1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming through. 7 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: As this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing and 8 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: the storytelling of you to make a difference for today 9 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to She's on the My the podcast 13 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: for millennials who want to financial freedom. Today is Friday, 14 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 2: which means it's time to sit back with the girls 15 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: with a bevy in hand, to unpack our favorite moments 16 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: of the week and of course, to celebrate you are incredible. 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: She's on the Money community. As always, we'll be sharing 18 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 2: our favorite money wins, we'll be discussing what is making 19 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: news in finance, and we'll be helping to answer a 20 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 2: juicy money question, which this week is all about asking 21 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 2: for a pay rise and exactly how to do it. 22 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 2: But first it is time to recap the week that was. 23 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: Jessica Ritchie, Hello, what happened on money Diaries this week? 24 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 2: My girl? 25 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 4: This week we had like a really good, I think 26 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 4: solid diarist. So she was working really hard to educate 27 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 4: herself around finances. Her husband was on this journey with her, 28 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 4: which was really lovely to hear that they were doing 29 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 4: it together and trying to, you know, just educate themselves. 30 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 4: They have a young daughter and their end goal is 31 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 4: that they want to invest so that they can educate 32 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 4: her and allivate her future and kind of give her 33 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 4: opportunities that maybe they didn't have, which I think, if 34 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 4: you're a parent, is what all parents might absolutely for 35 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 4: your kids to have the things that you didn't and 36 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 4: for them the next generation to live a better life. 37 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 4: So it was really wholesome, and you know, it was 38 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 4: one of those diaries that I think a lot of 39 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 4: people can relate to because a lot of us are 40 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 4: on that journey currently still and so to hear that 41 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 4: they were doing it and supporting each other and incredible 42 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 4: improving for the future, you love to see it. You 43 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 4: love to see it, I think Jack We've also done 44 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 4: an episode in the past about investing for your kids 45 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 4: and how it works from like a tax perspective and 46 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: all of that. So if you are someone who has 47 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 4: a little bubba and you want the best for them 48 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 4: and you want to try and invest, but you're not 49 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 4: sure how to do it, scroll back that episode. 50 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 2: Yes, also just diving in here. Victoria is not here. 51 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: Probably knowledge that who needs it. It is just the 52 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 2: two of us today because the big woman is hitting 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 2: the slopes overseas. 54 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 4: Yes, you do tell me all about Wednesday, George. 55 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: Absolutely, girl. It was part two of our recession series, 56 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 2: so exciting, but this time it was all about preparing 57 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: your finances for a recession, which was really good. It 58 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: was packed full of tips and I think personally for 59 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 2: me it made me feel far less stressed. We talked 60 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: about the many ways that the potential looming recession could 61 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 2: impact us. So if you are worried, definitely have a listen. 62 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: It will ease your fears. There's nothing to worry about. 63 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 2: It's all going to be fine. Stressful at all, It's 64 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: all fine. 65 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 4: But the house is on fire. No, I feel like 66 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 4: those episodes are really good, Like the two part is obviously. 67 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 4: Last week we did part one where we discussed what 68 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 4: is a recession? What does it look like now? The markers, 69 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 4: all those kinds of things, and it's something that for 70 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 4: people our age, if we lived through it, we were 71 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 4: probably relatively young. Yeah, just because, and I say that 72 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: very broadly, the average age is pretty close to ours, 73 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 4: and so we might not have really understood the impacts 74 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 4: of it. You don't understand something, it's really scary, exactly So. 75 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 4: I think I reallyacked that that episode made me feel 76 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 4: a little bit prepared, and you know, having tangible tips, 77 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: and some of them might have seemed a little bit obvious, 78 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 4: but I think when we panic, we forget our basics, 79 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 4: and sometimes those basics are what gives you, like a 80 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 4: really solid grounding. So it was a really good episode 81 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 4: and if anyone like me it's a little bit an 82 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 4: anxious queen, hopefully you feel a bit better now, exactly right. 83 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 2: We also spoke about what to do with your debts, 84 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: your job, your investments, So if you're worrying about all 85 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: of those things, it's the place to go. 86 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 4: Jess Oh, I love that all right, Well, have you 87 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 4: got some budget direct money wins? 88 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: There? George Gill you know I do. I'm so excited. 