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Speaker 1: Jam Mission with Jones and Amanda asking for your name

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Speaker 1: when you order a coffee, does it pass the pub tic?

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Speaker 2: This riles you. And I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: It happened again yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you order a coffee and someone says, what's your name?

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Speaker 1: You know what they're trying to do.

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Speaker 3: They're trying to personalize something, but in turn, they're making

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Speaker 3: it very impersonal. So I went into that, and I

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Speaker 3: don't go to one usual coffee place and I walk

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Speaker 3: in and the guy goes, what's your name, Bud?

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Speaker 1: And I and I just woke it up from my

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Speaker 1: afternoon sleep. You know, I'm not the most friendly person

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Speaker 1: when I wake up. And I just almost went apoplectic.

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Speaker 3: And so I looked at it. I said, man, I'm not

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Speaker 3: I'm not going anywhere. I'm standing here while you make it.

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Speaker 1: There's no one else in the coffee place. You don't

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Speaker 1: need the name, And then we're at this impasse. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what, you know. I just don't like it.

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Speaker 1: If you're a shy person, it's very intrusive. It's very impersonal.

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Speaker 1: Name Bud.

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Speaker 3: It's usually some millennial or some hipster, and they look

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Speaker 3: down your nose with this sneering look.

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Speaker 1: On their face. What's your name? Bout? What's your name? Bud?

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Speaker 3: So I just say, oh, yeah, it's Starbucks or Gloria

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Speaker 3: Jeans or Pablo.

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Speaker 1: That's my favor.

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Speaker 2: I'll get them a beauty bringer. This is someone who's

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Speaker 2: just trying to do their job. They're told to ask

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Speaker 2: me if they are.

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Speaker 4: They're trying to do their job because if they get

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Speaker 4: six orders for a flat white, you can't flat white

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Speaker 4: and say oh, that's mine and someone says, no, that's mine,

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Speaker 4: that's mine.

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Speaker 2: How hard is it for you to just say your name?

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Speaker 2: Make up a name? They don't care.

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Speaker 4: Just give them a name, Just make up a name.

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Speaker 4: Or would you like to stand there and have them

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Speaker 4: have to read out.

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Speaker 1: Who would it?

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Speaker 4: The pumpkin lad makiata with a twist of lemon and

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Speaker 4: no stop everyone, a pumpkin machiato.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't you rather just say, hey, Jeff, here's your dreams.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you come up and we'll roll plays.

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Speaker 2: Okay. And if I'm shy, I'll be too scared to

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Speaker 2: order a drink.

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Speaker 3: I'm the brewister morning, Yeah, come coffee?

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Speaker 1: Sure, what do you want? Skin?

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Speaker 2: Flat white?

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Speaker 1: Please? What's your name? Love?

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Speaker 2: Amanda.

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Speaker 4: End of exchange. Instead, let's roll play about what happens

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Speaker 4: when it's you.

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Speaker 2: I'll be the barista. Yeh, hello, Hello, can I help you?

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Speaker 2: Would you like a coffee?

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Speaker 1: Realized?

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Speaker 2: Why would they be aggressive? I'm not you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'd like a skin flat white? Thank you excellent?

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Speaker 2: What's your name?

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Speaker 1: If you what's that about?

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Speaker 2: I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. I just think it's all right.

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Speaker 1: I want to see what people I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: happened to our country? That's not so, what's.

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Speaker 2: Happened to our country?

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Speaker 4: Could be aggressive when someone asks you what your name is.

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Speaker 4: If you go out and someone says, what's your name?

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Speaker 1: Do you go? No? One says where's a coffee? You

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Speaker 1: know what it is because someone says what's your name? Mate?

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Speaker 1: And you go, what's yours? That's what I might thinking.

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Speaker 4: The barista he or she doesn't have time to tell

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Speaker 4: everyone their name because they did busy making your coffee.

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Speaker 3: Make something that's in person. They're trying to be personal,

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Speaker 3: but it's become in person.

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Speaker 2: So when you.

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Speaker 4: Book your bike in for a service and they say,

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Speaker 4: what's your name? Do you go?

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Speaker 3: If you if you bargie up the row.

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Speaker 1: What is the diff It's the major.

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Speaker 2: Difference asking your name when you order a coffee.

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Speaker 4: People may not like it, but they're not going to

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Speaker 4: scream out if you does this pass the pub test.

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Speaker 4: Someone I know, Brendan Jonesy Jones, is outraged when he.

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Speaker 2: Gets asked his name when he's ordering a coffee.

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Speaker 1: What it is?

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Speaker 3: They're impersonalizing a personal thing. You go and ask for coffee,

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Speaker 3: skim flat white? Thanks mate, what's your name?

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Speaker 1: Just skim flat white? Just make it. I'm standing here,

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Speaker 1: there's no one else here.

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Speaker 4: It's not because they want to be a friend. It's

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Speaker 4: because there's a process, and if a whole lot of

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Speaker 4: people come in and order the same thing, it's okay.

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Speaker 4: Here's Joe's coffee, Here's Biancher's coffee, Here's Mohammed's coffee.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't Why is that the nations?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why is it so hard for you just to do?

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Speaker 3: I don't like the dismissive, disrespectful way they asked for

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Speaker 3: my name.

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Speaker 4: They maybe got a different coffee shop because not everyone

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Speaker 4: is disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: I liked it. You know seven eleven. I just go

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Speaker 1: and get one of those one dollar do it? Then

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Speaker 1: just do that's fine, do.

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Speaker 2: It as I was.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 4: Someone said, there's a regular customer that comes in. When

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Speaker 4: we ask for her name, she says no, so we

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Speaker 4: just write no, yeah, here's your coffee. No, they don't

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Speaker 4: care what your name is.

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Speaker 2: It's just so the process works.

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Speaker 3: That's what I mean. They're making your name impersonal. It's

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Speaker 3: like you don't matter.

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Speaker 2: Come on, it's I don't like it. It's so the

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Speaker 2: process works.

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Speaker 1: Brandon sister man, who got to you?

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Speaker 4: I don't understand your aggression, all right, asking for your

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Speaker 4: name and you order a coffee.

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Speaker 2: Weirdo sit passed the pub test.

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Speaker 4: No, I've had my name and I say to my donner,

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Speaker 4: isn't it obvious? I find it's very annoying.

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Speaker 2: I'm really assumed.

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Speaker 4: That I think it's your name, and if they need

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Speaker 4: your name to dissemine whose coffee it is, I don't

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Speaker 4: know why it's an issue.

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Speaker 3: No, definitely not.

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Speaker 2: I'm there to get a coffee. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: make friends with you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it does, because my name is Dick.

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Speaker 2: I always ask for a strong double short true story. No,

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Speaker 2: I'm with jonj on that one. None of their business.

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Speaker 4: No, my nephew ordered coffee.

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Speaker 2: They said, what's your name? He said Mark with When

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Speaker 2: he got his coffee, it said Cark on his cup.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely does. It shows that they acknowledge you and you're

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Speaker 4: saying good morning to you. I'll have whatever. And it's

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Speaker 4: just politeness to give him you a name.

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Speaker 3: I like, Jamesy.

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Speaker 4: It's not being very very nice. Maybe you should have

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Speaker 4: the longest sleep, well.

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Speaker 2: Said, Maybe you need a longer sleep.

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Speaker 4: Maybe just your your coffee comes back has just got

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Speaker 4: cranky face written on it.

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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's nation