It's not like a blowdry, it's 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:52.560 not bouncy. It's just it's thinner. Yeah, it grows back less, 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:56.400 but it's still pretty normal. Like it's a pretty normal growth. Now. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:04:00.680 I have not maintained that since I came back from 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:02.720 Scotland to see bands, so it's been a couple of months. 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.120 I'm just I'm just living my best life. It is wild. 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.960 It's three months, yeah, almost three months. Three months of growth, 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.760 which is fine if you're somebody who embraces full bush. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.640 But knowing that you're not that person, it's. 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:14.480 Fine if you are a busher. I'm not a busher 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:15.119 at all. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:16.520 I'm like a bull turkey. 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:18.680 Sure was not going to say that. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:19.920 Like a little hairless cat. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.640 Yeah, I'm the Persian cat. That sounds better than what 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:30.240 sphinx sphinx cat. Yeah whatever, We're really getting off track. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.280 My vagina is not wrinkling. I am not like a 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.719 sphinx cat. It is just usually hairless. So I'm getting 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.839 ready for next morning jumping the shower and he caught 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.440 a glimpse. He was like, well, it's like, what's going 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.919 on down there? I started laughing. I said, hey, at 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:45.960 least you know I'm not cheating on you. He's like, why, 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:47.360 because you got the bush and I was like, yeah, 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.880 like I would maintain this if I was ever gonna 0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:51.800 cheat on you. If the day comes that you're not 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:54.400 here and this is like looking beautiful and maintain, you 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:55.080 know something's up. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:58.240 Are you saying that you will only maintain for someone else? 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.400 Like if you're on your own, you will not, Like, 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.240 none of that is for your own. I don't know. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.680 Sense of sexiness. It's only if you're single and you 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:06.760 think that you're gonna get. 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:10.280 Some, not all the time. Sometimes I would in the past, 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.800 but I've been really busy and tired, and I haven't 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.280 even been able to go to the beach right lately. 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.520 I've been really I just have been working in the days. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.440 That's it. I've been really committed. But I went to 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:23.520 the beach the other day with producing Geisha. I took 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.960 my pants off and given producing Gisha was like wow 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:30.440 because I had like this high cat bikini. She's like, oh, 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:32.400 you've been lazy back home. And I looked down and 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:33.919 I was like, oh my god. It's like and there's 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.560 nothing wrong with bush, but I just it really hit 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.360 home then because I just ignore it. I don't even 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:41.000 look down there, to be honest, when I'm welcome. 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:42.640 To being married and having two kids, I can't even 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:43.719 tell you what it's like anymore. 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:44.200 There you go. 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:44.640 Now. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.400 I know it is trivial. I know it's ridiculous. There 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.240 is nothing wrong with the bush. I cannot stress that enough. 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:53.640 But for me, I don't like it. I don't want it, 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.240 and historically speaking, I haven't had it. So it is 0:05:56.279 --> 0:05:58.159 that kind of a thing where it's like, now that 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.800 it's here, if I'm jazzing it up questions. It's like 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:01.839 when you used to go out. 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:02.440 I don't know if. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.160 Anyone else has ever done this or if this is 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:05.760 again just me, but when you used to go out, 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.960 if you were like if you were single, and you're like, 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:10.440 I definitely just want to go to my friends. I 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:11.880 don't want to hook up with anyone. I want to 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.520 make sure I'm looking up with anyone. So you wear 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.599 like your biggest bridge at Jones is you. You're like 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.920 as unsexy as it can get, so that if the 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.760 if thecious nodding her head, if the opportunity presents itself, 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:24.039 you've got to remember that you've got your bridget Jones 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.240 is on, Yeah, your Grainny Undies or whatever else. It's 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:28.520 sort of like that, But no, I do still sometimes 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:31.279 when I've got the energy maintain it. But I just 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.359 haven't lately, and I just haven't felt the need. I 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.159 just I just really want to live my best life. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:36.760 Do you know what mine is? Mineus? If I don't 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:38.680 draw my eyebrows on, like, I get to a point 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.200 where I'm like. 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:40.719 Oh my extreme, I don't. