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Speaker 1: Podcast you nine our voices.

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Speaker 2: Quick heads up. This podcast can sometimes get a bit

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Speaker 2: rough on Bros and Cons. We talk about real life

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Speaker 2: and we're committed to having open conversations with no filter.

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Speaker 3: God, welcome back Ladd and led that to another episode

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Speaker 3: of Bros and.

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Speaker 4: Go looking for looking dy Lex in the building we

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Speaker 4: got first time we got and we're all together fucking

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Speaker 4: the first time.

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Speaker 1: I'll finally get to see day Lex man crazy.

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Speaker 5: I just obviously just come to the podcas us now

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Speaker 5: I'm seeing Jay Lexevy here. It's exciting. We're online right

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Speaker 5: now as well. I promise you guys are going to

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Speaker 5: go live.

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Speaker 2: So for those that don't know, Malick did address that.

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Speaker 2: So we were both cold accused will charge with firearm charges.

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Speaker 2: His case has been dismissed. Praise God. We we had.

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Speaker 2: We initially had bail conditions where we had non associations

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Speaker 2: we had, but now we're together. This is a happy moment. Man.

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Speaker 2: We literally only catched up a couple of minutes before

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Speaker 2: we jumped.

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Speaker 1: On yeah, because he'd been that busy eight been busy.

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Speaker 2: Look of the bloke's gone bigger than me now.

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Speaker 5: But while we're here, just before we start, we've got

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Speaker 5: a few shoutows to give.

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Speaker 1: We got some.

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Speaker 5: Boys from Melbourne that's sending you some merds shadows.

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Speaker 2: The boys from Melbourn. We'll tagged them in the caption a.

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Speaker 3: We tagged them, tag their Instagram, their socials and also

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Speaker 3: also to the Golden Scissors boys I think from just

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Speaker 3: just yeah, just on the corner boys. So yeah, man,

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Speaker 3: get some fresh hair if you're in the area.

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Speaker 2: That's all. That's all. We're gonna do something a bit

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Speaker 2: unorthodox today. So we did promise that we're gonna do

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Speaker 2: a live today and we're gonna answer at least one

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Speaker 2: one question or two questions on the.

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Speaker 5: Line if there's questions on the live. This the first

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Speaker 5: I'm going on live YouTube, So if there is questions,

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Speaker 5: we'll answer it now. But yeah, let's just keep the

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Speaker 5: ball rolling, let's keep an authentic man. So excited to

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Speaker 5: see my brother jay Lex for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Figure, this is weird. This is weird, but.

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Speaker 2: It's been a whole. It's been a whole. But for

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Speaker 2: like every time, ever since I was young, me and

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Speaker 2: this call, we've had this type of bond where like

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Speaker 2: we won't see each other for a while, but when

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Speaker 2: we see each other, we just rekindled straight away. So

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Speaker 2: we just keep going from where we took off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, straight up.

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Speaker 5: For me, it was like jail bird, like ever since

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Speaker 5: they put put bad conditions on me that one of

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Speaker 5: the top bail conditions was to not see my brother.

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Speaker 5: I can't affiliate with Jay Lex. Yeah, under all circumstances,

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Speaker 5: for me, that felt like je hundred even.

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Speaker 2: I remember when when I when I found out about

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Speaker 2: his bail condition because I was I was mixed emotions

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Speaker 2: because he just got bail. So I was like, bro,

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Speaker 2: like this is hectic and I was going to go

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Speaker 2: see him in the lawyer, U, he can't see you.

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Speaker 2: That's one of the bad conditions, And I was like

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Speaker 2: what Yeah, And like for those those of you guys

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Speaker 2: that you guys have already seen, how close we are

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Speaker 2: as brothers. It was a big impact for me because

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Speaker 2: the reason why our bond is so powerful is because,

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Speaker 2: as we've mentioned before, growing up, we we literally had

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Speaker 2: other to fall back on. We didn't have any no handouts,

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Speaker 2: no connects. Everything we've built off the ground, we only

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Speaker 2: anyone to call for us. We were each other's rescue.

