WEBVTT - Can you manifest bad things? 🤔 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:03.640 I'd like to acknowledge the traditional owners on which this 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:08.160 episode is being recorded, the combo marry people. We pay 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:12.360 our respects to elders past, present and emerging, and extend 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:17.720 that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today, 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:24.639 I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the Rise 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:32.879 and Conquer podcast. This is the podcast where which have mindset, 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:36.960 self development and becoming your higher self mix soon with 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.720 a lot of laughs, plus behind the scenes of my 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.440 life running two businesses and being among Think of us 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.680 as the perfect combo of brunch with your besties mixed 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:50.000 with self development. No matter where you are in your journey, 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.280 we're here to help you be curious, pull yourself out, 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:58.480 and embrace radical self awareness. If you're ready to get 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.200 into the driver's seat of your own life and stop 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:04.399 letting life past you by, then you're in the right place. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:14.400 Hi everybody, and welcome to the RNC Potty. Happy Friday 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:18.120 and Happy Easter. Happy long weekend, Tier. I know I 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:20.520 love long weekends. This is like a long, long week 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:23.800 You long long because it's four days. Oh, it's beautiful. 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:27.360 I love Easter time because not only do we get 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.479 to eat all the chocolate and just not give two 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:33.399 f's about it. But it's like the season changing. Oh yeah, 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.759 so true, weather starts to get a bit crispy. It's 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.120 a little bit colder, but it's still that really and 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:42.480 beautiful sunshine. It's just taking away that like humid heat. 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:45.800 So true. And I feel like it's interesting because every 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:49.320 single Easter it's like really you can notice it. Yeah, 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:51.440 that's actually such a good point. And I love it 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.840 so much. I love Easter because on Monday, the chocolate's 0:01:54.840 --> 0:02:00.640 always really cheap. Tisa. I have distinct memory every year 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.880 go to the shops when the bunnies go down to 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:05.400 a dollar bunny and I buy like eight chocolate bunnies. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:08.840 I love that. This is like the do you like 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:12.119 celebrate Easter or do anything with Easter? No? Nothing, Yeah, 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:15.960 just chocolate. Yeah, so do we It's just like chocolate. 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:18.760 You hang out with your fam Yeah, ideal, guys, we 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.360 have a really fun episode for you. So this is, 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.720 you know, one of my famous pep talks. We decided 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:27.240 to do this because we notice a theme in our 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:31.200 Facebook group of you guys were asking how we can 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:36.120 show up for ourselves when things are going not so great, 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:39.639 and I feel like we've kind of spoken about this 0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:43.600 a little bit and touched on it recently, but we 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.440 just noticed such a strong theme in our Facebook group. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.079 And ps, guys, if you're not in the RNC Facebook group, 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:52.480 that's when we like have a lot of discussion. That's 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.520 like where honestly we get most of our ideas from 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.800 because we're we're so engrossed in the community. So jump 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:01.360 in there if you're not. Link is in the show notes. 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:05.119 In those moments where the universe is really testing you, 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:07.639 that's what we're talking about today, and I'm going to 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.160 give you my tips what I do, and yeah, we 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.120 just have a great chat about it. It is such 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.960 a good episode. I'd say this every episode, but he's like, 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:22.800 this is my favorite. But our quick week updates are 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.839 tru of us. I had such a fun week. Well, 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.560 we had your event on Saturday, which was so nice, 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.920 and it was so nice to meet some of the 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.560 r n C community that came to. So many of 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.960 you guys were there. I think it was like pretty 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:39.720 much the whole part, Like everyone I spoke to it 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:42.040 was like, yeah, I've done the project and you know, 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:45.040 I listened to the podcast so shout out to the 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:48.320 RNC community. Now you guys are literally the best, the best, 