WEBVTT - The Grossest Thing You Could Do To Your Partner 🤢 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:01.200 Flex and fruits. 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:06.600 Oh yes to another day, another podcast. You've probably seen on TikTok, 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:09.880 all of those rating videos such as He's a seven 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:16.000 but he wears Ram Williams ten. He I'm not going 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:17.560 to go into it because I'm not sure if I 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:18.880 think it really is objectifying or. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:22.120 Not, and I don't care that it is. I think 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.000 that's where I'm at. I think that, like, it sounds 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:27.360 like your fear of whether or not you're objectifying. It's 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:29.360 not because you care, because you think that other people care. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.280 Now, but I don't though, exmember, I'm not patronizing. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:36.280 Yeah, but you do. No, I don't because you do not. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.280 I'm just I'm just going to say yes, no green brown, 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.479 try and confuse you with colors so you can have 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:48.400 a poke a hole in my argument flex. 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:51.720 I'm not poking holes. The mask of a clarification. Clarification 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:52.800 is your worst nightmare. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:53.120 Son. 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:57.640 You start mumbling, you're like, then you shut down power. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:03.440 So yeah, talking about the rating game. You know, last 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:06.160 week it was all fun and giggles and then naturally 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:09.240 what happens on TikTok with anything is that somebody wants 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:10.440 to critically analyze it. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.720 And you started that trend, you had a lot to say. 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:16.360 I think you're oh yeah, But I think the difference 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:20.800 between me critically analyzing stuff is I don't actually care, Like, 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.880 I don't moralize these arguments. I'm like, this is just funny. 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.480 But people critically analyze to say you're a bad person 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:29.400 for thinking this or you're a good person for thinking that, 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.960 And that's when we've gone too far. It's just vibes. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:34.720 And so this idea of like, is it bad to objectify? 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.319 It might be, but the trend was funny and I'm 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.240 sticking to that, and I'm not gonna go back and 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.640 be like I didn't laugh or I think what's worse 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:46.440 is that when people decide what they think after Like, 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.720 the trend was huge for two weeks, you had two 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:51.440 whole weeks to decide whether or not you thought it 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.080 was offensive. Don't let one person on the internet decide 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:56.120 for you and then make you feel bad. That just 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:57.680 means you have a weak resolve and no brain. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:01.120 Heavy heavy, that's heavy. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.200 What you just said, weak resolve and no brain. 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:11.280 A non sentient being. AI's perfect form right now, Savage, 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:12.840 let's get into it. 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.000 This is flex and frooms. 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:20.440 We love to look back, throw back. I personally am 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.560 great annoying what year things happened. 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:23.840 It's a gift and a skill. 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:27.799 You have one of my plethora of skills, and you're 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:32.880 very good at I would say, like sensing a feel. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:36.480 Okay, so you have a tangible hard skill. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.880 I've got a vibe, just vibes were you're a fan 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:42.440 of Hillary Duff growing up? 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:43.200 I don't think so? 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:43.440 No? 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:44.320 Really? 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:46.919 Did you watch? People have a lot of Yeah, people 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:49.000 have a lot of close memories with things like that. 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:49.400 I don't. 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.560 It's doing this deep dive on her on YouTube last night. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:56.040 It's called The Twisted World of Hillary Duff and it's 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:57.800 on a channel called deep Dive. 0:02:57.840 --> 0:02:58.600 Have you heard of them? 0:02:58.919 --> 0:02:59.119 No? 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.720 This sounds like a a conspiracy. 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.640 It looks fantastic. It's all about deep dives on like 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.160 ex Disney stars and all that kind of stuff. And 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:10.680 what I learned was that when Hillary Duff was sixteen, 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:17.359 she was dating a Madden Joel Madden. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:18.120 Sixteen. 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:19.760 Guess how old he was? 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:21.120 Twenty six? 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.520 Yeah? Ah? 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:25.720 How did we alet Joel Madden? 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:26.440 Don't say we. 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:29.679 I would have never done that. I would have never 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:32.040 let her do it. How did that happen. This is 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.920 like two thousand and seven era. This happens too much 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:37.920 in Hollywood, two too too much. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:43.520 I'm just wondering how it took ten years, like obviously do. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:47.480 I just think like these young children are heaps over sexualized, 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.320 so like we perceive them to be a lot older 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:52.240 than they are when they are children. That were kind 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:53.800 of like, oh yeah, that makes sense, Like she wears 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:57.000 makeup and heels, she must be an adult because I 0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:02.080 don't recall in my head, I can never recall Hillary 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.560 Duff being sixteen. She was always twenty five and. 