1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money the podcast 13 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 4: Millennials who want financial freedom. Welcome back to another shop 14 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 4: back money Dairy Monday, where we get to talk to 15 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 4: a community member to learn about them, their money and 16 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 4: all of the fun bits and pieces in between. Victoria, 17 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 4: I have a pretty hectic one for you this week. 18 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 4: To be honest, this diarist is an absolute true but 19 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 4: there is no other word for it. 20 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I want to hear it. 21 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 4: Let's go and just before we get into it, I 22 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 4: do want to put in a content warning. We talk 23 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 4: about some pretty heavy topics in this direst email. You know, 24 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: if you find concepts like physical and mental injury or 25 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 4: life and death experience is something that's a little bit 26 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 4: hard to listen to, this might not be the episode 27 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 4: for you. So our diarist says, I grew up in 28 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 4: the country with my parents running the local Chinese restaurant. 29 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 4: After many different roles, I joined a frontline emergency services 30 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 4: job in two thousand and nine, stationed in Western Sydney, 31 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 4: and I was medically discharged last year with PTSD and 32 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: a physical injury. My partner was diagnosed with cancer in 33 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 4: feb of twenty twenty, and he passed away in October 34 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 4: last year, leaving behind an eighteen year old and a 35 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 4: twenty two year old. His will was old and it 36 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 4: was in the midst of being updated when he passed. 37 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 4: He was too unwell to sign the final draft. Over 38 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 4: this time, I also had somebody try to steal my identity. 39 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 4: I have been in a lot of therapy due to 40 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 4: my PTSD, but in January my psych past which complicated 41 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 4: things tremendously as I was in the midst of suing 42 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 4: my former employer. I'm okay for money right now. Due 43 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 4: to a payout from work cover, but I'm not sure 44 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 4: how my partner's estate will settle. I look forward to 45 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 4: sharing my complex story with the community. 46 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 2: Holy moly, Jess money Darist, Welcome to the show. How 47 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 2: are you? 48 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 5: Oh? 49 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 6: You know, it's a bit confronting hearing it all back. 50 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 6: And I think my self talk is pretty pretty low. 51 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 6: So I normally ex say to myself, oh, you know what, 52 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 6: you just need to suck it up. But I was 53 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 6: listening to that story and I thought, my god, that 54 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 6: poor human. 55 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: Yes, too much, actually too much to suck up. That's 56 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: not a thing, is it's not a thing? Like I 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 2: just feel like that negative self talk is absolutely serving nobody. 58 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: And anyone who just heard that story would be like, 59 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, like that is blow after blow after blow. 60 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a bit relentless at the. 61 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 2: Moment, it would feel that way. All right, let's get 62 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 2: into the structured questions so we can get comfy, get 63 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 2: on the same page, and then we can have a 64 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: bit more of a chat on the other side of 65 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 2: this episode, Money Diarist, can you tell us a little 66 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: bit about your money story? 67 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, so life, I said, I grew up in regional 68 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 6: New South Wales when my parents owned a little restaurant. 69 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 6: We didn't talk about money a lot at all. But 70 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 6: I worked at the family restaurant, so I learned really 71 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 6: good work ethic, but probably didn't really learn the value 72 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 6: of money, not that I was given everything, but more 73 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 6: that I had to work for what I got. 74 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: Did you have a salary? 75 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 6: I got paid ten bucks and start his slave. 76 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: Labor, slave labor, I mean, when it's your family, though, 77 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 4: what are you gonna do? 78 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 5: Exactly? 79 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 6: So I moved to Sydney when I was eighteen to 80 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 6: study hospitality, and I had a boyfriend at the time 81 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 6: who I ended up supporting for a couple of years, 82 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 6: and then I broke up with him. I moved to 83 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 6: Queensland when I was twenty one and then moved back 84 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 6: to Sydney for a guy who is now my ex, 85 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 6: and continued working in hospitality or probably worked anywhere up 86 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 6: to three jobs at once, and I was living pretty 87 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 6: much paycheck to paycheck at that stage. I did end 88 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 6: up studying massuch therapy and mine now ex talked me 89 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 6: into joining an armored the emergency services when I was 90 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 6: twenty seven. When I started working there, and then in 91 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 6: twenty thirteen he cheated on me and I pretty much 92 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 6: walked out the door with my dog good. We've been 93 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 6: together for about ten years and he had a pretty 94 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 6: decent property portfolio and I refused, I wouldn't take any 95 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 6: of it. I ended up getting together with my partner, 96 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 6: and then in early twenty nineteen is when I went 97 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 6: off work with my psychological injury, and then I did 98 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 6: therapy all through that year pretty much, and then I 99 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 6: had surgery on a physical injury from work, and two 100 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 6: weeks after my surgery, my partner was diagnosed with cancer. 