WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Pick Up or Put Down! Emotional Support Water Bottles 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:19.480 Laura, Come on, everybody. 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:22.720 Happy Monday, ladies, Happy Monday. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:26.720 You always wait, I wait, It's just the way it goes. 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.520 Now says hello, Then you always say hello, and then 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:29.000 I say hello. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:30.560 I was trying to do a stand off there, and 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:32.479 I was watching you and I was trying to go second. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:34.440 But you always leave such an awkward, long pause that 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:37.280 I have to because for three years I've gone third. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.760 That's why I left the pause. I don't want to 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:40.680 always be third, right, go do guys. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:43.920 I think I command the room. I think with my 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:46.000 hello it kind of people's ears. Girl. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.479 Oh, there they are. This is true, the science behind it. 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:48.920 All right. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.839 Well, we spent too much time together this week, and 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:51.560 I'm already bickering. 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:52.680 We had that dinner last night, guys. 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:54.640 We went on a team dinner last night to the 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:58.880 weirdest restaurant. Laura chose it, and that's why she's did 0:00:58.920 --> 0:00:59.800 you think dinner last night was? 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:03.720 It was a celebration worked in her for my engagement. 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:05.760 It was a beautiful dinner, and Laura did take us 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:07.200 to one of her favorite restaurants. 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:09.960 It was funny. It was a funny dinner. It was 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:12.400 an unusual It's just a set menu, and that's why 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:13.280 you guys think it's weird. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.240 Let me, but you see, they don't have menus. They 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:18.000 tell you the menu, not a set menu. The waitress 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.880 hovers over like a ghoul and then just starts yelling 0:01:20.920 --> 0:01:24.560 out different menu for thirty minutes she was there. She's like, well, 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.840 the first choice the chef, and they spoke by the 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:27.520 chef's first name. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:28.240 Might we all knew him? 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.600 She's like, Saint Peter has cooked killed tonight. Was like, 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.720 what she's like, you can choose four items from Saint 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.160 Peter's menu or twelve from his. 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.600 Peas pop up wait Saint Peter's is an actual restaurant, 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:38.080 and we didn't go there because they're going to be 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:40.880 very angry that you're using them as an escapegard No, 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.520 it was unusual because you had to try to remember 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.959 the menu and then the set menu that she said, 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:49.000 Saint Peter, the make believe chef had to add like 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:52.840 an extra four that he had surprised, liked, had surprised. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.080 As then you changes every day. It's the same. It's 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:58.280 based on Saint Peter's mood. So Peter, he could be 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.240 pissed off one day and you get burnt rumpets. 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:04.200 He could be feeling the chili, so everything's spicy, so 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:04.760 you don't know what. 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:05.360 You're going to get. 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:05.480 Well. 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:06.920 I really enjoyed it, and I thought it was a 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:09.200 beautiful time for us to come together to celebrate BRIP. 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:10.400 But you know what, I'm never going to try and 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:11.880 do something nice for you guys again if it's how 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:13.079 I get treated on a Monday. 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:14.200 Because Laura put it on a company card. 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:19.560 So Laura, Hey, big show today, pick Up put Down 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:20.600 is going to kick it off next. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:21.480 We do it every Monday. 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.600 All the big stories that we've all been talking about 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:24.959 this weekend brought to you. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.160 Girls. You are the voice on culture in this country. 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:29.320 So are we though I think so? I think so? 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:31.400 Does anyone else think so? I'd go with that. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:37.360 Let's ask no. No, We're talking uncanceling next. It's a 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.280 big discussion topic. We're going to get to it. Can 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.079 you be uncanceled? Can someone come back from cancelation? That's 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.880 on the way to pick up? Welcome everyone, Happy Monday, 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.200 and it is a Monday, which means we have to 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:49.120 do if you can't. 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.640 I have a topic that the nation we're discussing this weekend. 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:54.840 I present it to you Britain, Laura, it is your 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:56.640 job to pick it up, carry it on into the 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:57.720 week or put it down. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.000 I thought you just said the topics that people were 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:04.120 disgusting this weekend. I didn't. I thought you said disgusting, 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:05.200 No discusting, just then. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.200 It could be similar if it's a disgusting topic. 