1 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: We are surrounded by people that we know but we 2 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: don't really know, like a bland coworker. Let's call it Sandra. 3 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: You know, the type wears the same drab clothes day 4 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: in and day out and has the personality of a 5 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,639 Speaker 1: wet sock. We all have a Sandra in our lives. 6 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: But what if Sandra was an international woman of mystery, 7 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: or spent her nights as an erotic dancer, or had 8 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: a different side to her that you didn't see that 9 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: actually made her interesting. Well, I'm taking it upon myself 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: to find that Sandra's of the world. Hello. I'm Artzimone 11 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: and this is Concealed, where I uncover the interesting lives 12 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: of seemingly average people. Let's meet our guests hit it. 13 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: Hello. My name is Kirsten. I am thirty three years old. 14 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: I live in Sydney and I used to work in 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: real estate sales. I have always loved musical theater and 16 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: my favorite things to do are to hang out with 17 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: my fiance and to play with my cat. I am 18 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 2: concealing something about my job, something that I do that 19 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: up until I started my business, I had no idea 20 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: that it actually was a real profession. 21 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: I like kissing how are you good? 22 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: How are you? 23 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: I am doing so well now that I know your 24 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: fond of the pussy, I am so you are one 25 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: of my people. It's exciting. Now let you get a 26 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: good look at you that. Oh now, yes meow indeed? 27 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: All right? What's around your neck? Can you just show 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: you around your neck? It might be a clue. I've 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: got to look just a necklace, yeah, but it could 30 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: be anything. What is on the end a talisman? 31 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 2: I don't know, or a gryffindor charm? 32 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: Oh, yes, a gryffindor charm. Oh you are a gryffindor. 33 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: I am I'm a slitherin. That's not what's next to 34 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: it is not? It is not. But if a snake 35 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: was pretending to be like a juguar, that's the noise 36 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: they would make. But beautiful, yes sir? 37 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: Right? 38 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: Did you have nails? Oh? It's oh nice? Yes, Oh 39 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: they're like a nice pearl finish on them. 40 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 2: Is this? 41 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: I can see it all the way from here. I 42 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: love Okay, and fiance. Tell me about fiance. How'd you meet? 43 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: What's going on? 44 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: We met on hinge online? 45 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: Oh that would be rather recent than because he just 46 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: like a slightly Newish one Newish. 47 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 2: We've been together for two and a half years now, 48 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: and we got engaged on our second anniversary. 49 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,239 Speaker 1: Oh my god, stop it. How do you do it? 50 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: He blurted it out very quickly. I think he got 51 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: nervous right at the second. But he was down on 52 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 2: one knee and it was in a box, and it 53 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 2: was actually at the place where we first met. It 54 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 2: was very sweet. 55 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: And where did you first meet? 56 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: We met by the beach in Crinella, which kind of 57 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 2: where I'm from beach things. 58 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: Oh, okay, do you like the beach. This could be 59 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: a clue. I don't know. 60 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: I do like the beach. Yes, I go to the 61 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 2: beach most mornings. 62 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on sand? 63 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 2: Yes, it is a necessary evil of the beach. 64 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: She's got to take the good with the bad. Okay, yes, 65 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: I mean sometimes I'm like, it's not worth the sand. 66 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: I'll go to a pool, but then the pool that 67 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: someone might take a shit in the pool, and then 68 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: it's like, oh no, I mean they can do it 69 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: that well. I mean animals just ship, yeah, animals just 70 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: shipping the sea anyway, So okay, Well, maybe pools aren't 71 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: very good. Okay, sea salt scrub. Maybe maybe going to 72 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: the ocean would be good to take off my makeup, 73 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: you know, because. 74 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: It's good for you. Yes, exfolliance, Yes, okay. 75 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: And what's your cat's name? 76 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 2: Her name is Princess. 77 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: Oh, of course, Princess beautiful. And how princess? 78 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 2: She's an old girl now she's fourteen. 79 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: And is she yours? 80 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: She is mine? Yes, she's spent many years living with 81 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 2: my parents, but she's my cat. 82 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: Yes, good, okay, Well we like Princess Beautiful okay. And 83 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: musical theater. What's your favorite musical? 84 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: Oh? Too many to list, but I'm currently on a 85 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: Waitress phase. Do you know musical? 86 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: I haven't seen Waitress, but I know of Waitress. 87 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: Oh, it's based on the movie and the music is phenomenal. 