89 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 2: I got some wins, We've got some losses, We've got 90 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 2: them all. The first win of the week it comes 91 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: from Caitlin. Two money wins. I went on a pub 92 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,559 Speaker 2: crawl on Saturday and I still had cashim a wallet 93 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: when I got home. Gives that Caitlin. The second win 94 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 2: for Caitlin is that a friend gave her a lift 95 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 2: to the airport this morning, saving her a cab fair. 96 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: That's huge. That's love friendship. Yeah, we love to see it. 97 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: The next win it comes from Katie money win. I've 98 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 2: moved to Canberra for UNI and found the rent is 99 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: phenomenally expensive here. I was initially planning to pet sit 100 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 2: for the first month, but I've lined up two more 101 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 2: month long gigs and I'm considering pet sitting for as 102 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 2: long as possible to save money while I study my Masters. 103 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 2: Plus I get all the puppy cuddles none of the 104 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: it bills. That's so good. 105 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 4: I remember Emma from The Broke Gen who we Lave Queen. 106 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 4: She used to pet see it a lot and I 107 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 4: can't remember the name of it. But there's an app 108 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: where you can literally find and actually Charlotte who used 109 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 4: to work for Zella did this and hope having fun 110 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 4: over there, Queens. 111 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 2: It's huge in Europe. 112 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: But there's an app that you can use to find 113 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 4: people who are looking for pet sitters and we'll give 114 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 4: you bored in exchange. Oh crazy, I mean if you're 115 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 4: a pet person. I remember for a while I couldn't 116 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 4: have pets and I was like, I will cuddle someone's cabsolutely, 117 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 4: give it to me, put it in front of me, 118 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 4: and then you get bored as well. 119 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 2: That's huge. Do you remember it was the app named 120 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: mad Pause. I feel like it's rough from us to 121 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: throw it out there and yeah, tell the girl, yeah 122 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 2: at mad Pause. I think it might have been mad Pause. 123 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 4: Check it out, friends, Yeah, if you need some made 124 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 4: a round if you're in Canberra, give it a currently, 125 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 4: it's working. 126 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: Give it a go. The next thing it comes from 127 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: Brianna Money. When I've been discussing a favorite wine with 128 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 2: my coworkers and I looked it up to see that 129 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: it was on sale at Dan Murphy's for fifteen dollars. 130 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: I miss my partner to pick up a bottle for 131 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 2: dinner while it was a good price, only for him 132 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: to venture out and find Dan's had closed, so we 133 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: headed to another store to find it on sale for 134 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: five dollars a bottle. You're making money, Jess. Naturally he 135 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 2: grabbed all seven bottles that were left on the shelf 136 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 2: t thirty dollars and we still can't believe our luck. 137 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 2: Well it's on Brianna. That's a Naturally bottles. Yeah, they 138 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 2: did the right thing. The next one comes from Jacinta 139 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: money Win. I got myself a podcast mic at half 140 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: the price squeek, just Cinta. I wants what the potty is? 141 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: Good luck with it. The next one comes from Madeline 142 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: money Win with a question mark. I made a summary 143 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 2: with my partner of all of our streaming services and 144 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 2: monthly subscriptions, which was getting a little out of hand. 145 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: We then went through and unsubscribed from most things we 146 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: didn't need and combined the separate subscriptions. I was shocked, 147 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: and now we are looking at saving over one point 148 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 2: one k annually that we're not going to be spending 149 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: on those services. That is going into our savings in stead. 150 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: It's a great feeling getting it done. How Coul's that good? 151 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 2: That's huge. It adds up. We don't think about it 152 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 2: that's how they get you. So I play a month 153 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: a hot deal. Yeah, and then over the course of 154 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: your lifetime, yeah, six subscriptions to every platform streaming platform 155 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: known to man, millions of dollars. Yepes down the drain. 156 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 2: Well done to you, Madeline. The next week it comes 157 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 2: from Bethany money Win. I've unsubscribed from all the retail 158 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: marketing emails I was receiving, including my favorite stores, and 159 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 2: I haven't spent a cent on the after pay day sales. 160 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: I've paid off more of my after pay account and 161 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: I pre ordered the new Investing with Shees on the 162 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: Money Book for thirty three percent off on Amazon. Well, Bethany, 163 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 2: we love it. When does that one come out? Joe 164 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 2: September twenty Thank you for supporting Holy Dooley. That is 165 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 2: very really soon. 166 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 4: And as we're recording this today, I believe it is 167 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 4: still on sale on Amazon if anybody is looking to 168 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 4: get your little nubby sacker bargain exactly right. 