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Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rice and Conquer Podcast. I'm your

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Speaker 3: Let's do this. Hello guys, and welcome back to the

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Speaker 2: I'm your host Georgie and oh do I have a

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Speaker 4: What was the next question, Georgie.

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Speaker 2: I absolutely loved that, So yeah, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: different story. That shit, I need to fucking nap afterwards,

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Speaker 1: right with my clients because I get so much, Because

439
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Speaker 1: my heart is so happy from the work that I do,

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Speaker 1: I don't feel burnt out or drained like I would

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Speaker 1: feel from doing a finance meeting. Other little things as well,

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Speaker 1: Like when you're doing things in your business, the doing

443
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Speaker 1: is obviously really important because it creates the direction in

444
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Speaker 1: your business you need to have. You don't need to,

445
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Speaker 1: but you probably want to have a bit of direction.

446
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Speaker 1: You want to know at least some idea of where

447
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Speaker 1: you're going. You need to obviously have some deadlines. You

448
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Speaker 1: need to be able to have the discipline within yourself.

449
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Speaker 1: And if you are shit with discipline and you procrastinate

450
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Speaker 1: like no one's fucking business, you need to heal your

451
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Speaker 1: relationship with the masculine. So I'm great at discipline, right,

452
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Speaker 1: which means that I can sit down every day and

453
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Speaker 1: get things done, and that discipline is masculine energy. But

454
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Speaker 1: I do the discipline because then my feminine feels so

455
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Speaker 1: fucking good going to bed knowing that I've.

456
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Speaker 4: Done everything that day. So you do need both.

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Speaker 1: But what's really important for women is that you make

458
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Speaker 1: sure that your masculine isn't driving the fucking train forward

459
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Speaker 1: all the time, because you will feel burnt out at

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Speaker 1: the end of every day. So even little things throughout

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Speaker 1: your day where you like wear beautiful clothes, I always

462
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Speaker 1: wear beautiful lingerie because that makes me feel feminine every

463
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Speaker 1: time I go to the bathroom or every time that

464
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Speaker 1: I get dressed in the morning and in the evening,

465
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Speaker 1: when I take my clothes off, I'm always like, I

466
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Speaker 1: look at myself in the mirror and I feel sexy

467
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Speaker 1: and beautiful because I've got beautiful lingerie on. I you know,

468
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Speaker 1: will always have like a tea or some sort of

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Speaker 1: beautiful drink with me, especially if I'm in not right,

470
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Speaker 1: not really right now because I'm in to loom, but

471
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Speaker 1: then it's but when it's like cold, I'll always have

472
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Speaker 1: like a a cow or a tea at my desk

473
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Speaker 1: or that's like really nourishing and warm and grounding.

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Speaker 4: I also make sure that.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day it has been a

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Speaker 1: bit of a go go go running around day, that

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Speaker 1: I really make sure that my dinner is grounding and nourishing.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I do a little bit of a grounding meditation

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Speaker 4: at nighttime.

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Speaker 1: I love to also make sure that I have done

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Speaker 1: my hair and makeup every morning because it makes me

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Speaker 1: feel beautiful. And it's these kind of little things, right

483
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Speaker 1: that you can bring into your day that makes you

484
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Speaker 1: feel feminine when.

485
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Speaker 4: You're doing something that's technically masculine.

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Speaker 1: So even something like doing your hair and makeup, it

487
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Speaker 1: means that when you leave your desk to go to

488
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Speaker 1: the bathroom or something at the office, when you look

489
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Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror, you feel beautiful.

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Speaker 4: And it's those little things that go a really long way.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like people sometimes overcomplicate things and I

492
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Speaker 1: am not the queen of adding a million practices to

493
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Speaker 1: your to do list every day, because you won't fucking

494
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Speaker 1: do it right and that becomes stressful, which defeats the

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Speaker 1: whole purpose of the practice. So I'm really about, how

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Speaker 1: can you integrate more pleasure based things into your day

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Speaker 1: to day life so that's actually sustainable for you.

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Speaker 4: Because if I put on.

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Speaker 1: My to do list, I need to have you know,

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Speaker 1: a thirty minute a static dance session every morning, do

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Speaker 1: breast massage, and you know, have ten orgasms.

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Speaker 4: Like that's just not going to happen for me every day.

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Speaker 1: But if I integrate things into my life like doing

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Speaker 1: my hair and makeup, like you know, dancing when I'm

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Speaker 1: making my breakfast, like exercising every morning in a way

506
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Speaker 1: that makes me feel really sexy and strong and putting

507
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Speaker 1: on beautiful lingerie, that's doable, which obviously is going to

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Speaker 1: lead to a better outcome long term.

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Speaker 2: That is so interesting, and it's kind of crazy because

510
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Speaker 2: we are like we're surrounded by this like hustle culture,

511
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Speaker 2: Like even it was really bad a couple of years ago,

512
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Speaker 2: like you know, very like Gary Vee, like oh that

513
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Speaker 2: sort of thing, And I I remember I equip my

514
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Speaker 2: corporate law job, and you know, was off doing my

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Speaker 2: own thing. And I struggled the first couple of years

516
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Speaker 2: because I was so in my masculine and honestly, I

517
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Speaker 2: think there's a bit of you know, kind of like

518
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Speaker 2: tram and stuff to unpack with that, because growing up

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Speaker 2: I saw, you know, my dad, he was the breadwinner

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Speaker 2: and my mom was a stay at home mom. And

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Speaker 2: I had this thing in my head that I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I want to be the one that you.

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Speaker 4: Know is independent and takes yes.

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Speaker 2: And so I think I went gung ho into business

525
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Speaker 2: and I was like, I must succeed. I must you know,

526
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Speaker 2: be working really hard. And I would be working like, yeah,

527
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Speaker 2: like fourteen hours days. And don't get me wrong though,

528
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Speaker 2: like it's still stuff happened. But I noticed such a

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Speaker 2: huge shift after I reckon, probably two years after I

530
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Speaker 2: had left my corporate job, when I really stepped into

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Speaker 2: this receiving energy and this and that for me. For me,

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Speaker 2: it was very much tapping into spiritual practices, like I'm

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Speaker 2: going to be straight up with you a whole like

534
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Speaker 2: putting on makeup and the lingerie thing to feel for

535
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Speaker 2: them actually doesn't work for me. I am more of

536
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Speaker 2: someone of doing my meditation and doing my journaling and

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Speaker 2: like yeah, like dancing and stuff and that, yes.

