1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: the land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Bear region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: to their elders past and present and extend that respect 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: to all Aboriginal and terrest Raid Islander peoples today. Hello 7 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This 8 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: is the podcast for ordinary people who want to do 9 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the Rise and 10 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: Conquer Podcast. It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, 11 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: new business owner, Wow, business owner and new mum and 12 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: all the things. 13 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 2: Guys. 14 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: We're recording this before the end of the years. 15 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 2: She could probably do. 16 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: But I hope you guys are having the best holidays. 17 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: I am currently on holidays. 18 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 2: So this is all pre recorded. 19 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: And we are bringing you a little recap of your 20 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: favorite episodes of twenty twenty two. So this is the 21 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: most downloaded epps and themes. I fucking love them. You 22 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: guys are on point because they were my favorite episodes 23 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: as well, and we've cut them up. We've put them 24 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: in a nice little bow for you so you can 25 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: just hear the most potent important parts and just get 26 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: a little injact of motivation and inspiration. Happy New Year, everyone, 27 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: I hope you're having the best holiday. I cannot wait 28 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: to be officially back in your ears soon. But for now, 29 00:01:51,040 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: enjoy the app romance of becoming. Let's romance the fuck 30 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: out of our lives and our mornings and our art. 31 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: Let's say yes to the romance, but not the romance. 32 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: We were brought up to believe in the romance of ourselves, 33 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: the romance of living, the romance of the way we 34 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: move and the way we dress and the way we 35 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: see ourselves, the romance of cafes and the romance of becoming, 36 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: the romance of all the people we are yet to meet, 37 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: and all the ways we are yet to try on. 38 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: Let's romance our lives. Because when we romance ourselves, we 39 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: fall for ourselves too. Brook solace, guys, Today we are 40 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: chatting romanticizing the fuck out of our lives. That was 41 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: the most beautiful quote. I had to read it to you, guys, 42 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: because we saw it on Instagram and we had already 43 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: decided to do this podcast. About romance your life, and 44 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: it just we're like, oh my god, this is perfect. 45 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: Thank you Jamie for finding that one. So today, guys, 46 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: let's chat romanticizing our lives. So, if you have social media, 47 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm guessing you do. If you listen to this podcast, 48 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: especially like TikTok, or you enjoy watching reels on Instagram, 49 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: you would notice the algorithm is really pushing these ten 50 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: to thirty second videos of that girl. I actually have 51 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: an episode on that girl, which I will link the 52 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: show notes because it's all about how to be that 53 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: girl and how to have magnetic energy. And it's a 54 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: good it's one of our most downloaded episodes. But basically 55 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: that content is really being pushed and honestly like they're 56 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: doing very mundane things, but it just looks fucking cool, 57 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: Like it looks like they have their life together, like 58 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: their you know a girl who and if you don't 59 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, So basically, she wakes up, 60 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: she makes her coffee in this like really cute cup. 61 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: You know, there's usually a bunch of flowers somewhere, she 62 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 1: puts some cute active wear, meditates journals. You feel like 63 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: she's got her life together and you feel like she's 64 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: a bit fab and let's be honest, like you want 65 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: to be her. Like if you haven't got your life together, 66 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: you watch one of those and you're like, oh my god, 67 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: I need to get my life together. And it just 68 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 1: looks like she's, yeah, really loving life. She's honestly doing 69 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: the most fundane things, but it just looks like she 70 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: has a great life. You know, you can you can 71 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: buy aesthetically pleasing things that make you feel a certain way, 72 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: a no pot of coffee. It can literally be that 73 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: small and simple, or it could be making something a ritual. 74 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: At the end of the episode, I will put in 75 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: some snippets because we went into the NH office and 76 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: we ask the n H girls like how do they 77 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: roam fanticize their lives? And they were all such small rituals, 78 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: but they were so beautiful. So you'll you'll hear that 79 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: at the end. So it doesn't have to be anything 80 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: crazy and you don't actually have to go buy things. 