WEBVTT - If You Could Build Your Perfect Self, What Would You Include? 💁🏻

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<v Speaker 1>On Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Flection Frooms on cater I've got a bit of a

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<v Speaker 3>game I'm gonna play with through me, but if you're listening,

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<v Speaker 3>play on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's gonna be hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, let's say you could build your perfect self with

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<v Speaker 3>four distinct categories and two options for each category.

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<v Speaker 1>What would you pick and why?

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<v Speaker 3>Now? Freeman, I will play this on our podcast, but

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<v Speaker 3>for you listening, this is how it works. Category one,

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<v Speaker 3>you can either have mental stability or career progression. You

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<v Speaker 3>can only pick one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you pick.

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<v Speaker 3>If you pick career progression, the mental soul is not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be good.

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<v Speaker 1>Category two.

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<v Speaker 3>You can either have healthy relationships or abs and a

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<v Speaker 3>juicy pert bump. You can't have both, Okay, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Number three you can be like spiritually aligned and growing

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<v Speaker 3>as a person, self actualized, or you can have a

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<v Speaker 3>filling social life. You can't have both. And number four,

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<v Speaker 3>you can have the time and space like explore your

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<v Speaker 3>creative curiosity. You're doing your hobbies, you're painting, or you

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<v Speaker 3>can have more than five thousand dollars in savings.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't have both.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. Now, the source of this is from our

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<v Speaker 3>favorite Instagram account, Stupid Bitch Energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it really yeah? This is a bit serious for her. No, hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let me get it up as well, so

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<v Speaker 2>I see the visual. I love stupid Bitch Energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Here. This is from ages ago. She's a premium meme

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<v Speaker 1>page of Australia. Don't get a twisted I'll text it

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>She this is like ninety one weeks ago, but she

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<v Speaker 3>re shared it recently and was like this, Still, let's

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<v Speaker 3>strive for the big eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, yes, now let me tell you mine Number one,

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<v Speaker 2>Mental stability or career progression. I'm choosing mental stability.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm choosing career progression because I always had mental stability,

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<v Speaker 3>and now that I am a little bit less stable,

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<v Speaker 3>I can live with it.

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<v Speaker 1>See you've done the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two, healthy relationships or abs in as you wait,

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk about it for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on through.

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<v Speaker 3>So mental stability, right, even at my most unstable, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I'm not talking the most unstable person you can be.

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<v Speaker 3>Generally my most unstable as like an avoidant attached potentially

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<v Speaker 3>emotionally stunted baby girl.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I just won't think about it, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'll do my time with career progression, get a

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<v Speaker 3>bag clock off, and then go to a Yogi camp

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<v Speaker 3>and really get my mind right. You can't do both

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<v Speaker 3>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, see, that's why I'm doing the opposite, because I

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<v Speaker 2>want to enjoy my young years fruitfully as a mentally

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<v Speaker 2>stable person.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you oh you mean in this alternative reality?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, And then career progression.

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<v Speaker 2>I think like peaking too early is quite a scary

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<v Speaker 2>thing to do, so I can give peak too early.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I haven't pead at all. What are you hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to be a peak? If you could plan it perfectly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to peak. I want a slow burn way.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, sounds like someone's afraid of success. I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to peak, says formy type eight oriented hard worker, good work, ethics.

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<v Speaker 1>Hard work. Would you say interesting? You work hard? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 3>Gird?

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<v Speaker 1>You work efficiently? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? Healthy relationships or abs in a juicy RS?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean healthy relationships? Come on, now, it's not clear

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<v Speaker 2>for everyone. I'll say I've never had a JUICYR, so

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<v Speaker 2>I can't vouch for whether or not that is worth it,

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<v Speaker 2>but the.

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<v Speaker 3>Abs Okay, well, let's let's change healthy relationships and the

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<v Speaker 3>body that you've like desired your.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole entire life.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's say that's like sure an easier healthy relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean? I think the hottest people are

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<v Speaker 2>the loneliest people. It's hard at the top. It's true,

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<v Speaker 2>same as really famous people, so lonely.

