WEBVTT - Is Ghosting The Kindest Thing To Do? 👻 😱 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:07.240 The Flex and Rooms Daily Podcast. Welcome to the podcast. 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:10.320 Qts Q TETs CURLYESKOLQ. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:15.720 What'd you said before pigged piget but it's good? No, 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:19.759 it was a it was a miss a misspoke. Yeah, 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:21.599 we got a lot of those in the show. I don't, 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:22.119 I don't. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:27.680 I'm nagging us. It's not a good vibe, is it. No, 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:30.000 it's the year of positivity. What is the what's the 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:30.760 animal this year? 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:31.840 Don't check. 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:35.280 I think it's a rat. Anyone know in the room? 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:39.800 I'm checking five brains in this room. Twenty twenty two 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.839 year of tiger. 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:45.640 Oh, I feel like that doesn't mean much. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:49.159 Press about that. That's an exciting year. AnyWho shall we 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:49.680 tuck in? 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:53.080 Yeah, Flex and Rooms, I've got a fact for you 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:56.440 right at the top, and that is that in America 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:59.040 bimbo means something different. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:03.880 Then in Australia, bimbo. What do you think? That's silly person, 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.440 unintelligent person? Yeah? 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:09.319 I would say it's on purpose unintelligent. 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:13.319 Do you think that's what a bimbo is? Yeah, bimbo 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.840 is really the smartest of all people. Yeah, But in 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:20.480 the general sense, the phrase bimbo is not a compliment 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:22.520 it's a silly person. 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.039 Well, I'd love to be a bimbo. That's why we're 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.360 in this dress. It's bimbo dressed. Did you know though, 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:30.200 in America, Yeah, bimbo refers to a. 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.560 Brand of bread. Really. 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:36.160 Yeah, in America, just white slice. Yeah, it's just the whitest, 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.720 sugariest loaf. Oh, sugar tip top is quaking. 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.639 Oh, that's quite cute. Yeah, it's cute. Yeah, it definitely 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:46.040 looks like bread. That's it's preservative based. It definitely wasn't 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:49.920 baked fresh yesterday. It's been in that plastic rap for 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:52.280 the last six years and you wouldn't even know it's 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:56.000 giving Lilian Yeah, preservative based, embalmed from the inside out. 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:59.560 Never had a fresh ingredient in her life. Flex and frooms. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:06.200 When the last time you've had your feelings hurt, like 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:09.360 two weeks ago. Have you ever had your heart broken? 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:09.919 Yes? 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:11.920 You have? You had your heart broken? 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:12.200 Yeah? 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:15.040 Have you? Yeah? But I don't think somebody did it 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:15.320 to me. 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:20.200 I have had that feeling where it's like been ripped 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:21.079 out of your chest. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:25.519 Oh no, yeah, it was visceral. No, I was seventeen, 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:29.440 so of course it was. Oh I feel really bad. Well, 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:33.880 can I tell you something moving on? It was seventeen. 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.520 You didn't happen last week for you, You'll be right. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:39.960 So I was doing some googles, as I do, and 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:42.520 I came across a fact and it did come from 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:45.520 a dot org website, so one might say it is 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:54.119 completely factual. It is possible to die from a broken heart. 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.040 And from what you're describing when you were seventeen, you 0:02:57.080 --> 0:03:01.240 were you know three, bad experience is away from something 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:04.600 that could not be reversed. Here's the thing. So it's 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:11.440 called broken heart syndrome or stress cardiomyopathy, and it occurs 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:15.480 when a person experiences sudden acute stress that can rapidly 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:18.200 weaken the heart muscle. So from what I'm imagining, it's 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.160 like you get really stressed out, heart palpitation start your 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.240 heart's working overtime and the way it hasn't before, it's 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:26.120 not trained for that kind of you know output, and 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.800 then so it starts to weaken, not strengthen them. Before 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:32.280 you know it a slight little thing, you're out, You've skeated. 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:37.520 And it's really sad though, because I did actually see 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:41.520 on TikTok recently. Unrelated but kind of related no, completely related. 