WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Are you ACTUALLY allowed to sleep with your Hall Pass? 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:05.239 Are you read The Pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura. 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:10.120 Burn Radio work? Our windows down, my worl ris in 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:12.600 the dust? Only good babuzzle down. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:17.919 I don't much, but yeah, our big get and what 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:21.319 a wat It don't matter where radd This is the 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:21.799 pick Up. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:24.640 Hello guys, It's the pick Up with Britt Harkley and 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.920 Laura Burn. Happy first day back to work everyone, you 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:28.560 poor things? 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:30.680 Is it a happy day? 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.200 I don't know, but we have a very special show 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:36.280 because this is our very first ever cross continental or 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:39.360 cross continent record for the pickup. We do it quite 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:41.440 a bit on our on our podcast Life on cart 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.200 But Britt is currently not here. 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:47.239 No I I heard the news about the Pope, so 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:50.600 they flew me to Italy to be the correspondent on 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:53.800 the ground. I have a strong connection to the Pope, 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:57.280 so I have come to Italy. No I happened to 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.600 be in Italy when the Pope passed away. I did 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.360 not get flown here for that, but what a crazy time. 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:06.720 So my fiance Ben lives in Italy. He plays for 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:10.000 a football team over here, and I was being the 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:13.000 dedicated fiance and it was going to be my first 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:14.920 game that I got to watch of his team. 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:16.759 He plays for a team called Genoa. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.800 And it was supposed to be yesterday and we're all 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:24.120 gearing up for the game, and then very sadly, the 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.800 Pope passed away and everything stopped. Everything shut down, the 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:31.920 football matches were canceled, everything was closing, the streets went 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.200 into morning. It's been a really wild time. 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:37.040 I think you were our opportunistic correspondent, but at least 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:39.319 we had We actually do have someone on the ground, 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:41.440 which is more than what most radio shows can say. 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:43.560 And I know that there's one person in the studio 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:47.200 here with me, Producer Grace, who has been There's no 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.880 one in Australia who follows pope stories like you do. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:51.840 Grace. Grace is dialed. 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:54.760 In weirdly fascinated by the whole thing, Like the whole 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.320 idea that the country goes into mourning for nine days 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.800 and then there's a conclave and his body gets lie 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:01.360 in state and paraded around. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.120 It's a whole thing, it really. 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.440 I mean, he's a very very sad for a lot 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.160 of people. I understand that as well, but like, yeah, 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:10.800 I mean I think I don't want to say that. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:12.799 Maybe people were expecting that it was gonna happen because 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.440 he was so unwell for so long, he had double pneumonia. 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:18.040 He lasted longer than a lot of people thought he 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:18.560 was going to. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.480 He was seen the day before he passed away. He 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:23.520 was outside greeting people and he was blessing people. And 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:25.440 I think that's why it was such a shock, because 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:27.440 people thought, oh, he must be feeling better. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.440 But in terms of the streets in Italy. 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:33.520 They have his like all of you know when you 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:35.880 can project images onto walls and things like. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.960 That, so his images of his face everywhere. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:42.280 They have his face everywhere. And it's a pretty amazing time, 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:46.519 a potentially amazing time because we could see the first 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:50.240 Asian or Black pope, which will be so historical. 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:52.880 There's rules around it, isn't there, Like where do they 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.920 have to be within? Like can anyone become a pope 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:57.920 or they have to be with me in ministry? 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.359 Ethnically, any Catholic man can become the pope, but it's 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:04.600 usually between like one hundred and fifty cardinals or something 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:05.960 that are under eighty years old. 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.440 Yeah, it makes sense to have him under eighty. There 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.960 has to be a caveat, doesn't there? Yes, we are 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.600 talking hall passes, and that is because it is no 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:17.040 secret on this show or anywhere in fact that for 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:19.560 years I have been saying that Jason Momoa was my 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:20.160 hall pass. 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:24.440 Well, hang on, no, you've been saying Jason Momo fair 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.040 since the day I met you six seven years ago. 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:30.480 Jason Momo was your hall pass until about twelve months ago. 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.720 It took a turn, yeah, and you decided you didn't 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:33.480 like him anymore. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:35.320 I've always referred to him as a man that you 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:37.839 could climb, and I just like, he's so far out 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.240 of the remit of any person I've ever dated. Like 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.040 he's not my quote unquote type. Don't get me wrong, 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.240 he doesn't look anything like my husband, Like I wouldn't 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:47.960 kick him out of a bed, But there's I just 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.640 find him fascinating. I just like I think ever since 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:52.640 the Game of Thrones that he was in what was 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:52.920 he in? 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.080 There was a well, he was in Baywatch. 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.480 No, he was in that series where it was like 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:00.720 this big warlord thing. I think it was Thrones the 0:04:00.760 --> 0:04:03.960 first season. Anyway, ever since then, I was like, oh, hello, 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.800 well turns out he's in town. That's what we're talking about, guys. 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:11.200 So Jason Momoa. He's currently the face of Newie ice Cream, 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:14.160 which I'm in great promotion for new I'd love to 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:15.640 know how much money they have to have him as 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:17.000 the number one ambassador. 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:17.839 But have a listen to this. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:21.560 He's currently in Queensland at the Crumban Wildlife Sanctuary. 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.240 Hello everyone, I'm Jason Momore and I'm at the Curumban 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:28.120 Wildlife Hospital. Did you know that koalas are now endangered? 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:28.440 Well? 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:32.120 Newie ice Cream are huge supporters of koala conservation and 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:33.920 so they flew me down here so they can meet 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.520 with amazing teams that are helping out with our choalers, 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.120 so we can have him for the next generation. Let's 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:38.840 go and check it out. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:41.400 So I thought I was off him, but now I'm 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:43.479 back on him because he's now he's here to save 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:44.120 the koalas. 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:44.880 Good for Jason. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.680 Oh that there is something about looking at that man 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.200 mountain holding that little koala and you're like, yeah, okay, 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:51.360 you're backing my good books. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.200 My question to you, though, it is Britt is like, 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:55.360 what are the rules around hall passes? Not because I 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:57.480 need to know them for myself. I think we're okay. 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:00.360 I don't think that my husband has anything to worryorry about. 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:01.920 But I wonder. 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:04.839 Is a hall pass, like if you joke about a 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.440 hall pass, Like, is it actually a real thing. Do 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:10.520 people have hall passes in their relationships that you would 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:14.039 allow your person to step outside like the monogamy of 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.640 your relationship to hook up with a celebrity or is 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:19.000 it only that we're okay with having hall passes because 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.440 they are completely unattainable. 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:24.080 Generally speaking, it's because you know that your partner is 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.479 never going to have the opportunity to do that, Like 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:30.120 it's so fantastical and so far away that you're like, yeah, sure, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:31.880 like if have that hole, if you ever have the 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.440 chance to look up go for gold. I think if 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:37.599 you were ever presented with the opportunity where your partner 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.719 was like, hey, Sydney Sweeney has hit me up and 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.039 has invited me to go to her house tonight, I 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:45.880 don't think many people would be actually letting them their partner. 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:49.640 But I think it's down to your relationship, Like plenty 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:50.960 of people would be okay with that. 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.000 I wouldn't. I wouldn't. 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:55.279 I think the thing is with a hall pass, it's 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.080 okay to like put out a hall pass that's a 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:02.839 ridiculously unattainable celebrit But I think with social media and Instagram, 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.839 the lines are being blurred these days, like there's like 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:10.000 really quite you know, quite social media famous people who 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:11.960 someone might have as their hall pass. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:13.760 But the thing is is like they live in the 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:14.479 same suburb. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.640 You might see them down at the beach, Like they're 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.680 not as unattainable as what you might think they are. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:22.479 And I guess like our perspective on what defines a 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:25.279 celebrity or someone with like social media presence or whatever 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.919 has shifted. So I think for me, I'm okay with 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:32.440 my husband having a hall pass that is someone who's 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:35.920 super super famous, like Hollywood famous. But Matt's always joked 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:37.880 that his hall pass is Sandra Sully and that feels 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:38.599 too closed to. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:42.760 That's yeah, no, especially because we come on and speak 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.960 to him in the jungle, Like, isn't Sandra Sally the 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:46.640 one that comes and checks in and reads the news 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.080 when you're in the arm of celebrity jungle? 