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Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations,
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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation,
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Speaker 1: my loves, and welcome back to season seven. This is
Speaker 1: episode three. I hope you loved our guest interview last week,
Speaker 1: but we're back to a solo PEP talk today with
Speaker 1: our second episode to the first episode of getting Everything
Speaker 1: you Want and Having it All. In the first episode
Speaker 1: of the season, I really and again, if you haven't
Speaker 1: listened to it, go back and listen to it, because
Speaker 1: this podcast might not make as much sense. But in
Speaker 1: that first episode, it was really about you know, the
Speaker 1: first two steps of having clarity, knowing what you want,
Speaker 1: knowing who you want to be, because without being clear
Speaker 1: and where you're going. You're going you know nowhere, fust
Speaker 1: and you're not able to make decisions, like you need
Speaker 1: clarity to decide, and even like the Latin meaning of
Speaker 1: decide is to cut off. To make a decision is
Speaker 1: to cut off, So it's like you need to cut off,
Speaker 1: you need to like block the noise so you know
Speaker 1: where you're going. So we spoke about clarity, and we
Speaker 1: also spoke about detachment, which I think is like the
Speaker 1: most underrated kind of exercise thing that you should be
Speaker 1: doing in your life. And so I wanted to just
Speaker 1: give you those two steps because they didn't want to
Speaker 1: bombarde you, and I wanted you to spend a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks in detachment and really understanding and really feeling it.
Speaker 1: So I hope you have been a detachment queen. I
Speaker 1: know you have, and I'm so proud of you. And
Speaker 1: so next we are talking about how to implement new beliefs,
Speaker 1: because you don't want to just like detach from the
Speaker 1: old stories, clear the old stories and then kind of
Speaker 1: just be like floating in limbo. You need to attach
Speaker 1: yourself to the new reality, to your future self, to
Speaker 1: how you want things to be. And you cannot do
Speaker 1: that without implementing and embodying your new beliefs. So that's
Speaker 1: what we're going to get into today. And so I
Speaker 1: have a step formula for you. It's a five step formula.
Speaker 1: We have the first couple of steps. But again I
Speaker 1: didn't want to give you this formula in the first
Speaker 1: episode because I wanted you to kind of like just
Speaker 1: be in that clarity and that detachment and really sit
Speaker 1: in that because again, like I said, I don't think
Speaker 1: people really understand and implement that. So now we've done that,
Speaker 1: let's go through how to implement this new reality. So
Speaker 1: the first step really is you being specific, you knowing
Speaker 1: what you want. You have now because you've listened to
Speaker 1: the first episode and you've gone and done that, you've
Speaker 1: either done the clarity course that we have on the
Speaker 1: website or you have just journaled. You have really gotten clear,
Speaker 1: you've blocked out the noise. So then the next thing
Speaker 1: you need to do is get clear on the beliefs
Speaker 1: that you would already hold an embody if you had
Speaker 1: that dream reality, if you had that desire, Because if
Speaker 1: you think about it, manifestation isn't this like magic thing.
Speaker 1: You don't magically manifest two million dollars or the lottery
Speaker 1: or whatnot. That's not how it works. How manifestation works
Speaker 1: is you're not chasing after something. The way true manifestation
Speaker 1: works is you are embodying the person who already has
Speaker 1: that thing. So it has no choice because you're on
Speaker 1: that frequency that when it comes to you, it cannot
Speaker 1: pass you. It has to stick because you're on that frequency.
Speaker 1: That is the essence of manifestation. It's not going after something,
Speaker 1: it's you becoming the frequency, the vibe the person who
Speaker 1: has these things vibrating on that frequency. So when they
Speaker 1: come through in this circle of how things have to
Speaker 1: come through, they have to stick. And so a cheat
Speaker 1: code of having your dream life, of having this beautiful
Speaker 1: desire come into fruition is you need to be the
Speaker 1: person that that would come into fruition. And that's why
Speaker 1: you know, we've seen and I've used this example a
Speaker 1: hundred times, but someone will win the lottery and if
Speaker 1: they do not have the thoughts, beliefs, the patterns, the
Speaker 1: conditioning of someone who can hold wealth, they will lose it.
