1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: the podcast where we have mindset, self development and becoming 8 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: self awareness. 15 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into the. 16 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Driver's seat of your own life and stop letting life 17 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: cast you by, then you're. 18 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: In the right place. 19 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome back to the podcast. 20 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: In today's episode, we. 21 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: Have a recap of our three biggest themes of twenty 22 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: twenty three. 23 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: These are snippets. 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: From some of our episodes that you guys absolutely loved 25 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: last year, and we take you through three things that 26 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: you can do this year that is going to help 27 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: you change your life in twenty twenty four. 28 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: So just a heads up. 29 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: We are also taking a short potty break to get 30 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: some really exciting things. 31 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: Happening for you guys. 32 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: So there won't be an episode next week, but we 33 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: will be back with some incredible content, some very exciting news, 34 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: and yeah, just keep your eyes peeled because all I 35 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: can say is the podcast feed is going to find 36 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: out first. And this is something that you guys have 37 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: been wanting forever. The team and I have literally been 38 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: working on this all last year. It's gotta be it's messive, 39 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: It's been a lot of work, but oh my god, 40 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: you guys are going to be obsessed. 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: That's all I can say. Buffer, I got trouble from 42 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 2: stareing at me. 43 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: Love you guys so much, and we'll be back in 44 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: your ears in a couple of weeks. So, guys, the 45 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: context is like just you know, people coming up on 46 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: TikTok and saying I have lucky girl syndrome. 47 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: I've always been. 48 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: Lucky, blah blah blah. 49 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: It's literally just manifesting. 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 3: Welcome to the club work. I know, I love it. 51 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: I was saying off to a tea. 52 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: It's kind of it reminds me of when everyone got 53 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: into The Secret and they thought it was like this 54 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: like wild different thing. 55 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: But I'm like, oh, it's like, guys, guys, this is manifesting. 56 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 2: It's what I've been saying that whole time. 57 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: No, but I love it because it just it makes 58 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: manifesting and the concepts we literally talk about twenty four 59 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 1: to seven more mainstream, and that is good because you 60 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: don't feel like such a like weirdo if you. 61 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 2: Talk about it. 62 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, like your parents or something like that. 63 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: That's the vibes. 64 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: And also I feel like a lot of my RNC 65 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: gang will be like, yeah, I completely know what you're 66 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: talking about. 67 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: And it's funny to watch this on TikTok. 68 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: But I thought it would be fun to talk about 69 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: lucky Girl syndrome and you know why you'll have it 70 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: and why you won't. So the big thing is like 71 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: the caveat in this, because what's really cool about these 72 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: videos is you can see these people are really stepping 73 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: into surrender absolutely, which is one of the hardest concepts 74 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: of manifesting. So they're kind of doing it backwards, which 75 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: I love. Yeah, because usually, like in my formula, the 76 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: way I teach it is surrenders, like literally write it 77 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: the end. But a lot of people get tripped up 78 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: on it because of like growing up and like hustle 79 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: culture of like you need to do the things and 80 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: you need to control. 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 3: And I'm also a control freak. Yeah as am I. 82 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, much the same. 83 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: And so we get really stuck in the surrender and 84 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: trust because especially if you haven't grown up with spirituality 85 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: or religion, you you don't believe in the trust. And 86 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: I grew up at Jehovah's witness, but I remember always 87 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: like questioning it and being. 88 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: Like, what do you mean I'll go to a beautiful garden. 89 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: I don't trust you as a cynical job. 90 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: Literally I was because I just I thought it was bullshit. 91 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what do you mean? 92 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: This is the this is like a story book. Yeah, 93 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: I had, So I had trust issues with God. Anyway, 94 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: moving on from that, something we can unpack another day. Yeah, 95 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: but a lot of us have trust issues because we 96 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: just we haven't practiced it and we haven't sat in that. 97 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: And then also maybe we have evidence that things don't 98 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: work out and things always go wrong and I'm actually 99 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 1: very unlucky, so it's hard for. 100 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 2: Us to sit in surrender. 101 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: So I fucking love this trend because they're literally just like, nah, 102 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit fully in surrender and just things are 103 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: gonna come for me and that's amazing. And you'll find 104 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: like a lot of things will happen for you by 105 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: just doing surrender. So that's it's super super epic. But 106 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: the caveat here is if you haven't done the other 107 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: parts of you know, manifesting and like the full formula, 108 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: it won't always work out. Yeah, what you'll be you'll 109 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: be that person. 