1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, 2 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: and professional oversharer. 3 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: This podcast is all about. 4 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: Celebrating failure because I believe it's a chance for us 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: to learn, grow and face our blind spots. Each week, 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: I'll interview a different guest about their highs as. 7 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: Well as their lows, all in a bid to inspire 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: us to fearlessly fail. Holy Mack. 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 1: Today on the Potteroony, we have Gabby Bernstein, internationally renowned 10 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: spiritual leader, number one New York Times best selling author. 11 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: She's just brought out her tenth book, Self Help, This 12 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: is Your Chance to Change Your Life, and she's about. 13 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: To tour Australia. She's touring Brizzi, SIDS and Malbs all 14 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 2: in May. 15 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: All the details and links to get the tickets for 16 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: her shows are in the show notes, so I hope 17 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: you can get to the shows if you cannot. In 18 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: this chat, we talk about her four step check in method. 19 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: We unpack a little bit of her manifesting toolkit, which 20 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: is what those manifestation masterclasses that are part of her 21 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: live tour are all about. So you really do get 22 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: a sneaky little taste of it all in this chat 23 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be really honestly, I was quite nervous about 24 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: this chat and I'd not met Gabby before, so we 25 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: went into this chat like cold, you know, like it 26 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: was nighttime in America where she was, and it was 27 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: I think eight am in the morning in Byron Bay 28 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: where I recorded from, and I just felt like it 29 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: was a pinch yourself moment. I couldn't believe that it 30 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: was really happening. She is honest, kind, direct, open, So 31 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: I hope you love this chat as much as I 32 00:01:59,080 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: loved it. 33 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: I really felt like there were so many takeaways. 34 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: So if you're driving right now and listening to it, 35 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: or you're on your morning hike or walk or run, 36 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: totally listen to it, but give it a second. Listen 37 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 1: with a notepad because the way she breaks down this 38 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: check in method and the way she talks about the 39 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: importance of like key factors with manifesting, you're gonna want 40 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: to jot down notes. 41 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: It's just that kind of a pod. So I hope 42 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 2: you love it. 43 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: Gabby, thank you so much for making the time. I 44 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: know your schedule was absolutely bonkers and you still carved 45 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: out the time for this chat. You are flipping wonderful 46 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,119 Speaker 1: my friend, and to the listeners, to the Aussie listeners, 47 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: get out and see her shows, her Manifesting Masterclass and 48 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: I've been on a website. 49 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 2: This bird doesn't stop too us all over the place. 50 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: So no matter where you're listening to this in the world, 51 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure you'll be able to see Gabby or at 52 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: least get your hands on her newest book, Self Help. 53 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: She's also re releasing The Universe Has Your Back because 54 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: it's its tenth anniversary this year, which I got to 55 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: have a read of in prep for this chat, so 56 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 1: we unpack. 57 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 2: A little with that as well. 58 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: Right, I'm gonna hand it over to the interview with 59 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: the incredible Gabby Bernstein. I hope you love it all right, 60 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: big love poru mate, Gabby Bernstein. When this offered an 61 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: interview you came through, I like got so excited I 62 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: called my pod manager. You like literally made my day. 63 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: So first of all, thank you for being here, mate. 64 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: Babes, so happy to be with you. Thank you for 65 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: having me. 66 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: And can I say you come into Australia, how exciting. 67 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: You know, it's kind of a regular gig for me. 68 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: I my best friend lives in Sydney. So it's a 69 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 3: selfe that I come. But I also find that the 70 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 3: AZZI audience is just such a fun crowd to give 71 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 3: talks for, because you guys are one so great for 72 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: when people come all the way to you, And I 73 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: think it's a really spiritual crowd, right, It's a really 74 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 3: it's a crowd that's really into personal development and spirituality. 75 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: And so I'm doing this manifesting masterclass in May. 76 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: This sounds unreal in May, so to the listener, all 77 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: the details are in the show notes. Brizzy melbs, sids, 78 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: lock in and get their busy beads. 79 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: I'm coming. That was the best thing I've ever heard. 80 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: It's so cute. 81 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: So you, my friend, are so celebrated all over the world. 