1 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: In the current climate, do you get worried about the 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: fact that you're in our fam out? Sometimes I hear you, 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: jack with the content that. 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,159 Speaker 2: You guys have, You're so involved in it, you're so 5 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: into it, definitely inside of you that occasionally perks up 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: and goes, I'm okay with this. 7 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: Let's not talking about this is the life for you. 8 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 3: I don't know whether you heard on our launch day 9 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 3: into Melbourne, Jackie has shocked us all to the core 10 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: when she admitted. 11 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 4: Completely understand what Will is saying. He's trying to crack 12 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 4: you open, trying to crack that shell. But you've got 13 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 4: that you've built up that's so hard. 14 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 3: I didn't know she was suffering in silence. 15 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: You think that's because you're not in touch with your 16 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: own emotions. 17 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 4: Every now and again, something will pop up and I'll go, 18 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 4: I'll just say it, you know, prepare that was can 19 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 4: you beat me? 20 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: Jackie? By the time that Jay left, abandoned me? 21 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: Is what I like to say. 22 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,319 Speaker 4: It's just something that I'm uneasy with. It makes me 23 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 4: feel uncomfortable showing it. 24 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 3: You don't want to be judged by others. 25 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: That's how a lot of men manifest how they're depressed, 26 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: their anxious. 27 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 5: They get angry when yeah, I have in the bad 28 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 5: hard to hear? 29 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: Is that hard to hear? 30 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: Sharing how you're going is one of the best things 31 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: you can do for your mental health, but. 32 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 6: When you most need to tell someone how you're going, 33 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 6: it's often the hardest thing to do, and if. 34 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: You don't address how you are, your feelings confesster and 35 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 2: lead to things like anxiety, depression, even suicide. In this podcast, 36 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 2: we ask a range of inspiring people how they express 37 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 2: themselves in the hope that we can all learn something 38 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: more about arguably life's most important skill, to ask yourself, 39 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 2: how am I feeling? How do I express how I'm feeling? 40 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 2: How do I share my mood? 41 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: Hello? Everyone, welcome to share my mood. 42 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: Look, as you've just heard in the intro, this podcast 43 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: is about trying to get people to talk about how 44 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: they share their feelings, sharing how they're going. 45 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I think that's hugely important for your mental health. 46 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: And today you guys are going to hear from one 47 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 2: of these I don't want to say an unwillingness too, 48 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: but I think it's different. 49 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: It's different. 50 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 6: I think this is what I find so interesting about 51 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 6: this area. That we're getting to with so many amazing people, 52 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 6: is that there isn't a one plus one equals two 53 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 6: way of engaging with your emotions. 54 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 7: Yeah, addressing how you're feeling. 55 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 6: I think we all, every single one of us, goes 56 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 6: about this in a different way. 57 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: And I think I knew you would have heard that 58 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 2: already if you've if you have or haven't listened to 59 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 2: Will Anderson or or Kate Langbrook because they were really different. 60 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 6: Absolutely, and Kyle Sanderlands once again is incredibly different to 61 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 6: those two guests as well. And I think, well, so 62 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 6: we're with Jackie in this chat as well, and I 63 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 6: think she is as interested in this as you and me. 64 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well here, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I mean yeah, 65 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to give too much way here, But 66 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: you did I know you had a bit of a 67 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: text you change with Jackie afterwards you were sitting buds buds, 68 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 2: you were sitting on four unread texts, and but she 69 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: did but you did message her after the conversation. Yeah, 70 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 2: what did you say? 71 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 6: I just basically just said I loved the chat, thanks 72 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 6: so much for the time. I would have said the 73 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 6: same message to Kyle as well, but he has not 74 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 6: passed on his number, but it was pretty pretty brave. 75 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 6: I was like, great chat, thank you so much. 76 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 7: For the time. 77 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: And that was your fourth one in the blue? 78 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 7: That was fourth. 79 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 6: I did open the message message like thread whatever for 80 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 6: her men Jackie, I noticed I had this would have 81 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 6: been the fourth. 82 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 7: You're in the deep blue. 83 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: Yea deep blue jes Jesseic Garralber, isn't it. 84 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, the blue is jessicar Albert. 85 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: But your message read with Jackie O. But yeah, Jackie 86 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: blue jack He. 87 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 6: Wrote back though, and she was like she she pretty 88 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 6: much just said yes, it was. 89 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 7: It's so it's such an interesting area to talk about. 