Speaker 1: And most people think, oh, if I just get the money,
Speaker 1: if I just have this external thing, happen to me,
Speaker 1: I'll be happy, I'll be this, But that is not true.
Speaker 1: You need to become that person who already feels that way,
Speaker 1: he doesn't need the external validation, who doesn't need the
Speaker 1: external thing, and then it has no choice but to
Speaker 1: come to you. There's like a mad statistic on people
Speaker 1: who win the lotter and lose it. So it's like
Speaker 1: it's clearly not this whole thing of like, well, I
Speaker 1: just need more money. That's not the actual point. You
Speaker 1: don't need more money. You need to become the person
Speaker 1: who has more money, can hold more money, can leverage
Speaker 1: more money, who feels safe with more money, and then
Speaker 1: the more money comes and it sticks and it stays.
Speaker 1: So really think about So you've got that clarity, You've
Speaker 1: got that dream, the desire, and like I said in
Speaker 1: the first episode, there is no mistake with this desire,
Speaker 1: this dream reality, how you're feeling, there is no mistake.
Speaker 1: The reason why you want that is because there is
Speaker 1: already a future version of you on some other timeline
Speaker 1: who has it, and that's why you want it. So
Speaker 1: the fact that you already have it on a different timeline,
Speaker 1: in a different reality that is still you a no
Speaker 1: bear with me here. This is the quantum field. You
Speaker 1: already know what it's like, and so you need to
Speaker 1: start embodying. You need to start getting clear on that belief.
Speaker 1: So if if you are someone who is looking for
Speaker 1: a partner and you want this healthy, secure relationship, wouldn't
Speaker 1: your beliefs, your thoughts, feelings, patterns be that you are
Speaker 1: a safe, secure, lovable person, that you are worthy of
Speaker 1: love no matter what, that you are like a prize.
Speaker 1: Someone would be so lucky to have you. You are
Speaker 1: a prized just by being you. You have healthy communication,
Speaker 1: you have a secure relationship with yourself. You're not anxiously attached,
Speaker 1: you're not avoidant like you have done the work where
Speaker 1: you love yourself. You treat yourself how that person will
Speaker 1: treat you. That is a belief system of someone who
Speaker 1: will attract ian a healthy love and a healthy partner.
Speaker 1: But do you see how it starts with the person.
Speaker 1: The partner doesn't come in and make you feel secure.
Speaker 1: The partner doesn't come in and make you feel worthy.
Speaker 1: That honestly cannot happen. You feel those things first, and
Speaker 1: then they come in. And one of my greatest manifestations
Speaker 1: was to him, my husband and it's crazy because like
Speaker 1: my parents have been together since they were sixteen, and
Speaker 1: so I have had a great example of healthy love. Look,
Speaker 1: they're definitely more on the anxious attachment side, but that's fine.
Speaker 1: But I've had like a great like healthy marriage, long
Speaker 1: term marriage, like doing everything to you know, stay with
Speaker 1: that person, really great example. And in high school, I
Speaker 1: had this really toxic relationship with my high school boyfriend
Speaker 1: lies cheating, immature, very hot and cold, like just very
Speaker 1: the worst sort of you know love that you can have.
Speaker 1: And he had broken up with me right before formal
Speaker 1: like prom and the big exams. And I remember having
Speaker 1: this moment, like I literally remember the moment where I decided,
Speaker 1: because like he was then trying to get back with me,
Speaker 1: and I just was like, no, I will not be
Speaker 1: treated like this. I have an example of my parents
Speaker 1: and how much my dad loves my mom, and he
Speaker 1: would never do these things, and I am so sick
Speaker 1: of entertaining this relationship that is so toxic. My husband
Speaker 1: wouldn't treat me like this, like and it was very
Speaker 1: like f men, I am the prize, Like I am
Speaker 1: a ten out of ten, I you know, like I
Speaker 1: really had this moment where I was like, no, I
Speaker 1: absolutely refuse to be treated like this because I love myself.
Speaker 1: And I then promised myself I wouldn't get a boyfriend
Speaker 1: and I would just love myself and work with myself
Speaker 1: and go have fun. And I did that. And it's
Speaker 1: crazy because Tim literally came in a couple of mine
Speaker 1: months later, and he really is such reflection of everything
Speaker 1: I told myself in that moment, my worth and who
Speaker 1: I was and what I won't allow. That's what I mean.
