WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Laura momentarily forgot her husband's name 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 Hi Heart podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:20.418 live on the Free iHeart app A good pickup with 0:00:20.579 --> 0:00:25.739 Britt Hockley and Laura Ben Lady. Your work, our windows done. 0:00:25.859 --> 0:00:29.579 That's my world. Reason the dust only good, bab dougle down. 0:00:30.659 --> 0:00:34.699 I've don't much, but yeah I know I'll big get 0:00:34.699 --> 0:00:35.659 and what I want. 0:00:35.939 --> 0:00:37.019 It don't matter where. 0:00:37.699 --> 0:00:41.259 This is the pick up. Hi guys, welcome back but 0:00:41.419 --> 0:00:43.179 here again after a nice little break. It's the pick 0:00:43.259 --> 0:00:45.059 up with Brett Hockley and Laura Burr. Are you welcome 0:00:45.059 --> 0:00:47.179 me back or the listeners or who are you welcoming? 0:00:47.299 --> 0:00:47.539 Really? 0:00:47.619 --> 0:00:48.659 Welcome back to your show. 0:00:48.899 --> 0:00:51.699 We did have a little week Vaca, how is yours? 0:00:51.899 --> 0:00:53.379 It was nice not to see each other just for 0:00:53.419 --> 0:00:54.219 one week, wasn't it. 0:00:54.339 --> 0:00:58.219 No? I missed you. You ssh you are lying through 0:00:58.259 --> 0:01:00.219 your teeth. You love to get away from me for 0:01:00.219 --> 0:01:02.459 a week. I know I do miss the team when 0:01:02.499 --> 0:01:04.619 I have a week off, but it was very nice. 0:01:04.819 --> 0:01:07.179 The only thing is is it's like when you're on 0:01:07.179 --> 0:01:09.299 holidays and the kids are off too. There's so much 0:01:09.379 --> 0:01:11.859 planning that goes into it. It's two o'clock every day. 0:01:11.938 --> 0:01:14.419 My kids were like, I'm bored. This day sucks. We 0:01:14.539 --> 0:01:17.658 do nothing. We'd already been bowling, We'd already done clay art. 0:01:17.699 --> 0:01:20.539 Like there was one morning there, it was a Tuesday. 0:01:21.018 --> 0:01:24.339 I had done clay art and done puzzles all by 0:01:24.419 --> 0:01:25.938 nine am. We picked too early. 0:01:26.059 --> 0:01:27.859 So you don't want to hear me say now that 0:01:27.899 --> 0:01:29.419 there was one day that it was ten am and 0:01:29.419 --> 0:01:30.859 I was still just rolling around in bed. 0:01:31.098 --> 0:01:33.618 I don't know what that is anymore. I have never 0:01:33.699 --> 0:01:35.978 There hasn't been a day I don't know what clayart is. 0:01:37.139 --> 0:01:40.059 And puzzles my dating life was the only puzzle I 0:01:40.098 --> 0:01:41.098 ever experienced. 0:01:40.699 --> 0:01:42.899 In the last ten years. Oh well, look, you know, okay, 0:01:43.018 --> 0:01:45.139 I am having a baby in the next I have 0:01:45.419 --> 0:01:48.059 a baby. I think I'm nine weeks off now nine 0:01:48.139 --> 0:01:50.099 weeks and this baby number three will be out in 0:01:50.139 --> 0:01:51.979 the world. Why are you looking at producer Grace to 0:01:52.019 --> 0:01:54.899 confirm how far away your baby? She is more organized 0:01:54.899 --> 0:01:57.099 than I am, and I'm in a diary. I'm hoping 0:01:57.099 --> 0:01:58.499 one of you guys know my due date. 0:01:58.619 --> 0:01:58.739 No. 0:01:58.979 --> 0:02:01.579 Look, they do say. Baby brain is a thing. And 0:02:01.619 --> 0:02:04.539 it turns out that I have had a few mistakes 0:02:04.579 --> 0:02:07.379 during the holidays. One of them involves my husband we're 0:02:07.379 --> 0:02:11.179 gonna talk about it next pick up on kiss. Something 0:02:11.219 --> 0:02:13.539 happened to me on holidays which really got me into 0:02:13.619 --> 0:02:16.059 the got me into the bad books with my husband. 