169 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: Beautiful the last one Jess for the day. I liked it. 170 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: It's from Tish money Win. I found security cameras we 171 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 2: really wanted for our house for three hundred forty nine 172 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: dollars online. We went to Bunnings and they were four 173 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: hundred and nine dollars, so I got them price matched 174 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,679 Speaker 2: to get the ten percent better deal. They came down 175 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: to three hundred and fifteen dollars. What's Bunning's Bunnings is 176 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 2: little slogan if you find it, and they do they 177 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 2: really they do it so well done to Bunnings World, 178 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: unto Tish the marketing. Clearly. That is all for the 179 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: budget directed money wins this week, my girl. 180 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 4: Yes, it's been great celebrating your budget direct money wins 181 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 4: of the week. 182 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: Budget Direct is you're and solved. 183 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: Let's head to a break, George, and then when we 184 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 4: come back, I have got a really fun topic for us. 185 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 2: To chat about. Stunning see them. 186 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 4: Or Brady George this week. It's not a news article. 187 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 4: It's a little a little happening from the She's on 188 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 4: the Money Instagram at sees on the Money aus. If 189 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 4: anyone followers, sure, come over. We have little spicy convos. 190 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 4: We put up a post about income Gill and we 191 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 4: basically it was just a question, we said do you 192 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 4: have income guilt? And in a caption we were talking 193 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 4: about the fact and we have spoken about this on 194 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 4: the pod before how sometimes, particularly women, when we're out 195 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 4: earning our peers our partners, we feel a little bit guilty, 196 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 4: which we should not, And so that was kind of 197 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 4: where we thought the conversation was going to go. But interestingly, 198 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 4: people were talking about it going the other way, which 199 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: was something that I hadn't really considered. So, if you're 200 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 4: not earning as much as your peers, feeling guilty about 201 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 4: being behind or you know, not having reached, I guess 202 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 4: your potential is what I saw someone see, which I 203 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 4: thought was a really interesting concept to unpack because it 204 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 4: seems like everybody's just feeling guilty. 205 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we shouldn't be, yep. 206 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 4: So I wanted to talk about the how and the 207 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 4: why and you know, is this something you've ever experienced. 208 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 2: George just I remember, I think we've spoken about this 209 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 2: on the podcast before, and we were talking about feeling 210 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: guilty or not really feeling guilty about out earning our partners. 211 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: It's like were wrong and there was no guilt there really, 212 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: But I think, yeah, I do kind of feel it 213 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 2: to a point, probably from an under earning perspective. I 214 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: think I'm like a quietly competitive person. Yeah, so there 215 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 2: is a little bit of that, And I don't really 216 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: know explicitly what my friends all earn. Yeah, but I 217 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 2: think some of them are on a better wicket. And 218 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 2: I am like, oh, I should be working harder, but 219 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 2: there's also just no time. And even what I just said, 220 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 2: I should be working harder, that's incorrect because hard work 221 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 2: doesn't but it also doesn't equate to a higher salary 222 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: necessarily or no, you know, more money that way. So 223 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 2: what is it something that I struggle with? And I'm 224 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 2: thinking that it's a very female thing. Once again, we 225 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: feel guilty about most of the things that we do. 226 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 2: J Rid, Is it something that you've struggled with? 227 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's interesting because it kind of relates 228 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 4: back to I don't know fomo's the right word, but 229 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 4: that concept that you're just never doing good enough. And 230 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 4: I remember on a Friday Drinks episode not too long ago, 231 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 4: sort of a money dilemma about goal setting and celebrating 232 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 4: your little wins, and in that conversation I said that 233 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 4: for me, achieving the goal is you know enough, but 234 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 4: it's always kind of directly onto the next And I 235 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 4: think a byproduct of that mindset is that you kind 236 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 4: of am always chasing the next thing, and you're always 237 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 4: trying to get to the next place, and so you're 238 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 4: maybe not always feeling entirely fulfilled. 239 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: She's getting very dark and deep. You know. 240 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 4: It's that concept of oh, well, I've achieved this thing. 