1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer Podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset self development and 8 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, We're here to 13 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass 16 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: you by, then you're. 17 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: In the right place. 18 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. 19 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: Happy for Friday. Today is the final part of our 20 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: Magic of Discovering Yourself series and I am joined by 21 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: the one and only Kate Jones. So in this episode 22 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: we are using our brand new connection cards the magic 23 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: of discovering yourself. And I literally just randomly pulled cards 24 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: with Kate and we got into the best conversations you 25 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: hear our deepest, darkest secrets. And this is why we 26 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: are so obsessed with this brand new deck, because it 27 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: just takes you deeper with the people that you want 28 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: to connect with more, you want to get to know. 29 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: And what I love about the cards is like, yeah, 30 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: you can like randomly get up conversation cards, and yeah, 31 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: you can randomly get up questions like out of date 32 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: or with your friends, but like having actual physical cards, 33 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: so it's a little bit less intimidating. It's not like 34 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: with your partner you're like, tell me your deepest darkest secrets. 35 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 1: You have this physical thing where you're like, let's play 36 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: a game. It feels really fun and light. But as 37 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: a result you have these really beautiful conversations. So I 38 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: am so excited. These are currently live. We will link 39 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,839 Speaker 1: them in the show notes, but I hope you enjoy 40 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: this episode. 41 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: With me, Kate. 42 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: So the first card, what do you appreciate most about yourself? 43 00:02:55,320 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: Ooh where do I no? Where do my bloody begin? 44 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 3: What comes straight to mind always being the person that 45 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: is able to sort of like lift a vibe, like 46 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 3: bring really strong positive energy to so many different situations. 47 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: I feel like there's been things that have been a 48 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 3: little bit dire, you know, a little bit sad, a 49 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 3: little bit draining in a group sort of setting, and 50 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: being able to bring people back to having that more 51 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: like positive outlook on sort of any situation, because I 52 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 3: think that just like throughout life, being able to turn 53 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: those things into not like everything is amazing and positive 54 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: and whatever, but kind of being able to like lift 55 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: spirits and always go into things with. 56 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 2: A positive outlook. And yeah, I feel like kind of 57 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: bring that positive energy. You are the vibe. 58 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: I love that so much because I think also, you know, 59 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: the little bit that you have shared about you know, 60 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: your upbringing and different things in your life, and I 61 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: agree because I feel like you are able to go 62 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: through challenges and hardships and really just fucking not great 63 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: things and still come out the other end and being 64 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: like I still get to embrace like who I am 65 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: and how I want things to be like moving forward. 66 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's what you bring to the table. 67 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: You're like, well, shit happens exactly. 68 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I dwell like. 69 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, being able to not sit in that dwelling negative 70 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 3: feeling and go okay, this is shit, but also like 71 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 3: how are we moving forward? Let's not sit in that 72 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 3: really like sad, low vibe energy and just continue that. 73 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 3: It's like shit, things can happen, yes, and like feel 74 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 3: those feelings, but not letting it flow into every other 75 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 3: aspect of your life, you know. 76 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: And even what. 77 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: Came to mind is then what you spoke about is 78 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: I even remember having a moment with you when we 79 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: were talking about not drinking, and you know, because I 80 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: know you're into your mock taels and you said you're like, oh, 81 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: I just I don't feel like I need alcohol because 82 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: I just like I am the vibe you mean, like 83 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: I just and I remember thinking, oh my god, that's 84 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: so true. And isn't it interesting how like you know, 85 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: some people they need a drink to like be that 86 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: fun person or like be that certain higher vibe and 87 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: you're kind of like, no, I just choose to be 88 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: that without influence assistance, which is really cool. 89 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I feel like that is it? 90 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, being able to go into situations and be that. 91 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 2: I don't know, that person that is able to I guess. 92 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: Get everyone on like that more fun loving, easygoing, chill 93 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 3: vibe and just like have fun. 94 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: You know, just have a laugh, seriously, just have a 95 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: bloody and like anytime we're together we are comedians. 96 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah. 97 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: So I think that is probably one of the traits 98 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 3: that I love. And like I think when I think 99 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 3: back to even when I was teaching, I was in 100 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 3: that really you know, almost like limbo of not knowing 101 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: what to do and kind of not loving work every 102 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: day and staff still being able to go in there 103 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: and have the outlook of like, Okay, let's make the 104 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 3: most of it while I'm here. This isn't what I 105 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 3: want to be doing right now, But how can I 106 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 3: make it the most enjoyable situation while because I mean it, so, 107 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 3: I can either make a shit or make it a 108 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 3: big fun. 109 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: So let's go with a big fun. You know. I 110 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: love that. 111 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: What an amazing trait to to have because like, like 112 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,559 Speaker 1: we said that that's really going to get you through 113 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: the dark times and the challenges and able to move 114 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: you know, through things so much faster and you know, 115 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: like the meaning not to get too dpr, but like 116 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: the meaning of life is you have to go through challenges. 