101 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 6: And then we pretty much spent eighteen months juggling my 102 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 6: treatment and his treatment, and I was medically discharged from 103 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 6: work last year early last year, and he passed away 104 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 6: late last year. 105 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: That is a shit show. There's no other way of 106 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: cat that. Like I can't be like, oh, are you really, 107 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 2: like if you're okay? Like I do not understand like 108 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: how anyone could be okay after that, Like that is 109 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 2: a lot to go through. I admire your strength. 110 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 6: Thanks. 111 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 5: Yeah. 112 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 6: So I now have two legal matters going through with 113 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 6: my employer or my previous employer, and as well as 114 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 6: my partner's estate, which is just anny ay. 115 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 4: And something you don't need after going through such a 116 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 4: traumatic experience as well. And I'm so sorry that that 117 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 4: is the case. 118 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 6: Thanks. 119 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: What was your partner like? 120 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 5: Oh he was frustrating. 121 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 2: They all are. 122 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 6: Oh no, he was frustrating and he was funny. We 123 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 6: we were like peas in a pod. 124 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 2: No, I'm so sorry to food. Good joint loves are 125 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: very important. Was he also a dog person? 126 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 6: Yes, you can see the pictures behind me. This one 127 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 6: was his dog. 128 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 129 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 5: This dog here is the one that I took from 130 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 5: my ex. 131 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 132 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 6: Good, this one is my terrible naughty puppy because this 133 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 6: guy he passed away. 134 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, he has the cutest, cheekiest It's beautiful 135 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 4: art actually really lovely for everyone who can't see. She's 136 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 4: got beautiful portraits of her pappa's on the back wall 137 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 4: which are just gorgeous. 138 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're stunning. And that one on the far right 139 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: looks so cheeky, like he just looks like he's naughty. 140 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 5: She's the devil child. 141 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: Get along with Lucy, all right, money, darist, I want 142 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: to know the next question is what do you do 143 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: for work and how much money do you currently earn? 144 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 5: Well? 145 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 6: I actually I like to tell people that I'm a 146 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 6: stay at home dog mum at the moment, live in 147 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 6: the dream. Yes, I'm on payments of seventy five thousand 148 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 6: a year and part of my payment is paid fortnightly 149 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 6: and part of my payment is paid monthly. 150 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 2: That's interesting and confusing. That would be hard to budget for. 151 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 6: It is very confusing sometimes. 152 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: So what does that leave you with because obviously you've 153 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 2: got someone going medical expenses like on a month to 154 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: month or fortnite to fortnite basis, what does that mean 155 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 2: hits your account? And how much is usually left in 156 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: terms of wiggle room? 157 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 6: So fortnightly I get paid about one thousand dollars and 158 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 6: then monthly I'm paid about three thousand. So at the moment, 159 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 6: my insurer is still paying all of my medical expenses, 160 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 6: so that's a bit of the bonus good. So that 161 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 6: basically comes in and I'm okay as well as like, 162 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 6: we're probably going to get into this in a little 163 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 6: bit with loans and stuff. 164 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 5: Because the mortgage is in my partner's name. 165 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 6: Everything has been put on a whole, so I'm not 166 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 6: making any mortgage repayments or anything like that. And the 167 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 6: only other loan that we had was on the dream 168 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 6: car that we bought, and again because that's in his name, 169 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 6: it's all been put on hold. 170 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: That is so fickle and so confusing, and also a 171 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: really good example of why it is so important to 172 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: have an up to date will, because no one thinks 173 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 2: about it, right. You just go, oh, I have a will. 174 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: It'll be fine. But an up to date will doesn't 175 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 2: change your life, but it changes your family's life and 176 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 2: the people that have to deal with everything after you're gone. 177 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 5: Definitely. 178 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 6: I keep saying people, I'm really forceful. I'm always like, 179 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 6: have you got a will? If you don't have a will, like, 180 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 6: I will punch you in the favor. 181 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 5: Just for the people. 182 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,719 Speaker 2: You love the aggression. I love it. It's like all 183 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: of my clients come and see me and I'll sort 184 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 2: out your finances, and I ask a question. I'm like, 185 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 2: will's in estate planning? Where are we at nearly? Oh, 186 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: it's fine, we're young. I'm like, cool, So I'll book 187 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: a meeting with Lucy. You're going to go, You're going 188 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: to do this because we're not having this conversation later. 189 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 2: But it is something that so many of us just 190 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: don't think is a p because we're young, right. 191 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, and definitely. 