1 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone to The in Between with Georgina and Jamie. 2 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: It is your host Georgina and Jamie. We are so 3 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: excited to be back on the mic. We had so 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: much fun last time. And thank you so much everyone 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: for the reaction on the podcast so far. 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 2: We've had a lot of love. We've got you sweety pies. 7 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: We absolutely love your. 8 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 3: Keep it up because if you want to hear more 9 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 3: of us, we got to get the stats up. 10 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: I got to get that so like, listen, share, subscribe. 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: Today we are talking all about am I behind in life? 12 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: Am I behind in these timelines that we make up 13 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: in our heads? The myth of timelines, I feel like 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: myth of timelines this age, your twenties and your thirties. 15 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: We're all made to believe that there's a timeline We've 16 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: got to achieve certain things by a certain. 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 3: Time in our life. But it's absolutely not true. It's 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 3: all your individual journey. So we're here to break that myth. 19 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: And who else thought by the age of twenty five 20 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: they be married with three kids, it's in a house 21 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: in the suburbs Because that was me. I truly grew 22 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: up thinking twenty five is so old I'm going to 23 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: almost be a grandmo. 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: By then, I don't say that. 25 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 3: But also, no, no, you probably came up with that 26 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 3: thought when you were what like fourteen or something like you. 27 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 28 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: Like it seemed like it was so old because we 29 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: were so young, but you get to well, we're in 30 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: our late twenties now and we realize how young, thriving 31 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: and hotly are. 32 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: But also I. 33 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 3: Feel like subconsciously, a lot of the time, like even 34 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: as a fourteen year old, you would have had that 35 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 3: belief based on what you've seen or heard in society, 36 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 3: and even though you know now that like that's not 37 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 3: true or whatever, it's still is in the back of 38 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 3: your mind is or I'm getting older, I probably should 39 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: have a house soon, or I should look at getting 40 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: married or having babies or whatever it may be. But 41 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 3: it's just absolutely not the case. And there's so much 42 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: pressure on particularly young women around this age and what 43 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 3: you see on Instagram and who's bought this house or 44 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 3: who's having babies, getting married or whatever, it is their 45 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: career thriving. But if you're not in that spot and 46 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 3: you're feeling a bit lost or like you haven't achieved 47 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 3: what you should by that age. 48 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: It's just not true. 49 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: And where your girls to break that down, because I 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: think it's also like as females, I think we do 51 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: have this pressure of you know, our biological clock and everything, 52 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: but life has changed so much since you know, our 53 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: grandparents when they were having kids at such a younger age, 54 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: which you know, a lot of people still choose to 55 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: do that, but there are people who are you know, 56 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: prioritizing their career, are in their twenties. Like us, We've 57 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: moved into state, we've got other things happening, and we 58 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: just want to remove the pressure of whatever you're feeling 59 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: pressured to do. Like you don't need to lean into 60 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: your career, you don't need to lean into having kids. 61 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: You need to figure out what you want and what 62 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: is the timeline for you and not feel pressured into anything, 63 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: because you can make anything the best life ever. Ye, 64 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: And I think it's mainly just the pressure of looking 65 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: around at other people and what they're doing. 66 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 3: In comparison is the thief of joy. It's Jamie's favorite quote. 67 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 3: Everyone comparison is the thief of joy. It absolutely is, 68 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 3: especially when we currently live in a climate when we're 69 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 3: all on social media. Everyone's posting their achievements. Everyone's posting 70 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 3: the highlights, the highlight reel, not the struggles in the 71 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: behind the scenes. So you get caught up and thinking, 72 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: oh my god, look at all these other girls, women 73 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: my age that have got all these things. I'm just 74 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: not there. What's wrong with me? I need to quickly 75 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 3: do this. And it's just the pressure. It's pressure from society, 76 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 3: but it's pressure it comes from yourself, and then there's 77 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: no way to stop that or debunk it. 78 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: If you're just. 79 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 3: Living in your own hair and you're not really learning 80 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 3: new beliefs or getting out of your head, then that 81 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: pressure just builds and it gets worse and worse as 82 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 3: you grow older. 