1 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 1: Welcome to How I Work, a show about the tactics 2 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: used by the world's most successful people to get so 3 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: much out of their day. I'm your host, doctor Amantha Imba. 4 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm an organizational psychologist, the founder of behavioral science consultancy Inventium, 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: and I'm obsessed with finding ways to optimize my work day. Now, 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: today's episode is a slightly unusual one because it features 7 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: me as the guest. So a few weeks ago, Inventium, 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: my behavioral science consultancy, decided to put on and Ask 9 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: Me Anything webinar all on the topic of working at 10 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: home and really thriving at home. So in this episode 11 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: you'll hear one of my teammates, Charlotte Rush, who is 12 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: a fellow organizational psychologist, essentially interview me about my tips 13 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: and advice for working from home and being super productive 14 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: and also super happy. So all the questions that we 15 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: answered were sent in by the gosh, it was almost 16 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: eight hundred people that registered for the webinar, so we 17 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: received a ton of questions and we picked about thirty 18 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: of them or so to answer. So we cover all 19 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: sorts of topics from how do you balance working and homeschooling, 20 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: what's the ideal home office set up, How do you 21 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: stretch your day most effectively all sorts of things? How 22 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: do you remain connected with coworkers? So I hope you 23 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: like this episode. The sound quality is might not be 24 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: as good as you normally expect on this show, but 25 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: my dad, who does all the sound engineering for How 26 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: I Work, has certainly fixed things up so it should 27 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: be sounding not too bad. So I hope you enjoy 28 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: this episode and get some useful tips to help your 29 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: work better at home. And on that note, over to 30 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: me about how I work from home via the Ask 31 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: Me Anything webinar. 32 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 2: Good morning everyone, Welcome to today's Ask Me Anything webinar, 33 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: which is dedicated solely to the topic of working from home, 34 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: which hopefully you guys are all currently doing. So for 35 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 2: those of you who don't know me, my name is 36 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: Charlotte and I am Inventium's head of Learning, and I'm 37 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 2: dialing in from my office in Sydney. And we've also 38 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: got Amantha dialing in from Melbourne and Carrie as well, 39 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 2: who should maybe be a familiar name for all of 40 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: you guys as well. So we've had over seven hundred 41 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: people register for this webinar, which is an amazing result. 42 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: So to all of you, thank you and welcome along. 43 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 2: So if any of you are not familiar with Amantha's work, 44 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: she is, of course the founder of Inventium. She's also 45 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 2: the creator of the number one ranking business podcast How 46 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: I Work, where she interviews some of the world's leading 47 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: innovators about their habits, rituals, and strategies for structuring their day. 48 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 2: She's also an organizational psychologist and from my experience working 49 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 2: with her over the last four years, she's one of 50 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: the most productive people I have ever met. So she's 51 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: not only obsessed with learning about the latest research in 52 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 2: the area of productivity, habits, and motivation, she's also really 53 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 2: obsessed with actually putting that research into action and testing 54 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 2: it out for herself. So we're going to get the 55 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: value and the benefit of that in. 56 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: This next hour. 57 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: So I'm really happy today to be the voice of 58 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: you guys, the people who have submitted lots and lots 59 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: of questions for us. We've had lots of questions and 60 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: some of them were overlapping, and so what we've done 61 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 2: is we've created seven themes that we will be covering 62 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 2: over the next hour, and we'll answer about three or 63 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 2: four questions for each theme. So the themes are structure 64 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: and rituals, energy and mental health, focus and distractions, Social connections, 65 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: managing others and virtual meetings, and finally digital tools. So 66 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: for those of you who like structure, hopefully that helps, 67 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: and for those of you who don't like structure, then 68 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: just ignore evens at that. So Kerry is here to 69 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: help us if there are any technical difficulties, So if 70 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: there are, just message her in the chat box and 71 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: she'll hopefully be able to help you out. And if 72 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: you also have any other questions that pop up throughout 73 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 2: the webinar jot them down, feel free to shoot an 74 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 2: email to Amantha or I Afterwards. We won't actually be 75 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: having a Q and A section at the end of 76 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 2: this given that the whole webinar is dedicated to answering 77 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: your questions. So let's get started before I get into 78 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: the listener questions. Amantha or A as I call you, 79 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 2: it seems Amantha. So most of us are now at 80 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 2: around six weeks working from home full time. So how 81 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: have you found it? 82 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 3: I've loved it. That was so bizarre getting introduced by Utah, 83 00:04:54,640 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 3: that was so formal. Anyway, I'm love like as an 84 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 3: introverted kind of bookworm, this is my heaven. So I'm 85 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: really loving it. And interestingly, I was reading some research 86 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 3: this morning about how to improve connection in the virtual environment, 87 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 3: and one of the things that you can do is 88 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 3: you can bring in more of yourself, like more personal 89 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 3: stuff into the interaction, and that helps to humanize you 90 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 3: and therefore improve your relationships with the people that you're 91 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 3: speaking to. So I had been before I read that research. 92 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 3: I was fully intending to have a very professional setup, 93 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: you know, like green screen in the background, fancy you know, 94 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 3: image on that. But I'm like, nat stuff it. I'm 95 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 3: doing it from my kitchen and here I am in 96 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 3: my kitchen with some dirty dishes in the background. So 97 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 3: hopefully that completely humanizes me. 98 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the whiteboard in the background also really humanizes 99 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: you as well. 100 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, And you know what, that's not even a 101 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 3: work whiteboard. It's for my daughter Frankie school schedule when 102 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 3: I have her fifty percent of the time. So there 103 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: we go. 104 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 2: And so obviously you've been kind of thriving this sort 105 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: of environment. What was your experience just for those who 106 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: might not know, what was your kind of experience pre 107 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: COVID in terms of how much you worked from home 108 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: or how much you worked remotely. 109 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I would work from home, I reckon a 110 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 3: couple of days a week. I used to travel intensively 111 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 3: pre COVID, so I'd typically be on a plane once 112 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: a week, once a fortnight. I'm loving not doing any travel. 113 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 3: That feels like a real luxury to me. And then 114 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: I'd be in the office one or two days a 115 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 3: week to connect with all of all of you guys, 116 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 3: all of the team. 117 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah great, all right, so let's get into our first 118 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: listeners question. And I also will call out if any 119 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 2: of the listeners have listed their name with their question 120 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: or call that out as well, but most of them 121 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 2: are anonymous. So the first one is high man, I'm 122 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: keen to hear your advice on how to best structure 123 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: your day when working from home and what elements make 124 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: for an ideal physical working space. 125 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: Cool, So let's tackle the Haber structure your day first. 126 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 3: The best thing that you can do is understand what 127 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: is your chronotype. So, if you haven't heard of the 128 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 3: term chronotype, chronotype is basically a whole area of research 129 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: around circadian rhythms and basically in Layman's terms, it's over 130 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 3: a twenty four hour sleep wake cycle. Where are your 131 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: peaks of energy and also where are the dips in 132 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 3: terms of low energy. So there are three basic categories 133 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 3: of chronotypes. There are people that are larks, which are 134 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 3: about somewhere between sort of fifteen to seventeen percent of 135 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 3: the population. These are people that like bounce out of 136 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 3: bed at five point thirty in the morning, five in 137 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 3: the morning without an alarm. They are deeply irritating to 138 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: owls who are at the other end of the spectrum. 