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:43.960 This girl was doing a little like selfie motor camera 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.280 thing and being like, oh my goodness, I feel really terrible, 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:49.560 Like my heart hurts, I feel super dizzy. I got 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:53.080 chest pains, I can't breathe. People like, is it COVID, 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.400 Just like, no, it's not COVID. I've taken a test. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:59.640 She went to the emergency room broken heart syndrome, and 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.560 she was I'm so embarrassed as well, because she was like, 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:05.440 I cannot explain to you the pain that I have felt. 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.400 If I knew it was from a broken heart, I 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:11.600 would not have come here. So fun fact, give yourself 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:13.480 some credit if it's taken you a long time to 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:17.160 get over that person who broke your heart, because not 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:19.960 only did they break your heart, they almost killed you. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.920 And they yeah, they could be watching this anyway. 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:29.159 Anyway, this is flex and Frooms on kit. We're going 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:31.000 to settle in for what I'd like to call a 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:34.960 very modern debate. Yes, two types of people, or we 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:40.240 take the Internet's most silly debates and we decide what 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:44.720 is the most what's the best opinion? Yeah, I like that, 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.440 what is the best opinion? All right, firms, According to 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.479 the Internet, there are two types of people, Yes, those 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:55.160 who think it's completely sound and fine to wear underwear 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:59.800 when they leave the house, and those who are unsanct 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:03.520 mominiously against it. Which can't do you lie in please 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:06.640 reveal I don't wear underwear. I don't believe that. I don't. 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.680 I don't believe that. Why because this is a meshress 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:14.400 and I wasn't looking, but I know I saw lace. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:17.840 Well, let me stop you right there in a work 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:21.840 setting where I'm wearing something mesh, I'm wearing underpants, not 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.359 for myself but for you. I don't want to be sued. 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.440 I have public liability insurance, but it's not for that much. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:29.960 So yeah, I don't wear undies. 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:32.719 I'm now thinking about the different fabrics that one would 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:37.240 wear from the waist down. I'm thinking DENI. Denim is 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:42.240 really rough. I'm thinking cotton sweatpants that's very absorbent. It's 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:45.720 very absorbent. I'm also thinking, do you get more than 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:48.360 one wear out of your pants? For example, with these 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:51.200 pants that I'm wearing today, They've got another day in them. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:55.560 You know, if you're going straight from crotch to pant crutch, 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.400 from human crutch to fabric crotch. You don't have more 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:03.800 than a couple hours these grooves, these grooves be picking up. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:06.640 This is not a question of hygiene, It's about practicality. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:08.680 Do you know what now I I'm thinking about it. 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:11.800 I don't wear bras. No, are you right now not 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:12.320 wearing a bra? 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:13.080 Really? 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.320 Maybe that's the same conversation we're having. 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:20.000 See, not wearing a bra is crazy to me. I've 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:22.360 got a bra, I've got a top supporting that bra. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:23.479 I'm wearing something tight. 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:30.000 Keep them in. Shut it. This conversation needs to go 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.000 deeper because it's not just about do you or do 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.760 you not wear underwear in the daytime. This needs to 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:40.159 transition into nighttime because I feel as though there's going 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:43.120 to be more in for contention. I will say, there's 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:44.560 only one correct answer. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.039 Who is wearing a full brief in this time? 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:50.960 Look? Literally, every day I'm giving the girlies a black, 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:55.520 high waisted full cotton brief, no variation, no variation. Okay, 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.640 I'm a one trick pony. Through me is a commando girlie. 