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Speaker 2: So that's why, like it meant, it means the world

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Speaker 2: that we're able to share together now on the table. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's amazing, bro, it's amazing that.

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Speaker 5: You mean, I couldn't wait to see this guy again. Like,

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Speaker 5: as you know, we're very tight and up. And you know,

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Speaker 5: when I first started Bros and Cons, shocking me, I

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Speaker 5: wasn't able to speak to this guy. But for somehow

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Speaker 5: with this podcast, I was able to communicate.

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Speaker 2: We're communicating through the episodes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So, like I couldn't just called this guy, and

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Speaker 5: like I remember I spoke about changing the podcast. I

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Speaker 5: like I'm ready to give this up, let's start helping

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we just we telepath connected.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was pretty much.

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Speaker 5: When I first came out of the episode, I knew

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Speaker 5: this guy was able to watch it, so I knew

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Speaker 5: he was happy in a way. He was able to

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Speaker 5: see that me and Ron Goddy were changing. We're going

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Speaker 5: on a different name. Yeah, like just like just like

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Speaker 5: real brothers. We all switched on Jared on yea and yeah,

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Speaker 5: like they say, one brother in all in.

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Speaker 2: One of the questions that was that I got on

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Speaker 2: asked me work got me first involved in the streets.

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Speaker 2: So I've spoken a little bit about how I spent

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Speaker 2: a bit of my childhood in juvenile and I have

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Speaker 2: mentioned before that Malick was my former co accused as

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Speaker 2: a JUVI. But what got me first involved in the streets?

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Speaker 2: So I was never actually a part of anything Malick. Actually,

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Speaker 2: you guys don't know, but Malick actually introduced me to

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Speaker 2: Para Hungry Jack's. I met all the boys through there,

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Speaker 2: and the only reason why I wanted to follow my

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Speaker 2: brother who's one year older than me, and he's one

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Speaker 2: year younger than me. We're all a year apart. I

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Speaker 2: sure he was taken care of, because I believed in

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Speaker 2: my heart, even at a young age, that, yeah, he

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Speaker 2: didn't I didn't trust that they loved him as much

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Speaker 2: as I did. And you know what, we found that

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Speaker 2: we ended up going the distance together, but we wouldn't

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Speaker 2: know that. When we were young, Malik had introduced me

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Speaker 2: then me following Malik over a time, over over a

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Speaker 2: then that's how I was slowly introduced to the street. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: He used to used to hang out with a lot

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Speaker 1: of same movies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 5: And I'd like, as an older brother, you never want

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Speaker 5: your younger brothers hanging around you. But at that time,

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Speaker 5: because of the babe, yeah, I knew it was like

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Speaker 5: it was in my best interest to introduce you to

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Speaker 5: the in the West boys. Yeah, and that's that's how

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Speaker 5: we went. Yeah, yeah, but anyways, I forgot We've got

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Speaker 5: to ads to someone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me.

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Speaker 5: See, I'm near here, I'm near here. Who are you guys?

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Speaker 5: And what do you do on your channel?

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Speaker 1: Should sub I've already dropped the life.

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Speaker 2: Oh so I'm I'm James Nicoa. I'm known commonly by

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Speaker 2: my former rapper name twenty one District as Jay Lex.

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Speaker 2: We come from the Australian rap group twenty one District,

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Speaker 2: which is no longer running anymore, but that's where we

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Speaker 2: originate from. These are my two brothers. This is run Gotdy,

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Speaker 2: This is Malik and yeah, this is the band of brothers.

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Speaker 2: We we've moved from having a platform where that arguably

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Speaker 2: entice is violence towards the youth and teenagers, to now

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Speaker 2: we are using our platform to be able to encourage

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Speaker 2: men to become strongholds of their lives and help the

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Speaker 2: people around them. That's it. That's the one take.

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Speaker 1: It's really good.