192 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 6: And I keep saying to people, we get, but what 193 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 6: happens if a plane falls out of the sky and 194 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 6: lanes on top of you, like what happens? 195 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 2: Then yeah, exactly. We've got to expect the unexpected and 196 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 2: prepare for the worst. But I want to ask the 197 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 2: next question, my friend. I'd like to know, do you 198 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 2: have any investments. 199 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 6: I have my super yes, which is sitting at seven 200 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 6: hundred and one thousand. 201 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 5: Wow. 202 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 2: Wow, what seven hundred and one thousand. I think you've 203 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 2: got the highest super fund of anyone that we've ever 204 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: had on money diaries. 205 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 5: So I probably need to explain that. 206 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:45,359 Speaker 6: Because of my injury, I was paid out my TPDEAH insurance, 207 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 6: so that was five hundred and forty thousand, and that 208 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 6: was put in with my super. So I actually spoke 209 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 6: to a financial advisor and he said, there's no real 210 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 6: point you're taking it out justly but where it is 211 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 6: until you've decided what you want to do with it. 212 00:10:58,080 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 5: So it's just great in their duldens. 213 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,719 Speaker 6: And I also have just a little Rai's account that's 214 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 6: got about two and a half thousand. 215 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: Indn't it great? How good? Next question, do you have 216 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: any debts. 217 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 6: No, not well yes, but no, so not in my name. 218 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 6: I don't have any debts, but our mortgage and the 219 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 6: car loan is in my partner's name. So I think 220 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 6: we're owing about one hundred and fifty. 221 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 5: On the house. 222 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 6: And we bought our dream car, which was Aline Cruiser, 223 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 6: and we've got fifty five thousand left on that. 224 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: Land Cruisers are speno, but in this market they hold 225 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 2: their value so arguably not the worst investment. Let's be honest. 226 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 5: It's worth more than what we paid for it. 227 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: Honestly, everyone who has a land Cruiser keeps telling me that. 228 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: And I've got a client and he knows who he is. 229 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 2: He listens to the episodes. He bought one, and he's 230 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: like at the time, he's like, Victoria, it's a good investment. 231 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: And I was like, you've got rocks in your head. Boy, 232 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 2: did I learn? 233 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 5: Ha ha? 234 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, they're not cheap. 235 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 2: They are not cheap. Next question, do you use shop 236 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: back by chance? 237 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 5: I do. I actually use it for these three guys. 238 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 6: I shop through pet Circle there, but I don't really 239 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 6: do much shopping or online shopping, to be honest with you, 240 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 6: but I do use it a little bit with Pet circle, 241 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 6: and you know, if I've got birthdays or something coming up. 242 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 2: Occasionally, I feel like it's just helpful for those things 243 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: that you were going to buy anyway, not necessarily like 244 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 2: going shopping. But pet circle great money win. I'm going 245 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: to get some more cash back because small gripe of mine. 246 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: How expensive pet food is? 247 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: Like? 248 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 6: What great? 249 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 5: Oh? 250 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 6: And my dogs they eat so much? All right? 251 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 2: I want to know what is your best money habit? 252 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 6: My best money habit. I'm pretty good at waiting things out, like, oh, 253 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 6: wait for a good price on something. And I'm not 254 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 6: scared of haggling. Like I said, we bought a land 255 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 6: Cruiser in twenty twenty, and your friend who you were 256 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 6: talking about before will probably be a bit impressed that 257 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 6: because they retail it about one hundred and four thousand, 258 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 6: and I haggled them down to ninety four. Oh and 259 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 6: I have yes, no clue why they gave it to 260 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 6: me for that price. 261 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: I love that. I love that. Just for context, I 262 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 2: think he spent close to one fifty and then did 263 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 2: all of these upgrades and stuff on it. I don't understand. 264 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 2: I just was sitting there being like this is a 265 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 2: bad idea, But turns out it was good idea. I 266 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: feel like haggling these days is very underlooked. People don't 267 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 2: do it. Do you find yourself haggling on a lot 268 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: of big purchases? I mean, you can't go to pet 269 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 2: Circle and be like, hey, can I spend less on 270 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: pet food? But things like cars and really bad purchasers. Oh, 271 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: that's not true. 272 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 6: Not if you go online and find a cheaper price online, 273 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 6: you can speak to the pet Circle people on their 274 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 6: little chat and then they'll go and have a look 275 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 6: at it, and then they'll give it to you for 276 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 6: the same price. 277 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm going to do that. I'm going 278 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: to do that too. Money win, she is for that? 279 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: What is something you wouldn't haggle in that case? 280 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 6: Oh? Like, I'm not going to go to the supermarket 281 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 6: and hagle there. 