81 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:17,119 Speaker 1: It's just about what is meaningful to you. And also, 82 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 1: can I just touch on something. Maybe it's not that 83 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: you like, you know, pretty things or things to look 84 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 1: in a certain way. Maybe it's just like you like 85 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: your environment clean or whatever it is. You've got to 86 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: find what kind of like tickles your fancy and go 87 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: off that. So that's obviously like some tangible stuff and 88 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: that's amazing, but it wouldn't be an R and C 89 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: episode if we didn't get into like the mindset and 90 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: like the self development behind this. Because again, if we're 91 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,679 Speaker 1: doing all these things and we're buying the pretty things 92 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: and we're doing the rituals, but they're actually not you 93 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: know what lights us up. We haven't done the inner way, 94 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: and we haven't really you know, dived deep into why 95 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: we might be feeling a certain way, why we feel 96 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: like we can't show up as that girl. Then these 97 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: tangible things are not going to work. We need to 98 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: do the inner work first, and then that is going 99 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: to shine outwards. So the biggest thing with romanticizing your 100 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: life is you can't just copy what I've said. You 101 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: need to find what works for you, what actually feels 102 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: good for you. But you also need to get into 103 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: a place where you love yourself wholeheartily enough to believe 104 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: you are worthy of these small moments of joy, You're 105 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: worthy of enjoying the process of enjoying every day because 106 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: I believe there would be so many people who don't 107 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: romanticize their life because they just think they're not worthy 108 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: of the beautiful life. They're not worthy enjoying, you know, 109 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 1: those small moments or buying the cute station, and those 110 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: things are not going to fix anything. If it's like, 111 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: it's just going to be basically a band aide, if 112 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: you haven't done the inner work, and if you haven't 113 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: kind of really dived deep into why you don't feel 114 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: worthy of romanticizing your life. Be a bit of fun 115 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: to ask the girls in the NHH warehouse how they 116 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: romanticize their lives. 117 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 3: Hi, guys, I'm Brooke and I'm the community manager here 118 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 3: at Naked Harvest. I romanticize my life by waking up 119 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 3: early on Sunday mornings and going for a nice, big walk. 120 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: And getting a coffee. Hi. My name's Courtney and I'm 121 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: the wholesale distribution manager at Naked Harvest. And I romanticize 122 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: my life by starting the day with an forty five workout. Hey, guys, 123 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: is Cura here, social media coordinator at ENDH and I 124 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: love to romanticize my life by going for an afternoon 125 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: walk and listening to a poddy Hi, guys, it's Leya here, 126 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: the PR coordinator at Naked Harvest. I romanticize my life 127 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: by going for long walks on a Saturday and getting 128 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: a coffee and almond croissant. Hi. 129 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 3: I'm Mel. I'm the brand executive at Naked Harvest, and 130 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 3: I romanticized my life by putting on some tunes while 131 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 3: I cook my dinner with a glass of wine. 132 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: What has been the hardest thing about the business for you? 133 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 4: The hardest thing for me in my side was the logistics. 134 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 4: So the packaging was very difficult. Yeah, like when we 135 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 4: come to COVID, it was very difficult with freight and 136 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 4: getting things in and that was a lot of. 137 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: We experienced a lot of delay shipping. 138 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really bad. 139 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: Even at the start coup remember before Naked Harvest, like 140 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: even started to do the packaging with the cylinder was 141 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: like a nightmare. Yeah, the samples and remember how back 142 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: and forth when at one point is like we just 143 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: can't do it. Me and Mel were like, we want it. 144 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: It makes us different. 145 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: I remember that being on nightmare. 146 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 4: Yeah it was. 147 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 3: It's still a nightmare, guy. 148 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 4: And the start was getting big trucks sent to my 149 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 4: Palm Beach house which was a tiny as so me 150 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 4: and Ash were at the front getting boxes, bringing them 151 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 4: in SOI I'd go into the garage and then bringing 152 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: them back inside. And but yeah, logistics, which is still 153 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 4: similar issues, but we are a lot better now. But 154 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 4: I learned a lot of Yeah, there's still problems all 155 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 4: the time. But yeah, we could plan. 156 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 3: To launch a product, you know, in a few months, 157 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 3: and that launch would go out the window. It'd be 158 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: pushedback months, like there was just no control. 159 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, do you remember when Moonmilk was sold 160 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: out for so long and it was like our best 161 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: selling products couldn't get it, and we just couldn't get 162 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 1: packaging and it was this whole nightmare. 