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:08.800 The only thing people are talking about is that Brittany 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:12.679 Hockley's engaged that. I'm I feel like a lot of 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:14.120 people were talking about it over the weekend. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:15.520 I don't want to give the chance to that to 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:17.280 be put down. So I'm not going to put that. 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:21.440 No one's putting that down. Everyone everyone, it's. 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:22.680 Our royal wedding in this country. 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:26.480 It really, actually really is. It's the equivalent anyway, maybe 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:27.919 at the pick up the sport. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.600 You should pull a Cap Middleton and just not be 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:34.120 seen in public for a couple of weeks. Well, okay, 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.240 pulling a Kate Middleton does not mean go and get 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:36.920 yourself sick. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.240 Well, I mean that's why she just okay, we're not 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.960 getting understand that's me. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.040 It's got awkward for everyone, didn't it well for. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:44.800 You too, definitely not me. 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.480 That was called a joke everyone, Okay, sorry number one, 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.720 pick up, put down, emotional support water bottles. 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.760 Put it down, put it down. I feel so strongly 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.240 about this. They have gotten so big, they are so 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.000 the stand only ones with the straw that leak, Like 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.560 someone explained to me why that is a good idea? 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:06.480 And I have never sound more like a millennial in 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:06.800 my life. 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:09.320 Well, when Aussie psychotherapist has come out this weekend and 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:12.640 compare fancy water bottles to adulthood safety blankets and saying 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.160 they help combat anxiety. 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:16.120 Go to a therapist, go and sick. If you need 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:19.640 a water bottle that bad lead to feel good about yourself. Okay, 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.839 I'm not Grace. Our producer's got a water bottle. 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.280 No it's not. It's not a normal water bottle. I'm 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:28.560 about normal water bottles. Have you seen the size of 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.599 some of these things. They are the size of like from. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:33.359 Your fingertips to your elbow, your forearm. You can barely 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:34.400 carry them around. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.240 They don't fit in a bag, And I'm like, why 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:37.279 why are you doing it? 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:40.000 I get that you're hydrating, and I'm all about pro hydration. 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.640 I'm with you, Britt. I also think everyone knows you're 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.920 supposed to drink two liters a day. But you don't 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.760 have to carry the full two lids around with you 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:48.520 in one go. You don't have it. It's like you 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.279 don't have to meal prep your water of a morning? 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:51.800 Is it? 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:53.800 I think it is three leaders of the day. 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:55.039 They just keep uping it mate. 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:56.600 I am drying out from the inside. 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:57.320 I don't like. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.400 How you can hear people with water bottles coming. It 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.600 sounds like the you know, the l gas trucks that 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:03.200 used to drive with the gas canisters in the back. 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:06.920 They announce you here, hello. 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:08.640 All right? 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:11.520 Moving on, picking up or putting down, Sending a text 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:21.599 message that quite simply just reads sure, what's. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:23.320 This off the back of me? Take this so serious? 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:25.320 A Twitter debate has been sparked. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:28.279 Of course, whether or not writing sure as a reply 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:32.279 to a question or a conversation on text is passive aggressive. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.840 So if you say, hey, are you all good? If 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.080 we split the bill for dinner tonight? 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:36.640 Sure? 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:40.560 I think in a text, sure is a very obvious 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:42.240 way of saying I'm going to agree with you, but 0:05:42.279 --> 0:05:44.160 I don't actually sure. 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:48.839 I don't actually believe in It also depends, It depends 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.039 on who it's coming from. It depends on the context, like, 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.479 are you dating this person and you've like you're having 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.400 a fight or a bit of a disagreement, and they're written, Sure, 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:59.479 it's really condescending. But I think that some people just 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.400 don't have this awareness around what they sound like through text. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.160 I agree, But you're a trained actress. Can you give 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.640 us two different readings of sure? One passive aggressive and 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:07.160 one kind? 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:09.560 Am I allowed to throw an extra word in? No, 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:11.160 it's got to be short. Okay, it's got to be 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:19.160 the one word. Okay, so passive aggressive, sure, nice? Sure, different. 