282 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 2: You're not the type of person to peel the bananas 283 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: before trying to pay for them. 284 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 6: No, not that girl. 285 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right. On the flip side, what is 286 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:16,839 Speaker 2: your worst money habit? 287 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 6: So my worst money habit is I'm probably not brave 288 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 6: enough to invest or put money into a term deposit, 289 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 6: and I know I really want to, and I've got 290 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 6: money there to do it. But I'm just like, oh, 291 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 6: I don't know, should I do it? I'm a little 292 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 6: bit It makes me just a little bit anxious to 293 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 6: be honest. 294 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: I get it, I get it. It's all about education, 295 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: though I'm making steps that make sense to you, and 296 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 2: to be honest at this point in your life, I 297 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: feel like that is a stress you just don't need. 298 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 2: Knowing enough about your financial circumstances, your age, and what's 299 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 2: in your super You're going to be just fine even 300 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 2: if we wait another twelve or twenty four months until 301 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: everything just feels a little bit clearer. I think that 302 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 2: this is it's just one of those things where it's like, 303 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: let's take that load off. And I think that there 304 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: shouldn't be any pressure to start an investment journey when 305 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 2: you're stressed about other things in life, like life needs 306 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 2: to sometimes come first. And I think that you're doing 307 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 2: the right thing by going in a what not my circus, 308 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: not my monkey's this week. I've got enough going on 309 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 2: because it's just another added stress, And the start of 310 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 2: an investment journey does involve you being quite involved in it, right, 311 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: Like you need to know what decisions you're making. It 312 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: can't be something that you just set and forget from 313 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 2: the beginning, because we really need to make sure that 314 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 2: we're making the right decisions that are in line with 315 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: our values and goals. But right now it sounds like 316 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 2: a little bit of a tumultuous time. So let's come 317 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 2: back to that one at some point, my friend. All right, 318 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 2: last question before we go on a bit of a 319 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 2: deep dive after the break. I'd like to know what 320 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 2: grade would you give yourself if we force you to 321 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: give yourself a money grade? 322 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 5: I would probably give myself like a bee. 323 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 6: I was much worse with my money than I am now, 324 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 6: and I'm learning a lot. I've been pretty good with 325 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 6: my savings, to be honest with you, because I have 326 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 6: about one. 327 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 5: Hundred and thirty thousand dollars. 328 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 6: Saved, oh my goodness, jobs in several different bank accounts. 329 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 6: So i'd probably give myself a bee because I feel 330 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 6: like I could learn much much more and I could 331 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 6: be a bit smarter with it. But at the moment, again, 332 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 6: but a little bit going. 333 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 2: On, Yeah, exactly, I would think that a bee is 334 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 2: a little bit harsh given how well you're doing, how 335 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: you've got good savings, good cash flow habits, you've got 336 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: epic super I would think that you are not giving 337 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: yourself enough credit, which I think might be a theme 338 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: that runs through your life at this point in time. 339 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 6: Well, you I'm pretty good at being pretty hard on myself. 340 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: I'm picking up that vibe. But let's dive into that 341 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 2: after this very quick break money diarist. 342 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 4: I want to kind of start at the start of 343 00:16:55,440 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 4: your message and talk about your injuries. And I really 344 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 4: like that you referred to your PTSD as your psychological injury, 345 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 4: because I really believe in the power of words, and 346 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 4: I think that too often psychological problems are kind of 347 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 4: not addressed with the same level of seriousness or directness 348 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 4: that physical injuries are. So I just want to say 349 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 4: I really like that you did that, and I will 350 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 4: be doing that going forwards. But obviously juggling a physical 351 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 4: and psychological injury at the same time would be very challenging. 352 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 4: And there has been a history in you know, the 353 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 4: emergency services of things sometimes you know, not being maybe 354 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 4: dealt with in a way that you would hope for 355 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 4: them to be dealt with, And I wanted to talk 356 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 4: to you a little bit about that experience because you 357 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 4: said you're still going through legal battles today, Can you 358 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 4: tell us a bit about what happened? 359 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 6: So for me, it was a little bit of a 360 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 6: build up of, you know, being exposed to a lot 361 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 6: of traumatic incidents over a long period of time, and 362 00:17:56,520 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 6: then I went to work and was with an incident 363 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 6: that when I walked away, I was really angry at 364 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 6: myself with how I dealt with it. So it's actually 365 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 6: considered like a moral injury because you've done something that 366 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 6: is you would not normally do or think. So I 367 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:24,959 Speaker 6: actually ended up doing CPR on a local drug dealer 368 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 6: who I really despised, and I remember walking away thinking, 369 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 6: a uf and series, this is the one person that 370 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 6: I get to try and save today. 