WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Mitch has done something AMAZING for his health 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.600 Laura, come on in. 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:19.400 Here, you guys. Thursday. 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.480 Hello, Yes it is and you know what that means. 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:26.640 What it means tonight. Brittany Hockley is on the project. 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:30.400 I am, Yes, I am on the project. I'm very 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:33.000 worried if you want to tune in and seeming bashed myself, 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:33.400 I'm a. 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:36.440 I'm a host who pulled out no one. 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:37.760 I someone qualified. 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:41.839 I finally had time. They've been begging me, ah and 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:44.200 I've been very busy, but I was like, you know what, guys, 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:46.160 I'll throw you a bone, come on the show. 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:47.440 Do you know what seat you're sitting in? 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:49.599 Because as far as I'm concerned, watching the project John 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:51.920 Channel ten every night. On the left is the funny person. 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:54.760 On the right is the serious person. Where are you sitting? 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.840 No, No, I'm in the middle left because I'm important 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:58.400 and funny. 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:00.320 No, you are sitting on the right. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.880 And that's usually the person that doesn't really know what 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:05.360 they're doing but just adds a little bit of flavor. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:07.840 Laura's done at a bunch of times. You're fantastic. What's 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:09.959 your advice for britt Just smile a lot and use 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:10.440 your hands. 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:11.920 If you don't know what to say, just do this. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:15.160 What if there's a tragic news story that's breaking. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:18.240 Don't use your hands today on the news, I talked 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:20.000 with my hands anyway, you know, I talked with my hand. 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:22.960 Laura's just done Dancing with the Stars. So Laura said, 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:23.600 you need. 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.440 To do the charcher delivering the news if I can 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:27.640 sumber up to the desk. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:29.600 I just realized I got my shows mixed up. 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:30.040 Don't do that. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:30.959 That's terrible advice. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:32.960 Wrong show. We'll good luck, Britt, We love you. You'll 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.080 be great tonight. Thanks, guys. I'm stilled to come. 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.560 Imagine being in a relationship for almost a year and 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:40.679 the person you're with refuses to commit. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.920 I did. That's an entire year, entire life. 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.480 It's universal, it's real. It's a real issue that people face. 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.360 We've got a listener on the show wanting our advice. 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.840 Also on the show today, Taylor Swift's Air as Well 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:53.240 tour is coming to Australia. We've been doing it all week. 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.120 We have your free Taylor tickets coming up really soon. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:58.520 So we've reserved an entire row of tickets for you. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:01:58.800 And your friend. 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:01.280 Absolutely the prize of the Central I. 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:03.280 Mean not even we could get tickets to Taylor Swift. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:04.720 So you know I have a bit of a so 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.120 what about I am still working on it. I have 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:08.880 put a call out. I will sell a kidney for 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:09.320 some tickets. 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:11.560 Okay, Well your chance at a full row coming up soon. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:12.200 Here at the pickup. 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.560 Oh, thanks to chemists ware house heading today, great savings 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.200 every day Thursday afternoon, it is the pick up Britt, 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:20.040 Laura and Mitch. Thanks to Chemists ware house heading today, 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:21.959 great savings every day. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:28.280 Ask our cut, So asking cut it is a favorite 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:30.640 that we do here every Thursday. It is where you 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:34.040 call in with your biggest, deeps, darkest problems and we 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.040 do our best to answer them, even though we're completely unqualified. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:40.080 And we have someone in today who's got a relationship problem. 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.400 Yeah, Alyssa joins us. Hailey, start, what's your issue? What 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:43.040 can we help with? 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:44.160 Hi? 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:48.160 I've been dating a guy for a year and a half. 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:49.360 Now we are. 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:52.680 Quote unquote exclusive, but not in a relationship. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:54.000 Congratulations. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.959 Wait, it's elusive, but not in a relationship. 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:59.560 Mean it means that we're not seeing other people. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.640 It means we sort of act like a couple, except 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:06.079 for the fact that there's no commitment. 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.680 You're not seeing other people, but you could if you 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:09.120 want to do. 