83 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: And I think it's also there's we have never had 84 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: so many options, like there are so many options out there. 85 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: There is different careers, there's having a business, there's working remotely, 86 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: there's traveling, there's having kids, there's getting married and help, 87 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: and it's it's like paralyzing when you think of every 88 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: single option what everyone's doing, And it truly is just 89 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: like coming back to what you want and understanding what 90 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: feels aligned for you and understanding what feels right for 91 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: you rather than getting mixed into that head noise, because 92 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: that's what truly makes you feel like froze, not overwhelmed. 93 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: And the hard thing is, no matter where you are 94 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: in life, there's always going to be someone who's doing 95 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: it differently. There's always going to be someone who's further 96 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: ahead than you or people that are behind you, Like 97 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: that is the journey of life because everyone's on their 98 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: own timeline. So this whole episode is just how can 99 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,679 Speaker 1: you come back to yourself and really release that pressure, 100 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: because it's not about doing things in a different way, 101 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: it's about how you look at it because it really 102 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: is a mindset thing because timelines don't. 103 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 2: Exist, Timeline's it's an illusion. 104 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 3: It's an illusion, Preshot and Timeline's own illusion and time 105 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: it tom all actually probably get into it all right. Well, 106 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,559 Speaker 3: that being said, long as introy a Bar, we've pretty 107 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 3: much summarized your our whole. 108 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 2: Points that let's get into it. Let's get into it. 109 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: So I think the first part of this episode we 110 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: really wanted to get into our own personal reflections on 111 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: when we felt precious of timelines and what that has 112 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: kind of meant for us because we have definitely struggled 113 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: with this, but we're in such a different place now. 114 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: I'm really decided that we get to do life. 115 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: On our own terms. 116 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: So what's kind of been your journey with the whole 117 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: process of timelines and when if you felt pressure and 118 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 1: what's kind of caused that. 119 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: Gee, I was similar to you when I was younger. 120 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: I thought like engage twenty four, married, twenty five, babies 121 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 3: twenty six. I don't know why that seems to be 122 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 3: the age, but that is the age that I had 123 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 3: in my head from a younger girl too, and it's 124 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: absolutely not been the case. Like, while I feel really 125 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 3: proud of things that I've achieved, I'm constantly like I 126 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,919 Speaker 3: still go back and forth in my head all the 127 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 3: time of like what do I want? 128 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: What I want to do? 129 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 3: Jamie and I every couple of weeks we decide that 130 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 3: we want to run away and start a coffee shop 131 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 3: together and just do. 132 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: Some cookingst what's the flavor of the most? 133 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: Really something really simple, because you're like, you know, you're 134 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 3: hustling in your career and you're doing all of these 135 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 3: things to be so productive and achieve things all the time, 136 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 3: but it's just not sustainable. It's really really not. And 137 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 3: once you peel back that layer and realize, hold on, 138 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: what do I actually want if it wasn't for what 139 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 3: I was showing other people that I've achieved, like what 140 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 3: would make mutually happy. So really just trying to tap 141 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 3: into that at the moment and stay true to myself, 142 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 3: because you know, everyone's journey is so unique. And recently 143 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: I turned twenty eight at the beginning of this year 144 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 3: and it was so weird. I swear to God, something 145 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 3: biological happened and I all of a sudden was like babies, 146 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 3: I've got to think about. 147 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 2: It's like your frontal loge. 148 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 3: It just it just the same kicked in, and all 149 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 3: of a sudden, everyone around me was pregnant or having babies. 