WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Blow job etiquette 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:04.680 were never seated. 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.600 We pay our respects to their elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.399 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:24.360 recorded on Drug wallamut Land. Hi, guys, and welcome back 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:26.480 to another episode of Live on Cut. I'm Laura and 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:26.920 I'm prody. 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.160 Sakisha feeling in for brit while she is in the jungle. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:33.440 Hasn't yet eaten a testicule. I'm very sad about it. Devastated. 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:36.560 She's been quiet, she's been reserved. The real Britney's coming. 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.400 I think she just doesn't want to come in there 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.280 and just like let it all hang out. You know. 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:41.600 That's like week two stuff. 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:44.320 Do you feel as though we overshare too much on 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:45.080 this podcast? 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.840 I feel like that's a rhetorical question because the answer 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:49.400 to that is so obviously yes. 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.680 But I'm not mad about it. But the answer is yes. 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:54.040 Well, the reason I ask is because last night on 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:55.840 I'm a Celebrity, Get Me out of Here. 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.440 I think it was Tristan who brought it up. 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:01.720 Essentially, he said he was pooh Shi and he mentioned 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:03.880 that he and his partner would never pooh in front 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:04.360 of each other. 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:05.640 Well, I have an admission. 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:06.480 I know. 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:08.360 I said I was gonna watch every single episode, but 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.840 we're episode three and I didn't watch last night because 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:12.160 very good reason. 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:13.840 I was out for my birthday. So you have to 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:14.680 tell me what happened. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:18.280 Tristan essentially ended up asking the entire crew in the 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:20.960 jungle like this question of do you pooh in front. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:24.360 Of your partner? And Ellie Cole brought up that the answer. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.360 To that question just gives you so much insight into 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:29.000 someone's relationship, and I tend to agree. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:30.759 I love that you're asking the deep and hard hitting 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:33.200 questions today on ask on cars so early? Is that 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:34.080 where we're at now? 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:36.880 Do you or do you not? I mean, you guys 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.240 all know that I don't care. We've spoken about that before. 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:40.080 Not that I don't. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:42.319 I'm not gonna like physically sit there and be like, hey, honey, 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.959 come in whilst I do a pooh. But like, if 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:45.800 Matt has to come in and get something, he'll just 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:48.000 walk in, open the door, walk straight in, get whatever 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:48.840 he needs, and walk out. 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:50.200 He won't even think about it. 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:52.320 And that doesn't raise it. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:58.320 Like I said, I'll say, get out, get out and 0:01:58.360 --> 0:02:00.800 fagn like I'm really offended, but I don't actually care. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.520 I do the obligatory like, oh, get out, and then 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:05.520 he does the same to me. But if I was 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:06.880 to actually stand in there and try and have a 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.720 chat to him, he'd be like, get out, okay, then 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:11.880 he'd answer my question. He's not He's not holding onto 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.840 the resentment of the fact that I'll walk in whilst 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.080 he's doing a pooh and vice versa. Doesn't touch the 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:19.080 sides of what exactly the ball of the human who knows. 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:21.760 I just feel like hearing that story makes my small 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:26.280 intestine kind of clench, like it's sucking it all back in. Potentially, Yeah, 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:29.640 I think I'm in this situation where my boyfriend and 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.880 I don't agree on this. I am very much a 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.600 no no privacy. When it's I don't mind a Wii, 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.000 that's fine, But as soon as it's more than that, 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:42.280 even if it's like possibly more than that, that's a 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.800 solo experience for me. He doesn't feel the same. He's 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:48.200 more than comfortable to have the door open. He doesn't 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.200 mind telling me about it. He talks about it all 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:51.600 the time, and frankly, it growses me up. 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:53.520 You guys have only just moved in together, so you 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:54.680 are on a downward spiral. 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.640 If you're already there, you're fucked. 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.240 That's what I'm getting from this, Like you are really 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.720 heading in a few weeks time. He's going to just 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.040 be doing it in the middle of the lounge room 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:06.680 because they should, don't the lad literally making eye contact 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:07.440 at the same time. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:09.600 That would send me to another planet. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.680 I've been an astral plane. 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:13.800 Just I don't know how you reach a happy medium 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.120 in this situation. I feel as though he is gradually 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:18.800 wearing me down, like he's trying to send the layers 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:22.440 down of me caring about this because he first moved 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:25.359 in together, I like kicked off about it, and now 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:28.200 I don't kick off, but I always I'm like, come. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.760 On, like, have some respects. See that's what I mean. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.560 You feign a bit of like you can stop, get out. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.720 It's not fainting. I'm just picking which battles I want 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:38.120 to fight. 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:40.960 Yeah, and I do want to fight that battle, but 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:43.160 I've had to fight it so many times and nothing's 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.920 changed that I'm kind of like, well. 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.560 Is this worth you know? How dare he disrespect you 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:47.880 like that? 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:52.280 Is this a fuck you? How dare he not listen 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:53.240 to your boundaries? 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.640 Okay, I mean we've spoken about I feel like it's 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:58.440 the conversation goes roun and so. Because we've spoken about 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.640 whether it's okay to fun friend your partners whatever, people 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:02.600 are very black and white, Pulling in front of your 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.440 partner is a whole other level that I think most 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:07.920 people don't achieve. But I agree with Ellie Cole. It 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.000 says a lot about your relationship. It says a lot 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.920 about your how comfortable you are with someone if you 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.840 can just duck into the bathroom, regardless of where they're 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:18.599 at in their bathroom experience, and go and get something. 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:20.280 I don't think that there's many people out there who 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.800 are intentionally doing it in front of each other. But 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.839 what I think is that for some people, it's not 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:29.960 a limitation of entering a room just to quickly do something. 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:30.640 Do you know what I mean? 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.360 Like if you're gonna quickly go and get something from 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.280 the bathroom, Like if I need deodorant, I'm gonna open 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:35.000 the door and go in and. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.000 Get it, and that would be like, oh, get out, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.240 And that's pretty much the extent of it, to be honest. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:41.920 I think he's really funny to like think about how 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:43.440 much our standards change. 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.560 Well, I've came by that in front of him, which 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:50.839 means that, like, you know, things have happened. That door 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:54.839 was already opened. Okay, so you know there's no coming 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.400 back from that. So whatever, it's only fair that he 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:59.960 does it in front of me too. I do think 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:01.760 that if these are the types of conversations that they're 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:04.840 already having in the jungle on night three, this is 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.000 an indication that people, like a group of people who 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:08.320 have spent too much time together. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.760 Social media gets such a bad rap. Everyone's like, we 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:12.480 spend too much time on our phone. This is what 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.320 happens when you don't have a phone. 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.080 Or a TV to watch it. Can you start asking 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.039 each other if you shit in front of each other? 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:18.600 That's true. 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:21.200 They're just bored. Yeah, anyway, we've spoken about this for 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:21.599 too long. 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:24.479 We have, We really have. I haven't admission to make. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.920 No one's going to care about this. It's not even admission. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.520 It's just I want to clear something up. Okay, if 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.040 you listen to the podcast in think it might have 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:34.680 been January, could have even been December or so long ago, 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:38.680 and we at some point went down a rabbit hole 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.960 about this thing on my arm. All right, your fung guy, 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:43.920 my fun guy that just comes around with me. And 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.520 Britt was like, yeah, that's a fungal infection. Three months, 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.359 three months, I've used fungal cream on this thing. Okay, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.600 three months the fungle cream did nothing. This is the 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:56.600 most like defungled part of anyone's body that's ever existed. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.080 I'm talking twice a day fungal cream, right, Just to 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:00.800 give a bit of a pitch, because you know, this 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:01.200 is an. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:04.520 It is everybody unless you're joining us on YouTube, which 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:07.880 right there, it kind of looks like a little bit 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.479 of discoloration just in patches, like just a couple patches. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.799 There's a few shades darker, which is different to most 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.279 of the fungal infections because usually they go white, don't 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:18.520 they They usually go lighter. 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:20.360 Well, I mean some people it grows darker as well, 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:20.600 I think. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.359 But like basically, there's a there's a fungal infection that 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:25.520 people get on their skin, which if you spend a 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:27.359 lot of time in the sun or in the ocean 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:31.000 or in chloring pools, it's more prevalent and it's called 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:35.400 tinya versicola. So anyway, Brittany, being the medical person that 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:37.799 she is, she was like, that's a fungal thing, Laura, 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.120 go and get some fungal crepit. Anyway, three fucking months 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.680 and me waiting to get into a dermatologist because the 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:47.240 lines for a dermatologist are unreasonably long. Unreasonably long, don't 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:51.160 even get me sounded about psychiatrists. So I wild, well, 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:53.560 I went yesterday and I sat down. I was like, guys, 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.240 like this fungus is just getting bigger and it's been 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:57.360 here for so long now. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:59.680 And she just looked at me and she was like, sweet, 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.919 it's not fungus. What is it? 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:06.840 It's just pigmentation because I'm getting old. So you've been 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:07.680 trying to treat it. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.320 You've been trying to treat something for three months and 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:13.200 it wasn't even what no wonder that it wasn't working. 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:14.320 Well, it's not even that. 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:16.440 It's just like, I just want to set the record straight. 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.160 Not that there's anything wrong with having a fungus, but 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.440 I don't have one. And I've been telling everyone that 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:22.320 I did and that I'm trying to get rid of it, 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.520 and nothing was working. And now I make it worse. 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:28.680 Well potentially because it is has been getting progressively worse, 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:31.720 but actually, no, it's not that anyone cares talking about oversharing. 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:33.120 It's a dermatitis thing. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:36.280 And then once it heals, the hyperpigmentation of it from 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.040 where it's healed, so it's like kind of tiny little 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:41.200 abrasions in the skin. And then once that has healed, 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.720 it makes the skin darker because it's like a reaction 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:47.600 to being traumatized, which is what I am. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.160 So thanks, Brittany. Thanks for nothing is what I had 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:50.480 to say. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:54.000 When the internal stress ends up coming out like external 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.720 in your bodytally starts breeding all over your arms. 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:58.280 Well, I'm glad you're getting that sortied. 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.040 Thank you. How was your experience of the dermatoegist fine. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.840 I also walked in and it was the most beautiful 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:04.760 medical office. 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:07.160 It had a view of the entire city. 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:09.760 The Harbor Bridge, all of BONDI like, I'm talking like 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:12.240 a three sixty view in this dermatologists office, and I 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:13.440 was like, oh, it makes sense now. 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:15.760 I was like, it makes sense. We're all in the 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:16.360 wrong job. 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.720 Three months to get in here, and this is what 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:20.200 you guys like living in a palace. 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.200 No wonder dermatologists have a little bit of a reputation 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.320 of being a little bit batty, do they. 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.960 Yeah, I'm so sorry to all the dermatologists listening to this. 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.480 You also deserve to have that view. You study very hard. 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:33.720 It's kind of there are certain personality traits that different 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.720 specialties of doctors seem to have. Like it's a stereotype, 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:39.080 but stereotypes exist for a reason. A lot of the time, 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:41.840 my dermatologist absolutely love. 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:42.800 Her a little bit crazy. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:46.680 But also this is like cardiothoracic surgeons narcissists. 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:49.520 Yes, surgery in particular a little bit of a god 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:52.200 complex narcissism kind of element to it. 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:54.679 Sorry to unprofile you all, and to all of the 0:08:54.920 --> 0:09:00.640 dermatologists and cardiothracic surgeons who listened to this podcast. Also 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:04.000 they're not listening to Life on caut We're two bass anyway, 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:06.160 all right, guys, we're here to answer all you're deep, 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.280 you're dark, and you're burning questions today. But before we 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:10.840 do that, I wanted to remind you guys, if you 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.640 haven't seen it yet, yesterday we released an episode with 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:16.720 tones and I and I know I often say like 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.200 this is one of my favorite episodes. But I genuinely 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:21.960 think that this episode that we released yesterday is one 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:23.920 of the best ones that we have done this year. 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:25.880 It is possibly one of the best ones we have 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:28.680 ever done. And the reason for that is because so 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:31.720 tones and I has never she has never ever, ever. 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.280 Done a long form interview before. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.440 She's only ever done like short sporading interviews with radio 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.959 and with media where you get like little bite side 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:42.120 sound grabs talking about her music. This is the first 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:46.440 time she's ever opened up around what she experienced in 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.920 her coming to fame, how the media treated her, the 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.560 reasons why she has turned her back on doing any 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.559 sort of long form interviews and talking about herself. 