Speaker 1: That is such a Once you decide the beliefs of
Speaker 1: that reality, that reality has no choice but to come
Speaker 1: to you. If it's with like business success or money.
Speaker 1: For example, there's you know, there's a lot happening with
Speaker 1: like the economy right now, when you know talks of
Speaker 1: a recession and you know everything happening in the news.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you're aware of it. But for example, someone
Speaker 1: who has business success or who you know can hold wealth,
Speaker 1: do you think they're worried about that? No, because they
Speaker 1: are the exception to the rule. They are not the
Speaker 1: majority with money. They have put things in play and
Speaker 1: they feel safe and secure. But also more to that,
Speaker 1: they know if they were to lose everything, or what
Speaker 1: you know, worst case scenario. They know it's just money.
Speaker 1: They know it will just come back because it's just energy,
Speaker 1: it's just an energy exchange, and so they're not worried.
Speaker 1: They're not in a fear state about money. So like,
Speaker 1: can you even see you cannot be in two frequencies
Speaker 1: at once, Like you cannot be in the frequency of
Speaker 1: feeling abundant while being fearful that money won't come in.
Speaker 1: That's those two simply cannot coexist. It's like, which one
Speaker 1: are you going to embody right now? Because if it's
Speaker 1: the fear of money and never having enough, that's what
Speaker 1: your reality will reflect. But if it's the fear of
Speaker 1: I know I'm always looked after with money. I know
Speaker 1: I'm abundant af I know I absolutely will have everything
Speaker 1: I need when I need, And I'm not worried about
Speaker 1: the economy because I'm the exception to the rule. That's
Speaker 1: the reality you will have. And guys, if you want
Speaker 1: to go deeper, we do have the Abundance Academy. That's
Speaker 1: obviously our core money course, which like goes so deep
Speaker 1: in this and is life changing. We are going to
Speaker 1: have that available to buy anytime as an evergreen course,
Speaker 1: so like no live concept, but it will be evergreen,
Speaker 1: and I believe we're going to do it a tiny
Speaker 1: bit cheaper for you guys because there's no live concept.
Speaker 1: So I will check that in the show notes if
Speaker 1: you want to do that. If you're like, shit, I
Speaker 1: really need to change my belief it's money. So that's
Speaker 1: a money example. As a partner example, I feel like
Speaker 1: you guys get the vibe. So now we've gotten clear
Speaker 1: on the desire, we've gotten clear on the beliefs. And
Speaker 1: also this would be a great you can use chat
Speaker 1: GTP Chatty. I like to call him and you could
Speaker 1: even say, hey, Chatty. The vision is this, can you
Speaker 1: tell me the thoughts, the feelings, the patterns, the belief
Speaker 1: of a person who encompasses this reality and it will
Speaker 1: like spit out your exact beliefs that you can start embodying. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the third step is you want to then program
Speaker 1: those new beliefs into your subconscious, into your mind. Now,
Speaker 1: how you do this? There's so many ways. And that's
Speaker 1: the thing is like there's not a right and wrong way.
Speaker 1: It's whatever way you can be consistent with, because if
Speaker 1: you think about it, you've had these beliefs for twenty thirty,
Speaker 1: forty fifty years or whatever. It doesn't happen overnight. You
Speaker 1: need to be consistent with the new beliefs and it
Speaker 1: will happen quickly, but you need to be consistent. So personally,
Speaker 1: this can be sleep, affirmation, meditation, meditations, hypnosis, EFT tapping.
Speaker 1: My favorite forms are EFT tapping and we have an
Speaker 1: example of this in the Abundance Academy, and I do
Speaker 1: believe we're going to bring some to the Rise app,
Speaker 1: so check in there. Otherwise, Look, you can google it,
Speaker 1: you can YouTube it. The only thing is like they
Speaker 1: have to be quite specific, so just be conscious of
Speaker 1: what you're using. I find out sleep meditations in the
Speaker 1: Rise app so powerful because when you just are going
Speaker 1: to sleep, when you're getting ready to sleep, and when
Speaker 1: you're waking up are the most powerful times to reprogram
Speaker 1: your brain. This is when you're going to be the
Speaker 1: most susceptible to change to reprogramming. So that's why I
Speaker 1: listen to most of my meditations right before I sleep
Speaker 1: or in the morning, or if I just need to
Speaker 1: regulate myself, that's when I'll do a meditation during the day.