90 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 6: I've worked with him for so many years, and yes, 91 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 6: for people who listened him, it wouldn't be very clear 92 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 6: to when you're listening to him on air as to 93 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 6: how he does, you know, feel the feels and if 94 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 6: you've ever wanted. 95 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: That, I mean, he doesn't as like there are videos 96 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: of seen him and bits of audio that we were 97 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 2: talking about before the chat where you can see him 98 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: being emotional. 99 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 7: But at a baby as well. 100 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: It has changed. 101 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's his sort of status quo, like his mo 102 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 2: o is to not necessarily engage with how he's going, 103 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 2: and I know that a lot of guys have that 104 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 2: as their mo o as well. 105 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: I got to say that, and. 106 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 2: I got on him for actually coming on and giving 107 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 2: this a crack with us, because I don't think he's 108 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 2: done it before. 109 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 7: And he's honest. 110 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 6: He's like, yeah, you can hate him or like him, 111 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 6: but he is going to give you the real. 112 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: Hymn, and he didn't shy away from it. I am 113 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: very glad that Jackie was there. I'm sad we didn't 114 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: get to talk to jack about her and how she 115 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: shares her feelings. Maybe we can do that another time, 116 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: how she shares her moot because you know, in this instance, 117 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: it was like we had a wild male croc and 118 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: she was like she was the professional croc wrangler and 119 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: you and I were the work experienced kids, and you know, 120 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: one of us, you know, was kind of like holding 121 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: on with our arms around his mouth, and one of 122 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: them had the tail and we were sort of trying 123 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 2: to wrangle the crock under her instruction. So we didn't 124 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: get a chance to ask the actual croc handler how 125 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 2: she goes about her emotions. But I'm sure it'll be 126 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: a fascinating chat and we are very interested in that. 127 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 2: But consequently, you know, with the wild with the male 128 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: bull on the list, all our attentions, all three of us, 129 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 2: was focused on Kyle, and again I want to, yeah, 130 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: thank him for you know, giving this a crack in. 131 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 6: You know, because the crocodile could have left at any stage. 132 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 6: The crocodile made the decision to stay and talk about it, 133 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 6: and he wanted to keep going as well. He's happy 134 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,679 Speaker 6: to keep talking as well. So anyway, have a listen. 135 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: I think this is fascinating is it is nothing but 136 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 2: fascinating one hundred percent. Very quickly, before we play this, 137 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: I just want to let you guys know we obviously 138 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 2: spoke to conjecture for a long time. 139 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: We can't speak to them for a long time. 140 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: Chats with them do tend to become very tangential if 141 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 2: you've listened to any of their radio show, so you 142 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: might hear a few cuts here and there as we 143 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: just sort of just tried to sharpen the chat into 144 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,679 Speaker 2: all of the bits which we thought were most pertinent 145 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 2: to the question around sharing or expressing your emotions. 146 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: Enjoy. 147 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 4: Oh my god, can you get Kyle to talk about 148 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: his feeling again? He's one of those guys that just 149 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 4: likes to repress everything. 150 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: No, I'm what you call an alpha male. You guys 151 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 3: are beata male. Anyway, we'll start when you're ready. 152 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 6: I feel now we've started, Kyle, I want to talk 153 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 6: to you. I reckon, you've gained a little bit of 154 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 6: beta mat about yourself. 155 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 3: Know what? 156 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 6: How how do you because you've got a little bit 157 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 6: more emotional since having your child? 158 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 7: Don't? 159 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: Oh, that is true, you know? And I did say 160 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 3: this to Jackie. I said, did any of your ex husbands, 161 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: because there's quite a lot of them, did any of 162 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: them burst into tears when a duckling would chomp on 163 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 3: the Kleenex commercial? Because before I could care less. Now, 164 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 3: every little, every news story about kids or any suffering 165 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 3: of any child evokes me like some sort of demon. 166 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 3: I just can't help. I just person the tears. It's 167 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 3: just a scary thing when you've got a. 168 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 7: Child, right, it's different totally. And does it does it 169 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 7: feel good for you to like, he catch. 170 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 3: Me a glimpse of myself in the mirror, because obviously 171 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: there's mirrors all around my house. You know, sexy guys 172 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 3: have shit like that. Will you probably have your mirrors 173 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 3: covered over some sort of vampire problem. But you know, no, 174 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 3: I do like the fact that a more caring side's 175 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 3: coming out, But yeah, I don't. I don't. I don't 176 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 3: sit around the cafe with my mafia mates bursting into 177 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 3: tears and asking for deep dives on their emotions. I 178 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: just my group of friends that we're avoids of that behavior. 