WEBVTT - Here’s 6 ways you can change your life in 2024 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.160 I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:06.560 land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:10.520 Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:14.319 and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:22.680 Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:30.240 and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.800 the podcast where we have mindset, self development and becoming 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:37.159 your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:40.360 plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:43.800 and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:47.479 of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:49.839 matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:53.800 help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:55.960 self awareness. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.000 If you're ready to get into the. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.000 Driver's seat of your own life and stop letting life 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:02.960 cast you by, then you're. 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:03.560 In the right place. 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:15.200 Hello everybody, and welcome back to the podcast. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.080 In today's episode, we. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.840 Have a recap of our three biggest themes of twenty 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:21.440 twenty three. 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.440 These are snippets. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.360 From some of our episodes that you guys absolutely loved 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.440 last year, and we take you through three things that 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.679 you can do this year that is going to help 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:35.200 you change your life in twenty twenty four. 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:36.640 So just a heads up. 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.720 We are also taking a short potty break to get 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:42.440 some really exciting things. 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:43.280 Happening for you guys. 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.880 So there won't be an episode next week, but we 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:51.960 will be back with some incredible content, some very exciting news, 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.880 and yeah, just keep your eyes peeled because all I 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:58.800 can say is the podcast feed is going to find 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.360 out first. And this is something that you guys have 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:05.080 been wanting forever. The team and I have literally been 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.600 working on this all last year. It's gotta be it's messive, 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.760 It's been a lot of work, but oh my god, 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:13.400 you guys are going to be obsessed. 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.919 That's all I can say. Buffer, I got trouble from 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:16.920 stareing at me. 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:21.160 Love you guys so much, and we'll be back in 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:31.920 your ears in a couple of weeks. So, guys, the 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:35.080 context is like just you know, people coming up on 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:37.000 TikTok and saying I have lucky girl syndrome. 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:37.720 I've always been. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:39.040 Lucky, blah blah blah. 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.200 It's literally just manifesting. 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:44.360 Welcome to the club work. I know, I love it. 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:45.760 I was saying off to a tea. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:48.160 It's kind of it reminds me of when everyone got 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.760 into The Secret and they thought it was like this 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:52.000 like wild different thing. 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:57.320 But I'm like, oh, it's like, guys, guys, this is manifesting. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:00.880 It's what I've been saying that whole time. 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:04.320 No, but I love it because it just it makes 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:07.480 manifesting and the concepts we literally talk about twenty four 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:10.519 to seven more mainstream, and that is good because you 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.560 don't feel like such a like weirdo if you. 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:13.240 Talk about it. 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.640 Oh my god, yeah, like your parents or something like that. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:17.480 That's the vibes. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.959 And also I feel like a lot of my RNC 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:23.240 gang will be like, yeah, I completely know what you're 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:23.639 talking about. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.400 And it's funny to watch this on TikTok. 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:27.760 But I thought it would be fun to talk about 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:31.720 lucky Girl syndrome and you know why you'll have it 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:36.880 and why you won't. So the big thing is like 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:40.480 the caveat in this, because what's really cool about these 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:44.920 videos is you can see these people are really stepping 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:50.200 into surrender absolutely, which is one of the hardest concepts 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:54.000 of manifesting. So they're kind of doing it backwards, which 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:57.160 I love. Yeah, because usually, like in my formula, the 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.920 way I teach it is surrenders, like literally write it 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.720 the end. But a lot of people get tripped up 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:06.240 on it because of like growing up and like hustle 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.400 culture of like you need to do the things and 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:10.600 you need to control. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.600 And I'm also a control freak. Yeah as am I. 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:15.840 Yeah, much the same. 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:18.880 And so we get really stuck in the surrender and 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:25.200 trust because especially if you haven't grown up with spirituality 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:29.760 or religion, you you don't believe in the trust. And 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:33.000 I grew up at Jehovah's witness, but I remember always 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.080 like questioning it and being. 