Speaker 1: I actually can't believe that this is something that we're
Speaker 1: even doing. But I am getting married, which is weird.
Speaker 1: I'm going to have a Hen's party.
Speaker 2: You say that every time, but you've been getting married
Speaker 2: for like six months now if it can't.
Speaker 1: Just hit you. Yeah, because I'm thirty seven. When I
Speaker 1: get married, I never thought I was going to get married.
Speaker 1: You get to the point where you're like, that's not
Speaker 1: going to happen for me. I'm moving on. I gave
Speaker 1: up on love.
Speaker 2: But what thirty seven, You're not a hundred brew I know.
Speaker 1: I'm saying the time has come where we're like having
Speaker 1: ow bus parties and bachelorette parties and stuff. And so
Speaker 1: my fiancee Ben had his Bucks party over in Italy
Speaker 1: on the weekend. Now, if you don't know, he's not bougie.
Speaker 1: He didn't fly to Italy for his Bucks, but Ben
Speaker 1: lives in Italy, so a few of his friends flew
Speaker 1: from around Europe. They had this amazing weekend planned and
Speaker 1: I just thought I was going to be like the
Speaker 1: best girlfriend, sorry fiance where I was like, babe, you
Speaker 1: know what, I'm giving you a free pass, free rein
Speaker 1: not to cheat. But I was like, do whatever you want,
Speaker 1: have as much fun as you want. If you want
Speaker 1: to go to a strip club. You can go to
Speaker 1: a strip club. If you want to party all night,
Speaker 1: party all night. Okay.
Speaker 2: But when you say free pass, how far does the
Speaker 2: free pass go? Because if you're saying you can go
Speaker 2: to a strip club, can he have a.
Speaker 1: Lap dance no touching? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know lap dance, So it's not really
Speaker 2: a free pass, very restricted path.
Speaker 1: Well, I meant more of a free pass is in
Speaker 1: like you don't have to contact me for two days
Speaker 1: until the weekend's over, Like I don't want you to
Speaker 1: feel like as long as I know you're okay and safe,
Speaker 1: Like I just want him to have fun with his friends.
Speaker 1: And I was trying to be like really cool and
Speaker 1: laid back and stuff, and I genuinely was there's nothing.
Speaker 1: There's not one percent of me that worries about him anyway.
Speaker 1: So I was like free pass talked to in a
Speaker 1: couple of days, He's like, oh yeah, boys. All I
Speaker 1: heard was I could hear him going all I heard
Speaker 1: is free pass, Like it's on, And I was like, love,
Speaker 1: you have the best time. Within four minutes, he was
Speaker 1: started to send me photos, updates, updates, four minutes four
Speaker 1: minutes previously, and they're photos of his like the best
Speaker 1: pinny of me I've ever had. It was a picture
Speaker 1: of his sandwich and I was like, I was like, bath,
Speaker 1: go out. I was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Like, actually, I've upped it. Please go and get a
Speaker 2: lap dance something.
Speaker 1: So progressively he slashed. The boy continued to call me
Speaker 1: throughout the night and like update me. They wanted to
Speaker 1: talk to me. He sent me messages and it got
Speaker 1: to the point where I didn't think I was gonna
Speaker 1: say this. I was like, babe, don't call me back.
Speaker 1: I was like, go to a strip club or something.
Speaker 1: I was like, go and let loose. He's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I just thought you'd want to keep posted. We're having
Speaker 1: lots of fun. I was like, I know, baby, like
Speaker 1: please go and live your best life. And it just
Speaker 1: made me think back to when I met Ben. Originally
Speaker 1: it was supposed to be a one night stand and
Speaker 1: the reason I chose Ben was I saw him as
Speaker 1: like this tall, beautiful athlete that was foreign, that wasn't
Speaker 1: going to be in Australia for long. And I was like, oh, bingo,
Speaker 1: this guy's going to be an absolute player.
Speaker 2: This man, he's very sweet.
Speaker 1: He could not be any further from a player that
Speaker 1: even with me, I felt like I needed to go
Speaker 1: over there and walk him into a club and be like,
Speaker 1: have fun. It's almost like I needed to push him
Speaker 1: into it. He was just so concerned.
Speaker 2: I feel like there's going to be people listening to
Speaker 2: this who were deeply divided, because there will be some
Speaker 2: people like, yeah, my partner's so trustworthy, and there's other
Speaker 2: people who have had their partners go to Bucks parties
Speaker 2: and have had very different outcomes or very different feelings
Speaker 2: around it. The thing I don't get is like I
Speaker 2: don't understand why a strip club or strippers have to
Speaker 2: be synonymous with Bucks or Hens parties. Like I actually
Speaker 2: don't even know if my husband got a stripper.
Speaker 1: He probably did.
Speaker 2: They had the party at our house, so we as
Speaker 2: the girls, we went away and we went to an airbnb.
Speaker 2: But Matt he had all of the boys come to
Speaker 2: our house and like, surprisingly, there was no remnants of
Speaker 2: the destruction of what had happened. The only thing that
Speaker 2: had gone wrong is like someone had sat on our
Speaker 2: bin and the bin was broken. So I was like
Speaker 2: that's wow.
Speaker 1: That was it got crazy.
Speaker 2: Maybe someone got a lip dance on the bin. I
Speaker 2: don't know, but like, I don't understand why. That's kind
Speaker 2: of like the thing that we need to give people
Speaker 2: a caveat for when we have a Bucks or Hen's party.
Speaker 1: Totally and when I say, babe, go to a strip club,
Speaker 1: go fine. I didn't actually want him to go to
Speaker 1: a strip club. It was a test he passed. It
Speaker 1: was a test.
Speaker 2: No, no, you guys wanted him to do it so
Speaker 2: that you can do it.
Speaker 1: I understand, I've seen it.
Speaker 2: We've talked about on the podcast before.
Speaker 1: That's right now the day that will be on another
Speaker 1: show whatever. Maddie