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.439 But she also talks so openly. 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:01.920 About her childhood, why she got into music, her relationships. 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:07.720 And it was an incredible interview, Like she had everybody 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.680 in the room in tears at one point. And I 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:13.640 just think for someone who has been so incredibly successful, 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:17.600 I mean, dance Monkey is one of the most downloaded songs, Like, 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:19.200 I mean, how many billion streams. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.400 She was the first female artist to reach three billion 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:25.400 streams on Spotify and it's been streamed over ten billion 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:26.080 times now. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:27.840 And this is the thing she says, She's like, Okay, 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.360 so that you understand the magnitude of what Tones and 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.680 I achieved with Dance Monkey, And she says it in 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:35.880 the interview, nobody has ever done that. And I'm talking like, 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:39.120 you're Taylor Swifts, You're Beyonces, your Ariana Grande is like 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:43.240 some of the biggest celebrities, musical celebrities have not achieved 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.760 what she achieved with that song. And she talks about 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.880 like how that's impacted her, how that's like changed the 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:52.480 trajectory of her career, but also so much about her 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:56.400 vulnerability came from her talking about not looking the way 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:59.599 in which society perceives a pop star to look or 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:03.280 to be, and how she has been so deeply ridiculed 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:04.240 for that throughout her career. 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:06.160 Yeah, Laurie, you're not alone in saying that. 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:09.640 We've got so many comments in the Facebook group on Instagram, 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.719 We're getting a lot of messages people just saying, oh 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:13.560 my god, I just loved this chat. 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:17.080 She just embodies authenticity. I think she's awesome. I really 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.520 like this new version of her that we're getting to see. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.640 Also, when she's sort of like, I never really wanted 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:23.560 to tell my story before and then she just comes 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.640 out of the gates telling her entire story. 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:27.240 We were so blown away. 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.000 But that came off the back of she came to 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:32.280 the live shows in Melbourne, and it was so serendipitous 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:33.839 how that all happened, Like if you guys came to 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.120 the live show, you would know. But for anyone who 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:38.719 wasn't there in Melbourne that night, we were supposed to 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:40.839 have Flex Mummy come and be part of the show, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.800 and very last minute she canceled due to her own 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:46.040 personal reasons because she had things going on, and we 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.120 were like panic stations at that point in time. Britta 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.680 and I were like, fuck, fuck, we've had it, Like 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:52.160 how are we going to feel this space? 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:53.360 What are we gonna do now? 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:56.480 Especially because we've been pre promoting what the chats we're 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.640 gonna be. And then because of a relationship that Mitch 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.400 Chure has with Tones and I, he sends his text 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:04.080 message this one day and this is like the day 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.120 before and he was like, I think I might have 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.720 Tones she might want to come and do a chat 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:12.719 on stage, And we were so unsure whether it was 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:14.600 actually going to come into fruition, Like we had no 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:16.520 idea whether she was going to even come and be 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.800 there backstage, and then lo and behold the night of 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:22.240 we get there and then in the green room she's 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.880 just sitting there with all of her people, pop and champagne, 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.080 and we were like, Okay, this is happening. It was 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:30.400 the surrealest thing, and you know, in terms, she just 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:33.480 did it purely because of a friendship with Mitch. And 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:35.480 then we have been so lucky to build a friendship 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:37.360 with her as well and be having these kind of 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.160 ongoing conversations and it was just like sitting down for 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:41.120 a chat with a good friend. 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:43.240 I think the most special thing about that, and the 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.359 reason that she has a friendship with Mitch. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.959 Is because of how badly she was treated. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.679 By the media, and you know, people just made up 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.079 stories about her because she didn't want to rebut them. 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:55.960 She didn't want to involve herself because she had some 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.400 self esteem issues and I wouldn't even. 0:12:58.240 --> 0:12:59.600 Say issues like they were kind of. 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:00.520 Forced upon her. 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:03.040 And I think it's really beautiful she came to that 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:07.200 live show because she met Mitch through radio, loved Tim, 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:11.040 trusts him, and then trusted you guys. And I could 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.920 tell from listening to that interviewers in the room. There 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:16.120 was such an element that she felt with you and 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.199 Britt was a safe space to share and with our 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:21.719 audience as well. Like she received so much feedback from 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.720 the live show in Melbourne that she was like, oh, these. 