0:02:16.179 --> 0:02:19.899 Tell you weast your pants again. That's a daily occurrence. Now, Okay, 0:02:19.978 --> 0:02:24.859 somebody messaged me on Instagram and said, Laura, you've been 0:02:24.899 --> 0:02:28.858 talking about wetting your pants. Context people. I'm three, I'm 0:02:28.859 --> 0:02:31.059 having my third baby, and I'm in like well into 0:02:31.099 --> 0:02:34.059 third trimester, and so it's just now a regular thing. 0:02:34.138 --> 0:02:36.899 And I got a message from a very concerned listener 0:02:37.258 --> 0:02:40.539 who said, I think you might have a prolapse. Maybe 0:02:40.859 --> 0:02:42.419 I think I need to stop talking. 0:02:42.899 --> 0:02:44.619 Do you know there's a seat you can I've done 0:02:44.619 --> 0:02:46.499 it before once. I forget what it's called. But you 0:02:46.538 --> 0:02:48.698 sit on it for pelvic floor and it puts these 0:02:48.819 --> 0:02:52.538 vibration tightening things into you and it helps to tighten it. 0:02:52.538 --> 0:02:54.139 It's a seat that you sit on. I've sat on it. 0:02:58.739 --> 0:03:00.139 I would like it to be known. I don't want 0:03:00.179 --> 0:03:01.179 to sit on the same one. 0:03:01.779 --> 0:03:04.579 No, it's a proper thing at a physio And okay, okay, 0:03:04.579 --> 0:03:05.499 I don't wet myself. 0:03:05.538 --> 0:03:07.379 I've just dug myself behole. You really have. 0:03:07.659 --> 0:03:08.459 Cride it for a friend. 0:03:08.739 --> 0:03:10.738 She is the physio, and she's like, Hey, I got 0:03:10.739 --> 0:03:11.739 this new equipment. 0:03:11.819 --> 0:03:12.499 Do you want to try it? 0:03:12.579 --> 0:03:14.819 And it tightens? Can we get back on track? I'm 0:03:14.859 --> 0:03:17.899 doing my key, I'm doing my Keegel's exercises at the 0:03:17.939 --> 0:03:20.258 traffic lights, and I'm sure everyone is thrilled to know. 0:03:20.459 --> 0:03:22.338 If I'm stopped at a red light, you better bet 0:03:22.379 --> 0:03:23.778 I'm doing Keegel's exercises. 0:03:23.859 --> 0:03:24.019 Well. 0:03:24.258 --> 0:03:26.419 Producer Grace is on the case. She's googling the seat. 0:03:26.579 --> 0:03:28.539 Okay, So this happened to me on the holidays though. 0:03:28.739 --> 0:03:31.179 I went into Kmar and I was with my husband 0:03:31.619 --> 0:03:33.858 and my kids. We were running around and we were 0:03:33.899 --> 0:03:35.458 down the coast, so we were like a couple of 0:03:35.499 --> 0:03:37.738 hours away from where we usually live. So I'm walking 0:03:37.739 --> 0:03:40.659 around Kmart and Matt's next to me and I see 0:03:40.699 --> 0:03:44.179 this guy who I have not seen him in Oh 0:03:44.179 --> 0:03:46.419 my goodness, Like, what twenty years? I hooked up with 0:03:46.499 --> 0:03:48.299 him in the No. No, he used to date a 0:03:48.339 --> 0:03:50.259 friend of mine. But it was just this weird moment 0:03:50.339 --> 0:03:52.819 because it's been twenty years since I've seen him. We 0:03:52.939 --> 0:03:56.419 used to play water polo together and he was there 0:03:56.459 --> 0:03:58.979 with his two kids and he looked like this guy 0:03:58.979 --> 0:04:01.419 I knew from twenty years ago, except twenty years older. 0:04:01.499 --> 0:04:03.579 You know, we all just look a lot different to 0:04:03.619 --> 0:04:05.859 back then and right, and I saw him and I 0:04:05.899 --> 0:04:09.299 was like, well, Liam, is that you? And then he 0:04:09.339 --> 0:04:11.139 looked at me like he had no idea who I was. 0:04:11.539 --> 0:04:13.019 So then I listened to the pick up, so then 0:04:13.059 --> 0:04:14.619 I had to explain who I was. I was like, oh, 0:04:14.659 --> 0:04:17.539 it's Laura. We used to play water polo together, and 0:04:17.579 --> 0:04:24.779 this is my husband Ben. Wait you introduced your husband 0:04:24.779 --> 0:04:28.178 as my husband. Now, just for reference everyone, my husband's 0:04:28.259 --> 0:04:31.219 name is Matt and my husband's name is Ben. And 0:04:31.339 --> 0:04:33.859 I didn't even realize I had said it. I just 0:04:33.899 --> 0:04:37.619 steamrolled kept talking to this Liam guy started trying to 0:04:37.699 --> 0:04:40.059 kid up a conversation about water polo and Matt just 0:04:40.099 --> 0:04:43.299 stood there. And then Liam goes to shake his hand, 0:04:43.939 --> 0:04:46.779 and Matt turns around and goes, ah, sorry, mate, my 0:04:46.859 --> 0:04:50.779 name's actually Matt. This is a bit awkward, and then 0:04:50.779 --> 0:04:53.419 he goes, I think that's her other husband. And honestly, 0:04:53.499 --> 0:04:54.699 I don't know why I did it. 0:04:54.739 --> 0:04:58.219 I think, are you fantasizing about my husband even through 0:04:58.259 --> 0:04:58.659 this with me? 0:04:58.699 --> 0:04:59.779 Is there an intervention here? 0:04:59.899 --> 0:05:02.459 To be fair, my ex boyfriend's name is Ben, and 0:05:02.539 --> 0:05:05.299 I it was just the most Freudian slip ever. I 0:05:05.339 --> 0:05:08.219 don't know why it came out. And then you know, 0:05:08.219 --> 0:05:09.979 when you I know you've made a mistake. So Liam 0:05:09.979 --> 0:05:11.739 thinks you're cooked. He's like, you don't even know who 0:05:11.739 --> 0:05:14.459 your husband is. Well, then when you know you've made 0:05:14.499 --> 0:05:16.619 a mistake, and you get a bit embarrassed because I 0:05:16.659 --> 0:05:18.899 was Laura a wife. Why were you embarrassed? I couldn't 0:05:18.899 --> 0:05:21.139 imagine why, or just like nothing that was coming out 0:05:21.179 --> 0:05:24.379 of my mouth would have made any sense. He's like, oh, Laura, Wow, 0:05:24.459 --> 0:05:26.939 she went downhill rapidly up to water polo when we 0:05:26.939 --> 0:05:27.499 were ninety. 0:05:28.619 --> 0:05:31.819 Okay, so you've had this moment because I imagine if I 0:05:31.979 --> 0:05:33.859 was Matt and that happened, I would. 0:05:33.619 --> 0:05:34.499 Want to talk about that. 0:05:34.539 --> 0:05:37.299 When we left, did he ask you, like where that 0:05:37.339 --> 0:05:39.259 came from, or like did he feel be put. 0:05:39.139 --> 0:05:42.539 Off by it? I apologized and we walked out, and 0:05:42.539 --> 0:05:44.259 I was like, oh my god, that's so embarrassing. I'm 0:05:44.379 --> 0:05:48.379 very sorry that that happened. I was thinking and I 0:05:48.379 --> 0:05:49.899 don't even think this is true. I think I just 0:05:49.939 --> 0:05:51.899 made it up. I was like, I was thinking that 0:05:51.939 --> 0:05:57.099 I need to message your Ben to say congratulation, which 0:05:57.139 --> 0:05:59.139 wasn't even true. I hadn't thought that. I don't know 0:05:59.179 --> 0:06:02.099 why I said your husband's name, that I introduced my 0:06:02.179 --> 0:06:04.379 husband as your husband. There's no good way out of it, 0:06:04.539 --> 0:06:06.699 because he knows you only know two bends and ex 0:06:06.859 --> 0:06:09.099 or my husband like this. There's two past. You could 0:06:09.139 --> 0:06:11.859 take Robert Frost the poem. I just I'm sure Liam's 0:06:11.899 --> 0:06:13.819 not listening since he had no idea who I was. 0:06:13.819 --> 0:06:17.259 I'm not concerned about Liam. I'm concerned about Matt. Lilliam's gone. 0:06:17.299 --> 0:06:19.299 Liam's lost in spotlight wherever he is. 0:06:19.899 --> 0:06:22.499 This is about your husband, and I think it's funny 0:06:22.539 --> 0:06:23.979 that you're still concerned about Liam. 0:06:24.739 --> 0:06:27.379 I was so embarrassed. Matt got over it. He knows 0:06:27.419 --> 0:06:29.619 I've done worse. I did a lot of embarrassing things 0:06:29.699 --> 0:06:30.659 during this holiday break. 0:06:30.659 --> 0:06:32.459 I did think it was weird. Ben asked me last night. 0:06:32.499 --> 0:06:34.299 He's like, why has Matt blocked me on Instagram? 