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<v Speaker 1>The hottest people are the loneliest people because you look

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<v Speaker 1>at Do you think the pursuit of hotness makes you

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<v Speaker 1>lonely or the people that got lonely just had enough

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<v Speaker 1>time to get hot. I think the first one.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also think people treat you like a commodity,

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<v Speaker 2>or people treat you like you're something that's better than them,

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<v Speaker 2>and therefore they can't get near you and they need

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<v Speaker 2>to like tear you down to make you personable. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like the thing when we were talking about Megan Fox

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<v Speaker 2>getting cheated on and how everyone's like somehow, yeah she's

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<v Speaker 2>one of us. Yeah that's cooked. I will say, though, sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>We use healthy and like good synonymously, so like a

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<v Speaker 3>healthy relationship is a good relationship, but like some of

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<v Speaker 3>my healthy relationships are hard. I'm like, damn, we got

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<v Speaker 3>to talk about our issues and like, but yeah, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>take it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Number three being spiritually aligned and growing as a person,

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<v Speaker 3>having a feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Social I think I know where we both stand on this.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to be spiritually aligned right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'd rather be spiritually aligned going as a person.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 3>Plus one's in heaven and I'm feeling like the way

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<v Speaker 3>things are going on earth currently we're getting they look sooner,

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<v Speaker 3>they're anticipated. So I'm putting my ducks in a row,

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<v Speaker 3>make sure the big dog noses SiGe them on. But

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<v Speaker 3>I would say last year, I would want a more

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<v Speaker 3>fulfilling social life.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the social life. Who's gonna be their on new

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<v Speaker 1>death bed?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, no one. It's so cook because my mum works

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<v Speaker 3>in the respite care and she looks after a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of old people, a lot of old rich people actually,

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<v Speaker 3>and she's like, you'd be surprised how many of them

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<v Speaker 3>just like don't have a support network even if their

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<v Speaker 3>family is alive. And she'said they use me as a

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<v Speaker 3>surrogate family member, Like have they given her any inheritance?

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<v Speaker 1>No comment? Okay, she does well.

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<v Speaker 3>Good honor, But yeah, I think It's tricky because even

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<v Speaker 3>when my social life is fulfilling, I think it's at

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<v Speaker 3>the cost of my mental health sometimes, Like I find

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<v Speaker 3>that I thought being an outgoing person. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not as much of a textbook extrovert now as

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<v Speaker 3>I was when I was younger, and I think a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of the social situations I'm in I have to

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of like get thrust into this position where

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<v Speaker 3>like people are like extracting entertainment from me, and I

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<v Speaker 3>leave them feeling drained. Everyone's like, let's talk about you

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<v Speaker 3>or talk about what you're experiencing, or like you do

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<v Speaker 3>to cool things. Let's like and I'm like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>even like engaging with you. I just become like this topic.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe for the last hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Oka it wasn't about me, but I still drained you.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, you didn't drain No, No, it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's, for example, like I'll go to a party,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is a very unique problem. It's not like

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<v Speaker 3>let's let's commiserate, but let's go to a party, random

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<v Speaker 3>house party in Surry Hills. I'm going there to be cooked,

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<v Speaker 3>to enjoy myself, right, get a little loopy, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I get there and someone's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, is that flex? Is that flex? Is that flex?

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<v Speaker 3>And it's like oh hi, And then someone's like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my goodness, I saw you did this amazing thing, and

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<v Speaker 3>oh my goodness are you still friends with this person?

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<v Speaker 3>And oh my god, I love you? Are these crocs?

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<v Speaker 3>I want to buy Crocs? And it's like can you

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<v Speaker 3>tell me how to do this? And like, do you

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<v Speaker 3>mind if you introduced me to that person?

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<v Speaker 1>I really like some.

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<v Speaker 3>Advice, and it's like, whoa, I haven't even danced to

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<v Speaker 3>one song yem. And it's every second person who's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not like that super fan. I'm a different kind

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<v Speaker 3>of sand and these are not like these are like peers, right,

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<v Speaker 3>these are people I know and our extended friends. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, babes, you've not asked me one question about me.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, I need this, I need this, I need

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<v Speaker 3>to do this. I need to do this, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then if I don't do it, I feel bad. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like not a vibe. That's tricky, honey.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to go to a party or like

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<v Speaker 3>a festival, a little warehouse party and just be in

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<v Speaker 3>my little huddle with my BFFs being a loop loopy

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<v Speaker 3>loose suits and then interact with people who appreciate the

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<v Speaker 3>sanctity of getting loose with a stranger. I'm asking personal

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<v Speaker 3>questions just like giggle and vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go and sit down with someone in

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<v Speaker 2>a park off Chapel Street and talk at five.

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<v Speaker 1>Am in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and just like be rattling off ideas and finally

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<v Speaker 2>exploring creative curiosities or five K plus in savings I

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<v Speaker 2>mean savings for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's going to be the savings for me.

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<v Speaker 2>We can be creative any time, particularly when we are

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<v Speaker 2>in our.

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<v Speaker 3>Respect Well, we have creative jobs, so I think if

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't have them, it would be.

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<v Speaker 1>A bit more serious. Nah, taking the savings, I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>the cash.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a recession, so facts well, thanks are going up.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Chupid bitch energy never stop. We'll see you soon. You've

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