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:26.000 All that time and at that moment and finally pick 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:30.440 up put down Ellen DeGeneres being uncanceled and making a comeback. 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:35.480 I don't want to comment on this until i've seen 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:39.200 the comeback. Oh okay, we can't be that Switzerland. I 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:44.359 don't want to be canceled for saying I don't look. 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.560 I don't want to necessarily bring her back. But I'm 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:50.039 all for people who not for everything. I think there's 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.640 some things that are like so heinous that they're cancellable. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.640 But I do think that in time, people should be 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.200 able to have a redemption story depending on what they've 0:06:58.200 --> 0:06:59.040 done in the first place. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.960 Right, Well, she's sixty six. 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.800 She's decided she's had a couple of years after being 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:05.440 canceled for fostering a toxic work environment. She's announced Ellen's 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.320 Last stand Up, which is a two hour starting next 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:08.920 week in the US. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.560 She's going to tell her story. But that's the thing. 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:14.480 Are do we allow these people to tell their story 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:15.160 after what they did? 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:15.880 I think we do? 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:16.280 Yeah. 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:18.120 I think it depends on what it is. I mean, 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.160 she didn't she didn't hit anyone, shouldn't murder anyone, she 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:22.320 didn't abuse anyone. 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.880 I don't know army hammer, you know, like the whole 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:27.120 cannibalism thing. I don't think you make a comeback when 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:29.600 you eat people. No, but I think did he actually 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:30.120 eat someone? 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:34.560 I think he just sent some really like inappropriate eaty texts. 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:38.400 He did a lot of he did bad thing. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:42.480 Sure, how that makes it? 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.880 We're all getting get it Next. 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:47.480 We've got some cash up for grabs. 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.680 Oh yeah, we're doing winter warmers. Thanks to Target. We've 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:51.600 got the perfect treat for. 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.760 You all this winter. All you have to do is 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:55.200 call up pick a box. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.400 We've got five boxes here and you could win up 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.720 to twelve hundred dollars to spend. 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:01.679 A Target and give us a buzz here at pickup. 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:05.160 We'll do it next. One of our favorite things we 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:08.040 got to do on the show, guys, other than arguing, bicker. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:08.760 Give away money. 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.080 We always give away cash. And you're gonna love this. 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:15.280 When to walmers winter warmers. 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:18.040 I love the way winter are warmers. Okay, so winter warmers. 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.960 It's brought to you by Target. Now. We've teamed up 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:22.240 with them and they have given us up to twelve 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:24.800 hundred dollars worth of prizes to give away. The way 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.600 this is going to work is one lucky call is 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.320 going to get through. We have four boxes over there, 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.560 five boxes. I like, we've got five box. I've got 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:33.760 next one, even even though you still okay, I was 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.199 looking at the lineup anyway. Each box has a different 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.400 amount of cash in it, right, so you could win 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.160 anything up to twelve hundred dollars for you to spend 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:42.480 a Target. Let's get into it. 0:08:42.520 --> 0:08:43.280 Target good stuff. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.440 I saw you girls post to our pickup Instagram with 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:47.800 your target picks some Mike scuffs. 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:51.040 No, I've got linen now and my bedspread currently is 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:54.000 Target and it is. You wouldn't it's so nice. My 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:55.320 faste jeans a target. 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.560 Yeah, all right, well let's meet today Kylie. She's joining 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:00.000 us trying to win some cash. Hello, Kylie, you ready 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:01.520 to play our first Winter Warmers round? 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:03.920 Hi guys, Yeah, I sure. 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.360 Am, Kylie. Okay, So the way this's gonna work is 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.400 you've got to pick one of these boxes. They're numbered 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:10.800 one to five. We could give them a little rattle. 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.920 They all sound kind of different, you know, five. 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:14.800 It's probably the size of like an iPhone. 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.000 Can you do they weigh different? Since they've got different 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:18.720 amounts of cash in them? Do they weigh different? 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.600 Like it's not the real cash in there, but there's 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:23.000 like vouchers, feeder span. 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:26.880 Hey, Kylie, what do you reckon? You'd buy a f 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:27.199 you one? 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:31.640 Well, my daughter's just transitioning into a double bed, so 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.240 I would love to get her some new bedspreads and 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:36.959 pillows and doing the sets and things like that. So 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.000 she's going from like she's turning twelve and sorry, she's 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:43.119 turning berteen. So she's going from tweet to a teenager. 