163 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, after that, I went and ordered too many. 164 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: Since the moon milk, so didn't order enough. And then 165 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: since the moon milk, Cooper does this thing where he 166 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: like overs orders and we have so much stock and 167 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: we're like, why did you order so much? 168 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 4: That has changed now, yes, yeah, Alex now and yeah 169 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 4: she's sorting out logistics and she's very good. 170 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: My I think my hardest part of the business is 171 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: probably like the HR hiring part, and I think that 172 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: just comes with like the learning curves of getting good 173 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: people who not only are great at their job, but 174 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: also like align with Naked Harvest and align with our 175 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: personalities and how we like to, you know, do things. 176 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: I think you can probably tell we all have a 177 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: certain sort of personality intense at stress, intense and like 178 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: just very hard working and like you know, ride or 179 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: die like and h is our life. Willing to do anything, 180 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: you know, willing to go above them beyond, And it's 181 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: just so, I don't know, it never occurred to me 182 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: that that was even something you kind of had to 183 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: think about. And coming from a place where I've never 184 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: hired people and I've never had to like do anything 185 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: like that. I was always employed myself. That side of 186 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: things was just like a whole of the ball game, 187 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: because it's not even about the business and how it 188 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: runs and marketing and that. It's, yeah, it's just this 189 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: whole other thing. We're actually having to deal with people, 190 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: and I think managing people for me, especially being you know, 191 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: only in my twenties. In my I was going to 192 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: say early twenties, but I'm not. I don't know if 193 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: you know this, guys, but I'm in my early twenties. 194 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: Your girl, I used to be in my early twenties. 195 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: But that just has been huge because sometimes, you know, 196 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: I just feel not capable. But it's been great learning. 197 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, But yet we have been very lucky with 198 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 4: the team. 199 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, incredible, Yeah for it exactly. 200 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like we've built quite a good team. 201 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 3: We all work very well together and kind of have 202 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 3: the mentality where because we are still such a small team. Guys, 203 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: I don't know if you really know, but you know, 204 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 3: our eCOM marketing team upstairs is a team of five, 205 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 3: and three of those people do marketing. So the stuff 206 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 3: that we do there are you know, like everyone has 207 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: their own zone of genius and we all compliment each 208 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 3: other really well. But we also work really well together, 209 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 3: and I think that's been like the biggest thing for 210 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 3: us in hiring is finding the right. 211 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: People who gel together. 212 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: Because we are such a small team, we need like 213 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 3: people to cover all bass you know. 214 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: I was just about to say, for example, a great 215 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: example is like this week where our graphic designer has 216 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,199 Speaker 1: gone on her honeymoon and then we've had a gap 217 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: between our other graphic designer coming back from maternity leave, 218 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: and so like Kier and Mell are like on canva. 219 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, just like teaming it. 220 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like you've just got to be scrappy 221 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: and get things done and you've got to have team 222 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: mates who are ready to do that and just like 223 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: do all the thing because it is still like a 224 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: small business in that way. 225 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, well kind of. I think my hardest thing 226 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 3: about I don't know, just this business has been I 227 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 3: think the growing pains, don't you reckon, Like in three 228 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 3: years we've experienced like rapid growth, and I think the 229 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 3: hardest thing is almost keeping up with that, but also 230 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 3: making sure that we're like I think the biggest thing 231 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 3: for Naked Harvest is we are always like our goal 232 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 3: is to be trailblazers in the industry. That's you know, 233 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 3: we found a gap in the market and we filled 234 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 3: that and now our goal is to be ahead. So 235 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: in my side of things, constantly making sure that our 236 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 3: brand is at the head of the pack and that 237 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 3: we are innovative and always thinking of new things and 238 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 3: speaking to our you know, customers, we know what they want. 239 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 3: We know, you know, even if they don't have it yet, 240 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 3: we know how to grow and we know how to 241 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 3: continue to give them what they need. That's been so hard. 242 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: But I was about to say, you know, with the 243 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: success that has come with being the Trailblazers is also 244 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 1: you know, the failures too, and then the not knowing. 245 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: I think a great example is what we experience with 246 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: our Mystery Boxers. Now. 247 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 3: So this is the first time we'd ever done an 248 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 3: activation like this before, and we were you know, like 249 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 3: obviously I am a very planned, strategic person, so I 250 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: did think of all different you know, outcomes, and I 251 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 3: tried to think of every single thing that. 252 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 2: Could potentially happen. 