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:25.240 People get it. 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:27.040 Oh yeah, she said, you're all a cult and I'm 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.400 here for it, a little life uncut cult. But anyway, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.360 go and listen to that. It's out now, it's yeah, 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:39.559 it was yesterday's episode and it's fucking amazing. Yeah subscribed, Yes, okay, 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:42.240 I have a vibe full transparency. It is a brand 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.240 that I'm currently working with. So I'm currently working with 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:48.479 Target and we are across the podcast. But even more transparency. 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:50.840 When they came on board as a sponsor, it had 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.960 been a long time since I had walked through and 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.400 I will get home works from Target, I will get 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:59.479 bits and pieces from there, but neba ebba, had I walked. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.360 Through the clothing sect of Target, I'll get things for 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:01.839 the kids. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:03.600 I would never have looked for myself. 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:06.480 But in this instance, there was like the recommendation that 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.199 I should just go and have a look online and 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:09.400 see what I could find myself. 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:11.680 Let me tell you, okay, I'm wearing it. Right now. 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.520 If you're watching YouTube, you'll see it. But if you're not, 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.040 then you won't care. But they had this like Skims 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:20.080 ripoff range. They have a body like a crop top, 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:21.560 I don't know what you call it, a boot chewed top, 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.000 which I'm wearing today. They also have a body suit 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:27.800 and it's this like very soft buttery material. They're so 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.520 cheap and I now have them in every color that 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:32.960 they come in and every style that they come in, 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:35.560 the boot tube and also the full body, and they 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:38.840 are amazing. They are my recommendations. They are like the 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.320 little gold dust that I found at. 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:41.000 The bottom of the pans. 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:44.400 So that's my recommendation if you are into or wanting 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:46.480 like a very good body suit that looks great under 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:48.040 jeans that you can style it casually. 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:49.440 Amazing. 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:52.160 I can second this recommendation because I actually have the 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:54.600 dress version and it's very soft and it's very nice, 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.560 and I saw it trending on TikTok as like a 0:14:56.960 --> 0:15:00.480 genuine replica of the Skims one, except it was I 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:02.280 think it was less than a third of the price. 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:06.360 So with you on those my recommendation for the week, 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:08.320 I'm back on my Woo Woo bullshit. 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:09.680 Okay, we I'm here for it. 0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:10.720 I'm really enjoying it. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.720 I got this recommendation from the Facebook group, the Life 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:16.720 on Cut discussion group is where I get every recommendation from. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.160 It's called a shak Ti mat. Okay, oh, not here 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:24.200 for it. They say it's based off of. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:27.560 The ancient wisdoms from India and it's all to do 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:31.000 with acupressure. Do you remember seeing like pictures of nail beds, 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:35.240 like the wooden planks with native stick up right and people. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:38.080 It's kind of like the og accupuncture before they knew 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:40.760 how to make it specific. These shacked ti mats are 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:45.480 like a I guess they're like a plastic spiked mat 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.000 and the idea is that you lay on it and 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.280 you're supposed to lay on it for like ten minutes. 0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:53.840 It sounds like literal torture. Well this is the thing, okay. 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.800 So they say it like increases circulation, it can improve 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:58.400 your sleep, which I'm obsessed with obviously. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:01.680 So I was like, okay, I'm gonna give this a go. 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:05.400 And years and years and years ago, I was diagnosed 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:09.600 with anxiety. Last October I was diagnosed with ADHD. I'm 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:13.040 now medicated for both of those things, and I'm also 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:16.640 trying to work on things that are just not medicinal, 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:18.720 Like I'm really trying to do this from a multi 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:22.240 pronged approach. Right, So, I've been talking about my ice 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.080 baths and shacked imats to me kind of fall into 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:28.640 the same category where I'm trying to train my brain 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.800 that when I'm in uncomfortable situations. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:33.160 I can handle it. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:35.480 I'm trying to kind of increase my mental resilience in 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:38.040 an effort to reduce my anxiety or how I like 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.600 react when I feel anxious in a normal environment. 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:41.840 Right. 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.360 You know, the idea is that if I'm in a 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:48.480 situation that's uncomfortable, I can sit in that discomfort and 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:50.200 I can kind of like work my way through it. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:52.400