117 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: You have to go through the hurdles, you have to 118 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 1: go through those things, but it's like, if you are 119 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: able to move through them faster, you're going to have 120 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: more moments in your life where there is joy and 121 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: happiness and excitement rather than the lower emotions which we 122 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: know we have to go through, which is like you said, 123 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: it's fine, we have to feel them. But when you're 124 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: able to shift so much easier, and I think that's 125 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: something you do really well. 126 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: It's like you're able to shift. Thank you appreciate that. 127 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: You're welcome. Do you answer these questions too? 128 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm supposed to answer them too. What do I 129 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: appreciate about myself? I'll be quick, I think something quick, 130 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: but also probably twenty minutes. 131 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is actually you guys. This is just the 132 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: one question. This is actually a podcast about me. 133 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 3: So twenty minutes on, Georgie, here we go, Here we 134 00:07:59,120 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 3: go go on. 135 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: I think something I appreciate about myself is like my determination. 136 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: I feel like something that has really carried me through 137 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: in life is when I want something or I decide something. 138 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: I do have a lot of determination and grit that 139 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: It's like I'm going to make that thing happen, or 140 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to do that thing or achieve that thing, 141 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: no matter what. 142 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 2: I totally agree. 143 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 3: I feel like for you, like whenever I'm with you, 144 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 3: it's like nothing's too hard, Like what needs to. 145 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: Be done, I'll do it. Yes, you, that's so determined. 146 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, so determined. And yeah, very much like 147 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: that is like nothing's too hard, and I'm very much 148 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: like I'm ready to get my hands dirty and do 149 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 1: the thing and get in with the team and let's 150 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: just get it done. 151 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, like what's George doing, because I'll do it, name it, 152 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: I'll do it exactly, exactly. 153 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: And yeah, that's something I really appreciate about myself because 154 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: I feel like people are like. 155 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 2: Oh, how do you get motivation? 156 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: And I don't really resonate with that question because I'm like, oh, 157 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: I just like do things, Like I don't feel like 158 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: I knew that, like constant motivation, that constant drive, because 159 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: once I say I'm going to do things, it's just 160 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: like a thing in me that I'm. 161 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: Like, I get it done and I make it. 162 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: Happen totally, And yeah, I appreciate that about myself. All right, 163 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: next question, So this card just bloody popped out, So 164 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: the universe wants us to answer this. Okay, where in 165 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: life do you feel most aligned? 166 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 2: Oh? 167 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: Oh, what I feel with this question is almost you know, 168 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: for alignment to me. 169 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,479 Speaker 2: Is a place where it's like I feel so myself. 170 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: I feel like there's ease and flow and things just 171 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: work and I feel really happy and joy like where 172 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: in your light? Where in your life do you have 173 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: those like key moments of alignment when you're just like, 174 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: shit just keeps getting better, or like you know, you're 175 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 1: just like That's what I kind of feel into with alignment. 176 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 3: I kind of feel like there's multiple almost different avenues. 177 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 2: I think at the moment with where I am age wise, 178 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 2: life wise. 179 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 3: Circumstances wise, I feel very in alignment with all of 180 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 3: my relationships. 181 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: I feel like I have really filtered out a lot 182 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 2: of people that. 183 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: Would just the relationship wasn't serving me, or it was 184 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 3: quite one sided, or I didn't feel like I was 185 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: getting much out of that, or you know, it was 186 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 3: kind of like they always kind of use it for 187 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 3: the wrong reasons, I guess, and I think that I've 188 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 3: really outgrown those and seen that everything needs to be 189 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 3: I guess aligned. But purposeful, you know, and fill me 190 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 3: up from different ways. Like I feel like everyone in 191 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 3: my life almost fills. 192 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 2: Up a different part of my cup. So I don't 193 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 2: get the same thing out of every friend. 194 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 3: You know, And I think that just my relationships are 195 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: great at the moment, and I feel like everyone is very. 196 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: On the same page. 197 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm having deep conversations with friends with partlack, 198 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 3: with nick, with husband. 199 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 2: You know, I think. 200 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 3: Everyone is really adding and feeling. I don't feel like 201 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 3: any of my relationships. 