0:06:34.899 --> 0:06:37.019 Nah? Yeah, it was one time at Britt. I'll tell 0:06:37.059 --> 0:06:40.139 you about it another day. Laura. 0:06:40.139 --> 0:06:43.539 There is a really big Hollywood couple that okay, mind 0:06:43.539 --> 0:06:44.179 you I say big. 0:06:44.219 --> 0:06:45.779 We did just have to do some googling about I 0:06:45.859 --> 0:06:49.259 knew who they were, which doesn't. That's like actually outrageous 0:06:49.259 --> 0:06:51.139 because I don't know who anyone is weird because sometimes 0:06:51.139 --> 0:06:51.979 you're like, who's Beyonce? 0:06:52.179 --> 0:06:55.299 But you do know who Jerry O'Connell and Rebecca Remain are. 0:06:55.459 --> 0:06:58.699 So Jerry and Rebecca have been married for nearly twenty years. 0:06:58.739 --> 0:07:00.379 They're both Hollywood superstars. 0:07:00.699 --> 0:07:02.859 But they're doing the rounds online at the moment for 0:07:02.979 --> 0:07:05.939 something that they just discussed on Andy Cohen. They were 0:07:05.979 --> 0:07:08.499 talking about their finances and the way they share finance 0:07:08.499 --> 0:07:10.499 Answers have a listened to what they said. 0:07:11.019 --> 0:07:14.779 I mean, Rebecca, is I mean do you have a 0:07:14.899 --> 0:07:19.619 joint bank account, because I mean we all are zero money, 0:07:19.619 --> 0:07:21.739 completely separate. I bet you do. I mean there's like 0:07:21.779 --> 0:07:25.179 a community pass. Do you both contribute to the kids 0:07:25.219 --> 0:07:30.499 community quarterly? And it's a set fixed amount. We actually 0:07:30.579 --> 0:07:33.899 throttle how much money we put into that account. Sometimes, 0:07:33.979 --> 0:07:35.979 what do you mean depending on who's working more? 0:07:36.099 --> 0:07:36.259 Oh? 0:07:36.619 --> 0:07:38.939 You so you say the one who's not working gets 0:07:38.939 --> 0:07:40.059 a little bit of a brig. 0:07:40.379 --> 0:07:43.379 So interestingly, they go on to say further, in eighteen 0:07:43.459 --> 0:07:46.299 years that they've been together, they don't know what each 0:07:46.299 --> 0:07:48.819 other earns, like they have no concept of what they've 0:07:48.819 --> 0:07:51.259 got where they've got in the bank or anything, and 0:07:51.299 --> 0:07:54.059 then like three times a year they both just put 0:07:54.059 --> 0:07:55.699 a chunk of money into this communal pot. 0:07:55.779 --> 0:07:57.939 But they don't even know what they're putting in. This 0:07:58.019 --> 0:08:00.099 sounds like a rich person problem. They can only do 0:08:00.179 --> 0:08:02.139 this because they're so well if you don't know who 0:08:02.179 --> 0:08:04.859 they are. So Rebecca was mistiqun x men. She's been 0:08:04.899 --> 0:08:07.259 in lots of things. And Jerry O'Connell, the reason why 0:08:07.299 --> 0:08:08.819 I remember him is because he was in that TV 0:08:08.859 --> 0:08:11.859 show Sliders million years ago. He's been a scary movie, 0:08:11.899 --> 0:08:12.859 He's been in lots of things. 0:08:12.979 --> 0:08:14.619 He was at my crush when I was a teenager. 0:08:14.699 --> 0:08:16.019 Well, look, I mean, I don't know what he's been 0:08:16.059 --> 0:08:17.579 in recently. I think he's done a couple of talk 0:08:17.579 --> 0:08:20.539 shows and stuff. But for me, I think if you're 0:08:20.579 --> 0:08:23.699 married and you have kids, and I know that everyone's 0:08:23.739 --> 0:08:25.819 different when it comes to money, and there's no right 0:08:25.819 --> 0:08:27.939 way or wrong way of going about it. But I 0:08:27.979 --> 0:08:30.179 would say that most people just kind of put all 0:08:30.179 --> 0:08:32.979 their money together instead of keeping Actually maybe that is 0:08:33.019 --> 0:08:34.459 Maybe that's a that's a big assumption. 