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Speaker 2: Can't you just let her have a conversation without kicking

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Speaker 1: I can't. It's true. It was a damn Matthew, it

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Speaker 1: was a damn good move. I never heard you talk

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Speaker 3: Sorcerer.

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Speaker 1: It was a production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to two going dads, and we do have

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Speaker 1: Grandmother, good grandmother.

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Speaker 2: This is a podcast all about parenting. It is the good,

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Speaker 2: it is the bad. And if you come for advice,

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Speaker 2: don't don't do it from us, And no, definitely don't

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Speaker 2: do it from Elie.

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Speaker 1: What there we go, she's alive.

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Speaker 2: Normally you would be relaxing upstairs in my bedroom waiting.

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Speaker 3: To say it like that something going on the chimney.

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Speaker 2: Well, every time that I go to get changed, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: how did you get up here? Yeah, it's tough living

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Speaker 2: with a sex predator, my Lordie, but we are very

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Speaker 1: Ash.

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Speaker 2: We were getting a little coffee before. She was very reluctant.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Ellie was reluctant to come in the podcast, but

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Speaker 1: Have to let her defend herself. Yes, yes, okay, she

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Speaker 3: We need time and place. Yes, you were on I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm not buying any of these. I'm not as was pushed.

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Speaker 3: I was so scared for my life.

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Speaker 2: You don't know this, Elliott, but you actually let it

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Speaker 2: that you two can reconcile.

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Speaker 1: But I also found the ultrasound before he told me. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The Johnson family is terrible at keeping.

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Speaker 2: I you're pregnant.

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Speaker 3: And I said no, no, I just said that you

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Speaker 2: She knew, she knew the way you reacted. She was like,

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Speaker 3: But nobody else in the room, nobody else said what

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Speaker 2: Look, I'm not angry at you at all.

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Speaker 3: I'm just disapp I'm so happy to hear that.

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Speaker 3: No, I just think it's a wonderful blessing, and of

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Speaker 2: I think we are.

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Speaker 3: Given up on the other boys.

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Speaker 2: Let's just hope that. Don't listen to this episode.

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Speaker 3: You know, a girlfriend of mine had five boys and

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Speaker 1: You can always move, but it took me all but.

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Speaker 3: You know, look, I think it'll be great for the girls.

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Speaker 2: Laura, Nana Marley, Lola.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, been castrated. Yes, apart from that, if.

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Speaker 1: Apologize, very proud of you as dead.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you really want me to go, you gotta go.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for being so gentle with my mother.

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Speaker 1: That's my pleasure. Before I tell you this story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you have to promise you can't react to what

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Speaker 1: I can't promise you.

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Speaker 2: So holidays have been recently, school holidays.

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Speaker 1: Thank god they're over. Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know we had pony Club the song.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what actual pony club? I knew you would react

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Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, don't do yourself any favors. Matt hit

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of like a bunch of spoilt kids riding

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Speaker 1: if you buy a fucking pony, I will leave right now.

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Speaker 2: I am so far in debt right now, I can

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Speaker 1: Not until next year. I'm king. We'll see how we

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Speaker 2: Ponies ponies are out of the question. But we were

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Speaker 2: My niece goes to it.

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Speaker 1: It's like regularly goes to it.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just during school holidays and all it is okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all it is is a farm, right They have a

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so it's not that okay. I thought immediately,

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Speaker 1: Let's let's just be pony people. I thought you were

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Speaker 2: People, and you know who also thought that? Who Marley?

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Speaker 2: She was like, pony Club.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, about finally so people I can get

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Speaker 2: She watches a pony Club show. It's like a Barbie

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Speaker 1: So it's a cartoon.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's pony people. It paints a very specific

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like a pony and we've got a pony

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Speaker 2: And then after they get picked up in a helicopter

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Speaker 1: Marley was pumped.

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Speaker 2: She was so excited because she was like, finally pony,

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Speaker 1: I have my own pony. This is gonna be amazing.

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Speaker 2: So we went to Kmart to buy her new outfit

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Speaker 2: because you need to have long pants, you need to

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Speaker 1: You got to look like a pony person. I don't

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Speaker 2: Just you need to have boots. She's got like either

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Speaker 2: And so I got a k fifteen bucks for a

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Speaker 2: She had like an outfit sorted in the morning. She

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Speaker 1: Here's my outfitt what do you think?