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:09.320 Up, so true? Could be that I think I'm so 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.840 used to now, like it's so easy to forget the past. 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.160 That could never happen now. Surely No, in Hollywood. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.360 I also think media was really different than if we're 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:21.080 talking she was sixteen, was like twenty years ago. That's 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:24.720 tabloid culture. You're physically opening up Women's Day New idea, 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:28.080 getting the hot goss. And if she's not, if she 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.479 wasn't their demographic, that might not have been spoken about. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.359 It might not have been hot news. I feel like 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.719 Angelina and Joel Lee was popular then, and Sarah Jessica Parker, 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:40.400 So maybe it wasn't highlighted because they weren't mainstream in 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:41.320 the way they are now. 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:47.960 Yeah, facts, Well, apparently Nicole Richie stole Joel Madden off 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:55.240 Hillary Duff nice, and apparently Paris Hilton sabotaged Haley Duff's 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:59.400 pop career. How it was a war, an eagirl war. 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:02.640 Do you not remember that Hillary Duff and Hailey Duff 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:08.640 versus Paris Hilton. After Hillary Duff dated Aaron Carter, she 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:11.760 dumped him and went for Joel Madden for her like 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:16.159 scene boy face. They dated four years from the time 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:20.919 she was sixteen to twenty, but then he started dating 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:25.960 Nicole Richie a month later. And then Hillary threw shade 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.680 via her album Dignity, which is just her sing about 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.240 Paris Nicole and Lindsay. This is what she wrote in 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:34.960 her song Where's your Dignity? I think you lost it 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:38.240 in the Hollywood Hills. Can't buy respect. You can pick 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.919 up that bill always, mister Wright. But then you have 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:43.080 a fight. Run into your friend's ex. He's happy to 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.359 be your next Tomorrow's paper coming out, So kiss him fast. 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:49.800 Watch the cameras flash Hillary a poet. 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.440 I would love to know how that sounded in a 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:56.440 song that felt like a hiku. We're really giving all 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:58.960 ways splitting the bill? 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:00.840 What lamb poetry? 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:03.960 Hillary doves a little Bari are always happy to date 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:08.080 your friends. What is the thing with Haley and Paris? 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.200 You can't start these things and then give me a doll? 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:14.479 Oh yeah, okay, Hailey and Paris Hilton. Somehow she was 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.880 in it. Basically, Paris and Haley both recorded the same song. 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:22.600 Screwed the pair release that they both recorded the song, 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.640 but before it could be sorted out, Paris's version of 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:31.080 mysteriously leaked It's much be Haley's debut single. Pretty incredible stuff, right, 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:32.799 This is Flex and Frooms. 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.280 Have you or have you not heard Drake's new album? Yes? 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:38.200 Are you a fan? 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.360 A Drake fan? 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:39.840 Yeah? 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:44.480 No, No, No, I'm a big fan. It just gives 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:46.719 me to grassy. I can't get past it. 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:49.280 I don't think I really knew him in that in 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:52.280 that vein, but in terms of the music, I would 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.360 say that I am a Drake fan. I didn't know 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.720 that I was one until I recognize that people don't 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.640 just listen to his albums back to back to back 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:00.440 to back to back, And I think I do get 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.440 a bit defensive when people don't like the music, because 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:04.039 I'm like, what's there not to like? He just makes 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:07.880 hits all the time for every genre, every single one, 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:11.360 every single song colonizes, steals from done. 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:13.960 It all sounds the same, and this is I. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.200 Think that's what I like about it, though, I feel 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:19.200 I understand the value of reinventing the wheel and having 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.400 every new album be a new era. So it's really 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:24.320 exciting for listeners. But I also think with how quickly 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:30.160 trends move in every industry, music especially, it's really frustrating 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:31.520 when you're like, I just want more of the same, 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:33.600 Like I wish that album was twice as long. Give 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.440 me the songs you didn't publish before. I want those. 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.480 But this one, in particular, came out of nowhere, a 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:42.840 surprise drop, which doesn't happen a lot in music. There 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.480 was a portion of time where people like, we're releasing 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:49.560 one at midnight, but suddenly one fateful night, everyone's like, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.920 new Drake coming out midnight. We weren't prepared. We weren't prepared. 