179 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: But Kyle feels uncomfortable though, I think with talking about emotions, 180 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 4: and I think that's what makes him uncomfortable sometimes. 181 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 5: Hearing you don't trust any because he's so the opposite 182 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 5: of that. 183 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 4: And I just wondered if maybe, like while you've got 184 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 4: him here in the seat, you might be able to 185 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 4: explain to him why it is important to share of 186 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 4: that and talk about it. 187 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 5: Sometimes. 188 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: What the hell are you doing, Kyle? 189 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 5: Is an ambush? 190 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 7: I would say, I'm sure you can agree with this. 191 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: It is. 192 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 6: And speaking of releasing the hands, I feel like when 193 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 6: you do show your emotions in little parts every now 194 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 6: and then, it is releasing the pressure that builds up 195 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 6: inside you. And I think if you don't do that, 196 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 6: then the pressure builds up so much that you might 197 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 6: have an explosion. 198 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: Do you know, se this is? 199 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 4: This is exactly what happens with Kyle, right, and you're 200 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 4: referring it to as a pressure cooker, is exactly right. 201 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 4: When you don't process and release those emotions, they come 202 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 4: out in other ways. 203 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 5: I eat anger. So we watch Kyle get super. 204 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 4: Angry over little tiny things that the rest of us 205 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 4: would be okay with, and he doesn't understand that. That's 206 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 4: why he's so triggered because he's not releasing the other stuff. 207 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 5: He's a work in progress, not even in progress. 208 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 4: Actually, we haven't even got to the program from counsel Yetle. 209 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: Do you get like I saw the other day where 210 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: you you lost it at someone and then I remember 211 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 2: you watch about the footage I saw on your Instagram 212 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 2: and then you were watching make the footage and. 213 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: You were like, oh, ship, am I actually a dick? 214 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: Like you're watching it. 215 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 3: Never I don't know whose show you're watching. I've never 216 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 3: wondered if I was a dick. 217 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: Because because you were, like, for the first time, I 218 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: think you said, for the first time in my life, 219 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm looking at this thinking to myself, Oh my god, 220 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 2: what it was. 221 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: I wondered if I was a d your words. 222 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 4: This is so funny. It's watching like two opposite men 223 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 4: will what is it the world? And you've got the 224 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 4: cars in there at the extreme, man. 225 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 3: You know, you gotta ask yourself which one are you 226 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 3: taking home tonight? 227 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 5: I definitely will. 228 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: It's a package deal as well. 229 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: Hey Kyle, are you do you get like in the 230 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 2: current climate, do you get worried about the fact that 231 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 2: you're an alpha male? 232 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 3: What in autumn? 233 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: I don't give I would be I would be so 234 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 2: like just a reflection on me. But I feel like 235 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 2: if I was an alpha male right now and I 236 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: was projecting being an alpha male, so worried about what 237 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: I was saying because I've constantly got the spotlight on me. 238 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: No, I don't care. I don't give a shit everyone 239 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 3: Like I believe that everyone should do and act and 240 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 3: behave however they want, as long as it doesn't harm others. 241 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 3: So I don't you know, I don't begrudge you guys 242 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: from you know, being the softer you know, the guys 243 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 3: that can't grow the proper beards generation, you know, the 244 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 3: patch of beard. There's nothing wrong with that, the small shouldered, 245 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 3: the medium shirt wearing, the crying guy riding on the weekend, 246 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: holding your hands through the botanical garden, picking your missus 247 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 3: flowers that type of guy. 248 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: I was, honestly, I was. 249 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 3: I was listening. 250 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: I forgot you could see me for a second. 251 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 3: There. 252 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 5: That's not sleeping, that's. 253 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 2: Like I'm actually thinking about how to get him back 254 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: there and how to crack him open again. 255 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, really thinking about it. 256 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 3: What do you want to crack open? I'm an empty 257 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 3: vessel here. There's nothing there's nothing about me that's been hidden. 258 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 3: Would you say that true, Jackie, there's no there's no. 259 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 4: Hid to completely understand what Will is saying. He's trying 260 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 4: to crack you open. He's just trying to crack that 261 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 4: shell that you've got, that you've built up, that's so 262 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 4: hard and which. 263 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: To which you admitted this is because you know what, 264 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to push you either. 