82 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: You are a number one New York Times bestselling author, 83 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: and you've just written your tenth book, which I inhaled. 84 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: Did you go the last Yeah? The last forty eight hours? 85 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: Mate, I inhaled this, and I have so many questions 86 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: for you. 87 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 2: Can I ask you some questions about self? 88 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yes, And I'm so excited that you inhaled it. 89 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: That's so good. 90 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. 91 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: Took notes, I've got highlighted notes here like the millennial 92 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: that I am. 93 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 2: I have to handwrite. 94 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: So first things first, can you teach me what if isses? 95 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 3: Yes? So my book is my tenth book, and it's 96 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: based on a therapy that's called Internal Family Systems therapy. 97 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 3: I've written prior to this book nine other mainly spiritual 98 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 3: self help books, and this one is very spiritual as well, 99 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 3: but it's the first that's sort of based on a 100 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 3: therapy that is something I'm trained in that I have 101 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 3: democratized and demystified in this book, making the therapy a 102 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: self help practice with the blessing of the founder, Dick Schwartz. 103 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 3: And again, I think my training in it allowed me 104 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 3: to feel the confidence in making it a little bit 105 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 3: of a truncated version of the therapy. So Internal Family 106 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: Systems is really about how we have a family of 107 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 3: parts of ourselves inside. It's not about our external family. 108 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 3: It's about the young aspects of ourself, the protection mechanisms 109 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 3: that run the show inside of our in our system, 110 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 3: in our internal system. And so most of us live 111 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: often from trigger to trigger to trigger to trigger, and 112 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: we get triggered by something, maybe a core wound from 113 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 3: our past, and then we immediately start protecting against it. 114 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 3: So we start protecting ourselves from these wounds, and so 115 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 3: we live often in these modes where we can look 116 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: at our situations and say, oh my god, I did 117 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 3: that again, or why am I so controlling? Or why 118 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 3: am I such a people pleaser? Why do I struggle 119 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 3: so much in relationships? Or why do I always play small? 120 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: And these patterns that we're often questioning or maybe judging 121 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 3: ourselves for are actually really young parts of who we are, 122 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 3: real hardcore protection mechanisms that we've grown to rely on 123 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 3: to feel safe. 124 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: I love the way you to talk about protection, like 125 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: this protected part we've we've got the manager, we've got 126 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: the firefighters, and the way you share like the controlling 127 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: part of yourself being it to protector. I feel like 128 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: we can all relate to that, right perfectionism. 129 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, the controller is definitely a big time protector. 130 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 3: The controller is a big time protector. So we've got controllers, 131 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 3: we've got, we've got we've got. You know, people, if 132 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 3: you've ever said sort of like I've got a lot 133 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 3: of anxiety, that's a protection mechanism. Sometimes anxiety is masking 134 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 3: something deeper, and so what happens in the book, is 135 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: it really gives you this four step practice of becoming 136 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: connected and curious and compassionate towards these younger parts of yourself. Uh, 137 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 3: so that you don't judge yourself, so that you stop 138 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 3: overriding yourself, so that you can befriend these aspects of 139 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 3: yourself rather than judge them. It's, it's, it's it's a 140 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:45,679 Speaker 3: it's a huge practice. 141 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: It's life changing, and it's it's kind of and I 142 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: love the way you say the start of the book, 143 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: it's it's kind of terrifying to like befriend these parts 144 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: of yourself. But also as long as I love the 145 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: way you describe these these eight c's that if we're 146 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: in that space, it's like anything's possible. 147 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: So can you teach me the four step chick In method. 148 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 3: Yes. And the eight seeds that you're referring to are 149 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 3: what in ifs are called self energy, and self is 150 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 3: like the God within us, the spirit within us, our 151 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 3: Buddha nature, you know what. Might call it many different things, 152 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 3: but that self energy is calm and compassionate, courageous and clear, 153 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 3: creative and confident and has clarity that it's the resourced 154 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: part of who we are and what we check in 155 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 3: when when we get triggered and we do these four 156 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: steps that I'm going to share with you, we can 157 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: access more of that resourced part of who we are 158 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 3: inside rather than getting overwhelmed and blended with that that 159 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: that that reactive part. That makes sense. 