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Speaker 1: That's perfect because it works for you, right, And this

539
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Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. It's like you have to integrate

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Speaker 1: what works for you into your life. So like I

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Speaker 1: say to moms, you know, expecting them to put on

542
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Speaker 1: a fucking red lip every day, not going to go down,

543
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Speaker 1: but putting on music when they're you know, putting on

544
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Speaker 1: music when they are you know, making cupcakes with their daughter,

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Speaker 1: Like if that's doable, like amazing.

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Speaker 4: And on the.

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Speaker 1: Receiving point, Georgie, I just wrote this down because I

548
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Speaker 1: forgot to mention that with the feminine energy in your business,

549
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Speaker 1: the feminine energy in your business is that receivership. And

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Speaker 1: a lot of people think I have to keep putting

551
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Speaker 1: output in order to have success. That doesn't make any sense,

552
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Speaker 1: does it, Because if you're constantly outputting, you're never in

553
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Speaker 1: the receivership energy. And your feminine energy is what magnetizes

554
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Speaker 1: the clients, magnetizes the opportunity and the success. It's what

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00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: manifests all those amazing things and and it's what makes

556
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Speaker 1: it's what makes you radiate on like social media or

557
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: on your interviews or whatever that make people go, I

558
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: want what she has, right, and then they want to

559
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Speaker 1: be in your energy. They want to buy your products,

560
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Speaker 1: they want to buy your services. That is your feminine energy.

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Speaker 1: That's not your masculine energy. So the masculin energy would

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Speaker 1: be like you know, you know, maybe like remembering to

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Speaker 1: publish an Instagram post, right, But the feminine energy would

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Speaker 1: be the way you've written the words and the energy

565
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Speaker 1: behind the words, and maybe the photo shoot that you

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Speaker 1: had and how embodied that you were, how embodied you

567
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Speaker 1: were in that photo shoot, and that's what sells that

568
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Speaker 1: The fucking scheduling time doesn't sell. It's the picture of you, yes,

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Speaker 1: and the way that you captivate people and the way

570
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Speaker 1: that your words touch people.

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Speaker 4: That's your feminine energy, and that's actually what sells.

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Speaker 1: So that's why we're seeing is like change, especially in

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Speaker 1: like our industry gology, where a lot of women are

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Speaker 1: earning a lot more money with a lot more ease

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Speaker 1: than men because women can make can make a lot

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Speaker 3: Hmmm, that's it's Monika.

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Speaker 2: I love that you said that because I was going

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Speaker 2: to add like when I stepped into my fem energy, Like,

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Speaker 2: and I know this isn't the only way to measure

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Speaker 2: you know, success or whatever, but like, when I stepped

617
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Speaker 2: into my fem energy, it's like my income was either

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Speaker 2: doubling or tripling every single year and people would be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: how did you do it?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, there's not actually a formula or a doing.

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Speaker 2: It's literally like I couldn't actually tell you, but it's

622
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Speaker 2: just me literally, And I say this all the time

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Speaker 2: on the podcast. But it's like me stepping into my power.

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Speaker 2: And as a woman, as women, we do we have

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Speaker 2: this power and it is magnetic. And when a huge

626
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Speaker 2: thing is like when you do things your way, from

627
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Speaker 2: your you know, inner sort of intuition and flow and ease,

628
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Speaker 2: it's just, yeah, it's so much more powerful and you

629
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Speaker 2: get places so much more easy. You're able to do

630
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Speaker 2: more because it is easy, and things happen in such

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Speaker 2: like this beautiful and that's like I remember the first

632
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Speaker 2: couple of years of business, it felt like I was

633
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Speaker 2: going against the grain. And don't get me wrong, I

634
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Speaker 2: got shipped out. I you know, made money. I was

635
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Speaker 2: I was doing and I was creating you know, impact

636
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Speaker 2: and stuff. But it's like, yeah, when you actually step

637
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Speaker 2: into that sort of fem side of you and that

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Speaker 2: kind of it's almost like stepping into yourself and it's

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Speaker 2: a whole.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think it's so huge.

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Speaker 3: It's not.

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Speaker 2: And I love what you said about for you stepping

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Speaker 2: into your fem energy, it's these certain things. For me,

644
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Speaker 2: it's different, but we're both doing the exact same thing.

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Speaker 2: And I think I think it is so important to

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Speaker 2: I guess for the audience, like what sort of tips

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Speaker 2: would you have for them of if they're kind of

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Speaker 2: just like, oh, I literally don't know where to start

649
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Speaker 2: with stepping into them. I know you've given some really

650
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Speaker 2: great tips on what you do. Did you have anything else?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So on your point, Georgie of like when people

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Speaker 1: ask you how do you make so much money and

653
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Speaker 1: you're like, I don't know. I have this joke of

654
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Speaker 1: when I try to explain my business to people and

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Speaker 1: that a lot of men just don't understand how I

656
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: make so much money, right, Like they really can't wrap

657
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: the head around it. And so I just make this

658
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: joke of like basically I'm a prostitute and people just

659
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: people just pay me to be like just basically people

660
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: just pay me for me, Like they just pay for

661
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: me because they just like want me.

662
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 4: And I have this joke because like on my Instagram, I.

663
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: Just like I'll post videos of me essentially eating like fruit,

664
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: I'll be like dancing around in like next to nothing,

665
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: and my family has gotten very used to it. And

666
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,959
Speaker 1: that's how I make money. And I'm actually making your

667
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: reel of people ask me how I make.

668
00:31:59,320 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 4: So much money?

669
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: All I do is this and it's just gonna be

670
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: like videos of me fucking dancing and making out with

671
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: fruit because that's the ship that people like. They're triggered

672
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: by it, but they're like, oh I want what she has.