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:13.480 We're not seeing other people, but we're not boyfriend and girlfriend, 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:17.359 which is weird because like I've met his parents, I've 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.480 met all of his friends, I've met his workplace, He's 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.320 come to my work party. You know, we've spoken about 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:26.799 potential overseas trips. He went and took me the other 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:30.880 week to this like really expensive like two thousand dollars 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.080 a night at Duick's enclosure. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:33.320 Sing. 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:37.760 Now he's doing everything that you would do if you 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:40.040 are boyfriend and girlfriend, but he doesn't want to call 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:41.960 you his girlfriend, and he doesn't want you to call 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:42.960 him your boyfriend. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.800 Yeah, basically, I mean I think the only thing that 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.240 I don't have is because there's not that official commitment 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:54.280 like like once a month. Sometimes he'll just randomly go 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:55.800 cold for like a few days. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.240 Yeah, dumb, dumb it up. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.200 So what do you call each other when you go out? Like, oh, 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:06.000 can I get a drink for my co worker, my acquaintance. 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:09.160 Each other's name. 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.120 The reason why I think that this is so especially 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:13.640 because it's been going on for a year and a half, 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.680 which if you want to be in a relationship with 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:18.719 him and you want a committed relationship is just way 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:21.520 too long. The reason for that is because he gets 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.359 all the perks of having a girlfriend. You're doing everything 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.880 that a girlfriend's doing for him. He gets to have 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:29.160 someone to call whenever he needs it. He gets someone 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:32.320 a booty call whenever he needs it. He has the companionship, 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.400 the friendship, and zero responsibility. Because if he turns around 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.479 to tomorrow and says, look, I don't want to be 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.880 with you anymore, he's going to say, but I told 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:41.480 you I didn't want a girlfriend totally. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:42.039 Why did you? 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:44.520 How could you possibly be so mad and upset with 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.960 me because I've been telling you this whole time I 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:47.839 didn't want a girlfriend. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:52.360 These situations are absolutely fine if both parties think it's 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.440 fine and it's a respectful situation. Obviously you're at a 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.120 point where you don't think it's fine. You want more, 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:59.440 and he's not being respectful to me. That's a level 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.720 of disrespect. So I think if you want a relationship, 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.360 you need to just tell him what you want, and 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:04.840 if he's not going to meet you there, you need 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:05.880 to probably walk away. 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:07.920 Is he older than you or is he younger? 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:12.720 Is? Yeah, and he's five years older actually yeah, I 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.680 actually have tried to end it a couple of times, but. 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:20.040 Honestly, like I'm just so in love with him, I 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:22.919 couldn't stand my ground long enough and I ended up 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.960 crawling back because I just I had such bad anxiety 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.440 and like every day look. 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:29.000 At my phone. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.120 Have you have you ever given him the oldimatum around? 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.919 If you want this to continue, then I need more. 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:36.120 I need more from you. 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.760 I feel like I have an a roundabout way, I 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:42.960 potentially haven't been directed off. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.279 And what does he say to you when you do 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.280 bring this up, even in an a roundabout way? 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:52.320 He says that he sorry, I'm getting really much sure, 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:58.960 it's really He says that he's not ready to love 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:02.320 someone else because he doesn't love himself, because. 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:06.279 He within himself has the mental health staff, which is 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:09.120 why I want to help him, and I want to 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:10.200 help him feel love. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:12.839 As much as you love him, you need to put 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.200 that love towards yourself. You can't be giving that to 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:17.480 him because no amount of love you give him will 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:18.400 ever be enough or. 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:19.400 We'll fix that problem. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.440 My other big question is is if he's saying these 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.680 things to you, that's a huge responsibility for you to 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:27.400 take on, and he also needs to be going and 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.760 doing things like going and seeing a healthcare professional, going 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.120 and speaking to a psychiatrist. If he's got real mental 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:35.400 health problems. You're not the person who should take on 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:37.880 the full brunt of the responsibility to fix that for him, 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:38.440 not his mother. 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:38.840 You're not. 