241 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 4: I can do better. I can achieve something better and bigger. 242 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 4: And absolutely, I think you know, in the industry that 243 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 4: we're both working. 244 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: We work in creative industries. 245 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 4: You see people, you know, absolutely killing it and doing 246 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 4: their own thing and making his money and traveling the 247 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 4: world and doing all of these amazing things that we 248 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 4: all would love to do, and you forget that there's 249 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 4: probably someone looking at you going, oh my god, she's 250 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 4: got it all. She's got to figure it out. And 251 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 4: it's definitely a total trap that I'm very much guilty 252 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 4: of falling into. And you know, salaries are part of 253 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 4: that as well. I earn a good salary in my job. 254 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 4: I also freelance as well. By all accounts, I feel 255 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 4: like I'm doing pretty fine, but I definitely am always 256 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 4: going I want to be investing more, or I want 257 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 4: to be saving more, I want to be donating more, 258 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 4: Like I just want more, And it's so hard because 259 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 4: then I feel guilty about not being happy with what 260 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 4: I've got. So I'm guilty because I'm not earning enough, 261 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 4: and then I'm guilty because I'm not satisfied, and it's 262 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 4: just this big guilt shame spiral. 263 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeh. 264 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 4: They can be a little bit harder to dig yourself 265 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 4: out of sometimes. 266 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 2: Yes, well, I think it's worthwhile reminding that that's capitalism, baby, Like, 267 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 2: that's that's what we're living under, and it's it's pretty 268 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, it's gross or word. Yeah, Like, I 269 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 2: think sometimes we do need to tap into why we're 270 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 2: doing what we're doing. And I know a lot of 271 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: us we're not working in careers that we love and 272 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 2: we are just earning money to put food on the table. 273 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 2: But it is it's worth reminding yourself that why do 274 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 2: you want more? Do you more? Yeah? I know for me, like, 275 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 2: over the last twelve months, I earned more money than 276 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 2: I've ever earned with Hugo George. You don't really notice 277 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 2: it because there's that lifestyle creep. You get taxed more 278 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 2: when you earn more. The difference isn't that large, So 279 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 2: I think it's also maybe worse reminding yourself of that 280 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 2: as well. But yeah, it's just capitalism. It's it's really 281 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 2: it is. 282 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 4: It's awful and it's a really hard spot to find 283 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 4: yourself in. And so for everyone who was, you know, 284 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 4: joining the conversation on that post, first we thank you 285 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: for being so candid. We're all right there with you, 286 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 4: regardless of which end of the spectrum you're on. It 287 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 4: seems like there are a lot of people that are 288 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 4: feeling it just the same as you, and I would 289 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 4: encourage you. And this is also a reminder to me to, 290 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 4: you know, exercise a little gratitude. 291 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 2: Not to say that. 292 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 4: Anyone's being ungrateful, but I think sometimes taking stock and 293 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 4: being like, wow, this year I earned more than I 294 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 4: ever have. That's incredible, George, that's so exciting. And as 295 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 4: much as we're trying to move on to the next 296 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 4: thing and trying to always be better, and on some level, yes, 297 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 4: that's important because that's how we improve ourselves. Also being 298 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 4: thankful for what you've done and recognizing the hard work 299 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 4: that you put in to get there, because you're just 300 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 4: doing the best that you can exactly, and that's amazing. 301 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. And another thing to add to that, Jess, I 302 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 2: think would be asking yourself what your measure of success 303 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: is is it the money that you're earning? Yeah? I 304 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: know for me, I've never met someone and been like, 305 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: oh my god, that person earns three hundred grand a year. 306 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: What a legend. Let's be friends. Like money does not 307 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: come into the conversation. You're drawn to people's or are 308 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 2: their energy, their personalities. It's like the least interesting thing 309 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: about a person. Yeah, so yeah, I think probably questioning 310 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: why you think money is the key to success. I 311 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 2: mean traditionally it has been associated, of course, and it's 312 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: so nice to be financially comfortable, But fleshing out what 313 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 2: you think success is and what you value in other 314 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 2: people is a really good way of understanding how to 315 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 2: value yourself. I think one hundred percent well said. 316 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 4: By are a therapist. Oh my goodness, Well, should we 317 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 4: take a listen to the money dilemma for this week? 318 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 2: Let's do it? Tom, Hi, there, have you got a 319 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 2: money dilemma you just can't solve that. She's on the 320 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: Money team is here to help. Every week we tackle 321 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 2: your dilemmas, both big and small, to answer your most 322 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: burning money, career and life questions. To get involved, simply 323 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: head to our website and leave us a quick voice 324 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 2: recording and you may just find yourself on the show. Now, 325 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 2: let's take a listen to today's money dilemma. 