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.000 Yeah, And I wish he was joking, but I actually 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:52.440 don't think he is. I really do think Sandra Sally 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:53.559 is my husband's hall pass. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.520 She's a babe. I get it. She's an absolute babe. 0:06:56.520 --> 0:07:02.159 But they've together. Yeah, that's weird. You've got to have rules. 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:05.640 I am for years. I'm not going to say who 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.200 it was. I had this one hall pass that was 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:12.080 like Hollywood. He was pretty big, is pretty big, and 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.600 I came across him on Raya, the dating app, so 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:16.920 I was single at the time, saw him. Still thought 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:18.760 it was like he was out of my league, but 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.560 it made me realize that he was single. So I 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:25.040 went to Instagram a couple of fireflames, slid into the dms, 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:27.280 and we got talking and we ended up like becoming 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:28.320 friends where. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:29.640 You had to just give a clue of what he 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:31.320 was off at least, like you don't have to say 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:31.920 who he is. 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.400 No, I'm absolutely. 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:38.480 Not No, I'm absolutely not okay, Sandra Sally. 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.240 I'm just giving you Sandra Sally okay. 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:45.240 But my point was this was like at the end 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:48.640 of COVID and he actually said, Hey, I'm filming something 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:52.360 in New Zealand, like like come hang out, we'll have 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.800 a date kind of thing. And I couldn't bloody get there. 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:57.200 I was so excited. I was like, yes, I am there, 0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:59.400 and then I couldn't get a flight. I could not 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.160 get the flight out of country, and I'm like, you 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:01.960 are kidding me. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.920 This is the opportunity to. 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.360 Tick off a whole path, something that you never think. 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:07.960 Is even in reach, and I couldn't do it. Okay, 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:09.360 I'm going to figure out who it is and I'll 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.120 tell you what ext. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:16.480 So I had this really beautiful conversation on the weekend 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.480 with my nan. And I don't get to see my 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:21.400 nan often. She lives in Portant Quarry. She's eighty seven. 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.320 She is on her own. She's been on her own 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:26.440 for many, many years, and she lives on her own 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:29.920 in a village like assisted living, but not you know, 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:33.319 it's not assisted. It's completely independent, like you live alone 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:36.400 in a house, but the house is amongst other houses. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:37.360 It's just like a suburb. 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:38.120 So it's a. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.600 Retirement village but you're in your own house. Yeah yeah, yeah, 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:41.079 yeah yeah. 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.559 It's a real community there. It's really nice. Got you. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:45.600 But I had this conversation with her. We were up 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:48.719 there for my mum's birthday. And makes me upside to 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.760 think about actually now that i'm thinking about it, but 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.199 maybe there's a message in this for you guys. Now, 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.160 if you're with your grandparents, or you have someone in 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:59.439 your life. I was asking her what is left on 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.840 her bucket lit and not that she's dying or anything, 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.360 but she'll often bring it up, like, hey, what do 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:04.840 you want of mind before I'm going to cark it 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:05.120 one day? 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:06.320 Like you know what joy do you want? 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.720 And I said, heynn, what's your what's on your bucket list? 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:12.400 Like I want to do something for you like you 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:14.000 tell me and I will tick it off for you. 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:17.920 I will make whatever you want happen. And I was 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:20.160 prepared for anything, right, like you know that's. 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.840 A fair balloon anything, take me to Morocco. 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:25.920 Now. Min Nan has raised four kids on her own 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:27.040 since she was twenty. 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:28.400 She has one arm. 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:31.120 She lost one arm to polio when she was twenty, 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:35.360 and she has just not had an easy life. She 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.480 didn't have a lot of family around. She was a teacher, 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:39.480 she is. She've only retired a couple of years ago. 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:41.680 She worked a really long time and. 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:44.240 I don't know what I was expecting. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:46.559 But she thought about it for a second and she said, 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.440 you know what, I don't have a bucket list, And 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.480 I said, well, let's make one. She thought about it again. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:54.920 She said, there is nothing that I would want to 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.320 do that I haven't already done, or that I'm not 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:58.200 doing right now. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:09:58.440 You know. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:09:59.120 She looked around. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.040 It was my mum's birth, so all the nieces and 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:05.880 nephews were there, like her great grandchildren, her children were there, 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:08.319 and we were there, so normal grandchildren, so every layer 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.199 she had, and she said, I've just done everything I 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:13.080 want to do, and everything that I want to do 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:15.400 left in life I can do right here, right now. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.480 And it was this moment where I was like, wow, like, 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.200 you have had it so hard, You've had nothing given 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:25.200 to you, you have faced so many challenges, and still 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:28.320 to this day you're not complaining and you are finding 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.880 such happiness in the little things. And it really made 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:34.800 me just think, maybe we just set these expectations so 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.400 high for ourselves and we're finding all these things for 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.880 like adrenaline, like we almost need to make ourselves feel 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.320 something instead of thinking of all these really little moments 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.000 that are the important moments in there every day. 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:47.360 I think there's something really beautiful in that around perspective, right, Like, 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:50.520 I mean, we're definitely we definitely subscribe to the hustle 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:53.480 culture or like what's the next thing the next success, 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.559 the next thing you're going to tick off. I mean, 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:57.880 I also think we're just the generation of lists in general. 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.440 But I think there's something beautiful in perspective of getting 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:04.000 to that age and being able to feel as though 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:05.160 all the. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:06.720 Things that you want in your life you already have. 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:09.079 What a beautiful place to be, rather than getting to 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:11.240 eighty seven and thinking I have so many things that 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.640 I want to do and haven't done and will never do, 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:14.640 like what you know. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:16.040 Yeah, And then the other thing. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.959 That she said was, and this is what makes me upset. 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.280 I guess that maybe life just passes us by. But 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:24.080 she said, thanks for asking me that. She's like, no 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.559 one will pray. She's like, no one really talks to 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:28.760 me about life anymore, and not. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:30.840 Like in a what's coming. 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.559 Yeah, She's like, it's just sometimes you think, like people 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:36.240 in your life have lived a whole life. She's eighty seven, 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:39.360 she's lived through pandemics, she's lived through alls, she has 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.439 one arm, she's you know, she's done so much. She's 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:45.679 survived polio, and there must be so much to talk about. 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:47.760 But sometimes I think you're a little forgotten. And I'm 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.920 not saying that my family forgets so absolutely not. They're 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.199 all so close. But it was just this moment where 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.040 she's like, yeah, think you know, like people don't ask 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:56.600 me about those things or reflections on my life or. 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:58.480 Yeah, so I don't know. 0:11:58.600 --> 0:11:59.559 I just thought it was like. 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:02.360 One of the really important pivotal moments where I was like, oh, 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:03.520 you know, I want to talk about this and I 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.360 want to remind people that if you have those people 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:07.680 in your life to have those conversations and find out 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.880 about you know, the most interesting people in the world 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:10.800 are people that have lived. 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:12.840 What did it do for you though, in terms of 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:14.880 perspective when you think, like all the things that you 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:16.480 want to do, or like the goals that you have 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:19.040 and everything else, did it change anything about how you 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:20.640 see the priorities in your life? 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:21.760 One hundred percent? 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.360 It definitely makes me think My priorities right now have 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:26.800 been very heavily. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.600 And for probably the last decade, have been work related. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:30.640 I've always been very career driven and it's been the 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:33.280 number one thing. And she did make me think that 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.000 career and work is only important if you're sharing it 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:39.360 with people or if you're you know, it's like a puzzle. 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:40.880 Your life is a jigsaw puzzle, and you need all 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.800 these things to go together, so as long as ones 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:46.440 not overtaking the other. So it's just one of those 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.000 food for thought perspective things where I thought, you know what, 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.160 I want everyone to think about it now and go 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:54.040 and ask your your parents or your grandparents, go and 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.040 ask them something about their life or something that you 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.360 really want to know, something you might regret if they 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.360 did leave this world and you never ask them. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.800 Yeah, that's the opposite to it, isn't it. Usually they're 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.640 all the questions that you want to ask. When they're 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.520 not around to ask anymore, or they're not able to 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:10.000 answer those questions anymore, that's when you really start thinking 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:10.439 about it. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:11.520 But it's really sweet. 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:11.880 I know. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.040 Sorry, I didn't expect to cry then. I really took 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:14.360 me over. 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:17.160 Now it is that time of year again where it 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.480 comes around where there is like the most common baby 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:22.640 names are twenty twenty five, but also the least common 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.880 baby names and the names that have dropped out of 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.800 the hot one hundred when it comes to naming your kids. 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:30.319 Is this something that people bookmark in their diary the 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.360 hottest one hundred baby names, like Christmas. 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:34.000 Comes, Easter comes the baby list name cars. 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:36.480 I've always cared about baby names. I was that kid 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:37.360 in school even. 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:38.559 Though I wasn't even sure if I was going to 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:40.880 have kids, but I always had like a list of names. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:41.080 That I liked. 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:42.800 I always thought I was going to have a girl 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:44.920 and I was going to name her a Kaisha. Wow, 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:46.679 I did that didn't happen. I did have a girl though, 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:49.440 Kaysha Acacia. Did you make that up? 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:51.000 Okay, No, it's to have tree. 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:54.640 Yeah, God, I you've left that one in the forest. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.400 I was about nine years old. 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:00.280 Marley, if we ever have another kid, my oldest order 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.480 she wants us to call it Genevieva. 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:04.880 I was like, that's not a real name. Feva. No, 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:05.800 I think it is a name. 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.439 I don't think Genevieva's in the Hottest one hundred, do 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:11.120 you know? All right, Well, look, we're not talking about 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:13.080 the names through at the top of the list. We're 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:16.160 talking about the very common baby names that dropped out 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.800 of the Hot one hundred for twenty twenty five. And 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:20.600 some of these I think will really surprise you because 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.800 some of these names I would have thought were still 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.280 very very common. 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:25.080 Now. 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.760 The name that has had the absolute biggest drop in 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.920 terms of boys' names is Owen. It experienced the biggest 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:35.400 drop in rankings, falling fifty places from ninety one to 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:37.840 number one hundred and forty one on this year's list. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.080 I don't think that's a bad thing, Owen. 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.200 Because that makes you not as common anymore. So on 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.400 this list of the nine the top nine names that 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.800 have fallen out of the top one hundred, three of 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:47.760 them are family names. 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:48.040 For me. 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:51.160 Michael, Owen, and Charles are all. 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:55.080 People in my family. They're all very traditional names. All right, 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:55.760 let's go through them. 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:57.720 So these here are the top nine that have fallen 0:14:57.720 --> 0:15:02.280 out for boys' names. Michael A I like ari Aris 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:04.080 called it can stay. Ari is a great name. 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.120 Didn't even know what's in the top one hundred. Olie 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:07.080 Olie's gone. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.760 Olie is Oliver saying no time to rest Ollie. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:10.800 Hamish. 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:12.840 Do you think it's because Hamish Blake is not on 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.360 the airways anymore and everyone was calling their kid Hamish 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:16.040 Blake for a period. 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:16.840 They're not Blake. 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:20.080 I don't know if we're gonna attest the top one 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.800 hundred names to attribute the top one hundred names to 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:23.320 Hamish Blake. 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:26.080 I absolutely think that Hamish would have been a popular 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:28.240 name for a while because people love Hamish Blake. 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:34.320 Okay, all right, we'll give him that. Owen out, Ruben out, 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:36.360 Ruben Sandwich. Never even heard of him, Ruben. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.440 I know three Rubens age three six. 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:44.040 Year old Rubens. Wow. Zachary out. Zachary Hanson was great, though. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.160 I understand why people like that name, the Hansons. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:50.520 Charles out. It's because of King Charles. Now, you can't 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:51.720 name your kid King Charles. 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:53.440 You can't August. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:58.080 I love August for a boy. Yeah, August has been 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.200 on my list, believe it or not. Baby names by fiance. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.400 Ben has vetoed it. He can't get over the fact 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:05.520 that it's a month. He's like, cool, why don't we 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:08.400 call it April? I said, also a name, Ben, also 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:08.880 a name. 0:16:08.960 --> 0:16:11.640