Speaker 1: On Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms.
Speaker 2: This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.
Speaker 3: Flection Frooms on cater I've got a bit of a
Speaker 3: game I'm gonna play with through me, but if you're listening,
Speaker 3: play on your own.
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be hilarious.
Speaker 3: Basically, let's say you could build your perfect self with
Speaker 3: four distinct categories and two options for each category.
Speaker 1: What would you pick and why?
Speaker 3: Now? Freeman, I will play this on our podcast, but
Speaker 3: for you listening, this is how it works. Category one,
Speaker 3: you can either have mental stability or career progression. You
Speaker 3: can only pick one.
Speaker 1: If you pick.
Speaker 3: If you pick career progression, the mental soul is not
Speaker 3: gonna be good.
Speaker 1: Category two.
Speaker 3: You can either have healthy relationships or abs and a
Speaker 3: juicy pert bump. You can't have both, Okay, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: Number three you can be like spiritually aligned and growing
Speaker 3: as a person, self actualized, or you can have a
Speaker 3: filling social life. You can't have both. And number four,
Speaker 3: you can have the time and space like explore your
Speaker 3: creative curiosity. You're doing your hobbies, you're painting, or you
Speaker 3: can have more than five thousand dollars in savings.
Speaker 1: You can't have both.
Speaker 3: All right. Now, the source of this is from our
Speaker 3: favorite Instagram account, Stupid Bitch Energy.
Speaker 1: Is it really yeah? This is a bit serious for her. No, hilarious.
Speaker 2: All right, let me get it up as well, so
Speaker 2: I see the visual. I love stupid Bitch Energy.
Speaker 1: Here. This is from ages ago. She's a premium meme
Speaker 1: page of Australia. Don't get a twisted I'll text it
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 3: She this is like ninety one weeks ago, but she
Speaker 3: re shared it recently and was like this, Still, let's
Speaker 3: strive for the big eight.
Speaker 1: Oh, here we go.
Speaker 2: All right, yes, now let me tell you mine Number one,
Speaker 2: Mental stability or career progression. I'm choosing mental stability.
Speaker 3: I'm choosing career progression because I always had mental stability,
Speaker 3: and now that I am a little bit less stable,
Speaker 3: I can live with it.
Speaker 1: See you've done the opposite.
Speaker 2: Number two, healthy relationships or abs in as you wait,
Speaker 2: let's talk about it for a little bit.
Speaker 1: Hold on through.
Speaker 3: So mental stability, right, even at my most unstable, I
Speaker 3: mean I'm not talking the most unstable person you can be.
Speaker 3: Generally my most unstable as like an avoidant attached potentially
Speaker 3: emotionally stunted baby girl.
Speaker 1: It's fine.
Speaker 3: I just won't think about it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But I'll do my time with career progression, get a
Speaker 3: bag clock off, and then go to a Yogi camp
Speaker 3: and really get my mind right. You can't do both
Speaker 3: at the same time.
Speaker 2: Well, see, that's why I'm doing the opposite, because I
Speaker 2: want to enjoy my young years fruitfully as a mentally
Speaker 2: stable person.
Speaker 1: Are you oh you mean in this alternative reality?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, And then career progression.
Speaker 2: I think like peaking too early is quite a scary
Speaker 2: thing to do, so I can give peak too early.
Speaker 1: No, I haven't pead at all. What are you hoping
Speaker 1: to be a peak? If you could plan it perfectly,
Speaker 1: I don't want to peak. I want a slow burn way.
Speaker 3: Oh, sounds like someone's afraid of success. I don't want
Speaker 3: to peak, says formy type eight oriented hard worker, good work, ethics.
Speaker 1: Hard work. Would you say interesting? You work hard? Thanks?
Speaker 3: Gird?
Speaker 1: You work efficiently? All right?
Speaker 2: All right? Healthy relationships or abs in a juicy RS?
Speaker 2: I mean healthy relationships? Come on, now, it's not clear
Speaker 2: for everyone. I'll say I've never had a JUICYR, so
Speaker 2: I can't vouch for whether or not that is worth it,
Speaker 2: but the.
Speaker 3: Abs Okay, well, let's let's change healthy relationships and the
Speaker 3: body that you've like desired your.
Speaker 1: Whole entire life.
Speaker 3: Let's say that's like sure an easier healthy relationships.
Speaker 2: What do you mean? I think the hottest people are
Speaker 2: the loneliest people. It's hard at the top. It's true,
Speaker 2: same as really famous people, so lonely.
Speaker 1: The hottest people are the loneliest people because you look
Speaker 1: at Do you think the pursuit of hotness makes you
Speaker 1: lonely or the people that got lonely just had enough
Speaker 1: time to get hot. I think the first one.
Speaker 2: And I also think people treat you like a commodity,
Speaker 2: or people treat you like you're something that's better than them,
Speaker 2: and therefore they can't get near you and they need
Speaker 2: to like tear you down to make you personable. It's
Speaker 2: like the thing when we were talking about Megan Fox
Speaker 2: getting cheated on and how everyone's like somehow, yeah she's
Speaker 2: one of us. Yeah that's cooked. I will say, though, sometimes.