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:37.440 Like, what do you mean I'll go to a beautiful garden. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.880 I don't trust you as a cynical job. 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:46.120 Literally I was because I just I thought it was bullshit. 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:48.360 Oh my gosh, what do you mean? 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:51.920 This is the this is like a story book. Yeah, 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:55.000 I had, So I had trust issues with God. Anyway, 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:58.800 moving on from that, something we can unpack another day. Yeah, 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:01.200 but a lot of us have trust issues because we 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.120 just we haven't practiced it and we haven't sat in that. 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:07.159 And then also maybe we have evidence that things don't 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:11.200 work out and things always go wrong and I'm actually 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:12.840 very unlucky, so it's hard for. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:14.200 Us to sit in surrender. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:18.400 So I fucking love this trend because they're literally just like, nah, 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.560 I'm gonna sit fully in surrender and just things are 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:25.320 gonna come for me and that's amazing. And you'll find 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:29.159 like a lot of things will happen for you by 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:33.440 just doing surrender. So that's it's super super epic. But 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:37.920 the caveat here is if you haven't done the other 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:42.240 parts of you know, manifesting and like the full formula, 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:45.960 it won't always work out. Yeah, what you'll be you'll 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:46.720 be that person. 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:48.440 Who's like, lucky girl, syndrome is not real. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:49.400 I don't have it. 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:50.360 I don't have it. 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:55.279 I didn't win that Instagram giveaway and I wanted it. 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.600 Literally, Yeah, so this is the caveat here is. I 0:05:58.760 --> 0:05:59.360 love it. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.200 It's like, let's sit in surrender and let's just know 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.359 things are gonna happen for us, but also let's do 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:09.000 the work because this is the thing that is missing, 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.240 you know with the trend. This is also the thing 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:14.200 that is missing with like the secret is they're not 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:18.560 telling you the stuff to do beforehand, which it's like, 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.560 think of it as like prep work, the behind scenes, 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:24.400 behind the scenes prep work. So for example, you know 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.000 what we talk about a lot is like, first of all, 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.440 you have to be like really clear on what you 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:32.680 actually want and who you actually need to be in 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.320 order to have that thing. 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:35.960 You have to be able to. 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:40.560 Fully embody that person before you become that person. And 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:44.799 to fully embody that person, you need to work through 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:48.479 your limiting beliefs and you need to work through your 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:53.479 shit and really do the inner work so then you 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:57.400 can get to the point of surrender and you can 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.880 get to the point of sitting in that place of 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.240 I know I'm so worthy of this thing. I know 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.120 this thing will just come to me. I literally have 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.520 no doubts in my mind. But also I know if 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:09.520 it doesn't come, that something better is coming. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:11.640 Yes, And that's. 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:15.480 What lucky your syndrome is, which I fucking love. You 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.520 gotta do them before its lally. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.920 And I think what you'll notice about people that you 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:25.120 find around you that naturally have Lucky Girl syndrome, I 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:29.320 say in quotation marks is that even if they haven't 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:33.680 consciously done the work as a manifesting process, I guarantee 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.960 you they've done the work on themselves in that they 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.080 might have gone to see a therapist, they might have 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.240 a life coach, they might journ, or they might be 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:44.040 just very open to getting better all the time. 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:47.720 Or they may have had like really conscious parents. Yeah, 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:49.560 not give them limiting beliefs. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:51.520 Yeah, that's where we fucking pick up a life. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:54.320 Shit. People are atter, So they might just like have 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:58.400 super self aware conscious parents who like were so conscious 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:01.120 about like what sort of things were putting on their children. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:01.880 Yeah. 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:08.520 Absolutely, And then we have like us, I love my parents. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.960 That's like me and JB have this joke because literally 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:16.360 her mum is a medium. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:18.920 Yeah, and she's so self. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.440 Aware and so like very conscious and so wo wo 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:23.840 I love her so much. Shout out to Jules, I 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.040 love you. And her dad's like a life coach. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:27.800 And I was like, well, you're. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.160 Gonna be good at and Jamie, you're literally brought up 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:31.720 to do it. 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:35.200 But that's also like I totally agree without it. Tea 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:38.040 is like you don't know their background, you don't know 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:41.920 the inner work that they have actually done, or maybe 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.400 they just don't have a lot of limpitging beliefs and 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:46.120 fucking happy for them. 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:49.280 Yeah, it's like, actually, I was talking to one of 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.400 my best friends last night and she was telling me 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.200 about her boyfriend's family and she's like, I don't know 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:55.079 what it is about them. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.320 They're all just fucking lucky. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.400 She's like, everything works out for them. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:00.360 How does it have it? 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:04.120 And I feel like it's just that family, not a 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.240 lot of limiting believes it. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:06.320 I love that. 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:08.800 Well, that's even something me and Cooper laugh at all 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:14.079 the time because a lot of people will discredit him 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:17.520 in regards to building Naked Harvest or what he has 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:21.320 now just because he comes from a background of you know, 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:26.040 having addiction, having gambling and alcohol addiction and really not 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:31.440 being the show up and integral person that he is now. 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:35.880 And then obviously, you know, material things being a byproduct 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:38.680 of showing up in a different light and really doing 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.400 work on himself. And so a lot of people say that, 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.199 you know, discredit him and say, oh, well, it's because 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:48.160 you and Georgia went into business and yeah, you're on 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:51.520 the pig's back or you're lucky. But it's like what 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.599 they don't realize is that time where things change for 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.800 him is when he started self development, and it's when 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:02.040 he started doing the inner work. Yeah, and it's like, yeah, look, 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:05.040 if you really knew the inner stuff, you wouldn't be 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:08.319 saying or if you really knew what people had actually done, 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.280 like you wouldn't be saying they're lucky no, or you 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:12.760 wouldn't be saying, oh. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:13.080 Lucky girl. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.240 Syndrome you know, isn't a thing. 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.960 You just say they worked bloody hard or yeah, like 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:23.240 or you know that's their subconscious beliefs are in a 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:26.160 way that gives them maybe because that's also another thing 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.720 is like there's a lot of privilege, like I said, 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:33.520 in having super conscious parents who already at that stage, 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.079 because you don't you by pass that, and that. 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:37.559 Is privilege for sure. 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.200 So that's like another thing is they just might have, 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:44.560 you know, that privilege and like amazing, But it's like 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.120 you can still get to that point. 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.079 It's just we have to do these. 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:51.120 Little this prep work and this inner work beforehand, and 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.719 it doesn't have to be you know, hard. A lot 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:57.480 of people are like, oh fuck that, because it's so 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.880 comfortable to just stay where you are and it's so 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:03.520 comfortable to like not do the inner work. I was 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:06.240 literally having conversation with Ellie and Jamie about this on 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:10.520 a walk because some stuff has come up recently, like 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:12.920 in the child, stuff that I know I need to 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.320 deal with, and I. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.600 Just said to them, like I just don't want to. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:18.360 You just put it in the too hard basket. 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:20.760 Yeah, and I know it, like I will this year. 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:21.760 I will deal with it. 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:26.080 But at the moment, like I'm like, oh, it's just 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:30.440 it's too much. It's like it's too much. Where's like 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:32.600 I will deal with it. But it's like even I 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.719 do that, Yeah, it's so easy to do that, but 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:36.839 we shouldn't be doing it. 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.040 Yeah, And I think it's how you look at it too, 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:43.480 Like I remember, I think it was Ellie. Ellie put 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:47.960 up a TikTok where she spoke about how she can 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:49.360 always get a car park. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.120 Yes, and that's a core belief of. 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.320 Hers, is that she gets a car park, she gets 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:59.520 the best car park, and she literally does. And then 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:02.120 how she had to shift one of her beliefs about money, 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:05.680 because if she can hold on to her core belief 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.000 that she always gets a car park so strongly, why 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:10.360 can't she hold onto one about money. But one thing 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.360 I noticed that she said is like sometimes I might 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:16.240 have to drive around a little bit or go around 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:19.320 a few times before I get the perfect castpot, but 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:20.760 when I get the car spot. 