139 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: That's about twenty percent of the population, people who come 140 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 3: to life at night. Then the rest of us are middlebirds, 141 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: and so typically we have the lights and middlebirds we 142 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 3: have best like sort of peak brain power a couple 143 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: of hours after we're fully awake, so you know, the 144 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: majority of the working population that's between about nine to 145 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 3: twelve hours of the opposite. We then dip after lunch 146 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: and then we have a rebound in the late afternoon 147 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 3: and then just reverse that for hours. So what I 148 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 3: would say is understand what your chronotype is if you 149 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 3: google morning, this evening, this questionnaire. That's one of the 150 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 3: scientifically validated tests that's free online to understand what you 151 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 3: are and structure your day accordingly, so you're doing the 152 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 3: heavy duty lifting when is the right time for your chronotype, 153 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: and doing sort of more easier work when you're having 154 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 3: that dip. In terms of the elements of a physical 155 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 3: working space, look a couple of things here. Firstly, if 156 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 3: you're not lucky enough to be able to see some 157 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: grass or trees or some kind of greenery from maybe 158 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 3: a window that exists from wherever your home office is 159 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 3: located or set up is located, bring in a plot. 160 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 3: So there's been interesting research that has found when people 161 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 3: have greenery in their working space, productivity increases by about 162 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 3: fifteen percent. So that's a really easy hack. Like, you know, 163 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 3: I think coals sell pot plants. I'm sure they do. 164 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 3: So you know, Bunnings are they still open? Yeah, I 165 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 3: think they are, So you know, grab a plant and 166 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 3: something else that I've certainly been doing that. There's certainly 167 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 3: affirmative evidence behind is anchoring certain parts of your home 168 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 3: to certain types of work. So where I am at 169 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 3: the moment in my home, which is kind of like 170 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: in the kitchen, living area, the sort of dining table, 171 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 3: this is where I spend my morning's doing deep work, 172 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 3: it's kind of really nice. The sun's coming in on 173 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 3: sunny days and it's nice and light and bright, and 174 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: I just kind of get stuck into deep work. Then 175 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 3: I find that if I'm doing creative work, for example, 176 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 3: I'll generally move to the couch and I'll do creative 177 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 3: work on the couch sort of like just you know, 178 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: to me, it signals, oh, okay, it's time for some 179 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: looser thinking. And then for phone meetings, for example, I 180 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 3: generally like do mini laps of the house just so 181 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm actually getting up out of my chair and you know, 182 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 3: if I don't need to be taking notes, then that 183 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: there's sort of some of the rhythms that I've gotten into. 184 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 3: So anchoring certain types of locations for certain work is 185 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 3: really helpable thing today, and. 186 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 2: I find that it's really a great way to set 187 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 2: up those kind of cues and habits to guide you 188 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: in terms of putting some structure on your day. I mean, 189 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: I definitely do the same thing in the sense that 190 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 2: when I'm reading research or reviewing the literature, I like 191 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:31,839 Speaker 2: to sit out on the couch. But absolutely when I'm 192 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: kind of doing most of my other work, I'm sitting 193 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: at my desk. 194 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, all. 195 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: Right, let's move into the next question, which is still 196 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: within the category of structure and rituals. So this listener 197 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: or followers she or he has asked my diary has 198 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: gone nuts all of a sudden, My overflowing calendar has 199 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: blown out in the new working from home environment. In addition, 200 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 2: I'm trying to remotely manage an existing team and onboard 201 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 2: new team members. Virtually. I like to think I'm a 202 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: pretty organ as person and experienced lead up, and I'm 203 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: finding with all that I don't get clearer. I think 204 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 2: and plan and seem to be in constant reactive mode. 205 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 2: Your tips on how to better get the balance would 206 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 2: be hugely helpful. 207 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 3: Sure, so I think on this, like, firstly, you just 208 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 3: have to reset your expectations. Like I think this is 209 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 3: a time where if you're expecting to get the same 210 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 3: amount of work done as you did pre COVID, that's 211 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 3: quite flawed. I feel like psychological issues aside, because I 212 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: think that mental wellbeing is a huge contributor to productivity 213 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 3: or lack thereof. And you know, I think people are 214 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 3: you know, sort of different ends of the spectrum there. 215 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 3: You know, whether you are homeschooling or not has a 216 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 3: really big impact as well in terms of your time 217 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 3: and what you can expect to do. So I think, firstly, 218 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 3: just reset your expectations, check in with yourself, and go 219 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 3: what's actually realistic. I also think, you know, for those 220 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 3: that are saying, look, I'm working longer hours and so forth, 221 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 3: at the moment I would ask, are you working one 222 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 3: hundred percent efficiency efficiently one hundred percent of the time, 223 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 3: I think for most people the answer is absolutely not. 224 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 3: And you know, I definitely find when I'm in a 225 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: more reactive mode of work, I work nowhere near as 226 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 3: productively compared to when I'm feeling proactive and in control 227 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 3: of my day and time. And I think, look, I 228 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 3: do plug my podcast whenever I get the chance, so 229 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 3: I will plug it out. An interview that's going live 230 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 3: on Thursdays with Andrew Barnes, who is one of the 231 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 3: co founders of Perpetual Guardian, who's the firm that's famous 232 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 3: for creating the four day working week, and so we 233 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 3: have a chat about this idea that you know, where 234 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 3: that came from for him is that research has shown 235 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 3: that we're actually only productive for two point five hours 236 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 3: a day and what the implications are, and you know 237 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 3: how he's curtailed the five day week into four days, 238 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 3: which I think is a really interesting interview for people 239 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: that are on this webinar thinking I just don't have 240 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 3: time to get everything done. I actually think that you do. 241 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 3: I think that it's about thinking about time and using 242 00:12:58,640 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: your time differently. 243 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, Okay, So the next question is from David 244 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 2: and he says six weeks working from home now feels 245 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,319 Speaker 2: like one incredibly long day, where each day is now 246 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: blending into each other. Working hours are longer, as the 247 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: time I drive to work or home has now turned 248 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 2: into worktime. My hour breaks I usually take an ow 249 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 2: fifteen minute breaks of grabbing food whilst checking emails. Any 250 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: suggestions on breaking up the day. 251 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I think, you know, I do think that 252 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 3: nine to five is very helpful for most people right now. Again, 253 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: I think that we have to challenge a lot of 254 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 3: these in built assumptions that we previously had pre COVID. 255 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 3: For me, if I talk about my schedule, I've got 256 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 3: my daughter Frankie fifty percent of the time, and I 257 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 3: know that when I've got Frankie, my productivity is going 258 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 3: to be very different to when I don't have her. 259 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 3: She's currently doing year one. I'm very fortunate in then 260 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 3: I've got the support of a nanny to help with 261 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 3: homeschooling most of the time. But I know that if 262 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 3: I'm in charge of homeschooling, I just need to completely 263 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 3: give up any expectation that work will get done during 264 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 3: those hours. So then, by the same token, like I 265 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 3: used to try to avoid working on weekends because I 266 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 3: found out that was an unhelpful habit, but now I 267 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 3: actually find look, on every second weekend where I don't 268 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 3: have Frankie, that's actually a really helpful habit. I can 269 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 3: knock out two or three hours of deep work and 270 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 3: make some really good progress that makes me feel good 271 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 3: about how I'm using my time, when previously I haven't 272 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 3: done that. So I don't think that rules like nine 273 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: to five are particularly helpful right now, and certainly they 274 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 3: would not be serving me. I've broken a lot of 275 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 3: rules that I previously had. 276 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I guess one of the questions that I 277 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: noticed in a few of the questions that came through 278 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 2: were people talking about working in professional services where you're 279 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: needing to record billable hours and this still being an 280 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: important metric, and it's obviously highly scrutinized at the moment, 281 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: especially with virtual teams and managers and leaders feeling like 282 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: they need to see some sort of productivity from their 283 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: team if they can't physically see them. So what would 284 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 2: you recommend to organizations that are thinking about how to 285 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: really validly measure productivity. 