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:53.839 and it's interesting. So I'm just gonna like take it's 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:58.280 so interesting because the event. Firstly, I think because it 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:01.440 was just attached to a theme that I am so 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:05.760 passionate about that feels so authentically me and like, you know, 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:10.800 the collection amazing, but also doing a community event to 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:15.280 connect with people who I genuinely felt like we were 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.279 on the same level. And I said this to Jamie. Actually, 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:22.719 I was like, I spoke to so many people and 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:26.159 I felt like my cup was so full. Yes, like 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:28.000 I generally was like, oh my god, that was a 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:31.039 beautiful conversation. And I feel like even though you know, 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:33.640 events can sometimes be draining because there's a lot of 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:37.800 energy used, I walked away from that event so fucking 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:40.560 happy and like my cup was full mine too. It 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:43.719 was beautiful. I totally agree, Like it was not draining 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.520 at all. Everyone was so high vibe, everyone was willing 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:49.160 to give everything a go. Yeah, it was just beautiful. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:53.159 And also even just the vibes of the event, like 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:58.400 pre event not stressful. Everything was organized. God, the NH 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:03.000 team is just fucking but everything was organized, Like everyone 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:05.719 was there to help out. Everything went to plan. There 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:09.520 was no heat coups, the most beautiful energy, and I 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:12.919 like that day just felt so aligned and so perfect. 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:16.560 And yeah, it was like one of those moments in 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:20.600 my quote unquote career where I was like, Wow, this 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.440 is my job. I love that so much, Like this 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.160 is my job and I just genuinely am so grateful 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.200 and can't fucking believe it. I just got to fucking 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.800 hang out with my friends and that's what it felt like. Yeah, 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.760 we were just with a bunch of our besties. I 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:36.080 know it was the best. It was the best, So 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:42.680 highly recommend. It depends should we do. Oh my god, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.720 that's all the Iron c F team asking guys. It 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.640 has to be perfect, it has to feel perfect, and 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.080 it's got to be different, I think, yeah, And it's 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:55.000 just it's gotta make sense. So stay tuned. Yeah, watch 0:05:55.080 --> 0:06:02.000 is Space Now. Before we get into the episode, we 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.360 do want to start bringing some more segments each week 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.600 to the podcast. So to start off, we're going to 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:10.120 be doing some self discovery ones. This will be where 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:12.320 I ask your question, G and you'll give us your 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:14.719 take on it and also maybe give the listeners some 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.280 tips on how they can find their answer to the 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.080 question in a way that feels good to them. M hmm, 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.479 okay cool. So our question for today's segment is what 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:30.200 are your top three most important values and how would 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:34.200 I guess after you've said yours, tell us how you 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.839 know that that's it? Okay, let me have a little think. 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:42.240 I think definitely, Like one is authenticity. Yeah, Like one 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:45.640 of my core beliefs is like when I lock into 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:50.680 me and when I lock into just me being me, 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:55.040 magic happens. And that's truly like a value that I'm like, yes, 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:58.720 that is, that's truth for me. The next one is 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:03.240 trusting that life happens for me. I love how I've 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:07.600 just made this about Corbyli like Carl Vales, same shit. 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:10.240 So like trusting life happens for me, And I think 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.880 this is a beautiful value for me personally because it's 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:15.800 like it kind of will touch on this episode, is 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:18.680 like can you trust when even things are looking like 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.440 it's not gonna work out? And I think that is 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:25.640 really the difference between people manifesting what they want and 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.120 people not because they give up at that last moment. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.080 And so a big value is like no, I get 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.280 to lock in and I get to trust that this 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.160 is going to work out, and even if you know, 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:37.280 I have so much evidence of that, but also it's 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:41.920 because I've created that evidence. And then the last value 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.520 is probably just like a bit of a motto in business, 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:47.360 and how I do things is like feel the fear 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:52.400 and do it anyway. Yeah, that's just like anything uncomfortable. Again, 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:55.120 that's where the magic happens. And again I've created so 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.920 much evidence where it's like, oh, this feels uncomfortable, fearful, 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.360 let's fucking go. I love that one. That's like how 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.120 I want to live my life because I don't want 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:04.600 to just be comfortable in my whole life and then 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.000 get to the end and be like, fuck, I actually 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:09.520 did nothing. Yeah, that's like a huge thing. So they're 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:13.520 probably like my top three values currently. How I got 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:17.760 there was just I guess I'm really clear on my 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:21.800 core beliefs. I'm really clear on what's important to me 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.680 and how I live my life. And that's something that 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.920 I constantly revise and constantly look at. If you have 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.280 no concept of that, it's kind of hard to tell 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.360 them like quickly a tear, but like, for example, that's 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.160 what I do. It for do it for your future self. 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:39.240 Course is all about is getting clear and like getting 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:42.040 clear on your concept of self and what's important to you. 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.720 And that's the thing. Is like, when you're not clear 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:46.680 on who you are and what you stand for, it's 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.400 really hard to make decisions, it's really hard to move forward. 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.600 So that's like, if you ever wanted to start with 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:56.560 any personal development, I would say clarity is your first 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.440 thing of like clarity of who you are and what 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.800 you stand for. And again we have a course of 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:02.800 that or that. It's like keep the things you can do, 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:04.920 Like you can literally go on the internet and google 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.760 a bunch of values lists and like go through and 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.480 see which ones work for you. Yeah, and try them 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.160 on and see how they fit. But again it's about 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.720 if you're not clear on this stuff, I would start 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:17.959 working on this. This is such a great place to start. 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:22.480 So true, what are your values? Mine? I prepare them earlier, 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:29.439 Thanks for use the question mine, and I think they change, 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:33.560 They've changed a lot, but I think these ones are 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.120 probably it for me again at the moment. They might 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:40.280 shift in the future, just depending But my first one 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:42.920 would be risk taking, sort of similar to your field 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.920 of fear. And do it anyway. It's so important to 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:48.280 me to do things that scare me. And I think, 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.520 when I think about it deeper, I don't think I've 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:53.040 ever had anything negative come out of taking a risk. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.760 So what am I actually get? Oh my god? I 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.679 love that. Yeah, Like, I feel like if you take 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:02.200 a risk, you'll get rewarded somehow or the other. You're 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:05.600 never gonna have anything necessarily bad come out of it. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:09.120 Isn't it interesting though that humans are so scared of that? 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:09.400 Though? 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:13.120 Taking risk it's a whole other podcast. Yeah, that's it's 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:15.680 help ponder that later. My second one, which I think 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.439 has come out about more of this year, is integrity 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:22.760 and doing things with purpose but without it needing to 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.920 make sense to others, and it just needs to internally 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.040 make sense to you and that's all that matters, and 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:31.440 connecting with that, holding onto that and trusting that, love that. 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:35.080 And then my last one is compassion. I think it's 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:41.200 so important to treat others with kindness and almost have 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:44.480 like elegance and grace and things that you do even 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.920 if something's upset you or triggered you, you can still 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:51.920 compassionately explain that to a person or show them compassion 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:55.480 by not addressing it or just setting that boundary. But 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:58.040 I think that's something I want to lean into, is 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.720 like have my boundaries and all of that sort of stuff, 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.439 but still like I don't need to jump down anyone's 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:07.280 throat if that makes sense. Oh my god, that's beautiful. 