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Speaker 2: And so we get there and it's the farm. It's

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Speaker 2: and like, oh God forbid the pony people have to

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Speaker 2: it's a beautiful farm. It's just it's a working it's

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Speaker 1: And there's like counts, give me concrete it please, issusting, Lola,

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Speaker 2: So we get there and the lady who runs it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, break my hand. But she's lovely.

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Speaker 2: She's lovely.

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Speaker 1: Let me just this one more time. She's lovely.

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Speaker 2: And I dropped Marley off and she's like, where.

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Speaker 1: to get? Where's the body? Like a white one? Please

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Speaker 2: And the lady is like, here you go, gave her

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Speaker 2: what's this for? I know the difference between a horse

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Speaker 2: they're at pony Club for like a good half an hour,

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Speaker 1: That alone, that's really true.

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Speaker 2: And so I like, I'm just going to, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, mine, like have fun. And she's

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Speaker 1: This is child labor. Yeah, I've paid a couple.

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Speaker 2: Hundred bucks for one hundred bucks three days through oh

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Speaker 2: three day okay yeah, and he's left in there for

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Speaker 1: Mally was like what have I done to deserve?

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Speaker 2: And Lola was like, I want to go to pony

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm going to pick her up.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking to myself, there's no way that she's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But then Mate.

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Speaker 2: Picked her up.

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Speaker 1: She frozen. She's like he a carrot. Molly's like, here

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Speaker 2: Now, I got to feed the fucking horses, so give

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Speaker 2: us give us five, would you. She's smoking a cigarette

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Speaker 2: to pick red. Yeah, straight to the heavy stuff can be.

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Speaker 1: It's like she's gonna go split the bee over here hanging.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what if you're done to my marlet?

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Speaker 1: But I loved it what happens at Bony and Bony.

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Speaker 2: I love that she was covered in the I was like,

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Speaker 1: Like these boots they're not steel cat. What you're trying

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Speaker 2: Three days?

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Speaker 1: Three days that she loved it. Ride a pony.

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Speaker 2: She rode the pony Louis I think his name was.

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Speaker 2: I mean when I say ride the pony, I mean

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Speaker 1: That's probably what she was expecting the whole time, right,

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Speaker 2: I think that she thought she was going to be

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Speaker 1: Who's that? Don't you know? Spirit? It's a show about horses.

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Speaker 1: It's a cartoon show Spirit Netflix. I haven't seen it. No,

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Speaker 2: Hey, how where is Oscar's first day back at school?

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Speaker 1: He's pretty good except to wear little shit like he

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Speaker 1: look he's spoilt in a way that I ride him

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Speaker 1: He's like Charlie and just gives this look like I'm

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that's all right. We can ride

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Speaker 1: And I was like, sorry, is that how the story is? Coughing?

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Speaker 1: I was like, get the fuck out of my car. No.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, oh yeah, and it's

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Speaker 1: I was the same. I had to message my therapist

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Speaker 1: you can see your mates and the bells about to go.

444
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: You gotta go. And then he was like okay, sweet

445
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 1: and went off. And I was also like, good on him,

446
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: because when I was young and my first day back,

447
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: I would wail like him.

448
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 2: Dude, that was Marley. Oh what hysterical. She loves it though,

449
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 2: Yeah I thought so. She was like, I don't know,

450
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:34,959
Speaker 2: it's super emotional club. Yeah, I was like the hardened

451
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: Marley of like pony club days was gone and like

452
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 2: the pathetic note I got pathetic.

453
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: Perfect. But it was one of those.

454
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 2: Mornings like Laura got up early for work and said

455
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 2: Marley woke up and Laura had already left for work

456
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 2: because she was crying over that. And I'm not I'm

457
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 2: not reacting, but just like I was like, where's your shoes,

458
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 2: just like I know everything and boots and then the

459
00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: same thing she I was like, I'm going to drop

460
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 2: you off, you can just go, and she's like.

461
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: Can you walk me in? I was like, fuck, just hysterical. Yeah,

462
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: right when you like walked her in and fully left.

463
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 2: And Yeah, there's a really lovely lady who I don't

464
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: know her exact job, but she kind of took my child.