160 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so digestible. Can you can you share. 161 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 3: The four steps? So let's just say you have a 162 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 3: people pleaser, you have a controlling part, or you have anxiety, 163 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 3: or you're in this situation where you might feel like 164 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 3: you're very reactive in moments, or you think you have 165 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 3: negative thoughts about yourself. These are protection mechanisms, and so 166 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 3: choosing something to work with when part of these aspects 167 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 3: of yourself to work with, you would follow the four steps. 168 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 3: And the first step is to check in with that 169 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 3: part of yourself. So instead of checking out, like, oh, 170 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 3: I don't want to feel this, so I'm going to 171 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 3: go pick up a drink, or I'm going to go work, 172 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 3: or I'm going to go numb out in some way, 173 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 3: you would choose to check inside, and that's just focusing 174 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 3: your attention inside. The second step is to become curious 175 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 3: about that aspect that part of yourself and so you 176 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 3: might ask some questions like how long have you been around? 177 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 3: What do I know about you? Is there any images 178 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 3: or thoughts or sensations, where in your body does it live? 179 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 3: Just getting some curiosity, teasing it out a little bit. 180 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 3: Then the third step is compassionate connection, and that's when 181 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 3: you would compassionately ask what do you need? And this 182 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: is huge for these parts of ourselves are so young 183 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 3: inside and we never ask you that you need. We're 184 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 3: off and just like get over it, move on. And 185 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 3: then the fourth step is to check for the self inside. 186 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 3: So check for the qualities of self. So are you 187 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 3: more calm? Do you feel more connected? Do you have 188 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,199 Speaker 3: more clarity? Do you feel do you feel a confidence 189 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 3: coming forward? Do you feel some kind of connection? And 190 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 3: I love lovely. I love that creativity is on that 191 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 3: list too. It is a creative like I know if 192 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: I'm like holding on too tired or resisting something, I 193 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 3: can't ever sit in that creativity. 194 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: And so when I saw that on. 195 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 1: Your list of eight seas, I was like, yes, this 196 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: makes such sense. Now when you come to Australia, this 197 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: is a manifesting masterclass. So I also inhaled the universe 198 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: as your back because you're flipping amazing, my friend. And 199 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: my favorite chapter was chapter four, which is your vibes 200 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: speak louder than your words. And I imagine if we 201 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: want to manifest, we've got to be clear about our 202 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: energy and our presence. Can you share a bit about 203 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 1: how important our vibes are when it comes to manifesting. 204 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: It's everything. So the thoughts that we think create beliefs 205 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: that we have in our core experience, and those beliefs 206 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 3: create an energy, and that energy sends out a message 207 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 3: and a signal to the universe that says more of this, please. 208 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 3: And so if the energy is low vibe, we're going 209 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 3: to create and attract a lot more low vibe experiences. 210 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 3: Whereas if the energy is free and energized and creative 211 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: and confident and self energy, right, we're going to attract 212 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 3: more of that. And so it is very valuable and 213 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 3: important to recognize the power of our thoughts. Most importantly 214 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 3: powered that our thoughts have on our energy, because the 215 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 3: energetic vibration is what is being sent out, being offered up, 216 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 3: being picked up, repurposed, and then presented back to us totally. 217 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: And I also love the way to when we're having fun, 218 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: like more good stuff comes in and it's like really 219 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: you know, like they say also like success love speed, 220 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: and so I think when you're in this like joyful 221 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 1: flow state, which you write a lot about, it feels 222 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: like it just it's like a magnet to bring more 223 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: good stuff in, to bring more of the stuff that 224 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: you love, to bring more of the stuff that's aligned 225 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: to who you are, and like your true essence is 226 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: that advice? 227 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:26,839 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, true? 228 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: Am I saying that right? I feel like about it. 229 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 3: You know, you know, people will be like, oh, I'm 230 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: struggling to date, and I'll be like, well, just go 231 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: have more fun. Like that's my answer to them, Like, God, 232 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 3: have more fun in your life. You're having more fun 233 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 3: in your life and you're feeling better, and then you 234 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 3: become more attractive energetically, and then you're much more likely 235 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 3: to meet that person on the street or have that 236 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 3: connection at a party, or maybe even have more success 237 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 3: on the apps. So yeah, fun is the ultimate tractor. 