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Speaker 1: extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the R and
Speaker 1: C Potty. Today we have at Georgie's Hotline episode.
Speaker 2: These are our fun Friday.
Speaker 1: Epps where you send in your life dilemmas and me
Speaker 1: and a Tea provides you our unqualified two cents on
Speaker 1: the situation. So today's Today's questions are a bit fun.
Speaker 1: We are chatting how to find clarity, how you can
Speaker 1: manifest something when the next step isn't overly clear, and
Speaker 1: what to do when everything feels like it's going in
Speaker 1: the wrong direction.
Speaker 2: We've all been there.
Speaker 1: We've all been there, So before we get into the show,
Speaker 1: Georgie's recommendations for the week, Guys, I'm a bit shocking
Speaker 1: this week, Atiya.
Speaker 2: I've just I've had a lot of work week.
Speaker 1: It's a work week, and it's like one of those
Speaker 1: weeks where I just feel like I've had no time
Speaker 1: for anything. I had the launch of my Pedal and
Speaker 1: Pup collab, the Postcards by Georgie Winter Collection, and can
Speaker 1: I can?
Speaker 2: I Actually, I just want to.
Speaker 1: Say thank you because if any of you brought from
Speaker 1: the collection, it just it went so fast, and I
Speaker 1: honestly swear a tea it was like all my friends
Speaker 1: and family who sold it out because so many of
Speaker 1: you guys like bought pieces and it just I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just feel so weird about the.
Speaker 2: I'm just so appreciative.
Speaker 1: And again I just told he Tier, I had so
Speaker 1: many like weird feelings about it because it's like because
Speaker 1: the tears, like what do you mean you're nervous.
Speaker 2: Like shut up, But I'm like, no ah, Tea, you
Speaker 2: don't get it.
Speaker 1: It's like it's a fashion collection, so it's like I've
Speaker 1: chosen these pieces like it's quite personal, so it's like
Speaker 1: you nailed it. But if it doesn't go well, like
Speaker 1: I was just feeling really weird because I was like
Speaker 1: what if I completely mistaken this, you know, everyone's style, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, what if I completely not hit the mark here,
Speaker 1: because like I like it, but that doesn't mean.
Speaker 2: Other people like it, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's fair.
Speaker 2: So I was like freaking out a.
Speaker 1: Bit, but went really well, you guys hold out so
Speaker 1: many of the hero pieces, but there's still a lot
Speaker 1: of collection less so if you know, you did want
Speaker 1: to check it out. But yeah, it's been a big
Speaker 1: work week and then also Desert Range for and H launched, So.
Speaker 2: Yeah, been a big work week.
Speaker 1: But I do have a recommendation. It's not something I've
Speaker 1: already done, but it's something I'm doing this weekend. And
Speaker 1: this has actually come from Mel who just like keeps
Speaker 1: coming in and out of a podcast room. It's like
Speaker 1: she's had eight red bulls.
Speaker 3: Guys, it's the best.
Speaker 1: It's so funny, and she keeps coming in and out
Speaker 1: with these like creative marketing ideas for NH, and she
Speaker 1: reckons last week she was not creative at all. She
Speaker 1: was having like a creative block, and then she's like
Speaker 1: on the weekend she went and saw Jurassic Park and
Speaker 1: went to the movies and then like since then and
Speaker 1: just since the weekend, like clearing her head.
Speaker 2: She's been so creative and she's like on fire.
Speaker 3: And so I'm like, I'm gonna go to the movies.
Speaker 1: I'm still deciding between Top Gun and Jurassic Park. So
Speaker 1: a tear has seen Top Gun, and yeah, what did
Speaker 1: you think of Tia tell us?
Speaker 3: I loved it As someone it goes in skeptical to
Speaker 3: any sequel.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen the first Top Gun? Does this matter?
Speaker 3: Not really, but I'd recommend watching it before you go.
Speaker 3: It just makes it a bit more special, like you'll
Speaker 3: understand a few references, but you're also not missing out
Speaker 3: if you haven't seen it. I know the storyline of
Speaker 3: the first one because Tim watched it and I made
Speaker 3: him explain it to me. Yeah, so you should be fine.
Speaker 3: But the first one's a pretty good watch.
Speaker 2: Is the second one better?
Speaker 1: Way? Better? Oh?
Speaker 3: Like see, it's hard because for me, the second one
Speaker 3: I prefer just because I think it's relevant to me
Speaker 3: in a way because it's newer and the references are
Speaker 3: something I appreciate, whereas the old one. I love it
Speaker 3: and it's great and it's a great film, and I
Speaker 3: can appreciate how well it's made. But the references like
Speaker 3: it was before I was born.
Speaker 2: I forgot you're boring.