465
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: She kind of just like gives the kids a hug.

466
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 2: She's like the mom of the school, but she just

467
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 2: hangs out at the school and hugs kids.

468
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's kind of like a teachers out. It's sexual predator,

469
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, my child, how long have you worked

470
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 1: at the school for she's worked at the school school?

471
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: What do you mean? I lived here, it was my house.

472
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: But she's great, She's like so awesome. And she was

473
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 2: giving me like a hug, and Molly was like, fuck.

474
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: Off, I want my daddy. Could off be a stranger?

475
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 1: It was a nightmare. Yeah. I used to walk. Yeah,

476
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: my mom used to walk me to school on the

477
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 1: way to the bus stop. And I remember as a

478
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: child crying a lot. Yeah, I don't know what about.

479
00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 1: I was like trying to sympathize, but also get out

480
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: of my car, Get out of my car. But poulstery

481
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: Marley does love the bike. Yeah, it's just like it's

482
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: just so weather permitting. I prefer the bike too. I

483
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 1: love the bike.

484
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: I love the bike. I was riding the bike yesterday.

485
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: It's weird. Just on your own Marley.

486
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: In the back right, were a little right around, got

487
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 2: a haircut?

488
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: Can I have a turn on the back?

489
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

490
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: You can. Well my big butt fit in there.

491
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah you will, yeah, yeah, long side saddle, don't you

492
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 2: don't you worry?

493
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: I'll figure it out.

494
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: We went for a ride around and we're on the

495
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: way back home and there's currently some construction going on.

496
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: They're fixing one of the roads.

497
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I think I know the one.

498
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's annoying, you know, cars are always banked up.

499
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 2: And so came up to this part where the road

500
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: was under construction and I thought to myself, I'm just

501
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: gonna nip onto the footpath.

502
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: You're on a bike against that, right, And.

503
00:26:55,760 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: So I was on the footpath going slowly right about

504
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty meters.

505
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,239
Speaker 1: Then you can say one hundred and fifty k's I'm

506
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: not very slowly.

507
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: I nip back onto the road.

508
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: Yeah okay. And then as I knit back on.

509
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: The road, I hear this guy go oy oy, and

510
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 2: I was like, like, someone's having a crack at me.

511
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 2: So I turn over my shoulder and he's like oy

512
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh no, Like do you know what?

513
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. I was gonna say, I flip

514
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: that guy the fucking bird. God, that's how I think it.

515
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 2: You I'm on the foot path trying to yell at me,

516
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 2: and even Marley was like, what's he getting?

517
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: So angry about I know what you did. However, can

518
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: I guess? Can I guess what happened? There was wet cement,

519
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: he right across the it's so good. No.

520
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: So it turns out the person that I gave the

521
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 2: finger to, which I am sorry that I did, that

522
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 2: was the.

523
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: Wrong thing to do. I shouldn't have done it. Now

524
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: I stand by it.

525
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 2: Marley had a little soft toy that had just fallen

526
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: out of the bike.

527
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh ah, and he was holding the toy. I was like, oh, oh,

528
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: did you get it back? Yeah?

529
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: But I was like, I can't turn around now.

530
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: So what did you What did you say to him?

531
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: I just kept on riding, like, no man left behind you.

532
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 1: You're gonna take a different way to school now, just

533
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: in case you run into that guy. It's a good lesson.

534
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: That's a good life lesson. It's a good I did

535
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: tell you that Oscar lurnt the finger from Popper a

536
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: while back, but he does use it sometimes, And just

537
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: that just jogged my memory. I was at a kid's

538
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: party with Oscar obviously, was just there without a kid.

539
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: That'd be weird your first time. Well, that was a misunderstanding.

540
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: I thought it was pony club. I was like, I

541
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: was like Oscar, like trying to get his attention, and

542
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: he just looks over and he goes flip to you

543
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,719
Speaker 1: to me in front of all the other parents, and

544
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: I just what do you do? I'm a funny guy.

545
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: I just thought it was funny. I was like, yeah,

546
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: fucking dead. And then honestly, my mate Mike thought it

547
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: was fucking hilarious. He was like, how did you teach

548
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: him to do that? I was like, I didn't do it, April.