253 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, cover all our bases for something that 254 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 3: we've never done before. 255 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 2: But we still experienced issues. 256 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: You know, and we we just like we always want 257 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: to be optimistics, but we just did not expect the 258 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: amount of orders we got, and then we had a 259 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: whole bunch of issues. 260 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 2: Which this is a good problem to have, yeah. 261 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 1: For us, So no, but I definitely mean in those circumstances, 262 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: like it's an amazing problem to have. But that is 263 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: definitely a hard part part of like when you're doing 264 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: new things and when you're constantly trying to go above 265 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: and beyond and do new fun things, you do come 266 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: about like a whole other hostal problems that you kind 267 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: of just didn't even think of. 268 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so I think, yeah, I think we're doing 269 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 3: a great job. Though yeah we always fail forward. We 270 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 3: never let it, you know, determine our fate. We don't 271 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 3: let problems just you know, overrun, and then we think 272 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 3: of always learning. Y. 273 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: I love that, you know, love that. I use words like, 274 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, stepping into alignment, following your intuition, stepping into 275 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: your most authentic self. And I feel like a lot 276 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: of people they just they're like, what the fuck are 277 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: you talking about because they haven't experienced either that or 278 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: much of that. 279 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: And or seeing someone who is in alignment. Correct. 280 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I get that because that was me seven 281 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: years ago. 282 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: Okay, So and. 283 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: Also guys like I guess just to explain. So let's 284 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: try and explain the feeling first, and then I'll get 285 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: into how I felt seven years ago compared to now. 286 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: But like, alignment to me feels. 287 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: So flowy, so easy, but also like not the easy, 288 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: like I haven't worked for it, like the easy, like 289 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: I know I am worth it and I know I 290 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: am deserving and I know this ease and flow is 291 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: because I've you know, overcome challenges to get here and 292 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: I deserve to get to this place. And I just 293 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: feel so certain of myself and so certain of like 294 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: if anything was to happen, I would be okay and 295 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: like I would know what to do. I trust myself 296 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: so much. 297 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 2: And I don't know, like I'm gonna like start crying. 298 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: But it's like I just remember like not feeling like 299 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: that seven years ago, and I felt like that for 300 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: like most of my life. Yeah, and it's like I 301 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: don't know, it's like this feeling of just you feel 302 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: uncertain and you just feel like so lost. But then 303 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: it also just feels like you don't know what's better, 304 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: and it feels so normal to you, and you kind 305 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: of you know there's something better out there, and you 306 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 1: like want more for yourself, but you just feel like 307 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: so stuck and it feels so hard and everything just 308 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 1: feels like. 309 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: A lot. 310 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: And then like and I used to feel like that 311 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: every single day. And also I just I did not 312 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: I didn't feel comfortable to be myself. Yes, I just 313 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: felt I felt so wrong. I felt like me as 314 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: a person something was wrong with me. And I just 315 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: like I didn't feel like good enough. I just felt 316 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: like I'm like and It's not that I was like, oh, 317 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm a piece of shit or like anything like that, 318 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: but I just thought, there's nothing specially about me. There's 319 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,719 Speaker 1: I'm going to live an ordinary life, and it's just 320 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, it just didn't feel like anything. But 321 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: then it's like it didn't feel really bad, but it 322 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: didn't feel really good, and it just kind of felt 323 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: like I was sleepwalking a bit and I was just 324 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 1: like a bit numb to things. 325 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 2: And it's just I. 326 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 1: Guess the reason why I'm getting emotional is because that 327 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: felt so normal and if I, you know, didn't find 328 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 1: these things and had this transformation, I would still be 329 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 1: feeling like that. And I just feel like so many 330 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 1: people are feeling like that, and it's like, you know, 331 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: if we're getting to the craccident, Like that is why 332 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: I created the project, because I'm like, it's not that 333 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 1: it's so simple. There is you know, a lot to that, 334 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: but it's like it can just feel so much better. 