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:21.760 It's always perfect. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.800 But is it almost just your perspective in that your 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:27.200 money struggles feel so much bigger, and it's not just 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:30.200 you driving around waiting for the perfect car park to come. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:33.960 It's this whole hard thing that makes you feel like 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:36.360 it's not for you of doing the work. Yeah, but 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.200 if you shift that belief and really sit in that, Oh, 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.079 I'm just driving around the block a couple of times, 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:45.720 but when when the perfect castpot is available, it's mine. Yeah, 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.480 And it's not too far away, No, it's just around 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:49.600 the corner literally. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:50.200 Yeah. 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:54.800 But it's that perspective of it's hard, yeah, which is 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:58.120 again it's like a projection. It's a limitation and it's 0:12:58.120 --> 0:12:59.760 something we put on ourselves because we don't want to 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:00.720 do hard stuff. 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:04.280 I need to work harder. I wish there was like 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:05.319 a different word for it. 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:08.040 Yeah, Like I hope people are kind of understanding what 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:14.080 we're saying. You know, in your circumstance of you know, 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.520 a maybe a friend is acting a certain way, or 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.200 you do get a nasty comment from a family member 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.600 or something like that. I want to explain to you 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.959 how I kind of unpack things and not let them 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:31.800 affect me. And how when you use this process, anything 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:35.640 that anyone says it won't affect you and you'll be 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.320 able to really like process it in this way where 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:38.719 you're like. 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:40.880 Oh, I'm so excited to learn this. 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:41.880 I get. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.880 All right because I used to struggle so much. Well, 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.520 I think it's so just to get straight into it. 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:52.120 So human nature is if you think back in the 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:55.559 tribe days, you want like if you weren't in the tribe, 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.720 you would die, you get eaten by an animal or something. 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:01.880 So it's all about human that like human psyche in 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.839 the brain is like being within the tribe. That's why 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:09.480 we're also fucking judgy because it's like, oh, I'm better 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:12.720 than this person, so I'm in the tribe or judgment 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.280 is just a way for you to understand where you 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:21.400 are and like the hierarchy. Interesting, So this person does this, 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:24.320 it means she's bad. I don't do that thing, so 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:28.280 I'm here. That's what that's all that judgment is. It's 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:31.600 a tool that we use to know where we stand 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:32.520 within the tribe. 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.000 Wo, which was huge back in the day. 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:40.240 Yeah, back in the day, like you lived through. 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:49.840 A couple of years ago, I need to stop. So 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:54.920 it's really like, I don't know, and my reaction when 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:59.360 people I don't know, it's not that I find it funny, 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:02.000 but when funny, it is quite funny. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:06.640 When I explain to you how it actually all works, 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:11.000 you will also start finding things funny because what you'll 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:17.200 start to realize is what someone says about you actually 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:19.760 has nothing to do with you and all to do 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:24.520 with them and what they're currently like processing and like 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.920 going through. If that makes sense, it's very much a 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.320 lens of what's happening in their life and nothing to 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:30.760 do with you. 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:34.320 Do you think that would apply to people who care 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:34.800 about you? 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:35.080 Two? 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:40.880 Yeah, one hundred percent interesting. Yeah, let's go through something. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:46.360 Okay, So well, yeah, mina kind of like complete randos, 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.520 so a bit different, but you'll kind of you'll get 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:50.440 the concept. 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:51.840 So let's go through it. 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:56.000 So it's great because the universe musta knew this segment 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:56.840 was coming up, and we. 0:15:56.880 --> 0:16:02.200 Got some really great comment say here, use this as content. 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:03.280 Trigger is coming out. 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:09.640 Oh okay, let's get this up. Okay, So the first comment, 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:12.880 so I posted a reel, So this was a piece 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:16.880 of content very much for like the for you page. 