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.080 And the other thing to really remember here is so 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.560 you can be head over heels in love with somebody, 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:45.800 they can love you and you cannot be right for 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:49.400 each other like that happens. Love doesn't mean soulmate and 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:52.760 perfection and healthy relationship. It sounds like you're not going 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.240 to get what you need from him, and as high 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:55.800 as it is, you need to look after you and 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:56.960 put your priorities first. 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:57.440 Yeah. 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.440 Also, sometimes a bit of space in a relationship can 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.160 do wonders. Just pull yourself away, call his bluff. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:03.159 Yeah, I agree. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:06.159 I think sometimes giving yourself a bit of space and 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.720 saying look, you know, either step up to the table 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:10.120 or I think we might need to take a break 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.720 from this might actually be the thing that makes him 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:14.560 go Okay, Well, I don't want to lose this relationship 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.120 because at the moment he's getting everything he wants without 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:17.720 any commitment. 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:19.320 I feel like I can can do that, but I 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.600 mind need to give you guys my phone yea. 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.640 In the pickup. It's fine. Sometimes you have to lock 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:26.400 mitches away. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:29.040 Too far and please let us know how it goes 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:30.560 once you have the conversation. Would love to hear. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.600 Thanks so much, girls, I really appreciate it. 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:36.600 No way, Alissa, I'm a boy now if you want to, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:38.840 if you want to get on the air with us, 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:39.680 you can ride in. 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:41.160 There's a full dedicated web page. 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:43.840 Go to the Pickup dot com and you just sir 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:45.960 Jaska and cut write in any issue. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:47.080 We'll do a relationship fun. 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:49.920 It can be sixy Next on the show, Taylor Swift 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:52.840 tickets an entire row your chance to win them as 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.880 she's coming to Australia for her era as well too. 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:55.800 Are your chance coming up? 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.640 It's the pick up Thursday, Britt and Laura and Mitch 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.240 here or thanks to chemist where house head in today 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:03.440 get great savings every day. 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:05.360 I need to talk to you about a TikTok. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.560 Have you ever gone on a date with someone in 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:09.760 something you've gotten the ick? 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:10.880 Like you know the ick right? 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.800 Yes, there has been at this TikTok going viral about 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.640 this ick that this girl got on a date and 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.280 it's pretty funny. She's went out to dinner with him whatever. 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.560 They went back to his apartment and she's like, oh, 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.640 I'm just gonna excuse myself to go to the bathroom. 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.400 And she went into the bathroom and what she saw 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:28.120 horrified her. 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.280 A corpse in the bathtub, fungle cream. 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:38.439 Worse, she saw none other than seventeen herbal Essence shampoos 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.800 and body washers in the shower. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:41.559 Wait, so. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:44.760 Corpse bottles. 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.680 So this is why it's funny, right, because it started 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.440 this big debate is this is this bad? 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.880 So she's in the bathroom. She sees seventeen bottles of 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.480 her Blessings, the exact same one, the exact same flavor. 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:57.680 They're not all. 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.520 Empty, and he hasn't just been lazy and hasn't taken 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:02.160 them out. Some are empty, summer full, some are midlength, 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.760 some are three quarters like, they're all different, and there's 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:09.120 seventeen together. Now she has tiktoked live. She's in the bathroom. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:10.800 She's going, I don't know what to do. I think 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.120 I need to I think this is a red flags. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.280 A good idea because he could be a creep, a 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.000 serial killer. 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:19.600 I think it's hilarious. I don't think seventeen shampoo bottles 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:22.280 is a red flag for a serial killer A guy 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:23.280 he's just lazy. 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.400 No, that is a red What is he holding them 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:26.240 like it's a shrike? 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:28.920 I think his mum just gets coupons and she gets 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.480 like she might have a VP to her blessings. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:34.160 I don't know, yes, but what sort of manchild doesn't 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.880 finish a bottle of shampoo before opening up the next 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:39.960 Why has he opened all seventeen at varying degrees of use? 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:43.040 I must admit I have a lot of shampoo and 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.920 conditioner in my showers, different levels of. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.120 How many bottles do you think you have? 