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Speaker 1: Christ Yeah, welcome friends to the Christian o'connells Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing. There are certain things right that actually make

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Speaker 1: us nervous or anxious as an adult. Normally when you're

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Speaker 1: a kid, they're quite a few various things nighttime and

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Speaker 1: stuff like that light's being off. But still as an adult,

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Speaker 1: you suddenly fear that you have these fears of anxiety. Jack,

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Speaker 1: you had this experience yesterday when you were cooking.

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Speaker 2: And I should have grown out of mine now in

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Speaker 2: my thirties, but I still get very nervous taking things

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Speaker 2: out of the oven.

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Speaker 3: I don't like, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't like the sides of death.

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Speaker 2: I fear that my hands will touch the sides of

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Speaker 2: the oven, or that the teetawels with which I hold

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Speaker 2: the dish, yeah, will not be strong enough to guard

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Speaker 2: the heat, and the heat will.

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Speaker 1: Moment you open up that the oven door, put it down,

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Speaker 1: or whatever you do. It's always to me, it's always this.

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Speaker 1: You know it's hot in there, and I always get

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Speaker 1: I find that I'm going to touch the sides.

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Speaker 2: So once a day I can, I can with But

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Speaker 2: yesterday we were roasting a chicken, and every twenty minutes

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Speaker 2: we were meant to get it out and baste it.

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Speaker 3: So every twenty minutes I was going back in there.

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Speaker 2: My hands are going to touch the sides all these

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Speaker 2: tee tails folded over and up. I fall over the

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Speaker 2: tea tails so much they become like a little square brick.

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Speaker 1: Because twice enough, you want a third more ply, I'm

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Speaker 1: doing it.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing a five ply.

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Speaker 1: Really, I'm going to try because otherwise the heat that

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Speaker 1: the oven knows.

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Speaker 3: The heat penetrate to the hands.

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Speaker 1: And it's a gift for the oven and goes no

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Speaker 1: other guffs. That's its best day. And it's like your

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Speaker 1: hands suddenly like gets magnetized by the oven god in

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Speaker 1: there to the side they fling out on. The worst

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Speaker 1: one is if you're putting something big in is that

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Speaker 1: top bit.

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Speaker 3: That's what the chicken was.

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Speaker 2: The chicken required a big dish, so the sides of

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Speaker 2: the dish were almost at the sides of the oven.

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Speaker 2: Where am I even meant to pull my hands in

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Speaker 2: the very nerve wrecking stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what I might build is a slide that can

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Speaker 1: slow through and then then I filp below. It's like

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Speaker 1: a shoot to come out of it, so I don't

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Speaker 1: have to touch it at aol. The other thing in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen that makes me nervous using every single time

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Speaker 1: is the cheese crater. Oh sometimes don't even go to

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Speaker 1: the kids. Hey, earn some extra pocket money? Are you

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Speaker 1: just scared? He's the toughest guy in this house. Please

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Speaker 1: don't creak my thumb.

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Speaker 3: I'll leave myself a lot of inches of barrier.

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Speaker 1: There'll be two inches left of Palmers. I can't, I

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Speaker 1: can't do anymore. It's gonna great me the Greater God.

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Speaker 1: I think they all work together with the oven. The

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Speaker 1: oven God is like the daddy of the kitchen, I think,

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Speaker 1: and he has all other people that are working together

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Speaker 1: to hurt us. The cheese greater is one. The other

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Speaker 1: thing that I've often seen people getting nervous about, and

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Speaker 1: I only do, but only not getting on it. I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about escalators. Living in London, there are huge escalators

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Speaker 1: up and down the London underground. I always see strangers

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Speaker 1: in town who come up down from up North or

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Speaker 1: Australia or America, terrified or very getting on it for

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Speaker 1: some reason and not knowing quite how to go. For me,

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Speaker 1: it was always the ex getting off.

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Speaker 2: My mum was her biggest fear me as a child

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Speaker 2: was that I would get sucked into that and.

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Speaker 1: My mom right trapped. Mama actually said, don't get your

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Speaker 1: feet caught, you'll get trapped.

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Speaker 3: There were so many warnings.

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Speaker 1: Hapn's your son with so color. He lives under an escalator.

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Speaker 1: He got trapped.

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Speaker 3: You can still see him at Flinders feed station if

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Speaker 3: you want to go down.

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Speaker 1: You can hear his screams at night.

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Speaker 2: There were so many instructions about all right, we're coming

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Speaker 2: up to the end of this. To concentrate here, get ready,

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Speaker 2: big step now, big step.

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Speaker 1: Because you know what the side it's got that sort

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Speaker 1: of brushy bit. I used to put a shoe in

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Speaker 1: there tonight, polishit. My mom would grab me, go don't

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Speaker 1: do that, rip your foot off. So my mum. Danger

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Speaker 1: was everywhere everywhere, and the escalator. The escalator's most sound.