150 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 3: And it's just like, in my vision at the moment 151 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 3: is marriage and babies and all of these things, and 152 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 3: personally I'm not there right now. Like I think it 153 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 3: really depends on who you are and like you know 154 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: what you want, But I am really just wanting to 155 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: invest in myself at the moment and have experiences and 156 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: just feel really happy. I feel like I have pressure 157 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 3: in a lot of other ways that I just don't 158 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 3: want to add that right now. So I'm battling with 159 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: this myself because I'm like, oh wow, I'm you know, 160 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: I'm going to be twenty nine next. You like, maybe 161 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: I need to start thinking about it, and you just 162 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 3: get in these head noised loops of thinking all of 163 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 3: these things. But whenever I get like that, I just 164 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 3: peel it back and spend some time with myself and 165 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: think about what do I actually want? What lights me out, 166 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 3: what would make me happy. It's the societal expectations, it 167 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: is other people achieving things. 168 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: It really messes with you. 169 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: In one hundred persent and it's like you think about, Okay, 170 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: well if I did have that situation right now, what 171 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: would that look like for me? And then you think 172 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: about that and you understand that why that's not right 173 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: for you at that time, and you understand why you're not. 174 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:08,119 Speaker 2: In that reality right now. 175 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: But it is when you see everyone else doing a 176 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: certain thing or should I be doing that? Or am 177 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: I behind or whatever it is, because it just it 178 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: can be such a loop, and it's just learning to 179 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: have that awareness and pull yourself out of it so 180 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: that you don't don't go and do something that doesn't 181 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: feel aligned because of that pressure, because I think that's 182 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: the hardest thing is when or when people classic of 183 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: people being like, oh, I've been in this career for 184 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: six ten years, I can't change now. But it's like, well, 185 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: maybe if you gave it a few years of changing career, 186 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: then you would be so glad you did, But you 187 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: don't want to then look back in ten years and 188 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: be like, oh, I wish I changed. 189 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I did that. 190 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 3: And that's I think something that's really been on my 191 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 3: mind lately is I don't want to get to the 192 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 3: end of my twenties, which is very close, and you're like, 193 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 3: damn it, these were the you know, quote unquote best 194 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: years of my life, days of our lives, the days 195 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 3: of our lives, and I've spent them trying to hustle 196 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 3: in my career and trying to stress and all these things, 197 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 3: just trying to be the next level and you know, 198 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 3: do all these things all the time instead of actually 199 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 3: living and enjoying. So at the moment, my new kind 200 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 3: of perspective on it all is just like taking it 201 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 3: as it comes, living a bit more in the now, 202 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 3: trying to enjoy it because you know the universe will 203 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 3: deliver things to you in the right timing, when it's 204 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 3: all aligned for you, in the perfect timing, and I 205 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: really trust in that as opposed to like trying to 206 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 3: manufacture a timeline and be like, well, thirty is babies 207 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 3: and this and this and this kind of just being 208 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 3: open to what's going to fill me with joy at 209 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 3: different times in my life and then like letting that 210 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 3: timeline unfold in the perfect way. So anyway, that's where 211 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 3: I'm at the moment. That's my thought process. 212 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 1: What about you, Jay, Well, I feel like I really 213 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: went through this when I first moved to the Gold 214 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: Coast because my basically my entire friendship group from back 215 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: home or decided to get married within a year, which 216 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: was so exciting. I absolutely love that for them and 217 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: have just loved watching all of that. But I think 218 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 1: for me, I was kind of like, well, I'm starting 219 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: from scratch again, I'm moving into state and what does 220 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: this mean for me? And I think I really felt 221 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: that pressure then, but I had to remind myself, Okay, 222 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: well I wanted this, I moved, I chose to do this, 223 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: and I'm still I think I moved here when I 224 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 1: was twenty seven or something like, which is actually in 225 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: the scheme of things so young, and I think for me, 226 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: I really had to think about what I really wanted 227 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: at that time, and it was this new life and 228 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: it was moving into state and seeing what was possible. 