286 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 3: I think that it's really challenging and that organizations really 287 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: need to have different expectations around what is feasible now, 288 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: particularly for working parents. Like, for example, we do a 289 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 3: lot of work with law firms, so you know, we've 290 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 3: worked with literally hundreds of different lawyers who are you know, 291 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 3: struggling with this kind of thing. I've spoken to a 292 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 3: lot of them personally that are parents, and you know, 293 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 3: it's a juggling act, and I just think it's yes, 294 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 3: firms have to operate and ideally be profitable, but it's 295 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 3: incredibly unhelpful to have the same expectations that you had previously. 296 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: If you've got say two working parents, and let's say 297 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 3: they're both in professional services and they're juggling kids between them, 298 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 3: I just think expectations need to change. Just treat people 299 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 3: like humans rather than machines that need to log you know, 300 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 3: seven and a half eight hours available time a day. 301 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 3: I just think that's very unfair. 302 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. And the approach that we've always taken and 303 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 2: invent him is thinking about because we've worked remotely and 304 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 2: flexibly forever, has really been focused on the output and 305 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 2: thinking about you know what, if I get all the 306 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: things that I need to get done for my clients, 307 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 2: if I'm achieving my goals, then it doesn't matter if 308 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 2: I take an afternoon walk, it doesn't matter if I 309 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 2: go out and have lunch with my mom, as long 310 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: as I'm kind of achieving those outcomes exactly. 311 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 3: And that's very normal for inventing. Like if you know, 312 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 3: if people could see our diaries, it's quite normal for 313 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 3: someone to have go for a run or Pilaratei's or 314 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 3: something like that actually booked as a meeting in the diary, 315 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 3: you know, which I personally love because it's like, oh, 316 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 3: that's good. I know that they're kind of, you know, 317 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 3: looking after their physical health and mental health during the day. 318 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 3: I also know that, you know, some of theks in 319 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 3: the team start work ridiculously early, like at five or 320 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 3: six in the morning, So please go for a round 321 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 3: at lunch time, you know, otherwise you'll burn out. 322 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well on that point, let's move into our 323 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 2: second category for this session, which is all about energy, 324 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 2: motivation and also also mental health. So this is a 325 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 2: question that asks references a man called Darren Hill from 326 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 2: an organization called Pragmatic Thinking. They're a behavior and motivation 327 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 2: strategy company, and apparently he mentioned that Tuesday, fourteenth April 328 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 2: is the beginning of a motivational arm Again, so what 329 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 2: strategies do you have to keep people motivated and productive 330 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: when everyone is working remotely? 331 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 3: I just think, first and foremost, like, just be a 332 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 3: human about it and expect other people to respond as 333 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 3: humans as well. People are not machines. Productivity will wane 334 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 3: during this time. People are coping in really really different ways. 335 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 3: Like some people, you know, like me, I feel like, 336 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 3: oh man, if I never see an office again or 337 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 3: a plane, I'll be quite happy that I feel now. 338 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 3: But you know, other people, like particularly more extroverted people, 339 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 3: just you know, it's really hard mentally. So I just think, 340 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 3: you know, people are different. You have to see people 341 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 3: as individuals and the humans that they are, check in 342 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: with them, adjust your expectations and look some advice I 343 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 3: got from Scott Anthony, who's the former managing partner of 344 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 3: Ino Sight, which is our strategic partner in the world 345 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 3: of innovation. I was talking about a particular project with 346 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 3: him and we're just sort of talking about leadership, and 347 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 3: he said, you know, now is the time to lead 348 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 3: with I think the phrase of something like realistic optimism. 349 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 3: So you know, I think like, as a leader, I 350 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 3: think that's really important. There is no point leading with. 351 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 2: Doom and gloom. 352 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 3: But there's also no point in being completely unrealistic because 353 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 3: that doesn't serve anyone either. So I think for me, 354 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 3: like when I think about how I'm trying to, you know, 355 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 3: be a leader, not that I'm an official manager or 356 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 3: anything like that, I just think about realistic optimism is 357 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 3: very helpful right now. 358 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 2: Okay, And another question is I've never experienced a lack 359 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: of motivation like I am now. I've tried to shake 360 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 2: it off, but I'm finding it really difficult. Do you 361 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 2: have any tips And what about readjusting post lockdown. I 362 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: can imagine some employees might find it dawting getting back 363 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 2: to the real world. 364 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think firstly, now is a really good 365 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 3: time to refocus on your goals and why they matter 366 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 3: to you. Like, if you're just kind of like almost 367 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 3: like stuck on the hamster wheel and not actually taking 368 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 3: time to reflect about what matters to you and why 369 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 3: you do what you do, then I think it's really 370 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 3: easy for motivation to wane. So I think, like, do 371 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: a deliberate check in with yourself and go, what are 372 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 3: my goals? What matters to me right now? Hopefully that 373 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 3: aligns with your job right now that you're in and 374 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 3: kind of going like, you know, is this what I 375 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 3: actually want to be doing, and you know, really sort 376 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 3: of checking in on the why and if there is 377 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 3: a mismatch, I mean, that's possibly a helpful conversation to 378 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 3: have with your manager. Although you know, given the economic situation, 379 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: there might not be that myroom to move, but maybe 380 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 3: there is. And I also just wanted to cite some 381 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 3: research from the Mayo Clinic that found that doctors who 382 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 3: spend just twenty percent of their time doing work that 383 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: they love, like just twenty percent, that's one day a 384 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 3: week doing work that they love, have a far lower 385 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 3: risk of burnout than you know, doctors that drop below 386 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 3: that twenty percent mark. So I think also just having 387 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 3: those realistic expectations that yeah, like a lot of the time, 388 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 3: you might not love what you do, but it doesn't 389 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 3: actually matter unless it drops below that twenty percent. Like 390 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 3: the benefits of going you know, above that twenty percent 391 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 3: are fairly sort of negligible. The second part of that question, 392 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,239 Speaker 3: you know, in terms of transitioning back, Yeah, it's going 393 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 3: to be weird, and my advice is make it gradual 394 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 3: and make it largely voluntary in terms of how people 395 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 3: choose to transition back. 396 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 2: And I think coming back to that that piece around 397 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 2: doing work that you love, I think it's also useful 398 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 2: to think about what you're doing outside out of work 399 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 2: in terms of thinking about what you do at the 400 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 2: end of the workday and how that impacts your engagement, 401 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 2: your motivation the next day, and doing something that gives 402 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 2: you a sense of mastery is really important for helping 403 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 2: with recovery the next day at work. So whether that 404 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: is you know, learning a language or learning to salsa 405 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 2: like I literally did like a salsa class in my 406 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 2: bedroom on Friday night, felt really engaged with it. But yeah, 407 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: thinking about what can you do to you know, after 408 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 2: work to create that separation and make sure that you're 409 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 2: coming back to work the next day with the right 410 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 2: kind of mindset. All right, So let's move into our 411 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: next category, which is which was a very popular character category. 412 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 2: It was talking all about focus and distractions, and obviously 413 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 2: a big distraction that many people have is the challenge 414 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 2: of parenting at the moment. So there are a few 415 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 2: questions about that. But the first question is from a 416 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 2: person that asked, how do you let people know that 417 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 2: you are doing deep work so that they don't jabber 418 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 2: or call you, especially your manager jobba. 419 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 3: I haven't heard that word in a word, Thank you 420 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 3: for whoever sent that in. So firstly, look, the easiest 421 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 3: thing to do is just set an email auto responder. 