Speaker 1: Hypnosis acts are really great. Basically anything that is going
Speaker 1: to put you in a regulated state and then that
Speaker 1: is going to put affirmations into your subconscious brain. So
Speaker 1: that's why blankly affirmations are not going to work unless
Speaker 1: you're in a state to receive them. So if you're
Speaker 1: highly stressed and disregulated, like maybe you're running late to
Speaker 1: work and you decide to do affirmations in the car,
Speaker 1: they're not actually gonna work because you're not in a
Speaker 1: state to receive them. So that's why like affirmations can
Speaker 1: be so powerful and great. But again it's like finding
Speaker 1: those moments when you're really susceptible and you can receive them.
Speaker 1: So that's why I do choose to do this staff
Speaker 1: like literally right when I wake up or right when
Speaker 1: I go to bed. For me, ift tapping and meditations
Speaker 1: have been the most powerful obviously. We have like hundreds
Speaker 1: of meditations in the Rise app for literally so many
Speaker 1: specific things, because it is really good to have specific
Speaker 1: beliefs and specific things you're reprogramming. Another thing you could
Speaker 1: do is you could literally like voice note yourself on
Speaker 1: your phone of the new beliefs and listen to that.
Speaker 1: I'm also sure there's like apps and stuff. You can
Speaker 1: like create your own meditations or affirmations or whatever. That
Speaker 1: is the third step Again, it's being consistent with it.
Speaker 1: You cannot have twenty thirty, forty fifty years of dysregulating
Speaker 1: trauma with money and then do one money meditation when
Speaker 1: you wake up and your whole life, you know, not
Speaker 1: having any issues with money. Like, it's we are humans,
Speaker 1: we are having human experience, we have human emotions, and
Speaker 1: we really need to be consistent with this. And like
Speaker 1: I said in the first episode of the season, detachment
Speaker 1: is the vibe. So when you're receiving evidence that your
Speaker 1: old beliefs are playing out, like maybe if it's a
Speaker 1: whole money example, you get a bill in the mail,
Speaker 1: or like you get a random fine pop up or
Speaker 1: something like that, it is not engaging with that reality. Yes,
Speaker 1: pay the fine, pay the bill, but it's not making
Speaker 1: a story about it. Don't go to your partner or
Speaker 1: your best friend and be like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: get a bill and it's the worst thing ever and
Speaker 1: I'm so bad with money and this and that literally
Speaker 1: pay it, ignore it, and affirm and be like that's
Speaker 1: not my reality, that what just happened is not truth.
Speaker 1: And I know my reality will shift soon. And be
Speaker 1: so strong on those beliefs because if you don't believe
Speaker 1: those beliefs, if you're not that person, you won't have
Speaker 1: that reality. So again, so how do we be so
Speaker 1: strong on our beliefs? How do we not let the
Speaker 1: three D the evidence in front of us that are
Speaker 1: directly showing us the opposite of what we want. How
Speaker 1: do we not let that affect us? We regulate our
Speaker 1: nervous system. The best way to do this is breathing
Speaker 1: and meditation. Baby, again, we have a whole rise app
Speaker 1: that will literally change your life because we have like
Speaker 1: everything like we have like do this meditation if you're toddler,
Speaker 1: is just regulating you. Do this if like before a
Speaker 1: job interview, like we have really thought of everything, because
Speaker 1: we know if you can be specific, the more specific
Speaker 1: the better. So start regulating your emotions. Guys. If there's
Speaker 1: one thing you take from this podcast, it is regulate
Speaker 1: your emotions. Stop letting your emotions control your future. Because
Speaker 1: your emotions are from the past, from past things that
Speaker 1: have happened to you, past situations, past you. If you
Speaker 1: are letting your emotions take control and run the show,
Speaker 1: you will never have a different reality to what you
Speaker 1: have now. The past will continue. The only way to
Speaker 1: change the future is if you stop interacting with the past.