229 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: And I had kind of always been someone who didn't 230 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: really want the quote unquote like typical life, Like I 231 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: wanted to do things different. I wanted to push myself, 232 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: expand and grow and if I didn't move, then like when. 233 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: Would I Because it's only going to get harder to move, 234 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 2: you know. 235 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: So I really went through that then and had to 236 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: remind myself of my why and this season that I 237 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 1: was in. And then I also went through this when 238 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: I started posing my business at the end of. 239 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,839 Speaker 2: Last year, because I was like. 240 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: Well, I'm almost twenty nine. Is it too late to 241 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: start a business? Like all these people have started businesses 242 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: in the early twenties, because you're seeing that so much online. 243 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 1: But again I was like, well, in five years time, 244 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna wish that I had have started at that 245 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: time when I had that idea. So I think you're 246 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: always going to have those thoughts creep and you're always 247 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: going to have you know, imposter syndrome. But just choosing 248 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: to do what feels right at that time and feels aligned, 249 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: rather than being like, well, I'm too late, it's too 250 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: late for me to do that, or I can't change 251 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: my career now, I can't start that business now, or 252 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: you know, whatever it is, because you can do what's 253 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: right for you and you can create your own timeline. 254 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: So I think just believing in that. 255 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 3: And even questioning, like all those things that come up 256 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: like am I too old to do this? Blah blah blah, 257 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 3: stopping and being like is this the truth? Like show 258 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 3: me where this is factual evidence? This is a real 259 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 3: belief because it's just fear and head noise and all 260 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 3: of these things. So if it comes up like oh 261 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 3: am I too old to do this or whatever it is, 262 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 3: is this truthful? Like how much truth is there of this? 263 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: None? None? 264 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: And you know what's really funny because I know that 265 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: this was just my ego talking to keep myself small 266 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: and keep myself safe, because I've had the same thought 267 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: of am I too young to start the business? So 268 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: it really isn't about an age thing. It's about your 269 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 1: ego trying to tell you that you're too old, you're 270 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: too young. It's the wrong time blah blah blah, to 271 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: keep you in the same space so that you feel 272 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: safe and comfortable. 273 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,359 Speaker 2: And as soon as you just zoom. 274 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: Out of it and step into what your higher self 275 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: actually thinks and what's actually you know, the truth and 276 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: what can be your truth, that's when the magic happens. 277 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 3: And you know what, when I was really like young, young, young, 278 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 3: when I was young, I had this vision of being 279 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 3: like Forbes thirty under thirty, I was going to be 280 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 3: a millionaire super young, like you've still got come on, 281 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 3: come on, Forbes, pick it up. But like in school, 282 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 3: I was reading Roxy Jsanko's book, like I was going 283 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 3: to be this huge PR business woman. 284 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: I had all these visions. You're telling me, this is 285 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: the PR. 286 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 3: So I had all these visions for myself and obviously 287 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 3: none of that happened the way I thought, and I 288 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,680 Speaker 3: did go through a shame cycle for a while, being 289 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: like wow, like I didn't achieve what I wanted to, 290 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 3: I'm a failure blah blah blah. But what if, in fact, 291 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: the real timeline of when I'm supposed to have a 292 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 3: business or be this person that I thought I was 293 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: going to be is laid down the track, but my 294 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 3: you know, fear and ego and all these things made 295 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 3: me believe that it was early on, like it's all 296 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 3: just a twisted perspective and belief, and then you get 297 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: so attached to that age or that timeline that you've 298 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: just made up when actually maybe that wasn't for you 299 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 3: at all. And I've had since then, I've had these 300 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 3: intuitive feelings that my time when that success is going 301 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 3: to come for me is when I'm going to be 302 