422 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 3: I actually used to have a permanent email auto responder 423 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: just saying you're not going to hear from me before 424 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 3: lunch because I'm deep working. I've since deleted that because 425 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 3: I figure people that email me frequently that's probably a 426 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 3: little bit irritating. And the reality is some mornings I'm 427 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 3: not deep working. I'm you know, doing shallow work, but 428 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 3: where it's you know, a high priority to what I 429 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 3: need to be working on at the moment. But I 430 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 3: think an email auto responder is the easiest thing, or 431 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 3: you know, go old school, like just like send people 432 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 3: a text message going, hey, just let you know I'm 433 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 3: offline for the next hour or two. So I don't 434 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 3: think we need like a complex solution there. Just keep 435 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 3: it simple, just communicate. 436 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: And I is also putting it in your diary if 437 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 2: people do have that view of your diary. 438 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 3: Definitely all right. 439 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 2: Next question, I have young kids, a five year old 440 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 2: and a one and a half year old at home, 441 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 2: and they can get super excited when I bring out 442 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: the laptop for work. I can barely focus on my 443 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,959 Speaker 2: task with them. There any suggestion on how you manage 444 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 2: your working from home days with your little girl? 445 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I kind of I alluded to that before. 446 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 3: I think, firstly, you have to adjust your expectations, like 447 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 3: I remember my first experience with homeschooling during this whole period, 448 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 3: and I just felt completely demoralized at the end of it. 449 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 3: Like I'm a close friend of mine has four kids, 450 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 3: four school aged kids, all under twelve, and my first 451 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 3: thought was, how is she not like crawled up in 452 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 3: the fetal position on the four bawling her eyes out 453 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 3: twenty four or seven. I've just got one six year 454 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 3: old and I'm not coping. So I think, like adjust 455 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 3: your expectations. That has to be the first thing. If 456 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 3: you are homeschooling, and let's just say you're taking the 457 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 3: morning shift, like you know, if you've got a partner 458 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: that's helping you and you're a morning shift, it's like 459 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 3: you're not getting work done then, So just set really 460 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 3: clear expectations for yourself in that way, you know you're 461 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 3: not going to like feel like a failure. But also 462 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 3: change your hours. Like I said, you know, I feel 463 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 3: quite comfortable doing work on the weekends where I don't 464 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 3: have Frankie because you know, I get like a huge 465 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: sense of satisfaction from the progress I can make and 466 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 3: just you know, I'm just realistic about what I can 467 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 3: achieve and when I can achieve it. And look, just 468 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,640 Speaker 3: one other thing for parents, particularly where you can tag 469 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 3: team with your partner, it's got to be about working 470 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 3: in sprints. So if you can work in sixty to 471 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: ninety minute sprints, that's the natural kind of energy rhythm 472 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 3: of the brain. Work in sprints, you know, have sixty 473 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,719 Speaker 3: minutes where you can focus and your partner's in charge. 474 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 3: You know, assuming that you're not a single parent, you know, 475 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 3: then solp it over. Okay. 476 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 2: And another question related to having a family at home. 477 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: I have a young family stuck at home in a 478 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 2: small house. Interruptions and distractions are constant. How can I 479 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 2: tune out the background noise and concentrate on the task 480 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 2: at hand When I do get interrupted, how can I 481 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,719 Speaker 2: quickly get back into a flow state. 482 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, so again I'd say work in sprints. That's very helpful. 483 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 3: Noise canceling headphones, but like the really big ones that 484 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,199 Speaker 3: signal don't like mess with me now, I think can 485 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 3: be very helpful as well, just as a visual symbol 486 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 3: for kids who might not get the fact that, you know, 487 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 3: it's not ideal when they interrupt mum or dad working, 488 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 3: So just kind of, you know, having a conversation with 489 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 3: them about that. And I think, look wherever possible. Something 490 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 3: I try to do, particularly with my writing work, where 491 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 3: if I'm interrupted from writing, I find it very hard 492 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 3: to get back into the zone is to do what 493 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 3: I've heard people refer to as park on a downhill slope. 494 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 3: So actually, don't try to get to the end of 495 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 3: Like let's use writing as an analogy. Don't try to 496 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 3: get to the end of the paragraph that you're writing 497 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 3: or the end of the article, actually stop midway through 498 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 3: a sentence. So then it becomes really easy to pick 499 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 3: back up and get back into flow. It feels very 500 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 3: unnatural to do, but it's very very helpful. 501 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 502 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 3: It actually reminds me of a tip that I heard 503 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 3: recently from a guest on the podcast, Oliver Berkman, who's 504 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 3: a columnist for The Guardian and a writer, and something 505 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 3: that he does to get himself into flow is that 506 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 3: he will, and again this is writing, but you know 507 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 3: you can apply it to your own situation. He will 508 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 3: type out a first draft of an article and then 509 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 3: to get into flow and basically to improve on the 510 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 3: first version, he will re type that article into his 511 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 3: computer and just the act of like typing where you're 512 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 3: kind of you know, not like struggling with writer's block 513 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 3: or second guessing yourself or anything like that. He said, 514 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 3: it's a great way to just get back into flow 515 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 3: really easily. So, you know, folks that are listening, you've 516 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,120 Speaker 3: all got different jobs, you know, I guess, like, think 517 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,199 Speaker 3: about what's your version of that for the task that 518 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 3: you do. 519 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: I like that that's a really neat idea. I'm going 520 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 2: to try that. And I think one thing that I've 521 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 2: used is applying the five minute rule, where it's just like, okay, 522 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 2: you distract, need to get back into something, kind of 523 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 2: just saying to yourself, I'm just going to work on 524 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 2: it for five minutes, and then you're kind of free 525 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 2: to give up after five minutes. But most of the time, 526 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 2: once you get into it, you're all good and you're 527 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 2: on your way. 528 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 3: Love that strategy, all right. 529 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 2: So let's move into the next category, which is all 530 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,719 Speaker 2: about social connections and in particular thinking about how you 531 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 2: maintain connections with your team. This is a question from Divina, 532 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 2: and she says, at work, I walk the floors and 533 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: regularly catch up with people. However, now I'm working from home, 534 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 2: I speak to no one outside of my immediate team, 535 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 2: as I don't think I have enough of a reason 536 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: to call them or make other contact. How do we 537 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 2: keep our networks alive during this time of working from 538 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: home when we don't just see each other like we 539 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 2: used to at the photocopier, in the lunchroom and so on. 540 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 3: So look, I think what's really important, Like I am 541 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 3: not a fan of small talk or social chit chat 542 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 3: at the beginning of readers. I just want to get 543 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 3: straight into it. That is my official personality. Not helpful 544 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 3: the moment, so really important that we do just do 545 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,400 Speaker 3: that kind of check in at the beginning of meetings. 546 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 3: But and again, like I was doing some research, Sooshah 547 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 3: and I are hosting a masterclass in a few weeks 548 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 3: time all about virtual meetings. Virtual yeah, virtual meetings, zoom meetings, 549 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 3: all that kind of thing. So I was sort of 550 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 3: getting stuck into the research this morning, and I was 551 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 3: reading some research from a psyche professor at the University 552 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 3: of Michigan who is saying, the most unhelpful question that 553 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 3: you can ask to like, you know, ignite that social 554 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 3: chit chat is how are you doing? Which is how 555 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 3: everyone is starting their meetings right now. Like that's a 556 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,959 Speaker 3: really useless question when you think about it. It's not 557 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 3: really sort of tapping into anything specific. How do your answer? Oh, yeah, 558 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 3: it's going all right, you know, how you doing? Yeah? Okay, 559 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: And then we get stuck into it. So instead like 560 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 3: pick something that is going to at least a more 561 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 3: interesting response, So like you know, what's like what's been 562 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 3: in like an unexpected upside of your week or you know, 563 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 3: what if you been enjoying most about working from home 564 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 3: this week or something like that, So you know, maybe 565 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 3: like think about something better that you could ask when 566 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 3: you're making that social connection. I think that's a far 567 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 3: better way to start these meetings and also just to form, 568 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 3: you know, connections with people feel connected. 