88 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: Sarah Berrelli's rights it also. 89 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I just saw Beauty and the Beast in 90 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: the opening in Sydney. It was incredible. The production, the production. 91 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: It's the costumes and the staging. For me, it's amazing 92 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: what they can do. 93 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: It was incredible. Yes, so go and check it out 94 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: if you haven't, it's a good one. Now, real estate, 95 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: what made you go into real estate? I'm worried is 96 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 1: there a bit of a stigma around when you say 97 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: real estate to people. 98 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 2: It's actually why I left. Oh okay, yes, yes, So 99 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: my dad was a real estate agent and I initially 100 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: just started working on reception while I was at university, 101 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: and then I thought this is a good way to 102 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 2: make some money and then I'll go back to UNI. 103 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: And I never went back. I was in real estate 104 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: for seven and a half years. 105 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Yeah. I feel like in real state 106 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: it'd be the bad guy a lot. 107 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's what I didn't like. I didn't like 108 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: that stereotype of the person that they thought I was 109 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 2: before they really got to know me. So it's ultimately 110 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: why I left. 111 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. Look, it's not a good time to be a 112 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,119 Speaker 1: real estate person in this especially in this state age. 113 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 2: Not at the moment. 114 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: No, no, lots so nasty emails being sent to people 115 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: about renting cross. Okay, I'm going to ask you three questions, 116 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: and from the answers to those three questions, I have 117 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: to determine what it is you're concealing from me today. 118 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: Are you ready? 119 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: I am ready? 120 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: Okay. Question number one, if you could bring back any 121 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: inanimate object that you lost, what would it. 122 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: Be There is a ring that I lost when I 123 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: was overseas on holidays. I was swimming at the beach 124 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: of course. 125 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: Hmm, the ocean is coming back into play again. Okay, 126 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: wet things all write that down, Okay, So, yes, you 127 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: lost at the beach. 128 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,799 Speaker 2: Yes, when I was on holidays in Europe, very sad. 129 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: Oh Europe. Oh it's a euro trip, that's us. Where 130 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: in Europe. 131 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 2: Were you are Italy? 132 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: Okay? Question number two, what is your favorite smell? 133 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: Very specific? 134 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: No, I love this. 135 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 2: Going back to musical theater. There is this one brand 136 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: of hairspray. I can't think of the name of it, 137 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 2: but it's the gold bottle, the gold can with the 138 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: white lid. That smell always takes me back to being 139 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: backstage at a show. 140 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: Gold can, white lid. 141 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. 142 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: The rund likes to huff fumes. Okay. And question number three, 143 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: If you could relive any moment of your life, what 144 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: would it be. 145 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: It is actually something you already asked me about my 146 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: proposal to my fiance Akiy with such a surprise. It 147 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: came out of nowhere, and it happens so quickly. I'd 148 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 2: love to just go back and really be present and 149 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: remember it all and maybe force him to say something 150 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 2: more than way mammy. 151 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: Okay, al right, okay, wow, I said this week I 152 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: was going to get it, and I think I am. 153 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: But that's a If I don't get it, we don't 154 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: kick you off. It's fine. We're still going to talk regardless. Okay, 155 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: So let's recap. Okay, you're missing a ring, all right, 156 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: ring in the ocean. Ocean water beach, italy. Okay, ocean beach, 157 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: little Lily dolemo Okay, yep, all right. And second favorite 158 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: smell is hair spray, huffing, hair spray, backstage, backstage hair spray. Okay, 159 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: backstage hair spray, hair spray, musical something musical, musical? Rings? 160 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: Is there a lot of the rings? The musical? Maybe 161 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: that give it? And if you could relive any moment 162 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: in your life, what would be your proposal? Okay, it's 163 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: about marriage, marriage. Okay, it's like rings in marriage, something 164 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: to do with marriage. Okay, Now I'm going to go 165 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: back to my gartner. Right, have you written and produced 166 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: your own musical called Lord of the Rings the musical? 167 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: What do you think? 168 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: Correct? How did you know? I am a professional bridesmaid? 169 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: I own a business called hire a bridesmaid. We have 170 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: a team of five and we attend weddings every single weekend. 171 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 2: What what is that? Sours are what? 172 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: This is a job? 173 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 2: A thing? 174 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: So Kirsten didn't create Lord of the Rings the musical. 