1 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: The research keeps piling up and it continues to tell 2 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 1: a mixed, challenging and nuanced story about kids and their 3 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: time on screens. God I and welcome to the Happy 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: Families Podcast. My name is doctor Justin Coulson. Today it's 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: a doctor's Desk episode. In just a sec, I'm going 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: to spend a couple of minutes talking with you about 7 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: screen addiction and mental health. There's a reasonably new study 8 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: that's been making headlines and it is fascinating. Headlines include 9 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: real risk to youth mental health is addictive use, not 10 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: screen time alone? Why parents should focus on screen addiction 11 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: over screen time. Screen addiction and suicidal behaviors are linked 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: for teens according to a study. So what do we 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: make of these findings? What does the research report actually 14 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: tell us? Is screen addiction a real diagnosis? Where do 15 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: we go from here when it comes to kids and screens. 16 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: That's all coming up in just to sec on today's 17 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 1: episode of the Happy Families Podcast, a Doctor's Desk special edition. Gooday, 18 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Happy Familiess podcast, Real parenting solutions every 19 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: day on Australia's most downloaded parenting podcast. I'm doctor Justin Colson. Today. 20 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: Unfortunately on my own misus happy families couldn't make it 21 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: in for this one. So short, sharp to the point. 22 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: A brand new study, a new paper published in I 23 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 1: think it was June in Jammer A researchers at Jammer 24 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 1: is a fairly prestigious publication that scientists love to publish 25 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: their stuff so that everyone gets to find out the 26 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: latest in research science. Researchers analyzed data from the Adolescent 27 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: Brain Cognitive Development Study. It's a massive study happening in 28 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: the United States's been going on for a number of years, 29 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: following thousands of kids right across the US. This particular 30 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: study four two hundred and eighty five tweens. They participated 31 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: three different time points between the ages of ten and fourteen. 32 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Break this down and talk about what was measured so 33 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: that we can have a look at what the research 34 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: has discovered. They looked at addictive screen use, screen time, 35 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: mental health symptoms, and suicidal ideation and behavior. Okay, so 36 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: two screen measures and two mental health measures. Let's talk 37 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: about the two screen measures. First, addictive screen use. We're 38 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: talking about where the kids are literally using their screens 39 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: in addictive ways, whether they're on phones, social media, and 40 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: video games. Okay, so looking at just compulsive use of phone, 41 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: compulsive use of social media or addictive use, I should say, 42 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: and video games screen time. They just reported the total 43 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: number of hours that they spent per day on screens, 44 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: not including school activities. Okay, so this is for recreation 45 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: use for non school activities. Then they looked at mental health. 46 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: Parents were reporting whether or not kids had concerns around depression, anxiety, 47 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: and behavior problems. And there was the suicidal ideation and 48 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: behavior side of things, where parents and kids were both 49 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: interviewed about whether or not the child had any suicidal 50 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: thoughts or attempts over the last few years. So we're 51 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: looking for patterns here between time on screens, addictive screen use, 52 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: and mental health outcomes. Okay, what they find, let's talk 53 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 1: about that. First off, addictive use was very common. To me. 54 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: This is the big concern. Addictive use is very common 55 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: and it goes up as kids get older. Forty nine 56 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 1: fourteen nine percent of kids showed addictive patterns of phone use. Surprisingly, 57 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: only ten percent showed addictive patterns of social media use, 58 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: and forty one percent showed addictive patterns of video game use. 59 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: Now I'm wondering whether or not, the addictive patterns of 60 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: phone use and the addictive patterns of social media use 61 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: could have been conflated, and so the forty nine percent 62 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: and then down to ten percent, maybe that's not quite accurate. 63 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: But what what the researchers did find is that levels 64 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: were increasing consistently over time for those things and addictive patterns. 65 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: And this is the real take home message. Addictive patterns 66 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: of screen use were associated with worse mental health outcomes. 67 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: What do I mean by that? Kids who showed highly 68 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: addictive social media use or highly addictive video game use 69 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: were at greater risk for suicidal thoughts, suicidal behavior, and 70 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: other mental health problems. Okay, if your kids look like 71 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: they're highly addicted to social media or video games, you 72 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: would expect that there would be an associated increase in 73 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: mental health challenges and perhaps even the pointy end, which 74 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: I think is really concerning. When it comes to highly 75 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: addictive phone use, those children were also a greater use, 76 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: a greater risk sorry for suicidal thoughts and behavior as well. 77 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: So what's really interesting in this pattern of research is 78 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: this the total amount of screen time that you could 79 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: just spending in front of the device doesn't seem to 80 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: be associated with mental health problems, but when they are addicted, 81 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: when there is addictive behavior. So time on device is 82 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: not the same as addictive styles of behavior. And I'm 83 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: going to break that down in just a sec. So 84 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: what that basically means is total screen time not associated 85 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: with mental health challenges, but addictive screen news is associated 86 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: with mental health concerns. Okay, what I mean by associated 87 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: is we're not saying one thing causes the other, and 88 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: we're saying when one thing moves, so does the other thing. 