0:08:34.578 --> 0:08:36.139 I mean, I think there are right and wrong ways. 0:08:36.139 --> 0:08:37.858 There's definitely wrong ways. If you have no access to 0:08:37.899 --> 0:08:40.019 your money, Like there's definitely financial control, but that's not 0:08:40.019 --> 0:08:40.979 what we're talking about. 0:08:41.259 --> 0:08:43.899 I would find it unusual. 0:08:43.939 --> 0:08:45.859 And I've got one friend that I can think of 0:08:45.939 --> 0:08:48.899 that I remember thinking it was really weird. So I mean, 0:08:48.899 --> 0:08:50.179 maybe this is something that we put out to the 0:08:50.219 --> 0:08:52.219 public and we do a poll one day, But I 0:08:52.259 --> 0:08:55.659 would find it unusual if people had no idea about 0:08:55.699 --> 0:08:59.098 what their long term partner, husband, wife, father, mother of 0:08:59.139 --> 0:09:02.019 their kids earns. Like for me, even if your finances 0:09:02.019 --> 0:09:05.499 aren't necessarily shared, the unusual part of his conversation is 0:09:05.539 --> 0:09:08.379 not having any idea of like not even a ballpark. 0:09:08.539 --> 0:09:10.939 Yeah, your partner is bringing in I think that is weird. 0:09:10.979 --> 0:09:12.619 I think that's what I'll backtrack on. So I don't 0:09:12.619 --> 0:09:14.419 think that everyone just puts all their money into the 0:09:14.419 --> 0:09:16.619 same account. But I would say a lot of people 0:09:16.659 --> 0:09:19.059 have visibility or at least an understanding of what their 0:09:19.099 --> 0:09:21.459 partner earns. So the way Matt and I do it, 0:09:21.579 --> 0:09:24.659 we have our own accounts as well, Like so he's 0:09:24.699 --> 0:09:27.059 got his own account, I've got my own account. We 0:09:27.139 --> 0:09:30.819 have our offset account, but literally everything goes into that offset, 0:09:30.899 --> 0:09:33.459 like everything that we earn apart from I mean if 0:09:33.459 --> 0:09:35.779 Matt really wanted to keep a bit extra, I wouldn't know, 0:09:36.459 --> 0:09:38.459 and same might be and the same for me, Like 0:09:38.499 --> 0:09:41.019 I could keep a bit extra, but realistically, everything we 0:09:41.099 --> 0:09:43.859 earn goes in together because we're all working towards the 0:09:43.859 --> 0:09:46.939 same goals. So why would we keep money siphoned off? Yeah? 0:09:46.979 --> 0:09:49.539 And so my husband Ben and I we are very 0:09:49.579 --> 0:09:52.539 transparent with our money and our incomes and who has what. 0:09:53.059 --> 0:09:56.259 We have a communal account like a joint account. 0:09:56.299 --> 0:09:56.699 Did I say? 0:09:56.739 --> 0:09:59.019 We put money in, but it's not always the same amount. 0:09:59.139 --> 0:10:01.379 We don't like, we just put what we have, you know. 0:10:01.419 --> 0:10:03.739 It's like sometimes one person's putting more in, sometimes the 0:10:03.779 --> 0:10:06.539 other person. But we always and I till the day 0:10:06.579 --> 0:10:07.819 I die, And. 0:10:07.739 --> 0:10:09.379 I truly believe everyone should do this. 0:10:09.579 --> 0:10:11.819 I have my own account that is just for me, 0:10:11.939 --> 0:10:13.458 and he has his own account that's just for him. 0:10:13.499 --> 0:10:15.139 I guess it comes with a level of trust in 0:10:15.179 --> 0:10:18.738 your relationships. But I will never hand over my finances 0:10:18.859 --> 0:10:21.338 completely to anyone else ever. But I do think it's 0:10:21.379 --> 0:10:24.379 important that you are contributing equally and you know what 0:10:24.459 --> 0:10:25.139 the other person is. 0:10:25.259 --> 0:10:28.299 Yeah, I agree. Well, I mean, look, I really have 0:10:28.379 --> 0:10:30.139 backtracked to what I said at the stuff. Yeah, you 0:10:30.259 --> 0:10:33.179 like only only because the more I thought about it more, 0:10:33.179 --> 0:10:35.139 I was like, Oh, there's absolutely going to be people 0:10:35.139 --> 0:10:38.619 in cars who are in long term relationships and