Speaker 3: It's nineteen eighty six, it's before you were born. Oh shit. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so Tom Cruise does look insanely he looks exactly the same.
Speaker 3: Yeah does he like not exactly the same, but like
Speaker 3: not like it's been what see.
Speaker 1: I also have heard something. I also have weird feelings
Speaker 1: about Tom Cruise because he's so fair, very problematic.
Speaker 3: But this movie is great.
Speaker 2: Like I'm I'm.
Speaker 1: A Nicole kidnap then, so I'm like, I don't actually
Speaker 1: know what happened there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Team Nicole.
Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm considering it. Tim wants to see it. So
Speaker 1: the recommendation for me guys this week is go to
Speaker 1: the movies.
Speaker 2: Meantia is saying.
Speaker 1: Like, when you go to a cinema and like you
Speaker 1: watch like a movie with a good storyline.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel inspired. It's just the best feeling. Like
Speaker 3: I feel like it just gets your create It's like
Speaker 3: a jump start for your creativity.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's that's my plans.
Speaker 1: So him saying that go to the movies, gad go
Speaker 1: to the movie. Let's get into George's hotline.
Speaker 3: Had first question. I'm feeling like I have a major
Speaker 3: block when it comes to manifesting. I know it's time
Speaker 3: for me to step into the next thing and can
Speaker 3: feel it starting, but I just don't know what it
Speaker 3: is or how I can take action to get there.
Speaker 3: Any tips on how to manifest this next step that
Speaker 3: I can feel but can't quite see.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this question. Okay, so I
Speaker 1: chat about this in the project. Oh my god, this
Speaker 1: fucking excites me. I literally read that question and I'm like, fuck, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm so excited because good shit is about to happen. Honestly,
Speaker 1: embrace that feeling. A big thing with manifesting is do
Speaker 1: not get caught up in needing to know exactly how
Speaker 1: it's going to happen or exactly what it is. A
Speaker 1: huge thing about manifesting is surrender, So you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to know how it's going to happen. A great thing
Speaker 1: you can do is, like, you know, list how it
Speaker 1: could happen or what could happen and whatnot, And that's
Speaker 1: honestly just to make you feel better as a control freak.
Speaker 1: I do this as a control freak, but manifesting, like
Speaker 1: the beauty of it, is surrendering and not needing to
Speaker 1: know the how. In regards to I call this the fogginess.
Speaker 1: So before every huge like dream milestone that has happened
Speaker 1: to me in my life, I have experienced this feeling
Speaker 1: where I explain, it's like fogginess where you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't know what it is, I don't know how I'm
Speaker 1: going to get there, but I just know I'm on
Speaker 1: like the brink of something great. Yes, and it's it's
Speaker 1: it's like anticipation. So you really feel that feeling. But
Speaker 1: so for like, let me just give you story time.
Speaker 1: So I've this when I quit my law job about
Speaker 1: Naked Harvest. But actually when I quit my law job
Speaker 1: to starting Naked Harvest was a year and a half.
Speaker 1: So for a year and a half, I just I
Speaker 1: knew I was meant for more.
Speaker 2: I knew I.
Speaker 1: Was meant, you know, for this big life changing thing,
Speaker 1: but it was so foggy to me, but I just
Speaker 1: like I knew.
Speaker 2: It was there.
Speaker 1: So a big thing with it too, is she's asking
Speaker 1: I'm getting like so excited.
Speaker 3: Well starting.
Speaker 1: And I'm like trying to just like talk so much. Sorry, guys,
Speaker 1: I need to cut and fucked out. So in regards
Speaker 1: to NH. So quit my law job and H was
Speaker 1: a year and a half. I wasn't too specific with
Speaker 1: like it has to be the perfect next step. I'm
Speaker 1: all about just taking aligned action, even if it doesn't
Speaker 1: make sense. So, for example, the steps from quitting my
Speaker 1: law job to Naked Harvest, I did things like I
Speaker 1: launched an ebook about intuitive eating and recipes like random
Speaker 1: as shit, like like obviously that was what I was
Speaker 1: into at that moment, but I wasn't like, for instance,
Speaker 1: I knew that like my lifelong career or the next
Speaker 1: big thing wasn't that thing or even about that thing.
Speaker 1: But I just followed the guided action and the guided steps,
Speaker 1: and I wasn't too worried about making mistakes or you know,
Speaker 1: we always say in this podcast, like it's all about
Speaker 1: falling forward, like you cannot fuck it up as long
Speaker 1: as you're listening to your intuition and you're following aligned action.
Speaker 1: So I did the ebook, and then there was like
Speaker 1: another thing where I started working for certain brands or
Speaker 1: certain partnerships. And it's not like that was the end goal.