110 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: Who's like, lucky girl, syndrome is not real. 111 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 3: I don't have it. 112 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 1: I don't have it. 113 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 4: I didn't win that Instagram giveaway and I wanted it. 114 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 2: Literally, Yeah, so this is the caveat here is. I 115 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 2: love it. 116 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: It's like, let's sit in surrender and let's just know 117 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 1: things are gonna happen for us, but also let's do 118 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: the work because this is the thing that is missing, 119 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: you know with the trend. This is also the thing 120 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: that is missing with like the secret is they're not 121 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: telling you the stuff to do beforehand, which it's like, 122 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: think of it as like prep work, the behind scenes, 123 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: behind the scenes prep work. So for example, you know 124 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: what we talk about a lot is like, first of all, 125 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: you have to be like really clear on what you 126 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: actually want and who you actually need to be in 127 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: order to have that thing. 128 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: You have to be able to. 129 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: Fully embody that person before you become that person. And 130 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 1: to fully embody that person, you need to work through 131 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: your limiting beliefs and you need to work through your 132 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: shit and really do the inner work so then you 133 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: can get to the point of surrender and you can 134 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: get to the point of sitting in that place of 135 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: I know I'm so worthy of this thing. I know 136 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: this thing will just come to me. I literally have 137 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: no doubts in my mind. But also I know if 138 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't come, that something better is coming. 139 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: Yes, And that's. 140 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: What lucky your syndrome is, which I fucking love. You 141 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: gotta do them before its lally. 142 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 4: And I think what you'll notice about people that you 143 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 4: find around you that naturally have Lucky Girl syndrome, I 144 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 4: say in quotation marks is that even if they haven't 145 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: consciously done the work as a manifesting process, I guarantee 146 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 4: you they've done the work on themselves in that they 147 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 4: might have gone to see a therapist, they might have 148 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 4: a life coach, they might journ, or they might be 149 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 4: just very open to getting better all the time. 150 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Or they may have had like really conscious parents. Yeah, 151 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: not give them limiting beliefs. 152 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where we fucking pick up a life. 153 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: Shit. People are atter, So they might just like have 154 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: super self aware conscious parents who like were so conscious 155 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: about like what sort of things were putting on their children. 156 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 157 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: Absolutely, And then we have like us, I love my parents. 158 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: That's like me and JB have this joke because literally 159 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: her mum is a medium. 160 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's so self. 161 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: Aware and so like very conscious and so wo wo 162 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: I love her so much. Shout out to Jules, I 163 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: love you. And her dad's like a life coach. 164 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 2: And I was like, well, you're. 165 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 4: Gonna be good at and Jamie, you're literally brought up 166 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 4: to do it. 167 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: But that's also like I totally agree without it. Tea 168 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: is like you don't know their background, you don't know 169 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: the inner work that they have actually done, or maybe 170 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: they just don't have a lot of limpitging beliefs and 171 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: fucking happy for them. 172 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, actually, I was talking to one of 173 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 4: my best friends last night and she was telling me 174 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 4: about her boyfriend's family and she's like, I don't know 175 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 4: what it is about them. 176 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 2: They're all just fucking lucky. 177 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 4: She's like, everything works out for them. 178 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 3: How does it have it? 179 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: And I feel like it's just that family, not a 180 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 4: lot of limiting believes it. 181 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: I love that. 182 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: Well, that's even something me and Cooper laugh at all 183 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 1: the time because a lot of people will discredit him 184 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: in regards to building Naked Harvest or what he has 185 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: now just because he comes from a background of you know, 186 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: having addiction, having gambling and alcohol addiction and really not 187 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: being the show up and integral person that he is now. 188 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: And then obviously, you know, material things being a byproduct 189 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: of showing up in a different light and really doing 190 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: work on himself. And so a lot of people say that, 191 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: you know, discredit him and say, oh, well, it's because 192 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: you and Georgia went into business and yeah, you're on 193 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: the pig's back or you're lucky. But it's like what 194 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,599 Speaker 1: they don't realize is that time where things change for 195 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: him is when he started self development, and it's when 196 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: he started doing the inner work. Yeah, and it's like, yeah, look, 197 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: if you really knew the inner stuff, you wouldn't be 198 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: saying or if you really knew what people had actually done, 199 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: like you wouldn't be saying they're lucky no, or you 200 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't be saying, oh. 201 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 3: Lucky girl. 202 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: Syndrome you know, isn't a thing. 