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.760 That's actually something. You know. What compassion I feel like 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:14.440 comes with two is like kind of maturity. Yeah, don't 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:17.440 you feel like you go through especially because we are 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:22.080 both you know, young, passionate the icy females. But it's 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.480 like you go through this stage where you find your voice, Yeah, 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.559 and you find who you are and you want to 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:29.400 like fucking shout it to the rooftops. Yeah, and you 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.840 want to tell everyone. And also when you are so 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.680 clear on who you are and what you want in 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.520 your boundaries, you're like, no, I will fucking tell you, yeah, 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.319 because I've gotten clear in this. But it is almost 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:43.080 this sense of maturity of the step past that is 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.920 like I actually get to have my boundaries, be clear 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.960 on who I am. But I also again have compassion 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.320 for other people because they're on their journey and I 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:56.000 trust their evolution. Yeah, And I'm not going to try 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:58.679 and push something on them or try and make them wrong. 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.280 I just get to have it for me. Yeah, and 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.360 that's when the compassion would come in. Yeah, exactly it. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:05.920 Oh my god, I love that so much. It's like 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:11.160 we have the same brains just connected now because we 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:13.680 spent so much time to go. It's like me, you, 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:16.160 Ellie and Jamie and Georgina were just like morphing into 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:22.040 the best way possible. Oh my god, I love that. 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:24.800 It tea. Yeah, so those are mine. This is so fun. 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.200 I cannot wait to do more segments with you guys. 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:29.959 And also, let's put a post in the Facebook group 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:34.960 and ask them what their values are. There three top values, 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:36.959 because I just I want to hear you, you guys. I 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.160 want to hear what you're going through, what you're processing, 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:42.840 and what you're currently locking in. And a little tip. 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.559 Some of how I found mine is I noticed when 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.360 I was triggered by other people when they did something 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:51.439 out of jealousy. I was like, oh my gosh, I 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.280 wish I could do that, but I haven't done that 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.640 with someone who takes a lot of risks. And that's 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.480 how I realized that that was something I valued because 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:01.920 it's it triggered you it's important to you. Yeah. Interesting, 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:06.760 and it's something you want. Oh I love that. Yeah? Interesting. Okay, 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:07.559 all right, let's. 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:22.520 Get all right, guys, let's fucking chat. 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:25.120 Oh my god, I need to swop swearing. I have 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:30.680 been letting loose with what do you think that is? Passion? 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:33.520 It is? It's passion. All right, we'll leave it in 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:39.000 what we'll jump it down to. I love it too 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:42.360 because I tear. You're someone who like doesn't swear, Yeah, 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:47.959 and I can almost feel you be like, oh, I'm 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.760 getting better. You know what's funny is I actually grew 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:56.280 up with my parents never swearing, not ever. The first 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.480 time I ever heard the word fuck come out of 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:00.680 my parents' mouth was when I had, like, I tested 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.960 my mom so much she just yelled fuck at me. 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:08.120 I was like so scared. I was like, oh my god, 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.280 this is when I die, had like either had broken her. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:18.200 I was also like twelve. My parents don't swear too much, 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.160 but it's just like here and there. But I feel 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:21.920 like the first time I heard them swearing, they were 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.840 like on the phone, our electricity hadn't gone on or something, 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:30.960 and we just moved house and they're like swearing. That's 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:41.400 funny means like intro. Oh shit, all right, guys, today 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:45.560 we are chatting how to go through hard shit and 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:50.520 hold yourself to a stand in and get through it. 