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:57.480 Why did he do that? Rumor has it he did 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:00.400 not want to compete with the Storm of Beyond, say, 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.800 because Beyonce just started her album promo. She did her 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.000 Vogue front cover and like eight page spread, which was 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:10.760 just phenomenal. If he did not drop before her album, 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:13.360 he would have got lost in the source. And he's 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:15.760 already done that once before with Kanye. It's just not 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.480 and J Cole it's not worth it anyway. The album's 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:24.320 called Honestly never Mind genius like amazing, why are you excited? 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.720 I just love it. Album's called Honestly never Mind. And 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:35.360 the reception people are saying it's mid TikTok. Mostly they're 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:38.280 saying it's mid It's not good. They don't understand it, 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:40.800 they don't like it, it's rushed, et cetera, et cetera. 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:45.080 I don't want to like confirm nor deny because I 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:48.360 have this thing about new music as someone who used 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:51.079 to DJ and semi retired now but after eight years 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.520 you can do that is that you need to sit 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.440 with an album, especially if it's an artist you like. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.600 You need to sit with an album for five listens, 0:08:57.880 --> 0:08:59.760 back to front, around and around. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.200 And around in the way they intended. 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:02.920 I don't really mind. I don't really care about that, 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.800 but you need to have listened to the whole every 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:08.280 song five times because the first time I know that 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.360 we rush to form opinions really quickly. You want to 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:12.280 pick your favorites, top three, show away, it's not worth 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:15.240 it because you don't know how they sonically sit. And 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:17.520 I also think that a lot of music requires context, 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:19.200 like you need to be listening to it as you're 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.480 getting ready, as you're going out, as you're going for 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.640 a walk, as you're winding down, which means you need time. 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:28.240 Five listens could take you three weeks. You know it 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:30.480 could take you three months, but you need to do it. 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:33.400 Otherwise you go on the internet and you publish half 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.920 baked thoughts that really do impact the results of people's 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:39.880 listening negatively. When I saw Jack Carlow's album Got two 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:41.839 point nine and pitchforkcaus, I don't worry about it, Yeah, 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:44.000 I don't need to listen. I'm all good, and it 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.280 could be I could have liked it, but I didn't listen. 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.440 I feel very sensitive for musicians because I think they're 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:53.679 so unappreciated for what they can create. There are only 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.720 so many bloody instruments you can use, so many cores, 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:59.880 you can use, so many variations and formations of Li 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.800 and whatever that it is so hard to make a song, 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.960 let alone a hit, let alone having a career of 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:08.000 hits where all you've done is have back to back 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:11.320 number ones. It's hard to outdo yourself when you've already 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.920 done the best, incredible, you know what I'm saying. It's like, 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:19.199 be easy on these artists still roast, but like, let's 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:19.920 let it simmer for. 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:23.160 A bit, simmer, then turn the doll right up, crank 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.800 it like make it hurt frogs in the boiling. 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.960 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on kDa. 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:31.679 A couple of days ago, I told you about this 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:36.840 trend on TikTok. It's called He's a ten, but she's 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.439 a ten. But if you're familiar with the app, you 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:42.800 might have seen it. If not, it's basically listing out 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:47.000 a quality in a person that will give them more 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:50.360 points in the rating system or dock points. So for example, 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:56.640 he is a two, but he loves Drake. 0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.920 She is a ten, but she has a twilight chatto. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:04.600 That's a queen, right though, that's a queen anyway. So 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:08.440 the best thing about this trend is what I think 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:10.400 is a lack of nuance, is the fact that if 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.520 I don't know what your standards are, then I don't 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.160 know why you've docked points as much as you have 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.680 or why you've raised points. For example, if I said 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:22.520 he is a ten, but he's an atheist, and then 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:26.199 I said he's a seven, you'd be like why, And 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:28.360 that's what I want to get into. We won't today, 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:31.520 but whatever. So there was this genius guy on TikTok 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:35.120 who took all the data from the most popular versions 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:38.000 of that trend and put it into a spreadsheet to 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:42.080 teach us how we can increase our perceived attractiveness based 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:45.320 on these really silly attributes. Do you want to listen? 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:48.720 Yes, I've got everything here in a Google sheet positives, negatives, 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.680 and neutrals, also a chart. So let me tell you 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:53.400 what I've learned. If you get a job as a lifeguard, 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:55.840 put on some cologne and walk on the outside of 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.480 the sidewalk, you could start out at a half point, 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.680 be a literal muppet and move up to Chris Hemsworth. 