203 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: You just say they worked bloody hard or yeah, like 204 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: or you know that's their subconscious beliefs are in a 205 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: way that gives them maybe because that's also another thing 206 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: is like there's a lot of privilege, like I said, 207 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: in having super conscious parents who already at that stage, 208 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 1: because you don't you by pass that, and that. 209 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 3: Is privilege for sure. 210 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: So that's like another thing is they just might have, 211 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: you know, that privilege and like amazing, But it's like 212 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: you can still get to that point. 213 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 2: It's just we have to do these. 214 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: Little this prep work and this inner work beforehand, and 215 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,719 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be you know, hard. A lot 216 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: of people are like, oh fuck that, because it's so 217 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: comfortable to just stay where you are and it's so 218 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: comfortable to like not do the inner work. I was 219 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: literally having conversation with Ellie and Jamie about this on 220 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: a walk because some stuff has come up recently, like 221 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: in the child, stuff that I know I need to 222 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 1: deal with, and I. 223 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 2: Just said to them, like I just don't want to. 224 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: You just put it in the too hard basket. 225 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know it, like I will this year. 226 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: I will deal with it. 227 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: But at the moment, like I'm like, oh, it's just 228 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 1: it's too much. It's like it's too much. Where's like 229 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: I will deal with it. But it's like even I 230 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 1: do that, Yeah, it's so easy to do that, but 231 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: we shouldn't be doing it. 232 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think it's how you look at it too, 233 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 4: Like I remember, I think it was Ellie. Ellie put 234 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 4: up a TikTok where she spoke about how she can 235 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 4: always get a car park. 236 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 3: Yes, and that's a core belief of. 237 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 4: Hers, is that she gets a car park, she gets 238 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: the best car park, and she literally does. And then 239 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 4: how she had to shift one of her beliefs about money, 240 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 4: because if she can hold on to her core belief 241 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 4: that she always gets a car park so strongly, why 242 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 4: can't she hold onto one about money. But one thing 243 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 4: I noticed that she said is like sometimes I might 244 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 4: have to drive around a little bit or go around 245 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 4: a few times before I get the perfect castpot, but 246 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 4: when I get the car spot. 247 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: It's always perfect. 248 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 4: But is it almost just your perspective in that your 249 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 4: money struggles feel so much bigger, and it's not just 250 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 4: you driving around waiting for the perfect car park to come. 251 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 4: It's this whole hard thing that makes you feel like 252 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 4: it's not for you of doing the work. Yeah, but 253 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 4: if you shift that belief and really sit in that, Oh, 254 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 4: I'm just driving around the block a couple of times, 255 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 4: but when when the perfect castpot is available, it's mine. Yeah, 256 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 4: And it's not too far away, No, it's just around 257 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 4: the corner literally. 258 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 259 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: But it's that perspective of it's hard, yeah, which is 260 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: again it's like a projection. It's a limitation and it's 261 00:12:58,120 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: something we put on ourselves because we don't want to 262 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: do hard stuff. 263 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: I need to work harder. I wish there was like 264 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 2: a different word for it. 265 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I hope people are kind of understanding what 266 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: we're saying. You know, in your circumstance of you know, 267 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: a maybe a friend is acting a certain way, or 268 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: you do get a nasty comment from a family member 269 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: or something like that. I want to explain to you 270 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 1: how I kind of unpack things and not let them 271 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: affect me. And how when you use this process, anything 272 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: that anyone says it won't affect you and you'll be 273 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 1: able to really like process it in this way where 274 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 1: you're like. 275 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so excited to learn this. 276 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 2: I get. 277 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: All right because I used to struggle so much. Well, 278 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: I think it's so just to get straight into it. 279 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: So human nature is if you think back in the 280 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 1: tribe days, you want like if you weren't in the tribe, 281 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: you would die, you get eaten by an animal or something. 282 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: So it's all about human that like human psyche in 283 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 1: the brain is like being within the tribe. That's why 284 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: we're also fucking judgy because it's like, oh, I'm better 285 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: than this person, so I'm in the tribe or judgment 286 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: is just a way for you to understand where you 287 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: are and like the hierarchy. Interesting, So this person does this, 288 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: it means she's bad. I don't do that thing, so 289 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: I'm here. That's what that's all that judgment is. It's 290 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: a tool that we use to know where we stand 291 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: within the tribe. 