202 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: Are draining or taking away. I love this. 203 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're feeling really aligned in your relationship. There's 204 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: been moments where maybe you weren't, so you have evidence 205 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: of like what didn't feel good, and you're moving forward 206 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: to this place where you're like, oh wait, no, this 207 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: feels really really good. Could you even tell us, you know, 208 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: maybe someone who's listening to this has a certain relationships 209 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: where they don't feel aligned anymore. Could you kind of 210 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: give us an example of how you would go about 211 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: that relationship, whether it's kind of disconnecting from that person 212 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: or just like putting space in between you, Like, how 213 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: do you. 214 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: Go about it? 215 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 3: I feel like it could be really awkward, right, Like, 216 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 3: I think for me, the point of realization is kind 217 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 3: of like if I go to a brunch with someone 218 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 3: and I leave and I'm like, what did we speak 219 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: about that entire time? You know, like when we're sitting 220 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 3: there speaking about other people or surface level you know, 221 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 3: stuff like that. 222 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 2: So I think when I leave, I'm like, did that 223 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: leave me feeling better or worse? Would I do that again? 224 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 2: Sort of situation, And then I don't know if this 225 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: is the right way to deal with things. Everyone deals 226 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 2: with things differently. 227 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 3: But then I think for me, I just kind of 228 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 3: pull back a bit from that person. So I'm not 229 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 3: going to reach out a message and be like, hey, 230 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 3: we should catch up again. 231 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 2: Because in reality, I don't really want to do that. 232 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,599 Speaker 3: So I think it's respecting your feelings around that relationship 233 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 3: and not doing things out of just like guilt feeling 234 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 3: like I should hang out with them because we were 235 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 3: friends in school, or I should hang out with them 236 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 3: because X y Z. I think it's like standing quite 237 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 3: strong and just kind of pulling back and going if 238 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 3: that doesn't serve me and doesn't feel good for me, 239 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 3: then I'm not going to put my energy into. 240 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: It as harsh as that sort of is. 241 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 3: I think there has to be a point where you 242 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 3: sort of draw the line and I'm just like, no, 243 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: I've never been like I don't want to hang out 244 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 3: with you anymore. Like no, I'm more just kind of 245 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 3: like I'm just gonna pull back, and if they approach 246 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 3: me again to hang out. 247 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 2: Or whatever, I sort of just go like I'm busy. 248 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: I'm never bad. I don't think it's bad. I think 249 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 2: there's like I think I'm. 250 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: Just gonna have avoidance there, but well, yeah, ever then 251 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: have the conversation with the person and kind of just 252 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: be like, hey, just letting you know, like our relationship 253 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: just doesn't really This is a really bold thing to say, 254 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: but it's like our relationship doesn't really fill me up anymore. 255 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: I am just prioritizing other things in my life. You know, 256 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: I do love you, but I hope you can understand 257 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: or you prefer just like almost like we just stop 258 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: hanging out. 259 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: I think a bit of both. 260 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 3: I don't think personally I would go like, hey, not 261 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 3: feeling it anymore. 262 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. 263 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: I think I would say maybe, like, you know, I 264 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 3: was feeling a bit drained after we hung out last time. 265 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 3: Is it okay if we catch up in a couple 266 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 3: of months once, you know, once things are quite always 267 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 3: have more space or something like that. I don't think 268 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 3: I am yeah, bold enough to go. I don't know, well. 269 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: I think yeah, because I agree, like that's a tough conversation, 270 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: but even I think even a great response for this is, Hey, 271 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: I am just like shifting my priorities right now my 272 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: life and I'm really focusing on myself. There just might 273 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: be a bit of a space in between us catching up. 274 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 2: I really hope you can understand. Yeah, that's more the vibe. 275 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: I'm just like more it's more about like me focusing 276 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: on me, less about them being a shit friend. 277 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: I think that's a good approach. I'm not gonna lie. 278 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: I have in front whips basically been like you drain me, yeah. 279 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. But I don't feel I've been drinking. 280 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: I may have been drinking, and I don't I don't 281 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: think that was the right thing to do. And now 282 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: that I've had space and time and maturity, I would 283 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: a huddleson just be like, oh, look, I'm focusing on 284 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: my career, myself and Ivy right now. I just don't 285 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: have a lot of space for friends. I'll I'll contact 286 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: you when I'm ready, and then you and then you 287 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: just never contact, and then you just ghosts, You just 288 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: backdoor and ghost it and never. 289 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 2: But I think I think ghost that relationships d I 290 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: think like in relationship where I felt that, it's almost like. 291 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 3: The other person can sort of sense that in a 292 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 3: way of like, you know, if I'm there with them 293 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 3: and they're having that conversation, I'm not really that into it, 294 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 3: you know. So I think sometimes it doesn't come as 295 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 3: a surprise, you feel like, hey, you know, I need 296 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 3: a bit of space x y Z. But yeah, I 297 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 3: think it's really important to like respect that in yourself. 298 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 3: If you're left feeling drained, if you're left feeling like 299 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 3: worse than when you went there, then it's reflecting on 300 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 3: that friendship and going is this a friendship that I want. 301 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: In my life? Is this serving me? Is this worth 302 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: my time and energy? 