238 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 1: And you mentioned earlier like we all have Oh, well, 239 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: I know for me, we all have like a little 240 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: bit of anxiety every now and then, and I love 241 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: this is back to self help book, but we all 242 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: have anxious parts, and it's having that courage to check 243 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: in with the anxious part and figure out what that 244 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: part of us is calling for or needs or I 245 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: love that you're kind of empowering us to not be 246 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: afraid of that part of ourselves. How can we let 247 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 1: go of that fear and just be like, no, it's 248 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 1: safe to chick in. 249 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 3: I think when you read the book or listen to 250 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 3: the book, you start to have a new Even if 251 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 3: you don't practice the book, it'll give you a radical 252 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 3: shift inside because it'll help you recognize these aspects of 253 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 3: yourself as just young, little wounded children. Right. And so 254 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 3: you know, I have a six year old and he's 255 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 3: going through some learning stuff and some neurodivergent stuff, and 256 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 3: for six years we've sort of been like, what the hell, Like, 257 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 3: why are you acting like that? Why aren't you sitting 258 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 3: up at the restaurant? Why are your feet on the table. 259 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 3: It's like the kid has ADHD, you know, And now 260 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 3: understanding that and with that awareness and the awareness of 261 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 3: how much he's struggling, oh my god, I have so 262 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 3: much compassion. That clarity creates compassion, That compassion creates connection, 263 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 3: and that connection creates the courage to support him and 264 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 3: the calmness that I need as a mom, And so 265 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 3: that self energy starts to emerge. And so what happens 266 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 3: for us when we're in this place where we see 267 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 3: our young parts of ourselves just like I can see 268 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 3: my son right now, We see these young parts inside 269 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 3: of us as just like little children that need a 270 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 3: lot of freaking help, right they need some support. We 271 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 3: start to witness ourselves in those ways. God, it's such 272 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 3: a change. It's such a shift. Just that alone is 273 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 3: a huge radical shift. 274 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love something like I love making notes and 275 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: highlighting them on one of them that I made reading 276 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: your incredible work was trust yourself and stay curious. 277 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 2: And I think. 278 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: This is the space where everything that you do kind 279 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: of comes from. And it's like if anytime I'm anxious, 280 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: often sit in curiosity because it gets something like it's 281 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: very grounding and it's almost like it opens up. 282 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: Whatever was closed. Yes, totally do you like? 283 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's I always ask people like, 284 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: what would be a mantra or something that you could 285 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: share with the listener as like a quick like. 286 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 2: Take away for today? 287 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: And for me the notes, it just feels like, trusting 288 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: yourself and staying curious is not a cure ale, but 289 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: something that we can always come back to when we're 290 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: holding on too tied, or we're being that perfectionist or 291 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: we're being that controller. 292 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: You know, would you agree? 293 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 3: I love that you just pulled that out. Trust yourself 294 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 3: and stay curious. Oh my god, that feels so good. 295 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 3: That was your writing, my friend. Trust yourself and stay curious. Okay, 296 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna use that. Thank you. I'm going to reuse 297 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 3: that welcome you. Well. I remember you're like, oh remember 298 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 3: chapter four of the University. I have no idea what 299 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 3: you're talking about right now. I'm like, what's that chapter? 300 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 3: Once in that chapter, I gotta get connected because the 301 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 3: tenth anniversary book is coming out, so I got to 302 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 3: get got to get on that trust yourself and stay curious. 303 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 3: Love it. What a message to offer up today. That 304 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 3: is good. 305 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: Another thing, and I just again I'm speaking from a 306 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: personal experience, but as someone that is a podcast or 307 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: an actor, sometimes rejection is something that can be all 308 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: encompassing and you're like, oh, how do I get out 309 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: of this rut? Or how do I not have the 310 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: self doubt every time I go into an audition or 311 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: take a meeting. Is it that leaning into the fun 312 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: or leaning into the fear of rejection? 