371 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't even begin to imagine. But it's 372 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 4: such a testament to you as a person. To be 373 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 4: able to put your own personal feelings and all of 374 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 4: the things that you were dealing with at the time 375 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 4: to put them aside to do your job to save 376 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 4: somebody's life is nothing short of incredible. And regardless of 377 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,360 Speaker 4: the choices that that person made, there is one more 378 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 4: person in this world because of you, and that is 379 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 4: just amazing. 380 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 2: That's so special, And I just feel like as a 381 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: frontline worker, you get dealt these cards where you can't 382 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: really place judgment over these things, like you're doing your job. 383 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 4: How big of a gap was there between that psychological 384 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 4: injury occurring and then your physical injury. 385 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 6: My physical injury actually occurred first. Okay, So when I 386 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 6: got my physical injury, I really didn't think anything of it, 387 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 6: and I just put in a form to say, you know, 388 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 6: I've done this. I think there might be an injury, 389 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 6: but I'm okay. I didn't get any treatment for it 390 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 6: at the time, and then several months later I was 391 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,679 Speaker 6: at the doctors and I was speaking to him and 392 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 6: then spoke to my physiotherapist and she was like, oh, 393 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 6: I really think you may should maybe have a look 394 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 6: at getting some skins done on it. So I went 395 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 6: did that and then went back to the insurance company 396 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 6: was like, hey, listen, this is what's come up in 397 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 6: these skins, and then they pretty much took coverage of it. 398 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 6: And yeah, so I ended up having to have surgery 399 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 6: to repair the ligament in my wrist, So that was 400 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 6: pretty delightful. 401 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. 402 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 2: No, it wouldn't have been. No, it wouldn't have been. 403 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 6: It has taken a long time to rehab risks. 404 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 4: Are so complex because there's so my partner's actually a physico, 405 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 4: and there's so many tiny, little minuscule bones in there. 406 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 4: And turns out you actually use your hands a lot 407 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 4: in day to day life and you hat so that happened. 408 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 4: You did the right thing. You filled out the form. 409 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 4: The insurance that you were referring to. Is that your 410 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 4: personal insurances that you had, or insurance through your employer. 411 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 6: No insurance through the employer. 412 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So they looked after everything there and then 413 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 4: fast forward quite a few years to today. Where is 414 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 4: the sticking point with your employer? What is embroiling you 415 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 4: in this legal battle that stretched out over so much time. 416 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 6: So just because we're now at the final stages of 417 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 6: litigation with the insurance company as to whether or not 418 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 6: they are liable for my. 419 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 2: Injuries, yeah okay, And I'm assuming that pertains more to 420 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: the psychological injury than it does to the physical, Is 421 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 2: that correct? Yeah? That seems to be pretty standard in 422 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 2: frontline worker like life. But it actually disgusts me, like 423 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 2: the idea that the people that literally put their lives 424 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 2: on the line, like you spoke before that you did 425 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 2: CPR on a drug dealer, Like that is putting yourself 426 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: in And I'm sure you've been in a million more 427 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 2: dangerous situations that I don't understand and you know don't 428 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 2: know about, but like that's a circumstance that not every 429 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 2: single person would be willing to put themselves in for 430 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 2: the you know, greater good of the community and of 431 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,679 Speaker 2: our you know, our space and our world, and then 432 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: things like this happen and you're not put in an 433 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,400 Speaker 2: optimal position, like it just it makes me so angry 434 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 2: to think that you have to go through this and 435 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 2: you have to put your time and your energy and 436 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 2: your effort into making this happen, because ideally, if it 437 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: was up to them, it would have been swept under 438 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 2: the rug. I'm assuming that's exactly right. 439 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 6: It would have been you know, me just being a 440 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 6: number and then them being able to replace me so easily. 441 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 2: It's actually disgusting. So talk to me about next steps. 442 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 2: All of this is happening. You've been through a lot 443 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 2: in that space, and then you went through everything with 444 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 2: your partner in addition to this, Like how are you doing, 445 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 2: how are you dealing with this? Like what's going on 446 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 2: at the moment and what support are you getting, because 447 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: obviously that is so essential to this journey. 448 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 6: I'm probably pretty lucky, and I really built really good 449 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 6: support network around me, so I made sure, like you know, 450 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 6: I was pretty demanding with my treatment, so my psych 451 00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 6: injury in particular, or I demanded, you know, the best, 452 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 6: the best psychologists and the best psychiatrists. And then I'm 453 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 6: super lucky to have the most amazing friends. 454 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 5: And family. 