549
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 1: April's dad did, but yeah, I feel like giving the

550
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: finger to there's someone in traffic probably yeah yeah, yeah,

551
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: but I was going to say, like someone like having

552
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: a cracky you be going on the foot path. Then

553
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: off like that. I went to I went to Brunswick.

554
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: That's like me Byron, Yeah yeah, yeah, beautiful, lovely. My

555
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: cousins live down there and they're doing all this roadwork

556
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: and like they're like where the car park is, and

557
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: people have put who live in the residentials have just

558
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: taken upon themselves to put their own witches hats up

559
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: saying you can't park here. I was like, it's a

560
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: long weekend. I'm fucking barking there, mate, don't you worry anyway.

561
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: I pull in with the kids and everything in a

562
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: rental car. I'm clearly not from there. I had Victorian

563
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: plates on it. I look like an absolutely, I'm just blowing,

564
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: a blowing of the highest regard like I am. First

565
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: of all, I'm from Sydney driving a rental car with

566
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: Victorian plates on it. I couldn't be any further like

567
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: a tourist flash. It couldn't be any other anymore tourists

568
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: unless I was driving on the other side of the

569
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: fucking car. And I get out and I'm, you know,

570
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: at the beach with shoes on. But that's even worse.

571
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: I've been driving. I'm not dressed with the beach. We're

572
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: at the beach. But I was like, I can always

573
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: get dress. And I shut the door and I saw

574
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 1: this some someone looking out peering out over their balcony

575
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: like someone's parked where I know, and they're like, you

576
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: can't part there. I was like, you're the parking police

577
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: and she was like no, no, no, but I leave here,

578
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like, oh, you can

579
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: fuck off then, and I just got my kids and

580
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: just kept walking, and I was like, they're probably going

581
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: to fuck my rental car up here, and at first,

582
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: at first glance, I thought, yeah, fuck, I showed her.

583
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: I showed her, And then I caught up with my

584
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: parents that were there as well, and Dad's like, did

585
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: you park along there? I was like yeah, And I

586
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: was like, how's this though? There's people put parking signs

587
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: up there, and I'm like He's like, yeah, that's because

588
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: they're doing roadworks and they're actually taking over all of

589
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: their driveways and they've been told by the counsel that

590
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: they can park then.

591
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh shit, anyway, she's just trying

592
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: to help you out.

593
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 3: Excuse me.

594
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, look I felt horrible about it, and I

595
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,239
Speaker 1: was like oh, and Dad was like you parked there,

596
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: didn't you. I was like yeah, because you better go

597
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,479
Speaker 1: move it. You didn't tell they wont to fuck off,

598
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: did you? And I was like oh fuck. And April

599
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: was like yeah, you should have seen what he did.

600
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, we're bad people. Okay, we

601
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: know it. I know, you know it, and we're trying

602
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: to get better, I know. But Dad's the sort of

603
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: guy who's like he's the biggest people pleaser. He was like,

604
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: come on, we're gonna go back, and I was like no,

605
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: and Mom's like, ah, fuck them. Oh, And so I

606
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: left it there for like hours and I was like,

607
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: oh sheepishly walked back. I said to Dad, like, we went,

608
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: had a lunch at the pub, had a couple of

609
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: had a couple of beers to get some courage. And

610
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, go back and get the car.

611
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: Walk back with Dad and Dad was like, look at

612
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: your car there.

613
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 3: All on it.

614
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: I was like the only car there. And I was like, oh, fuck. Anyway,

615
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: she's there leering over again, and I was like that's it.

616
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: I was like, Dad, don't look, that's her over there.

617
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: And Dad's like, sorry about that. Fuck. And then I

618
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 1: just yeah, got in the car and forgot out of

619
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: there quick. Smart. But I just reminded me of that. Sorry.

620
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,719
Speaker 1: If you are listening, lady from the same class. If

621
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: you are listening, lady who I parked, I don't even

622
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: don't try. You're not sorry. I'd do it again. Ash.

623
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 2: We should have recorded parrant parant jingle.

624
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: We haven't.

625
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: No, we are going to get to it next week,

626
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: we promise. No one really gave any feedback on the

627
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 2: song with what we have. Then one person gave me

628
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 2: a suggestion. I can't remember what it was, but to

629
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: that person, I did acknowledge it.