673
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: It's like it's the glow, it's the embodiment x Y

674
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: and z app. And that doesn't mean that you have

675
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: to nake. A dance on your Instagram will not naked,

676
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: but like you know, dance at aubikhini. What it means

677
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: is you just need to be expressed in a way

678
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: that turns you on, and that doesn't that doesn't necessarily

679
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: mean it needs to be sexual. It needs to just

680
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: be in a way that makes you feel turned on

681
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: by life. And like what you're saying before, Georgie of

682
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: like you know you're not it doesn't actually do anything

683
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: for you putting on lagerie and makeup. And that's a

684
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: really important point because like my sister and I are

685
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: polar opposites in that, like you know, I like I

686
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: like you know, New York City living, like I like

687
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: to live in a city. I love to be like

688
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: dressed up, hair done x Y and z app. And

689
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: I'm not like a super dressed up person. I'm not

690
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: like I don't do like fate nails all that kind

691
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: of stuff. I'm very basic at the same time, but

692
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: I like to have a little bit more of that

693
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: city city kind of look.

694
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 4: Whereas my sister is like beachy hair.

695
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: No makeup, like like very beachy clothing, x Y and

696
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: Z as to wear polar opposites. Yeah, exactly, She's really

697
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: boho and I'm more like on the chic kind of spectrum.

698
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: But it's beautiful because, as I talk about one of

699
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: my programs, I believe there's different flavors of the feminine

700
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: and you can I think it's important.

701
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 4: It is important to be able to tap into each

702
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 4: of them when you.

703
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: Feel like you need to, Like, for example, if you

704
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: feel really uncomfortable wearing sexy lingerie for your boyfriend or

705
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: your partner, like that's that is a question that I

706
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: would unpack for yourself, because it's not to say that

707
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: you need to do that every day. It's to say, like,

708
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: where are you afraid to be seen? Or what's bad

709
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: about wearing lingerie?

710
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: Right?

711
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: Because for example, I like to be that cheek version

712
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: of me and wear lingerie, but I also can be

713
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: the beachy version of me, like as a woman we

714
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: have all these different flavors of ourselves and a lot

715
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: of women and put themselves into a box of I

716
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: had to choose one. And the example that I realized

717
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: years ago that I then was like, oh my god,

718
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: we have different flavors is and maybe you resonate with

719
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: this too, Georgie, when you were at school or like

720
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: when you were younger, did you ever feel like you

721
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: wanted to dress differently every day, like a different style,

722
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: but you felt like you had to pick one, like

723
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: you had to be boho, you had to be minimal.

724
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 2: Yes, And I remember like, yeah, when you're growing up,

725
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: you were like trying all these different sides.

726
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 3: You're like what is me?

727
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 2: Like you're trying to find you, and you feel like

728
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: you have to almost pick exactly.

729
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,919
Speaker 1: So I always like, one day I wanted to wear

730
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: like a spell dress, right, which is super boho. The

731
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 1: next day I wanted to be minimal, And I found

732
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: it so difficult to be like, what's my style? Right?

733
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: And then it's like, well, actually you need to fucking

734
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: pick a style, Like, don't put yourself in a box.

735
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: As a woman, we have so many different sides to us,

736
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: like in every different phase of your cycle, you are

737
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: a different woman. And so even by embracing that, that's

738
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: a beautiful that's a beautiful place to even start with,

739
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 1: you know, tapping into your feminine energy. It's just embracing

740
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: the different sides of yourself and not putting yourself in

741
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: a box. Like if you're on the beach, you can

742
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: be the beachy version of yourself. When you're in the city,

743
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 1: you can get your like like blow dry your hair

744
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: and wear a beautiful coat. Like you're allowed to change

745
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: and you're allowed to like almost like shape shift. And

746
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: it's really important that you can feel safe in the

747
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: different sides of yourself. Right, So, like like I said before,

748
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: like if you feel and I do this with clients,

749
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 1: like if you feel uncomfortable being that really sexy, like

750
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 1: what you would what would you what you would call

751
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: the slut archetype. If you're really uncomfortable being in that

752
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: kind of flavor. It's not nothing wrong with you can

753
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: be uncomfortable in that flavor. It's just because of trauma

754
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: and wounding and X, Y and Z. But like you

755
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 1: want to unpack that, you want to heal that because

756
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: that's also a part of yourself that wants to be

757
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: expressed that has power in it. And when you like

758
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: subconsciously shut down the different sides of yourself, you're not

759
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,720
Speaker 1: letting yourself experience the fullest version of you. And when

760
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: you feel so free in your body, that's where that

761
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: inner piece comes from. And so many people are searching

762
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: for that inner piece and inner freedom and that actually

763
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: you have that within you once you feel so fucking

764
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: safe in your body to be expressed in every flavor

765
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: of you. Right, so I can be expressed in like

766
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: a grounded goddess version, I can be expressed in like

767
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: kinky slut version. I can be expressed in like you know,

768
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: my girl boss corporate version. Like I've got all these

769
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: different sides to myself and I feel really safe to

770
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 1: being in all of them. And remember, like that safety

771
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: piece is the most important with your feminine. If you

772
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: don't feel safe in your body, you're really not going

773
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: to be able to express your feminine in an easy

774
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: way or feel like hard work, which then isn't really

775
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: the point of being in your feminine because a feminine

776
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: feels easy and flowy.

777
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 2: Yes, I love that you touched on the different flavors

778
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: because I very much resonate with that like, even though

779
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 2: I kind of said to you, that's not what I

780
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: like doing every day, there's definitely like I step into that, like.

781
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 3: You said, sluck slot archetype. Sorry, I just slid my words. Then.

782
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 2: But then some days I'd like to be super boho

783
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 2: and then other days I'll be like full you know,

784
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: active wear vibe or mum vibe and all these different things.

785
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 2: And I love what you said about not putting yourself

786
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 2: in the box and going what do I feel like

787
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 2: expressing myself today? And yeah, like you said about being safe,

788
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: just to add on to that quickly, I definitely resonate

789
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 2: with one of those. If you ask someone who, I

790
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 2: guess you know, the whole like feeling sexy and being

791
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: in that sort of vibe. And it's because like growing up,

792
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 2: I grew up a Jehovah's witness and it was the

793
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 2: whole like no sex before marriage, and so in my household.

794
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 3: It was very like, yeah, you weren't.

795
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: Promiscuous, and it was like you're not supposed to have

796
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: a boyfriend. Even though I did all those things, I

797
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: had to hide them. So I had to do a

798
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 2: lot of inner work in regards to being like it

799
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 2: is safe to be a sexual person.

800
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 3: It is safe to you know, want to do naughty

801
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 3: things in the.