292 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: Wo, which was huge back in the day. 293 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, back in the day, like you lived through. 294 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: A couple of years ago, I need to stop. So 295 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 2: it's really like, I don't know, and my reaction when 296 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 2: people I don't know, it's not that I find it funny, 297 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: but when funny, it is quite funny. 298 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: When I explain to you how it actually all works, 299 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: you will also start finding things funny because what you'll 300 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: start to realize is what someone says about you actually 301 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with you and all to do 302 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: with them and what they're currently like processing and like 303 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: going through. If that makes sense, it's very much a 304 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: lens of what's happening in their life and nothing to 305 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: do with you. 306 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 3: Do you think that would apply to people who care 307 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 3: about you? 308 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: Two? 309 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent interesting. Yeah, let's go through something. 310 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: Okay, So well, yeah, mina kind of like complete randos, 311 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: so a bit different, but you'll kind of you'll get 312 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: the concept. 313 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: So let's go through it. 314 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: So it's great because the universe musta knew this segment 315 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: was coming up, and we. 316 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 2: Got some really great comment say here, use this as content. 317 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 3: Trigger is coming out. 318 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: Oh okay, let's get this up. Okay, So the first comment, 319 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: so I posted a reel, So this was a piece 320 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: of content very much for like the for you page. 321 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: So this like when I, you know, create content, there's 322 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: content for like my audience, Realdy knows me, there's content 323 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: for you know, the wider audience of people who don't 324 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: know me. 325 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 2: Like it's very strategic. 326 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: So this piece of content me and Ellie spoke about 327 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: and we decided to use the title of first day 328 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: back at work as a creative director of an eight 329 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: figure business. So I am the creative director of Naked 330 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 1: Harvest and RNC and n H is an eight figure business. 331 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: So that's literally just a title. Yeah, it's not me, 332 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: it's just me spin and facts. Anyway, So there was 333 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: this comment let's get into it, So, so I want 334 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: you stress that there was so many amazing positive comments 335 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: on this being like so incredible, so great to see 336 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,479 Speaker 1: the inside of your day, blah blah blah, like awesome 337 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: comments like my community really is so on my level, 338 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: and so like tapped into how I think that I like, 339 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 1: I want to stress, like I really get comments like this. Yeah, 340 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 1: and it's just so interesting that like these couple have 341 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: come up. 342 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. In such a short space of 343 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:28,880 Speaker 3: time too. 344 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: As I'm like the universe wants us to do this segment. 345 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so of course, of course we're going to turn 346 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 1: shit into gold and we're going to do this segment. 347 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 2: So let me read it. Okay, here it is. 348 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: So, this girl said, I follow you as a motivated 349 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 1: business woman as I am. However, to broadcast your eight 350 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: figure income without having your finger on the pulse that 351 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: majority people are struggling really smacks ignorance and entitlement. I'm 352 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 1: all about celebrating one's success one hundred percent, but as 353 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: an influencer, you definitely need to be in touch with 354 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: your surroundings and current financial cycles. Just because the kim 355 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: Ks are doing well and want to boast about it, 356 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean the general popper. So the first thing, 357 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: have I not read this to you? No, thank you 358 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 1: for comparing me to kimgate. 359 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 2: Because that is a huge compliment. 360 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: So first of all, first of all, this person's like 361 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 1: contradicting herselves because she's like, I love success, I love 362 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: embracing and celebrating. Yeah, I love celebrating one's success. I 363 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: was like, well you don't, because so I definitely get it. 364 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,719 Speaker 1: Because you know, and we've spoken about this on this 365 00:18:55,800 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: podcast about currently financially there is a lot changing, so 366 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: what and like you know, there was definitely a part 367 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,120 Speaker 1: of me and being like have I. 368 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 3: Fucked up here? 369 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: But then what I had to do is think about 370 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: why did I create this piece of content? And it 371 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 1: was for transparency because I go through exactly what I 372 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: did that day and it's like, here, this is what 373 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 1: I do as a creative director of an eight figure 374 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 1: company which I have completely built from the ground out, 375 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: as someone who has no background in business. And not 376 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: that that matters, but I get I diagness what you mean, 377 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 1: but it's like this piece of content was for that factor. 