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:02.000 But in the context of the office, for the benefit 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:05.040 of us, her colleagues, she has decided that she will 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:09.120 in fact wrap up. I'll wrap it up. Outside of 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:14.520 the context of work, she is free, free agent. Here's 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.680 the thing, though, what about for bedtime? Because I've been 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.880 in argument to four and I will call them arguments 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:23.040 about people who are vehemently against wearing socks in bed. 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:26.560 I'm a big sock girlie. It's good for warmth. Don't 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:28.040 look at me like that. I want to talk about it. 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:31.600 I'm pro socks. I've got bedtime socks there on. Underwear 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:32.480 for bed, yes or no? 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:33.239 Nah? 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:38.400 Yes, that's ridiculous. What that is ridiculous? Underwear in bed 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.240 is a no. You need to breathe. This is my 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.960 thought pattern. Okay, I'm closing my eyes so I can 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:44.480 hear clearer. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:48.520 I like a challenge and I like change in my life. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.000 I get up, I'm wearing a skirt. Of course, I'm 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:54.200 not gonna wear underpants. I need to keep it interesting. However, Yes, 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:57.120 when I go to sleep, I go to wi I 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:59.440 don't like using that much toilet paper at night. 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:01.200 Can you drift ry? 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:04.640 No? 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:05.240 You know what it is. 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.320 It's just that I wait and then I get up, 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:08.640 and then I feel like there's more way. Like that 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:09.760 happens a lot of the time. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:13.760 Do you get that No, it never. 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:17.000 Feels like it's fully out, so they wear underpants just 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:18.520 in case that a little bit comes out. 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:20.760 I don't want to get up again. Well, this is 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:26.880 a bladder problem, not a leakage problem. It's a brain problem. 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:28.120 You know we're ondies. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:32.320 No, but I won't disclose who said it to us, 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:36.120 but it is someone who works in close proximity mentioned 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:39.640 that their reason for wrapping up at night is a 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:44.079 fear of bugs entering them through the place that must 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.080 not be entered by bugs. I think that's really important 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.320 because they do say statistically like we're eating bugs and 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:52.160 spiders all night. But that being said, two types of people, 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:56.199 those who understand that underwear is meant to be worn 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.560 outside and not inside, and those who don't. 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:04.040 Happy to supporting my side, no undies and strapping it 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:07.400 all in for debt strapping in Why are you saying. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:12.000 That this is flex and frooms on Kada. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:15.120 Last weekend, I was at a venue in Sydney with 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:15.840 a new friend. 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:20.000 Okay, you're a cop. I was at a venue in Sydney. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:24.360 Is that an alibi? It was the story? 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:26.800 Well, we were sitting down having a drink and I 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:28.360 know her purely through Instagram. 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:31.560 Oh yeah, her Instagram name is Juicy Romance. She's an DJ. 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:33.319 Do you want to admit this? 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:37.840 Yeah, happily, great Juicy Romance. We're sitting down and having 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:39.960 a wine together. We've never hung out one on one. 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.000 This is a new thing. And two of my friends 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:46.120 came to meet up with us, who were both called 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:51.320 Jordan and Jordan, which was Jordan's and she goes off 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.520 to the bathroom and I say, Jordan's Oh my god, 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.760 I'm in a bit of a pickle. I don't know 0:09:55.880 --> 0:10:00.240 Juicy's actual name. I say to Jordan one, you got 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.640 to ask her her name. She comes back to the table. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.640 He's freaking out. He doesn't know how to do it, 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:07.920 like introduce himself, how to be like, oh, what was 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:08.280 your name? 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:08.520 Again? 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:10.160 Like he's just too awkward to do it. Have the 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.479 introductions happened already, yes. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:15.920 But no names were given forward? Oh okay, yeah yeah. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:20.000 Later on, a few drinks in my inhibitions leave me 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.800 violently and I go, point blank, what's your name? 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:29.800 You said that? Yeah? Have you no shame? Have you 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:30.760 no shame? 