175 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: She's in fact a professional bridesmaid? What what? What the 176 00:08:50,800 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: hell is a professional bridesmaid? Can I leave it? So 177 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: we're here with Kirstin and unfortunately Kirstin hasn't written the 178 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: musical Lord of the Rings, but I hope she does eventually. 179 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: But you are a professional bridesmaid? 180 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 2: Yes? 181 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: I have never heard of this in my life. Top line? 182 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: What is the professional bridesmaid? 183 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: Exactly? What it sounds like. It's somebody that is part 184 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: of a wedding, usually a bridesmaid, sometimes a groomsman, and 185 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 2: we're hired to be there. 186 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: Is this something that you'd seen done before and you're like, oh, 187 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: I can do that too, or do you just make 188 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: this up? 189 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 2: I totally made it up. Oh yep, I just came 190 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 2: out of nowhere. 191 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: Is there anyone else in the world that does well? 192 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: They probably do now right, Okay? 193 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 2: There is someone else that's actually another lady in the States. 194 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: She's based in New York, who does it, which I 195 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: only found out about her after I started my business. 196 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So when did you start this business? 197 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: Twenty fifteen. It was a total accident. I was actually 198 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 2: m seeing a friend's wedding reception and all these things 199 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 2: were happening on the wedding day, and the bridesmaids and 200 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 2: I were running around and doing last minute tasks, and 201 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 2: it was forty degrees and the bride was out there 202 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 2: looking at tables and flowers, and I just thought, like, 203 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: this is crazy. A bride and her bridesmaids or a 204 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: couple and their friends shouldn't have to be doing these 205 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 2: tasks on the wedding day. And I went home and 206 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 2: I was thinking about it, and I'm like, how do 207 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: I become something to do with weddings? And it wasn't 208 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: until the next day. I was talking to my mum 209 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: and I was explaining how well I wasn't a bridesmaid. 210 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 2: I was the MC, but it was like I was 211 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 2: a bridesmaid because I was helping. And my mom said, like, 212 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: you were hired to be a bridesmaid, and I went 213 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 2: ding ding ding ding, that's it. And I literally put 214 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 2: that up on the internet thinking it would just be 215 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 2: MC Coordination Services, and then naturally someone googled and found 216 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: it and that was twenty sixteen, the inn of twenty 217 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 2: sixteen that someone found me. 218 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: Wow, and how many people do you employ within your group? 219 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 2: There are five of us, five brads. 220 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: That's a pretty good pad. Groomsmen as well, Yes. 221 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: Yep, we have groomsmen. We have best people wing women. 222 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: Whatever you need, I say, if I was auditioning for 223 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: a role of a brod's maid, you know, professional bridesmaids, 224 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,839 Speaker 1: grooms person you know, what do you look for in 225 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: a candidate, Well. 226 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: You're hired for starters. That was easy. A lot of 227 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 2: it's got to do with personality and also do we 228 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: think that they're capable of managing other things on a 229 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 2: wedding day. It's not just about being you know, a 230 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: very small part of our job is standing there and 231 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 2: looking amazing in the dress that they give you or 232 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: the suit that they give you. The biggest part of 233 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: it is kind of knowing what to expect at a 234 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 2: wedding and just being there to guide somebody through it. 235 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: So really it's not just about do I think this 236 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: person is auditioning who could do the job. It's like, well, 237 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 2: could they also be a wedding planner if required, and 238 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: they're the people that we hire. 239 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to be good at a few little things, 240 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: I guess. But what kind of people need to hire 241 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: a bride's bait? 242 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 2: All different people. Sometimes people hire us just because they 243 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 2: want to even out their bridal party. Sometimes people hire 244 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 2: us because they need someone to do the tasks on 245 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: the wedding day. That's another side of what we do. 246 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: It's like you're in disguise, you're like undercover boss. What 247 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: do you correct? But I feel like people would keep 248 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: it quiet on the DL that they've got they're hiring 249 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: someone in their bridal party. You know, has to know. 250 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 2: Some people are happy to tell you know, their partner 251 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: or some of their family or the other bridesmaids groomsmen. 252 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: But a lot of the time, yeah, it is a secret. 