303 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: Because essentially it's taking away from someone else or something 304 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 3: else that you could really feel great from. 305 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 1: You know. Yes, I think, well that's even such a 306 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: huge thing to point out of when like whenever you 307 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: were doing something you don't necessarily want to do or 308 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: that doesn't feel in alignment or that doesn't like fill 309 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: you up, is you are saying no to something that does. 310 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, maybe. 311 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 1: You are someone who wants deeper connections and deeper relationships 312 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: and like a relationships that feel aligned like UK, but 313 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 1: it's like you're entertaining all these like shit friendships and 314 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: then you're like wondering why you don't have deep connections. 315 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: It's like you need the space and time and sometimes 316 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:47,199 Speaker 1: you have to get rid of those friendships first and 317 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: maybe even just have a bit of space for the 318 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: new people to come in. 319 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you're feeling if you're filling. 320 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 3: Your I guess social life with that sort of person, 321 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 3: then when is that deep connection to be able to 322 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 3: fit in? Because you're constantly with these people that are 323 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 3: not leveling up or not you know, filling your cup 324 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 3: up or your circumstances. 325 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 2: So how are you going to have space for anyone 326 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 2: else to do that? 327 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred percent, that's such a great point. 328 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, ten words or less. Georgie answer, When do I 329 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 2: feel most aligned? 330 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: I think right now because yeah, we're talking certain avenues. 331 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: I feel most aligned in my business in regards to 332 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: just my team and how we do things, our workflow. 333 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: How the word that's coming to me is like the 334 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: integrity of how I do business, Like it comes from 335 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: this place of I fucking love it and I'm obsessed 336 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: with you know, I'm obsessed with the products. I'm obsessed 337 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: with our community. And I go to work and it's 338 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: this really beautiful energy of like, I'm doing this because 339 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: I love it, not because I feel like I have to. 340 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: And I think previously, even though I've always loved my businesses, 341 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 1: there have been different, you know, parts where it's felt 342 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: really hard and it's felt really like I'm pushing a 343 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 1: rock upper hill and it hasn't felt as aligned, which 344 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: is just never. 345 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: A great place. 346 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: But also everyone goes through it. And I just think. 347 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 2: Right now, I feel really really. 348 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: Good in that aspect of yeah, my businesses and really 349 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: like inflow and only doing things I want to do 350 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: and even with partnerships and like my personal brand and 351 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: you know those sorts of things. And I think when 352 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: you're honoring that side, things feel yeah, fun and enjoyable 353 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: and light. I think I went through a couple of 354 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,639 Speaker 1: years of things feeling like quite heavy, So I'm feeling 355 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: a lot of alignment in that. And then also I'm 356 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: feeling just a lot of alignment in motherhood right now, 357 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm in this really beautiful yeah, 358 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: this really beautiful sweet spot, especially with Ivy, Like she's 359 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: a little bit older, she's you know, communicating, we have 360 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 1: this really beautiful connection. Will also, I can still like 361 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,439 Speaker 1: I I went away on the weekend, I had a wedding, 362 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: Like we went Tumbilton Island with you guys, and it's 363 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: like I can go and do those things and I 364 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 1: don't have any mum guilt. But then I still have 365 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: this beautiful relationship with Ivy and it feels yeah, easy 366 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: and flowy, and it definitely has not always felt like that. 367 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, how amazing is that You've got to that point 368 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,919 Speaker 3: of like really feeling like such a nice balance between 369 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 3: all those aspects of your life. 370 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And I think the biggest aspect of that 371 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 1: is like me putting in a lot of boundaries, so 372 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: like really strengthening certain boundaries in my life. So that 373 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: has been a whole other journey. But yeah, that's alignment 374 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: for me right now. 375 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: Well my other because now. 376 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: Tell me what else you're feeling in alignment with. 377 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 2: But well, you know how I was like, there's like 378 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: multiple things. I feel like. 379 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: The other thing is I feel like the content I'm 380 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,239 Speaker 3: sharing and my messaging and like my purpose that I'm 381 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 3: putting out at the moment is really in alignment with 382 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 3: what I want to be kind of known for and 383 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 3: remembered for. And my online purpose is exactly what I'm 384 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 3: putting out. 385 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 2: And that feels really good. 386 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 3: Because again, it's like you go through those ebbs and 387 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 3: flows of like I should be doing this, or I 388 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 3: need to try this because everyone else is doing it whatever, 389 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 3: and I kind of pulled back and was like, no, 390 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 3: what am I here for? Why do I have this? 391 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 3: Why do I have that platform? What is its purpose? 392 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 3: And really honed back into that in this back end 393 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 3: of the year, And it feels really like purposeful and 394 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 3: like it's working and it's helping and it's achieving. 395 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 2: What I wanted to achieve and it feels really good. 396 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 1: Wow, I love that so much. And can I just 397 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: say I can like feel that through the screen of 398 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: my iPhone, like and I've said this to you, you 399 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: know off airs like oh, I'm just I'm vibing the 400 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 1: content it. 401 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels you. 402 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: Know, like so authentic and not that your content has 403 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: ever felt not authentic, because you're like one of the 404 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: most authentic persons I've ever followed. 