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Speaker 3: I thought Melick was hot more, someone thought you were

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Speaker 3: someone he actually he actually is. Was your dad in

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Speaker 3: your lives growing up? And was he taught on news?

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Speaker 1: So what's our daddy in our lives growing up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, our dad was in all lives growing up.

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Speaker 2: You know, our upbringing was you know, like it was

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Speaker 2: very It was kind of like it was kind of

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Speaker 2: like like how every other Islander's family is, you know,

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Speaker 2: big family living in a small house, cuddled up together.

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Speaker 2: Dad obviously had a bit of he had some tough skin,

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Speaker 2: but us do all Islander duds. There's nothing new there.

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Speaker 1: Like, he was very strict.

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Speaker 5: Dad liked tongue in dad, so I think he was

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Speaker 5: I was sort of like I sort of tried to escape. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you know that upbringing, Yeah, that good upbringing I was.

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Speaker 5: But my dad he's a good guy. He's a good

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Speaker 5: like everything about him was good. He raised us well

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Speaker 5: you know what, I to escape that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got it the most as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this got a cop because he was like the black

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Speaker 2: followed the rules and this this bloke. He was the

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Speaker 2: to follow him, and then that and then you know,

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Speaker 2: about it. He was a typical Islander dad, but I

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Speaker 2: do think that he was in that one percent top

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Speaker 2: tier of tough, tough skin dad. We can go on

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Speaker 2: about the hidings, the hidings were. When I heard about

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Speaker 2: us cool, I was like, that's not that bad. It's

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Speaker 5: So, yeah, very very traditional tongue in top of Dade

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Speaker 5: criminal background and everything.

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Speaker 1: My dad was.

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Speaker 5: Always against everything, you know, but he was like I think,

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Speaker 5: like for any dad in that situation where their sons

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Speaker 5: that a lot of dads sort of have no choice.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like a lot.

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Speaker 5: Of dads in some cases, we just try to do

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Speaker 5: whatever they can to help this son. They were probably

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Speaker 5: still backing for life or yeah. Yeah, like my dad

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Speaker 5: was always against crime and everything, but like you know,

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Speaker 5: when he came to police, coming to arrest us. He

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Speaker 5: was the first one to stand up and say that,

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Speaker 5: you know, you're not taking my son.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of dads can relate to that.

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Speaker 5: You might be against what your child is doing, but

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Speaker 5: you're always going to have love for your kid, you know.

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Speaker 2: But he's one of those fellows man like I'll strive

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Speaker 2: to be someone like my old man. You know, no

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Speaker 2: matter how he gets, he he's always going to be

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Speaker 2: in our corner. He doesn't like to admit it to

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Speaker 5: He loves us, he loves us, and he's watching this

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Speaker 3: This is nothing, bro, It's just called brushing your teeth.

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like people are certain type, Like everyone

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Speaker 2: That's why it's so important.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so important to just pick and choose who

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Speaker 6: Sometimes, but sometimes you got to hit rock bottom to

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Speaker 5: Sometimes, you know, and you had any embarrassing moment, I hope,

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Speaker 5: I got to a stage where paranoia didn't just affect

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Speaker 5: For me, I've had like some embarrassing arguments when my

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Speaker 2: that's all you need. As soon as he plans a

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Speaker 2: The devil is telling you that you can do it.

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Speaker 2: you guys, like, if you guys, if you guys wanted

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Speaker 2: But from my experience, the decisions I've made, I couldn't

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Speaker 2: can't see. You know, she can see intentions of other

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Speaker 2: We see other boys. It's one of the oil bays,

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Speaker 2: you know. But the missus, she because she's a girl,

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Speaker 2: they know things lad and at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: they want to help you. And that's what marriage is.

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Speaker 2: Let's be honest. You're getting married because you want someone.

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Speaker 2: You're admitting to yourself that this is my other half.

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Speaker 2: She's going to help me. I'm going to help her.

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Speaker 2: We're going to help each other make decisions for both

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 6: She's like, she's like a proof check man authentication.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's mad. We touched up on relations start.

