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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's just.

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Speaker 2: That Bryce and Melissa from Married at First Sight?

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Speaker 3: Is she fat?

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Speaker 2: She's a lovely lady.

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Speaker 3: It was interesting that she kind of she seems very

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Speaker 3: calm with where her relationship is, and she sort of

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Speaker 3: just rolls her eyes at him and says he's a

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Speaker 3: bit of a knucklehead, and she's every person who goes

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Speaker 3: on those shows says, oh, the editing doesn't explain at all. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they Bryce acknowledges that he did say the words that

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Speaker 3: are said, but contextually it's a different story. But every

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Speaker 3: series has said the same thing. I did think it

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Speaker 3: was interesting when we asked Melissa about people's concern that

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Speaker 3: she is trapped in a toxic relationship. She didn't speak

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Speaker 3: up for herself, and she said this.

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Speaker 1: I've not been watching. I've taken a step back from

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Speaker 1: actually reliving that experience again. But from everything that I've heard, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it probably does come across that I don't speak up enough.

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Speaker 1: And it's true because it's just not my nature. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't that I was frightened or scared of Bryce, but

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Speaker 1: I just didn't like having any type of conflict. Looking

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Speaker 1: back now, yeah, I probably should have stepped up a

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Speaker 1: bit more and challenged him a little bit because he

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Speaker 1: is very stubborn and I wouldn't I wouldn't change anything.

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Speaker 1: But it's just in my that's just who I am.

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Speaker 1: So there's there was nothing, There was no concern. I

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Speaker 1: didn't feel like I needed to be removed from that

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Speaker 1: environment of being with Bryce. It was the environment of

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Speaker 1: the group. That group dynamic was very top Do.

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Speaker 3: You remember when I first started here with you?

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 3: And because we were friends, you'd say something rude, funny, acerbic.

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Speaker 3: You know, you'd put me down as a as a

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Speaker 3: joke and I knew that, but I would just sit

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Speaker 3: here and roll my eyes and go whatever. And because

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Speaker 3: I didn't verbalize.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right, yeah, we said to marriage.

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Speaker 3: We got sent to a psychologist who was a marriage

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Speaker 3: counselor because of the feedback.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you first started working for me back in

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Speaker 2: two thousand and five, See it's when you came here

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Speaker 2: in two thousand and five, a lot of people were

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Speaker 2: saying that I was bullying you on air. A lot

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Speaker 2: of people believe that, you know, how could they do

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Speaker 2: this to lovely matter? They didn't realize that you and

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Speaker 2: I actually had a relationship. As friends before. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just ragging on you like I would normally rag on you.

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Speaker 2: But the whole thing about when you're doing a radio

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Speaker 2: show or a TV show, you don't really get to

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Speaker 2: see the full picture.

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Speaker 3: No, And also I wasn't verbalizing my response to you.

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Speaker 3: I've learnt now that I can't just sit here and

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Speaker 3: roll my eyes and go yeah, I kind of have

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Speaker 3: to say no, that's not hey, come on, you know,

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Speaker 3: pull your head in. You've got to age, which isn't

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Speaker 3: a role I've always liked. That's the thing. You don't

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Speaker 3: want to be the girl on the radio show, and

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Speaker 3: there are many of those who go, oh, yellow card,

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Speaker 3: you've stepped over the line. So because I didn't want

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Speaker 3: to play that role of being the mom, the school mam,

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Speaker 3: I just sit and roll my eyes. But the audience

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Speaker 3: didn't hear me rolling my eyes exactly, so it sounded

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Speaker 3: like I was letting you bully.

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Speaker 2: Me, and the audience hasn't seen the real price. As

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Speaker 2: far as we work with him in this studio, and

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Speaker 2: he's a nice guy, so it doesn't resonate with me

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Speaker 2: that he would be an abusive.

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Speaker 3: Are But how tough for them if their relationship is

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Speaker 3: sincere to be battling everyone's view of that relationship. It's

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Speaker 3: hard enough to have a relationship in the world without everyone.

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Speaker 3: As Bryce just said, when he came in an affair,

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Speaker 3: he said something about being Australia's most hated man. I said,

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Speaker 3: I'll come on this, Ivan Malat and he said, my

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Speaker 3: mother thinks I'm more hated than Ivan malass outrage.

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Speaker 2: So don't believe everything you hear. It's all about vocalizing

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Speaker 2: and it's a good thing to see that you now vocalize.

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Speaker 3: It to me. Give it to me, you stupid, stupid man.

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Speaker 3: You can hear my eyes rolling the big stampy boots

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Speaker 3: as you walk across the room.

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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's