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.600 Or if you're an average guy, you can just buy 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:10.280 a boat, grow a mustache, and clap at the end 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:13.000 of top gun and you're up there with Timothy schueblagoot. 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.520 Now for the bad news, there are things you need 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:17.000 to work on. Definitely believe in birds. The only height 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:18.960 we can be really sure about is six ' four 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.720 and that gets you nothing. For all my croc dudes 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.520 out there, you're either at a minus half or minus three, 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:26.600 So just make sure they're pretty cool. There's a lot 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.240 more ways to go wrong than to go right, So 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.640 I guess just like, don't be lame and growma stash. 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:34.840 So basically, what he's saying is that number one, all 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:39.200 the things that people claimed were attractive or made them 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.959 more attractive are just as silly as the things that 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:46.160 make people unattractive. For example, if somebody is quote unquote 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:48.840 nice to servers, that can take them from a five 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:53.079 to a seven. If somebody smells good, that can take 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:56.760 them from a two to a five. If somebody is 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:01.600 a lifeguard, that can take them up four point five rankings. 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.079 You can go from a five to a nine and 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:04.400 a half because you're a lifeguard. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:05.800 What to pay that? 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:09.679 And if you have like a mustache, then you can 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.400 go up one point. But this is for the bad things. 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.120 Long nose hair can take you down half a point. 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:17.400 He thinks he's a good cook. When he's mediocre, can 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.640 take you down one for that's a big one. If 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:24.600 he drives slow down two points. If he's skinny, down 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:29.000 two points, if he has long fingernails, down three points. 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:32.719 If he loves crocs, down three points. If he's a 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:36.760 mama's boy. Neutral, if he's six, if he's six foot four, neutral, 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:39.960 So either way, And I guess people weren't intending to 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:43.040 take this trend seriously. It's meant to be facetious, it's 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:46.120 meant to be silly. But I think that is the point. 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:48.920 That is also the issue, like all of these things 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:52.240 that we think aren't actually impacting our ability to see 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:56.120 people as like vible partners are. Because if the first 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:59.360 thing that comes to mind is like he's a ten 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.360 but he cries during rom Coms seven, that's the top 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:07.280 of your brain. That's what you conjured up off off 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:14.080 the cuss, not like she's a seven but she hates children, 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:18.199 or he's a ten but he's a misogynist, or he. 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:19.800 Is they're less fun though, aren't they? 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:20.160 Yeah? 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:22.440 But the thing is, it's not even about fun or 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:24.440 not fun, because this trend didn't start out fun. This 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.880 trend started out with someone making a pros and cons 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.480 lest about someone that were dating who was like really terrible, 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:31.200 and it's kind of like a play on, like you'll 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:34.720 let someone do the worst things and still not dump them, 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.960 Like these am I the assholes we read? He's amazing, 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:39.680 but like he's really mean to me and he hates 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:41.200 with my friend and he thinks all my art is 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:45.520 really ugly. But like he's a really nice guy. No, no, 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:49.200 he's a two. He's a two anyway, And the rating 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.080 system is floored because literally everyone be like, I'm like 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:54.120 a six or seven? Well, how can we all be sick? 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:54.720 Seven? 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:56.440 Okay, simply doesn't work. 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:57.000 That be real. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.720 Everyone is beautiful, remember fix, I don't agree. 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:01.840 Do you really think that? 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:02.240 No? 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:04.800 Flex and frooms. 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:08.200 Last weekend, my best friend was over for dinner. I 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:10.760 made past the Ela vodka. Of course, yem me a 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.280 little bit of garlic bread on the side. 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.000 Homemade garlic bread or still bought, yeah, homemade. Nice. 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:19.320 She's in a new relationship. She's been with her boyfriend 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:20.880 for about three months. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.600 Official for three months. They've known each other. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:27.440 For three months, but like it's proper. They're very comfortable together. 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:32.400 And she was telling me a story about how comfortable 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:33.360 they've become. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:34.600 Oh, I didn't want to hear. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:39.040 It, and she's told me a bit of a dilemma. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:46.520 I'm just gonna call her hello, honey. So we're just 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:53.080 on the radio. Was just telling Flexi about how you 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:54.000 and your partner have. 