455 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 6: So I've relighted heavily on that with my psych injury. 456 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 6: I have also done like so much therapy, like group 457 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 6: therapy and stuff. And in one week I go to 458 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 6: a mental health facility for a little holiday away just 459 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 6: to try and deal with some. 460 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 5: Of my own stuff. 461 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 2: I think that is a very good step in the 462 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: right direction, and the support there twenty four to seven 463 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 2: will mean that you can just focus on you. 464 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 6: I'm super excited to not even have to cook my 465 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 6: own food. 466 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 4: I was going to say the real benefit of those places, 467 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 4: and a very close family member of mine spent some 468 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 4: time in a facility, and the benefit is really that, 469 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 4: you know, as a human being, you take on so 470 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 4: many little loads, like you said, the cooking or trying 471 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,919 Speaker 4: to keep on top of the housework and going to 472 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 4: somewhere where all of that is alleviated and stripped back, 473 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 4: so you can really just be with yourself and focus 474 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 4: on you and everything that you've been through. I think 475 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 4: there's a lot of stigma attached to it, and I 476 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 4: think it's so ridiculous because actually, for a lot of people, 477 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 4: it's actually what you need is just the clarity of 478 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 4: sitting with yourself. 479 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely, I just need a little bit of time 480 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,360 Speaker 6: out from the everything that's going on and just some 481 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 6: time to deal with everything that I'm going through. 482 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 2: I agree. I think it is a very positive step 483 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 2: in the right direction. But I want to ask because unfortunately, 484 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 2: when it comes to frontline workers, this isn't the first 485 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 2: time I've heard in our community legal battles going on 486 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: between you know, different services and previous employers because of 487 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: physical or mental injuries or even bullying. I just feel 488 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 2: like I think I'm in a very special pas right 489 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 2: like you guys, I hope and trust me with your 490 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 2: stories and trust me enough to reach out when these 491 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,239 Speaker 2: things happen, And obviously I'll bend over backwards to make 492 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: sure you're in an okay position, But it just seems 493 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 2: all too prevalent what support are you getting? Obviously you've 494 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 2: got a really great support network, but are there resources 495 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 2: that you've been leaning on that other people in our 496 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 2: community might be able to lean on as well? Or like, 497 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 2: how are you dealing with this? And I won't say 498 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 2: so well because I'm sure you don't feel so well, 499 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 2: but I'm genuinely like what how is she going through 500 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 2: all of this and still going like, oh, I have 501 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 2: negative self talk? Like no, I want to pick you 502 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,400 Speaker 2: up and hug you and send you on a holiday 503 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 2: and be like what can I do? Well? 504 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 5: I'd love a holiday. 505 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 6: So you know, if it's you know, dealing with, say 506 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 6: a mental health issue, I always suggest to people, you know, 507 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 6: you go to your GP and you speak to them 508 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 6: and get yourself a mental health plan because they will 509 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 6: cover either the whole cost or part of the cost 510 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 6: to see a psychologist or accounts or something like that. 511 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 6: So that's what I've always sort of suggest. As for 512 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 6: you know, when I was working in emergency services, I 513 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 6: don't think I took up any of the services that 514 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:27,160 Speaker 6: they provided with, like for psychological stuff or anything like that. 515 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 6: I guess there was that still that stigma and I 516 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 6: didn't want to be tired with that brush. Now I'm 517 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 6: a bit like shit, I'll tell you everything. 518 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. And I feel like that's also relatively common 519 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 2: as well. Like a lot of people that we've previously 520 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 2: discussed this with are very much on the page of 521 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 2: they don't want help from internal psychologists or internal support 522 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: because they just feel like it might be used against 523 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 2: them or might not be taken as seriously, whereas you know, 524 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 2: external help might be a little bit easier on you 525 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: and the process might be a little bit more comforting. 526 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,679 Speaker 2: It's a hard position to be in, and I just 527 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 2: look at it and go, there's something wrong with the 528 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 2: system if this is like these are the situations that 529 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 2: you're finding yourself in. 530 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 6: It's so hard, Like you don't want to be that 531 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 6: person who's gone off with the head noise is right, 532 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 6: and then you come back and nobody wants to be 533 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 6: like working with you, or they don't want to, you know, 534 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,959 Speaker 6: they don't want to associate with you because for whatever reason, 535 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 6: it's a really harsh stigma. And I mean, even since 536 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 6: I've been off, I've noticed that the people who stay 537 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 6: in contact with me are few and far between. There's 538 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 6: quite a lot of people who you know, I thought 539 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 6: I was really good friends with at the time because 540 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 6: we work together a lot, and then you know, I've 541 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 6: not heard boo from them since. 