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:34.240 I get it all the time. People always don't know 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:34.960 what my name is. 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:40.520 Of course, they wouldn't You don't claim Lucinda, They're not 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.959 meant to know that? And frooms is your name? True? 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.520 Do you get that a lot? Flex? Mummy? If he 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:48.079 will say flex but everyone calls me flex? What do 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:52.679 your friends call you? Which ones like Sally? The friends 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:55.880 I've known forever I don't, but only have a few 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.160 small friends I've known forever. They'll call me lil, but 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.000 everyone else calls me flex because it is more than 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:04.400 an Instagram name, though it's a DJ name first true. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.600 Well, that's the same with my friend Juicy, So I 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.680 guess it's okay that I called her Juicy absolutely you 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:15.240 know what her actual name is, Gwenavie similar vibe Finola 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:23.480 fi n n o u la Fanola fol never heard 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:27.160 of it before? Where is that from Ireland? 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.200 Panola? So? How was I? 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:30.640 Like? 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.120 You say? How was I meant to? Like? There weren't 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:35.680 ten other things you could have done? The most obvious 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:40.400 one is what I call the Flex special Because here's 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.319 the thing. I used to think I was really good 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:46.040 at remembering names and faces until I recognize the sheer 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:49.160 volume people that I meet casually that I'm not putting 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.040 any weight on that interaction. But they might be. So 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:55.400 what I would do in that situation is make them 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:58.680 introduce each other. So the Jordans come, I know what 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.280 the Jordan's names are. I don't know if Nola's name. 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.800 They're like, oh, my god. And then you cross your 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.719 arms together in front of you, and then you say, oh, 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.280 meet each other. Do you have you guys met? Have 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:13.679 you guys met? They haven't met. I know this. Then 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.400 they'd introduce each other. Yeah. I mean, you have to 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:19.320 take the emphasis off you. If there was a spotlight 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.120 that was pointing on you in that moment to say 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:23.120 you should know that person's name, you need to pan 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:26.720 that spotlight to the other people. Cast it away, Cast 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:30.720 it away. You're listening to flex and frooms on Kada. 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:34.400 There's still nonsense to come in the form of one 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:38.200 of my favorite games. Mostly sometimes it's called stilling rivalries. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.440 As you know, we like to debate here, and we 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:46.400 also like to debate silly things, things that have really 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.120 no reason to be talked about for more than two minutes. 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:51.720 All right, no real debates, no real debates, absolutely not. 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:56.280 Everything needs to be semi fictional or semi silly. But 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.520 I'm watching you chew this eminem, and I wish you 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.160 just wouldn't have had it. Okay, I'm wishing you would 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:07.000 have just seen the eminem. We have this huge jar 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:11.480 of lollies, right and Froom's waits till literally seven seconds 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:14.920 before we have to speak to put this giant eminem 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:18.120 in her mouth. And then she goes between chewing and 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:20.760 trying to talk at me. One eye is squinting because 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:25.280 she's trying to chew silently. N your teeth the turning blue. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:30.760 Actually they are the whole tongue miscellaneous brown and blue. 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:35.480 But I digress. Sibling rivalries. We take to a to 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:41.360 east eight elis celebrities who also happen to be siblings, obviously, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.280 and we decide which one is the better one. The 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:49.760 only caveat is you can't use anything that's like actually viable, 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:53.520 Like you can't say this one's better because they're more popular. 0:13:53.559 --> 0:14:00.559 That's lamb. Today's siblings are ooh, ooh, it's in ell ell. 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:12.480 Literally so gross, like a little piece of blueshell ludged 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:17.600 in my throat. No, today's siblings are Jaden and Willow Smith. 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:19.280 Wild card. It's a wild card. 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:21.400 Yeah, and no, I didn't choose them because of will 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:23.479 Smith's on stage Oscar antics. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:28.400 I'm not interested in that. Okay, what's done is done. Great. Today, 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.360 I'm going into about. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.120 For Jayden, who is the older of the twins. Of 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.240 the siblings, they're not twins. I always thought he was 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:35.840 a younger one. 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:39.280 Yeah, I can see that him. 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.800 Here are some reasons why Jaden Smith is the better 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:47.840 sibling than Willow Smithy. Jaden Smith doesn't try and have 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:52.200 a Beyonce moment. What is that Willow? I don't see 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:53.960 Smith on the end of Willow. All I see is 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.960 Willow in capitals on Spotify. That's a bit of an ego. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.960 Jaden definitely calls himself Jayden. I know this is met 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.520 I'm not meant to interject at this moment, but I cannot. 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:06.880 Jaden absolutely calls himself Jayden. I don't know about that. 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.160 Should we fact check? Not right now? 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:12.320 Great, because this is sibling rivalries where nothing means anything. 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:16.080 Jaden also is more of a vibe because he was 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:19.359 will Smith's young son in the movie Pursuit of Happiness. 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.160 That might seem like a real fact, but when you 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:25.240 consider the Pursuit of Happiness is actually incorrectly spelt. 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:27.800 Yeah, why is that. Do you know what I'm trying. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:31.200 It's spelled ha py ness. Yeah. 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:34.040 Why I go to that movie and I can't get 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.120 out of my head? Why did they spell it happiness. 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.240 Let me tell you a bit more about Jaden and 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:41.480 then we'll throw it at the break. Jaden Smith cares 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:44.360 about the environment. He brought out the bottled water. 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:46.200 That's a good one. Yeah, that's a really good what 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:49.880 was it called clean water something? Again, with Google, you 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.120 could have just googled that one, and yet and yet 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:52.520 you didn't. 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.160 He wants to help the environment, and that's why I 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.760 think Jaden Smith is the best of all Smith's, and 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.920 perhaps the best Smith in total. To pink it will 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:02.720 Willow yep them. 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.760 Out of the picture. I'm all for Jaden Smith. And 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:08.720 the thing is I like Willow Smith. I do, and 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:10.960 that is the reason why I'm finding it difficult to 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:13.560 argue on her behalf the case just isn't there for me. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.640 The only thing I can tell you that it's going 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:21.840 to elevate her miles above Jaden is the fact that 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:27.800 she was born on Halloween. Well, yeah, it's a big one. 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.400 And here's the thing. I use these little fingers of 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.440 mine to type into Google what does it mean to 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:36.320 be born on Halloween? Because surely there's like some kind 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:39.640 of cultural significance. Are you a spooky person by nature? 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.400 Are you psychic? Are you a witch because you're born 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:45.880 on Halloween? What does it actually mean? To my surprise, nothing, 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:50.200 not even like a rogue blog post about how Halloween 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:55.160 babies were born to No. Nothing, ah. So then I 0:16:55.200 --> 0:17:01.000 typed in fun facts about Willow Smith at the bottom 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:03.880 of the damn barrel. Nothing. All I read was that 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:07.080 she was actually mad at her parents for that whip 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:09.760 my Hair thing. And when I say whip my hair thing, 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:13.120 I mean the fact that that became a global sensation, 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:17.200 that song. And she said her dad, in particular will 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:19.880 was really harsh on her to make it a thing. 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:22.359 And she said that it took her years to forgive 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.919 him because she felt that he was more concerned with 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:29.040 her being famous and riding out that wave than her 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.000 passion for music, which is why she made the song 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:32.960 to begin with savage. 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:35.040 It's a banger, though it's a good one. 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:38.360 She did it, but she was ten ten years old. 