313 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 3: Well, I think that I really oftentimes like to see 314 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 3: rejection as divine production and recognize this is really a 315 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 3: testament to my faith. My faith in the universe is everything, 316 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 3: and I believe that when things don't work out, it's 317 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 3: because something better is on the way or because it 318 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 3: wasn't meant to be. I often believe also that when 319 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 3: the shit hits the fan, that's often direction as well. 320 00:16:56,000 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: So you know that sometimes when things fall apart because 321 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 3: some breakthrough is meant to occur. So I it's also 322 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 3: a choice to see the world through that lens. That 323 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 3: has been my choice, and it's been very helpful because 324 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 3: it's hopeful and what we are in that inner dialogue 325 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,360 Speaker 3: of okay, this is you know, thank you, Universe, show 326 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 3: me what's next. A much nicer way to live totally. 327 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: And it comes back to my next point, which is 328 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: like making spiritually aligned actions. And I think sometimes rejection 329 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: can be like a little like hang on, was that aligned? 330 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: Let's let's like reage eagle. Let's take some stock now 331 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: and then get really. 332 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: Clear. 333 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: Now, can you teach us what taking spiritually aligned actions is. 334 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 3: Well, whenever we take an action from a place that's 335 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 3: anxious or like thirsty or controlling, it's never it's always 336 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 3: going to fail, it's never gonna it's never going to thrive. 337 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 3: It's the actions that we take from that place of 338 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 3: faith and trust and joy and love and service that 339 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 3: actually have so much magnitude behind them. So, for example, 340 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 3: you know, if I'm having like a down day and 341 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: I'm supposed to record my podcast and you know, let's 342 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 3: just say I have the choice not to or to 343 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 3: do it, I might choose not to because I want 344 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 3: to do it obviously from a spiritually aligned place. If 345 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 3: I have to do something that I don't want to 346 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: do in that moment but I am not in the 347 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: right energy, I'll get into that alignment. I'll find that 348 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 3: joy in the situation. I'll find that service in the situation. 349 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 3: And so so whatever actions we take from service, love 350 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 3: and joy are going to be back to a lot 351 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 3: of positive momentum and quite the opposite if we're taking 352 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,400 Speaker 3: actions from that place that's really controlling or manipulative, or 353 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 3: you know, that's kind of thing. 354 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 2: I've heard you share. 355 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: You spoke on stage in London and something wasn't Like 356 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: you were late to the green room and instead of 357 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: taking time to meditate, you kind of just mingled and 358 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: then got onto on stage spoke, but it didn't feel 359 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,959 Speaker 1: you were like, oh, I'm never going to and arm 360 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: love this sentence you wrote. 361 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 2: I'm so virgo by the way, I over research. 362 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: Everyone, but you wrote that you made a commitment to 363 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: yourself that you'll never go on stage without being connected 364 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 1: to your presence again, I was like, WHOA. What a 365 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 1: powerful thing for anyone to take away, whether they're a speaker, 366 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 1: a podcast, you know, taking a meeting at work, like 367 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: taking a beat, taking a moment to be like connected 368 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 1: to your own presence before anything, whether stakes feel really 369 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 1: really high? Has that been a game changer for you 370 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: when you made. 371 00:19:55,040 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 3: That call mejuor major? No, I don't show up unless 372 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 3: my all of me is showing up. And even in 373 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 3: moments if I say there is an instance where I 374 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: was running later, i'd jump on a stage or something 375 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 3: that you know somemes you can't control. I'll line on 376 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 3: the stage. I'll be like, okay, you know, I'm like 377 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: to tell the truth. They're like, I just busted in 378 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 3: here and this thing just happened and I didn't realize. 379 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 3: You know, I'll be let's do a meditation together. I'll 380 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 3: do something to just just just ground myself because because 381 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 3: I don't want to carry on like that, I've stopped myself. 382 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: Last year, I gave a talk and about fifty ten 383 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 3: minutes into the talk, I said, I'm going to stop 384 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 3: because I'm not in self energy. And I had this 385 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 3: outline and I took the outline and I ripped it 386 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 3: up and I threw it into the audience. I was like, 387 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 3: let's start over. I want to talk to you about 388 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 3: what I'm not in self energy. Let's get into self energy. 389 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 3: And I really taught the whole thing and it was 390 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 3: such an epic talk. That's really good. 391 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 1: That's that also would take a whole huge sense of 392 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: self trust and knowing. 