405 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 2: But you can just tell you've got like. 406 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: A little groove right now and you're like. 407 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 2: You're feeling it, You're feeling yourself. 408 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: It's and when you follow joy, that's when things like 409 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: it just works. 410 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 2: You're like, fuck, like has a time. Yeah, it's fun. 411 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 2: I feel really you. 412 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 3: Know, creative tying new things, and the response has been 413 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 3: really good. 414 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: We feel really good in what we're creating. 415 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 3: It's just it's really fun at the moment, and that's 416 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 3: really nice to not feel like I have to do things. 417 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: It's like I'm doing it because I want you and 418 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: it's fun and it has purpose essentially. Yeah, so that 419 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 2: was my other. 420 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: I love that so much, and yeah, you can you 421 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: can feel that. Well, let's do one last question, and 422 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: if the audience wants to do more, they have to 423 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: get the conversation cards, so you. 424 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 2: Have to invite me back. But that's not where you 425 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 2: were going with that. Me just tell you what and 426 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 2: you're like, I would also love to have you back. 427 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 2: It's so easy. You can do this anytime. I'd like 428 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: to say we'll just do this in person. 429 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: Oh, this one feels really good, This one feels okay. 430 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: We're going in a bit of a direction here, and 431 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: this is going to take a bit of self awareness. 432 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: What belief are you holding onto that is. 433 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 2: Holding you back? 434 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's like I. 435 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 2: Have no believe. 436 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have nothing in through these in. 437 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 2: The course in the project. Yeah, I thought it wasn't. 438 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:26,639 Speaker 2: What belief is holding you back? Yeah? 439 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 3: Okay, I think something that I this is kind of 440 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 3: like a work in progress, but I feel like I'm 441 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 3: coming off the back end, and I've spoken to you 442 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 3: about this multiple times. Is I don't know if it's 443 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 3: a belief, but letting what other people believe of me 444 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 3: and think of me and say about me hold me 445 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 3: back from doing so many things because I'm so worried 446 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 3: about how it's going to be perceived or what people 447 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 3: are going to say and all of those outside voices, 448 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 3: which is the biggest thing that I've worked on this 449 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 3: whole year. 450 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 2: It has been like the biggest shift that I've made. 451 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 3: And the thing that I have really unlearned and am 452 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: trying to get rid of that thought process altogether. And 453 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,199 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm really on the back end, and 454 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 3: I'm very coming out of it. There was a point 455 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 3: there where I was so overthinking every single thing that 456 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 3: I was doing that I was posting, that I was 457 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 3: saying that I was literally how I was existing because 458 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 3: I was just so scared of almost that not cancel culture, 459 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 3: because come on, I'm not that dramatic, but like that thought, you. 460 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 2: Know, I just worrying of how it was going to 461 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 2: be taken. Is this going to be taken out of context? 462 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 2: Should I be doing this? 463 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 3: So I think really letting those external voices and people 464 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 3: that I don't even. 465 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 2: Know have that impact on what I'm doing, what I 466 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,120 Speaker 2: should be doing. 467 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 3: So that was probably the biggest I don't know if 468 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 3: that's a belief, I guess it is. 469 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 2: What do you call that? Yeah, one percent? 470 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 1: Well, it's a belief that you can't be you know yourself. 471 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 2: It's like you have to almost like now or else. 472 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I guess it's it's honestly a belief about 473 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: people pleasing Yeah. 474 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, true. 475 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 3: So that is probably I think that's the biggest thing 476 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,639 Speaker 3: that was holding me back past tens because we're not 477 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 3: there anymore. 478 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 2: We've moved on, no, but we can still be like 479 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 2: on the verge, and that's like, because that's a huge belief. 480 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 1: Like I think we've all got that belief, so it's 481 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: like that's a huge belief to work through. So you 482 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: can still be like mostly over it, but working through it. 483 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: And I think again, it's like just having that self awareness, 484 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: because if you don't even have that self awareness that 485 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: this belief is holding you back, you go straight to 486 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 1: the end result of like, oh, well, I can't do 487 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 1: this because this means this or like you know whatnot, 488 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: so you're still in that. 489 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 2: I can see I was maybe about. 490 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: To post this sort of content or comment this way 491 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: or talk this way in my stories because I am 492 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: scared of this or blah blah blah, and then catching 493 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: yourself and being like, all that was interesting. Am I 494 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 1: doing it for other people? Or do I like? Am 495 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: I doing it for myself? 496 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 2: Definitely? 