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:46.600 Oh I'm so cute a different when you said she 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.880 was transitioning, Wow, yeah. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:51.320 No, I was going to say, you're going to need 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:55.000 more than twelve hundred dollars a new wardrobe, probably. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.800 One to five. Well you shake some of those boxes? 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:01.080 Yeah, okay, what's your lucky out of that? Like if 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:01.520 you had to. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:04.760 Pick, Yes, my lucky number is three. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:06.559 Oh, then we already know what we're gonna go with, 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:06.920 don't we. 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:07.480 What are you going? 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:08.920 Are you locking in three? Kylie? 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:11.800 I'm going to lock in Three's all right? 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.719 The box is pink, the bow is yellow. I'm just 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.960 going to open this up. It's beautifully rap. Can I 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:18.600 say I feel bad pulling it apart? 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:23.440 Okay, yep, it's got pink kiss wrapping paper. 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.080 All right, we're down to the box. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:26.480 There's more. 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:30.480 They've really made it quite challenging. It's got a quick game, 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:36.319 is it all right, Kylie? 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:37.360 Yes? 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.120 You reckon? The number three is your lucky number? 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:41.280 It is? 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.559 Go buy a lotto ticket twelve hundred? 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:49.800 Oh my god? 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:52.840 You want a big one on day one? We're all 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.520 getting fired. We're not supposed to give the big one 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:55.240 away day one. 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:59.480 Good job, Jackpot, Kylie, congrats big. 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:01.280 Kind. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:03.520 That could have gone anyway, Kylie. But you've got the 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.439 big one. You really should go use number three for something. Yeah, 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.080 I mean twelve hundred bucks is pet of target. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.880 It's not bad at all, amazing, No. 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:11.520 It's not bad. I'm going by myself a lot of 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:13.400 ticket now, yeah, they pick. 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:13.800 Out number three. 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.120 Hey, like with your daughter's new clothes in the new 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.280 hall or send us picks please? This is back again 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.559 tomorrow more cash. Just bend a target. We got four 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:21.280 boxes left. 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:22.920 Yeah, and we're doing it every day this week. 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:24.520 Yes, we are very exciting. 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:25.360 Hey, guys. 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:30.360 On the weekend I put my new fiance Ben accidentally 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:32.760 to the test. I sort of made up an Australian tradition 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:34.560 that he had to do to win over my family. 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:37.040 What do you mean you sort of made it up? 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:38.520 Oh you know what, I'm like. 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:40.359 I sort of threw mone of the bus. 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.600 Yeah, okay, cool, let's go to a break. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:51.000 So this past weekend I took my new fiance Ben 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:52.200 to Port McCrory. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:52.640 Do you want to? 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:53.120 Do you want me to? I? 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.400 Does it still feel weird when you say it? 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:55.560 Like? 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.400 Does it does it feel like it's rolling off the 0:11:57.400 --> 0:11:59.599 tongue yet? Or are you just kind of let my fiance? No, 0:11:59.720 --> 0:11:59.960 it's not. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:04.160 I'm always like fiance like a loser anyway. I can't 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:05.839 even say normally my fiance. 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:07.520 As you should. 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:08.920 I got engaged. 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:11.320 If you haven't heard, I got engaged, just announced it 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:13.360 last week, so it's all very fresh. But I took 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:16.080 Ben up to Port Macquarie to see my family because 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.240 that's where all my family live, like my brothers, my 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:22.840 nieces and nephews, my grandmam, my aunt, he's my cousin's parents, everyone. Now, 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:26.120 my partner, Ben is from Switzerland, so he's only ever 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:27.640 been to Australia two or three times. 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:28.600 It's only ever with me. 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:31.360 He doesn't know much about Australia other than he's gonna 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.439 marry in Australian So I take him up and we're 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:35.959 all having a great time and I don't think much 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.000 of it, and I sort of just make a joke, 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:42.640 a throwaway comment about how it's a tradition in Australia 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:47.600 to when you get married the man has to go 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:51.240 and catch fish for the in laws, how to win 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:51.760 them over. 