393 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean that's like twenty years of twenty 394 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 3: five years of topic speak. 395 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 2: How cool, though, like what a great, what a great? 396 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't recommend that to new seers. Okay, I trust. 397 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 3: I trust myself. I trust on stage. I trust myself 398 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 3: so much. I think it's when I trust myself the most. Oh, mate, 399 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 3: I cannot wait to see you on stage. So when 400 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 3: you come to Australia in May, are you going to 401 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 3: be in Brenny Melby or City? 402 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 2: You're gonna kill me. 403 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: I actually live in Los Angeles, so I'm on a 404 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: like I'm seeing fam on holiday. 405 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: Now I'll be back in LA. So I just have 406 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 2: to come see you in America. 407 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 3: Mate, I'm in LA all the time. 408 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 2: So perfect. Done deal. 409 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: So for this manifesting masterclass, I would love for the 410 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: listener today to take away just a couple of things 411 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 1: that are in your manifesting toolkit? 412 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: Can you share a couple of sure? 413 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 3: For sure. We'll add the masterpilts. I'm going to teach 414 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 3: people first the ways that we block our manifesting paths 415 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 3: and the beliefs and the stories that block us. And 416 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 3: we'll do a lot of the self help stuff as well, 417 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 3: because I'll help you actually start to have a radical 418 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 3: shift around those core beliefs and start to heal. And 419 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 3: so I think that those four steps that I taught 420 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 3: to you today would be a really great place for 421 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 3: somebody to start manifesting, because we manifest what we believe, 422 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 3: and the core beliefs need healing, and that whole all 423 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 3: of self help is about how we access that inner 424 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 3: healing so that we can change our inner belief systems 425 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 3: on a very core level. And in that shift, we 426 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 3: start to become a different point of attraction, start to 427 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 3: feel differently, and that different feeling energy starts to attract 428 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 3: a different vibration into our life. So I think that 429 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 3: the four steps of check in choose to check in 430 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 3: curiosity towards the part of you, compassionate connection, asking what 431 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 3: do you need, and then checking for those qualities of self. 432 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 3: I think that's the place to start. It is the 433 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,479 Speaker 3: real manifesting flex and can I love it? 434 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: I've written this, it's all written down in a highlight 435 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: of my friend, but I have to ask, as someone 436 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: that is highly impatient, is that faith? Is that trust? 437 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 1: Is that a sense of self belief? How do we 438 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 1: find that? 439 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 2: Patients? 440 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 3: It's also just taking ownership of the thoughts you think. Right. 441 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 3: So there's another method that I think is a super 442 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 3: attractor of my book called to Choose Again method, and 443 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 3: it's witnessing the negative thoughts that you're repeating all the 444 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 3: time and forgiving yourself. The second step is to forgive 445 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 3: yourself for having that thought. The third step is to 446 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 3: reach for the next best feeling thought. So you would 447 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 3: maybe be like, I'm broke and I've got no money, 448 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,679 Speaker 3: and so you forgive yourself. Okay, that's a belief I 449 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 3: thought that. I keep thinking. It's a believe I'm holding. 450 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 3: I'm going to reach for the next best feeling thought. 451 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 3: And the next best feeling thought could be like, well, 452 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 3: I've got a good resume and I've got some connections 453 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 3: on LinkedIn, and then I can get on LinkedIn and 454 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 3: I could spend like hours on LinkedIn. I could just 455 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 3: do my full time job just getting on LinkedIn and 456 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 3: making connections, and I can actually have a lot of 457 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 3: fun doing that. And you see how I'm reaching for 458 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 3: these next studs and next starts. And as you reach, 459 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 3: you start to feel a better vabraetion and your vibes 460 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 3: speak more than your. 461 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 2: Words, mate, All about the vibes. 462 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: All about the vibes, About the vibe you are flipping 463 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: wonderful by the way, Gabby, Like, I just wish I 464 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: could have you in my pocket and anytime I needed 465 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: a good luck. 466 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 2: To you, whip you out of you. 467 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, thank you. 468 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 2: Thank you. 469 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly failing as always. 470 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 2: Thank you to our. 471 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: Guests and let's continue the conversation on Instagram. 472 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: I'm at Yamo Lullaberry. 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