WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Should she dump him for vaping? 🚭 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:14.360 Come on. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:22.439 Oh hello everyone, Hello, Hello, Happy Thursday, guys. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:26.560 Hi guys, I've had the most embarrassing afternoon of my life. 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:27.480 What's happened to? 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:27.640 You know? 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:29.480 I just feel like this is going to be an exaggeration. 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:31.520 No, this is true, and I'm not adding any mayo 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:33.120 to it. As you know, I'm in my fit girl 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.800 era and I'm walking every day. You doing my hot 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:36.800 girl walks. 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:40.279 Every single day. I'm enjoying the constant Instagram updates. 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:40.559 You know. 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.640 It's it's what's it called accountability? 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.879 That's accountability and insanity. I think because I've developed these 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.200 blisters on my feet because I'm running ten kilometers a day. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.400 So I thought I'll treat myself to get some new shoes. 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:52.560 So I've just been shopping to get a pair of shoes. 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.600 I went to foot locker and you know what they 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:57.160 have like that really fancy like bio scam that you 0:00:57.200 --> 0:00:58.720 stand on and they measure your feet. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:01.760 And like the pressure, the dispersion of weight. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:04.520 Yeah stuff, but you have the most just like we 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.600 saw them on Monday, revolting blisters on your feet at 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:07.880 the moment. 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:09.040 Yeah, I had to take my shoes off in the 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.399 studio because they were so sore. So I go to 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.000 take He goes, take your shoes and socks off. So 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:14.760 I take my shoes and socks off, and I stand 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:19.600 on the biometric scanner and my blister bursts on the 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.320 footlo a biometric scanner? 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.720 Did you stand on it with what was happening on 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:26.160 your already discussion? 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:29.360 That's fair because blisters, it's just scary. You wouldn't have 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:31.520 known that's going to pop just from staining, but it was. 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:33.560 It was such. It was such a big blister that 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.759 the attendant you could hear it, and then it squirted 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.080 about forty centimnutes and he went, I'm gonna have to 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.200 get you to clean that up. And I said, yeah, 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:44.120 that's there is brought me a rag and I just 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:44.800 wiped it up. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:47.600 There is nothing more humiliating than having to clean up 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:48.280 your own blister. 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:51.440 Pass That was horriffic out of the foot that did you? 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:52.640 Did you purchase the shoes? 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:53.960 Yeah, I've got a heavy pronate. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.600 So I got everyone only up from here for the 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:57.120 rest of the show. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:59.640 Put it that way, all right? It is big. Next 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:00.600 we've got mask gun cut. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:01.680 This is the big question. 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:04.480 Is it okay to get your partner to give up 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:05.840 something that they love. 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:07.280 Can you make them give it up? 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:09.079 Ultimatum vibes. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.960 Yeah, I don't know the details. I'm going to say, yeah, 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:12.400 all right. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:14.200 We'll get to that next. Plus today, if you want 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.600 to go see Taylor Swifts, we got a full row 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:18.200 of tickets to the air as well to ur. 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.320 Jan and entire row for you and your friends. This 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:22.320 is like the hottest giveaway of the year. 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.960 Yeah, if you want them. Thirteen one of sixty five 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:27.000 is the number. It is happening real soon here at 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.480 the pickup or thanks to Chemists Warehouse heading today great 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.480 savings every day. It is the Pickup brit Laura and 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:35.880 Mitch here thanks to Chemists Warehouse, try the new Fragrance 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:39.440 DC ten Sport one hundred meal by Dan Carter, new 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:43.000 and exclusive to Chemists Warehouse for just forty nine ninety nine. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:49.079 Let's do this, Ladies, Ask Uncut, Ask gun Cut is 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:51.760 a show favorite where you guys, you call in with 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.360 your deepest, your darkest, your biggest problems and we do 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:57.200 our best to answer them. We have Samara on the phone. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:59.400 She wants to know whether she could force her partner 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:00.240 to give up some thing. 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:06.280 Hi Samara, Hi, guys, I have a problem. So I 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:08.240 have asked my boyfriend to stop vaping. 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:09.799 Ah, what did we say? 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.240 And what's the problem the credit vaping? 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:18.320 So basically, for context, my grandfather, he has been a 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:20.560 smoke about his whole life. It's kind of traumatic for 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.600 me and I I'm so against it. I don't like smoking. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.880 I don't like vaping. It's just it's not for me. 