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Speaker 2: Don't get something someone sharing this and reposting that, Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: not everything, not everything.

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Speaker 5: because you're not thinking straight.

437
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Speaker 2: You're not thinking.

438
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Speaker 5: But when you're your soberce off, you can start calling

439
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Speaker 5: the shirts and start making wise decisions.

440
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Speaker 1: Let's get to the next question before we get shot.

441
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Speaker 2: Hey, the man still the men of the hell. Sorry, sorry, lads,

442
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: I don't forget, but I know a lot of the

443
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Speaker 2: boys are going to see that segment and just skips.

444
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Speaker 2: Have you fully committed to letting go of your old

445
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Speaker 2: ways and old enemies?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

447
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Speaker 2: I understand, man, I understand.

448
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Speaker 3: I can say I'm fully committed, but we've got but

449
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 3: we've got heaps of better things going on in class

450
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Speaker 3: right now, man, And it's it's too much of a

451
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 3: small mindset to be thinking like that. You know, if

452
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Speaker 3: you're someone that's always trying to level up in life,

453
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Speaker 3: you can never be little yourself like that. There's those

454
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Speaker 3: better things to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always consuming. Yeah, it's much time continuing, man.

456
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Speaker 2: I think for me, that question is like it's so,

457
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Speaker 2: there's two questions in there. Have you fully committed to

458
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Speaker 2: letting go of your old ways and old enemies? To like, so,

459
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Speaker 2: letting go of old enemies? I have no enemies. I

460
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Speaker 2: don't hate anyone I just got no time for it.

461
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Speaker 2: I've mentioned this before. Beef works two ways. If someone

462
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Speaker 2: hates me, that's it's a one way thing. I don't care.

463
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Speaker 2: Have you fully committed to letting go of your old

464
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Speaker 2: ways now? So for me, even though I'm on this

465
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Speaker 2: path right, I'm on this path, lad, right where obviously

466
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Speaker 2: where I'm trying to re rekindle my relationship with God,

467
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Speaker 2: you know, and I'm trying to be on the right path,

468
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Speaker 2: be sober and like, you know, focus on my family

469
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Speaker 2: in saying that, in my head, I feel like maturity

470
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Speaker 2: for me is knowing that a lot of like a

471
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Speaker 2: lot of things, like even though I feel some type

472
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Speaker 2: of way, I can't control everyone, right, So there's there's

473
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Speaker 2: things and tactics that I've learned that I have to

474
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Speaker 2: keep in place because I am responsible to be able

475
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Speaker 2: to look after myself, my family, and my loved ones.

476
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Speaker 2: And just because I feel like this, it doesn't mean

477
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Speaker 2: everyone feels like this. So I'm not going to start

478
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Speaker 2: walking around like a blind sheep. And I'm not going

479
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Speaker 2: to just lie now and say that like you know,

480
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Speaker 2: I'm yeah, happy, go la la buddy, buddy, Nah, God

481
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Speaker 2: is still working, you know, things out of me. Yeah,

482
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Speaker 2: I'm still a working progress and I still feel like

483
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Speaker 2: I still feel like a lot of things that have

484
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Speaker 2: happened in my age group, in my peers, a lot

485
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Speaker 2: of the damage is done. And the reason why we're

486
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Speaker 2: doing this platform is to help the next generations not

487
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Speaker 2: make the same mistakes that we did. In a lot

488
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Speaker 2: of ways, I feel like in our age group, a

489
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Speaker 2: lot of things like have gone far beyond repair. But

490
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Speaker 2: what we can do is try to help the next

491
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Speaker 2: generation not make the same mistakes we did, because I

492
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Speaker 2: feel like it's true that saying a smart man learns

493
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Speaker 2: from his mistakes, a wise man learns from other people's mistakes.

494
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Speaker 2: And that's basically what we're trying to do now. We're

495
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Speaker 2: just we're trying to give you guys all the light

496
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Speaker 2: and the truth and as honest and as transparent as

497
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Speaker 2: we can so you guys can take something away from

498
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Speaker 2: it and you know, make better decisions.

