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Speaker 1: You and your partner sim openly tell each other when

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Speaker 1: you find someone else hot. And the amazing thing is

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Speaker 1: Sam Joins is on the phone right now. If you're

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Speaker 1: a big fan about show, you deserve an appoorse sent

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Speaker 1: you never come on this show. How did we get

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Speaker 1: you on today?

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Speaker 2: I feel well. I feel like I was like, yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: I was super pressured by you guys.

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Speaker 3: You're talking about transparency.

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Speaker 4: She's bringing out transparency. It's a Dutch It's a Dutch thing.

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Speaker 5: Actually actually begs the question, which is, how do we

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Speaker 5: start being so honest with each other about finding other

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Speaker 5: people attractive?

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Speaker 4: That's what we're talking about, the fact that you guys

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Speaker 4: are really so I.

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Speaker 2: Think I don't. I don't feel threatened in any way

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Speaker 2: about our relation or so I feel one hundred percent

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Speaker 2: comfortable with our relationship that when you say those things,

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Speaker 2: I can only like, for example, with a beautiful man

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Speaker 2: or a woman walks by and you say, wow, that

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Speaker 2: man has I don't know, great legs. Is a man's

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Speaker 2: great legs?

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Speaker 3: I never said that.

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Speaker 5: Because you're I've never made a comment about another man's hair.

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Speaker 4: I would like that on the record.

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Speaker 3: I would like that on the record.

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Speaker 1: So Sammy, Though, do you like if Will says when

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Speaker 1: he's when he's moved past men's legs and men's hair,

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Speaker 1: if he finds a woman particularly attractive and he tells

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Speaker 1: you and that woman looks totally different to you, for example,

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Speaker 1: how does that make you feel weird?

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Speaker 4: Or does that how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 2: No, it's just interesting then to find out, like how

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Speaker 2: how did you find that attractive? And how do I

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Speaker 2: completely have an opposite idea of what attractiveness is?

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Speaker 5: Not all the time, You're not always the opposite to

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Speaker 5: what I find.

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Speaker 2: We're often the same.

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Speaker 5: So you like the men's legs as well the men's

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Speaker 5: legs and thankfully not the men's hair.

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Speaker 2: For the men's legs, I think I wanted to make

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Speaker 2: it a bit more generic for a man's legs the

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Speaker 2: women's or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And semi sorry just before the song as well, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about the fact that you know, obviously

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Speaker 1: when you when you see strangers, it's not so bad,

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Speaker 1: or when you see people on TV, it's not so bad.

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Speaker 1: But then you know Will said that you guys might

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Speaker 1: also do it about friends of yours as well, saying

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Speaker 1: that you know you find they're attractive as well. And

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Speaker 1: the obvious question from me is have I come in

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Speaker 1: to your Have you ever gone? Ge would looking a

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Speaker 1: bit so so today.

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Speaker 2: I have, I would say, come up. But that's about

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Speaker 2: the physique. You have a beautiful body.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's true though, the way that your your muscles and talk.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's got a beautiful body.

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Speaker 5: Here's got a beautiful body.

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Speaker 3: I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: Well you flipping on me now that you guys calearly

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Speaker 1: talk about my.

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Speaker 4: But we won't talk about friends as well. They're like,

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Speaker 4: but there's also like that.

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Speaker 2: Is a fine line though, That is a fine line.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, you can't.

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Speaker 5: You can't be like swooning over somebody else. We've also

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Speaker 5: spoken about this as well, because funnily enough, the topic

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Speaker 5: we're talking about yesterday is if you fall in love

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Speaker 5: with your friend's partner, can you can you stop yourself

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Speaker 5: from falling in love.

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Speaker 4: With your friends? Is it okay to fall in love

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Speaker 4: with your friend's partner?

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Speaker 5: And I basically said, it's, well, it's not okay, but like,

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Speaker 5: you know, who you fall in love with is who

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Speaker 5: you fall in love with if it happens, Yeah, you

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Speaker 5: can't stop that?

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Speaker 4: Wow, Yeah, you guys are extraordinary.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but actually fair, I've actually got a lot of

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Speaker 5: this from Semmy. She's very Dutch and like I find

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Speaker 5: like it's very very very very transparent, very practical, and

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Speaker 5: also saying like I feel like a lot of this

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Speaker 5: transferred from your parents, who are like, you know, interesting

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Speaker 5: in how they are. I mean like they they had

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Speaker 5: a party to celebrate their effectively because it was such

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Speaker 5: a great end to twenty years of marriage and they're

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Speaker 5: best friends afterwards.

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Speaker 4: So it's just a whole new take on relationships. And

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Speaker 4: Pim was even flashing Will on the recent holiday as well.

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Speaker 2: I'm just not surprising.

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Speaker 3: That giuse your mum.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, I'm pretty sure your dad listens to the podcast

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Speaker 5: and he's probably rocking back laughing now thinking it's amazing

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Speaker 5: my ex wife flashed my daughter's boyfriend when she was

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Speaker 5: in Australia. Anyway, Sammy, thanks for joining us, very good stuff,

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Speaker 5: great day, Booz.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like you'll be back.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.