Speaker 3: We use healthy and like good synonymously, so like a
Speaker 3: healthy relationship is a good relationship, but like some of
Speaker 3: my healthy relationships are hard. I'm like, damn, we got
Speaker 3: to talk about our issues and like, but yeah, I'll
Speaker 3: take it.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Number three being spiritually aligned and growing as a person,
Speaker 3: having a feeling.
Speaker 1: Social I think I know where we both stand on this.
Speaker 1: We want to be spiritually aligned right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd rather be spiritually aligned going as a person.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: Plus one's in heaven and I'm feeling like the way
Speaker 3: things are going on earth currently we're getting they look sooner,
Speaker 3: they're anticipated. So I'm putting my ducks in a row,
Speaker 3: make sure the big dog noses SiGe them on. But
Speaker 3: I would say last year, I would want a more
Speaker 3: fulfilling social life.
Speaker 1: Of the social life. Who's gonna be their on new
Speaker 1: death bed?
Speaker 3: Well, no one. It's so cook because my mum works
Speaker 3: in the respite care and she looks after a lot
Speaker 3: of old people, a lot of old rich people actually,
Speaker 3: and she's like, you'd be surprised how many of them
Speaker 3: just like don't have a support network even if their
Speaker 3: family is alive. And she'said they use me as a
Speaker 3: surrogate family member, Like have they given her any inheritance?
Speaker 1: No comment? Okay, she does well.
Speaker 3: Good honor, But yeah, I think It's tricky because even
Speaker 3: when my social life is fulfilling, I think it's at
Speaker 3: the cost of my mental health sometimes, Like I find
Speaker 3: that I thought being an outgoing person. I feel like
Speaker 3: I'm not as much of a textbook extrovert now as
Speaker 3: I was when I was younger, and I think a
Speaker 3: lot of the social situations I'm in I have to
Speaker 3: I kind of like get thrust into this position where
Speaker 3: like people are like extracting entertainment from me, and I
Speaker 3: leave them feeling drained. Everyone's like, let's talk about you
Speaker 3: or talk about what you're experiencing, or like you do
Speaker 3: to cool things. Let's like and I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 3: even like engaging with you. I just become like this topic.
Speaker 1: Maybe for the last hour.
Speaker 2: Oka it wasn't about me, but I still drained you.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you didn't drain No, No, it's not like that.
Speaker 3: It's like it's, for example, like I'll go to a party,
Speaker 3: and this is a very unique problem. It's not like
Speaker 3: let's let's commiserate, but let's go to a party, random
Speaker 3: house party in Surry Hills. I'm going there to be cooked,
Speaker 3: to enjoy myself, right, get a little loopy, and then
Speaker 3: I get there and someone's.
Speaker 1: Like, is that flex? Is that flex? Is that flex?
Speaker 3: And it's like oh hi, And then someone's like, oh
Speaker 3: my goodness, I saw you did this amazing thing, and
Speaker 3: oh my goodness are you still friends with this person?
Speaker 3: And oh my god, I love you? Are these crocs?
Speaker 3: I want to buy Crocs? And it's like can you
Speaker 3: tell me how to do this? And like, do you
Speaker 3: mind if you introduced me to that person?
Speaker 1: I really like some.
Speaker 3: Advice, and it's like, whoa, I haven't even danced to
Speaker 3: one song yem. And it's every second person who's like,
Speaker 3: I'm not like that super fan. I'm a different kind
Speaker 3: of sand and these are not like these are like peers, right,
Speaker 3: these are people I know and our extended friends. And
Speaker 3: I'm like, babes, you've not asked me one question about me.
Speaker 3: You're like, I need this, I need this, I need
Speaker 3: to do this. I need to do this, and.
Speaker 1: Then if I don't do it, I feel bad. It's
Speaker 1: just like not a vibe. That's tricky, honey.
Speaker 3: I just want to go to a party or like
Speaker 3: a festival, a little warehouse party and just be in
Speaker 3: my little huddle with my BFFs being a loop loopy
Speaker 3: loose suits and then interact with people who appreciate the
Speaker 3: sanctity of getting loose with a stranger. I'm asking personal
Speaker 3: questions just like giggle and vibe.
Speaker 2: I want to go and sit down with someone in
Speaker 2: a park off Chapel Street and talk at five.
Speaker 1: Am in the morning.
Speaker 2: Yes, and just like be rattling off ideas and finally
Speaker 2: exploring creative curiosities or five K plus in savings I
Speaker 2: mean savings for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to be the savings for me.
Speaker 2: We can be creative any time, particularly when we are
Speaker 2: in our.
Speaker 3: Respect Well, we have creative jobs, so I think if
Speaker 3: we didn't have them, it would be.
Speaker 1: A bit more serious. Nah, taking the savings, I'm taking
Speaker 1: the cash.
Speaker 3: I got a recession, so facts well, thanks are going up.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
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