265 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: Bro, push try try your best, good good luck like 266 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 3: a piece of iron here. 267 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 2: But that's honey, isn't it the like with you? If 268 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 2: I pushed you, the harder you get. You know that's 269 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: how it works. 270 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 5: I'm not going there right now. 271 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 3: I don't know whether you heard. On our launch day 272 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 3: into Melbourne, Jackie shocked us all to the core when 273 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 3: she admitted that she had a one night stand, He said, 274 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 3: I can't believe having sex with Jackie. Oh she was 275 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 3: banging a super fan. Hello, my dreams have come true. 276 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 3: She now know what it's like to have sex with 277 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 3: a fan. There's nothing better with those adoring eyes. They 278 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 3: warm up the washer at the end of it's the 279 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 3: whole thing. It's wonderful. 280 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: Jack. Guys, I think this is interesting, Jack. Where's the 281 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: line for you with this? Because sometimes I sometimes I 282 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: hear you Jack, and sometimes I hear you you that, 283 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 2: like with the content that you guys have, You're so 284 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 2: involved and it is so into it. But then also 285 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: there is definitely a moralistic side you. There's definitely a 286 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 2: side of you that occasionally perks up and goes, I'm okay. 287 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 1: With this, let's stop talking about this is the line 288 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: for you? 289 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: I think it just depends on how I feel at 290 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 4: the time. Like, honestly, I would say that I feel 291 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 4: a lot of the time a little uncomfortable sharing super 292 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 4: private things about especially relationships and dating. It's just something 293 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 4: that I'm uneasy with. It makes me feel uncomfortable sharing it. 294 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 3: You don't want to be judged by others? Is that 295 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: what it is? 296 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 5: I don't know what it is. 297 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 4: Actually, I've tried to kind of tap into that a 298 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 4: little bit and understand why do I fear it so much? 299 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 4: And obviously would be a level of judgment, but that 300 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 4: I'm fearful of. But also I don't like talking about 301 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 4: other people. I feel it's really unfair to talk about 302 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 4: a date when that person, like I felt bad even 303 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 4: saying that listener story. You know, I immediately thought of that 304 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 4: person who was so sweet and spoke and he was 305 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 4: just a lovely person, and so I immediately go into 306 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 4: this zone in my head where I go, oh my god, 307 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 4: I might have offended him or you know, and I 308 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 4: feeling like that. So a lot of the time I 309 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 4: don't love sharing that stuff. But every now and again, 310 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 4: something will pop up and I'll go, I'll just say it. 311 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 3: You know. 312 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 5: That was Can you beat me? 313 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 3: This is supposed to be a nice, wholesome family. 314 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 7: Are you private about anything? 315 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 3: Kyle? 316 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 5: Yes, he is. 317 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 4: Actually, you know what, when he was single and he 318 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,439 Speaker 4: was sleeping with certain people, he definitely didn't want it 319 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 4: set on air either. So he gives me a really 320 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 4: hard time about it and says, you need to share 321 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 4: that more, but you didn't either when But yeah, there's 322 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 4: there's always going to be a certain amount that. 323 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 5: You keep to yourself. It's only natural. 324 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: I think I'm going to go back to the question Jackie. 325 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: By the time that Jagie. 326 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 4: Left and abandoned me is what I like to say, 327 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 4: which I really needed because I was so completely burnt out, 328 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 4: really unhealthy. 329 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 3: I didn't realize either, by the way, which was the 330 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 3: bit that shocked me. I didn't know she was suffering 331 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 3: in silence. 332 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: You think that's because you're not in touch with your 333 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: own emotions. 334 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 3: No, No, I'm in touch with my emotions. I just 335 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 3: unless someone says, hey, I'm having a tough time, I'm 336 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 3: not going to run around asking how are you feeling today, 337 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 3: because really I don't care how they're feeling. But different 338 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 3: story with him. But I didn't know, and I think 339 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 3: she might have been suffering her own little demons there 340 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 3: and maybe didn't want to bring it up in this environment. 341 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 3: I didn't want to put a downer on everyone or. 342 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I think a lot of that stuff you 343 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 4: can even keep to yourself, like even don't admit to 344 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 4: yourself in a way. 345 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, So it's always hard when. 346 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 4: The other one isn't there, Like if you go through 347 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 4: obviously I had that three weeks off. 348 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 3: And three it felt like twelve and then three. 349 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 4: And then Kyle has gone through those sort of periods 350 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 4: as well. You know where it's always hard on the 351 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 4: other person when around. 