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 3: a mum. 303 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 2: And I remember you saying that, and You're like, I 304 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 2: just know it'll be. 305 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 3: When I'm on maternity leave or when i'm a mom 306 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 3: or something like that's when I'll feel that vision and 307 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 3: inspiration and go for it. And that's just like a 308 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 3: random intuitive thing that's just dropped in, you know, and 309 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 3: maybe like that's more of the truth, you know. 310 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: You know what though, I was talking to Cinda about 311 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: this the other day, my coach, because she I was 312 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: talking to her about timelines and businesses and kind of 313 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: asking her when she went full in in her business 314 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and she's like, I was on 315 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: attorney leave, like it's the best time because she's like, yes, 316 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: you're a mom and you've got children to take care of, 317 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: or one child or whatever it is. She's like, I 318 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: just felt like it was the perfect time because she 319 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: just had like this new inspired energy. 320 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: And I guess it's like you have a. 321 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: Different reason, like you have a different motivation, Like you've 322 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: got these beautiful babies that are watching what you're doing, 323 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: and if that's for you too, Like obviously you don't 324 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: have to have children. Whatever feels right or have a business. 325 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: This whole episode is whatever you feel good at the time. 326 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, she said that's when she just felt like 327 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: was the time for her to start a business. 328 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 3: I've even heard Margarita Nazarenko shout out on our podcast 329 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 3: as soon as a guest we love her. She was 330 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 3: even saying that she has like since becoming a mom, 331 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: that's when she fully had this whole new like I'm 332 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: going to start this business, I'm gonna do all these things, 333 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 3: because she first of all had this like primal instinct 334 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 3: like I have to protect and care for my babies. 335 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: But also she's like, you're just newly resourceful. 336 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 3: You make shit happen, like you just have a whole 337 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 3: new energy in Lisa on life, and she's like, I 338 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 3: get more done now with two babies than I did 339 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 3: before when I was a young woman in my twenties, 340 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 3: with more time. 341 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: I actually have heard a lot of moms say that, 342 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: saying that you make what you can do in two 343 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: hours when you're a mum is what you could do 344 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: in two days when you're not a mum, because you 345 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: just have to be productive. Like you don't have as 346 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: much time as you used to, so you have to 347 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: make the most of the time. 348 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: But you know what, also following on, you know what. 349 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: Also is a lot of people then have had the 350 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: limiting belief of I can't do that when I'm a 351 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: mom because I'm a mum, and it's it is. It's 352 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: like what your mind will tell you is not possible, 353 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: is one hundred percent possible. You can always go and 354 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: find someone who has done it and been the exception 355 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: to the rule, and just don't allow these timelines or 356 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: situations or whatever it is to be your block, because 357 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 1: you can always find another way, another path that might 358 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: not look like what you thought it was or what 359 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: you thought it was going to look like, but you 360 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: can do it. 361 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna butcher this story, but it's like the story 362 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: of the guy who was going to run the four 363 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 3: minute mile, the four minute mile, and it was like 364 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 3: said that he couldn't do it. 365 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 2: No one could run four miles in a minute, and 366 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 2: then a mile in four minute. Sorry, no one could 367 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 2: run a mile. You can run for a minute. 368 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 3: It seems like a lot. This guy's amazing a mile 369 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 3: in four minutes. And then because the limitation was there, Oh, 370 00:16:58,200 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 3: no one can do that, it's impossible. 