WEBVTT - Chloe & Mitch's Separate Bedrooms, Shani Grimmond's Big Pay Day & Visible G-Strings 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.160 This is Outspoken. The podcast is not afraid to say 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:06.680 exactly what you're thinking. Our names are Amy Kate and 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:10.560 Sophie Torba. We're identical triplets, but we often don't have 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:15.680 identical opinions, so sometimes things can get heated. Outspoken covers 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:20.640 all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, and issues facing women. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:26.400 That is so fetch Thank you, Welcome back to another 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:29.280 episode of Outspoken. Now, usually we like to start the 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.160 show with something light, but we do want to dedicate 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:35.360 this episode to our good friend has Lee. So sadly, 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.640 has Lee passed away on Sunday of COVID nineteen and 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:41.480 we met has Lee when we were fifteen. I think 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:44.479 it was when we were holidaying in Penang. He was 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:47.240 a lifeguarded at resort and we became really good friends 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:51.120 with him over the past seventeen years. And it's just 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:54.360 absolutely tragic news because he was hooked up to a 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.240 ventilator and obviously they have to make the tough decisions 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.360 of who gets that ventilator, and sadly that was someone 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.960 else there that needed it. Yeah, it is very sadden. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.000 It just shows you how important it is to go 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:09.720 out and get vaccinated because unfortunately these are the tough 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:12.560 decisions that doctors are having to make every day around 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:16.200 the world. And Haslee he did have his first vaccination. 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:20.119 Unfortunately he hadn't got his second vaccination yet. So anybody 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.800 that's listening, Haslee was young, he had a lot of 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:26.560 life to live, and it's just so important to go 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.800 and get vaccinated. And I think we just want to 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.200 end on a high note. Haslee was just the most 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:34.560 beautiful person. His nickname was Nemo because he was small, 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:36.800 and he was also a lifeguard, so love swimming. And 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.680 I think what really sums him up was when we 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.440 I think we were twenty two at the time, and 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:43.800 he asked our mum and dad's permission if he could 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:46.520 take us to his village and he said, Mama and Papa, 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.800 I said, okay, if I take the girls. And he 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:51.320 was just the most lovely person. And we're really going 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:53.760 to miss him, and our thoughts are with his family 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:58.440 at this really difficult time. Chloe Zepp has confirmed she 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.400 and baby daddy Mitch all no longer sleep together in 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.720 the same bedroom. During a house too on Instagram, Chloe 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.200 shared vision of Mitch and her separate bedrooms. Now og 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.280 listeners will know that Mitch has previously been banished to 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.079 sleep in the couple's movie room before, but now it 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:17.120 seems like this is a more permanent situation. Yeah, so 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:20.480 some listeners may remember when we discuss Chloe and Mitch's 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.840 relationship update vlog back in July that Mitch shared he 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:26.480 was sleeping in the movie room. Now, there have been 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:29.839 some bloody classic comments about this movie room along the way. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:34.880 So there were also previous discussions that Chloe sleeps with Artie, 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.440 so Mitch had been sleeping in another room to get 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:41.080 some sleep. However, as you mentioned Sophie on Sunday's Insta story, 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:43.440 it was quite obvious that this was now a permanent 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.760 arrangement because to me, it seemed like it was a 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:49.080 little boy's room, Like he had his shoes set up 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:51.600 on a special stand and all his things in his room, 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:53.959 and then she had all her I don't know, meditation 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:59.280 equipment in her room, equipment, I don't know, crystals and whatnot, 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.880 moon water. So yeah, it just seemed like they're living 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.520 very separate lives in different rooms. Does any what do 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.600 you think that this is actually a good idea to 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.919 sleep in a separate room to your partner because I've 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:12.640 got to say, my boyfriend Dale is six foot four 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.160 and we've got a queen sized bed, but there's not 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:18.079 heaps and heaps of room. And I must say some nights, 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:19.919 if there was a queen size bed, I'd be tempted 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.720 to go in there just to stretch out. Well, that's 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.120 like Brandon. He will sleep with his knee up in 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.959 the air, which steals all of the blanket. He was 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:30.200 also loudly snoring in my face last night, which I 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:32.560 haven't actually told her about because he's not regularly asnorous. 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.920 So I could see how this sort of situation could work. 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:37.040 I do think if there was an obvious reason that 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.200 was preventing you from getting some sleep, it may be 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.240 a good idea to have a spare room so on 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.960 that odd occasion you could go in there. However, as 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.360 we said, this seems like a pretty permanent situation and 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.840 something that they're sticking with, and it seems like a 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.760 lot of Chloe's followers thought it was strange because she 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:54.360 ended up having to post a follow up and she wrote, 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.000 we sleep in separate rooms because we are around each 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.320 other at twenty four seven and I like to sleep early, 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:01.400 and he likes to stay up late on crypto and 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.400 watching YouTube. Plus it's good to have some space from 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:06.960 each other when you both work from home. I don't 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.640 think there needs to be a certain way relationships have 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:12.440 to be. Everyone is different. It works the best for us. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:12.720 You know. 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:14.920 It cracks me up because I am the Mitchell in 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.799 my relationship and Dale is the Chloe going to bed early. 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.960 I'm not doing crypto late at night, but I do 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:21.760 like to stay up and watch a bit of Money heist, 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.240 Bit of Love Ireland. I think she does raise a 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.880 good point, though, about the fact that they do work together. Generally, 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.520 most couples get out of the house from one another 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:32.839 and excited to see each other when they return home, 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.680 so I can kind of understand this situation a bit more. 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.880 I suppose the reason there is speculation around it is 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.800 because they have been quite open with their relationship struggles. 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.080 So that's why I assume people are thinking there's more 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.200 to it. Yeah, do you find it a bit weird 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:49.599 that Chloe didn't really acknowledge their relationship issues when she 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.960 did get this question thrown at her though, because that's 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:54.479 clearly what people are wondering about. Yeah, Well, I don't 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:57.599 think it really seems like any relationships going game busters 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.200 if you're not showing the same room. Like, let's be honest, like, 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:03.960 how are you Marrio typical? Kate? No, but how are 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.279 you meant to connect as a couple If you're sleeping 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.880 in separate bedrooms, you're on completely different schedules. I mean, 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.320 no offense. Amy. I know you said that you you 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:14.120 know Dale goes to bed before you, But for me, 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.920 I feel like it's kind of good to start your 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:20.640 own routines together. So if one person goes to bed, 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.599 maybe try fitting in with their bedtime, especially if Mitch 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:26.880 is just on YouTube. You're being a bit closed minded, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:30.240 because what about for couples who might do shift work 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.520 and their sleeping patterns are different. I think that I've 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:35.440 just said the scenario different. I don't agree with you. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.520 I get where Kate's coming from. I think it's also 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:40.720 to do with the fact that they you know, there 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.200 are roomors around about their relationship and the fact that 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.560 all of Mitch's stuff is in that room. I totally 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:48.360 get where you're coming from. I'm just saying that what 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.839 works for some couples doesn't work for others, And I 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:53.000 think you're being a bit closed minded by saying that 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.839 one thing that works for you and your partner works 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.800 for other people. I know stereotypically most couples share a room. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:02.320 I'm just saying that she's explaining the situation. She's explaining 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.120 why it doesn't work. They are in a bit of 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:07.800 a different situation working together. But I'm saying that doing 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:11.200 shift work is very different to someone wanting to stay 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.920 up late on YouTube and watch videos. And you would 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:17.200 think if you had a young son who obviously his 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.600 sleeping pattern would be all over the place, that you 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:22.800 would put aside your personal preference to watch YouTube videos 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.920 late into the night to actually set up a routine 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:28.240 and get things back on track with your girlfriend. Just 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.680 to defend Mitchell who's staying up late as someone else 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.120 who does stay up late. You know, if your partner's 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.200 going to bed super early, like you are allowed to 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.080 have a life. They are very young, regardless of the 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.400 fact they have a young child, they only they're only 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:42.360 in their early twenties. She's allowed to He's allowed to 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:44.040 do whatever you want, but he also needs a me 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:47.159 time like This is what I'm taking from what Chloe's saying, 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.920 is that they're together all day. Sometimes there is nothing 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:53.119 better than getting into bed and just having some quiet time, 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.320 scrolling on your phone, looking at whatever you want to 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.520 look at. It's alluding to the fact that they're not 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:00.840 sleeping in bed, as if it's like not having sex. 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:02.960 I think that's kind of what you're alone. I don't 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.080 know when it would be happening, to be honest, if 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:07.320 they're not sleeping in the same room. Well, they work 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.600 at home together, she'll be during the day when the 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:11.720 baby's a sleepack clue. I just think you're being a 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:14.920 bit judgmental, Kate, and just thinking that there's one way 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:18.200 to have her relationships. Fuck them fas fucks a lot 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:21.040 of them. Tell them they can stick fucking leavers up 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:25.720 their fucking asses share a journalist life, they fuck are not. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.480 On Thursday, Anastasia kings North shared a birthday photo to 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:33.040 Instagram that made me feel very old, not just because 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.440 she was turning twenty one, but because she was sporting 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.480 a visible G string that was poking above her dress. 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.000 So some of our listeners will remember that this trend 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:44.080 was popular in the early two thousands. Kate, can you 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.679 tell us a little bit more? Yeah, well, it's pretty 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:49.600 simple trend. People would wear their g strings pulled up 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:52.880 so it was visible above their low rise jenes. Now 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.920 the look used to be referred to as the whale tail. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.080 And I suppose a lot of people may remember that 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:01.600 Paris Hilton used to rock this lawk a lot. Also, 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.800 Kim from Kathy Kim used to be sporting the G string. 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:06.720 That was more fair. That was more of a piss 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:09.920 take though, wasn't it. Oh yeah, And I do remember 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:14.160 vividly Nathan Buckley's first wife, I think was Tanya wearing 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:16.040 the look to the brown low metal and everyone been 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:20.040 pretty shocked by it. Now, the trend didn't actually last 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:23.040 long in the naughties because it sort of did it 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.560 at one point eighty and reverted back to people wearing 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.840 the Bridget Jones style undis. And I love that we 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:31.040 did revert back to things being more comfortable and practical. 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:33.920 But I'm not really surprised because look at Batha trends 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:36.400 now baths have basically like bay the bottoms have turned 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:40.200 into g strings. Basically, it just looks so absurd to me. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:42.400 I don't know, I could definitely not get around this trend, 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:45.440 especially after Kim has been sporting on Katherin Kim for 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:48.040 so many years. Well, the weirdest thing is that all 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.720 the A listers and the high fashion brands and influencers 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.599 are all getting around it. So there is this revival 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:58.320 of the look. And so we've seen Haley Bieber, Bellahad Did, 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:02.200 Kendall Jenner, Jule Leep and Halsey all wearing this look. 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:06.520 Even Giovanci and Vasaci are backing the look for spring 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:09.200 and summer in twenty twenty one. And it has never 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.640 made me more want to wear tracksuit pants and just 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.440 not even engage with fashion these days. I love that 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:17.880 this is how Fashion East is described it. It's deemed 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:21.080 a hot girl detail that demands to be noticed, and 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:22.880 in order to pull the look off, you have to 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.880 give zero fucks. Well, they clearly look like they give 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:28.400 zero fucks by the way they look. It looks absolutely 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:31.400 obscene and ridiculous. Well, I think what's interesting about the 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:33.400 look this time around is there's a little bit of 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:36.960 trickery involved. So some people aren't actually wearing a G 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:39.720 string and pulling it up. There are some clothing that 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:43.160 actually have straps attached, so it looks like you're wearing 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.920 a G string. I wondered that I felt like the 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.160 G string looked ultra high, and I was trying to 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.719 work out how that was all occurring. I think the 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.480 thing that's so interesting about this trend is that it 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.000 is just so in contrast to what people have been 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.200 wearing in lockdown, which is I think why it is 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.360 so popular. I did read an article of about this 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:03.320 look being revived, and some fashion designers have said that 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.080 the whole point of bringing it back is that women 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:10.840 are no longer ashamed of being sexual and talking about sex, 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:13.440 so they feel like they can wear this look and 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:16.120 be proud to have their underwear on display. I thought 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.440 that was quite an interesting concept to think about. How 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.560 do you reckon this goes with the belly change. You 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.720 think it's a bit too much had the belly chain 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.360 and the physical G string because they kind of interlock 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:27.520 with one another. I think this is kind of like 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.680 when you're deciding between wearing a bold lip and a 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:33.360 heavy eyeliner. I think you've got to choose one or 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.040 the other. Do you know what's interesting. I'm just taking 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:37.439 a look at the photo of Anastasia and she is 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.240 wearing gievant she TRACKI dacks with it, so I feel 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.360 like it's a bit of comfort built in with the tracks, 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.920 a bit of style from the two thousands. I do 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:48.520 hope it's removable because I don't see this trend lasting 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:53.880 very long. Is anything wrong? Well, Sun, it's it's not 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:58.160 at a Oh, I know, thanks again, career? 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.640 Is that woman just wearing a bra? 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.400 Former Instagram couple Isabelle Clark and Gie waite Ford are 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.880 believed to have reunited more than a year after their 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:13.000 dramatic breakup. So before we get into the details, so 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.680 can you run us through? Who were Isabelle and Gai 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.080 which I actually shot to fame when he was only 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.960 fourteen years old on The X Factor. He ended up 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:24.040 coming third on the show, which was in its fifth season, 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:27.480 and ultimately signed with Sony Music and he released a 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:30.160 single called Your Eyes, which peaked at number six on 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.520 the Aria Singles Charts. I just remember him looking so young, 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.840 but he was a sort of that young boy that 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.960 all the teen girls loved. But it wasn't even like 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:41.680 the heart throb. It was literally a little boy. I 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:45.000 watched the video back today and I'm like, wow, he 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:45.520 was young. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:46.079 Now. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:49.400 This fact about Gie absolutely blew my mind. So he 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:52.280 used to be an actor on Neighbors in twenty sixteen, 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.600 and he played Sarah Beaumont's son. For those who don't know, 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:58.680 that is the woman who had an affair with Karl 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.240 on Susan, So she was the receptionist in the medical center. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.960 You know that a huge drama was around solely so 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:07.760 on the show, Susan and Carl actually took GY's character 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:11.000 in and fostered him. Really, I never knew that. I'm sorry, 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:13.680 but Susan, she's an absolute saint. Imagine taking in the 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.480 child of you know, your husband's affair. Now, as well 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:19.600 as appearing on Neighbors, he's also released new music over 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.680 the past couple of years. He's also big on social media, 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:25.240 so he has four hundred and forty thousand followers on 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:29.600 Instagram and nine hundred and seventy two thousand subscribers on YouTube. 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:32.440 Really for his music. Yeah, there's a mixture of music 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:36.440 and vlogs and interviews. Wow. Now, as for Isabelle Clark, 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:39.280 she is an influencer who has six hundred and fifty 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:43.160 five thousand followers on Instagram and seventy five thousand subscribers 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:45.320 on YouTube, so she's not as big on the YouTube 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:48.200 front Now. She originally lived in Melbourne but moved to 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:50.960 Sydney to be with Jai, and she is known for 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:55.720 being friends with influencers like Madison Bully and Lexi Murray. Recently, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:57.560 you might have heard of her because she had a 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:01.640 clothing collaboration with White Fox boutique called Sunflower Babies, and 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:05.040 she's known for really opening up about her mental health journey. 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.680 So in February twenty twenty one, she shared that she'd 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:11.000 been hospitalized due to mental health and also spoke about 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:15.360 how she struggles with depression and anxiety. Interestingly, Jai has 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.880 also candidly spoken about his mental health and how Isabelle 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:22.400 has helped his own personal journey. So in twenty eighteen, 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:26.000 Gai was an ambassador for the Australian Suicide Prevention Foundation. 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.319 It is really good to see influencers using their platforms 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:30.559 to discuss mental health. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:30.840 Well. 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:34.360 I recently listened to the Inspired Unemployed podcast they pulled 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.240 out It would think it was a couple of weeks back, 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:39.240 and they the first segment they spoke about their own 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.760 struggles with anxiety and mental health, and it was so 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.360 refreshing to listen to because so many young men bottle 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.520 it up and for young men to be listening to 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:50.400 that and hearing them so candidly speak about their own issues, 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:53.000 because you see those guys on Instagram and you don't 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.600 think they have a care in the world. But yeah, 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:57.800 it was so great to hear them speaking about it. 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:00.600 So I want to know how did Ji and Isabel 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.920 meet considering they lived in different states. Well, Ji actually 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:07.240 slid into Isabel's DMS and at the time, Isabel said 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.679 she didn't know who Jai was, but she was originally 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:12.480 put off because of his large following. She said she'd 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.920 had a bad experience with someone else who had slid 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:18.400 into her DM so she didn't reply. However, it seems 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.040 like he was quite persistent because he kept messaging her 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:24.320 and finally she replied and they decided to meet up 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:27.800 when she was in Sydney next so they actually met 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:31.000 at the Beyond the Valley Music Festival. I mean, got 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.200 it seems like a long time ago when music festivals 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.960 were actually a thing, But that was back in January 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:40.120 twenty eighteen. Now the dates are a little bit contentious 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:44.760 because Jai had had another high profile relationship with an 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:48.960 American actress called Carrington Durham and that ended in July 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.320 twenty seventeen, and she actually released a YouTube video crying 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.840 about the breakup. So there was a little bit of oh, well, 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:58.880 when did he get with isabel Clark. So the couple 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:02.320 ended up doing long distance for six months before Isabelle 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:04.920 moved to Sydney to be with Ji, and they lived 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.760 at his grandparents' house for a year before moving out 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:11.000 into their own apartment. Now they were I think they 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:13.320 were in their apartment for a few months. However, in 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:17.160 September twenty twenty, Isabelle announced that they had broken up 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.800 via a YouTube video. I did not know that they 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:23.080 lived with their grandparents. Obviously they'd moved out by the 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:24.960 stage they broke up, but I feel like living with 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.160 grandparents that could put a bit of a strain on 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:30.360 any sort of relationship. Well, it really did seem like 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.120 there was a strain on this relationship and it wasn't 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:36.400 as good as they portrayed it on Instagram, because rumors 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:40.240 began swirling in late August twenty twenty that Jai had 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:43.600 cheated on Isabelle. Now Isabelle, as I said, shared a 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:47.840 video to her YouTube channel in September confirming the split, 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.040 and this is what she said. 