352 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 2: Him, Jack, When like because I know with Woody and 353 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 2: I if I'm if I'm ship house and I rock up, 354 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 2: it's you know, it's on me. 355 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: It's written all over me. It's all over me. Yeah, face, 356 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: all over my body, my body. 357 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 3: I don't really have bad days, do am I pretty constant? 358 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 2: I think get angry, you get angry, Yeah, but that's 359 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 2: just because of dicks. That's how a lot of men manifest, 360 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 2: how they're depressed or anxious, they get angry. 361 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. So I notice that like when yeah, I have 362 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 5: seen the. 363 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 6: Battle, when Kyle has an outburst, Jack, is that one 364 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 6: of the signs for you of like maybe something's going. 365 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 4: On with him? 366 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 5: One hundred percent. 367 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 4: I won't say that to him, but I know inside, Okay, 368 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 4: I try and understand it because I think he's got 369 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 4: something going on elsewhere. Whatever is happening, it's it's it's 370 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 4: coming out in through the anger, which it does with Kyle. 371 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 3: Have you formed the indoctrination of these two. 372 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 4: He doesn't realize as this stuff because he won't ever 373 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 4: let me talk to him about it, which is. 374 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: What loving that way. 375 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 3: Here, you're actually feeling quite happy every day. 376 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: I feel good at the moment. 377 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't feel bad really ever, very rarely 378 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 3: am I down in the in the dumps. 379 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: That's good to be. 380 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 3: What have I got to be down the dumps about? 381 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 3: And I know you can have everything and more. You 382 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 3: could be the King of England and still have some 383 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: depression and anxiety. I know it's real, but I just 384 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 3: don't have it. I don't get anxiety. I don't ever 385 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 3: feel depressed. If I'm angry about something, I'll react in 386 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 3: the moment and then it's immediately gone. You'd have to agree. 387 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 3: I'm not dragging the grudge all day. I'm not carrying 388 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 3: around and everyone's terrified someone will copy it and then 389 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 3: immediately it's over. 390 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 4: If my anger comes out, it comes out quick and 391 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 4: then it goes away. 392 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 3: You guys are honest, like you are what you get 393 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 3: on air, the crying, the funny, the relatable type crying, 394 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 3: don't cry. 395 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: Desert over here. 396 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 4: The way Carl talks about you, guys, you'd swear you're 397 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 4: crying every day. 398 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 5: Seriously, we heard it. 399 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 6: We got a little grabscent to us from yesterday's show, Kyle, 400 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,959 Speaker 6: where emotion came up and you were like, oh bloody 401 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 6: hell of show. 402 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: Ah yeah, exactly. 403 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 3: No one else is doing it. You guys afforded your 404 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 3: own area. It's not it's not not working. It is 405 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 3: a reflection of society. There's plenty of young blokes. How 406 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 3: old are you, guys, thirties something, thirty five? Yeah, right 407 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 3: in your mid thirties. That's the generation that is softer 408 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:35,959 Speaker 3: because you know, you are exposed to more. You're nicer 409 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 3: guys than than I was at thirty five. 410 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 6: Do you want do you want otto to be more 411 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 6: like Will and Woody or do you want to be 412 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 6: more like Yuka? 413 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 3: Ah? Well I did hope that I would be homosexual 414 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 3: at one stage. Ah. They're just more fun than you know. 415 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 4: And the fashion to go to a dance recital over 416 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 4: a soccerpone boyd I'd rather them go father. 417 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, my dance retitles on Thursday, and I go, oh yeah, 418 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 3: rather than like I'm playing footing on so I go, 419 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 3: oh yeah, Well you're on your own not interested in 420 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 3: wanting watching footy Oh, isn't. 421 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 4: It funny the contradiction of Kyle being so alpha yet 422 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 4: hating that kind of sport and wanting to. 423 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 5: Go to a dance. 424 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 3: I was triggered. I had a problem. I caught them 425 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 3: football in under sevens. Yeah, we've just changed sides. First 426 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 3: time I've ever caught the ball. I ran like lightning. 427 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 3: I ran. No one was in front of me. I 428 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:24,959 Speaker 3: touched down. I turned around. They're all standing with their 429 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 3: hands on their hips. Bro, you you touched down on 430 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 3: the wrong side. You guys are laughing at my triggering moments. Now, 431 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 3: who's the asshole? 432 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 2: We've spoken about this whole idea of Kyle being an alpha? 433 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: Do you see yourself as like, how would you brand 434 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 2: yourself in terms of how you see yourself and how 435 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,719 Speaker 2: you're portraying yourself to the public. 