569 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I guess that more pointed specific question as 570 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 2: opposed to just an umbrella question where it's kind of rhetorical. 571 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 3: That's right, How you doing, yeah, friends, isn't it? 572 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 2: Joey? That's Joey? 573 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: All right? 574 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 2: Next question is from Jason, and he says, I'm beginning 575 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,719 Speaker 2: to struggle with being disconnected from my wider team and 576 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 2: even wonder how to maintain healthy culture across our teams 577 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 2: with some essential frontline roles still working from the office 578 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 2: whilst most are working from home. My small leadership group 579 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: is spread across a large geographic area, and I'm feeling 580 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: disconnected from our people and our teams being led by 581 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 2: those in my leadership group. So one of he's got 582 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: two questions, first is how do you maintain connection with 583 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 2: everyone in your team when the physical walk around the 584 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 2: office is no longer possible? And the second one is 585 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 2: culture is key? In developing and maintaining a healthy working environment. 586 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 2: What tips can you offer in developing and maintaining culture remotely. 587 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 3: So to tackle the first part of that question around 588 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 3: maintaining connection, I think, yeah, we've spoken like a little 589 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 3: bit about this, but I did. I found this quote 590 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 3: from this guy called Jason Free who's the co founder 591 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 3: of base Camp, who I'm a massive fan of, and 592 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 3: he said, I would like to see work give up 593 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 3: a little bit of time to life. To me, that's 594 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 3: more in the spirit of what we need right now. So, 595 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 3: you know, I think it's just really important for leaders 596 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 3: and managers to you know, really focus on the personal 597 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 3: rather than just work, which I think is the instinct 598 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 3: of a lot of managers. So kind of going against 599 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 3: your instinct, I think this is it's super important right now. 600 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 3: The second thing in terms of culture. So another quote 601 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 3: when I was just sort of reflecting on this, so 602 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 3: ours tottl said, we are what we repeatedly do. And 603 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 3: so I think if we apply this to culture, then 604 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 3: think about, like what are the new norms and rituals 605 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 3: that you are deliberately crafting, you know, like I think 606 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 3: about what we're doing at inventing too, you know, I 607 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 3: guess like like reinvent or kind of transfer our really 608 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 3: great culture into the remote environment. And so, for example, 609 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,719 Speaker 3: something that we do, you know, we've been experimenting with 610 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 3: what's our new weekly rhythm and what feels right for everyone, 611 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 3: and so you know, at the moment, how things stand 612 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 3: is that we'll check in as a whole team three 613 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 3: times a week Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and then there'll 614 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 3: be other internal sort of smaller group chats in between. 615 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 3: But you know, Friday is purely for you know, really playtime. 616 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 3: You know, like the last couple of Fridays, Like we 617 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 3: played charades last Friday, and I got to admit, like, 618 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 3: going into that Friday afternoon meeting, I was like, I 619 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 3: don't want to be in a team meeting right now. 620 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 3: I've had a really stressful day and I just want 621 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 3: to be working. After like ten minutes of playing charades, 622 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is awesome. All the stresses of 623 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 3: my day are floating away. And you know, and I 624 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 3: think that those sorts of rhythms that we've developed and 625 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 3: inventing and were really helping to kind of transfer our 626 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 3: culture into the remote environment, you know, I think is 627 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 3: how people are generally feeling, and. 628 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,959 Speaker 2: It probably just because it appealed to one of your 629 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: biggest strengths day of competitiveness. 630 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: Right. 631 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 3: Yes, we did a strengths find a thing a few 632 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 3: months ago, and my number one strengths was competitiveness, which 633 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 3: I found bizarre because I didn't think. I thought, that's 634 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 3: just that doesn't sound like a strength. That sounds like 635 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 3: a kind of magial wore. Apparently it's a strength. I'm 636 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 3: very competitive, particularly in board games. You don't want to 637 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 3: play me in a board gamehr awesome. 638 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: So the next question, the last question that we'll be 639 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 2: covering in relation to social connections, is from a woman 640 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 2: named Jenny, and she says working from home has meant 641 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 2: the boundaries between work and personal life are much less clear, 642 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 2: and recently I've noticed my professional communication has become less formal. So, 643 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 2: for example, this morning, I found myself telling an internal 644 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 2: client who I had never spoken to before, than I'm 645 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 2: wearing ugg boots at the moment, not something that I 646 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 2: would normally share when working remotely. Is a less formal 647 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 2: style a problem or can it be a great way 648 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 2: to build community in the isolated environments we are operating 649 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 2: in at the moment? 650 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 3: I look. In short, I just think this is great. 651 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 3: As I said, I cited some research earlier on that 652 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 3: when we can form more personal connections, this is really 653 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 3: fantastic for building stronger relationships. So yes, bring it on, 654 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 3: talk about your ug boots. 655 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 2: That's awesome, right, Great, So let's move into the next category, 656 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,959 Speaker 2: which is all about managing and influencing others. So this 657 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 2: is applicable to you if you are a manager or 658 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 2: a leader, or even if you're in a role where 659 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 2: you're responsible for influencing other people, whether that be external 660 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: clients or internal clients, so basically everyone, I hope. So 661 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 2: the question is how can I keep my team upbeat, motivated, 662 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 2: and on track during this time remotely. 663 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: So I'd come back to my comment about lead with 664 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 1: realistic optimism. If you're thinking about just tonally how to 665 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: deliver messages, I think that that is quite helpful to 666 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: keep in mind. 667 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 3: I think reminding people of why the work matters. I 668 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 3: think it is very easy to kind of become sort 669 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 3: of a reactive and driven by a fear response, which 670 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 3: is kind of almost the opposite of being driven by purpose. 671 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 3: So I think it's very important to remind people of 672 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,839 Speaker 3: that and keep that in mind just individually, and you know, 673 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 3: like coming back to something you said like around mastery. 674 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 3: So if I think about self determination theory, which I 675 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 3: find is quite a helpful theory of motivation and keeping 676 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 3: teams motivated, that theory would say that the three things 677 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,240 Speaker 3: that we need as humans we need autonomy, we need mastery, 678 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 3: and we need connection. So hopefully people have autonomy. For 679 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 3: any managers that are listening that have a suspicion they 680 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:02,720 Speaker 3: might be micromanaging, stop that right now. That is killing motivation. Secondly, 681 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 3: think about, you know, what are the opportunities that we 682 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 3: have for mastery, and you know, with that, just making 683 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 3: sure that people feel challenged by the work that they're 684 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 3: doing at least for you know, part of the time. 685 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,840 Speaker 3: And the connection which we've kind of been talking about 686 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 3: a bit as well. 687 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 2: And the next question is from Melissa and references the 688 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 2: differences between introverts and extroverts and so how should we 689 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,760 Speaker 2: be communicating with introverts versus extroverts in the team. 690 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I think it's you know, just helpful to 691 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 3: define what introverts and extroverts are. You know, introverts are 692 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 3: not people that are shy and wallflowers and extroverts a 693 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 3: people that are like partying, although there are correlations. You know, 694 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 3: what introverts are is they prefer minimally stimulating environments and 695 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,280 Speaker 3: they need to be alone to recharge, whereas extroverts recharge 696 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 3: I guess like in the company of others. That is 697 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,399 Speaker 3: how they refuel. And so I think if you keep 698 00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 3: that in mind, like what are the things that introverts 699 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 3: for extroverts need in order to feel energized and you know, 700 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 3: feel like refueled. I guess apply that to how you're 701 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 3: thinking about communicating with them. 702 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 2: And the next question is from a listener who I 703 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 2: won't give the name because they might have colleagues listening 704 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 2: and this might throw them under the boat. But the 705 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 2: question is I seem to be getting frustrated with my 706 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 2: colleagues because they are often not contributing to collaborative work 707 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,840 Speaker 2: in a timely manner. How should I better manage my expectations? 