499
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Speaker 5: We're not gonna we're not going to be perfect along

500
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Speaker 5: the way, but we were definitely For me personally, I'm

501
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Speaker 5: one hundred percent committed to changing. For me to for

502
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Speaker 5: me to leave my old life was a very big

503
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 5: deal for me because we basically grew up like learning everything.

504
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 5: Everything we know came from the streets. Before we start

505
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Speaker 5: got into business, we had to learn those tactics on

506
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Speaker 5: the streets as well, so it was very big. So

507
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Speaker 5: for us to step out of everything shows that one

508
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Speaker 5: hundred percent committed, you know where, we're here for change.

509
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Speaker 1: We're not going to be perfect along the way.

510
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Speaker 5: Like I said on the last podcast, I still I

511
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 5: still have problems with anger issues every now and then

512
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Speaker 5: sometimes I'll blow up and I just want to like,

513
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Speaker 5: you know, I just want to get back to my

514
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Speaker 5: old self. I feel like we're gonna we're gonna go

515
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Speaker 5: through that a lot, especially now the devil, the devil

516
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 5: ones that's out of you, Yeah, because.

517
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Speaker 2: That's the devil tactics. Then to make us feel like

518
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: we're not we're not good enough to be able to

519
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Speaker 2: speak our truths. But I know better than that, lad,

520
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Speaker 2: I know that we're all human. Everyone makes mistakes. But

521
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Speaker 2: if we're able to shed some light and someone out

522
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: there can resonate and be like, bro, these guys are

523
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Speaker 2: like me, you know, and like I can strive to

524
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: be better like them if they're doing it, you know, yea,

525
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Speaker 2: So it comes like, yeah, exactly like you said, We're

526
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Speaker 2: just human. So in case anything does happen in the future,

527
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Speaker 2: and you know, everyone's like, bro, I thought you had changed.

528
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Speaker 2: I'm still working in progress. No one used to make

529
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Speaker 2: memes of me, you know. But yeah, another good question

530
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Speaker 2: that actually follows into that someone asked what made made

531
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Speaker 2: you change into a church boy?

532
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Speaker 6: That that question is a old assumption.

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Speaker 2: That's a bold accusation, not.

534
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Speaker 1: That it's.

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Speaker 5: The reason why I said it as a bold assumption,

536
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Speaker 5: because first of all, I don't think any of us

537
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Speaker 5: do you go to church?

538
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Speaker 2: So in the last ten probably like if being a

539
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Speaker 2: church boy is going to church like every week, NonStop,

540
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Speaker 2: then none of us are church boys. Like I've missed

541
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Speaker 2: church so many times. Lad, I've missed the church. But

542
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Speaker 2: if calling me a church boys because I'm speaking life,

543
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Speaker 2: I don't know that it doesn't work. Why the Christian

544
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: is confusing a bit. I'll show you why I've got.

545
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Speaker 2: I've got a lot of very very very honorable Muslim mates. Right,

546
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Speaker 2: They're really close to me, and when they practice their

547
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 2: prayers or their daily religious dialect like their sam they're

548
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Speaker 2: actually respected in the community for it. No one calls

549
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Speaker 2: them mosque boy. No one laughs at them. They respect them.

550
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Speaker 2: But I speak to a fellow Christian and like he's

551
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Speaker 2: talking and I just say, amen, lad, or praise God. Lad. Lad.

552
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Speaker 2: We need to bring that that Christian masculinity back where

553
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Speaker 2: you know, people are not afraid to wear your faith

554
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Speaker 2: on your sleeve. Lad. This is a good thing. Lad,

555
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Speaker 2: it's a good thing. Lad.

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Speaker 6: Something that's positive doesn't make sense.

557
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Speaker 5: But I guess we're going to cop that a lot

558
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Speaker 5: from everyone because he came from criminal background, but.