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:48.640 I'll have I'll take a photo at home. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:49.120 I've got a lot. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.360 The last time I was in your shower, they're all 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:55.079 very showered. They were very moldy in the bottom, which 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:56.960 makes me think you don't clean out your shower more 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:58.440 so than just like collecting bottles. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:00.400 I know this feeling when you're with when it's a 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:02.040 new date or you're seeing someone for the first time 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:04.320 and you just notice something. 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.760 That's off and you go, oh, that's odd. Should I 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:08.400 worry about that? Or should I ignore it. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.360 I remember I haven't been on the date once. And 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:15.280 I went back to the house and in his room 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:19.840 it was just filled shelves, the bed, the beds on 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:21.520 the table, there was a chair in the corner. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:25.440 It was filled with like soft toys, but like he 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:27.280 was collecting Teddy Bears. 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.320 And it was a real Australian theme, so like a 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.719 lot of Australian animal. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:35.000 Bright red hair on. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:37.400 If you go, if you get to a man's house, 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.360 this is what. I'm a grown man and he's got 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:40.319 a collection of Teddies. 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:43.520 It's not like it no, because there's nothing crazy, but 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.199 it's also enough to be like, oh, I don't know 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:45.880 if I'm into. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:47.960 The thirteen six five? What made you leave the house? 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.120 What major leave the date? Bella, what happened to you? 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:54.160 I hear you with the soft toys? And I'm going 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:57.840 to take it higher. So I'll see this guy about 0:10:58.200 --> 0:10:59.760 the third date, right, And. 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:02.760 I was, yeah, cool, I like him, well doing a 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:06.760 Netflix and chill session. And we got in there, we 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:09.000 had a popcorn, we had a more teasers. I was 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:12.800 already and you know, flapped up the hell that kind 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:15.040 of thing, and you know how it comes up like 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.360 recently watched on your Netflix, like. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.240 Last programs that you've you've been watching. 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:29.520 There was just all these kids shows like Dora. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.000 No, maybe he shares his subscription with someone who has 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:34.800 a kid, got. 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:38.200 Their own signing like and I asked him. I was like, 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:41.200 do you have a nephew or a niece or no? 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:42.800 He was an early child, so. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:44.840 And he was watching the Wiggles. 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.760 Yes, some good songs, but come on. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:50.480 Did you get the big red car and zoo out 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:50.720 of there? 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.720 I was gone. I was literally gone before we could 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:55.480 even order dinner. 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:58.600 Okay, it's a. 0:11:58.600 --> 0:11:59.840 Thing, right, it's not. It's not. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:01.600 I was like, he's not a serial killer, but it's 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:03.680 something that's like, it's just not right. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.360 Georgia on thirteen one, six five Why did you leave? 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:06.680 The day? 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.240 I went home with a guy after the club and 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:14.280 upon coming into his house, in his bedroom he had posters. 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.600 But they weren't just like normal posters. They were the 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:18.960 old you know, in the middle of the magazine, the 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.600 half page ones that you pull out put on your wall, 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:25.439 and they were like Nelly and Neo and I think 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:29.720 it was on the star wall. What I'm talking like 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.720 a twenty seven year old man with magazine cutouts on 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.560 his wall. It was cop of cringe worthy me. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.760 Wait, what did you say? 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:37.040 Me? 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:39.160 Did you leave? Were you like okay, I'm sorry. 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.120 I can't be intimate with a man who's got cutouts 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:42.240 of his favorite rappers on the. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.240 Wach say it's getting in here. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.160 After you guys get intimate. It's like, do you want 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:50.079 to read a copy of Dolly? 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.360 I once went home with a guy who put on 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:55.079 the ride at that? How does he? And I was 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:56.719 like this, it's got to be satirical. 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:01.319 Wait, and it wasn't all right. Next on the show, hey, listen, 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.679 I have a health update. As you know, I'm in 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.679 my period of health and wellness. 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:08.840 You are you were dropping? You were like wasting away 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:09.959 right in front of our eyes. 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:15.000 I'm thin and brittle. I mean I'm chicken breast and bruccoli. 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.160 And sniffing lettuce and all. 