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:54.360 Okay, So when you say it was just a throwaway comment, 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:56.360 how does one's brain even get to the place. So 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.640 you're like, I just had the throwaway comment where I 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:02.080 created an entire tradition that doesn't exist, just throw away. 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.360 It's how my brain works, and it's how my family is. 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.080 We always like play tricks. But it wasn't a set 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:08.840 up as a trick. No one in my family knew 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.520 about it, right. I just said, Oh, yeah, Ben, you've 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:11.599 got to go because my dad loves you. 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:13.000 Got to catch the fild. It's like, Ben, don't you 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:14.400 know you gotta go fishing while you're here. He's like, 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:15.719 what do you mean? And I just made up a 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:16.800 story off the top of my head. 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.480 I was like, yes, well it's part of and my 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.600 parents all looked at me and everyone just rolled with. 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:23.480 It, because lying is a really good foundation for a 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:26.040 new relationship, Like it's a great way to forge into 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:30.280 married life. We love it. When my when my brother 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:33.000 in law j he married my sister. He's from Scotland. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:34.880 When he came over, we played this whole prank on 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:38.160 him where we gave him a whistle and he had 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.199 We said that drop bears exist and you have to 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.240 carry a whistle and if it drop bed drops on you, 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:44.160 you have to blow a whistle in his face and run. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.640 He carried that whistle on him for months. He truly 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:48.199 believed it. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.040 Real what is wrong with your family? 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.839 It was very funny and so I said that to Ben, 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:55.720 and we all rolled with it, and I said, what 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:56.679 the tradition is? 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:58.920 You know it's from the when you know it's from 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:02.000 the indigenous dream time. That's what I said. That's so 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.840 culturally inappropriate. I know, I know. But because he had 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:07.320 he said where did it come from? And I said, well, 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.520 it's been making I said yeah. I said, it's been here. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:13.040 From when Australia started. Like it's an og dream time 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:15.200 kind of thing. So I said, you've got it. If 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:18.640 you don't catch fish, it's indicative that your relationship is 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:19.880 not going to go very well, because I mean, it's 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:20.760 not going to go swimmingly. 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:22.640 One might say, how are you with creative writing in 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.680 high school? Because it would have been some great stories. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.400 Brilliant so anyway, but I didn't actually think he was 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.880 going to take it that serious. I thought he'd have 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.640 a laugh about it, yea. So the next morning, at 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.440 five thirty in the morning. Now Ben is a football player, 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:36.640 he loves his fashion. 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:40.160 He has never fished in his entire life. It's just mountains, 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.360 yes and got and go cows. So five thirty in 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:44.840 the morning he woke up. 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:46.480 He's never got up there early in his life with 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:49.200 my dad, and then my dad stuck to this whole lie. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:50.440 It was this whole fabrication. 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:52.960 He went out rock fishing for the very first time 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:54.960 to try and catch fish so that our marriage would 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:59.440 go well. He caught seven fish. He literally you could 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.840 not dream of this. He threw his line into the 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.280 water first time ever. It was in the water for 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.680 five seconds. Huge fish. Well he kind of showed you that, 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.360 didn't he. He was like, I'm good at everything. 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:10.400 He came back and bless his soul, he came back 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.000 and he goes, Babe, look how good our marriage is 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.600 going to be? Seven fish? And I was like, how 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:15.160 do I tell you? 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:15.320 Now? 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:18.920 You're lying, so I'm not. He's going to believe for 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:19.800 the rest of his life. 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.280 Now. Yeah, if that wasn't rooted in a lie, i'd 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:23.840 say that he's absolutely gorgeous. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:25.560 But now it's like a terrible tradition that you have 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:27.600 to take to the grave. Well, yeah, now he's going 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:30.040 to tell everyone, but that's what he is. I tell 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.640 him or not, I also enjoy that, enjoy that fish dinner, 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:34.320 and just get on with it. 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:34.640 Totally. 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.280 I think that's so harmless. It's beautiful because no one's heard. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:38.520 It's a little prank. Silly. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:41.240 Also, it's not the worst prank because like now he 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:42.920 knows how to fish and be I know that he 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:44.960