326 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 5: Hello, ladies. My money dilemma is how is the best 327 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 5: way to ask your employer about a pay increase? Cost 328 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 5: of living is going up and I really want to 329 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 5: have a sit down conversation. 330 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 2: With my workplace. 331 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 5: Trouble is, I work for disability company and they have 332 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 5: told me in the past that I am being paid 333 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 5: above what the normal award rate is for my position. 334 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 5: So how do I go about checking to say if 335 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 5: this is still applicable, if I can ask for an increase. 336 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 5: I just really like some help and clarification around this issue. 337 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 4: Thanks alrighty, We did touch on this in our how 338 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 4: to Have Difficult Conversations with your Boss episode, but I 339 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 4: really wanted to talk about the element of this dilemma, 340 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 4: which was the award rate. Yes, which is a term 341 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:26,479 Speaker 4: that gets thrown around a lot, in my opinion, by employers, 342 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 4: an award rate. If you're not familiar, most people fall 343 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 4: into an award. Essentially that's a category of employment. So 344 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 4: there's a retail award, there's a building award, there's I'm 345 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 4: going blank, but there's like a million and one, and 346 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 4: if you want to figure out what award you're in, 347 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 4: you can actually go to the Fairwork website and there's 348 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 4: a questionnaire that will prompt you and find the correct one. 349 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 4: An award outlines essentially what would you call it, like 350 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 4: your rights as an employee, so ours worked because it 351 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 4: can differ industry to industry. Penalty rates will very award 352 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 4: to award as well. The only time an award is 353 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 4: not applicable, I believe, and I'm not an expert, please 354 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 4: with it is if you're on an enterprise agreement. And 355 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,880 Speaker 4: an enterprise agreement is an agreement that a company will 356 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 4: sign and you essentially waive your award rights to fall 357 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 4: under a new set of rules. And so it's a 358 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 4: company wide thing. You would have to sign a document, 359 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 4: it's a whole we thing. But generally speaking, a lot 360 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 4: of people will fall into awards. And so this person's 361 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,399 Speaker 4: employer is saying, we're paying you the award rate, which 362 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 4: is minimum wage for your job. So there's a national 363 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 4: standard of minimum wage, but within different industries there's different expectations. 364 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 4: So like you know, minimum wage for a teacher might 365 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 4: differ for minimum wage for a retail worker, for example, 366 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 4: and that's based on you know, skills and hours, and 367 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 4: I don't know who comes up with these things. Somebody 368 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 4: puts it all together and goes that sounds right. So 369 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 4: when they're saying that we're paying you above award rate, 370 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 4: they're essentially saying we're paying you. 371 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 2: Above minimum wage. 372 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 4: Now, how much they're paying you above is really the question, 373 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 4: because you could be paying me a dollar an hour more. Yes, 374 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 4: you're paying me above a ward it doesn't mean that 375 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 4: you're paying me in line with what the industry standard 376 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 4: currently is. And the award rates, I would argue, are 377 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 4: definitely in a lot of cases not reflective of the market. 378 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 4: Right now, we know, we've spoken about the fact that 379 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 4: it's a candidate poor market. There's a still shortage and 380 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 4: a lot of industries salaries need to increase to keep 381 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 4: up with the rising cost of living, but the award 382 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 4: rates haven't really shifted to significantly. In fact, in some 383 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 4: industries like retail, they've removed penalty rates for like Sundays 384 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 4: and stuff. You're joking, yeah, and I mean that happened 385 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 4: a little while but that's not super recent. But when 386 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 4: I was still working in retail, they were scaling it back. 387 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 4: So it used to be double and a half, then 388 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 4: it went to double, then it went to you know, 389 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 4: and it was like, over a few years it would 390 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 4: steadily decrease until it was just flat across thought. And 391 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 4: I wouldn't be surprised if other industries were the same. 392 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 4: But for me, I feel like their employer is kind 393 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 4: of using this as a bit of a crutch and saying, oh, well, 394 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 4: we pay you more than what we have to. I'm 395 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 4: a good guy exactly, and I don't necessarily know that 396 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 4: that's the case, But what do you think, George, I 397 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 4: feel like I'm just talking about I'm loving it. 398 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: I agree with you, That's what I was going to say. 399 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: I don't really care for the tone the employer here 400 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 2: by saying we already pay you above the award rate. 401 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 2: I don't like that. So in terms of going for 402 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 2: a pay rise, I definitely start by asking them, so 403 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: just take you up a meeting with your manager, have 404 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: a chat about it. Bring that evidence in terms of evidence, sorry, 405 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 2: I mean like examples of you going above and beyond 406 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 2: or doing things outside of your role description, so you 407 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 2: can really show your manager that you deserve this pay rise. 408 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 2: We're not just entitled to them because we want one. 409 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 2: I tried that in the past, didn't go well, and 410 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 2: it in tears for me. It's embarrassing. So come armed 411 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 2: with your evidence, with your story, and if they don't 412 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 2: go for it, I'd be prepared to walk away. 413 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 4: Well, this is the thing, because I would argue that 414 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 4: if you're saying that you want a salary increase, it's 415 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 4: because of one of two reasons. It's because you feel 416 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 4: like you're not being paid in line with other people 417 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 4: doing the same thing, maybe you know, for other companies 418 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 4: or in other industries. Or it's because you feel like 419 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 4: you're going above and beyond in your role. And either way, 420 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 4: they're very reasonable reasons to ask for an increase. And 421 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 4: if it's the first one and you're looking at you know, 422 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 4: Sally over here is doing the same job as you, 423 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,120 Speaker 4: and she's earning twenty k more a year for another company, 424 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 4: Go work for Sally's company. 425 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 426 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 4: I actually think that there's a point at which you 427 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 4: don't owe your employer anything. 428 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 5: Yep. 429 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 4: And I think as people sometimes we can get really 430 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 4: caught up in loyalty and we can be ghastly a 431 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 4: little bit into thinking you're not going to do better 432 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 4: anywhere else, like I look after you really well, and 433 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 4: that's actually not true. If you have good skills, if 434 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 4: you are a nice human being, there are other companies 435 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 4: that will meet your expectations. And as employers, I think 436 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 4: there's a responsibility on them to look after their staff 437 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 4: because if you don't, ultimately you're putting yourself out because 438 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 4: you're losing a good employee. And I can't remember what 439 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 4: the number is, but I remember reading a stat about 440 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 4: how much it costs an employer to replace an employee, 441 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 4: and more often than not, it's more expensive than just 442 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 4: giving them the pay rise. Yeah, because you have to hire, 443 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 4: and you have to advertise, and you have to train, 444 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 4: and it's a drain on resources in that sense. And 445 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 4: so I think that if what you're asking for is reasonable, 446 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 4: and I mean only you can really determine that, and 447 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 4: if they're not prepared to meet it, then be prepared 448 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 4: to go cards on the table, I'm going to go elsewhere. 449 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you do. You need to understand your value. 450 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 2: And as you said, it costs so much money for 451 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 2: employers to employ new people, but you do. You need 452 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 2: to think of yourself as like your own little business. 453 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:31,360 Speaker 2: Employers like their cutthroat they have to do what they 454 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 2: have to do to keep their business afloat. I think 455 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 2: it's helpful to kind of adopt that mindset from your 456 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 2: own perspective, even if it does feel a little bit personal, 457 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: it's not. It's business, baby. You've got to look after 458 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: yourself because no one else will. And if you don't 459 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 2: ask for this, parisee and it's not going to happen. 460 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 2: So yeah, I would ask. And if they say no, 461 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 2: walk away. 462 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, look around. There's nothing wrong with that. And yeah, 463 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 4: no that we believe in you. We think you deserve. 464 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:56,360 Speaker 2: We believe in you big time. 465 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 4: And if you need more tips and tricks, go back 466 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 4: to that episode. And we've done a couple of others 467 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,120 Speaker 4: as well on negotiating. And there was an episode way 468 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 4: back in season one called She Works Hearts for the 469 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 4: Money that was specifically about paarrisis, so incredible. 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