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Speaker 1: The I think, all right, you're a grown up. Now,

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Speaker 1: what makes you nervous? What were things make you nervous

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Speaker 1: and anxious as a grown up? Christian Connall Show podcast, Yes,

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Speaker 1: lots off you are testing in have jack and I

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Speaker 1: heard above? And gloves we had? Yeah, I don't care

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Speaker 1: for them? All right, I need a matter or glove

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Speaker 1: that I can use when I use the cheese grater,

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Speaker 1: I'll buy it. I've lost so much skin on that

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Speaker 1: cheese greater.

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Speaker 2: I think the fear I have with other mitt is

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Speaker 2: I had the only other mid I ever owned wasn't

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Speaker 2: strong enough to keep the heat out, and so it

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Speaker 2: burnt me. And now I don't trust other mits at all.

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Speaker 2: But somebody suggested getting welder's gloves, big industrial rubber.

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Speaker 1: I've got welders gloves that I use for the smoker

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Speaker 1: because that's like five or six hundred degrees. Also, when

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Speaker 1: I did have a couple of years ago an oven glove,

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Speaker 1: I don't I lose my grip.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're right, why is it?

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Speaker 1: Why is it a mitten? You know? I don't want

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Speaker 1: to floppy hand around a lot of heat. Christian. What

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Speaker 1: makes me nervous as an adult is the simple garden hose.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I go to use it, it's just from pap.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I go to use it, I can never remember

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Speaker 1: if I turned it off at the nozzle the last

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Speaker 1: time I used it. I always fear that it's going

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Speaker 1: to spur out furiously at me if I haven't turned

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Speaker 1: it off at the nozzle. True that's from Pat Birch.

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Speaker 1: I could understand that. All right, let's go into the line.

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Speaker 1: So we're talking the morning on nine four one four

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Speaker 1: one o four three as a grown up Things that

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Speaker 1: make you nervous? Who do we have? First of all, Becky?

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Becky?

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi Christian?

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Speaker 1: Hello? What my she nervous? Send us a grown up Becky?

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Speaker 4: The wave machine at the indoor swimming pool.

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Speaker 1: So what is it you're worried about that you might try?

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Speaker 4: I think I think there were sharks behind the bars.

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Speaker 3: Okay, a little hard to come to your level here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so if you didn't picture, you know, there's there's

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Speaker 4: always bars where there's a waves machine.

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Speaker 1: And waves and then release the bars and release the

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Speaker 1: power of the sea.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. And ever since I was a little I always

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Speaker 4: thought that there would be sharks behind those bars.

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Speaker 1: I mean it wore out the anti a bit. I

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Speaker 1: mean that would set out there if you said he

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Speaker 1: and sometimes in the afternoon we'd like to living up chuck.

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Speaker 1: A sharking.

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Speaker 3: Every tenth way has a little surprise in it.

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Speaker 4: But it still frightens me.

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I tell.

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Speaker 2: You what's truly scary to wavepool. I've been in a

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Speaker 2: wave pool where they call the code brown so floater

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Speaker 2: floater shark, and it gets extra scary when the float

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Speaker 2: is riding away.

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Speaker 1: I be more friend getting hitting the Facebook shot or

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Speaker 1: a floater floater with scarymore. All right, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: You call by by Jane.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, Good morning, Christian morning.

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Speaker 1: Jane. Hope you're well this morth thanks to calling the show.

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Speaker 1: What scares you as a grown up?

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Speaker 5: Bananas?

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Speaker 1: Open bananas, bananas themselves or unpeeling the banana?

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Speaker 5: Oh, if they're open, I can't touch them. I can't

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Speaker 5: look at them. I can't look at you eating one?

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Speaker 1: Right? What is it? That? That sort of funny feeding

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Speaker 1: when you touch one.

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Speaker 5: It's this texture and the smell of them. They just

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Speaker 5: wreek and they if you drop one on the floor,

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Speaker 5: I jump like it's a spider.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 5: It's called banana phobia.

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Speaker 1: And it's the thing, is it?

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Speaker 5: It's yeah, And I'm not the only widow.

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Speaker 4: There's lots of No.

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Speaker 1: One, your weirdo, right, no one. We've all got our

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Speaker 1: strange little things and get us. I'm scared of a

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Speaker 1: cheese grater, okay, but I'm curious about this one. And

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Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like a fear that would be an

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Speaker 1: everyday thing unless someone is chucking bananas around having fun.

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Speaker 5: Oh well, I teach people with disability to cook. So

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Speaker 5: I go into the all these kitchens and they have bananas,

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Speaker 5: and when they're getting really right, they just stink. And

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Speaker 5: if they want me to do anything with them, I

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Speaker 5: just say no.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 2: What about banana flavors, like when it's artificial? No, no,

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Speaker 2: banana lollies?

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Speaker 1: Are you not just going to go through all the

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Speaker 1: food sh banana pie, banana rama. The band can even.

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Speaker 5: Hear them at guy wearing at me?

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