542 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 2: I hate that. But traumatic events often help you find 543 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 2: who your true friends are. And as much as it 544 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 2: feels like a loss, something that I said to a 545 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 2: friend the other day is sometimes you lose something and 546 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 2: it's not a loss. Like sometimes when you shed something, 547 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 2: it feels like a loss because you're like, wait, that 548 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 2: was so good, but it actually wasn't because it was 549 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 2: all not real. It wasn't authentic because if it was, 550 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,119 Speaker 2: they would have followed up with you, they would have 551 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 2: cared about you. So not everything you lose is a loss, 552 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: my friend. 553 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 5: Oh that's so true. 554 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 2: All right. Shifting back to your partner, that is just 555 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 2: a blow that nobody ever needs, especially going through what 556 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:37,479 Speaker 2: you're going through. I genuinely just cannot imagine. But to 557 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 2: add insult to injury, you're also now having to deal 558 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 2: with the will and the estate planning process. You mentioned 559 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 2: before that his will was outdated. What does that process 560 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 2: look like for you now and how are you dealing 561 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 2: with that? 562 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 6: So my partner, he was previously married and he has kids, 563 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 6: sick his ex wife, and at some stage previously. 564 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 5: You know, before me, there was a will. 565 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 6: Written and it is signed, and it's somewhere, but we 566 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 6: don't know where. He was in the process of rewriting 567 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 6: a new will and had written up a document which 568 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 6: he'd sent to a solicitor, and when she sent the 569 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 6: draft back was actually the day that he went back 570 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 6: into the hospital for the final time, and by the 571 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 6: time I got in to see him, he was so 572 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 6: doped up on morphine and drugs that he wasn't able 573 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 6: to sign it. So I contacted the solicitor and I said, listen, 574 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 6: I'm really sorry, we won't be able to do this. 575 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 5: She said, that's fine, because we have this document. 576 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 6: We may be able to just run it like as 577 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 6: per usual because it's a document that he's written. 578 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 2: Yep. 579 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 5: Anyway, so he passed away. 580 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,239 Speaker 6: I contacted the solicitor to start the whole process, and 581 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 6: she basically came back and said to me, she said, oh, 582 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 6: that document, we've had another look at it and it's 583 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 6: probably not quite as water tight as it needs to be. 584 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 6: She said, we need to make attempts to try and 585 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 6: find the old will, and if we find it, then 586 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 6: you're basically going to have to go to court and 587 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 6: we're going to have to contest it to bring this 588 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 6: new will into play. 589 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 2: Ah and all because of a signature. 590 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 6: Yes, and then also a lot of things that you know, 591 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 6: sometimes you don't know until you've been through it. So 592 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 6: his kids are eighteen and twenty two, and in the 593 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,719 Speaker 6: document that he wrote up he had requested that they 594 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 6: don't get the money until they're twenty five, but he 595 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,959 Speaker 6: hadn't set up any trusts or anything like that. And 596 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 6: also the money his life insurance had beneficiaries listed, which 597 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 6: were the two kids, and I think he thought that 598 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 6: that would just automatically pay out the house and the 599 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 6: car loan and then go into. 600 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 5: The estate and then be divvied up. 601 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 6: And that's not how it works. The same sort of 602 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 6: thing for his superin stuff like that. And then you know, 603 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 6: so it's all a lot of waiting around and my 604 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 6: signature here and a signature there, and filling in this document. 605 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 6: So it is a bit of a nightmare. And I 606 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 6: implore people to just get a. 607 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 2: Will agreed, and get a good one, because, as you're 608 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 2: finding out now, just having a will doesn't mean it 609 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 2: will be facilitated in the way you want it to 610 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 2: be facilitated. So the example you just gave before, you 611 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 2: said that there are beneficiaries on his insurance and he's 612 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 2: super and he assumed that maybe it would pay off 613 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 2: the house and car and then be divvied up. Unfortunately, 614 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 2: for that to happen, it would have had to nominate 615 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 2: the estate first and then have a will that supports that. 616 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 2: That means that it would be divvied up after whatever 617 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: is left over, after getting rid of any debt and 618 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 2: making sure that everything's good. But that's something that you know, 619 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 2: the average person isn't going to know or even know 620 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 2: how to facilitate. One of the most important things that 621 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 2: you can do for your family is talk to a 622 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 2: wills and estate planning lawyer and just get it drawn up. 623 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 2: Like as much as it's not something we want to 624 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 2: talk about, like it is really morbid, right, Like it's 625 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 2: not something that anybody wants to face, Like facing your 626 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: o