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.600 Such a big one. So this has actually come about 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:58.240 because we have noticed such a theme in our rn 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:01.680 C community Facebook page. Ps, if you're not in there, 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:03.840 come and join us. It's really fun. It's a lot 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.240 of fun. It's a lot of fun. We all got 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:10.080 each other out limiting police. I know, it's like pretty intense. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:16.600 It's like other Facebook groups, it's like giveaways, but like, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:24.400 come discuss shadow. We're like, it is that a shadow? Actually, no, 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:28.760 that's us in the office. I know. Jamie's always like 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:32.040 go deeper, why is that turning? Like okay, he'll let 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:37.280 me think about it. So annoying. No, we have lots 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:38.840 of fun in there, so come join us if you're 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:42.000 not in there. And then also, oh my god, the 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:46.240 passion and the vibe in the project Facebook group too 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.640 is just it's next level, is not It's amazing. Me 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.320 and a Tea was like discussing that we think this 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.480 round is like one of the most potent rounds, Like 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:59.280 everyone is so involved and it's like really incredible to see, 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.760 but it's also we can see themes and we were 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.680 having our team meeting and sorry, when this episode goes live, 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:11.320 the project should be finished in at a deer. Yes, 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.320 you can still buy the project and do it in 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:17.520 your own time, but the actual Facebook group is really 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:20.880 really potent. Actually if you buy it after you get 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:24.440 put in the all rounds all rounds Facebook groups, so 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:29.240 you can still you know, uncovera shit in there. But 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:34.080 a huge theme that we notice in this round is 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:39.280 people really struggling with you know, things are going quote 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:43.640 unquote bad in my life. How do I deal with this? 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.920 And a lot of messages like how do I stay 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:49.360 high vibe? Yeah? How do I stay high vibe during 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:52.720 this time? Because when people first get introduced into manifesting, 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:56.400 you know, it is the concept of like attracts, like, 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:00.760 so your vibe attracts you know, everything you want, everything 0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:03.760 you want. So people kind of go into this mindset 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:06.240 of like, oh, I need to be happy all the 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.160 time if I want to manifest like my dreams and everything. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:13.159 So I'm here to tell you stop stressing about that. 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:18.960 It's it's not going to like if you're not high 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.800 vibe all the time, that's not actually going to matter 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:28.359 if you are setting a standard as you go through 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:33.800 lower vibrational seasons. Yeah, let's say, because I think it's 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.240 like we're not doing toxic positivity here where it's like, well, 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:41.440 I just need to be happy all the time. I'm 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:44.439 not a good idea. No, And it's also that's just 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:48.800 not real life because also I believe, you know, my 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:52.000 belief is like you come to earth as a soul 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:55.639 and you have a journey you go on, and you 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:59.000 have certain KLMA contracts, and you have certain things happening 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:04.280 where like, imagine if everything just went right in your 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:09.960 life and you had no struggles, you had no lessons, like, 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.160 it'd just be neutral in But also you wouldn't even 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:17.440 be well, it's not that you wouldn't be a person, 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:22.080 but you would have no like character building, and you 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:26.920 would have no concept of yourself because you've never had 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:32.280 experiences that have shown you, oh, I'm actually really strong, yeah, 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:36.280 and I'm actually really courageous and I actually can do 0:18:36.440 --> 0:18:41.199 hard things. You would have no self awareness about that, yeah, 0:18:41.240 --> 0:18:45.080 because you have never been put in that situation. So 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:49.040 I really think when we are going through times when 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:54.400 things are you know, quote unquote low vibe. I don't think, Fuck, 0:18:54.440 --> 0:18:57.240 how do I get to a higher vibe? I think 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:00.439 I take a step back, and I'm like, Hey, what's 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:04.119 actually going on here? Is there a lesson I can learn? 