436 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 5: Oh gosh, I think you know. I'm someone who It's a. 437 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 2: Tough question because I know that you, particularly when you're 438 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 2: in the room with an alpha, that's sort of hard 439 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 2: to position yourself. But you Doeah, it's so beautiful. 440 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 3: Because you're so cessed in the alpha you can't even 441 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 3: think about yourself. 442 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 5: Dealing. I kind of am happy with where I've come. 443 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 4: You know I've I've made it this far on my own, 444 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 4: and you know, I've had a very successful career, and 445 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 4: I like to think I haven't stomped over anyone to 446 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 4: get here, and I've always kind of come from a 447 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 4: more kind of empathetic. 448 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 3: Angle with very different. 449 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 4: So we're so difficult, and I like to yeah, I 450 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 4: just do love, like I think more than anything, I 451 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 4: love showing Kitty that you know, you don't need to 452 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 4: rely on anyone else. But also to get to the top, 453 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 4: you don't have to be this cold, hard ass bitch 454 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 4: at all. You really don't. I don't know, like I'm 455 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 4: not sure how other people view me. 456 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 6: I'd like to touch on a moment Jack that I 457 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 6: saw from you was at the the Actress. I hope 458 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 6: you're code me sharing this, but yeah, kiss said just 459 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 6: one station of the year, Calm. 460 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 3: I didn't go. 461 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 7: I'my, couldn't you make it? 462 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 1: I didn't go, Kyle, and you didn't go either, Brian, 463 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: what happened to you? 464 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 3: Were you crying? 465 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: Believe it? I didn't get out of the hotel room. 466 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 3: It didn't even get I've been the weddings and I 467 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: never left the hotel room. I was I was a 468 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 3: grooms but it one never went I get it. 469 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 6: But Jack, the moment that I saw was we were 470 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,120 Speaker 6: just one best station, so that the mood was high, 471 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 6: and there were big celebrations after we won the award, 472 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 6: and then I'm not going to I won't go into specifics, 473 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 6: but Kitty had a bit of an issue. Your daughter 474 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 6: had an issue when we went. It was amazing to 475 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 6: watch you. It was that this should be a moment 476 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 6: where you know, obviously you're celebrating, saying you've worked so 477 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 6: hard towards and it's recognition within work, but without even 478 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 6: a thought, your care just went straight to your daughter. 479 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, absolutely, yeah. 480 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 6: I think everyone would do that, Yeah, but not not 481 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 6: the way that I saw Jack do it. 482 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 7: It was it was this instant that. 483 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: You saw in a role that you haven't seen her 484 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: in before. 485 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 7: That's exactly right. 486 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, a caring mother role. 487 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 488 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a good mum. 489 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 5: You know, I thank you. 490 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, Kitty and I have a really close relationship. And 491 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 4: you know, when I saw the look on her face 492 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 4: backstage and something was happening with her. 493 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 3: You know, was overwhelmed by everything, overwhelmed. 494 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 5: It might have been a bit of panic. I don't know. 495 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 5: Maybe she was a bit looked like she was going 496 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 5: to faint. 497 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's scary when that happens. Honestly, I thought 498 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 4: for a second that her drink had been spiked because 499 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 4: she was saying, I feel funny, I feel funny, and. 500 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 3: So never happened to a media event, wouldn't. 501 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 5: Oh that's what I started thinking. 502 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 4: My god, did someone try and spike my and she's 503 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 4: accidentally drunk? 504 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 5: Who knows? But she was actually okay. 505 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 4: But we left here and of course, yeah, she's always 506 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 4: going to come first no matter what. 507 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, I think that's a great comment you 508 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 2: made before. I think just because you're good doesn't mean 509 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 2: you're a bitch, and just because you're a bitch doesn't 510 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:48,360 Speaker 2: necessarily mean you're good. You like, really read that line amazingly. Well, 511 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 2: you are so good, but I never you only ever 512 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 2: used venom, I mean, unlike your co host where. 513 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: Towards me, But it's like the last resort for you, Jackie. 514 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 2: And I admire your balance and poise in the studio 515 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 2: given how much noise is off and around you, And 516 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: I think that's what makes you guys so listenable. 517 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 3: It takes a beta male to admire a woman's tea. 518 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 5: Thank you guys. 519 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 3: Sweet, that is nice. 520 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 4: Sweet, that's really really nice, and kind of you to say. 521 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 3: Very observant of you will sitting there. I always thought 522 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 3: you were just having a moment, but probably observing people. 523 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: Go to cry some more, you learn to observe it. 524 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 2: It's all tied in together, it's all one and the 525 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:25,120 Speaker 2: same thing.