497 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm much more aware now. When that 498 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 3: feeling comes up, I'm like, no, no, no, take a 499 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 3: step back. What do I want to do? What do 500 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 3: I want to share? Is just going to help someone, 501 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 3: you know, and really like pulling back and sitting in 502 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 3: that and knowing that, like I'm writing the narrative not. 503 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 2: Them, So what's doing Just do the thing, you know. 504 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 3: So I think that's been one of definitely the biggest 505 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 3: things that I've had to overcome that I don't know 506 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 3: if I I mean, I still would have faced it 507 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 3: to some extent, but being online and having that is just. 508 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 2: A whole nother aspect. 509 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 3: If you're a people pleaser, like on such an exorbitant 510 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 3: level that things are under a microscope compared to yeah, 511 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 3: ten years ago when I was doing whatever I was doing, 512 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 3: I feel like it's on a very different scale now, 513 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 3: and it makes you overthink, just to even more of 514 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 3: an extent if you're an overthinker. 515 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 2: So I think doing what we. 516 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 3: Do has really brought that to light a lot more 517 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 3: for me and made it such a massive thing that 518 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 3: I wanted to overcome, because when I sat back at 519 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 3: the end of last year, started this year, and reflected 520 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 3: on last year, I was, like, so many things, so 521 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 3: many months. 522 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 2: My lows were brought on. 523 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 3: By those opinions of other people that I let then 524 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 3: dictate everything else. 525 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 2: I've wasted six months of. 526 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 3: The year because I'm so scared of what might come 527 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 3: of things. So I think that was something that I 528 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 3: really wanted to change this year and rewrite, and I 529 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 3: feel like I've really done it and it feels great. 530 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: Feels really good, And I think even that's what we 531 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: were saying. Feels really good, and that's even what we 532 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: were saying. I think that belief and overcoming that is 533 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: such a testament to the huge shift in you then 534 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: enjoying content again and you're actually doing the content you 535 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: want and like you were saying of I feel really 536 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: aligned in how I show up right now, and it 537 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: comes from such an authentic place where you're like, I'm 538 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 1: not trying to please everyone. I just get to be me, 539 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: and the people who are here for me get to stay, 540 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: and the people who aren't amazing you get. 541 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 2: To follow me exactly totally. See yeah see yeah. So 542 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 2: I think that's definitely a big one. 543 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 3: I think a love like little one that has popped 544 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 3: up recently that I've become aware of in the past 545 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 3: literally sort of a month or two is feeling like 546 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 3: you always need to be productive. You need to be 547 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 3: showing yourself doing things, showing. 548 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 2: That you're working. 549 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 3: God forbid you go to a cafe on a Wednesday 550 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 3: morning for breakfast with girlfriend, because that's that's not productive. 551 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: That's not working. 552 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 3: And that's been really interesting to notice and go, well, 553 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 3: where does that come from for me? 554 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 2: Why do I feel like I. 555 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 3: Always have to be sitting here working doing something work related. 556 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 2: So that's something that's kind of new ish to me. 557 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,959 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this. This is actually something 558 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: I have been delving into also, And I think especially 559 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 1: you know, we're coming off the cusp of like a 560 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: huge era of like hustle, and especially you know in 561 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: what we do, Kate, there was like right at the start, 562 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: it's like this weird stigma with influencers that it's like 563 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: they do no work and they just get free shit 564 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: and they get great heat just like. 565 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 2: Do no work. Yeah, and that's it, and that's all 566 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 2: that goes into it. And so it's. 567 00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: Probably also those that conditioning also, so of you being like, 568 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: oh I've got to you know, prove that I'm actually 569 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: productive or that like I'm a worthy influencer, or you know, 570 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: those like thiefs that come in. It's so it's so 571 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: interesting because like as humans, we are meant to rest, 572 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 1: we are meant to enjoy, and it's like if. 573 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 2: You think about both of us, like I left the. 574 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: Corporate because I was working seven till seven point thirty 575 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: and at night, and I was like I was burnt 576 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: out and I was exhausted, and it just like was 577 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: not sustainable. But it's like we then come into these 578 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: you know, new careers, and it's like it's so innately 579 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: in there that it's like we should be doing do 580 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: do do more and more and more, and yeah, yeah, 581 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: it's an interesting belief. So that's like, that's huge, man. 582 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 3: I think there's this big and I feel like you 583 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 3: feel it too. Is this feeling like you need to 584 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 3: constantly prove yourself like I deserve to be doing what 585 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 3: I'm doing and I deserve the life that I've got, 586 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 3: but you don't need to prove that, but you feel 587 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 3: like you need to prove that and justify the things 588 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 3: that you're doing or that. 589 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 2: You're showing or how you're living. 590 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 3: I'm a good person. I deserve the things. I'm going 591 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 3: to show you how hard I work to get these things, 592 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 3: you know. 593 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's interesting. 594 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: What popped up was remember our conversations about when I 595 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 1: got my cardia bengals on my birthday and how I 596 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: did that story, just talking about like what they meant 597 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: to me and like why one was from Tim and 598 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: why one was from myself. 