335 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 1: And when when you like step into alignment and you 336 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: like find these tools, like you said, it's like these 337 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: subtle changes and you can't even like pinpoint what has 338 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: changed because it's like maybe the external actually hasn't changed 339 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: that much, but you just you feel different. And I 340 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,959 Speaker 1: think it's also like just this like sense of peace 341 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: of myself and my life, whereas before I just I 342 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,360 Speaker 1: don't know, I didn't feel that. Yeah, And I think 343 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: it's also it's so weird to even say, but knowing 344 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: that you're in the right place and not worrying about 345 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 1: where you're going next yet, Yes, like having no stress 346 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: or anxiety about the future because you just you know 347 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,719 Speaker 1: it's going to be okay whatever happens. 348 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is huge. 349 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent. So well I went off on 350 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 1: attach to then, and I think I the reason why 351 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: I do get emotional is because, you know, the whole 352 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: our new slogan TEA is like ordinary people doing extraordinary things. Yes, 353 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: And it's kind of like I'm not special, Like there's 354 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 1: nothing special about me. If you look at me seven 355 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 1: years ago, to me to me now, it's like, holy shit, 356 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: she's a whole different person. Yeah, but I don't know, 357 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? 358 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? I get what you mean. 359 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: And I think, like, I guess the reason why I 360 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: get emotional is like anyone listening to this who felt 361 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: who feels that like how I felt who feels like 362 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: that now, it's like life can be so much better, 363 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,640 Speaker 1: and I just I get upset thinking of people who 364 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 1: will just then continue to live their life like that. Yeah, 365 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: and it's not that it's bad, no, because it's like 366 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: my life was fine. Yeah, it was so fine, but 367 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 1: then just how I feel now, it's just like next level. 368 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: Holy shit, it can just feel like better than you 369 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: could have imagined. That's the only way I can describe it. Yeah, 370 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 1: all right, guys. So, like if I think about myself 371 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: seven years ago, like I was kind of saying, like 372 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: I just like life was fine. I was with Tim, 373 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 1: I was doing my law degree, I had you know, 374 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: a pretty good group of friends, pretty good support. But 375 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: I just I felt like, I how do I articulate this? 376 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: A thing I've noticed only recently is that I feel 377 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 1: like when you're not in alignment, you're in a rush. 378 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: And I know that's a very weird way to explain it, 379 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: but it's like, if you're not in alignment and you're 380 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 1: just constantly trying to work to your next goal all 381 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 1: the time, and you're on a timeline and you're like, 382 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 1: I need well this by this state, this, by this date, 383 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: this by this date and you're just going and going 384 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: and going. Yes, that's great, and you probably feel pretty 385 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,719 Speaker 1: good because you're achieving goals and hitting goals. But if 386 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 1: you're constantly in a rush to get to the next goal, 387 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: it means you're not happy where you are. 388 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:39,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. 389 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: And if you're happy where you are and you're in 390 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: alignment and you know that, yes, I'm supposed to be 391 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 1: here right now. I don't know how long I'm supposed 392 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: to be in this position. There's something that I have 393 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: to learn, and then the next thing will come when 394 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: it's supposed to come. There's no reason for me to 395 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: rush to get there. Yeah, And you're just you're not worried. 396 00:21:58,400 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 2: You're not worried at all. 397 00:21:59,480 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 4: You're not. 398 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: You'll come when it's time, if it's ten years, if 399 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: it's one year, if it's six months. 400 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 2: But there's no rush to leave where you're at. 401 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: That's a really insightful Yeah, like explanation. 402 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 4: I loved that. 403 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 2: Thanks. So if I. 404 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: Think about me, you know, seven years ago, like the 405 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: before Georgie, you had this like transformation, it's yeah. I was, 406 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 1: you know, living at a home with Tim, going out 407 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 1: a lot with my friends, doing my law job and 408 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: like I said, like I felt that way, but it's 409 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: like life was fine, Like it's not like anything super. 410 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 2: Bad was happening, but yeah, like you're becoming a lawyer. 411 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 2: That's incredible. Yeah, Like yeah, and. 412 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,439 Speaker 1: It was fine and I felt, you know, pretty good. 413 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 1: But it's like I just remember, the internal was different. 