WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: When did you put your FOOT in it? 🦶 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:12.879 Laura. 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:19.599 Come on there a We're back ladies. 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:20.880 Hello everybody, Bobby. 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.480 Start of the week everyone, Yeah, happy Monday. 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:26.920 How was everyone's weekend? Great weekend. He's going away for 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:28.000 a little family holiday. 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:33.360 Okay, right, yeah, well yes, I guess family holiday. Went 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.080 away with my partner Ben, who's visiting from Scotland slash Switzerland. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:40.080 I tell you what, I have a new favorite pastime. 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:43.080 Like my new favorite thing to do in my spare 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:46.440 time is just like sit back and watch my partner 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:47.880 Ben discover Australia. 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:51.040 Because I forget they're in Switzerland and Scotland. The only 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:52.320 animals they have are cow. 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.200 So, like, we're sitting by the pool we've gone up to, 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.040 like Byron Bay gold Coaster area. We're sitting by the pool. 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:00.360 You've never seen anything like it. I was like, oh 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.240 my god, there must be a huge brown snake about 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:04.600 to attack. Then he got up and he's like, what 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:09.280 the is that? Like panicky freaked A bush jokey like 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:10.920 it just a bush jokey came out. He thought it 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.280 was like a Jurassic Park, like a small dinosaur. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.240 He's like, they are annoying. I mean I'd run away 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:16.520 from the two if they're running up for me. 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:17.520 They're a big bird. Yeah. 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:18.679 The kids don't like him. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:20.720 But I just forget, Like we grew up with this 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:22.800 kind of stuff, like we see this every day. 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:24.559 And I was like, babe, that's just a bush jokey. 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:26.840 He's like, what do you mean? Just a bush turkey? 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:28.119 Do you want to know what I learned on the weekend. 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:30.400 He's a bit of a I don't know trivia facts 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.760 for you. It's a brush turkey. It is a brush turkey. 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:34.680 How great we've all been calling it the wrong thing forever. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:36.840 There you go, everyone, every day's school day. It's a 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:40.720 brush turkey. But if you're just like sickets bushyurkey, rush. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.399 Yeah, or if you're European has story, Well I'm guy. 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:44.920 We're all back. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.240 We're all safe in studio for another round to start 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.720 the week pick up put down is back. All the 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.120 big talking points from the weekend. I bring you girls, 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.760 and as the sort of voices on culture in this country, 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:56.680 you decide whether or not we carry on a conversation 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:57.720 into the weekend or we stop it. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.640 We stuff it out and we did it ever go away? 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:01.400 When you say it's back, we've been doing it every 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:02.160 week for months. 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.360 Now, well it has a rest for seven days and 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:05.920 it comes back. That's out. It was like a boom ring. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:09.320 Today we're talking a big a star joining the cast 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.239 of neighbors. If you haven't heard this story, it's huge. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:12.760 I'll see you next as we start to pick up 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:15.760 for your Monday. Welcome everyone, it's Monday. 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:17.840 Let's do this pick up kid. 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.280 Yeah, I've got a list of the big discussion points 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:23.560 from this weekend that the entire country we're discussing. And 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:25.960 then I bring them to you girls, the voices on 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:28.240 culture in this country, and you decide whether or not 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:29.720 we pick it up, we carry it on into the 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:31.239 week or we put it down and never speak of 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:31.560 it again. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:31.720 OK. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:33.480 I have no idea what these ones are today, and 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:35.840 I have a feeling I'm not going to know because 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.600 I didn't really read the news over the weekend, So 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:39.480 I don't know if I'm going to be the what 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.200 did you call us, the cultural touch point or say that, 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:43.720 oh whatever. I don't know if I'm going to know 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:44.600 what it is you're talking about. 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:45.880 You'll be fine, Britt. You'll be across it. 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:48.800 Sure, you'll actually you'll be across this pick up put down, 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:53.679 Selling Sunsets Krishelle Strauss joining the cast of Neighbors. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:57.679 What pick it up? Pick it up? I've never watched 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:59.480 an episode of Selling Sunsets in my life. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:00.280 You don't have to. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.799 The whole thing is Neighbors is such like an instrumental 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:07.079 Australian show. Like I think it's the longest running show 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.200 we've ever had in Australia, and. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:09.880 I mean they tried to stop it but it came back. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:12.880 It's looks like a month and it got picked up. 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:16.280 But to have such like a huge American star, come on, 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:21.200 I think that's great. Bring she's huge, mate, selling sunset 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:21.919 is huge. 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:23.480 She's a real estate agent. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:26.680 No, she's a reality TV star that sells real estate 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:27.560 on reality TV. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:29.079 They're beautiful. 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:31.240 I mean, I don't feel passionate about it, but I'm 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.600 okay with it. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.359 Was she was on Days of Our Lives all my children. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.880 She'll be playing the character Yas Shields, who's a glamorous 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.880 and successful business woman in pursuit of an exciting new opportunity. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:42.280 Is also with our very own g flip like she's 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:45.040 Aussie now no I know, but usually people leave Neighbors 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.560 to go to the States to like expand their career. 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.000 They don't normally leave the States to come to neighbors 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:51.520 estate career. 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.360 And also where is the budget coming from out of 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:55.480 neighbors all of a sudden. 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.200 I don't know. They've got some backing. It's probably how 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:57.920 they came back. 0:03:57.760 --> 0:03:59.480 All right. Moving on, pick up put down? 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:03.560 Strict dress codes for guests at weddings. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:07.880 Pick it up, put it down? Okay. 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:10.000 I say pick it up only because I did see 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.080 this article going viral over the weekend and it was 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:14.560 around correct me if I'm wrong. There was a couple 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:17.000 who had a very specific dress code. They wanted all 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:18.599 of their guests to wear black to their wedding. 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:18.880 That's it. 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.719 Yeah, which I think if it's your wedding and you 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:24.240 have something that's specific that you want, it's okay to 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:25.720 ask for it. If people don't want to do it, 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:27.560 don't come to the wedding. It's an opt in situation. 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.599 Yeah. I don't care. 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.640 If you've got a costume party, everyone has to be 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.320 an animal like the costume party. 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.040 Costume party, wear an animal, don't vie. 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.320 Let people wear what they want to wear to your wedding. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:39.640 You can have a dress code. I believe in dress codes. 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.800 I don't believe in a strict dress code where this 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.680 is it you come in this or you don't bother 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:45.320 come in. Then you're wanting people to come to your 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.600 wedding for the wrong reason. And you shouldn't have to 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.720 force people to go on by an outfit for your 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.120 wedding because wedding's cost enough. 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:53.400 If I think most people have something in their wardrobe 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:55.839 that's black, it's not like they're like, come in future pink. 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.600 No, let people leave, just get married. Focus on your 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:00.599 husband or your wife. 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:02.960 People we did you were a Laura's wear. You're in 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:05.680 bright orange. Weren't you yellow? Yeah? I was in a 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:07.040 cream suit and you were. 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:11.040 In Yeah, everyone shocked across the nation. 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:12.720 You really you really made it about you that day. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:13.520 I didn't. 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:15.839 I I don't know. I'd say fluoral yellow is pretty 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:20.000 show stopping at someone's wet anyway. 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:21.640 At that one and a half year old stature, how 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:22.720 long you've been sitting on that. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.479 You looked amazing. I wasn't even a sturb but I 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:29.440 mean it was pretty just a yellow tread. It actually 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:30.520 went up to my chin. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.720 It covered my dying neck and had her neck strap, 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:37.720 but it went up to my chin. 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.520 Went up to the chin, and then I can't remember. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.280 I honestly can't remember it. Just cut wholes of my 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:44.880 nipples out, big deal. Yeah they looked great, they looked 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:45.599 really beautiful. 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:49.240 Anyways, finally showering in the morning and not showering at night. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:54.480 Pick up, put down, put it down, pick it up. 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:59.880 Dozens of Australians admitted that they shower at night. Only me. 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.600 I hate showering at night, barely do that. That makes 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.120 me shower at nighttime against my will. He will only 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.080 cuddle me if I have showered at night time. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:08.360 Also, and if I want to. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.159 Go straight to sleep, I'll just go straight to bed. 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.240 No shower, wash my face, wash my feet in the bed. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:13.760 I get. Why don't you tell the people what you 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:14.960 do with the sink with your feet? 