253 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 2: We do offer them the option for us to sign 254 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: an NDA on their behalf if they wish, Yeah, if 255 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 2: they prefer we didn't say it. Yes, my business is 256 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: actually called hire a bridesmaid, So if you were looking 257 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 2: for one, it's pretty easy to google it. 258 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: And within the world of being a professional bridesmaid, what's 259 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: the scope of the work of what you do. Is 260 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: it sometimes just like hanging out and being part of 261 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: the group, or is it you know, let me know. 262 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: So it really depends on what the client wants. Sometimes 263 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 2: we help them plan their whole wedding from beginning to end, 264 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 2: and we love that because we really get to know 265 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 2: our clients well in that timeframe that can be up 266 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: to twelve months. Other times it's coming in closer to 267 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: the wedding when it comes to things like bridle showers 268 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 2: and hens parties and being with them throughout and just 269 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: kind of, yeah, going dress shopping with them, doing all 270 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 2: the fun stuff. And then we also have a hidden 271 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 2: bridesmaid service where we just turn up on the wedding 272 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: day And as I said, that could just be to 273 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 2: fill out the wedding party, or it could be to 274 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: just be the person who's there for them on their 275 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 2: wedding day. 276 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: It's a got a bit weird that, Like imagine if 277 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: you're at a hen's party and they're like, Hi, I'm Sandra. 278 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: We met Beverly you know, ten years ago, with their 279 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 1: prey out of you, and they go around the circle 280 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: and they go to you and you're like, I'm just 281 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: paid to be here. 282 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 2: Well, we wouldn't say that, but yes, it would be 283 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 2: funny if we did. 284 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,719 Speaker 1: But does it get weird, like you know, like I know, 285 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: do you feel like an impostor No? 286 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: Not really. It kind of feels like you're doing someone 287 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 2: a really lovely service. There's a reason they've hired us. 288 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 2: It's because they want somebody who gets it. We've been 289 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 2: to lots and lots of weddings and they just want 290 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 2: someone who's there by their side. And you know, we 291 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 2: just try and keep their story simple. So if they 292 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 2: ask us a question that we don't know the answer to, 293 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 2: for example, that Hen's party situation where you're going around, 294 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: how do you know them? We just have a backstory 295 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 2: that we've come up with and we stick to it. 296 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: When you're going into these situations, do you find other 297 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: guests who are in on what you do? Do they 298 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: get territorial like you know, does the mother of the 299 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: brid get territorial? Or do the best friends being like, well, 300 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: I could have done that. 301 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: I think that's part of any wedding, any bride or party, 302 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: whether you know them or not, the biggest part of 303 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: our job is reading people and saying, Okay, well, that 304 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 2: person really wants to do that job. Let them do it. 305 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: You know, I don't need to be the one that 306 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 2: fixes the veil or fixes the dress or cleans the 307 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: lint off the suit. If someone else wants to do it, 308 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 2: we let them do it. That's totally fine. 309 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: I guess on the flip side too, you wouldn't be 310 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: called in to be doing these things if these people 311 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: had put the hand up right at the beginning to 312 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: do them all at the beginning. So it's really easy 313 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: to walk in be like, well, I would have done that, 314 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: and I would have done it really good. When will 315 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: you didn't, Babe? 316 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 2: Yes, Sadly that does happen. Sometimes we're hired because they 317 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 2: do have good friends, but they're just not the level 318 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 2: of friend that would actually help them throughout the wedding planning. 319 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 2: So they get us in to do both roles. Be 320 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 2: the brides, may be there for them on the day, 321 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 2: and kind of just be their biggest cheerleader. 322 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: Because this is a really big part of someone's life. 323 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: Do you ever feel like they get a bit attached 324 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: to you, because I feel like this is almost like 325 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: hiring a best friend. Is there a bit of like 326 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: you kind of have to bring people back down to 327 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: be like, all right, don't keep texting me at three am, 328 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: you know, babe, Like, let's keep this to business hours. 329 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's where the term professional brides 330 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 2: maid comes in or a professional best ye, which is 331 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: our tagline. And we, of course we're there for them 332 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: for whatever they need, but there is a contract at 333 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: the end of the day, and that contract says what 334 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: the scope of our work is and ultimately it is work. 335 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 2: And luckily we've never had to sort of draw that 336 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 2: line with anybody. But again, I think it's because we 337 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: have such a good contract and they really do. They're 338 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: just so grateful to have us there for them throughout 339 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: this really crazy time in their lives. 340 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, for some of them would be such a long process. 