immortality is not a nice conversation, but being able 627 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 2: to have that conversation while that person is still there 628 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 2: is not only very constructive and puts everyone in a 629 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 2: better position long term, but also costs everybody far less 630 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 2: money because at the moment you'd be going back and 631 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 2: forth with a solicitor and you know, making sure that 632 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 2: everything's paid for, and to go to court costs money, 633 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 2: whereas a good estate plan can cost anywhere between one 634 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 2: thousand and you know, three thousand dollars depending on who 635 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,719 Speaker 2: you go through and what that looks like and what 636 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 2: your structure looks like. And obviously that's just my experience 637 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 2: as a financial advisor who does work quite closely with 638 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 2: the state planning lawyers. But I just go, that's an 639 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 2: investment that you make for your future and for your family. 640 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 2: Like you don't get a will for you, you get 641 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 2: a will for your family to not have to go 642 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: through the circumstances that you're going through at the moment, 643 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 2: because it's a headache and it's painful, and we want 644 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 2: time to grieve the loss of this beautiful person, not 645 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 2: have to chase up paperwork and you know, consistently be 646 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 2: asked questions in such a clinical manner like, let's use 647 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 2: that time far more effectively. So I'm so sorry that 648 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: you're going through that. It honestly breaks my heart to 649 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 2: think that someone in our community is just having a 650 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:40,239 Speaker 2: shitty time, like honestly, like calling out what it is. 651 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 2: It's just terrible. I'm honestly it breaks my heart. But 652 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 2: the next question I do have is how can we 653 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 2: support you as she's on the money, Like, what can 654 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 2: we do? How can you know she's on the money 655 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 2: support you and people like you going through these circumstances? 656 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 2: Is it about you going all right? 657 00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 1: Well? 658 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 2: I just want everyone to get will and their estate 659 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 2: plans sorted. I just want, you know, people to reach 660 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 2: out more or how do we want to approach that conversation? 661 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 2: Because sometimes you know, I'm sure that a lot of 662 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: people in your life just don't know how to start 663 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 2: the conversation. They're just like I don't know how to 664 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,879 Speaker 2: even talk to her because she's been through so much 665 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: and we don't want to offend or upset her. Like 666 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 2: what do we do? 667 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 5: I don't know. 668 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 6: No, I'm pretty open and honest about everything. And like 669 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 6: I said earlier, like that's probably the first question I 670 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 6: asked most people when I see them, as have you 671 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 6: got a will? And they love that. I go on 672 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,880 Speaker 6: and say if you don't have a will, like I 673 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 6: will slap you. And like you said, you know you 674 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 6: don't get a will for yourself? You write that will 675 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 6: for the people that you love and it's your legacy. 676 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,240 Speaker 2: Legacy is a beautiful way of putting it as well. 677 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, just do it like because otherwise nothing that you 678 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 6: want or nothing that you expected is going to happen. 679 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 4: And if you do want to learn more about wills, 680 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 4: we did do a full episode on them and why 681 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 4: they are so important because money direst We are very 682 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 4: very aligned on that viewpoint with you. But thank you 683 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 4: so much for being so candid with us. I think 684 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:14,320 Speaker 4: that what you have been through is nothing short of horrific, 685 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 4: but there are lots of people who will be able 686 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 4: to relate to elements of it, and if you are 687 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 4: going through something really difficult, we will have a link 688 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 4: in the show notes to Beyond Blue. They are fantastic 689 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 4: free not for profit that work really closely with people 690 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 4: in the mental health space. Because, like we said earlier, 691 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 4: your mental health is so important and I am so 692 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 4: supportive of people taking it seriously and giving it the 693 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 4: attention that it absolutely deserves. 694 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 5: Thanks so much for having me, guys. 695 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 2: No, thank you for being so generous with your time 696 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,720 Speaker 2: and with your story. I'm always very grateful to share 697 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 2: stories with our community, but yours especially I think is 698 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 2: going to impact a lot of people. And I know 699 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 2: that you have everyone in the Shoes on the Money 700 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 2: community behind you, like I know who everyone is listening 701 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 2: at the moment going oh my gosh, she needs to 702 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 2: be so kind to herself, Like what a beautiful human. 703 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 2: So thank you for one being in our community and 704 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 2: too sharing your story. 705 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 6: I'm just so grateful, thanks so much, really appreciate. 706 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 5: It, Jess. 707 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 2: Now can you wrap the boring but important stuff? 708 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 4: Of course, don't forget guys, the advice shared on She's 709 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 4: on the Money is general in nature and does not 710 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 4: consider your individual circumstances. 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