708 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 3: Look, I think it might be maybe it's about communicating 709 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 3: your expectations and how you're communicating them. So firstly, communicate 710 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 3: your expectations. That's that's possibly obvious. But when you're communicating 711 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 3: your expectations, always communicate the why behind your expectations. So 712 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 3: there was research there's done quite a few years ago 713 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,840 Speaker 3: now where people had asked to I think it was 714 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 3: like jump in line to use the Xerox photocopying machine. 715 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 3: And when people to use the Xerox, they were usd 716 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 3: to jump the queue. They were successful at a certain 717 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 3: proportion of the time, but when they said, hey, can 718 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 3: I use it because blah blah blah, and they gave 719 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 3: the why. The reason, the number of times that request 720 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 3: was accepted jumped by I want to say, like fifty 721 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 3: or sixty percent, something ridiculously high. So I think communicate 722 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,839 Speaker 3: your expectations, but more importantly, communicate the why. Like if 723 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 3: there's a reason for a deadline, communicate that rather than 724 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 3: just saying the deadline. It will make people more likely 725 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 3: to adhere to what you're asking for. 726 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 2: Okay, the last question in this category is I've been 727 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 2: struggling with being too available while working from home. When 728 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,200 Speaker 2: you're at the office, it's easy if people understand you 729 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 2: aren't available because you've gone home or you're out to lunch. 730 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 2: Working at home means people are always messaging, and it 731 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 2: feels like you need to respond at all hours. Of 732 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,240 Speaker 2: the day. How do you set expectations on your workload 733 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 2: and availability with your coworkers in this environment. 734 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was reflecting on this one, I thought, 735 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:06,240 Speaker 3: is this more about your expectations than co workers expectations? 736 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 3: Because I know, for me, when I open up my 737 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 3: inbox after being out of it for a while, I 738 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 3: feel this anxiety is overstating it. But I'm like, oh goodness, 739 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 3: all these people are waiting on my response, and I 740 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 3: better hurry up and respond. But it's like, no, no, no, 741 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 3: that's my stuff, that's not their stuff. Like if it's 742 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 3: completely urgent, they can pick up the phone and call 743 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,840 Speaker 3: me or they can email me again, that's fine. So 744 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 3: I think just firstly, you know, just kind of check 745 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 3: in and goes it's more about your standards, because my 746 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 3: hypothesis is that it is. And I also find just 747 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 3: a sort of more of a practical note that a 748 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:43,399 Speaker 3: techniquell time boxing can help. So my diary kind of 749 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 3: like it will have various meetings all over it, but 750 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 3: then the night before I will time box how I 751 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 3: exactly want to use hour by hour or half hour 752 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 3: by half hour of my time, particularly around what deep 753 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 3: work I want to be doing. Or what tasks I 754 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 3: want to be working on that don't involve other people, 755 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 3: and I will literally block out my diary. Yeah, so 756 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:05,840 Speaker 3: that there's not really much in the way of free 757 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 3: time there on a day to day basis, just so 758 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,839 Speaker 3: people know, Okay, well that's what I'm working on, and 759 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 3: they can see whether I'm free or not. Yeah. 760 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 2: I think that's really helpful. And I think that's also 761 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 2: useful if you are putting that detail in there so 762 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,360 Speaker 2: people know, oh, they are working on that thing that 763 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 2: I need them to work on, if it's your immediate 764 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,880 Speaker 2: team for example. All right, so let's move into the 765 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 2: next very popular topic, which is all about virtual meetings. Now, 766 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 2: as you mentioned the man that we're going to be 767 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,280 Speaker 2: actually discussing this in a lot more detail in our 768 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 2: webinar in May. But I had to give the people 769 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 2: what they want right now, and so we are addressing 770 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 2: a few of their questions now. So the first question is, 771 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 2: as an introvert, I thought I would be better equipped 772 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 2: to handle all of this solitude and remote working, but 773 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 2: I'm finding myself on zoom calls for hours every day, 774 00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 2: and somehow these are a lot more draining than regular meetings. 775 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 2: People also seem to want more video chats for what 776 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,879 Speaker 2: used to be resolved via email. How do you set 777 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 2: and encourage expectations and boundaries and avoid feeling dreamed by 778 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 2: all of the video meetings? 779 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I feel like so many people are experiencing this. 780 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 3: It's like it's totally death by zoom at the moment. 781 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 3: So I think a couple of things here. Firstly, I 782 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 3: think we need to apply Parkinson's law to zoom meetings 783 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 3: meetings in general, particularly zoom meetings, and Parkinson's law suggests 784 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 3: that the time it takes to complete a task, basically 785 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 3: time will expand to the amount of time you have 786 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 3: allocated to that task. So if you have set aside 787 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 3: an hour for a zoom meeting to discuss X Y 788 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 3: and Z issues or make X Y and Z decisions, 789 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 3: you'll probably take an hour. Chances are, but if you 790 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 3: you know, if you kind of reflect on the thing, 791 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 3: the purpose for the meeting, and how long really does 792 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 3: that deserve far better way of approaching meetings, where you know, 793 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 3: I think most meetings can be done in shorter amounts 794 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 3: of time, And if you think about the compound impact 795 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,359 Speaker 3: of that, we're going to win back a lot more 796 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 3: time in the day. So the most important thing to 797 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,839 Speaker 3: do is go, okay with this meeting that I need 798 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,399 Speaker 3: to set. Firstly, does it require a meeting or can 799 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 3: I just stand out information for people to read and 800 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,919 Speaker 3: ask for feedback via email for example, If you really 801 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 3: do need a meeting, think about, okay, how much time 802 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 3: does this issue deserve, and then set it accordingly. You know, 803 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,280 Speaker 3: don't be afraid to set ten minute meetings or eighteen 804 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 3: minute meetings or whatever the case may be. So I 805 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,879 Speaker 3: think that is one of the root causes of why 806 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,279 Speaker 3: we're experiencing death by zoom. 807 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think a lot of people what I 808 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 2: was reading about yesterday is talking about zoom fatigue in 809 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,840 Speaker 2: terms of the additional stimulus from having to look at 810 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 2: yourself on the screen and the impression management that sits 811 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 2: within that in terms of you know, being very aware 812 00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 2: of how you look, which normally in an normal meeting 813 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 2: you can't even see that. And so one of the 814 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 2: techniques that I've heard is literally getting getting like a 815 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 2: postal note and just like covering that on your screen 816 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 2: so that you can't see yourself. 817 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 3: That's so good, or minimizing yourself as well. So in 818 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 3: zoom like you can do that. You just get the 819 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 3: little minimized button and then you can just see the 820 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 3: person that you're talking to and people that you're talking to. 821 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 3: So I love the post it note thing. That's yeah, 822 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,840 Speaker 3: that's good. Very analog, very analog. 823 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 2: All right, So the next question is from Kali related 824 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 2: question around it'd be great to tackle the screen time 825 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 2: aspect and basically how being in lots of video meetings 826 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,279 Speaker 2: is causing fatigue and cabin fever. So what are some 827 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,800 Speaker 2: strategies we can put in place to overcome this fatigue 828 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 2: and help us with our concentration levels. 