Speaker 1: What would you do if you found out that your
Speaker 1: father in law or you had a sneaking suspicion that
Speaker 1: your father in law was having an affair with whom
Speaker 1: who knows?
Speaker 2: What would you what do you find like like like
Speaker 2: panties in the beard or no?
Speaker 1: Okay, so hear this out, all right, there's a woman
Speaker 1: who was on her father in law's phone. Now he's
Speaker 1: been married for thirty five years. They are happily married.
Speaker 1: They are the picture perfect couple.
Speaker 3: Happily asterix, No, happily, it's got to be an asterix, apparently.
Speaker 1: So she So, this woman was on her father in
Speaker 1: law's phone and she was installing something on there, a
Speaker 1: new app, some sort of like security where whatever.
Speaker 4: She's quite techy, quite a techy young thing, and.
Speaker 1: She saw that there was a well she saw that
Speaker 1: there was like you know when you can hide apps
Speaker 1: and you can hide things. So somehow she was in
Speaker 1: an area where you can hide apps in your phone.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: Anyway, she finds that the dad has a dating app
Speaker 1: downloaded and is in his Wow, what do you do
Speaker 1: in this situation if you find out that your father
Speaker 1: in law, married thirty five years, has dating apps hidden
Speaker 1: on his phone. Do you tell your husband? Do you
Speaker 1: tell the father in law that you know? Do you
Speaker 1: tell the wife? Do you get involved? Well, everyone, don't jump.
Speaker 2: At me at one.
Speaker 3: Sorry, you just posed a humongous question to us. We're
Speaker 3: just giving a second to think about it. I would
Speaker 3: think I'd probably be like, Hey, I'm just running some
Speaker 3: stories checks on your phone. Do you want me to
Speaker 3: delete these apps that you don't use, like the dating
Speaker 3: app that you've got here?
Speaker 2: No, see what he says. I like that, brit But
Speaker 2: I'd play I'd play mind games.
Speaker 5: I'd be like, God, this fire needs a bit more tender,
Speaker 5: and I'd look at him, or it goes there's a
Speaker 5: bee out there.
Speaker 2: Listen to.
Speaker 3: What he says, plenty offiici lately, Oh that was good work.
Speaker 2: Is a Christian? He's mingling?
Speaker 5: It's Christian?
Speaker 2: Is that mingle?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 4: Do you guys liked your coffee grinder?
Speaker 2: That was a ground the worst one. But yeah, that's
Speaker 2: what we do. Why what happened? Did she confront is this?
Speaker 4: This is the big question, This is the conundrum.
Speaker 1: She's asking for help because she doesn't know what to
Speaker 1: do and feels like she's uncovered a family secret.
Speaker 4: For example, maybe he's having an affair.
Speaker 1: Or alternatively, maybe the thirty five year marriage is also
Speaker 1: very happy because they're swingers and they're having an open relationship.
Speaker 4: That's also a possibility.
Speaker 1: Imagine uncovering that your parents are having an open relationship.
Speaker 3: An app is not hidden. If you're in an open relationship,
Speaker 3: it might be hidden because you don't want your kids
Speaker 3: to see it.
Speaker 1: For that reason, you know, you don't want anyone else
Speaker 1: to know that you're in an open relationship.
Speaker 5: I think stay out because my family, the Cheery family,
Speaker 5: had a family mystery that now we all know about,
Speaker 5: and it's ruined it.
Speaker 2: Family secret, family secret. I've got one too, you want.
Speaker 2: I think I've spoken about it on the show before.
Speaker 4: Oh, I know what it is.
Speaker 2: I'm Cheery, Mitch Cheery HRR.
Speaker 4: What was your old last name?
Speaker 2: Mitch Chowie, Mitch Chowie with a E, Cowry, Cowrie.
Speaker 4: Your whole name got changed.
Speaker 5: I had a great great great great great grandfather didn't
Speaker 5: know him, and he killed someone in my family, another
Speaker 5: family member. He was cleaning his rifle and got away
Speaker 5: and he was rubbish in the local town that we
Speaker 5: lived in. So he had to change the spelling of
Speaker 5: his surname, and ever since then jury has been spelled
Speaker 5: the way it is now.
Speaker 2: What country was this in?
Speaker 4: I think Australia for some reason. I pictured your family
Speaker 4: from Denmark.
Speaker 2: My grandpa was born in Egypt and in Netherlands. It's
Speaker 2: a whole thing.
Speaker 4: It's also irrelevant to the story.
Speaker 2: But we've got to call Jade. It's something happened to
Speaker 2: you family. Mystery secret.
Speaker 6: So both my nan and pop Austrian, which I don't
Speaker 6: really think much of that. I'm quite common for people
Speaker 6: to marry people from the same country. Mine Nane passed
Speaker 6: away second and during that I think a couple of
Speaker 6: people noticed that her maiden name was the same as
Speaker 6: her married name, and then it was revealed that they
Speaker 6: were actually first cousins.
Speaker 4: Secret. That should remain a secret, But it's actually I legal.
Speaker 4: Just because it's legal doesn't make it right, but it's.
Speaker 3: Legal, so it's not wrong morally. Morally maybe, but like technically,
Speaker 3: they didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 4: They didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: Secrets don't have to necessarily be wrong, but there could
Speaker 1: be something that you don't want everyone to know in
Speaker 1: all them.
Speaker 2: That's not a statement, no, genealogically speaking.
Speaker 3: No, that's actually also incorrect.
Speaker 2: That's why I heard it happened in my family because
Speaker 2: of his insects. They found out they were cousins. Any Way,
Speaker 2: I can't handle it. I don't can family members. Did
Speaker 2: they kill me No, no