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:21.880 So this like when I, you know, create content, there's 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.520 content for like my audience, Realdy knows me, there's content 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:28.680 for you know, the wider audience of people who don't 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:28.960 know me. 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.400 Like it's very strategic. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.760 So this piece of content me and Ellie spoke about 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:38.000 and we decided to use the title of first day 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:40.520 back at work as a creative director of an eight 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:45.040 figure business. So I am the creative director of Naked 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:48.840 Harvest and RNC and n H is an eight figure business. 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:52.080 So that's literally just a title. Yeah, it's not me, 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:56.600 it's just me spin and facts. Anyway, So there was 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:00.680 this comment let's get into it, So, so I want 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:05.359 you stress that there was so many amazing positive comments 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:08.040 on this being like so incredible, so great to see 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.479 the inside of your day, blah blah blah, like awesome 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:15.159 comments like my community really is so on my level, 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:19.040 and so like tapped into how I think that I like, 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:23.360 I want to stress, like I really get comments like this. Yeah, 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:26.159 and it's just so interesting that like these couple have 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:26.520 come up. 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:28.159 That's what I'm saying. In such a short space of 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:28.880 time too. 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:31.000 As I'm like the universe wants us to do this segment. 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.480 Yeah, so of course, of course we're going to turn 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:36.400 shit into gold and we're going to do this segment. 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:40.159 So let me read it. Okay, here it is. 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:46.159 So, this girl said, I follow you as a motivated 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:50.640 business woman as I am. However, to broadcast your eight 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:56.080 figure income without having your finger on the pulse that 0:17:56.440 --> 0:18:02.440 majority people are struggling really smacks ignorance and entitlement. I'm 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:06.640 all about celebrating one's success one hundred percent, but as 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:09.280 an influencer, you definitely need to be in touch with 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:13.720 your surroundings and current financial cycles. Just because the kim 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:16.560 Ks are doing well and want to boast about it, 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:20.840 it doesn't mean the general popper. So the first thing, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:28.480 have I not read this to you? No, thank you 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:30.360 for comparing me to kimgate. 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:33.639 Because that is a huge compliment. 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.280 So first of all, first of all, this person's like 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:43.480 contradicting herselves because she's like, I love success, I love 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:47.879 embracing and celebrating. Yeah, I love celebrating one's success. I 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:52.560 was like, well you don't, because so I definitely get it. 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.719 Because you know, and we've spoken about this on this 0:18:55.800 --> 0:19:00.760 podcast about currently financially there is a lot changing, so 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:03.040 what and like you know, there was definitely a part 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:05.120 of me and being like have I. 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:05.720 Fucked up here? 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:10.359 But then what I had to do is think about 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:14.080 why did I create this piece of content? And it 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:17.919 was for transparency because I go through exactly what I 0:19:17.960 --> 0:19:20.639 did that day and it's like, here, this is what 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.159 I do as a creative director of an eight figure 0:19:23.160 --> 0:19:27.640 company which I have completely built from the ground out, 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:32.000 as someone who has no background in business. And not 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:35.719 that that matters, but I get I diagness what you mean, 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:42.120 but it's like this piece of content was for that factor. 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:46.840 And also it was just that's what I am, Like 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:49.320 that is my title. Like you know on Instagram you 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:52.360 see blah blah blah, like a marketing manager blah blah blah, 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:55.800 Like yeah, that is just my title, and it's just fact. Also, 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:59.800 let's take in consideration. I'm not earning eight figures personally, 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:03.439 I wish I was, but unfortunately not like you're not 0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:09.040 taking too consideration, Like Naked Harvest literally has twenty employees, 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:12.400 we have a whole fucking warehouse that we have to run, 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:15.879 like we have millions of dollars in expenses. 0:20:16.040 --> 0:20:20.920 You're also not boasting about your personal income, like you're 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:24.600 just talking about a business. It's like Oprah saying, oh, 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:26.960 like my network makes X figures. 0:20:27.359 --> 0:20:27.719 Yeah. 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:32.560 And also in that vlog, there's no showiness of wealth. 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:34.120 I literally go. 0:20:34.080 --> 0:20:36.679 To gym, go to the office. Do you mean like 0:20:36.760 --> 0:20:38.080 it's just my life. 0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:38.760 Yeah. 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:41.720 So in saying that, like, I can fucking do showing 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:43.200 us and that's my prerogative. 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:47.080 But so anyway back to it, I digress. That's my 0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:47.840 new favorite work. 0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:50.639 So I thought about it and I was like, I 0:20:50.680 --> 0:20:54.720