802
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: Bedroom and you know, stuff like that which we just

803
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: don't really talk about and we don't unpack. And so

804
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: definitely agree with what you're saying about if there is

805
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: a certain kind of side of you that you don't

806
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: feel safe, and I would one hundred percent be like,

807
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: you know, unpacking it and exploring about them. You know,

808
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: do it with Monica because she knows what's what to do.

809
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,800
Speaker 2: But one hundred and ten percent I love that.

810
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 4: Thank you.

811
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really important the safety piece people underrester. People

812
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: don't really think about it, but you're not going to

813
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: do something that you don't feel safe in because your

814
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: biology takes over. So it's really important, especially when it

815
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: comes to sex, like one of the key things that

816
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: you need in order to be turned on in the

817
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: bedroom and outside of the bedroom.

818
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 4: When I say outside of.

819
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: The bedroom, I just mean you know, there was moments

820
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 1: Georgy where you're just so lit up by life. It's

821
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: like you're fucking turned on, like and I don't necessarily

822
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: mean that you're like having an orgasm, but you feel

823
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: allgasmic like it's that energy just like I can take

824
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: on the world and you.

825
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 4: Feel at one with the world that's living it turned

826
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 4: on life.

827
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: And so you know, being turned on isn't just about

828
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, it's about everywhere.

829
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 4: But you can't feel safe.

830
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: To be fully expressed, to be turned on in the

831
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 1: bedroom and outside of the bedroom if you don't have

832
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: safety in your body, and that doesn't come from another person,

833
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: it comes from you. So somebody else can make you

834
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: feel safe or they can make you feel unsafe, but

835
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: if you already feel unsafe, another person isn't going to

836
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: one hundred percent make you feel safe because you actually

837
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: need to feel that within yourself first and then obviously

838
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: the other person needs to make you feel safe as well,

839
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 1: otherwise you'll feel unsafe.

840
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yes, one hundred percent. And well let's like

841
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: get into that a little bit more because that's something

842
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 2: you are very open about on your platform, as you know,

843
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 2: talking sex and talking pleasure. And I think sometimes like

844
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: for some people it can be so like taboo, but

845
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 2: like you said, it's when you unpack it. It's just sort

846
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 2: of stuff that we will have to you know, deal with,

847
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 2: and when you do feel safe, it is so much better.

848
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: And like like you said of being in your fem energy,

849
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 2: it is receiving its flowy, it's easy. It's really where

850
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 2: we want to be. So can you chat to us

851
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 2: about why it is important to have pleasure in our lives?

852
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 3: And I'm not just talking about the bedroom.

853
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm talking about just you know, pleasure in your every

854
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 2: you know, your everyday routine. Like you're very passionate about

855
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 2: talking about, so why it's important to have pleasure and

856
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 2: also how people can inject it in there.

857
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 3: I know you've touched on a.

858
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 2: Couple more, but I really want to unpack it.

859
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah cool, Okay, So, as I said at the beginning,

860
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: feminine energy is about pleasure.

861
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 4: So I'm going to talk more to women than men.

862
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: And men have metal us any pleasure, but not the

863
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: same extent that women need it. So your pleasure and

864
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:54,760
Speaker 1: you feeling pleasurable in your life, that your sexual energy

865
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: is your highest vibrational energy, right, So when you're having

866
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,959
Speaker 1: an orgasm, for example, or when you're feeling orgasmic, that's

867
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: the highest vibrational frequency that you can feel. That is

868
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: so fucking magnetic and it's what attracts people in So

869
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,959
Speaker 1: if you are constantly feeling turned on, and like full

870
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: of pleasure and you're doing these things and make you

871
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: feel amazing in your body.

872
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 4: You will turn heads not.

873
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: Just because of looks when you're walking down the street,

874
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: but actually because of your energy, because it's just like

875
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: you're beaming. You have that thing where you make people

876
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: turn heads when you walk into a room, and that's

877
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: that magnetism that comes from pleasure. And so many women

878
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: they try and fill a void in them with other

879
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,479
Speaker 1: things because they don't fully love themselves. And I don't

880
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: mean in like a surface level way. I mean that

881
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: they are not content with just being with themselves. Like

882
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: if they were alone on a Saturday night, they would

883
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 1: run these stories through their head of like why am

884
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: I not out, I'm never going to find anyone, but

885
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: blah blah.

886
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 4: Blah, nobody loves me. Whatever things are going through their head.

887
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: And I'm sure a lot of people have actually come

888
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: like come to face with those things with COVID and everything.

889
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: And when you're tapped into pleasure, you feel that in

890
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: your body and that like kind of fills that quote

891
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 1: unquote void in a way, and not like I don't

892
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 1: even want to say that it fills the void, because

893
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: it just it makes you not even feel any void

894
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: because you're not in this scarcity energy. You're not trying

895
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: to get pleasure from someone else, right, So a lot

896
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: of people they walk around kind of empty and they

897
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: get pleasure from other people. So they get pleasure from

898
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: having a ridiculous social life. And nothing against this, by

899
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: the way, because I'm an extravert. They get they get

900
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: a lot of pleasure from having a ridiculous social life

901
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: or dating men, or having sex with men, being in

902
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: a relationship, or having like all these fulfilling things happening

903
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: in their in their job, and there's nothing wrong with that.

904
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: But what is wrong is that when you're you're unconsciously

905
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 1: using those things to make yourself happy, and without them

906
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: you're not happy.

907
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 4: Versus you being.

908
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't give a fuck if I'm alone on

909
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: Saturday night, like it is enjoyable, Like I just get

910
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: to do me right, and then that creates magnea and

911
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: you love your friends and X, Y and Z.

912
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 4: But it's a cherry on top kind of energy.

913
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: It's not like they're the fucking cupcake itself, and without

914
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: without the cupcake, it's just a rapper. So that's a

915
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: really weird metaphor. But what gonna roll with it. So

916
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 1: so when you're.

917
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 4: When you're having this pleasure, it's it's really hard even.

918
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: To to like lay it out on the table for you, guys.

919
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: I just want you to like try and experience it

920
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: for yourself. So it will make you feel full in

921
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: your body. It will make you feel grounded, and it

922
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: will make you feel not even I don't even want

923
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: to say it. It'll make you feel like you love yourself.

924
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: It'll take away the feeling of you not loving yourself.