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.760 The problem is he hides it him. He does it 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:32.239 at work. He has kind. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.720 Of said that he won't stop purely because everyone else 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.600 does it, and you know he's basically addicted to it 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:38.840 and he won't stop. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.520 How do you know he does it at work? Is 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.200 it because he walks home like a big giant walking blueberry? 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:44.480 Was that how he smells? 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:45.640 Yeah? 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.800 And I've asked him and he also says like yeah, 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:49.800 like I do, I do do it at work. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:51.960 So it's something. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.440 Is it something he started doing after you guys started 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.840 dating or did you start dating him knowing that he 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:57.400 was a vapor? 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:00.520 Nope, it's a new thing. I'm you know, I don't 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:01.880 find it hard to answer. 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:03.960 I actually think you can one hundred percent do an 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:07.640 ultimatum in this sense, like for me smoking smoking more 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:10.400 so than vaping. But with this new research that vaping 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.160 is just as bad for you as smoking, it's. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:13.760 A deal breaker for me. 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.520 Someone's gonna smoke, I don't want to be with them, 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:16.760 and it's just a personal choice. 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:18.760 I don't think you can come in really aggressive, being 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:19.960 like it's the vape on me. 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.320 But I think you need to really get across your 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:24.920 feelings how upset it makes you, how much you hate it, 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.520 and how much you don't want to have a life 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:29.400 with it, because that's what it is. And if he 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:31.599 still doesn't understand it and doesn't even want to try and 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:33.400 give it up, then I one hundred percent think it's 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:35.440 reason to look at going elsewhere. 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:38.200 Yeh, Devil's advocate, like it is a genuine addiction, Like 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.520 these things are packed with nicotine. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:41.680 What does your boyfriend say when you explain to him 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:44.919 how upset it makes you about your grandfather? Obviously this 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.400 has been something that he's aware of, and then he's 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:50.560 kind of disregarded your feelings about that and just gone 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:51.240 and done it anyway. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.320 To him, it's no big deal because he doesn't have 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:57.679 this I don't know traumatic background of you know, having 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.880 a loved one who's suffered the consequences from smoking. I've 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:04.159 told him how unattractive it is, Like, it's just it's 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:07.760 not what I'm into, Like he is perfect and every 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:08.599 other way besides that. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:10.880 Do you think that you would be able to be 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.680 to be able to continue to be attracted to him 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:16.040 if he does keep vaping, because I mean you might 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:16.640 get the itch. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:21.080 Yeah, Like no, because I've set my boundaries and he 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.400 is basically just ignoring them. 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:27.640 It also looks ridiculous, like around with a vape with 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:30.160 like blueberry and walnut whatever. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:32.040 Grow up. 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:33.440 I know, it just looks. 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:37.159 It looks stupid, and I understand it for people the 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.240 only the only way I understand it is Mitch, you 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:41.520 you are right. It's an addiction, and it's very easy 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.200 for people that aren't addicted to say stop addictions, do 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.040 control your life. I feel like a vape is a 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:49.839 step in the right direction for people that smoke trying 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.479 to weaken their way off it. And I'm all for 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:56.320 people doing vaping as a way to completely stop smoking. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.000 But if it just doing it because you think it's cool, spoiler, 0:05:59.080 --> 0:05:59.359 it's not. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:05:59.960 You're like you need it. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.320 It's not cool to kill yourself I'll always say that, like, 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:05.760 that's what smoking does. But it's not like smoking. We 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:10.000 know the science says this is highly likely to kill 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:12.479 you one day, to cause cancer, to do all these things, 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.520 to have breathing problems, and people are still like, yeah, 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:15.760 it's not gonna happen to me. 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.120 I mean, I completely agree with that, brit But it 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.360 doesn't matter that it's smoking. I just think it's really disrespectful. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.719 Yeah. I actually have an idea because that the flavors 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.680 of what hooked the young kids in. I think we 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:27.720 actually should start making savory vapes and then no one 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:29.599 will start smoking them. Like imagine being at the club 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:30.760 and being like, can I have a suck you up 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:38.000 your musaka? Please? Don't that bad boy like that' stopped 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:39.680 people the kids from doing it. Do you think it 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:40.600 was Brussels sprouts? 