378 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: And also it was just that's what I am, Like 379 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: that is my title. Like you know on Instagram you 380 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,360 Speaker 1: see blah blah blah, like a marketing manager blah blah blah, 381 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: Like yeah, that is just my title, and it's just fact. Also, 382 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: let's take in consideration. I'm not earning eight figures personally, 383 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,439 Speaker 1: I wish I was, but unfortunately not like you're not 384 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: taking too consideration, Like Naked Harvest literally has twenty employees, 385 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: we have a whole fucking warehouse that we have to run, 386 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 1: like we have millions of dollars in expenses. 387 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 4: You're also not boasting about your personal income, like you're 388 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 4: just talking about a business. It's like Oprah saying, oh, 389 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 4: like my network makes X figures. 390 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:27,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. 391 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: And also in that vlog, there's no showiness of wealth. 392 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:34,120 Speaker 3: I literally go. 393 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 1: To gym, go to the office. Do you mean like 394 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: it's just my life. 395 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 396 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: So in saying that, like, I can fucking do showing 397 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: us and that's my prerogative. 398 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: But so anyway back to it, I digress. That's my 399 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 2: new favorite work. 400 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: So I thought about it and I was like, I 401 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: created this piece of content for transparency, and I was 402 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: being transparent. So that is integral with who I am 403 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: and how I show up and social media. Also, my 404 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 1: whole messaging on social media is I empower women to 405 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 1: step into their power. So should I lie about how 406 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: much my company is earning to make someone else feel 407 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: more comfortable? That goes completely against who I am. M 408 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 1: Do you mean no, I'm not gonna fucking lie about 409 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: that or dim my light to make you more comfortable. 410 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 4: That's an interesting point you bring up, because I would 411 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 4: love to know your opinion on keeping yourself smaller to 412 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 4: be relatable to others, because I feel like everyone does 413 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 4: that in some capacity. Obviously, yours would be on a 414 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,959 Speaker 4: massive scale. But like I know, you know in school, 415 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 4: when people are like, oh my gosh, I haven't studied 416 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 4: for the exam, and then there's that smart kid that's like, 417 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, don't worry, I didn't either, and then 418 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 4: they like get any because I study, you haven't like people. 419 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 4: I was that kid, But like, what is your thought 420 00:21:58,600 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 4: on that? 421 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, it's. 422 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: Completely dimming your lighter here. Yeah, and we don't do 423 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 1: that here. No, this is like in this environment, we 424 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: don't do that. And I'm not going to have someone 425 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 1: come on to my account and leave a comment like 426 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 1: that and me go, oh, I'm gonna stop stop sharing 427 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: things like that for my community. Like if you look 428 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: at the R and C community. 429 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 2: This is what we literally built. 430 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: Of the reason why I quit my corporate job and 431 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 1: went out and started a business, which because I saw 432 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: other women doing that. So it's a complete like disservice 433 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: of me to go, oh, well, now I've you know, 434 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 1: started the business. 435 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 3: I'm I'm good here. 436 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,239 Speaker 1: And this is like my third lesson of just like 437 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: the biggest thing I just like, I don't compare myself 438 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: to anyone else because I know who I want to 439 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: be like I know who Georgie wants to be. 440 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. 441 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: And when you have that clarity of your next level self, 442 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: of who you want to be, and obviously you know 443 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: this is what I teach, and it's just me embodying 444 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: of what I teach, It's like, when you have that clarity, 445 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: it's really easy to feel happy and to feel satisfied 446 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: because you're like, there's not a hundred messages of like 447 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: let's say social media. 448 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's not like a hundred reels of you. 449 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: Being like, oh I should be the fucking soft girl, 450 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: or you know this conversation of like oh I should 451 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: be the mom who bakes at home. 452 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 3: I should be the mom. 453 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: Who does this, I should be the partner who does this. 454 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 455 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: I could be healthier, I could be skinnier, I could 456 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: be all these things. But because I'm so clear on 457 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,919 Speaker 1: who I want to be and I've got my blinders 458 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 1: on and I don't let the noise affect me, I 459 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: feel really good. I feel really satisfied. 460 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 461 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: And I think when like last year, I didn't feel 462 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: good and I didn't feel satisfied because I wasn't clear. 463 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 3: On who I wanted to be. 464 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 4: And do you feel like you spend less time on 465 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,919 Speaker 4: social media. 