630
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: But I'm going to say that our idea was better.

631
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: At the moment, we're telling people off.

632
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: So you're lucky, You're lucky you didn't receive a finger.

633
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, just get one in the mail.

634
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 2: But we're going to do We're going to do one

635
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: quick parant.

636
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: Yes we are.

637
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: Would you like to go jazzmine my virginity to do?

638
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: Adjussemine? Did you well?

639
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: Jazzmnine Adjasmine is from Sweden and she says, so my

640
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 2: kid is a ginger.

641
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeap moving on fantomn.

642
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 2: Sorry, and not like a slight red tone in his hair.

643
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 2: He is ginger ginger. Neither I nor his father are

644
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: just a few freckles on both of us.

645
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: Milkman's got some explaining to do.

646
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 2: I knows the old fucking lady staring us down when

647
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 2: we were out and about going about our business. She

648
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:37,280
Speaker 2: then leans in and asks, how come he's ginger?

649
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: Something my man would do? You know what the fuck?

650
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:50,959
Speaker 2: He's our kid? Sorry, Jasmon, he's our kid.

651
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: We made him, I know because I was there.

652
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: But hypothetically he could be adopted a sperm donation or

653
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 2: a child from a previous marriage. I'm so over talking

654
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: about the genetics of it all.

655
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 1: With people I don't even know. People are way too

656
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: fucking nosey.

657
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: A well, it doesn't help. There's a lot of ginger

658
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 2: in the photo already.

659
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 1: This is a red photo.

660
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 2: There's a lot of she's got her self to blame here.

661
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 2: She's put him in a very specifically colored top, playing

662
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: with a toy that's very specifically colored.

663
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: Show me god, Oh holy, the slides even ginger.

664
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: But beautiful child, beautiful kid, beautiful love it, gorgeous.

665
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: Child, very ginger though Macy was very ginger too, Like

666
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: she's they grow out of it. That's horrible. Did you

667
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: ever did you ever cop any questions? It was more

668
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: I cop because she's indigenous and she's a ginger, and

669
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: people will be like and they're just ignorance. Really, people

670
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: would be like, so a few of us, how can

671
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: she be how can she be indigenous as she's ginger?

672
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: And I remember, like one guy said, someone was like

673
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: it was a dad at kindy just it was it

674
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: was I don't want to make this sound like he's

675
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 1: a dick, because he's not. He was just like ignorance

676
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: and I played with I play with people. Matthew J. Johnson,

677
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, how come like she's you know,

678
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: and I said, oh, you know, just I was like

679
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: what what background? What background are you and he was like, oh,

680
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: you know German. It was like's funny, I've never seen you.

681
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: I've never heard your kids speak German. And he was

682
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 1: like what. I was like, you know, mind your own business.

683
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 2: And it was like, did you beat him up in

684
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: the car We had, you.

685
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: Know, we had a laugh about him, and I walked

686
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: about I don't really mind because it is strange and

687
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: like also, if you know, like April is blonde, I'm

688
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: dark haired, dark features, and then Macy was ginger, and

689
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: it's like, is there must be someone along the line

690
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 1: in their family that has like April's Arnie has like

691
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: strugberry blood hair. We just was like, well the Armie,

692
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: but also Macy's so pale yeh. She's like, see, I

693
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: don't agree.

694
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: I was quick quick to react to I apologize and uh,

695
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: it just beautiful as.

696
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 1: Joke about that she goes in the dark and it

697
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: was like you know those little you know beat you know,

698
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: those deep sea vision there's see through like, yeah, we

699
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: get close enough. Just either that's it gets Sorry sorry anyway,

700
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: I would say take a leaf out of Maddie Jay's

701
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: book and if someone questioned you, just Ash, we have

702
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: some questions we do Matt, I'll go first. Ye's a

703
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: question from Hannah. Hello Hannah, a normal name for once,

704
00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 1: is it? Hannah? Do you think dad should take equal

705
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: parental leave when baby is born, not at the same

706
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: time as mum, but as the primary care It's a.

707
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: Very good question, Ash and Hannah. Look, I think I

708
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: think it's interesting when you talk to the older dads

709
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: who never took any time off, like they were kind

710
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 2: of lucky. I think my dad took the morning off

711
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: for the birth and he was back at work at lunchtime.