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:43.479 Yes, I don't know, though I feel like the nicotine 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.560 might be what keeps them addicted. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:46.520 Maybe all right, thanks Sami. If you want to get 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:47.839 in touch, you can hit us up on the pickup 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.040 dot com dot a U and get an ask gun 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:51.720 cut on the air with us. We'll give you our advice. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:55.080 I feel like this is becoming like a really common occurrence. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.479 It's the Delilah dilemma. That's what I'm calling it, the 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.640 Delilah dilemma. Dilemmas of Delilah. You want to go to 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:04.280 is my dog, my Australian shepherd, And every week is 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.000 another issue with her, and there's a pretty big one. 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:08.440 And I don't know if I have the bigger problem 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:09.800 or Delilah has the bigger problem. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.560 All right, I think it'll be you, but that will 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:15.480 we discuss next Hates the pickup with Britt, Laura and 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:19.080 Mitch Thursday, Avo. Welcome head into Chemists ware house today. 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:20.160 Great savings. 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:24.480 Every day there are wild scenes happening at the dog park. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:30.000 My dog, Delilah and I. It's become a thing. It's 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.520 called Delilah's dilemma. Every week we have a dilemma. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.960 And this is probably the worst, I mean, the worst 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:38.320 thing that's happened to us together since her conception two 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:40.560 years ago. At the local dog park, there's always the 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:42.560 same people and the same dogs in the area. Everyone 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.400 knows each other. Okay, So at my dog park, I 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:47.880 just found out through the grapevine that there was a 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:52.320 birthday party, a dog's birthday party. What the owner did 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:55.760 we send out invitations to all the. 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:57.880 Dogs and the dog's owners because the dogs can't read. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:07:59.960 Send them out to the dogs and the dog's owners 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:02.320 that they were having a birthday party for this dog. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:05.160 And then they hired a venue out for the dogs. 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.920 They hired a mini van. No, the minivan went around 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:11.280 and picked up all the dogs from their houses, not 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:11.800 the owners. 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:12.800 This is dogs only. 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:15.520 They went to the venue that had loads of toys, 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:18.720 dog cakes, everything, and they had a whole dog party 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:20.600 with all the dogs that because they all know each other. 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.640 Then they dropped them all home with goodie bags and 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:26.720 it was a whole big thing. The only two dogs 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.240 that weren't invited was Delilah and her best friend. 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.400 No, Okay, there's so many things that's wrong with this one. 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:34.960 I'm very sorry that Delilah was left. 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:37.720 She's feeling really left out, and so am I. 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.480 We're the only two people and there they're the same dog. 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.040 So Delilahs an Australian Shepherd and the other dog that didn't 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.280 get invited was also an Australian Shepherd. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:48.880 Why is that some sort of breed. 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:54.240 A discrimina it's yeah, shepherd discrimination, I know. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.800 I think it is because Australian shepherds, as beautiful as 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:03.280 they might be, are such a handful. Delilah is the cheekiest, naughtiest, 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:07.280 like you. They wanted to have dogs there on supervised. Also, 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:10.000 the party is weird. Af let's just get that out 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.360 of the way. Said, there's something very wrong and you 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.400 shouldn't be friends with that person who's having a dog 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:16.200 party like that, because that's very strange. 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:19.080 I actually think it's funny. The fact great. Do you 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:20.760 know what? I love the people love their animal so 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.240 much at their thrown parties. But it's like, I imagine 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:23.960 I don't have kids. 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.320 I imagine it's when there's a birthday party at school 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.280 and all the kids get invited except that. 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:29.280 One or two kids. 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.240 Yeah, but if you're having a birthday party for all 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:33.720 the kids and it's unsupervised, like you're not having the 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:34.920 parents there, it's drop and go. 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:37.000 No one wants a really naughty kid there. 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.600 So you don't like the Adhd kid? Is that what 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:40.160 you do, Laura? 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:42.720 Okay, we're not saying that Delilah has eighty she does. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:43.439 She's got dog. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.000 She goes dog Adhd. 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.440 Okay, No, you can't lean out any kids. 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:49.640 It's a bit different with the but I think she knows. 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:54.160 She's been acting differentling down, she's moping around the trees, 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:55.680 and she's sort of looking on at the other dogs 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:56.360 from she knows. 