925
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: Is actually how I'm gonna say it. Because I love myself,

926
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: but I don't walk around in my head being like

927
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: I love myself, I love myse I love myself.

928
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,439
Speaker 4: It's just like it's like this, of course I love myself.

929
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: Energy like like I don't hate myself, but I'm not.

930
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: I don't have to listen to a meditation every morning

931
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: of how much I love myself.

932
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 4: That makes sense.

933
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: But when I look at myself in the mirror, I'm like,

934
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: and this is from like an energetic and obviously physical

935
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: because the two are related. It's and this is something

936
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: that I want all of like all the listeners to

937
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: be able to achieve themselves, because it's fucking healthy, and

938
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: it's sexy in it, and it creates the magnetism of

939
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 1: being able to look in the mirror right and often

940
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: I'm wearing some sexy lingerie and like fucking like, holy shit,

941
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: if I was a man, I would fuck me so

942
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: hard right now. That's the kind of energy right that

943
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: I want like every woman to be in because it

944
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,800
Speaker 1: creates magnetism because you know your worth, you know your value,

945
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 1: you don't settle, you have the boundaries, and that energy

946
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: is like fucking it's like so captivating, is what it is.

947
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: So a little excise people can do, even is just

948
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: to start to tune into their senses more so that

949
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: feeling of when you like shave your legs then you

950
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 1: get into bed and it feels so smooth and silky,

951
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 1: that's pleasure. That feeling of drinking like a hot cup

952
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: of tea on a really cold day and you can

953
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: feel it going down your body, that's pleasure.

954
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 4: Now.

955
00:44:56,560 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: The problem is we feel that shit unconsciously, like unconsciously,

956
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: and we don't receive it, right, we don't receive the pleasure.

957
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 4: When you receive the.

958
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: Pleasure, you learn to receive so much more in your life.

959
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: So when I'm eating a juicy mango, I'm like fucking

960
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: orgasming at the same time, and I'm receiving the pleasure

961
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: of the mango. I'm not just like eating it, right,

962
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: It's so much more than that. So even if the

963
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: listeners as like a little bit of homework, think of

964
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: something that they would like to receive more of and

965
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: give that to themselves. So if they want to receive

966
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: more love, it's like, how can you give that to yourself?

967
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: Can you rub your whole body in a delicious body

968
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 1: oil and do it really slowly and really feel it,

969
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: like fill your hands on your thighs, rather than just

970
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: like rubbing an oil, You're actually having the intention of

971
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: feeling pleasure whilst you're doing it. It's all about intention,

972
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 1: and the more pleasure that you allow yourself to feel,

973
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: the more in your body that you're going to feel.

974
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: So the more pleasure you'll feel in your life, the

975
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: more you'll be able to connect with people, the more

976
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: people will feel like they can connect to you. Your

977
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 1: walls will drop, your heart will be more open, you'll

978
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 1: receive more money or receive more love.

979
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 4: Like it's just a flow on effect. It's fucking good.

980
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 2: I absolutely love that, And honestly, I couldn't agree more.

981
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to like and can I just say how

982
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 2: much I love that you just go off on a

983
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 2: rant and just.

984
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 4: I do, I just go offs. I love that. I

985
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 4: don't know how I do it.

986
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: I like I honestly, I like black out and I

987
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: can't remember anything I said.

988
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 4: It's like channels through me and I'm like, okay, that

989
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 4: was that.

990
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 2: Next. No, I love it because sometimes when you're doing

991
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 2: a podcast, you have to like continue to ask questions

992
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,439
Speaker 2: and I'm like, looking at my notes, I'm like, yep,

993
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 2: she's answered all them.

994
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 3: Oh amazing, love it.

995
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 4: I love it.

996
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 3: No, I love that. And something that you were just

997
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 3: saying at the start.

998
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: So when Monarcha and I guess I just want to

999
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 2: say this for my audience so they can kind of really,

1000
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 2: I guess, visualize it and understand it, just because they

1001
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: will kind of resonate with what I'm saying.

1002
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 3: But like, remember, guys or not, remember how do I

1003
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 3: say this way? That makes sense?

1004
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 2: So when Monica was saying about that feeling of when

1005
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 2: you give yourself pleasure and when you're you know, really

1006
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 2: tapped in that you're magnetized and your vibe is different,

1007
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 2: Like you might not even look different, but it's a

1008
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: vibe check and that's like a huge thing.

1009
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 3: Monica.

1010
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 2: Last year, after I had my miscarriage, I had my

1011
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 2: breast implants removed because they were making me very unwell

1012
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 2: and I had all these hormone issues and whatnot, and

1013
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 2: so I actually have my implants removed. And it was

1014
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 2: really really insane because I then, you know, had them removed,

1015
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 2: did did feel better and obviously got on my stories

1016
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 2: and so many people messaged me and they were like,

1017
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 2: holy shit, you're like your whole vibe has changed, Like

1018
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 2: you see so much more yourself, like like so many

1019
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 2: people like you remind me of like a sunshine girl,

1020
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: Like I just I'm on there and because I'm like

1021
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 2: backed feeling good and back to feeling myself. Like people

1022
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 2: can feel that even through a phone screen, and that

1023
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,399
Speaker 2: is like what we're talking about, Like when you're in

1024
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 2: that when you're tapped into that place, it's like it's electric,

1025
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: it's magnetic. And I literally I would have got thousands

1026
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 2: of messages being like, holy shit, Georgie, you have changed,

1027
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 2: and they could even if I, you know, I don't

1028
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 2: look that different, but like just in the energy and

1029
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 2: the way I you know, show up was such a

1030
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: huge change because I was way more you know, back

1031
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 2: to myself and tapping into my intuition and whatnot.

1032
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, aimen to everything that you just said. And even

1033
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 4: like so I throw my soul's place is New York City.

1034
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: I grew up there, and whenever I'm back there, it's

1035
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 1: like my energy is ridiculously different. Like even and like

1036
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: I'm I obviously do. I obviously have energies. My number

1037
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: one thing like that I'm always managing so I'm able

1038
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 1: to stay on top of making sure that my vibe

1039
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: is pretty high all the time. But you know, we

1040
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: all have our down moments. But when I look at

1041
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: my energy of like when I backtrack to stories from

1042
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: when I was living in there before I got stuck

1043
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: in London, my energy is like I'm like, fuck, there's

1044
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: just something about my energy that you can't even pinpoint.