Speaker 1: And how you do that is regulate your emotions. So
Speaker 1: when shit goes down, you don't react. You don't yell
Speaker 1: at your party, you don't yell at your kid, you
Speaker 1: don't freak the fuck out, and engage with that behavior,
Speaker 1: engage with that energy, that vibe. We're not doing that, ok,
Speaker 1: my love. So that's like, that's the biggest thing. And again,
Speaker 1: if you haven't listened the first episode of this season,
Speaker 1: go and listen. And we do have a brand new
Speaker 1: detachment episode in the Rise app. It's literally my best
Speaker 1: meditation yet. It is like, if you are someone who
Speaker 1: is quite reactive and you're allowing your emotions and your
Speaker 1: reality to really dictate your next move and how you
Speaker 1: show up and how you be, this meditation will change
Speaker 1: your life. And I do not say that lightly. So
Speaker 1: again I'll link the title in the show notes and
Speaker 1: you can check that out in the Rise app. We
Speaker 1: do have a free membership option so you can just
Speaker 1: like try things out. The last step to reprogramming your
Speaker 1: beliefs and really having this life where you do get
Speaker 1: everything you want and you can have anything you want.
Speaker 1: Is to start living and start enjoying then now rather
Speaker 1: than waiting again, you cannot be and two frequencies at
Speaker 1: one time. So if you're in the frequency of wanting,
Speaker 1: of waiting, of like, well, this thing is coming to me,
Speaker 1: but I'm not there yet, how can you be in
Speaker 1: the frequency of already having that thing? Because to already
Speaker 1: have that thing, you need to be in the frequency
Speaker 1: of already having it. Again, everything is a frequency, everything
Speaker 1: is energy. So how we attract is we are the vibration.
Speaker 1: We are the frequency. If you're in the frequency of
Speaker 1: I want this thing but it's not here yet, it's
Speaker 1: it's never gonna come because you're in the wrong frequency.
Speaker 1: And how we do this again, because I know it's like, well,
Speaker 1: I want that thing, Georgia, You've said to me to
Speaker 1: get clear, I've got these goals, I've got these desires. No,
Speaker 1: it's beautiful, you're allowed to want them. But how we
Speaker 1: change the frequency is we're clear in those desires, we're
Speaker 1: clear in the vision, we are affirming, we're reprogramming, we're
Speaker 1: regulating ourselves, and then we're enjoying and being. So fucking
Speaker 1: grateful for the now and the present, even if it
Speaker 1: is not exactly what we want in the current moment,
Speaker 1: we're enjoying it. We're enjoying the process. And that's honestly,
Speaker 1: like one of my favorite like manifestation teaches Gabby Bernstein,
Speaker 1: one of her like most famous quotes is, manifestations come
Speaker 1: in faster when you're having fun, when you're playing with it,
Speaker 1: when you're having fun. And it's so true because if
Speaker 1: you're in the frequency of like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: love my life. I'm enjoying the journey, I'm enjoying being
Speaker 1: in the messy middle, in the becoming, in the chaos,
Speaker 1: and you enjoy that, you're elevating your frequency, and your
Speaker 1: desires are always a higher frequency than always like that
Speaker 1: next level. So by you living your life and enjoying
Speaker 1: your life and enjoying the becoming, you get there so
Speaker 1: much fun and it's funner, it's easier, it's vibeer Like
Speaker 1: for example, if you knew you had a three hour
Speaker 1: bus ride to you know, your holidays. Let's say you
Speaker 1: go into this like tropical holiday island and it's a
Speaker 1: three hour flight, like you're into the mal dives it's
Speaker 1: only a three hour flight. Would you sit there and
Speaker 1: be like, I just really want to be in the
Speaker 1: male dives. This is so annoying. I just really want
Speaker 1: to be there. Why can't I be there now? Like,
Speaker 1: imagine if you're in a plane and someone was acting
Speaker 1: like that and you're like, dude, chill, we're clearly on
Speaker 1: the plane. We're gonna be there in like three hours. Relax.
Speaker 1: That is literally what is currently happening in your reality.