414 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 1: So the internal staff was I had a lot of 415 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: disordered eating issues, so I was constantly trying to just 416 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: be smaller just it didn't matter. I just wanted to 417 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,479 Speaker 1: be smaller. I wanted to be skinnier, I wanted to 418 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 1: be you know, fitter. I just I wanted to be 419 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 1: not what I was. And so I was dealing with 420 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: a lot of these like and to the outside, I 421 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,719 Speaker 1: think it would have looked, you know, like because I was, 422 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: you know, losing weight and I'd get like congratulations and 423 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: like this positive feedback. So on the outside it probably 424 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: looked like, you know, life was good and blah blah blah. 425 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 1: But it's like on the internal, it wasn't. It like 426 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: really wasn't. And I had a really bad minute like 427 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 1: in a Mean Girl, which was the you know the 428 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: reason why I was chasing this like external happiness of 429 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: once I'm skinnier, I'll be happier, and I have to 430 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: be It's almost like this sense of like perfectionism, like 431 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,640 Speaker 1: I just needed to be perfect and then my life 432 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 1: would be perfect. So I had to get the perfect 433 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 1: body and then my life would be perfect. So on 434 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: the external it looked fine. It looks like, oh, she's 435 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: just gone a gym. She's like living her life, and 436 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: like I just go to gym now, like almost not 437 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: similar because I was being a bit crazy back then. 438 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: But it's like my internal world was. 439 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 2: Really fucking dark and really like not good. 440 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: The things I used to say to myself and that 441 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,400 Speaker 1: sort of side of things just like really not good. 442 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 1: And I was just suffering in silence a lot, and 443 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,719 Speaker 1: I just thought that was normal. I thought, you know, 444 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: having those thoughts about yourself was normal, and it was just, 445 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: you know, normal to always want to be better and 446 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: to always want to be different. And I also just 447 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: remember I just had no sense of I was always 448 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: looking to other people for things. So and I know 449 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 1: you felt this way to a tear of like I 450 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: would I would be that person who like polled all 451 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,719 Speaker 1: my friends and be like should I do this? I 452 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: just had no trust in myself and even to the 453 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: point of like I remember, like for an outfit on 454 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 1: the weekend, I would like scroll for hours on Instagram, 455 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 1: find the perfect photo of like some girl who looked 456 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,479 Speaker 1: like she had the best life, and like copy her outfit. 457 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 2: Yes, I know exactly what you mean, and like to 458 00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 2: think of doing that. 459 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: Now I didn't dream of that because I just pick 460 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: what I like, yes, Whereas before it's like, you know. 461 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 2: I know exactly what I used to do that. 462 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: I would look to other people for inspiration, to other 463 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: people for what should I wear? What should I do? 464 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 1: I just had no internal compass and I just had 465 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,880 Speaker 1: no trust in myself, Like I would never dream of 466 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 1: just going to the store and just like picking something because. 467 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 2: Without sending your friend's photos, asking them what. 468 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 1: They and just because I liked it and because it 469 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: felt good to me. It was like it's like I 470 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 1: thought that was normal, But now, being the way I am, 471 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's fucked up. 472 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 2: You know what tell us is so sad. I feel 473 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 2: like that is normal, but it's not. 474 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, Like a lot of people might be 475 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: a lot to this thinking yeah I do that, that's normal. Yeah, 476 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 1: So like I and I'm sure I could probably find 477 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: it in my phone notes. But I would, yeah, like 478 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 1: exactly what you said, poll people on what do you 479 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 1: think of this outfit, this outfit or this appit or 480 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: this hairstyle or this hairstyle, and I'd send like people 481 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 1: and I would tell Tally the results and that would 482 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 1: be my decision. But I wouldn't get a vote. Yeah, 483 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 1: And like, I know people probably don't do it to that. 484 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 4: Extent, but pretty extremity. 485 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: I was like myself, But like, I think a lot 486 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 1: of people will go to the store and they might 487 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: send their friends a few pictures in the change room. 488 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything too wrong with that, but 489 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: they might be leaning towards, say a pink dress, and 490 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: one of their friends is like, oh my. 491 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 2: God, you look stunning in the black, and then they're like, oh. 492 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 4: Just get the black then. 493 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: But it's like, if you felt better in the pink dress, 494 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 1: you should be getting the pink dress. And it's funny 495 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: because I do this now where I'll pull tim about 496 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,439 Speaker 1: things and you'll often say always the opposite, and they 497 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 1: do the opposite, and I'll be like, noah, fuck that, 498 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: I look way better than this, and I just don't 499 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: give a fuck what he said, also like I want 500 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: to know exactly like you just want other people, but 501 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: then I like try myself and I just and then 502 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: also like that's honestly the reason why I did a 503 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,479 Speaker 1: whole degree that I'm now not using just fucking had 504 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 1: to pay hex on and really because it was like, 505 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 1: if I become a lawyer, which is, you know, a 506 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 1: prestigious job, I will first full make my parents proud. 