1045
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 1: And it's just because my heart is so happy being there.

1046
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: So like, aim into everything you just said. And also

1047
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: something that I get my clients to do in one

1048
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: of my programs, Queen Alchemy, is I get them to

1049
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 1: take pictures before we start and at the end because

1050
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:25,280
Speaker 1: their face changes.

1051
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 4: It's out of control, the difference in their face from

1052
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 4: the beginning to the end.

1053
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: Because you hold your trauma in your physical body, right,

1054
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: your physical body is your home for your energetic body,

1055
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: for your mental body, and for your spiritual body. So

1056
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: your energy will change.

1057
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 4: Your physical body.

1058
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: Like a really common one that's happened to me and

1059
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: also to one of my clients is that the more

1060
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: I get to.

1061
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 4: My firmin energy, the bigger my boobs get.

1062
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: Like I can lose weight everywhere else, and my boobs

1063
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 1: will still grow because of my feminine energy, because like

1064
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: your heart is a really cool part of your feminine energy.

1065
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 1: It's like I used to have when I was like

1066
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: really my masculine I used to have like B maybe

1067
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: like just C, and now I have like D double

1068
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: D boobs, and I have like and I have lost

1069
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: weight since my ski accident, for example, and my boobs

1070
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 1: were smaller back then to what they are now. It's ridiculous,

1071
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 1: Like I can go down a gene's size and upper

1072
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: brass eye and like it's just because the more that

1073
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm in my feminine energy, the more my boobs will grow.

1074
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 2: Which I'm here that is like that is insane, But

1075
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent believe you because that and that's

1076
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:35,880
Speaker 2: like you know what I guess we've been saying this

1077
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 2: whole episode is like when you are really in that

1078
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 2: fem energy, like things work, you feel good, like you,

1079
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 2: like you, you say like you. People feel that energy.

1080
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: So one hundred and ten percent. And just before we

1081
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 2: move onto the last topic for the podcast, can you

1082
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 2: just touch on I know, when we're talking about, you know, pleasure,

1083
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: it was more just in our daily lives, but let's

1084
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 2: actually chat about in the bedroom. If someone maybe you know,

1085
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 2: they don't feel themselves, they don't feel sexy, they don't

1086
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: feel confident in the bedroom, is there something that you

1087
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:16,359
Speaker 2: kind of get your clients to do.

1088
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: So a lot of women come to me and they've

1089
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: lost their libido. And often it's not actually a hormonal thing.

1090
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: It's actually an energetic thing, because I mean, they're all connected, right,

1091
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: So even if you're even if it is a hormonal thing,

1092
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: it can act the root problem can be energetic thing.

1093
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: So it doesn't matter how much like fucking ashwaganda you

1094
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: take for your cortsol levels, it's actually still a result

1095
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: of a subconscious.

1096
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 4: Thress that you're not aware of.

1097
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: So a lot of people that are struggling with their

1098
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: libido in the bedroom, I would say first and foremost

1099
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: is you've got to work on you. And it can

1100
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: feel like so like, for example, a lot of people

1101
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: when they come to me, right, like from a marketing perspective,

1102
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: it's like ferminence, like la la la, but actually it's

1103
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: like it's actually a lot of healing the masculine and

1104
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: because you've got to heal that in order to being defeminine.

1105
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: So the bottom line is if you want to feel

1106
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: like sexy and confident in the bedroom, I would one

1107
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: thousand percent do trauma work because when you feel when

1108
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: you freed yourself of all that crap, you'll feel so

1109
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 1: confident within yourself without trying.

1110
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 4: It's just like this innate like dough.

1111
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't I feel confident kind of energy because you

1112
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: weren't born unconfident, right, all these things have happened, or

1113
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: these beliefs have been ingreened inside of you to create

1114
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: like all these walls. Like I kind of think of

1115
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: it like you're an onion, right, and you are the

1116
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: core of the onion, and all these layers have been

1117
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: put around you, and what we need to do is

1118
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:41,800
Speaker 1: we have to drop.

1119
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 4: The layers so you can be you again.

1120
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: So it's not about like how to be confident, it's

1121
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: actually how to get the fucking rid of all that

1122
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: shit that's made you not confident, and then you'll naturally

1123
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 1: be able to do that because think about it, like,

1124
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: we are sexual beings. It is our we are innately

1125
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: like innate, what's the word. We function as sexual beings.

1126
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: We are made as sexual beings from a very young age.

1127
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: When you see kids at the age of four at

1128
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: their sexual at that age and they're masturbating and they

1129
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: don't know what they're doing, but it feels pleasurable, right,

1130
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with them. That is because we are

1131
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: animals at the end of the day. And so the

1132
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: only reason why you're not feeling confident and sexy in

1133
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 1: the bedroom is because of these shells of the onion

1134
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: essentially that's been put around you from society, from family,

1135
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: from whatever.

1136
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 4: Shit that you're holding on to. And when you can

1137
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 4: get rid of that, when you do get rid.

1138
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: Of that, it becomes supernatural to feel amazing in the bedroom.

1139
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: Like for example, one of the girls put in a

1140
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 1: Facebook group, we've done like one call in queen out,

1141
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 1: maybe I haven't even done any sex stuff yet. And

1142
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: she had the most fucking amazing sex of her life

1143
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: after that call. And we hadn't done anything sexual related.

1144
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: We've done in a child stuff, right, but that creates

1145
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: more of a feeling about in a freedom and that

1146
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: deepen a love. So therefore you're going to show up

1147
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 1: more confidently in the bedroom. And for the first time

1148
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: she actually felt like turned on by her boyfriend touching

1149
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: her boob that you never had before. We hadn't done

1150
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: anything really around sexuality, So I would say that is.

1151
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 4: Really really important. And one of the core things.

1152
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: That you need in order to feel confident and sexy

1153
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: and everything to feel like you can be expressed in

1154
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: the bedroom is safety within yourself and obviously within your partner.