371 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 2: He couldn't do it. No one had done it. 372 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 3: But then when he just like broke through those barriers 373 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 3: and gave it a try, he could do it. And 374 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 3: then after that a lot of people ran a mile 375 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 3: in four minutes. Yeah, but it is, yeah, the four 376 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 3: minute mile, the four minute mile. So that just goes 377 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 3: to show that there's so many expectations and limitations imposed 378 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 3: on us by society, by people around us, by beliefs 379 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 3: you had when you were growing up, and it's all 380 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 3: like if you just stop and look at it as 381 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 3: an illusion, and then all of this is just made 382 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 3: up beliefs that we attached to and think is our reality, 383 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 3: but it's simply not, and just give things to go, 384 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 3: like try and debunk beliefs and create new realities because 385 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 3: nothing's really true, nothing's real. It sounds like I'm crazy, 386 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 3: but nothing's real, nothing's true, No beliefs are fact, and 387 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 3: it's up to you to just do whatever you want 388 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 3: at whatever time feels good for you, and don't worry 389 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: about anyone else. 390 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: And like, truly, if you're not hurting anyone, I know 391 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: we said this in the last episode, if you're not 392 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,479 Speaker 1: hurting anyone, there's not a reason not to, like, just 393 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 1: back yourself, believe in yourself, and go after it because 394 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: you have it inside you. 395 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 2: And also what's out one of our favorite sayings, what's 396 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 2: the worst that can happen? What's the worst that could happen? 397 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 3: Like with you with Posey, if you like, say you 398 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 3: started that, and like, the worst that can happen is 399 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 3: what it doesn't work out, or you don't have enough time, 400 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 3: or you don't love it. You okay, great, you stop 401 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 3: it and you've tried, and you feel good knowing that 402 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 3: that path wasn't for you because you gave it a go. 403 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: And that's we were having this conversation last week too 404 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 1: with like We've been having a lot of changes happening 405 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 1: in our personal lives, both of us and I was 406 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: having a call with Cinda, my coach again shout out, 407 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: I'll probably talk about it all the time because she's 408 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: like my fairy godmother. 409 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 2: And she was like, Jamie, what's the worst that could happen? 410 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,959 Speaker 1: You're making a problem out of something that's not a problem, 411 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: Like this is your own beliefs and mindset, Like I'm 412 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: looking at this from like objectively and from an outsider position, 413 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: like you're going to survive, You're going to have everything 414 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: you need, Like, stop making a problem out of something 415 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 1: that's not a problem. And our brains are like hardwired 416 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: to find problems and find solutions. That's how humans operate. 417 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: But we get stuck in the problem. We get stuck 418 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: in the problem, and no matter what level you're at 419 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: or what your life is, you will be able to 420 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: find a problem and what you focus on expands. 421 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 3: It's like sometimes you know how you're really stuck in 422 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 3: a dilemma or you're ruminating in something and you're like 423 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,120 Speaker 3: this is it, this is my fate, like and you're 424 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 3: so stuck in that, and then you talk to a 425 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 3: friend and they give you some inspiration or come up 426 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 3: with a different alternative or possibility, and you're like, oh, yeah, 427 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 3: like you're so right, this is this, or this is this, 428 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 3: You're so right, this is a whole new possibility or 429 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 3: opportunity that I could be in. And it's because they've 430 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 3: just proved all your thoughts wrong or provided some different insight. Yeah, 431 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 3: and that's why sometimes you just need to get out 432 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 3: of your head and not believe everything you think and 433 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 3: take it as reality because it's just thought based on 434 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 3: all the stuff we see in society. 435 00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: Like it's and also like whenever there's a situation that 436 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: causes you know, triggers or emotions, we're seeing things from 437 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: a wounded place. So we're not actually seeing things as fact, 438 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: we're seeing it from a lens from our wounds, and 439 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: you can't see things, you know, in an expansive way 440 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: often when you're in that mindset. And when you just 441 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,959 Speaker 1: come out of that and you step out of that, 442 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: you regulate your nervous system, which is why we're so 443 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: big on meditating and you know, doing all of those 444 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: things because it helps you drop back into your body 445 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: and see things clearly, because seeing them from that emotional 446 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: state where you're comparing or whatever, it's not a good 447 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: energy to be in and you're not going to see 448 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: things in the best case scenario. So, and speaking of expansive, 449 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: let's discuss it. 450 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 3: Let's discuss some people. We've found some people who've achieved 451 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 3: amazing things at different timelines that don't suit society's norms. 