712
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 2: That's the old generation.

713
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: That's why it's crazy. That's so crazy. I think that

714
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: was for the first child. The rest of us, you know,

715
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 1: it's like have you had it yet? Yeah? Is like one, two, three, four,

716
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: not yet.

717
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 2: It's amazing that workplaces now are acknowledging the importance of

718
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: parental leave for dads and for mums. And I think, look,

719
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: I know that not all places are as flexible as others,

720
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 2: so it may not be an option, but if it

721
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 2: is an option to take ten did parental leave? I

722
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: think dad's are absolutely stupid if they don't take it.

723
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would also like check the legislation what's actually

724
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: because a lot of people don't. They're just like, okay,

725
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: well my company won't they give him two weeks and

726
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: that's all right, because I know when I had Oscar

727
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: the first kid, the company I worked for, they offered

728
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: three months okay, but was in conjunction with a particular legislation, right,

729
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: which is you can take three months as a primary

730
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: career okay, And they need to stat decks and and

731
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,919
Speaker 1: proof of that to be to take that time off.

732
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: But also the company worked for need to agree with

733
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: that too, because there would be businesses out there and

734
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 1: be like, no, what it's like, Well, that't make anyone unhappy.

735
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: But I know I worked with before I had kids.

736
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: I worked with two guys that did that that after

737
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: a certain amount of time and mum went back to work.

738
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: Usually because you also loved a career, very career driven,

739
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: they would go, okay, well I'm going to take three

740
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,720
Speaker 1: months off, and I think, like I think it gives

741
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: you an opportunity to bond with that child playing more

742
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: like for me, I took two weeks off with Oscar,

743
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 1: but because of some complications we had, I ended up

744
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: taking three months off unpaid, completely unpaid, because it was like,

745
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: I need to go now, and they were like, do

746
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,280
Speaker 1: your thing. It will support you as much as possible.

747
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:32,760
Speaker 1: And over that time it changed absolutely everything. Here's something

748
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: a friend of mine who's got a nine month old

749
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: was like, he's sort of starting to be able to

750
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: bond with that kid more because he's more there's more

751
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: for him to do now when I think, but he's

752
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: still got to work, but he's he's like, I wish

753
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: I could have more time off now. Yeah. And that's

754
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: the thing. If you get to like nine months okay,

755
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,879
Speaker 1: and your partner is coming to the end of their

756
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 1: parental leave and she's really excited about going back to

757
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: it because it's also great for It was great for

758
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: April to go back and have adult conversations. Then you're

759
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: going to have three months of you get three months

760
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 1: of complete bonding with that child. It changed me that

761
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:18,439
Speaker 1: time because I would be you know, I can't wear

762
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: the first sort of first generation where it's not like, oh,

763
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 1: go straight back to work. But I had to conform

764
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: to that right and I kind of felt like I

765
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: missed out on so much until it was like unfortunately

766
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: it came out of bad circumstances, but it was like

767
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 1: at the end of it was like the best.

768
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 2: Thing that it's totally I think. Number one, to give

769
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,959
Speaker 2: mom a break, you know, in the first few months

770
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: obviously newborn babies are so dependent on mum. But after

771
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 2: that period, if mum wants to go back to work,

772
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 2: to allow them to do that by their dad being

773
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 2: a home amazing or just having a break from being

774
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 2: the sole parent, like the sole caregiver.

775
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, for the child.

776
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: Number two, like you said, having that bond, having that

777
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 2: bond is so important and it also lets you understand

778
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 2: and like what's required talk after a child, Like there

779
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: are so many people that are like, well, you know.

780
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: I don't know not long after the baby. You're also good,

781
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: I don't you do it?

782
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: And it's like if you have that one on one time,

783
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 2: you understand all the nuances of looking after a child

784
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 2: from morning tonight, what's required, items, schedules, routines, et cetera.

785
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 2: It also means that your wife is not going to

786
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: be stressed out any situation where you have to look

787
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: after the child.