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:42.840 It's giving Jojo siwah a little bit. Yeah, And so 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:45.920 it's not very often that I'll admit defeat early on, 0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:48.560 but I think it would be best to me to 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.200 say that you won that round your first time ever. 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:57.040 I am an underdog, yeah, absolutely, like my boy Jaye 0:17:57.080 --> 0:17:58.040 and Smith God bless. 0:17:58.119 --> 0:17:59.639 I will say that water thing though, if I can 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:05.120 just but I don't think Jaden's is making water because 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:10.600 he gets about the environment alleged. Alleged. I will say 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:20.040 that any celebrity parent who gives their children businesses to 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:24.520 be the face of before they even adults is not 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:28.320 doing it for the environment. Yeah, speaking territory, and I 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:30.560 did do some research a couple of months ago that 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:33.400 said water is going to be one of the most 0:18:33.440 --> 0:18:37.080 profitable sectors to work in because it's going to start 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:40.400 getting privatized. Nah. I don't want to do conspiracies. I'm 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:41.639 not going to do it. I'm want to rain it in. 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:47.520 You didn't hear from me me flex And for the 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:51.680 last couple of days now, we've had, I would say, 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.320 too many conversations about dating and we don't plan on 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:58.359 stopping now. Why it's too good. The content rights itself, Babe, 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:02.560 The content rights itself. The amount of dilemmas we've received 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:08.240 and also given really good advice on countless cannot be counted, 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:11.920 but can be applauded, and you can send your compliments 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:14.160 and well wishes to cater to a you're on Instagram. 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:19.439 But I digress. I've done some thinking and I've come 0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:22.240 to a conclusion yes, that I would like to share 0:19:22.359 --> 0:19:25.160 and if anybody wants to also share this, they can 0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:32.800 credit me flex I hand on heart truly believe that 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:37.359 in the realm of dating, ghosting when you're not interested 0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:40.119 in someone could be one of the kindest things you 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:43.919 could do to them. Should I elaborate or would you 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:44.880 like to say something? 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:49.000 I would like to formally interject to say incorrect? Great, 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:51.040 that's all I'll say for now. 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:54.639 Here's the thing, and don't get me started, because they 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:57.080 do love a debate. I've been thinking about the phrase 0:19:57.119 --> 0:20:00.920 honesty is the best policy. What do they call that? Cliche? 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:01.040 Yeah? 0:20:01.080 --> 0:20:04.640 And the thing about cliches is sometimes they're rooted in truth. However, 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:08.240 sometimes they've just been said so often that we think 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:11.760 that they're truthful. I used to be more of an 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:14.560 honest person, and I found that I was just hurting 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:19.560 people's feelings because sometimes honesty just absolves you from your 0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:22.840 responsibility of stuff and gives people a bunch of baggage 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:26.000 they didn't really need. Let me paint a picture for you. 0:20:26.040 --> 0:20:28.520 Two people go on a date. Yeah, they go on 0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:33.320 this date with the subtext that there is romantic potential here. 0:20:33.760 --> 0:20:36.040 I think you're cute, you think I'm cute. We don't 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:38.320 know each other that Well, let's go on a date 0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:42.720 explore it? Shall we? We go on said date? The 0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:46.719 vibes off, The vibes are not great. If we cast 0:20:46.960 --> 0:20:50.520 our mind back to was it yesterday's episode? Twopisodes ago, 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:53.760 we talked about Alan and Ali. Ali is the disgusting 0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:57.199 spaghetti eater, and Alan texted in to say that he 0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:58.719 didn't know what to do, didn't know what to do 0:20:58.760 --> 0:21:01.520 about it. It was grossing him out. That's an incompatibility 0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:04.480 he wouldn't have known about by looking at her hinge profile. 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:06.960 Am I right? Or am I right? You're right? I'm right. 0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:10.280 So here's the thing. If after this date you go 0:21:10.359 --> 0:21:13.000 on and you don't vibe with the person for reasons 0:21:13.000 --> 0:21:16.600 that they can't control, is it fair to give them 0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:20.520 the baggage of another insecurity. Let's say they move their 0:21:20.560 --> 0:21:24.080 mouth funny when they laugh. I've been there. You have yep. 0:21:24.320 --> 0:21:26.720 Really, I've been on both ends, so I can confidently 0:21:26.720 --> 0:21:27.680 say yes, great. 0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:30.800 Or let's say they told a story about their euro 0:21:30.840 --> 0:21:33.520 Tripe and you're like, this person is a weirdo. You 0:21:33.560 --> 0:21:36.600 couldn't have anticipated that beforehand, but to now tell them 0:21:36.600 --> 0:21:41.960 that it's mean. So instead of horrifying them with extra 0:21:42.040 --> 0:21:48.119