452 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: Let's get into these expanders. 453 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: And we've chosen people that are quite famous because we 454 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 1: wanted everyone to kind of know their storyline little bit. 455 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 2: So that's why they're so well known. That's by the famous, because. 456 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking about you know, me, Auntie or something. Hey 457 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: still counts, still counts. But we want them to really 458 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: resonate with you, to believe what is possible and that 459 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: you can have massive success stories later on in life. 460 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: You don't have to be ten year old sensation. So 461 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: we'll go one by one. First one I want to 462 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: bring in absolute. Goat Morgan Freeman. Morgan Freeman gained fame 463 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: at fifty two, fifty two fifty and look at him now. 464 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 2: He is like household name, household name. Absolute. 465 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 3: Like, imagine Morgan Freeman being like forty, just living a 466 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 3: normal life. 467 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 2: I wonder what he did. 468 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: Get the backstory. Maybe we'll do in a whole episode 469 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: on Morgan Freeman. We're good maybe we'll interview him please, 470 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 1: his voice is so laxy. I'd love my dream get 471 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: Morgan Freeman on the Rise Up doing meditations because like 472 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: bedtime stories. 473 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,719 Speaker 3: You know how Matthew McConaughey does that. Yes, we'll definitely 474 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 3: get Matthew McConaughey on the app. 475 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, he'd love to do that. Bring shout it out 476 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 2: if you're listening. Next one is Vera Wang. 477 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 3: She is a very common story, but she entered fashion 478 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 3: design at forty after a career in figure skating and journalism. 479 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 3: So Vera she dabbled us, She dabbled in different careers, 480 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 3: she tried different things, and it wasn't until she was 481 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 3: forty that she got into fashion design. And now she's 482 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,879 Speaker 3: like a huge global designer. So absolute, Quin there go 483 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 3: absolutely the next one, drum roll please Oprah Winfree. Oprah 484 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 3: her true breakout with the Oprah Winfree Show, which is 485 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 3: you know the show. 486 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: The show began at thirty two, but her empire building 487 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: came later, So I don't think that means she started 488 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: the show at thirty two. 489 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 2: She didn't gain momentum till a while after that. 490 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: Anyway, Honestly, crazy here, I am worrying about signing a 491 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 1: business at twenty eight and there's Oprah. This is probably 492 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: one of my faves is a big goaded one. Colonel Sanders, 493 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: of course, founded KFC in his sixties. 494 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 2: Sixties. 495 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 3: Imagine coming up with the best fried chicken recipe in 496 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,360 Speaker 3: the world when you're sixty and then having all these 497 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 3: changes and like his whole legacy has been after he's 498 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 3: been alive, Like that is nuts. 499 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's Colonel still with us? No, absolutely not. 500 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 3: Oh, I think he was like in the fifties or 501 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 3: something like it was a long time ago. 502 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: I don't really follow KFC as a vegetarian, so I'm 503 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: not really familiar with the backstory. 504 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 2: I mean neither. 505 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: But like everyone knows the Big Girl, well, I don't 506 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,679 Speaker 1: know he could have, you know, if it's getting his 507 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: sixties currently. Yeah, he lives on the Gold Coast right now. 508 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: Should go check him out. 509 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 2: The next one Martha Stuette. 510 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,959 Speaker 1: So she launched her first cookbook and business empire in 511 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: her forties, and she's like, what, everyone knows who Martha 512 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: Stewart is. 513 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 3: But you know what I feel like, it's because when 514 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: you get to your like, you know, the thirties is 515 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 3: like the decade but you kind of discover yourself a 516 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 3: bit more and you get to know yoursel I feel 517 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 3: like after that is when you really have the confidence 518 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 3: and like the maturity to and resources back yourself and 519 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 3: go after it, which is a lot of people start 520 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 3: businesses in their early forties, fifties, sixties because there is 521 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 3: no time limit. 522 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 2: You can know whenever you want. And that's the thing. 