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:56.680 She's flexy. 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:58.720 You can go like Flexi too, how you two have 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.880 been dating for like three months and how comfortable you are. 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:03.760 And I guess I just wanted you to tell us 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:07.680 the story of how that comfort came to be, what happened, 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:09.080 and what is now the result. 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:11.360 So usually I'm actually. 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:16.880 Usually weird about bodily fluids with friends. I'm very like 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:19.440 private in this kind of thing, and then when I 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:21.920 get into a relationship, it's like all hold bar, all 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:29.480 holds bar except for farting. So we didn't really have 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.000 the conversation. It was just he would fight a lot. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:32.840 I never would. 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:34.880 I would have to go into the other room to 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:36.760 fart or which makes you. 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:39.680 Sound like a child. I support that. I'm down with that, but. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.080 Or go into someone else's room far or far when 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:44.840 he was asleep, or like farm in the shower. 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:47.280 Just that kind of thing. 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:52.160 And then we were so transparent and open about every 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:56.320 other bodily fluid, like we you know, spiting each other's mouths, 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.840 blah blah blah. So when it came to fighting, he was, 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.360 I just just do it like it's. 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:03.920 Fine, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine. 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:05.600 So eventually I started doing it. 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:07.800 I've done it like, I did it like two times. 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:12.800 And then on Friday, I said, I came home a 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:15.399 bit drunk. He had stayed home because he wasn't feeling 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.119 very well, and I was like, I really have to fight. 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.320 He's like, okay, whatever. I fired, and he. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:27.119 Ran to the bathroom and threw up, wait, you are 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:28.000 all want. 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.159 I said, there's nothing good comes from it. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:35.399 I know, and usually I do more embarrassed, but like 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:39.360 it's actually it was the most dramatic homent you've ever 0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:43.919 had in your life. He lives by himself, and so 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.720 he ran to his bathroom and it was like it 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:50.920 was like he just drank a lead of water and had. 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:54.680 Come out of the week, like putting a bit of 0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:56.040 a scream behind. 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:00.880 Yeah, I like korin like a like a kettle into 0:18:00.920 --> 0:18:01.480 the toilet bowl. 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:04.679 So how did it end up? 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.320 Have you made an allegiance not to fight in front 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:09.280 of each other. Absolutely not. 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:10.560 I'm proud of it. 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:14.159 I'm like, I'm now. 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:16.080 It's more of like a one up in each other moment. 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:17.200 That's why I did want to do. 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:20.600 It, because like I've just gone vegetarian, I'm making my 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:28.359 way through all the legumes and works for me and califlywering. 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:34.120 It this beautiful humoric on the top it's doing. Now 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:34.879 he's done that. 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:37.560 What have I got to be embarrassed about? 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:41.760 Now to the wall, Well, thank you sent him my 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:43.560 love and I hope did he gets well soon? 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:44.679 I will. 0:18:45.760 --> 0:18:48.439 This has been humiliating in an equal measure. 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:54.280 Thank you for sharing. Bye bye. I love her. 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:59.600 Fart to vomit pipeline shorter than you might imagine. 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:04.920 I make sure people aren't comfortable to fight in front 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:07.000 of me, so we'll never have to do that exchange. 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:10.280 My issue is not opening the floodgates and being comfortable. 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:14.080 It's the fact that once comfort is established, it's it's 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:17.960 a lawless place. There's no boundaries once we've gone full fart, 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:21.160 So I'm like, don't do it around me. Yes, tighten 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:24.720 up those in the boundary early, close that sphincter. 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:27.840 There you go, and frooms. 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:31.280 I found this TikTok. The caption is Toddler's kind of sleigh. 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:33.640 This is from a guy called Mike's Dot Mike. 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:34.880 Oh, we love Mike's Mike. 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:38.840 I've just come to the realization that Toddler's slayed three concepts. 0:19:39.280 --> 0:19:42.919 First one is the iPad child esthetic. Like, as a 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:46.480 recent iPad purchaser myself, Yeah, I'm gonna whip out my iPad, 0:19:46.480 --> 0:19:49.320 watch a little video and eat a little snack together. Like, 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:52.040 I get the appeal. That were kind of right for 0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:54.200 that second thing that brings me on at the second 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:58.320 thing talking about food, A little puree, a little snack 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:00.720 to go at any time. That's a little bit fantastic. 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:02.240 I might just chuck a cheese stick in the tote 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:04.359 on my way out to the market. You can't stop me. 0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:08.320