they've 0:10:38.659 --> 0:10:41.659 managed to keep their finances totally separate. Because everyone's at 0:10:41.699 --> 0:10:43.899 different stages of life, right Like, maybe you've been married 0:10:43.899 --> 0:10:47.019 divorced before you've met a new partner, you've gotten together 0:10:47.099 --> 0:10:48.659 and you've got your own lives set up, and so 0:10:48.699 --> 0:10:50.859 you don't need to put all your funds in the 0:10:50.859 --> 0:10:54.219 same pot. But I think sometimes, well maybe it's a 0:10:54.259 --> 0:10:56.619 healthy way of approaching it when you've got kids. I 0:10:56.619 --> 0:10:58.779 think it's just easier to kind of go, Okay, well 0:10:58.779 --> 0:11:01.259 we're both in this together, and having a bit of 0:11:01.819 --> 0:11:05.099 as much financial transparency as possible as the way to go. 0:11:05.499 --> 0:11:08.859 I think that Jerry and Rebecca's set up is pretty unused. 0:11:08.579 --> 0:11:11.899 Rule well, interestingly, there is another Hollywood couple that have 0:11:11.939 --> 0:11:12.739 spoken about this in. 0:11:12.659 --> 0:11:15.259 The past, Selma Hayak and her husband. 0:11:15.299 --> 0:11:20.179 I'm going to butcher his name, Francois Henry Pinall Pinol. Anyway, 0:11:20.459 --> 0:11:23.339 I'd be devoted in that sense they keep everything separate. 0:11:23.339 --> 0:11:25.979 But he's a billionaire, so I guess that's why he's 0:11:26.019 --> 0:11:26.979 like a literal billionaire. 0:11:27.099 --> 0:11:29.338 So I guess that's why he's probably been like, you know, 0:11:29.379 --> 0:11:34.099 like you can have your money, britt How old do 0:11:34.139 --> 0:11:38.019 you think old is? If you how old are you really? Actually? 0:11:38.059 --> 0:11:40.379 How old? I'd start with that because the Daily Mail 0:11:40.459 --> 0:11:42.339 keeps reporting on it wrong and no one's really sure 0:11:42.379 --> 0:11:43.739 how old it is, Brittany Hockley. 0:11:43.859 --> 0:11:47.339 My birthday next week, the investigation twenty eight. 0:11:49.419 --> 0:11:53.619 And I will die on that hill. How old? That 0:11:53.779 --> 0:11:55.979 is an open ended question. The reason why I love 0:11:56.019 --> 0:11:57.859 this so much. We had a discussion about the four 0:11:57.899 --> 0:12:00.539 britt you have like softly lied about your age for 0:12:00.619 --> 0:12:02.499 so long that the Daily Mail doesn't even know how 0:12:02.499 --> 0:12:03.019 old you are. 0:12:03.059 --> 0:12:06.059 Now I made a couple of jokes here and there, 0:12:06.099 --> 0:12:08.779 and now I have forgotten, in fact how old I am, 0:12:08.819 --> 0:12:10.699 so I can't confirm nor deny. 0:12:10.819 --> 0:12:12.899 Well. The reason why we're talking about this is because 0:12:12.979 --> 0:12:16.099 there's quite a few tiktoks and social reels that are 0:12:16.099 --> 0:12:18.739 going viral at the moment where gen zs are being 0:12:18.859 --> 0:12:22.219 asked how old is old? Like, what is the definitive 0:12:22.259 --> 0:12:25.539 age where you clock over from being just like young, youthful, 0:12:25.619 --> 0:12:28.458 vibrant old? What is that age? So for anyone who 0:12:28.499 --> 0:12:30.259 doesn't know. If you're a gen Zetter, it means that 0:12:30.259 --> 0:12:34.059 you're born between nineteen ninety seven to twenty twelve, so 0:12:34.099 --> 0:12:36.259 anywhere from thirteen years old. If you were born in 0:12:36.259 --> 0:12:39.139 twenty twelve, you're thirteen. If you were born in nineteen 0:12:39.219 --> 0:12:41.419 ninety seven, your twenty eight y is old age. 0:12:41.499 --> 0:12:46.419 That was mine? Y, Sorry I was, I was in 0:12:46.459 --> 0:12:47.219 nineteen ninety seven. 