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.279 Well, sometimes because you don't want to put your feet 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:18.800 in the shower because then everything gets wet. But if 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:20.680 you really need to wash your feet before going to bed, 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:23.000 you just put your foot in the sink and just 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.680 give your foot a wash and then get into bed. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.560 That's why every day she gets to work, she goes, 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:28.520 does anyone have jerda? And I smell? Yeah, you smell 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:29.360 because you don't shower. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.200 I have a shower every single morning. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.679 The problem if you're showering still smell. 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.160 You need to get some squarehouse and you need to get 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:37.920 some high quality. 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.360 Always so mean to each other. We do love each other. 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:43.160 Oh no, I think I'm pro shower. I will never 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.000 get to a bed with our shower. I'll shower sometimes 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:45.680 feet day. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:47.880 Oh that's funny. You've got the fuggly yellow dress you 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:49.920 stick I do. I do really like. 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.360 That Australians are all saying that this is a thing 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:54.600 because I you know, I often get ostracized on this 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:56.200 show for not liking a nighttime shower. 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.040 But I'm appreciating that other people are in the same 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.280 boat as me. Why Australia gets a bad rap because 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.880 we think, all right, well, look coming up. I have 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:03.720 a question for you all. 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:07.039 Do you think it's okay to out your cheating spouse 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.880 on TikTok because there is I mean, there's a trend 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.560 happening at the moment, and I have some feelings about it. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.280 Oh that's next on the pickup. 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:16.720 Now. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.240 Mitch, you're usually the one on this show who brings 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.240 the TikTok trends because you're on TikTok. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:24.040 Jens, I'm young, I'm you for you, You're on the cusp. 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:25.720 Okay, I've spoken about that. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.160 I'm not on TikTok, but I do enjoy a little 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.920 bit of a like a lurk, Like I like sitting. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:31.720 I like being on there and seeing what people are doing, 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:32.440 but I don't post. 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.240 Actually, Laura is one of those people that goes, did 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.360 you see this trend? It's called the Harlem shape? Because 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.440 she's on reels on Instagram and she gets it three 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:39.000 years later. 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:40.880 That's me. I don't even look on TikTok. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:42.320 Laura's like, do you want to do the ice bucket 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:43.400 challenge this morning? Guys? 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:44.400 Is anyone play king? 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:44.680 Still? 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:45.440 I'm all about it? 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:45.720 Okay. 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:48.080 No, maybe this isn't a new thing, but it's something 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.200 that I came across on the weekend, and I was 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.440 really shocked by how prolific it is, because like, as 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.600 I was flicking, it was like I was seeing more 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.720 and more people who are doing this certain type of trend. 0:07:57.800 --> 0:07:59.840 Now I'm not entirely sure if it's a trend, but 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.280 I wanted to get your take on this. So recently, 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.600 you guys might have seen there was a TikTok creator. 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:07.760 Her name was Resa Tisa and she did the MEI 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.520 real name Reesa Tisa. I think it's her TikTok name. 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:12.640 She did a mini series and it was called Who 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:15.280 the F Did I Marry? Oh, the whole world was 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:16.840 across this, Britt, you showed me this. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:17.560 This was massive. 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.800 Yeah, this had thirty seven million views across several videos. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:22.640 I think like thirty eight now. Oh, I'm sure it's 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:24.120 going up anyways, listened here. 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:25.360 It's going up by millions. 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.480 The list I have a listen to this. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:32.319 Here is part one of who the SI Did I'm marrying? 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.920 So I met my ex husband around March fourth of 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:42.880 twenty twenty. We met on Facebook dating site and we 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:47.160 also matched on Hinge. By the way, you will notice 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:50.440 in this story I called it the United Nations of 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:55.640 Red Flags. It is so many red flags that I mean, 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.760 you would have thought I was color blind because I 0:08:57.760 --> 0:08:58.720 ignored all of them. 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:01.439 I gots it now hit fifty million since we played 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:02.200 that audio clip. 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.559 Just give you live updates. That's how I roll here. Okay, 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:07.600 So the reason why Tisa Resa went so viral. 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:14.360 An hour ago, now it's Tissa reason. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:18.760 Tisasa is the reason why it went viral is because 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:21.560 she was outing her cheating husband. Now this is set 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:24.080 a precedent across TikTok where it seems like more people 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.880 are using the platform to talk about and to share, 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:29.560 like quite controversial stories about how their partners have. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:30.199 Cheated on them. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.960 They're gaining huge engagement for it, and they're creating little 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.640 mini series. Now, my question to you guys is, and 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.640 we've all, unfortunately all three of us have been in 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:42.120 situations in past relationships where we've been cheated on? Do 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:45.800 you think it is okay to use your social media 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.000 platform to out your cheating partner. 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:50.319 It's a tough one. 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:53.160 I mean I never ever have, and I obviously have, 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:56.320 I guess one of the biggest platforms. Not to sound 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:58.440 the like say that in a big headed way, but 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.839 like we had our podcast Laura, which has a lot 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.560 of listeners. 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:03.000 Million, millions and millions. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.480 Then we have a national radio show, like I could 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:09.160 annihilate someone, And I had someone that had like a 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:12.600 double life, cheated on me for years and I never 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:17.000 ever outed that person, and I did start the podcast 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:20.040 based off that. Actually my podcast success is based off 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:21.720 the fact that he cheated on me. But I never 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:25.040 outed in my name, occupation, any other details, and I 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:25.920 think that's for me. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:27.520 I don't I. 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:30.320 Don't see the point. I think some things are better 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:33.000 left for you to deal with and move. 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:35.679 On, like something sur private, but also like from that's 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:36.120 the kind of. 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.400 Person that I am right like, even though they've done 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.880 the wrong thing by me, I don't get off on 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.760 bringing someone else down and doing this huge pylon because 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:45.320 what's gonna happen. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:46.960 People are gonna go and hate on that person. Like, 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.120 what's the point for me? 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.680 I find it better and more healing to forget about it, 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.280 move on myself, and not drag it on for myself. 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.320 Yeah, I think though, you've got to look long term, 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:58.760 because my issue with it is imagine you post these 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.480 tiktoks right that you're watching and then getting millions of views, 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.559 and then a year passes, enter a new relationship, you're 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.640 dating someone that you really like, and then they go, oh, 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:08.720 I'm gonna do a little little search on this person 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.400 and I'm dating and then all of a sudden, yeah, 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.080 they stalk you. They scroll back and they see you 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.360 out in a cheating X talking bad about an X. 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.120 To me, if that was me and I was with 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.199 someone new, major red fist, because. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.240 Then you're like, oh, are they going to do that 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:20.199 to me when I cheat on them? 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:24.600 No, that's that's not what I mean. Vindictive. 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:26.640 Yeah, it doesn't, It doesn't yuck. 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.000 But also I agree with you Brick completely, like I 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.000 don't want to be that person. But also there's a 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.600 part of me that kind of goes well for so 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:35.959 long if people have been cheated on and there's no retribution, 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.120 like you don't, No one wins in that situation. You 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.200 get cheated on, you have to move forward and you 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:41.120 have to just get over it. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:42.200 And I feel like some of these. 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:45.280 TikTok creators they're kind of getting their own revenge in 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.760 doing this, and also by getting their revenge, they also 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:49.839 getting huge platforms off the back of it. So it's 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.360 kind of I think it's an interesting tactic and it 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:54.600 is kind of changing the way we talk about cheating 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:55.000 a little bit. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.800 But in terms of like quote get away with it, 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:00.480 what I did was make sure that everyone that mattered 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.000 in our lives knew, like they knew the reason. His 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.600 people knew the reason, his like work colleagues and his 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:07.520 family and everyone knew what he did. And everyone in 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:09.959 my family knew, but I don't need one hundred thousand 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:10.640 strangers to know. 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:12.120 That does nothing for me. 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:12.920 You know what I did? 