1155
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: A lot of women put pressure on their partner of like,

1156
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: they have to make me feel sexy. They have to

1157
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 1: do this, they have to that. And actually, if you

1158
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: make yourself feel sexy, then your partner will look at

1159
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: you and be like hot, holy fucking hell, and then

1160
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 1: you guys will have sex. Right, But if you're constantly

1161
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: relying on your partner and he's tired, nothing's gonna happen,

1162
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: and so you can't. You need everyone needs to stop

1163
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,399
Speaker 1: relying on their partners to make them feel sexy, because yes,

1164
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: your partner will make you feel sexy, but if you're

1165
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 1: already not feeling sexy, that doesn't that doesn't make him

1166
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: look at you or her look at you and be like,

1167
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 1: I want to rue your clothes off kind of thing,

1168
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,280
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? So it's really important

1169
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: that you also that you're to take responsibility for I

1170
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: need to feel sexy in myself. And this is why

1171
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: I was saying that I that my desire is for

1172
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: everyone to be able to look in the mirror and

1173
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: be like, holy fuck, if I was a man, or

1174
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:11,839
Speaker 1: if I was a woman, I would be so hard

1175
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: right now because that energy makes other people want to

1176
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: rip your clothes off. But you constantly feeling gross about yourself,

1177
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 1: that doesn't create magnetism for when your partner walks in

1178
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 1: the door, like does that make sense?

1179
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: A hund yeah, one hundred ten percent, And I keep

1180
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 2: saying one hundred ten percent, but one hundred and ten percent,

1181
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 2: and I like, try to.

1182
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 5: Eleven resonate one hundred eleven percent more any numbers, So

1183
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 5: I'll go of that yeah, one hundred eleven percent.

1184
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 2: And this is even like I resonate with this in

1185
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 2: I noticed such a difference with me and my husband,

1186
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 2: and like we've been together for nearly over nine years now,

1187
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 2: so like sometimes yeah, like that's a long amount of time.

1188
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 2: And I question the other day about like how do

1189
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 2: you spice up the sex life and you know, when

1190
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 2: you're married and whatnot. And I'm like, honestly, when I

1191
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 2: am like on and I'm like in my fem energy,

1192
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 2: like I'm like in flowing my business and I'm working

1193
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 2: on myself and I'm doing my self development, I'm doing

1194
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 2: my meditation and all my practices, and I just feel

1195
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 2: good about myself.

1196
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 3: Like we have the best sex ever.

1197
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 4: But if I'm you know.

1198
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: Maybe stressed out with work, I'm in the masculine energy

1199
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 2: I'm doing and doing and it's like Tim wants to

1200
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 2: have sex. I'm like, oh, I can't think of anything worse,

1201
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,919
Speaker 2: if that makes sense, Like yeah, I guess this whole

1202
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 2: thing about what we're saying is like when you're in

1203
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 2: that energy and when you're feeling yourself and it's all

1204
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 2: about the vibes too, like when you're you think about it,

1205
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 2: when you're high vibe and you're like, yeah, loving yourself

1206
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 2: and you're just like in it life. Yeah, yes, loving life.

1207
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 2: It's like and you your partner feels that, and like

1208
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 2: Tim can feel that, and he'll just be like, yeah,

1209
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: he knows.

1210
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 3: It's on the sort of thing. Yeah, well exactly.

1211
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 2: And that's like and that's a huge thing of like

1212
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 2: I love what you said about taking responsibility because I

1213
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 2: think so many women are like, you know, the guy

1214
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 2: should buy me flowers and the guy should do this

1215
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 2: that and whatever, and sure those things are nice, but

1216
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 2: it's like you need to take responsibility on how you

1217
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 2: feel and take those first steps first, and then it's like, yeah,

1218
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 2: they can feel that. And like me and Tim literally

1219
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 2: had a conversation the other day because I definitely noticed

1220
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 2: a shift in our sex life and I was like

1221
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 2: talking to him about it. And it's because he got

1222
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 2: back from you know, Christmas holidays and whatnot and actually

1223
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 2: got back into gym and was obviously like feeling himself

1224
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 2: and was like yeah, feeling you know, feeling better, and

1225
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:45,439
Speaker 2: so our snacks got better because he was liking himself more.

1226
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, amen, And a note on anyone that's like, but

1227
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm so fucking tired. How can I just like make

1228
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: myself feel sexy? And this is where, well, like, one,

1229
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: what needs to change in your life you're not so

1230
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: burnt out all the time because that's not gonna help

1231
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: anything obviously. And then two that's where the masculine discipline

1232
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: downes need to come in, pull that feminine pleasure. Right.

1233
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: So sometimes like I feel like, especially after COVID, everyone's

1234
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: and less so in Australia because you guys, obviously me

1235
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: Melbourne has been but you guys have been less affected

1236
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: by it, which is amazing. But for a lot of people,

1237
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: what I've noticed is because we've been in lockdown for

1238
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: so long.

1239
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 4: They don't have the same desire to go out.

1240
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 1: It's like we've become so accustomed to just like being

1241
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 1: at home and being lazy, and it's just like, oh,

1242
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: I can't be bothered, right, so we're just like, oh,

1243
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, like I'll just stay home, like I'm

1244
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: just going to cancel. And that's not a smart idea, right,

1245
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: that's actually you being in like a wounded masculine energy,

1246
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: because that healed masculine energy within you is like, no,

1247
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to feel so good once I've done this,

1248
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: let's fucking do this shit.

1249
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 4: I need. All I need is like five minutes to

1250
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 4: raise the vibe. And it doesn't need to be some

1251
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 4: big thing that you need to do to make yourself

1252
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 4: feel sexy.

1253
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: Could literally just be change your underwear. That's it could

1254
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: be something as simple as that. It could be like

1255
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: have a shower and put your moisturizer on, but instead

1256
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: of just slapping it on like a quick fashion, do

1257
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: it in like.

1258
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 4: A slower way.

1259
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: So you know, you need that masculine discipline sometimes in

1260
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: order to then get the pleasure out of being in

1261
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: your feminine So just remember that I don't want, I

1262
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 1: don't want be able to think that like I'm always

1263
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 1: just like feeling sexy and I'm always just wanting to

1264
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:15,959
Speaker 1: like have sex, and I am most of the time

1265
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 1: like I'm a phroio sexual person.

1266
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 4: But I also have those moments where.

1267
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, no, I'm so tired or whatever

1268
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: it is, or I can't be bothered, and that those

1269
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: are the moments where I'm like, right, a little bit

1270
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: of masculine energy, Let's put a bit of a let's

1271
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: get a bit of a practice going, or let's do

1272
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: something to.