599 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 2: And this like huge thing, And then I deleted it 600 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 2: because I was. 601 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: Like, I don't have to fucking prove myself and explain myself. 602 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 1: But it's something I've done my whole life as a 603 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 1: human to be like, oh, well, this is why I 604 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: did this, and then I deserve this because of this, 605 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: and it just not being like very unapologetic of like 606 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: this is what I want or this is like what 607 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 1: I got to have, or I have this or I've 608 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: earned this or whatnot. 609 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 2: So that's so interesting. I would say that's one of mine. 610 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 2: Also interesting. 611 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a it's a big one, but I think 612 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 3: recognizing it is really yeah interesting to sit with and go, WHOA, 613 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 3: I've been conditioned without even realizing where this has come from. 614 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: I think one of my beliefs that is holding me 615 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: back is it's kind of similar to that. But it's 616 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: this interesting belief of if I you know, I almost 617 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: have to pick out of the hole. And again, I 618 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 1: feel like I've come a long way with this belief 619 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: that I do feel like it's arching its head up 620 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: a little bit right now, and so I do want 621 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: to go a little bit deeper, because this is what happens, 622 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: is like limiting beliefs come in your life and you 623 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 1: feel like like you're over them, but then they come 624 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: back in and it's not that you haven't done the 625 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: work on them. It's kind of like the same. It's 626 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 1: the saying like new level, new devil. So it's like, yeah, 627 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: you've just gone to a new level, and the same 628 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: belief will kind of pop up, and it's because you 629 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: have to work through on this new level totally. 630 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 3: It's like the same belief but in a bit of 631 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 3: a different way. 632 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: Yes, And for me it's kind of popping up a 633 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 1: little bit lately of the whole being this career driven, 634 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: you know, entrepreneur and having that as my purpose, but 635 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: then also simultaneously having wanting to be a really present 636 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: mum and wanting to have this beautiful family life and 637 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 1: you know, quote unquote having it all, which I know 638 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: I can and I know I already practiced this, but 639 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm noticing the belief coming up of almost if I 640 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: want more career wise right now, I have to sacrifice 641 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: family time and me having to work through and being like, 642 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 1: well no, because I've figured it out to this point 643 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 1: that I didn't have to sacrifice it, so like, let's 644 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: keep working through this. But that's kind of the belief 645 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,800 Speaker 1: popping up right now. It's like it's really interesting because, 646 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: like I said, I have worked through it, but I 647 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: am noticing a whole new level of it when I'm 648 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 1: actually having to reaffirm that's like, no, I get to 649 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: have my career and my purpose while having this really beautiful, 650 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 1: beautiful relationship with my husband and baby, Like I get 651 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: to do both. 652 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's probably as things, I think business wise, 653 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 3: like as things are popping up for you and everything 654 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 3: is growing, obviously that's going to present in a new 655 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 3: way to what it would a year ago, like circumstances 656 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 3: of change. So it's kind of reworking that to your 657 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 3: on you I guess lifestyle, Like what's happening now, the 658 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 3: way you deal with it is going to be different 659 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 3: to what you would have. So it's kind of figuring 660 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 3: that out all over again, just on a new level. 661 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, And like really little things like I started 662 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 1: to realize my mornings with Ivy is actually my favorite 663 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 1: time of the day. She's just like she's so happy 664 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 1: and she's so chill, and like, you know, we have 665 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: breakfast together and we do drawings, and it's really interesting 666 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 1: because previously. 667 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 2: I know, it's so cute, she's she's honestly the best. 668 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 2: Previously I was sorry, it's so cute, dude, Like I 669 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 2: can't deal with her. She's soda. The hair is hairing. 670 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 3: The hair is like stunning, it's amazing. It's like a 671 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 3: lion's man. It's amazing. 672 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: No, I'm quite jealous anyway, Sorry, sorry, continue, Yes, I'm. 673 00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 2: Really enjoying my mornings. 674 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:04,359 Speaker 1: And it's interesting because previously I would go straight to work. 675 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 1: I do early Jim and then go straight to work. 676 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,319 Speaker 1: I wouldn't really see her in the mornings, and we'd 677 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: spend our afternoons together. But now I'm like, I actually 678 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: want to have a slower morning, and I still do 679 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: my gym, but then I come back home and I 680 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,920 Speaker 1: want to have this time with her. So I basically 681 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: had to like rework my whole work schedule and I 682 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: maybe have a tiny bit less time, but still be like, no, 683 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: I actually get to work this in and still you know, 684 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 1: do my work and do you know, work on my career, 685 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: and I get to fit both in and I yeah, 686 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,880 Speaker 1: I get to rework it and it gets to be okay, 687 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 1: rather than this thing of like, oh, I've just like 688 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,440 Speaker 1: messed up my routine or whatnot. So it's like it 689 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 1: comes in different moments like that where I really have 690 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 1: to challenge myself and be like, well, what do I want, Like, 691 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: what do I want to believe? And what do I want. 692 00:37:58,440 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 2: To buy into? 693 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: Because of course I want to buy into. I can 694 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: have it all and I can work both in. But 695 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,800 Speaker 1: it's just really interesting how it has been presenting itself. 