788
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And also like I think when it comes to

789
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 1: the time when you know mum and dad are both

790
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: around and you know baby, your child will go, their

791
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: first instinct is to go to mum, right, But if

792
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,439
Speaker 1: you've spent three months with them, then that's like, hang

793
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: on a minute, They've got two options. They've got two

794
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: options now, because I think a lot of the time

795
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: dudes don't take that time off or didn't take that

796
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 1: time off previously to now is because they didn't know

797
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: what to do, yes, right, And it's like I didn't

798
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: know what to do. But you you know, we for

799
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: thousands of years men and women have been procreating and

800
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: we just it's just it's sort of part of our

801
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: DNA and in the end, you can't be completely non maternal.

802
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: So like I found that into that deep end was

803
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: probably the best thing for me now as a parent,

804
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: because I could deal with it then that I've just

805
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: like it's kind of like a three month probation, right,

806
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: It's like a trial period. You know, want to get

807
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: to the end of that. But like, you learn so

808
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: much more if you're on the job all the time.

809
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: But I also think it's a perfect way to share

810
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 2: the load beyond that, because I think there are so

811
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 2: many dads who don't take that time to have one

812
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 2: on one specific time with the child.

813
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: They have no.

814
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 2: Appreciation for how hard it is. And I think once

815
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: you have that one on one time where it's just

816
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 2: you and bub at home, holy shit, dude, it is

817
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: so incredibly hard. I was like, Ah, this job sucks.

818
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like having the worst boss. Yeah you have.

819
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 1: You've got a child for a boss, like a baby

820
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 1: for a boss. And I completely understand that a lot

821
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: of a lot of men don't think that they can

822
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: do it in terms of like their job, or they

823
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: might not have the access to or they might not

824
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: know they have access to things that the government provide.

825
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: But I would say, if you want to do it,

826
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: fucking do it. Do it. Like like I said, if

827
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 1: you can. I understand that some people can't just do

828
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: that and they've got to work and make extra money

829
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 1: on top to survive because of how expensive sheit is.

830
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: But like I would say, if you're thinking about, like, okay,

831
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: I would like to spend more time with my kid

832
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: as a dad and like a new kid as a dad,

833
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: hit your HR up, hit check fair work, check all

834
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: these things because there are things there that we don't

835
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: know about that you could, you know, take advantage of that.

836
00:44:59,000 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: Other places don't.

837
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: That's being all serious because weird.

838
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 1: We just flipping people off, and now we're telling people

839
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: to take time. Take one's spend more time with your children. Ash.

840
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 2: Yes, last question before we go, what are the top

841
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 2: three baby or toddler items that are a scam?

842
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh? So many? You go first, The whole system's a scam. Man,

843
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 1: it's very hippie that word. It's a scam. Life of scam,

844
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: gifing kids a scam. Just relax, fas, don't worry about

845
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: it all. Don't worry about life man um. Firstly for me, yes,

846
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: nappy bin. Oh, just put it in the regular bin

847
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 1: and we had a nappy bin for both and look

848
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: handy for it's there, but it's just a more expensive bin.

849
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tiny, two nappies and it's.

850
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 1: Then you pull the thing out. It's so fucking heavy.

851
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: I remember once I that's right. I was like, oh,

852
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,720
Speaker 1: do you want to be funny? Two story building? Not funny?

853
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: Do you want to be easy? For me? I might

854
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: just lower it off the balcony, so I have to

855
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: take it through the house, lowered it, and it was

856
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: so heavy it slipped out of my hands. Boof because

857
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: of the nappy bin, because the fucking nappy.

858
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: This is controversial, okay, but keeping with nappies, change tables, yes, okay,

859
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 2: I think there are a waste of space.

860
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: It's a first child thing. You're like, gotta get a

861
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: change table, Gotta get one, gotta.

862
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 2: Be stacked done with my wipes, a my nappies.

863
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. With Macy we had the change table

864
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: phone bit a soft bit because I think it's that's important.

865
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: But it was on top of a chest of drawers.

866
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: She even rolled off once into a draw. They have

867
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: it take heavens, but then the whole draw.

868
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 2: It's just fine. But I agree, I just changed on

869
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: the floor. You're a floor to floor changer.

870
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

871
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: I never used the change table. I mean handy. I

872
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: didn't bad for your back all fours like a cat.

873
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: I can see the cat over there, be like, don't

874
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: bring me. Number two I had was those electric rockers.