341 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: How do you like let them go at the end, 342 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: and we're like, of you go, it's done now, fine. 343 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: We let softly slowly. Well, they paid beforehand, that's most 344 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: wedding suppliers request payment beforehand. But no, I mean we'll 345 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 2: touch base with them a little bit afterwards as well 346 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 2: to say thank you so much for having us. It 347 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: was so great to meet you and to be part 348 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 2: of such an amazing day. We wish you all the 349 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: best for your future together. 350 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: So there is want to get married again? Give you 351 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: know where to find her? Happy to help you out? 352 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, discounts ten percent second time around. 353 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: Has anyone ever tried to like really be like no, 354 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: but who are you? Because the same thing happens to 355 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: me when they're like what's your real name? Like arts 356 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: the bot and they're like no, they're like what's your 357 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: real name? And they get really angry like someone Yeah. 358 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, Actually there was one time I was a bridesmaid 359 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: at a wedding and it was agreed that I wouldn't 360 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 2: tell anybody that I was hired. And one of the 361 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 2: groom's friends was very key. This is back in my 362 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 2: single days. Just in case my fiancee is listening. He 363 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 2: is very keen on me and very keen to get 364 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 2: my Instagram and my phone number. And it didn't matter 365 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 2: how much I pushed him away and how many questions 366 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 2: I fended off, he just popped back up again with 367 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 2: another question and another glass of champagne. That I would 368 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 2: keep saying no to take a hint. And yeah, that 369 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 2: got a bit tricky because obviously my client didn't want 370 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 2: me telling that I was hired, but if he got 371 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 2: my Instagram profile, it says hire a bride's maid under it, 372 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 2: So a little bit tricky. 373 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: You need a dummy profile, honestly, I should. You need 374 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 1: to have a dummy Instagram and you you know you can. 375 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: It can still be cursing and it would spell it 376 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,159 Speaker 1: slightly differently. I like that and then you could, you know, 377 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: fill it with lots of things. You could have the 378 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: best fake life. What do you want to be from Quebec? 379 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. So exciting? Maybe your foundational wrong climber. 380 00:17:55,840 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, hello, I am a big kind qrist. Oh god, 381 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 2: no one would believe that accent. 382 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: Oh it must be crazy. Like you know, people would 383 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 1: get pretty bloody rowdy at weddings and after parties and 384 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: then everyone's like, I have a drink coming here, and 385 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,959 Speaker 1: you're like, no, it's fine, Yes, i'm working. I'm working. 386 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: But you can't say you're working though. If you can't, 387 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: how do you navigate that? Because I always just hold 388 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: a drink and then they can't give me one because 389 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm holding it. I'm like, I've got one, baby, it's fine, 390 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: I've got one here it is. 391 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 2: Oh, but that one's warm, here's another one. No making No, 392 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 2: it's fun same thing. So either hold a drink or 393 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 2: say I don't drink that people usually call with that, 394 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 2: or do kind of what the pregnant people do when 395 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 2: they're trying to hide it and have something that looks 396 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: like a drink, some sort of fancy cocktail. 397 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: Well, that's the other thing I say to people. They say, 398 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: why aren't you having a drink? I said, Oh, I'm pregnant. 399 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 2: Yes, mine's a food baby rough, it's not real baby. 400 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have an appointment with the porcelain bowl very soon, 401 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: and then we'll be given birth. Don't you worry? If 402 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: they want to know, they want to know. How many 403 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,479 Speaker 1: weddings do you think you've been in? Personally? As like 404 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: a bridesmaid standing up there next. 405 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 2: To the bride a lot, so the whole NDA thing. 406 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 2: This gets a bit tricky to say exactly how many, 407 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 2: because we don't want anybody finding out exactly who was 408 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: hired and who wasn't more than twenty? 409 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 1: Wow, how many ugly dresses have you had to wear? 410 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: More than twenty? 411 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: No? 412 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 2: No, I'm pretty lucky. People look pretty nice. I mean, 413 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 2: I'll never complain, and there is a team of us, 414 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 2: so it's not just me that doesn't anymore. Yes, but yeah, 415 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 2: I've been pretty lucky. People are kind of like, what 416 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 2: would you feel comfortable wearing? And really the answer is 417 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 2: whatever you want me to wear? 418 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? Do they get boring after all that? 419 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 2: Well not for me. I've been doing it for nearly 420 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 2: ten years. But I love weddings, and every wedding is 421 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 2: so different, Every couple is different, we all have different tastes. 