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:58.200 Wait, did you take did you take her to the 0:09:58.200 --> 0:09:59.839 dog park on the day of the party, because then 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:03.520 no dogs there and she would have known. She's hold 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.560 on a second, there's something happening that I wasn't invited to. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.480 There was a WhatsApp grip between the dogs and they 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:08.959 even put. 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:09.600 That's what I want to know. How did you even 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.080 find out about this? Do you have like a dog 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:12.120 part WhatsApp group? 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:12.480 Is that? 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:12.640 How? 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:13.000 Yeah? 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:13.400 There is? 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:17.040 But the other dog there is the dog that didn't 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.960 get invited. The other dog didn't get invited. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.280 They told me how did they? 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:25.000 The dog told the dog and I was like, no 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:29.120 way fightal yeah, no no. The other dog's parent told me. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.120 They're like, hey, I don't know if you heard yet. 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:33.719 Our dogs with anyone's not invite spar So. 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:34.559 This mum's bitching. 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.319 She's no, she was just telling me the gods we're 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.560 all still friends. We pretend like, I don't know if 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:41.360 she knows that I know that she knows that I know. 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:42.200 What do you do now? 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.800 But I think I figured it out. It has to 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:50.400 be because Delilah is just too good looking. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.480 Her friend is really good looking too, So I reckon 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:53.680 they just didn't want the good looking dog. 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:55.000 What do you reckon it is, Laura? Do you think 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:57.120 it's because Delilah is too good looking? And answer honestly? 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.000 Or is it because she's a menace of a dog? Why? 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.560 Deliah is very good looking, she's a beautiful dog. But 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:04.319 it always needs to be supervised. 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.240 Let's leave it at that, so we don't hurt your feelings, 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:10.920 all right. Next on the show, Oh my God, as 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.720 you know, I'm a gen z, I'm very young. There's 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:15.520 a new trend sweeping my gen that I think you're 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.360 gonna love, actually, and I'll bring to the table. Next 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:20.560 on the Pickup is it dog Parties? It's the Pickup 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:24.120 Thursday AVO with Britt, Laura and Mitch. Try the new 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:27.760 fragrance DC ten Sport one hundred mil by Dan Carter. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.480 That's what the DC stands for, New and Exclusive to 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:32.640 Chemists Warehouse. So just forty nine to ninety nine. Now, 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.199 as you know, I'm the youngest person in the history 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:36.440 of the world to ever be on radio. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.800 Truly, you did just win the Guinness World Record. 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:41.760 I did. I'm a gen Ze, I'm on a CASP. 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:43.320 I can be gen zet or I can be millennial, 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.840 but I identify with gen Z and especially at the 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:50.080 moment with this new trend that is all over TikTok, 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.880 and I think you two are gonna actually before this. 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:58.880 Jobs not because we're being it's an anti hustle deg 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.520 back in the day you would like be the first 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.520 one into the office and the last one to live. 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.960 This is basically saying true work quite balance, like all 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.200 the stuff that I talk about here, working smarter, not harder. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:10.320 I'm saying yes to that learning opportunity because we know 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.640 it's not just a learning opportunity that would give us 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.560 a readers. It usually doesn't happen like that, right, they're 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.280 just getting I just count on labor. Everything that I'm 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:20.240 talking about here is considered lazy if you compare it 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:23.400 to the toxic corporate workplace expectations. 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:26.400 Yeah yeah, yeah. So now women across the globe are 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:30.960 quitting their jobs and getting menial, stress free office jobs, 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:33.800 which all that they really need to do is copy 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:35.720 and paste sense some emails they get an hourbal long 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:37.440 lunch break, and they work in nine to five and 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:38.120 they check out. 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:40.400 I'm sorry, I'm not about this. She's a twat. This 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:41.120 is the problem. 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.920 If you're actually happy in your life to go through 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:47.160 this with no ambition, no drive, not wanting to actually 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.480 do the best that you can do, do it. But 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.439 that's on you. I could think of nothing worse than 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:55.400 being an underachiever and taking advantage of people that are 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:56.840 paying me and giving me a job. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:59.360 Sorry, it's canceled the lazy girl. 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.240 For me, Okay, Britt, I agree with a lot of this. 