523 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 1: I've also heard a lot of billionaires talk about how 524 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: they spent their twenties learning and trying things and figuring 525 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: it out and then building in their thirties or forties, 526 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: because you really need to learn and have the life 527 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,199 Speaker 1: lessons and education and resources and all those things behind 528 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,239 Speaker 1: you to give it a good go. Or you know, 529 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 1: business owners that have failed one hundred businesses, and the 530 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: one hundred of us it has. 531 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 2: Been absolute success. 532 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: So it truly is like allow yourself grace because I think, 533 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: I know, being in my twenties, I've put the whole 534 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: pressure to have everything in the whole world figured out 535 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: by the time I turn thirty. 536 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 2: But it's just not no. I feel like my life's 537 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 2: just going to get started in. 538 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 3: My thirties, just getting started. And also, everything you've been 539 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 3: through is preparing you and giving you the experience and 540 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 3: knowledge you need for that perfect thing to happen at. 541 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: The right time. 542 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 3: Like, what if everything you've been through in your twenties 543 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 3: is giving you the platform you need to start that 544 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 3: super successful thing or buy the house or find that 545 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 3: you know, dream partner or family, whatever it is in 546 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 3: your thirties or forties or fifties or whatever it is. 547 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 3: Trust one hundred percent and then one more. This is 548 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 3: a personal pative man. So Peter Garrett, the personal connection, 549 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: the personal connection I had to this one. 550 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: So you're Australian. Everyone knows Peter Garrett. 551 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 3: He's for Midnight Oil and so he was in this 552 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: really big band called Midnight Oil and had a lot 553 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 3: of success in that first and then he switched gears 554 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 3: and went into politics and became the Environment Minister in 555 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 3: his fifties. 556 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 2: Love that, Like how different are those Their songs were 557 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 2: like about environmental issues, weren't they. Yeah, So he's always 558 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: been passionate about it. I love that so much. 559 00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 3: And fun fact, my auntie is actually with the guitarist from. 560 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: Midnight Oil, so he's basically your uncle. Me and Peter 561 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: Garrett a tight and also second cousin was my year 562 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: five teacher. So me and Peter Garrett. It's like the 563 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: invisible string theory. I wonder if one day you guys 564 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: will be friends. Maybe all these connections are happening, and 565 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 1: then you meet him at the time when you're like 566 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: in his political party or something. 567 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you are. 568 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 3: We earning the midnight oil environmental minister in my probably seventies. 569 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 2: Watch out, Yeah, I shout out. 570 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: So maral of the story. It is never too late. 571 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 1: Don't get caught in timelines. Especially, don't ever hold the 572 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: belief that you're too old to start something, because you 573 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: are not. You are right at the perfect time. Trust 574 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: that what is coming to you is exactly how it's 575 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 1: meant to unfold, and you are not behind. 576 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 2: You're right on time. You're on your own timeline. 577 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 3: And enjoy the journey. It's not always about the destination. 578 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 3: It's not always about achieving that thing, because I bet 579 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 3: once you achieve that thing, then you'll something else or 580 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,440 Speaker 3: you want more. So enjoy the journey. That's what life 581 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 3: is about. Living in the moments in between, and like 582 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 3: they're the memories, that's what you remember most. That's the 583 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 3: whole point is living and enjoying the journey, So don't 584 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 3: just focus on the destination. 585 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 2: Enjoy the process of becoming love Love. So why well, 586 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 2: we will see you in our next episode. 587 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 1: We can't wait because we absolutely love you guys and 588 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 1: this whole scenario. Yes, And also we're going to start 589 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: bringing back the hot line body lines Hotline Question episodes, 590 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 1: which basically means you send in your questions, whether it's 591 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: a dilemma or something you want to know about us, 592 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: something you want. 593 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 2: To help with. 594 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 3: We will have an episode where we go through all 595 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 3: the questions and answer them. 596 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,239 Speaker 2: It's really fun. It's very helpful and insightful, and then 597 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 2: you hear other people's questions. Besty and your pocket so 598 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 2: good right, thanks for 599 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 3: Listening, guys, Love it's the dictum Down.