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.320 So Matt knows if you put your eyebrows on his well, no, 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:46.640 Like I don't put eyebrows on for myself. It's for 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:48.760 other people, but I'll only do it when I'm leaving 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.520 the house or like, but if I'm just a home 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.720 with Matt, no eyebrows, But eyeraws are very important to me. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:54.599 Okay, so eyebrows is your think, I ras are my thing. 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:56.680 Like if I'm like, if I'm really staunched on never 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.800 leaving the house without it, it's because. 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:00.840 If anyone else being like a thing, like maybe their 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:03.120 partner plays video games or something like or just ordered 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:05.960 twenty one new video games, You're like, feel pretty safe. 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:09.360 They're not gonna do let us know if you have one. 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:11.720 All right, well, there was something else you wanted to 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:13.640 seek about before we get into answering all you're deep, 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:17.160 dark and you're burning questions, and that is h Hugh 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:18.560 Grant at the Oscars. 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.520 Yeah, I imagine most people have seen this by now, but. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:22.400 I hadn't seen that. 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.960 I actually was surprised by that because you do live 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:26.920 on your phone and it is everywhere. 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.040 I've been very busy. 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:33.760 So Hugh Grant and Ashley Graham have had this altercation. 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:35.440 And I don't want to say I say altercation in 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.600 rabbity is because it wasn't really, but okay, they're going viral. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.600 I woke up after the Oscars and all I could 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:45.200 read online is how much of an asshole Hugh Grant was, 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.440 how rude Hugh Grant was. Can't believe he did that. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.320 Everyone was saying, I can't believe Hugh Grant did this. 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:51.840 If you don't want to be at the Oscar's on 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.080 the red carp and be interfew, don't go. Why do 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.040 you have to be such a prick? Is it hard 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:59.200 to just have some respect? Because Ashley Graham, who came 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.840 into the spotlight for being plus sized model body positivity 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:04.840 in the States, and now she's interviewing, which is amazing, 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.160 Like she's on the Oscars interviewing some of the biggest 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:07.800 stars in the world. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:08.840 It is pretty cool. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:13.160 Have a little listen, Hugret, you are a veteran of 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.520 the Oscars and you've been here a few times. What's 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:18.680 your favorite thing about coming to the Oscars? 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:25.760 Well, love, it's fascinating. 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:31.520 It's the whole of humanity is here. It's it's fantasy fair. Oh, 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:33.120 it's all about vanity fair. 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.520 Yes, that's where we let loosen have a little go fun. 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:38.200 What are you most excited to see tonight? 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:39.440 To see? 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.680 Yeah, well I know that you probably watched a few 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:43.480 of the movies. Are you excited to see anybody? 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:43.720 When? 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:48.559 Do you have your hopes up for anyone? Not? 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:50.360 No one in particular? 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.520 Okay, well what are you wearing tonight? 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:52.719 Then? 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:54.319 Just my suit? 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:55.199 Your suit? 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:56.000 Major suit? 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.600 You didn't make it, I can't remember my Taylor. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:03.240 That's okay, to the tailor. So tell me what does 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.719 it feel like to be in Glass Onion? It was 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:07.200 such an amazing film. 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.040 I really loved it. I love a thriller. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.480 How fun is it to shoot something like that? 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.600 Well, I'm barely in it. I'm in it for about 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:14.320 three seconds. 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:16.640 Yeah, but still you showed up and you had fun? 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.040 Right almost? 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:21.840 Okay, all right, okay, Well thank you so much. It 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.000 was nice to talk to you all right, back to 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:24.480 you guys. 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:27.280 Okay. So I hadn't seen this until this morning, and 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:28.839 Britt comes in and she's like, I really want to 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:32.280 talk about the Ashley and q Grant situation, to which 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:35.040 I was none the wiser, but now, but now I 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:38.160 feel like I'm fully abreast of it. I don't think 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.640 it is that bad. Do I think he's an asshole? 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.840 Do I think he treated her terribly in the big Carbet? No, 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.320 I don't think it's that bad. I do think that 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.199 maybe it's been quite inflamed. I haven't seen all the 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:52.079 articles that you've read. I haven't seen like the backlash 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.640 that he's received, so I can't speak to how bad 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:54.920 it's been. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:57.360 Well, they've literally labeled it viral. They're like, this has 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:58.080 gone viral. 