696 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I guess it's that whole almost like your 697 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 3: priorities are going to always. 698 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 2: Kind of like be the same. Obviously, you're going to 699 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 2: have that. 700 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 3: Priority of ivy and family and whatever, but it's working 701 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,799 Speaker 3: that around everything else that's happening in your life so 702 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 3: that it all feels good that you don't feel like 703 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 3: you're doing this but at the cost of what exactly, 704 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 3: So you can have all those things and they can 705 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 3: all thrive and they can all be amazing exactly. It's 706 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 3: figuring out how that looks for you and not feeling 707 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 3: bad that if that looks like what it looks like 708 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,879 Speaker 3: for you, and having that time and not starting work 709 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 3: till ten whatever is not something to be ashamed of Yeah, 710 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 3: that's fine and that's what works for me, and I 711 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 3: can have it all and that's how I. 712 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: Have it all exactly, and that has been coming up 713 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 1: a lot lately. 714 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's that's. 715 00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: Kind of that's my current limiting belief love that I'm Yeah, 716 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 1: it's it's cool to like talk about it because even 717 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 1: as I'm talking to you, I feel like I'm processing 718 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: it more in my brain and I'm like, yes, yes, 719 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: I get to have it all. 720 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I feel like that's me with that, like 721 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 3: not having to prove yourself and work all the time. 722 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to just stop. What am I like? 723 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 2: I can have whatever? I know it really, it's not 724 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 2: justifying everything I know it really. 725 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: It's that's the interesting thing is like when you really 726 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 1: think about it, it's like why, yeah, like why am 727 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: I even feeling the need to prove myself? I have 728 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 1: things in a certain way? And that's what That's literally 729 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 1: just why I love having this conversations because I'm like, 730 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: I'll often have moments I'm like, oh yeah, because like 731 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 1: when you're by yourself, it's a little bit harder to unpack, 732 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: and then you talk to someone and you're. 733 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 2: Like, oh, yeah, that makes a lot of sense. 734 00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:01,280 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we have the same experiences f these cards, 735 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:02,879 Speaker 3: the cards bringing it out. 736 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 2: You see. 737 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,960 Speaker 1: Hey, that was so much fun. I felt like we 738 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: got so deep so fast, and I feel like these 739 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,040 Speaker 1: are a lot of the topics that we've probably had 740 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:14,880 Speaker 1: conversations about before, but we've really just like able. 741 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 2: To get to a new layer. 742 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,319 Speaker 1: And like I said, honestly, I think a lot of that. 743 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 1: It just helped me process some things. 744 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 3: Oh I love that, and I love that this is 745 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 3: a space you hold like I don't speak about this 746 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 3: stuff really online or with people online, or I don't 747 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 3: feel like I have, I guess, an outlet for these 748 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 3: things online and publicly. 749 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 2: So it's really nice to have a space that feels 750 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 2: good to talk about whatever. You know. You're rich, You're space, 751 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 2: I'm a safe place. I love it. 752 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 1: I think so many people will love listening to this 753 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,240 Speaker 1: and just like hearing that deeper insight because they think 754 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: what we tend to do as humans is think no 755 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:03,239 Speaker 1: one else has the problems we have and we're like, 756 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,879 Speaker 1: it's just me, I'm dealing with this, but so many people, Yeah, 757 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: it's my share, and I think so many people would 758 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: be able to listen and resonate. So thank you so 759 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,360 Speaker 1: much for opening up so much and chatting to us 760 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,800 Speaker 1: and sharing it all. 761 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 3: If you want to part two, just let me know. 762 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 3: I've got plenty more where that came from. 763 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,720 Speaker 2: There's a lot to get into. Okay. 764 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 1: Often when me and we'll take these to date night, 765 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 1: you have to take these to date night with Nick. 766 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 1: When we do it, we literally pull two and then 767 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,839 Speaker 1: we just like end up on these other conversations like, oh. 768 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 2: We've already done two cards, which I love, desert, what 769 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:52,080 Speaker 2: are we doing? We God, the night is over? Yeah, amazing, No, 770 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 2: I love it. It's so fun. 771 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,680 Speaker 3: So yeah, anytime people are like, no, we don't want 772 00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:58,560 Speaker 3: her anymore. 773 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 2: Well, you've got to pull mic set up so we're 774 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 2: ready to go. 775 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 3: Literally, this is for you, so honestly, I'll whip it 776 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 3: out whenever you want. 777 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,439 Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with you. Well, thank you so much, my love. 778 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,879 Speaker 2: I appreciate it, and I hope you guys enjoyed this deep, 779 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 2: deep conversation. Yeah, thank you so much for having me. 780 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of 781 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and 782 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 1: want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer 783 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 1: dot podcast, and join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise 784 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 1: and Concer podcast community. We're an independent podcast and we 785 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: have a small team, so we do appreciate your time 786 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 1: and support. 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