559
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Speaker 2: He's fair enough, fair enough.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't ever religious until our juvenile So when I

562
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 5: went to jail, that's when I actually learned about the Bible.

563
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Speaker 5: Maybe one more question or one more question and then

564
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Speaker 5: we'll end up. Sorry, guys were with me and I

565
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 5: were actually running late. He told his barber that he's content,

566
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Speaker 5: and the guy was holding us podcast what is not?

567
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Speaker 3: What is hostage?

568
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Speaker 1: But you know now that the broads back on will

569
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Speaker 1: be jumping on regularly.

570
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 2: The last question after leaving the scene, what do you

571
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: guys think about other rappers still indulging in the in

572
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 2: the rap scene?

573
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Speaker 1: Shoot for the stars.

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Speaker 5: Man, I've got nothing against anyone that's in the music

575
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 5: industry shoot for the stars. I think Jay said it

576
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 5: as well. It's hard to make a living out of music.

577
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 5: A lot of the musicians where I had to make

578
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Speaker 5: a hustle to start off with, and some.

579
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Speaker 2: Of these questions like this. Like I've mentioned before, our

580
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 2: platform is it's not a gossiping platform, lad, Like there's

581
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Speaker 2: a lot of other gossiping platforms that you guys can

582
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 2: go listen to other people gossip about other people. We're

583
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Speaker 2: only here to speak life and that's it. That's the

584
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Speaker 2: white lad. I don't want to We're not here to

585
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Speaker 2: shut down anyone or talk down on anyone. Load. At

586
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Speaker 2: the end of the day, we respect the hustle. Everyone

587
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Speaker 2: is trying to make a dollar load.

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Speaker 5: And we're very happy with our followers. We want our

589
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Speaker 5: followers to make it big, make We're happy to support

590
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Speaker 5: us supporting other local businesses and and our followers. It's

591
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Speaker 5: very big for us because we're proud of everything that

592
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Speaker 5: everyone's doing.

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Speaker 1: So a lot of the times you will.

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Speaker 5: Shout at the Boys for Free, will shout at different

595
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Speaker 5: companies and business and that's what we want to see

596
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Speaker 5: in our followers, you know, because we came very loud.

597
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 5: I want my followers to come firs as well. That's

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Speaker 5: why we originally came out with the the thres giving,

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Speaker 5: giving out the.

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Speaker 2: Runout the ropes. And since all of our episodes, we've

601
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Speaker 2: had a lot of amazing stories come through our dms.

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Speaker 2: People starting their business, people like taking that risk because

603
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Speaker 2: they've seen that we were able to take the risk.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, lads, we love it, lad, we love it.

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Speaker 2: We love it. We love seeing that a lot of

606
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Speaker 2: youngins have finally made that move to quit their jobs

607
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Speaker 2: from their bosses. Don't quit your jobs.

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Speaker 1: But even for some of the gangsters that were on

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Speaker 1: the streets.

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Speaker 2: Even for some of the gangsters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very proud of you boys.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot lot to come for you guys, you know,

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Speaker 5: a lot to look forward to, and they can see

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Speaker 5: it firsthand from us. We're ready to lead the way.

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Speaker 5: And yeah we're also ready to learn as well. So

616
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Speaker 5: ye learning along and.

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Speaker 6: Make sure you guys subscribe to the channel.

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Speaker 2: Subscribe to the channel. Hey, what's our thing out now?

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Speaker 2: We've just had a massive give away.

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Speaker 1: Four thousand subscribers.

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Speaker 4: Shure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we're going to keep going from there. Nothing's

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Speaker 5: going to stop us and going to keep going.

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Speaker 2: Once we reach five thousand followers, Manly is going to

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Speaker 2: do another giveaway.

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Speaker 5: Now able to top it up another thousand bucks follows.

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Speaker 2: Guys, this is cons Thank you guys for tuning in.

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Speaker 2: We got Malick our djay Lex. We'll see you guys

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Speaker 2: on the next episode. Ever, MeToo, you want to head

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Speaker 2: with a coup