Speaker 1: You are throwing a tantrum. You were being that passenger
Speaker 1: in the plane who's already on the way. So if
Speaker 1: you already knew, well, I'm on the plane to the
Speaker 1: mal Dives, going to be there in three hours, you
Speaker 1: would download a podcast, you would do some work, you
Speaker 1: would like vibe out to a meditation. You'd have some food,
Speaker 1: you might order a champagne and some nipplies. You would
Speaker 1: enjoy yourself because you're already on the way. Well, why
Speaker 1: would you be worried? And that's what a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't get. They're in this waiting energy, They're in
Speaker 1: this Why isn't it happening to me? Why isn't it
Speaker 1: happening now? That's such a low frequency that is never
Speaker 1: going to get you two goals, or it might, but
Speaker 1: it's going to like it's going to be a shit
Speaker 1: time getting there. Think of that person on the plane
Speaker 1: like throwing in tantrum and being like I want to
Speaker 1: get there now. You would be like what is wrong
Speaker 1: with that person? So be very conscious what energy are
Speaker 1: you currently in because you cannot two frequencies cannot coexist.
Speaker 1: You are through either one or the other. So either
Speaker 1: enjoying life, enjoying the becoming, and you're so bloody grateful
Speaker 1: because you know it's already here, it's already happening, or
Speaker 1: you're in waiting, desperate, chasing energy and it's just going
Speaker 1: to take longer and you're going to have more resistance
Speaker 1: for your desires to come in and even think of
Speaker 1: it like, I don't know, this is a great example,
Speaker 1: but like let's say you're in this great relationship and
Speaker 1: you kind of like you fuck it up in some way.
Speaker 1: Let's say he leaves and he's like, I can't do
Speaker 1: this anymore. You've been a bit crazy. I'm out. How
Speaker 1: you would get that person back would not be by
Speaker 1: sending them long ass text messages, by being like I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry, I'm so shit blah blah blah, and like
Speaker 1: being really needy and clingy and desperate, because that person
Speaker 1: would be like, oh my god, I made the best decision.
Speaker 1: This person is batshit crazy. That's not how you would
Speaker 1: get that person back. How you would get that person
Speaker 1: back is working on yourself, like first of all, being like, okay,
Speaker 1: well why was I that shit crazy in that relationship?
Speaker 1: What wounds do I need to work on? And then
Speaker 1: and this is like every breakup ever, this always happens
Speaker 1: to the girl. She has a glow up. She starts
Speaker 1: focusing on herself. She's no longer focusing on the relationship
Speaker 1: and him, She's focusing on herself. She's like, all right,
Speaker 1: I've got to heal these wounds. I need to like
Speaker 1: tend to myself. And she literally because she's tending to
Speaker 1: her internal Externally, she's glowing up. She's getting hotter. And
Speaker 1: that doesn't even mean physically, but like her energy changes
Speaker 1: and she goes out, she has fun with her friends,
Speaker 1: she has fun in life. That I guarantee you that
Speaker 1: is going to attract the partner back, not being desperate
Speaker 1: and clinging and calling and texting him. It is the
Speaker 1: exact same example with the universe, with your desires, with
Speaker 1: your goals, that's just how you get them to you.
Speaker 1: You glow up, you have fun, You focus on yourself,
Speaker 1: you focus on the becoming. You become so magnetic that
Speaker 1: your desire has no choice but to come to you.
Speaker 1: Are you vibingness? I'm vibingness? Okay. That is how you
Speaker 1: can implement these new beliefs and become the person who
Speaker 1: can get anything they want. That was five simple steps.
Speaker 1: I hope you loved this episode. Like I said, if
Speaker 1: you do want to join the Rise app, that detachment
Speaker 1: meditation in there is literally like wow, just try it.
Speaker 1: It will not disappoint and it will be what you
Speaker 1: need to. Like, really, make sure you're regulating yourself and
Speaker 1: you're not interacting with the three D and you're not
Speaker 1: having the same shit come up, because that's really important.
Speaker 1: Next week we do have a guest interview which is
Speaker 1: super juicy, so you're going to love that. And if
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Speaker 1: if you do that. Thank you so much for listening,
Speaker 1: and I will chat to you in the next episode. Bye.