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:17.840 For a good reason. And I've got a big announcement 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:19.400 to make after this. On the pick Up, it is 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.319 the Pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch rushing to chemist 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:24.640 Warehouse Now to get a half price off the Nature's 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:28.160 Own Vitamin range. It excludes bulk sizes. Chemists Warehouse Great 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:32.000 savings every day. Those that don't know, I've actually today 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.480 officially it marks a ten kilo point. I've lost ten kilos. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.960 That is a huge achievement. 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:39.920 And also I say this because when I walk in, 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.280 I'm like, who is that slim. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.200 Handsome looking man sitting there image True's chair. Sometimes it's you. 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:46.960 I know, Oh we did with shavey his hair off. 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:52.520 Tankilo has gone. I'm actually he's taken it very seriously. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.240 Mitch and I were at lunch a couple of days ago, 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:57.599 and I thought you were joking, but you weren't. The 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:58.800 salad came out. 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:01.280 It was a salad, and not only did he ask 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.600 for the croutons on the side because he wanted one, 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:05.760 he then said he didn't think he could eat all 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.600 the olives and feta because he was really calorie counting 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:08.920 that day. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:11.640 So I ate his feta and olives out of his 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:12.199 salad like. 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:12.760 You are being so. 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.080 I'm really strict. Olives are a Tuesday Friday food. 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:17.960 That's probably a little bit too strict. I enjoy yourself 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:18.320 a bit. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:18.440 Now. 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.480 I'm worried about you. I'm also happy for you. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:22.160 At the same time, I don't want to paint a 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:25.040 negative picture. I you know, I've spoken about it overly 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.240 on this show. I've gone through a big breakup my 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:29.280 partner of five years and I split. I was the 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:31.280 heaviest I'd ever been coming out of COVID, and I 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.920 was comfort in a relationship and I needed to kick 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.160 up the butt because I wasn't healthy. 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:38.360 I didn't feel good. I felt sluggish. I was so tired. 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:41.640 And seriously, with his ten kilo weight loss in about 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.840 eight weeks, I feel so much better already, and I 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:47.160 feel good. So I'm embracing it. I'm walking every day, 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:48.440 I'm counting my steps. 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:49.960 What do you think the biggest thing has been just 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:52.520 making sure you walk every day? Do you think that's 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:53.240 been the real. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:54.440 No, it's the protein farts. 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:58.120 Oh my god, yeah's you now smell like my husband. 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.840 He's needed doing protein farts for you. And honestly, meles 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:03.640 like you've eaten a pound of rotting meat. 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:04.960 Well, Laura and I have. 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.400 Actually, we want to support you on this journey in 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:10.240 this quest. So we have put together like the top 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:14.280 trending wellness trends and we want to read something out 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.080 and we think that you should pick one to try. 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:18.360 Well, we've done this because we know that you are dedicated, 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.640 and you've said to us that you will try anything 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:23.720 on your quest to be the fittest version of Misterrui. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.520 That you could. Okay, I'm interested, I'm down. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.200 I like a challenge, but you have to pick one 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:27.480 of them. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:29.160 Oh, so you're going to give me options, and. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:32.720 I choose five options. The first one is hay bathing. Now, 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.880 before you say what is hay bathing, good question is 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:38.960 where you bathe in the hay? So did you make 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:42.640 these up or have you got it's back from the Dolomites, 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.720 like the farmers that live in the Dolomites in Italy. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:45.960 So what they used to do is that have a 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:48.160 really hard day at work and then they'd fall asleep 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.400 in the hay like that you would feed horses and 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.440 do farming stuff with. And they one hundred percent believe 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.640 that the nutrients that come out of the hay help 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.520 with aches and pains and just help you feel better. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.600 So it's almost like a recovery bath, a recovery get really. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.640 Bad hay fever, I'm ruling out. 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.280 Okay, Well, this one is. It sounds nice and easy. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:08.880 It feels like it's something that should be all around 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:12.400 us all the time, but apparently you need a really intense. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:12.840 Shot of it. 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:14.080 It's called an oxygen shot. 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:16.680