89 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: So it might be poor emotion regulation, it could be 90 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: a lack of sleep, it could be poor diet, it 91 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: could be a lack of friendships. It could be any 92 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: number of other things that are driving both and we're 93 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: just not measuring that in this study. Okay, so what 94 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: does addictive screen news actually mean? We need to disentangle 95 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: addictive screen use from time on screen. I think that 96 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: the two would be correlated, but it seems that in 97 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: this study that hasn't been the case. So common criteria 98 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: for addictive or compulsive social media use, phone use, video 99 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: gaming use number one. I just don't seem to be 100 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: able to stop or limit my screen news. Try to 101 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: use them less and not able to try to reduce 102 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: phone usage's not able to second one feeling distressed or 103 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: irritable or anxious or depressed when not on a screen. 104 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: Third one using the screen as an emotional regulation tool. 105 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: Fourth one, just thinking about being on the screen all 106 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: the time, Like what am I supposed to do if 107 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 1: I'm not on a screen? I need to be on 108 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: my screen? And fifth causing problems with other activities, So 109 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: having an impact on sleep, having an impact on school, 110 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: having an impact on relationships, having lots of arguments, those 111 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: kinds of things. So that's what we're talking about with 112 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: addictive screen use, and that's how it differs from time 113 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: on just screen time generally. So after the break, we're 114 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: going to talk about whether the screen addiction is a 115 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: real diagnosis and what we as parents are supposed to 116 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: do when it comes to kicks and screens. This is 117 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: the Happy Families podcast. Justin Colson breaking down a recent 118 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: study in JAMMA. JAMMA the Adolescent Brain Cognitive Development Study, 119 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: a massive ongoing study of child health that's been following 120 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: thousands of US kids. Addiction. Addictive screen use, whether it's phone, 121 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: whether it's gaming, whether it's social media, is associated with 122 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: all the bad stuff and none of the good stuff. Seemingly, 123 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: if your child is using a screen a lot but 124 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: is not addicted to it, we don't get the same 125 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: negative outcomes. So what do we need to know here? 126 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,239 Speaker 1: We don't actually have an official definition of screen addiction. 127 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: It's not an actual diagnosis. You won't find it in 128 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: any of the statistical or diagnostic manuals. And so when 129 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: we use this term in association with screens, we could 130 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: be conflating a whole lot of different things that operate 131 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: differently and require different treatments and essentially not the same thing. 132 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: And we could also be pathologizing certain behaviors that are 133 00:07:54,520 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: not pathological. So is it really a disease if if 134 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: your child is argumentative about screens? Is it really a 135 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: disease if your child is thinking about what they were 136 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: doing on their screens? Like I don't have any games 137 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: on my device right now, but I used to and 138 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: I used to close my eyes and just see the 139 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: game playing in my head. Does that mean that I 140 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: have a disease? No, it just means that fundamentally, I'm 141 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: teaching my brain to seek certain things. My friend Jackie NeSSI, 142 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: who runs the Techno Sapiens blog says this. She says, 143 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: addiction is convenient shorthand for describing patterns of screen use 144 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: that are problematic, but we need to be careful about 145 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: what exactly we mean when we say it. So what's 146 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: this study mean? What are you supposed to do with 147 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: the information? How do we leverage this? Where do we go? 148 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: First off, I think that there is a distinction between 149 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: overall screen time and addictive patterns of use. But the 150 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: more your child is on a screen, the more likely 151 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: it is that they're going to get addicted. So all 152 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: of this comes back to boundaries, right. We've got an 153 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: upcoming social media minimum major legislation intervention that's coming December 154 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: ten in this country, which is going to have some impact, 155 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: but not a huge amount because kids can still use 156 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: their screens a lot, So we need to set clear 157 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: boundaries around screen use. The three's of effective discipline would 158 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: be the model that I would use. Explore what your 159 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: child wants to do on a screen and for how 160 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: long and when and how and why and those kinds 161 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: of things. Explain what your concerns are, and then empower 162 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: them to work with you on a problem solving conversation 163 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: to figure out the best way forward. We've recently with 164 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 1: our homeschool daughter. Emily said, we are just tired of 165 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: fighting with you about screens so we are deciding now 166 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: you are going to get this much screen time every day. 167 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: We're not big on screen time, we're more interested in 168 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: what you're doing on it, but we're tired of the conversation. 