829 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,479 Speaker 3: I think what's really helpful right now is to try 830 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 3: to revert back to some phone meetings. I know that 831 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 3: this is very counterintuitive because we all, you know, we 832 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 3: want the face to face connection. You can get the 833 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 3: body language cues, all of that sort of jazz, but 834 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 3: do more often like I know, kez who Who's like 835 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 3: being really awesome and answering all the chat questions and 836 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 3: stuff that are coming in. Light Sheet largely organizes my 837 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 3: diary and I love it because like except that, you know, 838 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 3: if it's an initial meeting where like I kind of 839 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 3: you know, want some zoom action. I want to see 840 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 3: the people and make that initial connection. Like generally most 841 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,320 Speaker 3: of my meetings of phone, which I think is good 842 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 3: because you can get up and move and you can 843 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 3: do walking meetings with people. So I just think, don't 844 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 3: feel obliged to do every meeting via zoom because it 845 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 3: like it'll kill you. Plus it's bad for your physical 846 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 3: health because you have to be sitting down. So well, 847 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,759 Speaker 3: I guess you don't have to be. But no one's 848 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 3: really walking around doing zoom. That's a bit weird. So 849 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,000 Speaker 3: that is what I would say there. 850 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 2: So maybe like a rule of thumb is if you've 851 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 2: met them before, do a video a phone meeting. If 852 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,200 Speaker 2: it's the first time you're meeting them, do a video meeting. 853 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that tends to be my rule of thumb. 854 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,480 Speaker 3: And also even with team meetings, I think for the 855 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 3: big like adding Bentium, I'm thinking about what we do 856 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 3: for the bigger meetings where there's like you know, four 857 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 3: or five of us at least, will typically do hangouts. 858 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 3: And also just technologically that's easier rather than having to 859 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 3: get a phone conference line set up. But if it's 860 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:18,320 Speaker 3: one on one, most of my one on one's a phone, 861 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 3: which I find is easy, and it's. 862 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 2: Just like you just sort of feel a bit looser. 863 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 3: I think, like when you're walking around and I feel 864 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,879 Speaker 3: like I have more productive chats, particularly like you know, 865 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 3: one on one with the team when I'm walking around 866 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,360 Speaker 3: and I think a bit better and stuff, and I 867 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,320 Speaker 3: don't have to be taking notes. So it's kind of 868 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 3: how I do it. 869 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay. Next question is the number of general 870 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 2: telecons has skyrocketed. I'm finding it hard to dial into 871 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 2: telecons where I might only have a peripheral stake and 872 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,759 Speaker 2: still get other work done. Any tips on how to 873 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 2: do other work while keeping half an ear on a telecon? 874 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 2: I love that. 875 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,680 Speaker 3: That's like your flatmate that had a shower during a 876 00:44:58,840 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 3: conference call. 877 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 2: Oh yes, she's listening right now. Maybe she might be 878 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 2: in the shower. 879 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 4: She's probably in the shower exactly. So look, I would say, 880 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, like we all need to be opting 881 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 4: out of more meetings. It reminds me of a couple 882 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,960 Speaker 4: of podcast interviews that I did a while ago. One 883 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 4: was with Scott Anthony that I mentioned where he did 884 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 4: an experiment where he I think he just removed about 885 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 4: fifty percent of the meetings in his diary just to 886 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,959 Speaker 4: see what would happen, and hey, like, nothing. 887 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:33,799 Speaker 3: Happened, it was all fine. And then Dom Price, who 888 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 3: I also had on the show quite a while ago 889 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,160 Speaker 3: now so he's the head of R and D and 890 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 3: the futuristed at Lassian. He literally deleted every meeting It's 891 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 3: either every recurring meeting or possibly every meeting from his 892 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,560 Speaker 3: diary with the note saying, I'm deleting all my meetings. 893 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 3: If you want me to attend this meeting, you have 894 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 3: to be really specific on what's the role that you 895 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 3: want me to play? If if you maybe you know, 896 00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 3: could someone else attend in my place? He asked that question, 897 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 3: or or do I just need to be here? So 898 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 3: you know, I think it's very helpful to you know, 899 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,880 Speaker 3: if you're invited to a meeting and go, what's the 900 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 3: actual role that you want me to play, just to 901 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,800 Speaker 3: clarify that, because that will engage you more because you're like, oh, okay, 902 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 3: that's the role that I'm here to play. I'm here 903 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 3: to be like Devil's advocate or whatever the case may be, 904 00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 3: or give you know, the voice of the customer to 905 00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,920 Speaker 3: the meeting. But also you know, like if your manager 906 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 3: is inviting you to lots of meetings, have a chat 907 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,040 Speaker 3: to them about, hey, here's the cost, like the financial 908 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,359 Speaker 3: cost of me actually attending all of these meetings. Is 909 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,560 Speaker 3: this the best use of my time and the company's money? 910 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 3: Who pay my salary? Or maybe would you prefer me 911 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 3: to be using my time to do X, Y and Z. 912 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 3: So I think those strategies are maybe useful to consider that. 913 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 2: And for those people that aren't in management or senior roles, 914 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 2: I think that's a really easy thing that they can do, 915 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 2: that simple question of what role would you like me 916 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:51,920 Speaker 2: to plan this meeting? Because even if you just get 917 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 2: one person responding and saying, oh, actually, I've just realized 918 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,280 Speaker 2: that I don't need you in this meeting, it's like great, 919 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,839 Speaker 2: that's already just one meeting out of your diary and 920 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 2: it kind of cost is Actually, it's not like you're 921 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,240 Speaker 2: saying I don't want to be in this meeting, that's. 922 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,440 Speaker 3: Right, that's right. Yeah, it's just saying like, I just 923 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,479 Speaker 3: want to be really valuable if I am in a meeting, 924 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 3: and if I can't be valuable, then maybe I shouldn't 925 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 3: be in the meeting. 926 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, last question around virtual meetings. I 927 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 2: really rely on facial expression and vibe in a meeting. 928 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,880 Speaker 2: I'm finding that not having the ability to read a 929 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: room is a bit unsettling, and I feel anxious before 930 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,840 Speaker 2: a video conference meeting. Seeing colleagues who have their microphone 931 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,320 Speaker 2: off but I can see they are texting or laughing 932 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:34,760 Speaker 2: is contributing to this unsettling feeling. Any tips on handling. 933 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 3: This, Yeah, that's awful. That's just like awful. But you know, 934 00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,400 Speaker 3: I kind of think it comes back down to what 935 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 3: we spoke about. Do these people actually need to be 936 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 3: in the meeting? Like if they're you know, texting and 937 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 3: being you know, rude idiots like let's be frank during 938 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 3: the meeting, then they probably don't need to be there. 939 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 3: They're probably just bored. And when people are bored, they 940 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 3: do like silly things. So, you know, like, I'm reminded 941 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,720 Speaker 3: of something that Andrew Barnes, who I mentioned before, said 942 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 3: about how they approach meetings at Perpetual Guardian and they 943 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 3: actually cap meetings at five people. And when I heard that, 944 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 3: I was like, I was reflecting on that for inventing 945 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 3: and I thought, no, no, there's still a role for 946 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 3: bigger meetings. But you know, maybe there's something useful in 947 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 3: that for people that are listening to this webinar. Maybe 948 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 3: you actually think about having a cap on how many 949 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 3: people are in a meeting, because the more people, the 950 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 3: more social loafing that essentially goes on, you know, and 951 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:31,319 Speaker 3: social loafing is where essentially you're not contributing and you're 952 00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 3: then doing something kind of productive like texting or having 953 00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:35,760 Speaker 3: a shower. 954 00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, all right, So we are going to move 955 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 2: into our final category, which is just two quick questions 956 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 2: around digital tools and think about what we do at Inventum. 957 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 2: So what are some of the software tools that you 958 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 2: use to manage time and setting daily goals? 959 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 3: So, yeah, there's a few soware tools that I find 960 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,440 Speaker 3: very useful. I did talk about some on the podcast 961 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,879 Speaker 3: maybe last week or something like that, but I'll mention 962 00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 3: too that I find particularly good for just sort of 963 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,879 Speaker 3: managing time, setting goals and eliminating distractions. So my new 964 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 3: favorite software at the moment is software called Serene sr 965 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 3: E n E, which basically it's kind of like software 966 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 3: that I used to talk about a lot previously called freedom. 