1273
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 4: Make me feel sexy again.

1274
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: And it's effort, but you have I always focus on

1275
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: how good I'll feel after it. Like sometimes running a

1276
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: bath is effort, right, but I have to remember how

1277
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: sexy I'll feel in the bath and after the bath.

1278
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: So just a little note on that. But yes, love

1279
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 1: everything you said and read the flowers as well. It's like,

1280
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: if you want fucking flowers, stop putting the pressure on

1281
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 1: your man because if he's busy or his head somewhere else,

1282
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: like you just keep getting disappointed, which does not help

1283
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: your sex life at all or your relationship.

1284
00:59:58,320 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 4: It creates resentment.

1285
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 1: If you would flowers in the kitchen, go buy yourself

1286
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: your own fucking flowers.

1287
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:09,479
Speaker 2: Yes, Like, I honestly couldn't agree more. And I think,

1288
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 2: like I've had a whole journey with this, so I

1289
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 2: could definitely like there would definitely be you know, women

1290
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 2: listening to this who are like, what like just yeah,

1291
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 2: almost a bit triggered, but.

1292
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I trigger people one hundreds but that's a

1293
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 4: good thing. Yeah, love that for you.

1294
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 2: No, I just I couldn't agree more. And I love

1295
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 2: like we're kind of with run out of time. I

1296
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 2: wanted to chat to you a little bit more about

1297
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 2: like be a lover not a mother, which is Monica

1298
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 2: loves chatting about like, you know, men and not emasculating

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Speaker 2: men and stuff. But honestly, just go over to her

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Speaker 2: profile because she has Instagram. Sorry, she has so many

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Speaker 2: good like igtvs and podcasts and stuff. But yeah, to

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Speaker 2: wrap up this interview, and oh my god, it has

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Speaker 2: been so lovely to have you on the podcast. I

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Speaker 2: could honestly chat for hours about these like really interesting

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Speaker 2: topics that we all need to know. But before you go,

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Speaker 2: let's chat about what you're doing this year, what's next

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Speaker 2: for you and how you're taking you know, action and

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Speaker 2: stepping into your power in twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Love this question something that I'm really starting to focus on,

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Speaker 1: obviously with everything I've got in my business, like that's

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Speaker 1: continuing on with all my programs and helping women. But

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Speaker 1: I am so fucking passionate about like men's empowerment and

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Speaker 1: like basically it's like fucking activism towards women need to

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Speaker 1: stop masculating men, like I was saying before, and it

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Speaker 1: is actually a part of feminine healing and feminine embodyment,

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Speaker 1: and it's really taboo and it's very politically incorrect.

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Speaker 4: Like I have a lot of.

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Speaker 1: Like publishing places that won't publish me because I talk

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Speaker 1: about this stuff and it's like not modern enough or

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Speaker 1: whatever they want to say.

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Speaker 4: But I actually think it's the opposite.

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Speaker 1: So that's something that I'm focusing on a lot, and

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Speaker 1: it's been beautiful to be able to do it because

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Speaker 1: so many men have reached out to me and they

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Speaker 1: are so grateful, And so many women are grateful because

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Speaker 1: understanding this stuff has completely shifted their whole relationship with men,

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Speaker 1: with both their like male friends, their dad, their brother,

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Speaker 1: their cousins, as well as their romantic relationships. And honestly,

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Speaker 1: it's actually empowerment like towards women when.

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Speaker 4: They learn this stuff. So I've been doing a lot

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Speaker 4: with that. I'm writing my book at the moment.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's so hard to know with all this

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Speaker 1: fucking pandemic shit going on. I would love to think

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Speaker 1: that I could have an event this year, So that

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Speaker 1: is definitely being it's manifesting, it's brewing, and hopefully.

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Speaker 4: It will come time. My god, that's hard.

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Speaker 3: I would love to come to one of your events.

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Speaker 3: That would just be epic.

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Speaker 1: I know, I really hope that Australia is free, because

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Speaker 1: I was meant to run an event in Australia last

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Speaker 1: year and then obviously that hasn't happened yet, So I

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Speaker 1: really hope that Australia is open soon.

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Speaker 4: The world has opened soon, so I can run out

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Speaker 4: of it.

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Speaker 1: Because they are Oh my god, they're the peanut butter

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Speaker 1: to my jelly.

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Speaker 4: Like, I just love them so much.

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Speaker 1: I think the in person work is amazing and honestly,

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Speaker 1: they turn me on doing those events, so I would

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Speaker 1: love to do that. But otherwise I'm just flowing and

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Speaker 1: evolving and adapting and pivoting as I need to with

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Speaker 1: everything that's happening at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely love that and I cannot wait to see what

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Speaker 2: you do next and follow you of course. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much. I really appreciate taking the time

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Speaker 2: and you know, chatting to me and the RNC fam.

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Speaker 2: Could you at please let us know where we can

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Speaker 2: find you. And then yeah, thanks so much for coming

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Speaker 2: on the pod.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so my instagram is Monica Yate's Health and then

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Speaker 1: my podcast is called Feminine as Fuck, but you have

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Speaker 1: to type it into iTunes without the like f star

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Speaker 1: ck otherwise won't come up, but if you type feminine

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Speaker 1: as or Monarcha Yates, it will come up. And I

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Speaker 1: feel like everything can be found kind of through those

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Speaker 1: two platforms.

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Speaker 4: They're my main things.

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Speaker 3: Amazing. Thank you so much, Monica.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Georgie, thank you for listening for another rn C episode.

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Speaker 2: I really appreciate taking the time to be here with me,

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Speaker 2: and also for taking the time for yourself. If you

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Speaker 2: found this episode helpful, it would be so amazing if

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Speaker 2: you shared it on your stories and tagged us, or

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01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 2: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family

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01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 2: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent

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Speaker 2: podcast run by me and my amazing podcast manager, so

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01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 2: it would mean the world to us if you left

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Speaker 2: a review on the Apple podcast app. Also, if you're

1380
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 2: vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about and

1381
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 2: your craving community, please come and join us over at

1382
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 2: the rn C podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise

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01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 2: and Conquer Podcast Community on Facebook and I will be

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Speaker 2: in there.

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Speaker 3: To chat to you until next time.

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Speaker 4: Don't do

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Speaker 1: The unity