422 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: I've never been bored. Let's just say that. 423 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: You just love love? Do you love love? Love? 424 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 2: And now I'm doing my own wedding and so that's 425 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 2: a whole other thing too. 426 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 1: And yeah, are you going to hire in some bridemaids? 427 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: Are you available? 428 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 1: Don't tell anyone. I'll just be sad there the whole. 429 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 2: Time and be like we've known each other for years. 430 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: Let me get my notebook. Yes, Kristin, Yes, me and 431 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: Kirsten many friends. Good, it's got to be some kind 432 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: of horror stories. It's wedding town, you know. And I 433 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: know you've got your NDAs, but maybe talking generalized terms 434 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: of there any things that have gone absolutely wrong and 435 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: you're having to like make it work and fix it all. 436 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. 437 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, Look, things go wrong at nearly every wedding. And 438 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 2: I don't say that to scare people. I say it 439 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 2: because it's the nature of any big event where you're 440 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: bringing together a lot of people. We've had bridesmaids break 441 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 2: ankles on the dance floor and then just continue to 442 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 2: party all night. And you know, we've had dress disasters, 443 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 2: glasses of red wine all down the dress and you know, 444 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: some people go, ah, my dress, and the others go, oh, no, 445 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 2: it's fine, I'm here, it doesn't really matter. So yeah, 446 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 2: all sorts of things. I think some of the craziest 447 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 2: things that have happened and have been yeah, people just 448 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 2: getting very drunk. Like last weekend, I was guarding the 449 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 2: wedding cake from a guest who was a little bit 450 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 2: rowdy a little bit early on. So you know, I'm 451 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: on the dance floor. Seriously, is that another Lord of 452 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 2: the Rings? So it's Lord of the Wedding Rings? 453 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: Lord of the Wedding Rings. 454 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 2: A new business. 455 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: Write that down. 456 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I mean it's usually things just where people 457 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 2: get together and things go wrong. We've had flooding, We've 458 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 2: had to change and find new venues at the last minute. 459 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 2: We've had flowers turn up that are the wrong color, 460 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 2: and that's sort of where we step in and we go, yeah, 461 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 2: we're here to fix it. Doesn't matter that much to you. 462 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 2: All right, let's come up with a solution. And often 463 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 2: we fix it before the couple even have to know 464 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 2: about it. 465 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 1: Is it usually just like one of you? Or is 466 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 1: there sometimes you know, a bunch of you hidden throughout 467 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: engine throughout. 468 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 2: Usually it's just one when we're hired to be a bridesmaid, 469 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: but on a wedding day we're coordinating. For example, there 470 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 2: could be a team of us if that's required, but 471 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 2: the other girls are more behind the scenes. 472 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: I would love if you're like head bride's made hit 473 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: in the party and you've got like a little earpiece 474 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: in and you're like, you know, it's getting voices an 475 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: intel from all around. You're like, yeah, all right, and 476 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: you're actually talking into your flower or your corsage, and 477 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: you're like ten o'clock that some come towards the wedding cake, 478 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: towards the wedy cake. This is the wrong track. Play 479 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: the different track. Go Okay, so earlier you did say 480 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: I had the job, but I think I need some 481 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: work experience. So I want you to pretend that you're 482 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: the bride. Okay, but you are a bride sealer okay, ye, 483 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 1: you got it in you. You got it in you, 484 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,719 Speaker 1: And I want you to give me some issues that 485 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: like a bride's deialer would come to you with, and 486 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: I'll see if I can sort them out for you 487 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 1: and see if like my solution and problem solving is 488 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 1: good for the brand. What do you think? 489 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 2: I reckon? Yes, I'm gonna struggle with this, but yes, okay, right. 490 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: Girl. Oh I'm so angry because you're you're a bride sealer. 491 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: Art. Why are the flowers the wrong. 492 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: Because you're color blind? Bitch? Get over it? My god, 493 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:10,360 Speaker 1: it's your eyes. The flowers are exactly the color. That's 494 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 1: pretty good. 495 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that was perfect. I think exactly how 496 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 2: we've trained the team to handle that situation. 497 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: Kirsten isn't the creator of a Lord of the Rings, 498 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: the music or no ses a professional bridesmaid and after 499 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: speaking to you, how you know what? I reckon? I 500 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 1: could do that too, So slap an ugly dress on 501 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: me and I'll smile at your wedding four days. I'll 502 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,360 Speaker 1: see you there. You've been listening to an iHeart Australia 503 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: Production concealed with utsimone. Listen to more of what you 504 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: love on iHeart and check me out on the Socials. 505 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: Check out me ring