1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Jum mission with Jonesy and Amanda. 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: Down to the Jonesy demand of arms for the pub 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 2: test wedding the baby's head? Does it pass the pub test? 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 2: I got a text last night. We're all gathered around 5 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: the dinner table. It's nice to have the whole family together, 6 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: I thought. So I get this text inviting me to 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 2: have a beer for another made of mine who has 8 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: just become a dad for the first time, and we're 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: going to go on and I just said, oh, I 10 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: might go and catch up with fellows. Haven't seen him 11 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: for ages and been able to pub for ages. And 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, all the women at the 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: table just went brand about wetting the baby's head. 14 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 3: It's so old school. As I said, we've moved on 15 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 3: from the six o'clock swirl and things. Just because their 16 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 3: traditions doesn't mean we keep them going. I just don't 17 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 3: think it's appropriate anymore to celebrate the birth of your 18 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 3: child by the man on his own going out with 19 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,959 Speaker 3: his friends and drinking while the woman is there nursing 20 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 3: the baby. 21 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: But it's not like he's abandoning the baby. 22 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 3: No, And I get you know, there's only a few 23 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,279 Speaker 3: things men can do for women at that time. But 24 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: being there and being supportive is a big part of that. 25 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: But you know, as a father, it's a it's a 26 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 2: celebration when you it's workoming another little a little monkey 27 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: to the tribe. 28 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: That's what the birth is. 29 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 3: You're getting drunk doesn't welcome the child to the tribe. 30 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: It's about why don't you wait till you can get 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 3: together with all your friends and the baby's there and 32 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 3: everyone's having a nice child. Then the wife's there and 33 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 3: the kids there, and she's linking and she wants to 34 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: go home. I can't sit down. I've had an a pesy. 35 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 2: It's like having combined bucks and hens pickies. This doesn't work. 36 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 3: This is just old school and grow up. I know 37 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 3: people men won't get. 38 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying, wedding the baby's head? 39 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: Is it past the pub test? 40 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 41 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 4: I think it's great to have celebrations of lukes, But 42 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 4: getting out getting drunk when you first had a newborn 43 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 4: not okay. There to support your wife or your partner. 44 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't, because it takes two to tango. Just 45 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: like you decided to have a child, you look after him. Oh, 46 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: it's so old school. Don'ty needs to get with the program. 47 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: We're in twenty twenty one, remember, get over it. 48 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: We both got to that. 49 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: Not surprising the way that gender responses went. 50 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 2: Wivee said the baby either 51 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 4: Jonesy and Amanda's genation