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:50.960 Chy and I are no longer together. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:55.560 I am still super super duper her And I'm only 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:59.440 like saying this in this video because I am receiving 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.160 so many messages about it all the time, and I'm 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:06.640 trying to heal myself and constantly having you know, screenshots 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:11.960 of comments and screenshots of messages that I don't know, 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:13.920 Facebook groups, things like that. 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:16.320 Like, it's been really super difficult. So I'm just gonna 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:20.200 tell you guys here on my YouTube that, yeah, we're 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:24.720 no longer together and we I do not ever. 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:25.960 Plan on getting back with him. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.880 Got their pretty strong words, because we've seen a lot 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:31.840 of influencer breakups in recent times, and no one's really 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:35.520 had the nerve to say something like that. That's so final, 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.040 Isn't it good on her? I feel like the influences 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.680 divulging about their breakups is now a thing of the past. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:42.840 I want to hear all the juicy details. It is 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:44.840 a little bit awkward that she said that she'd never 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.040 get back together with him and now it appears they 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:50.360 are back together. Yeah, but we've got to remember at 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:54.360 the time, there were screenshots floating around that seemingly proved 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:56.400 Jai had cheated on her, so I would be pretty 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:59.240 humiliated and would want to go on a rant on 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:02.360 my YouTube channel. This was super juicy. So in March 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.960 of this year, which was six months on from the breakup, 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.320 Giana decided to answer a question about their breakup on 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:10.640 a YouTube video, and he gave a lot of insight. 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:13.639 He spoke for nearly five minutes on the topic and 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:17.080 this video has a mass over seventy five thousand views. 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.960 So Jia initially said that the breakup was both of 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.720 their faults and that they were really poor at communicating 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:25.880 with one another. He also said that the simplest conversations 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.399 would turn into an argument because they weren't on the 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:30.960 same page. He then went on to admit that he 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:33.399 was a very shit boyfriend and that things got super 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:36.679 toxic because he was personally in a bad place. What 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:39.120 I found the juiciest about this interview was he went 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:42.120 into great detail about how he actually broke up with her. 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:44.280 If I was Isabelle, I would not want this out 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:47.320 on the internet. So he explained that they had decided 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:50.040 to take a two week break to work out what 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:52.359 they needed to do. So he said he went to 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:55.280 Cronulla to stay with his uncle, and isabel stayed at 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:58.960 their apartment. Now, Jaia explained that he spent the two 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.000 weeks trying to work out how he was going to 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:04.199 break up with her. However, it appears Isabelle spent the 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:06.240 two weeks trying to work out how they were actually 0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:09.800 going to make it work. Now, when Jie got home, 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.560 he said, he decided to write Isabelle a card, basically 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.040 breaking up with her. Now, this does not seem like 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:19.000 a very smart idea, And he said he walked into 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:23.240 their apartment and she Cley had had the complete opposite idea, 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:26.240 because she had put together a three course lunch for them, 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:28.840 and their dog had run up and jumped on his leg. 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:31.399 And he said he just felt so bad. And this 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:33.199 was the whole reason he'd wrote the card, because he 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:35.600 knew things would escalate pretty quickly and a fire would 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:39.359 break out. I mean, yeah, obviously, And apparently the card 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:42.480 ended up being tossed over the balcony. God. I mean, 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:44.720 he spent two weeks coming up with a way to 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:47.080 tell her, and the card was the best option. I 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:49.159 think he's fallen a little bit short there. Could you 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:53.600 imagine receiving a card. Someone standing there gives you a 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.919 card and you're supposed to read, oh, I'm breaking up 0:18:55.920 --> 0:18:58.879 with you. Yes, see, terrible idea. So he gave it 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:01.080 to her and she just threw it over. Then, yeah, 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:03.800 I don't think she read it well. I think that's 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:06.480 the worst way to break up with somebody via a card, 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:09.919 because then you permanently have that card. Wait, it's on 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:14.280 sex in the City when the post this is like that? Like, 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.280 you don't want to look back at a card of 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:18.359 someone explaining why they don't want to be with him. No, 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:20.879 definitely not. Do you guys think that he would have 0:19:20.960 --> 0:19:24.480