169 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 1: So we're actually going to bring in a time limit 170 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: because it just makes life easier. So Emily now knows 171 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: that she gets X number of hours of screen time 172 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: every single day. It's predictable, it's locked in, it's confirmed, 173 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: and she also knows what time of day she's going 174 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: to get that screen time. We've put it into a 175 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: calendar so she knows, and she also understands that she 176 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: has to do X, Y and Z before she gets 177 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: that screen time. So if she's choosing to be obstinate 178 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: and not do her school work, even though we get 179 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: to one pm and she's supposed to get her hour 180 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,119 Speaker 1: of screen time, if she hasn't done her lessons for homeschool, 181 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: then she does not get the screen time. And what 182 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: we found is that she's doing her lessons because she 183 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: wants a screen time, and we're not having as many 184 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: fights about schoolwork or about screens. It's actually working kind 185 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: of well. But please note we haven't been dictatorial here. 186 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: We have used the three e's, which means it's a 187 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 1: collaborative problem solving solution rather than a here's how it's 188 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: going to be. With the parents, just do as you're told. 189 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: Don't think that would have been helpful, Okay. Second thing 190 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: that I would emphasize, we've got to be good examples 191 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: of how to use our screens. If we are constantly 192 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: on our screens, we are modeling all the wrong stuff. 193 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: We need to talk to our kids about what we're 194 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: doing to curb our use. We need to show them 195 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: that we can put their screens down, and if we're 196 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: struggling with it, we actually need to be honest with 197 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: the kids and say this is hard for me, just 198 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: like it's hard for you. The third thing that I'd 199 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: encourage is just being aware of the red flags, like 200 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 1: if your child is having these extreme reactions when screen 201 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: time is finished, then it's time to go back to 202 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: a three e's conversation. This is actually what we've done 203 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,119 Speaker 1: with Emily as well, because she started to have some tantrums. 204 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: We said every time we have to get mad at 205 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: you because you're not turning off the screen even though 206 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: your time is up. It means five minutes less the 207 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: next day. That's all we've had to do. She's like, Okay, 208 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to lose five minutes tomorrow. You're telling 209 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: me that my time is up. My time is up, 210 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: and that's working really, really, really well. We're so happy 211 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: with that. Two other things that I'm going to suggest 212 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: change the environment, get the kids outside, do things that 213 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: are incompatible with screen use. And I think that can 214 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: really really make a difference. We use the app or 215 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: I use the app Freedom on my devices, and I 216 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: just find that is wonderful. There are others I know 217 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: that I've been recommended Forest a number of times as well. 218 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't find that the inbuilt screen time works so well. 219 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: And the last thing is we've put a list together 220 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: for Emily of other things that she can do because 221 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 1: she knows she only gets X amount of time per 222 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: day on screens, and so we've got a list of 223 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: ten or twelve other activities that she can participate in 224 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: every single day, and she can feel good about doing 225 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: those because she knows she's going to get her time 226 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: on screen, and what we've actually found is she's become 227 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: more helpful because helping around the house and tid in 228 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: the kitchen is one of those things on the list, 229 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: and we've just found that we've got a wonderfully helpful child. Okay, 230 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: guys that it will link to the study in the 231 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: show notes and hopefully there's some food for thought there. 232 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: When it comes to kids and screens, it's perennial, it's endemic, 233 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: it's ongoing, but hopefully this has been useful. The Happy 234 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: Family's podcast is produced by Justin Ruland from Bridge Media. 235 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: Mim Hammond's provides admin research and a whole lot of 236 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: additional support and if you'd like more information about making 237 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: your family happier, visit us at happyfamilies dot com dot au. 238 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: Tomorrow on the pod, Kylie will be back with me 239 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: for an old Do Better Tomorrow episode as we unpack 240 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: the week, have a look at what worked, what didn't, 241 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: get intentional about a parenting for next week, and fingers crossed, 242 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: get things more right than wrong. Have a great day,