466 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 1: So going to my third lesson, Yeah, if you'll allow me, 467 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: I'll allow it. That okay, So I just I've said 468 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,679 Speaker 1: this in a previous episode. Yeah, comparison is distraction, and 469 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 1: I just have not been distracted this year. 470 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:27,919 Speaker 2: It's like, and this really has Like obviously. 471 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 1: I did a lot of identity work around who I 472 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:34,239 Speaker 1: want to be, but I just like, fuck, I was 473 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 1: caught in Like I was caught in the social media 474 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,880 Speaker 1: comparison trap last year and I did. 475 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:41,479 Speaker 3: Not even know it. 476 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: And it's because again, I wasn't clear on who I 477 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: wanted to be, so I had all these like external 478 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: all this external noise of who I thought I should be, 479 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: and it felt fucking suffocating, Like it felt suffocating, and 480 00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: it's really crazy because I could not even identify it. 481 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: It's now that I'm so strict on my practices and 482 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: like last night, I even noticed myself. So I even 483 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: noticed myself. So I made my like we had dinner, 484 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: I made myself mod milk, I packed my bag, and 485 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: I like noticed this niggling feeling of like maybe I 486 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: could just go watch Netflix instead of because like I 487 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: journal read a bed. Yeah, sing good night and even 488 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: this feeling of like I've been so good all yeah, you. 489 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 2: Know, like I yea so good all yeah. 490 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm I'm like, I'm really solid to myself, like I 491 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: don't I don't fall into the comparison track, you know, 492 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: like I don't need to restrict myself, like I'm really 493 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: good and I like notice that and I'm like, oh wow. 494 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: It just it keeps, it keeps at you. 495 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: And I so I didn't want Netflix or go out 496 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: my phone, and I sat and journaled and I journaled 497 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: for this episode, and I that is the biggest change 498 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: is I'm just so strict with my boundaries even with 499 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: social media of like I think I would spend probably 500 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,439 Speaker 1: max ten to twenty minutes a day on social media, 501 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 1: and that is I do, like, I do really love 502 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 1: social media. It's a really beautiful platform. Obviously I love 503 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: posting on there, I love connecting, but. 504 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 3: I'm really really strict. 505 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: And then I'm like, okay, so then you know, my 506 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: work workdays eight hours, and then on top of that, 507 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: I've probably got four hours with Ivy and then the 508 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: fucking ninety minutes that I've got left, like I'm not 509 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 1: going to mindlessly scroll mindlessly go on Netflix because I'm 510 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: actually going to give back to myself and so I 511 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: meditate or a journal or like on the weekends, I 512 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 1: do watch Netflix. I do love that time, but I 513 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,959 Speaker 1: really have to clock myself of am I trying to 514 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: soothe myself or disassociate here? And previously that's what I 515 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: would do is I would work myself literally to the ground, 516 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 1: and then I would soothe myself with social media, Netflix, food, 517 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: and then I would feel better and then I would 518 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 1: go and do the same thing. 519 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,880 Speaker 3: Kind of like almost binge. 520 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, like very addictive tendencies, and we will have them, 521 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:14,479 Speaker 1: it's very normal. 522 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I. 523 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: Haven't done that this year, and I've just given myself 524 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: so much room and space of like, no, I'm not 525 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: gonna just go do the thing that everyone else is doing, 526 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 1: and I'm actually gonna be really intentional with my time. 527 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 1: And it's like that has just given me. So it's 528 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: given me so much. And it's really funny because I 529 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 1: did notice though, there is a downfall because I'm not 530 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: gonna lie. I like I sometimes don't even know what 531 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: my friends are up to. 532 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 3: Like I'm on. 533 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 1: Socials, is not I like really bad, but like one 534 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: of my friends announced her pregnancy, and like I did 535 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: know she was pregnant, but I like never saw the announcement. 536 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,959 Speaker 1: Oh you know, like personally we'd talk, but I never 537 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: saw on Instagram. And I saw it like two weeks later, 538 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 1: and I thought, oh, wow, like I am actually missing things. Yeah, 539 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:13,640 Speaker 1: so there there is kind of like there is a downfall, 540 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: but you need to decide if that's worth it or not. 541 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,959 Speaker 1: So for me, I noticed that and I went, hmmm, 542 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 1: this is interesting. 543 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 4: Would you say it's a downfall because I would say 544 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 4: that you didn't really miss it because you knew anyway 545 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 4: and you'd spoken to her. 546 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. 547 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're kind of just missing it for people 548 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 4: who you don't really speak to. I guess I meant 549 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 4: in the way of like there would be other things 550 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 4: that you know, close friends do that they haven't told 551 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 4: me that I probably do miss Yeah, okay, I get 552 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 4: you know, maybe that they might not text you a update. 