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:15.040 I when I found out that I was being cheated on, 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.400 I went through and found all their instagrams. There's a 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:19.600 bunch of them, and I sent them all an individual 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:21.920 voice note, Oh my god, match and then block them, 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.240 every single one except radio presenter. I wanted them to 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:25.640 know the voice because they might not know don't have 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.640 the followings of Brittany Hockley so much. I know their 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:29.600 voice from the Big Gun, so I genuinely sent them 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:31.120 more voice notes and then block them all. 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:33.079 You makes the same thing, right, You're letting them know 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:35.400 that you know, and then you're cutting them from your lives. 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:38.320 And that's just that makes me feel good. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:39.040 I don't. 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:41.600 I find it a really interesting space, and I do think. 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:43.080 You know, we live in a world now where people 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:47.160 share everything online, and we share so much about personal lives, 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.760 and this is just a whole new added layer that 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:52.160 people are exposing on their tiktoks, and it does beg 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:52.880 the question. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:54.720 When do we keep anything for ourselves? 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.520 It's for followers, we don't, yeh Refatifa if you want 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.680 to follow them on a boat Beefer. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:04.520 Hey, last week on the show, if you missed it, Laura, 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.600 you were telling this, I mean, it's very creepy. 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:07.640 Do we need to bring it back up? 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.240 Yeah, Britain, I were talking, we want to bring it 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:09.520 back up. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:10.360 Yeah, one hundred percent. 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:12.559 If you missed it, this is what Laura had to 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:13.760 say now that we're going to play it. 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:15.760 So yesterday, we're on a photo shoot and I get 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:18.679 to be the creative director of these shoots and the 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:22.160 model comes in and she's usually really animated, but she 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:23.480 was a bit flat, and I was like, you know, 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:25.839 we all have these days. So we get in there 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:27.360 and we've done a few different looks and a few 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:29.200 different shots, and I was like, oh gosh, she's just 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.839 not We're not quite there. She's not quite getting it. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:33.160 So I was like, okay, you know what I'll do. 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:36.320 I'll call out different expressions for her to do. So 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:39.439 I was like, okay, honey, imagine that your gorgeous boyfriend 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.920 is about to propose and you know, but you're trying 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.400 to keep the secret great and then she burst out crying. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:49.960 He had broken up with her the day before. I 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.640 feel like I need to defend myself. I didn't know. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.839 I didn't intentionally set out to make a model cry 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.920 as she reached out to since and said, all good, 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:02.800 we're back together. I do think that they've gotten back together. 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:04.720 But I did royally well. 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:05.439 I had a friend. 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:07.520 I saw a friend for lunch this weekend and they're like, 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.079 I heard you on the pick up the other day, 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:11.520 and it reminded me My mum owns a cafe. They 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:13.760 have this cafe family business right, and it was like 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.000 gets flat out on weekends. So they had this big 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.080 line of customers like lining up to go into the cafe. 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:19.840 And you know how when you got to get food 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:21.960 in today's day and age you line up, there's kind 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.400 of like to the side of the cash register there's 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:27.120 all the Uber Eats bags. Oh yea uber its drivers 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:29.000 can run up, grab the food, get back on their 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:32.160 bike and deliver it. So they're serving in peak hour. 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.080 This man like cuts to the front of the line 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.680 and goes right at the front and goes, hi, how 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:37.640 I interce it good? 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:37.960 Thanks. 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.680 It gives the Uber food to him to take back 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.960 to his moped and he goes, no, I'm a customer 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:44.680 to buy some food. 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.120 I feel like that happens all the time. 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:48.800 She just thought he was an Uber Eats driver based 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:49.520 on his demeanor. 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:51.640 Someone got in my car before thinking I was an 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.560 Uber driver, just open the car, got in. 0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:56.240 But look, I wouldn't get in a car and get 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:58.120 in your lovely car and be like, oh, this is 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.960 an Uber I think that person might have had a few. 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:03.560 No, do you know My friend was telling me this 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:06.640 last night. Literally just thought about it right now. 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:07.360 I have a friend that. 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:11.600 Work that owns a business and he's in a relationship 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:14.600