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.840 I really do, because I think that there's nothing less 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:07.160 attractive than someone who just has zero ambition or desire 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.400 to do anything Like I mean, how boring would it 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:12.000 get if you spent all day copying and pasting a 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.120 couple of emails and listening to podcasts? Sounds great for 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.480 a week. Two years of doing that, you're not going 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:19.440 to be very inspired by work. But I do think 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.200 that when we were younger, like when we were in 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.880 our getting our first jobs in our early twenties and whatnot, 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:28.840 the expectation to hustle so hard was almost too much. 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:32.960 Like I used to drive two hours, two hours to work, 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.920 two hours home from work, to make less than thirty 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:38.319 thousand dollars a year and still live with my mother. 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:42.440 It's not about hustling, it's just about work ethic. Imagine, Laura, 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.400 you're a business owner. Imagine if you found out that 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.200 all your employees were in a group text laughing, taking 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:50.600 the pierce, that they listen to podcasts, take breaks whenever 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:51.840 they want on your money. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:53.000 They do. 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:55.800 They do because people do that, because we do it. 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:56.719 Everyone does it. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:14:00.000 I'm sorry, I used to work ninety hours a week. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.200 It would never put. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:02.839 Myself in Why did you go home and bow down 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:04.640 to your supervisor and go, I love you a man, 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:05.520 I'll kiss your shoes. 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:06.960 But you know, talk the about I worked in a 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:08.680 hospital and then went to two other jobs when I 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:11.640 wasn't there. And that's not because it's because there's work ethic. 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.160 I want to get a heading life, and that's what 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:13.800 you have to do. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.520 I also think, though, that there's a big responsibility that 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:18.600 lies on the employer, and it lies on the culture 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:20.600 of the company, because if you do have people who 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:24.680 are truly lazy in your office environment, those people stand 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.360 out like a sore thumb. So I almost don't blame 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:29.560 the people who are kind of the lazy girls and 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:31.560 they're brought in the system. It also comes down to 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:33.520 the culture of what the company is that you work at. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:35.480 I'm also all for it because at the end of 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:37.640 the day, you're only going to be abused by someone else. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:39.800 You shouldn't just be allowed to be abused by those 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:44.040 that are above you. Take advantage of them, back power, 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:47.160 back your own hands, because this isn't this She's not 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:48.960 going to continue like this for her life. This could 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.280 be for a three month period while you recover from something. 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:53.160 This could be for six months while you save up. 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.520 You don't have to hustle your whole life. I think 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:57.360 it's an empowering choice that someone can be. 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.080 But it's not about hustling. And God knows where you 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:00.880 got abuse from. This is nothing to do with abuse. 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:02.520 They're literally just saying, we want to do as little 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.800 as possible in our life. You can have your nine 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:06.960 to five, your Monday to Friday, but still do a 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.160 good job, put the effort in. You don't have to 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.840 sit there and literally take advantage of everyone else and 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:13.760 be like I'm going to do nothing and get like 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:16.600 they're bragging about the fact that they do nothing for 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:18.320 a good paycheck, and I'm not about. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:19.400 It, and I agree. 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:22.240 The big thing is is that this is the environment 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:26.080 on TikTok, on social media where people see these aspirational 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.200 lifestyles and they think, how can I achieve that with 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.720 doing the least amount possible? And I do think that 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:33.560 that's where the comparison culture of social media comes into play. 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:37.040 And also it sets a super unrealistic expectation. Most people 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.480 can't just have pushy jobs and get paid to do nothing. 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:41.560 No, people build houses, people. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:42.800 Have got to go to work, they've got to be plumbers, 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.560 They've got to do all many different things. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:46.680 People will just sit and push a couple of emails. 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.120 I know it. On the flip side of that, imagine 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:50.440 being these people watching influences get paid one hundred thousand 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.480 dollars for one Instagram post. Why why should then other 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:54.480 people be allowed to go and do a nine to 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.760 five and have to hustle and work under someone and 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:58.400 work hard and respect They don't. 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.560 Start their own business if they want it's not take 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.120