0:19:04.359 --> 0:19:07.199 Is there something I can uncover? Is there somewhere I 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:11.440 can go deeper? And I really see it as like, well, 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:15.000 first of all, it's like you can automatically shift the 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:19.280 quote unquote bad vibe, which is you know, low vibe 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:23.000 feelings is you know, like shame and guilt and like 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:27.840 deep deep sadness, and you can shift that instantly into 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:32.119 like one level higher of like curiosity. Yeah, so I 0:19:32.160 --> 0:19:34.159 say this a lot, but it's like you can shift 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:38.040 it into oh, what could actually be the lesson here? 0:19:39.040 --> 0:19:47.080 Am I getting a lesson about my standards in relationships? 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:55.719 So curious? Curious about this? I keep attracting fucked people? No, 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:59.840 But like it's like that old thing where they're like, 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:04.280 if everything's going wrong, maybe you're the prost You hate 0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:09.080 that one? Am I? The problem? Is it? Me? Am I? 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:13.439 The problem? Literally? Though? So it's like taking a step 0:20:13.480 --> 0:20:18.639 back and thinking, what can I actually learn here? And 0:20:18.720 --> 0:20:21.840 you know what, I'm I'm in a huge season of 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:26.080 absolutely leaning into discomfort. I love that so much. And 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:29.680 it's like, it's funny because once I decided I'm leaning 0:20:29.720 --> 0:20:33.240 into discomfort and I am actually going through a season 0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:36.119 where I can do hard things. You know what happened 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:40.359 a lot of hard things, and I was like, oh, 0:20:41.320 --> 0:20:45.760 manifest But honestly I did in a way because I 0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:50.320 told the universe I'm actually ready to build on my 0:20:50.600 --> 0:20:54.040 concept of self and my self awareness and I'm actually 0:20:54.119 --> 0:20:57.320 ready to build some like skills and let's just call 0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:01.399 it character that is going to be so worthwhile for me, 0:21:02.640 --> 0:21:06.080 you know, in the long run. And so yeah, I'm like, 0:21:06.200 --> 0:21:08.840 you know, all the tiktoks of like I'm building her, 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:13.359 I'm actually fucking building it. Like there's so much truth 0:21:13.400 --> 0:21:16.080 for that. And it's so interesting because once I was like, no, 0:21:16.160 --> 0:21:19.040 I'm actually gonna lean into discomfort and I'm gonna do 0:21:19.440 --> 0:21:22.879 I'm gonna lean into the hard things because I'm actually 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:26.520 ready to go through them. Yeah, and I'm actually ready 0:21:26.560 --> 0:21:30.880 to use this as almost an exercise where I'm building 0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.800 the person I want to be. So it's really funny 0:21:33.840 --> 0:21:36.639 because at the moment with my coach, I was really 0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:41.199 working on the relatability piece for me. Yeah, So I 0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:45.960 have a huge wound of wanting to be relatable, and 0:21:46.040 --> 0:21:48.840 it really comes down to like high school shit, you know, 0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:51.800 like fucking high high school shit where you want people 0:21:51.840 --> 0:21:55.280 to like you, you want to fit in. And it's 0:21:55.320 --> 0:21:57.240 so funny because my coach had to reflect me and 0:21:57.240 --> 0:21:59.120 she's like, yeah, but do you remember high school where 0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:01.520 you wanted to fit in but then you were like well, 0:22:01.600 --> 0:22:03.400 in my case, you were friends with the popular girls, 0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:04.960 but then you fucking hated it because that was a 0:22:05.040 --> 0:22:07.639 mean to you or they were mean to other people. 0:22:07.680 --> 0:22:10.480 And you're like, oh, I actually didn't want this. Yeah, 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.359 and so you've now attracted people you don't actually want 0:22:13.480 --> 0:22:17.600 And I was like, wow, and you almost you water 0:22:17.760 --> 0:22:21.640 yourself down to be someone else so someone else can 0:22:21.800 --> 0:22:25.360 like you, but then you're so disconnected inside because you've 0:22:25.400 --> 0:22:30.560 just fucking wartered yourself down. Yeah, well that's one huge thing. 0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:34.280 And so I was like, okay, well, also, I don't 0:22:34.320 --> 0:22:37.760 have to be relatable for me to be liked, if 0:22:37.800 --> 0:22:41.560 that makes sense or like interesting? Yes, because also, if 0:22:41.600 --> 0:22:46.080 you think about it, my whole brand is inspiring. I'm 0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:49.040 an expander. Yeah, I do cool shit, and then that 0:22:49.080 --> 0:22:52.360 gives other people permission to do cool shit. Yeah, that's 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:55.520 kind of the gist of my brand, and like Trailblazer, like, 0:22:55.560 --> 0:22:58.240 I'm just fucking doing my own thing, and then other 0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:00.200 people like, you know, even how I do life as 0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:03.080 a mom, I have no one in my life who 0:23:03.119 --> 0:23:05.560 has done life as a mom how I have done it. 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:06.280 Yeah. 0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:09.040 So and then I've you know that beautiful DM. I 0:23:09.080 --> 0:23:11.280 got the other day tear of the girl who was saying, 0:23:12.119 --> 0:23:15.120 you know, she never wanted kids until she saw how 0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:18.199 I had kids and did life with kids, and she's like, oh, 0:23:18.280 --> 0:23:21.119 I actually really would love kids. It was just the 0:23:21.119 --> 0:23:23.520 fact that I saw other people doing kids in a 0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:26.159 way that I didn't like. Yeah, And I was like, 0:23:26.240 --> 0:23:29.360 how fucking cool is I like that so much? Having children, 0:23:29.600 --> 0:23:32.399 like having Ivy has been the greatest thing of my life. 0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:35.639 And it's like I would hate someone else not to 0:23:35.880 --> 0:23:38.359