0:12:47.219 --> 0:12:48.739 If you want to add a decade onto that, then 0:12:48.779 --> 0:12:51.459 we'll get closer to our ages. But also okay, so 0:12:51.579 --> 0:12:54.739 twenty two percent of gen zed surveyed believe that thirty 0:12:54.859 --> 0:12:59.699 five is old. Twenty two percent, So that's shocking. 0:12:59.859 --> 0:13:02.699 If hypothetically I was that age, I would be offended. 0:13:02.819 --> 0:13:06.699 Thirty five percent think that forty is old. Around fifty 0:13:07.059 --> 0:13:10.019 believe that fifty the age of fifty is old. That's 0:13:10.019 --> 0:13:13.139 when it's kind of clocks over. And three percent thought 0:13:13.179 --> 0:13:15.499 that twenty seven years old were old. That's got to 0:13:15.539 --> 0:13:17.539 be the thirteen year olds, like, that's a thirteen year 0:13:17.539 --> 0:13:18.979 old answering that question. It has to be. 0:13:19.019 --> 0:13:21.499 But don't you remember, like I remember being in school, 0:13:21.739 --> 0:13:25.899 so maybe eleven, twelve, thirteen, you thought that your teachers 0:13:25.939 --> 0:13:28.659 were so old, but in fact they were probably fresh 0:13:28.739 --> 0:13:31.259 out of Uni, were probably like twenty four years old, 0:13:31.299 --> 0:13:33.979 and I remember thinking that they were like done and dusted. 0:13:34.179 --> 0:13:37.219 I know. Marley was talking about her school teacher recently, 0:13:37.259 --> 0:13:39.619 and her school teacher is like, she's she's green, she's 0:13:39.659 --> 0:13:42.379 fresh out of Uni. She's so beautiful, vibrant, jewish skin. 0:13:42.459 --> 0:13:44.578 She's like twenty six at a guess. I don't know 0:13:44.619 --> 0:13:47.179 how old she actually is, but she's much younger than me. 0:13:47.779 --> 0:13:52.059 And Marley was like, gosh, my teacher is old because 0:13:52.099 --> 0:13:53.939 she's a grown up. And I was like, how old 0:13:53.979 --> 0:13:55.419 do you think I am? And she was like, you're 0:13:55.539 --> 0:13:57.139 really old. And I was like, what about Nana? And 0:13:57.179 --> 0:13:59.739 She's like she's gonna die soon. I'm like, this is 0:14:00.139 --> 0:14:04.019 really awful, Nawa. The thing is is that age. Firstly, 0:14:04.059 --> 0:14:06.859 you're only as old as you feel. And secondly, everyone's 0:14:06.859 --> 0:14:09.458 caveat for what is like old, old or not old 0:14:09.899 --> 0:14:12.379 increases as they get old. So like now that I 0:14:12.419 --> 0:14:15.299 am pushing into my forties, I turned forty next year. Yeah, 0:14:15.299 --> 0:14:18.579 forty's not old, no way, no, nah, forty And then 0:14:18.619 --> 0:14:20.259 I had this moment dawned on me in the shower 0:14:20.339 --> 0:14:22.579 and I was like, I've done half my life and 0:14:22.619 --> 0:14:24.779 then another forty years, I'll be eighty. It was just 0:14:24.819 --> 0:14:26.979 one of those musings in the shower where you're like, 0:14:27.059 --> 0:14:29.499 you can't do it. Forty more years and I will 0:14:29.539 --> 0:14:29.939 be eighty. 0:14:30.019 --> 0:14:31.899 That makes me upset. If you live this life again, 0:14:31.979 --> 0:14:36.659 then you're eighty. Yeah, yeah, year old. I had a 0:14:36.739 --> 0:14:39.459 moment on the weekend actually, where my friend came over. 0:14:39.539 --> 0:14:41.779 It was Saturday, and it was the afternoon, and she 0:14:41.779 --> 0:14:43.499 came to drop some stuff off, pick some stuff up, 0:14:44.019 --> 0:14:46.779 and she was heading out to a like a wedding 0:14:47.019 --> 0:14:49.259 reception party kind of thing. She had a big party on. 0:14:49.379 --> 0:14:52.459 And she's like, what are you doing tonight? Saturday night? 0:14:52.499 --> 0:14:54.499 She's like, you're heading out? I said, oh no. I 0:14:54.499 --> 0:14:56.219 was like I've got heaps too. She's like, what are 0:14:56.219 --> 0:14:56.499 you up to? 0:14:56.539 --> 0:14:58.219 And I said, oh, I've got to RePOP my plants 0:14:58.499 --> 0:15:01.219 and propagate like a new tree. And she just looked 0:15:01.219 --> 0:15:02.619 at me and I said, don't say it. I was like, 0:15:02.659 --> 0:15:04.979 I'm old and I She's like, yoh, you've just lost it. 0:15:05.059 --> 0:15:06.779 Saturday night and I couldn't go out because I had 0:15:06.779 --> 0:15:07.779 to repot the plant. 