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.719 Okay, Well, I mean, I think though he's given her 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:04.360 nothing like it would be incredibly nerve wracking to be 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:07.080 the person to ask questions on the red carpet. I 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:10.400 think her questions are particularly poor. I think they're particularly 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:13.600 average questions which he's just not giving her anything back. 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:15.240 I mean, I do think he could have been a 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.800 little bit nicer and maybe been a little bit more enthusiastic. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:19.840 But I guess the big debate that we've been having 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:22.319 in the office is whether or not there's a responsibility for. 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:24.080 Him to be that. Well, this is the thing. If 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:27.280 you guys go and watch the clip, I imagine maybe 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:30.400 it's a country by country thing. Maybe it's Americans, British Australians. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:33.960 Maybe we formulated our opinions differently. Neither of them were amazing. 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:37.520 She was not a good interviewer, I don't think. And 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.960 he didn't respond well. And now maybe this was a 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.560 domino effect or like a bouncing effect, because she didn't 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:44.920 give him good questions. He didn't give her good answers, 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:48.240 flustered her. She gave him worse questions back. He was 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:49.760 getting over it. I don't know if this is what 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:51.360 it was. It was like a table tennis back and 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:55.280 forth of a shit fight. Her interview style was fine 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:59.760 for maybe an every day down the street interview with 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:02.760 some or a local premiere. I don't think it was 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:05.360 up to the standard of an oscar red carpet, and 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:08.640 I think that's what Hugh probably thought. I also think 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.760 Hugh probably thought she didn't really know much about him, 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:13.200 which maybe he got defensive about because the questions were 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.440 very simple. She asked him about the Glass Sungions movie 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.280 he was in and how amazing it was to film that, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:20.840 and people are saying he was rude because he said 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:22.760 back to her, I mean I was only in it 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.760 for three seconds, because he made the smallest cameo. I 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.120 don't think that's rude. She asked him how amazing it 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.720 was to film. He was like, I don't know. I 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:31.480 opened a door. I was in it for three whole seconds, 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:33.120 Like I just wasn't there, I thought. 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:35.400 She asked him, did you have fun? Like is it fun? 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.000 She did, which I think, I mean, obviously the answer 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.000 is yes, I had fun. But it's truly I guess 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:43.000 I think it kind of trivialized. Is it a bit 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:44.679 right if that's the only if you have this one 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:46.640 opportunity to ask someone a question on the red carpet 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.080 or the Oscars, and you're asking Hugh Grant what he's wearing, 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:53.439 and if he had heaps of fun doing a movie 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:55.240 that he only was in for four seconds, when he 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.640 is a literal superstar yeah and has been the lead 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:59.959 role of many movies. I feel like it just trivialized 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:04.240 his accomplishments. And that was probably why he wasn't. I mean, 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:06.480 I don't think he was rude. I think he didn't 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:08.360 give her anything. That was it. It was the lack 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:10.640 of enthusiasm. But I think the reason for the lack 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:13.240 of enthusiasm is because of the lack of prep that 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:14.600 she's put into the questions. 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.800 I think so, And my heart goes out to her 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:20.480 because you can see that she's like viscerally nervous. I 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.800 feel like, as someone that has done interviews, it is 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.000 nerve wracking. No, no, I know you have too, Laura. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:28.280 It's a horrible feeling, especially when things go off peace 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:29.880 and then not going the way you think they're going 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:31.880 to go, which is what happened for her. And she 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:34.480 did a good enough job. She still came across okay. 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.440 But I felt for her because I could feel and 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:39.160 see her nerves and I could hear it in her voice. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.080 She kept it together, but at the end of the day, 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.480 like she threw a question to him when she panicked, 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:47.400 what are you wearing? We have heard so many women 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.520 in the past come out on the red carpet and say, 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.600 but you know, please don't ask me that, ask me 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.640 about what I've just done. Ask me about my work, 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.160 ask me about what I'm doing, because you know, this 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:56.480 is my life and I'm putting so much into it. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.160 Let's not focus on what I look like in this 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.320 hot second. Maybe you felt they maybe he was like, oh, 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.199 you know, I've done so much work and so much 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:05.240 acting on it. He's literally anclaimed actor. Does that make 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.080 him a wanker for wanting that? I don't know. Maybe, 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:09.360 but she's gone down the root of what head you wear? 0:13:09.400 --> 0:13:11.160 And I think at the end of the day, these 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:15.120 people are walking down the red carpet with so many media, 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:16.760 they get like a minute or two with each person, 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:19.120 they move on, they do questions again, So we don't know. 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:21.840 This is a small snippet in a big night. We 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.800 don't know where she was in the interview, Q, how 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:27.319 many he'd done, whatever. But I don't think this interview 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:31.440 deserves the hate that Hugh is getting around the world 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.400 right now. It is not actually wild. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.160 I think when somebody is not giving a good interview 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.800 and they don't and haven't done the prep on that person, 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:41.360 and they don't seem to know anything that would like 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:44.960 spark an interesting conversation, I do think that it would 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.080 be very exasperating for that person who's then got to 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.440 carry the interview, got to seem like they're enthusiastic about 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:52.920 something that they're not. However, there is a lot to 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.120 be said about when you're the person who is in 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:59.360 that position. So Hugh being hugely successful, he is at 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.160 the top of his he once upon a time was 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:03.880 not at the top of his game. He once upon 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.560 a time would have been the person that was nervous totally. 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:09.320 He would have been in the situation where maybe he 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.760 fumbled questions, maybe he wasn't able to, you know, perform. 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:15.280 And I think it goes so far to give an 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:18.120 olive branch. When you see someone doing that, it shows 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.120 a real level of kindness and empathy. If you can 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.680 see that someone's struggling on the receiving end, maybe they're 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:25.480 not doing their job well in that space, give them 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:27.640 more because it makes their job easier. And I think 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:30.960 in this instance he could have leaned into being nice 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.080 and giving more, but instead he was a bit like 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.400 what the fuck are you asking me, which I think 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.920 is not the most helpful or kind way of going 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:40.400 about it. Do I think that makes him an asshole? No, 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:42.640 But I think that there's many factors here, and maybe 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.160 the backlash has been a bit too extreme. 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:45.960 Yeah, of course he could have given them more. Everyone 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.240 can always give them more. But then the argument, And 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.400 I do want to say I didn't formulate my opinion 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.160 until I did a lot of deep diggy. 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.640 I also want to say, I think most people read 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:56.640 articles and then you get a vibe. You're like, yeah, 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.840 that guy's an asshole. You are Can you see five 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.080 seconds of a clip? You don't actually watch the extended 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:05.200 version of what happens, And then you're formulating an opinion 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.200 based on other people's opinion, which is very fucking dangerous. 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:09.760 Yes. The last thing I want to say is a 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.920 lot of British have come out in his defense, some actors, 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:15.800 like some people in the Spotlight, just some everyday folk 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:19.760 and have said, guys, this, this is not rude. This 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:22.440 is literally just British. This is the way we are. 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:25.480 We aren't over the top and enthusiastic like Americans are, 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.600 so we don't converse in the same way. 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:28.520 Could he have given more? 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:30.600 Yes? Is he supposed to be the most hate man 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:32.880 in the world today for that interview? Absolutely not. And 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:34.880 I only come out in his defense a little bit 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.960 because I think it's really unfair that, like you just said, 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.240 I think a lot of people very easily these days 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.680 don't consume news and media in the right way. I 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.480 think we scroll past. I've done it before. We scroll past, 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.400 we read the headline, we formulate the opinion, we tell 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:51.240 everyone else, we get angry. Do you see how much 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:52.600 a wanker here Grant was? What do you do? I 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.280 don't know it was really rude on the red carpet though, 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:55.720 but yeah, I didn't seen it. And that's just a 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.720 small example. So I think that this one was a 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:00.840 prime example of consuming new in a better way. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.040 Well also, just like it's a perfect example of how 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:05.720 some things are just not that bad as what they 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:09.680 seem like when you read a headline. Absolutely click before 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.560