507 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: Imagine saying that in a conversation, like I this is 508 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: something that went through my mind of I could tell 509 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: people I was a lawyer, and that's like, I think 510 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: that's also normal in itself, but also I'm thinking of 511 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: that and I'm like, that's fucked, and I just think 512 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 1: how I feel now with I'm like and for instance, 513 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: like even bringing out this course was a huge not challenge, 514 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: but it was a huge kind of step for me 515 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,639 Speaker 1: because for a long time I was kind of embarrassed 516 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: talking and telling people that I manifested things because it 517 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: was so taboo back then. Yeah, like I remember kind 518 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 1: of wanting to have the conversation you know, with my 519 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: friends or tim or my mom and dad and talking 520 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: about these concepts, but just feeling like I, you know, like. 521 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 2: We were a girl. 522 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: I was that we were girl. I was that weird girl. 523 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: And it like takes me back to high school, when 524 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: like I wasn't cool enough, you know. And it's like, 525 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 1: and that's another thing. In high school. I just remember 526 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: I would do anything to be liked. I would do 527 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: anything to like not even be liked, but just be 528 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: like normal, just be fit in, fit in. Yeah, And 529 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: it's like I just wouldn't couldn't even tell you what 530 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: And I think this is normal for a teenager, but 531 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: it's absolutely I couldn't tell you what I liked or 532 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: even what felt authentically me. But that still was happening 533 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: in you know, my early twenties, which I think is 534 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: also normal. So normal, so normal. But like I do 535 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: have friends who are now in their early thirties who 536 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: was in the same boat, which is why you don't 537 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 1: want to be, yeah, who were kind of doing the 538 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: same things as they were when they were in their 539 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: early twenties, like maybe a little bit different, but they're 540 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: still you can tell they are still stuck in this 541 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: place where they don't they don't trust their intuition, they 542 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: don't have them, you know, they haven't strengthened their internal 543 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: compass because all these things we're talking about, like intuition alignment, 544 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: it's not it is. I feel like some people just 545 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: like have it and I do, and I'm like jealous 546 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: of those people. But for me, it is something I've 547 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: had to learn and strengthen over time, and I'm really 548 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 1: excited to continue, you know, strengthening it and continue being 549 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: an alignment. But yeah, so going back seven years ago, 550 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: like I said, life is fine, and I was like, 551 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: you know, doing my law job and doing this and that. 552 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 1: As soon as I kind of made that big step 553 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: of quitting my law job and then really being in 554 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: this place of like, fuck, I need to you know, 555 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: make things happen for myself in my own way because 556 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: I've just taken this big jump and that was really 557 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: the catalyst of me in my self development journey, me 558 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 1: in you know, starting to use these tools, if that 559 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: makes sense. So then let's kind of was that Did 560 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: that kind of paint a good picture for your tier 561 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: of like how I felt seven years ago? 562 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 563 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: I find it so interesting that the only word you 564 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 1: used to describe it was fine. 565 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you noticed that, did I just did? 566 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: They keep saying fine? Fine? 567 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 2: I was fine. It was fine. No, like like it 568 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 2: wasn't bad, but it was so good. 569 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: And that's the things. It wasn't that like like you 570 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: were just fine sort of going. Yeah, well, I do 571 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: use the term often in like copy of like it 572 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 1: kind of felt like a sleepwalking a bit, like just 573 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: kind of going through the motions. Yes, there wasn't any 574 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: like enjoyment. Those that's things I did enjoy myself and 575 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: life was like and I used to have some really 576 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: great days and like that sort of thing. But I 577 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 1: guess having hindsight now looking back, I was like compared 578 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: to now, I. 579 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was fine. 580 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: That's really interesting. 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