0:15:07.619 --> 0:15:09.819 Because you had to propagate, because I had to propagated. 0:15:09.899 --> 0:15:11.979 But it's really nice it's the un sexiest thing ever. 0:15:12.179 --> 0:15:15.419 I was like, hands deep in manure proper. Wow. Okay, 0:15:15.419 --> 0:15:17.259 all right, well anyway, I'm sure some other people are 0:15:17.259 --> 0:15:19.619 doing different kinds of propagation on a Saturday night. No, 0:15:19.699 --> 0:15:22.179 but look there's also I mean, in this conversation, there 0:15:22.219 --> 0:15:24.819 was also a gym that's been discussed online as well. 0:15:24.899 --> 0:15:28.619 So imagine signing up to a women's only gym. Right, 0:15:28.899 --> 0:15:31.339 You've paid a subscription fee, You're locked and loaded, You've 0:15:31.339 --> 0:15:33.219 got your time that you like to go, and then 0:15:33.259 --> 0:15:36.219 you receive a message from management which says that the 0:15:36.339 --> 0:15:39.059 gym's time schedules are going to change, and that between 0:15:39.099 --> 0:15:41.979 the hours of four pm to seven pm it was 0:15:42.099 --> 0:15:44.939 only going to be accessible for women who were aged 0:15:44.979 --> 0:15:48.019 between twelve to twenty four, and they were doing that 0:15:48.059 --> 0:15:51.019 to make it more accessible to the younger generation for 0:15:51.139 --> 0:15:51.579 four to. 0:15:51.579 --> 0:15:54.099 Seven so prime time, you're giving the gym to kids 0:15:54.139 --> 0:15:54.899 that don't need it. 0:15:55.379 --> 0:15:57.459 Us oldies need the gym. I didn't even realize that 0:15:57.499 --> 0:15:59.379 twelve year olds were going to the gym. I was 0:15:59.379 --> 0:16:00.979 going to do gym at twelve. Is that a thing? 0:16:01.299 --> 0:16:02.899 Is there a reason for it? I can't think of 0:16:02.939 --> 0:16:04.739 one reason why. Most natural athletes. 0:16:04.819 --> 0:16:08.059 We were at the gym at twelve, but seriously, from 0:16:08.059 --> 0:16:10.139 four pm I'm to seven pm, that is your peak time. 0:16:10.179 --> 0:16:11.819 That is when people are clocking off from work and 0:16:11.819 --> 0:16:14.779 going to the gym. I would cancel my membership if 0:16:14.819 --> 0:16:16.819 my gym told me that I couldn't go in those 0:16:16.899 --> 0:16:19.299 peak hours because I was older than twenty four. 0:16:19.499 --> 0:16:22.179 This is insane. This update has been made in response 0:16:22.219 --> 0:16:24.659 to feedback and to bed cater to our younger female 0:16:24.659 --> 0:16:28.099 members who require a dedicated, comfortable space during peak after 0:16:28.139 --> 0:16:29.779 school and early evening hours. 0:16:30.019 --> 0:16:33.459 Come to a forty year old that was working out, 0:16:33.819 --> 0:16:36.979 I could understand if it was like a co ed 0:16:37.179 --> 0:16:40.139 gym space and like, there's been some things going down, 0:16:40.179 --> 0:16:42.619 but like the four year old women are comfortable with 0:16:42.739 --> 0:16:43.419 the old women. 0:16:44.059 --> 0:16:46.419 We're not predators, al right. Oh they've seen the way 0:16:46.419 --> 0:16:48.219 we wear our socks. We just got we've just got 0:16:48.259 --> 0:16:51.379 bad OSTEO. Okay, we're not going to do anything wrong anyway. 0:16:51.459 --> 0:16:54.019 That's got to be a joke. Is it is actually real? No, 0:16:54.059 --> 0:16:57.699 it's real. Unfortunately, it's real. Look we're going out of business. Guys, 0:16:57.739 --> 0:16:59.419 wagh in on this. If you're in your cars, don't 0:16:59.419 --> 0:17:01.139