875
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: I never used to give me out. It's essentially a

876
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: ride for the kid. Wouldn't it make you season? No?

877
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: The manual one fine, and they're so cheap. The manual

878
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,439
Speaker 1: the bounce because also it gives the kid opportunity to

879
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: realize that if they move their feet, hang on, yeah,

880
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: I can bounce. I control this. It's like have you

881
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: ever got into a hammock and thought, hang in a minute,

882
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: I could swing.

883
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: I like to have one leg out.

884
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you've got control. Imagine if you didn't have controls.

885
00:47:56,320 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: You want to give someone someone stopped, someone stopping?

886
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 2: You want to give you a child autonomy?

887
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to be like just sitting there someone,

888
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: I've got my just like we're going forwards now. It's

889
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: essentially a roller coaster for a child.

890
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 2: My number two baby shoes, damn newborn baby shoes? What

891
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: like they're cute Para Nikes?

892
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Like how adorable they are? There's the miniature.

893
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 1: Can we also talk about how round the bottom of

894
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: baby feet? H I can't remember because they're so chubby.

895
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: They're just like fancing around. So you want to give

896
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: that up with a fucking a flat surface?

897
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: No, one's it's pointless. It's pointless.

898
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: It's all. Do you know what it's all for the

899
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: vanity of the parents. Yes, it look at my child.

900
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: Apparently it's really bad for their feet as well. Apparently

901
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: we are very helpful. Yes, go number three. Okay, So

902
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: mine's not a whole product, it's part of a product,

903
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: if you would say. So, you've got the pram, the

904
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: forward facing pram, not the back facing pram. Yes, so

905
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: they've yet forward thoughts. Uh. And they've got the lid

906
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: yep for the sun, the hood rain the hood hood

907
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: if you will, jinks. And it's got the tiny little

908
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: flap at the top so you can check in on them.

909
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 2: They're great, beautiful because you don't want to wake them up,

910
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 2: you know, if they're napping.

911
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: But if they're sitting facing forward, I'm just getting a

912
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: knife full of a crate of the cap of their head.

913
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: And you're like, oh, then I've got to go. I've

914
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: got to flip it back. It's such a pointless fla

915
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: it's a pointless flat.

916
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 2: It's a point flat, like a pointless poet sticking with clothing.

917
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 2: I'm going to go with bows.

918
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: Vanity, vanity, the vanity of the parents out. The child

919
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 1: hates it. Cute though a little bit kid. So look,

920
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: I would say they're useless in terms of their functionality

921
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: good for a phone, very useful. If you're like babies,

922
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: I can't hold his neck up, but look how straight

923
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: my bow is.

924
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: If you have any items that you think absolutely pointless scams, if.

925
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: We're being scammed out there by the incorporations, do you

926
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: have one? I want to talk about it. I can't wait,

927
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: I can't wait, can't wait. It would be really quick. Okay,

928
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: it was those bibs, the plastic bibs with the I

929
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: was going to say bigs, but I was saying I

930
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 1: was going to say, it's the bib with the catcher

931
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: in the bottom. It's too skinny for the catch ship

932
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: and catching no one as if a kid's like I

933
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: need to spit this out, I'm going to say they're

934
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: like I think bibs in general, like just you're gonna

935
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 1: wash a bib, gonna wash the clothes? I just I

936
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: feed my child, just extra Yeah, smart them down.

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00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 2: That's what we have time for. If you've enjoyed this episode,

938
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 2: any episode of two Doting Dance, we would love it.

939
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: We would appreciate it more than life itself. If you

940
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: would give us a review, subscribe and make a few comments.

941
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, or you can join us on social Dads, Two Dads, Instagram,

942
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: TikTok and Facebook.

943
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's it.

944
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 1: I think we're seeing that's everything. We will see you

945
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:25,760
Speaker 1: next time. Ellie.

946
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: If you can, just on your body, just point to

947
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 2: where Ash was was physical with you, please please do it,

948
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 2: point to your breasts.

949
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: Any of me canceled if we did kiss a little bit. Goodbye.

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Speaker 2: Two Doting Dads podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country

951
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 2: throughout Australia and the connections to land, see and community.

952
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 1: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: and extend that respect to all our original and torrestrate

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Speaker 1: island of peoples today