Speaker 1: If you're just joining us.
Speaker 2: We were just talking about Jamila Jamil not wanting kids,
Speaker 2: and we're talking about my swinging pendulum of if I
Speaker 2: want kids or not, because I'm constantly going between the two.
Speaker 1: Depends on the day of the week I wake up
Speaker 1: and how I'm feeling.
Speaker 3: It also depends on your ovulation.
Speaker 4: I reckon, I reckon when you're ovulating, not you specifically,
Speaker 4: but women in general. Whenever I'm ovulating, I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 4: third baby, and then after it, I'm like.
Speaker 3: No, well that's a terrible idea.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you fluctuate more than me every day, but every
Speaker 4: week you've already got two kids. Put it on record here,
Speaker 4: I do want a third So when that happens, guys,
Speaker 4: don't be shocked.
Speaker 1: Oh it feels weird talking about my sex life to
Speaker 1: you guys, But.
Speaker 3: Why you do it all the time anyway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But no, what I'm about to say, because I
Speaker 2: haven't really said this, actually, I don't really be really
Speaker 2: insteted on the podcast. Whilst I'm confused about wanting children,
Speaker 2: my fertility, if you haven't followed along, my fertility is
Speaker 2: really bad.
Speaker 3: So I have.
Speaker 2: Embryos and I have eggs on eyes and it looks
Speaker 2: like I'm going to have to do IVF if that works.
Speaker 2: So I say that because Ben and I have been trying,
Speaker 2: and I've never really said that out loud, and it's
Speaker 2: hard to say I've been trying when I also in
Speaker 2: the same sentence say I don't know if I want
Speaker 2: it to work, like it's a very because I do
Speaker 2: know I want it to work. And the reason I
Speaker 2: know this is sounding convoluted, so because I know that
Speaker 2: really like one day that I know that I want
Speaker 2: the child, and because I know it's going to be
Speaker 2: so hard, of course, I wanted to do it naturally
Speaker 2: and not go through IVF. I'm thirty eight this year,
Speaker 2: so we're sort of like, look, the chances of it
Speaker 2: happen naturally are so slim that we'll just try our luck.
Speaker 1: And we have not been lucky obviously since yeap.
Speaker 2: So we've been doing this for a very long time,
Speaker 2: like every time we're together, basically, So that being.
Speaker 1: Said, we were just this is just a stranger situation.
Speaker 2: So Ben and I were just going to Dubuy for
Speaker 2: Christmas for the break the holiday season and coming up
Speaker 2: to years. I had obviously like ovulated before and I
Speaker 2: was like, do you know what, I want to have
Speaker 2: a drink on years, I'll do a pregnancy test.
Speaker 1: We'll check before I I'm being very sensible.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I did a pregnancy test and it came
Speaker 2: back negative.
Speaker 1: Did another one to be sure negative.
Speaker 2: You feel a level of disappointment, but at the moment
Speaker 2: they're always negative, so it's fun.
Speaker 1: It's just like another negative one.
Speaker 2: So I'd put it in the bin in the bathroom,
Speaker 2: like the toilet bin, along with the urine cup.
Speaker 1: When about my day we left.
Speaker 2: The hotel, we went to the beach whatever, and we
Speaker 2: came back and the pregnancy test had been taken out
Speaker 2: of the bin and the urine cup was taking out
Speaker 2: the bin and it was just put like up on
Speaker 2: the console the urine cup as well. Yeah, like the
Speaker 2: whole test was. And I was like, Ben, that's the question.
Speaker 2: Did you take the pregnancy test out of the bin?
Speaker 1: And he was like what? And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: is that that's weird. You're trying to keep it for
Speaker 1: like a momentum. He was like, why would I do that?
Speaker 1: And I said, well, I'm sure I.
Speaker 4: Put it in the binch You're like, cause I'm going
Speaker 4: home soon and I just want to have a little
Speaker 4: keepsake of me.
Speaker 2: I get that urine, but I was like, I gas
Speaker 2: liped myself and I was like, yeah, maybe I didn't
Speaker 2: put it in the bear. So I put it back
Speaker 2: in the bin. We went out again, and I came
Speaker 2: back and it was back out of the bin.
Speaker 5: This happened like three times that they were coming into
Speaker 5: the room and taking the pregnancy test and the urine
Speaker 5: cup out of the bin.
Speaker 1: And just putting it on display.
Speaker 5: And I was like, guys, are you doubling down that
Speaker 5: it's negative?
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't understand.
Speaker 4: Maybe they were like, this isn't the plastic spin that's
Speaker 4: the recycling bin over there, No, this is not the
Speaker 4: human wastepin.
Speaker 5: Why would you do?
Speaker 2: But I'm genuinely confused. I'm like, what is happening?
Speaker 3: Why is that? Why the cleaner sorting the bin?
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that that was a thing. I
Speaker 1: didn't know they went through.
Speaker 3: I think it is a thing, but it is they're
Speaker 3: supposed to do that.
Speaker 5: Well, three times the pregnancy test was laid out. Explain
Speaker 5: that to me.
Speaker 4: Is it a case that you're like, because you're not
Speaker 4: married yet, is it.
Speaker 1: Like you shouldn't be unicating.
Speaker 4: We just having babies at a wedlock and Dubai. I
Speaker 4: don't know, is it like, is it a culture?
Speaker 1: Maybe let's not bring any more attention to it. Go
Speaker 1: on to prison.
Speaker 3: Probably not because you're not in debuying anymore.
Speaker 2: But what if I want to go back.
Speaker 3: I'm sure you find a flag on my cot. I'm
Speaker 3: sure they've done nothing. It doesn't say on your passport
Speaker 3: like had sex out of wedlock. I don't think that
Speaker 3: that's gonna be on your passport.
Speaker 4: Did you get to the bottom of it, Did you
Speaker 4: have any resolution to this, or like you just to
Speaker 4: a public being.
Speaker 5: I was like, I had to put it in my bag.
Speaker 2: I had to put it in my handbag and I
Speaker 2: was like, I guess I'll go take it somewhere into
Speaker 2: the street.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's not happened to me before, and I couldn't understand it.
Speaker 4: I watched a really funny TikTok the other day and
Speaker 4: it was like, you know, when you're an adult, it's
Speaker 4: when your friends stopped doing pregnancy test with you and
Speaker 4: they start doing it with their significant partners.
Speaker 3: I was like that's the benchmark.
Speaker 1: That's pretty true.
Speaker 4: Everyone just looked at me like they never did a
Speaker 4: pregnancy test with their friend.
Speaker 2: My friend, how many have you done?
Speaker 5: A few?
Speaker 3: Luckily I just have two kids. Surprising even to me. Wow,
Speaker 3: there you go.