WEBVTT - MINI: Family Secrets EXPOSED 🔐

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<v Speaker 1>What would you do if you found out that your

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<v Speaker 1>father in law or you had a sneaking suspicion that

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<v Speaker 1>your father in law was having an affair with whom

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<v Speaker 1>who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>What would you what do you find like like like

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<v Speaker 2>panties in the beard or no?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so hear this out, all right, there's a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who was on her father in law's phone. Now he's

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<v Speaker 1>been married for thirty five years. They are happily married.

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<v Speaker 1>They are the picture perfect couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Happily asterix, No, happily, it's got to be an asterix, apparently.

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<v Speaker 1>So she So, this woman was on her father in

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<v Speaker 1>law's phone and she was installing something on there, a

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<v Speaker 1>new app, some sort of like security where whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>She's quite techy, quite a techy young thing, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She saw that there was a well she saw that

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<v Speaker 1>there was like you know when you can hide apps

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<v Speaker 1>and you can hide things. So somehow she was in

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<v Speaker 1>an area where you can hide apps in your phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, she finds that the dad has a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>downloaded and is in his Wow, what do you do

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<v Speaker 1>in this situation if you find out that your father

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<v Speaker 1>in law, married thirty five years, has dating apps hidden

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<v Speaker 1>on his phone. Do you tell your husband? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>tell the father in law that you know? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>tell the wife? Do you get involved? Well, everyone, don't jump.

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<v Speaker 2>At me at one.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, you just posed a humongous question to us. We're

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<v Speaker 3>just giving a second to think about it. I would

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<v Speaker 3>think I'd probably be like, Hey, I'm just running some

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<v Speaker 3>stories checks on your phone. Do you want me to

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<v Speaker 3>delete these apps that you don't use, like the dating

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<v Speaker 3>app that you've got here?

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<v Speaker 2>No, see what he says. I like that, brit But

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<v Speaker 2>I'd play I'd play mind games.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd be like, God, this fire needs a bit more tender,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'd look at him, or it goes there's a

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<v Speaker 5>bee out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen to.

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<v Speaker 3>What he says, plenty offiici lately, Oh that was good work.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a Christian? He's mingling?

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<v Speaker 5>It's Christian?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that mingle?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you guys liked your coffee grinder?

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<v Speaker 2>That was a ground the worst one. But yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what we do. Why what happened? Did she confront is this?

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<v Speaker 4>This is the big question, This is the conundrum.

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<v Speaker 1>She's asking for help because she doesn't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>do and feels like she's uncovered a family secret.

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<v Speaker 4>For example, maybe he's having an affair.

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<v Speaker 1>Or alternatively, maybe the thirty five year marriage is also

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<v Speaker 1>very happy because they're swingers and they're having an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>That's also a possibility.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine uncovering that your parents are having an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>An app is not hidden. If you're in an open relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>it might be hidden because you don't want your kids

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<v Speaker 3>to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>For that reason, you know, you don't want anyone else

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<v Speaker 1>to know that you're in an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>I think stay out because my family, the Cheery family,

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<v Speaker 5>had a family mystery that now we all know about,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's ruined it.

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<v Speaker 2>Family secret, family secret. I've got one too, you want.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've spoken about it on the show before.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I know what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Cheery, Mitch Cheery HRR.

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<v Speaker 4>What was your old last name?

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<v Speaker 2>Mitch Chowie, Mitch Chowie with a E, Cowry, Cowrie.

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<v Speaker 4>Your whole name got changed.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a great great great great great grandfather didn't

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<v Speaker 5>know him, and he killed someone in my family, another

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<v Speaker 5>family member. He was cleaning his rifle and got away

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<v Speaker 5>and he was rubbish in the local town that we

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<v Speaker 5>lived in. So he had to change the spelling of

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<v Speaker 5>his surname, and ever since then jury has been spelled

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<v Speaker 5>the way it is now.

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<v Speaker 2>What country was this in?

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<v Speaker 4>I think Australia for some reason. I pictured your family

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<v Speaker 4>from Denmark.

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<v Speaker 2>My grandpa was born in Egypt and in Netherlands. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It's also irrelevant to the story.

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<v Speaker 2>But we've got to call Jade. It's something happened to

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<v Speaker 2>you family. Mystery secret.

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<v Speaker 6>So both my nan and pop Austrian, which I don't

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<v Speaker 6>really think much of that. I'm quite common for people

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<v Speaker 6>to marry people from the same country. Mine Nane passed

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<v Speaker 6>away second and during that I think a couple of

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<v Speaker 6>people noticed that her maiden name was the same as

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<v Speaker 6>her married name, and then it was revealed that they

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<v Speaker 6>were actually first cousins.

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<v Speaker 4>Secret. That should remain a secret, But it's actually I legal.

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<v Speaker 4>Just because it's legal doesn't make it right, but it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Legal, so it's not wrong morally. Morally maybe, but like technically,

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>They didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Secrets don't have to necessarily be wrong, but there could

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<v Speaker 1>be something that you don't want everyone to know in

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<v Speaker 1>all them.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not a statement, no, genealogically speaking.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's actually also incorrect.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I heard it happened in my family because

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<v Speaker 2>of his insects. They found out they were cousins. Any Way,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't handle it. I don't can family members. Did

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<v Speaker 2>they kill me No, no