967 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:32,280 Speaker 3: Freedom dot two is where you find that which can 968 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 3: just really good at just blocking out digital distractions, so 969 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,239 Speaker 3: basically set it to block you out of software or 970 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 3: specific websites during particular times of day where you need 971 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 3: to be doing like focused deep work. Serene also has 972 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:49,800 Speaker 3: the feature of can forcing you to set your goals 973 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 3: and go, Okay, what's the task that you want to do, 974 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 3: how long do you think it will take, and when 975 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,280 Speaker 3: do you want to start, and then you start, it 976 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,799 Speaker 3: locks you out of everything that's distracted and off you go. 977 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 3: So I'm finding that really useful. And plus it plays 978 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 3: some Serene music in the background as well, so that's 979 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 3: nice an app. Like I mean, look that there's a 980 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 3: few apps that I find really useful, you know, I do. 981 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,799 Speaker 3: I do often talk about the Pocket app because I think, 982 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 3: you know, at the moment, like we're probably we're consuming 983 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 3: more news, we're reading more online articles at the moment, 984 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 3: that is always a huge source of distraction where we 985 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 3: can just end up down rabbit holes. So Pocket's really good. 986 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 3: It's like a plug in for your web browser like 987 00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 3: Chrome or whatever you're using, and you can just save 988 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,080 Speaker 3: articles to Pocket and then you can read them at 989 00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:36,399 Speaker 3: your own time, so that you're just deliberately not going 990 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 3: down Robert Warrens and losing time to reading interesting articles. 991 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,320 Speaker 3: And then the other thing I really love on my phone, 992 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,840 Speaker 3: because you know phones can be a big source of distraction, 993 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 3: is an app called foresto r Eest basically allows you 994 00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,279 Speaker 3: to set an amount of time that you want to 995 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,560 Speaker 3: be focused for and not on your phone. Let's just 996 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 3: say it's fifty minutes. You then start forest and it 997 00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 3: grows a virtual but if you check your phone during 998 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:06,920 Speaker 3: that fifty minutes, the tree dies and that is incredibly motivating, 999 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,280 Speaker 3: even though it really has no impact for the environment. 1000 00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:11,480 Speaker 3: So there's some things that I like. 1001 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,360 Speaker 2: Okay, and then the final question is what this from Catherine? 1002 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,840 Speaker 2: What processes and documents has invented used to make asynchronous 1003 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,799 Speaker 2: work rock over the last few years? Particularly, how have 1004 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:25,239 Speaker 2: you made decisions as a team. 1005 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, look, I mean there's nothing revolutionary here. We rely 1006 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 3: a lot on Google docs and Google sheets in terms 1007 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:37,279 Speaker 3: of collaborating in the written form. I think that's been 1008 00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,319 Speaker 3: really helpful, although it has led to a lot of 1009 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 3: Google sheets that are replicating data from other sources, which 1010 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 3: some of us don't love. But anyway, it served us 1011 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,279 Speaker 3: all right. And then look, in terms of decisions we 1012 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,759 Speaker 3: would get on the phone. I think, you know, there's 1013 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,000 Speaker 3: not too many decisions that would be like making over 1014 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,319 Speaker 3: email or anything like that, unless they're sort of quite 1015 00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,239 Speaker 3: small decisions. But generally it would just get on the 1016 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 3: phone or a Google will hang out, so you know, 1017 00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 3: nothing revolutionary, but like it works, it works for us. 1018 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:09,480 Speaker 2: And then I think also recognizing when we need to 1019 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 2: make a decision by consensus as opposed to when it 1020 00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,440 Speaker 2: just needs to be someone else's decision, as like, for example, 1021 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,800 Speaker 2: our CEO Mish sometimes she just has to make the decision, 1022 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,239 Speaker 2: and then sometimes it's more appropriate that we all weigh 1023 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 2: in on that decision. 1024 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,440 Speaker 3: Definitely, definitely all. 1025 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,240 Speaker 2: Right, Well that is the last question for our session. 1026 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 2: So just to wrap up, I might hand to you 1027 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,640 Speaker 2: a month to chat a little bit about where to 1028 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:35,240 Speaker 2: from here. 1029 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, awesome. So I know something that we're going to 1030 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,239 Speaker 3: do is we're going to put together a summary of 1031 00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 3: like some of the top tips that we've shared today. 1032 00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 3: You'll all be getting access to a recording of this webinar. 1033 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,480 Speaker 3: Feel free to share it broadly if you think it 1034 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 3: was helpful. If you're just like, oh my god, I've 1035 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,040 Speaker 3: just wasted an hour of my life and you can 1036 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 3: just delete that email and delete the recording and then look, 1037 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 3: I know that it's interesting because, like historically, in Venteam 1038 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,000 Speaker 3: does a lot of work in the innovation space. A 1039 00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,319 Speaker 3: lot of innovation budgets have been cut. But you know, 1040 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 3: for the last couple of years we've been doing a 1041 00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:10,400 Speaker 3: lot around productivity and helping people do focused work in 1042 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 3: the age of digital distraction. And the thing that we 1043 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,400 Speaker 3: have been inundated with by our clients is actually helping 1044 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 3: them work from home more productively and really thrive at home. 1045 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 3: So you know, perhaps like you've joined the webinar, you 1046 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 3: just wanted some quick tips and that's cool, and you 1047 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,279 Speaker 3: feel like you know you've got some value and you 1048 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,400 Speaker 3: can improve the way you work. Awesome if you're like, Okay, 1049 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 3: that's the tip of the iceberg. I do need some 1050 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 3: more help, probably like three ways that we can help. Firstly, 1051 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,279 Speaker 3: we do have a five week program that is all 1052 00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 3: about how do you thrive in the home office environment. 1053 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 3: It's a program that we get amazing results from. We 1054 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 3: get productivity boosts of generally between twenty to twenty five 1055 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 3: percent in that five to six week period, plus engagement 1056 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 3: and wellbeing and all those sorts of things go up, 1057 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 3: so there is that we will send through more info 1058 00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,319 Speaker 3: on that. We're also starting to do a lot of 1059 00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,120 Speaker 3: work with leadership teams who are trying to drive I 1060 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 3: have better behaviors with their team and really help support 1061 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,400 Speaker 3: them from home. So we do you know, some workshops 1062 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 3: with leaders and then we also do a lot of 1063 00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 3: mentoring with teams and one on one with leaders as well, 1064 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,960 Speaker 3: just to help them navigate this time, you know, I mean, 1065 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:17,160 Speaker 3: like it's not just about productivity, Like, yeah, productivity might 1066 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,759 Speaker 3: be down, but what is the impact of mental well 1067 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:23,280 Speaker 3: being during this time as well? It is absolutely huge. 1068 00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 3: Like something I like to think about is what is 1069 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,840 Speaker 3: the cost of not helping your teams work better, like 1070 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,799 Speaker 3: both mentally and also just you know physically, like productively 1071 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 3: during this point of time. You could end up with. 1072 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:40,440 Speaker 1: Some very disengaged, burntout people if you don't kind of 1073 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,359 Speaker 1: jump on this now. 1074 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 3: So we're going to send out a feedback survey to everyone. 1075 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,839 Speaker 3: We would love your feedback. We want to know what's 1076 00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,760 Speaker 3: been really helpful and also what is not. We're planning 1077 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,520 Speaker 3: on doing more of these webinars. So I think it's 1078 00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 3: been fun, Sha, I've had fun to be out nice, Yeah, 1079 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 3: and so you know, look, if you do want to 1080 00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 3: book into chat to me and chat you know in 1081 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,360 Speaker 3: a little bit more detail, we'll just put that in 1082 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 3: the survey, or just reach out to cares. I think 1083 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:08,479 Speaker 3: everyone has cases email address and mine and showers and look, 1084 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 3: you know, I hope it's helpful. Hope it's been in 1085 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:15,319 Speaker 3: our well spent everyone. And yeah, on wiki day, back 1086 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 3: to work. 1087 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:20,440 Speaker 2: Everyone, now take a coffee break and then get back 1088 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 2: to your deep focused work. Yeah all right, Well, thank 1089 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,280 Speaker 2: you Kez. Thanks a good to chat with you virtually, 1090 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:31,280 Speaker 2: and thank you everyone else for joining. And as Amantha mentioned, 1091 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:33,680 Speaker 2: please feel free to share the webinar link and we'll 1092 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 2: get you that summary and that feedback so they later today. 1093 00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,799 Speaker 2: So thank you and see you later. 1094 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 3: Hello there. 1095 00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:45,760 Speaker 1: I hope you found this episode useful. I think in future, 1096 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm probably going to do a few more ask Me 1097 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,600 Speaker 1: anything webinars this year, so keep an eye out for them. 1098 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:57,399 Speaker 1: I will promote those via How I Work. And if 1099 00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:00,480 Speaker 1: you enjoyed today's episode, why not share it with someone 1100 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,800 Speaker 1: who do you think Mike could do with some tips 1101 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 1: about working from home more effectively? Maybe some of your 1102 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,719 Speaker 1: workmates perhaps, or a friend that maybe is struggling working 1103 00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,000 Speaker 1: from home at the moment, so I hope you got 1104 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 1: some useful stuff out of it, and I will see 1105 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:17,479 Speaker 1: you next time.