553 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a bit random. Yeah. 554 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so like I think I'm definitely missing things, But 555 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,959 Speaker 1: for me it feels worth it. 556 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I've got to a play swear it. I 557 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 3: just feel so solid and like. 558 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: Who I am now compared to how I felt and 559 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to go back to how I felt. 560 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: So this is kind of what I've had to do. 561 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: And you might think, oh wow, it sounds a bit 562 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: fucking full on, but it's like, these are the changes 563 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: I have had to make personally in this new season 564 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 1: of my life, and I'm really proud of myself for 565 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 1: making them because they have been quite difficult to make. 566 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: And like I said, I've had to say a lot 567 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: of no's. 568 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 3: I've missed out on things. I haven't said yes. 569 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,719 Speaker 1: To all the things, and there's been some really exciting things, 570 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 1: but I've just I've had to be like, no, it's 571 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: worth it because for me days hugely evolution and becoming 572 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: of me being a mother. And I'm really proud of 573 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: the mom I am, and for me, that weighs anything else. 574 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 3: That's so beautiful. 575 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: Thank you and yeah, and that's even Like I was 576 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: talking to a friend a couple of months ago and 577 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: she was kind of telling me, she was like, oh, 578 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: you know, like how do you not care what people 579 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: think of you on social media? Because like she's not 580 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,719 Speaker 1: being on social media or anything, but she was saying, like, 581 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: anyway she was dealing with this like crisis or whatever, 582 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: a certain problem and it was affecting her on social 583 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 1: media and it was great awareness because I was just like, I, Yeah, 584 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: I think I just am so solid in who I 585 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: am and what I want and what I want for 586 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: my family and what I want for my businesses and 587 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: who's important to me that it's like I'm just not 588 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,479 Speaker 1: worried what other people are doing or what other people think, 589 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: and I just I think there's so much power in that. 590 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: All right, guys, So you have just heard the three 591 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: biggest lessons that I had in twenty twenty three and 592 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: that you guys found the most impactful. 593 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 3: And now I want to. 594 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: Take you through three ways of how you can change 595 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: your life into four. So the first tip is get 596 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: clear on your priorities and what season that you are 597 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: currently in. So if you've just done do it for 598 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: your future self, you would be so clear on this, 599 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: and if you haven't, highly highly recommend you do. But 600 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: this changed my life because when you know what season 601 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: you're in, you don't get sad or upset when other 602 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 1: things slip. And I truly believe that when you're staying 603 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 1: in your own lane and you're clear on what you 604 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: want and who you need to be in this season. 605 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: It honestly creates so much more peace inside you because 606 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: you're not like conflicted on chasing after a million things 607 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: or prioritizing a million things, And this honestly will change 608 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 1: your twenty twenty four. So the second tip is to 609 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: surrender and trust the process. If you can strengthen this 610 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: part of your you will be laughing because it is 611 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: so important to have structure and goals and a plan, 612 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: but it's even more important to be adaptable to know 613 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: when to surrender and to know when things need to 614 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 1: shift and change. If you are someone who gets stuck 615 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: in being like rigid all the time and not being 616 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: okay with the change or being uncomfortable, you will find 617 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four difficult because I'm sorry to say, but 618 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: things are going to pop up, things are going to change, 619 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: and the more you surrender, the more space that you 620 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: create for magic. Something really really magical could be trying 621 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: to come in, and if you're trying to plan and 622 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 1: control everything, you're not leaving any space for that thing. 623 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: And that's that's truly. 624 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 3: Like the journey of life. 625 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: So the third tip is embodiment and integration. Honestly, this 626 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 1: is the missing key that most people forget about. But 627 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,479 Speaker 1: the fastest way to attract what you want is to 628 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 1: be on the same vibration to be the person who 629 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,239 Speaker 1: has that thing. So it's really important for you to 630 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 1: embody that person who already has that thing. It's really 631 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: important to do an order and see where you need 632 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 1: to shift and change in order to embody and integrate 633 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: yourself so you are a match for your desires. All right, guys, 634 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed the three lessons of twenty twenty 635 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: three and those three tips to make twenty twenty four 636 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: your year. I cannot believe we're in a new year. 637 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. So much is happening with RNC this year. 638 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: If you're not in the Facebook group, come and join 639 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: us because that's where all the fun stuff happens. 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