Speaker 1: And it took a year and a half, but like
Speaker 1: I slowly got there, but I literally got that feeling
Speaker 1: a year and a half before it was clear to me, I.
Speaker 3: Would have gone insane feeling that for a year and
Speaker 3: a half and not knowing where I was going.
Speaker 1: I know, but that's like, I think that's the beauty
Speaker 1: of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't you reckon?
Speaker 3: Like it kind of drives you, like I just got
Speaker 3: to get there a little bit faster.
Speaker 1: Yes, And there's so and there's been so many times
Speaker 1: in my life where it has just felt foggy, Like
Speaker 1: I've even felt the same feeling with our trying to
Speaker 1: conceive journey. It's really weird. I told my best friend
Speaker 1: when me and Tim started trying, I probably fucking manifested
Speaker 1: because I spoke these words, but I literally was like,
Speaker 1: I know we're not going to get pregnant straight away.
Speaker 1: I just I know there's going to be a struggle here.
Speaker 1: I know there's going to be a lesson, but I
Speaker 1: just need to hold on and like it just I
Speaker 1: don't know how to explain it, Like I just knew
Speaker 1: there was stuff coming, and I just like I was
Speaker 1: all the most prepared for it because previous in my
Speaker 1: life I had felt these feelings and knew I just
Speaker 1: had to keep moving forward. So a big thing with
Speaker 1: this is just have with it. Don't put too much
Speaker 1: pressure that it has to be the like the next
Speaker 1: step has to be the be all and end all,
Speaker 1: like fail forward, try things, follow your intuition, follow those
Speaker 1: little stepping stones. And a huge thing that I used
Speaker 1: to do is there would just be random things that
Speaker 1: happened that I was like, I need to do that thing,
Speaker 1: like I did.
Speaker 2: Also like a whole.
Speaker 1: Bunch of like random courses like I yeah, and it's
Speaker 1: I truly believe in. For instance, you know, let's say
Speaker 1: you get a random feeling to do.
Speaker 2: A pottery class, just do it, and you don't.
Speaker 1: It's not like you want to make pottery and sell
Speaker 1: it on Etsy or that's nothing to do with your
Speaker 1: end goal. But it's maybe you go to that pottery
Speaker 1: class and you meet someone you're supposed to meet, yes, that,
Speaker 1: or you get an idea for a business, or you
Speaker 1: know that There's just so many things that happen, and
Speaker 1: I think we really get caught up in the logical
Speaker 1: brain of I want to do this thing, and the
Speaker 1: steps need to be A B and C and D,
Speaker 1: and it's just not like that. And I think, for instance,
Speaker 1: me with you know, doing that ebook the big lesson
Speaker 1: that I can see now is to do that ebook.
Speaker 1: I hired a business coach who was then very huge
Speaker 1: in me taking a risk on myself, betting on myself,
Speaker 1: and then me going, actually, you know what, I could
Speaker 1: start my own business because before that I did not
Speaker 1: have a lot of belief in myself. So there's there's
Speaker 1: all these different things and it feels really messy.
Speaker 2: I don't know, that was scary, did you guys?
Speaker 3: Hear that? Police guys.
Speaker 1: We're in the podcast and Cooper's been up in the
Speaker 1: roof like doing our internet.
Speaker 3: And as he could find someone to do it.
Speaker 1: I know, like that's like a whole thing in itself,
Speaker 1: and he's like taken the roof off and so it's
Speaker 1: it's not open now, but it's so scary. It reminds
Speaker 1: me like the fucking grudgeals thing's gonna come out anyway.
Speaker 1: Who what did you ever watch The Grudge? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: A tea hasn't seen any scary movies.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've not seen a single horror movie.
Speaker 2: Okay, good, honestly keep doing that.
Speaker 1: Anyway, back to the question, Yeah, did I answer that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so. And I think also as well,
Speaker 3: something that helps me because I've had this feeling a
Speaker 3: few times. Is just focus on how you want to
Speaker 3: feel and not what you'll be doing. Yes, love, get
Speaker 3: clear on the feeling.
Speaker 1: This is actually something also chat about in the project
Speaker 1: because lots of people will join the project and they
Speaker 1: will be like, I don't actually know what I'm manifesting.
Speaker 1: I'm not clear on the business I want to start
Speaker 1: or blah blah blah. But they just know them meant
Speaker 1: for more or they want a better life. And I
Speaker 1: say to them, honestly, that is so fine. Do not
Speaker 1: get caught up in.
Speaker 3: These like I need this job, I need this car.
Speaker 1: Do not get caught up in the details, because manifesting
Speaker 1: is all about the frequency and the vibration. So if
Speaker 1: you are clear on how you want to feel, that
Speaker 1: is honestly all you need. Like obviously visualization helps with
Speaker 1: vision boards and whatnot. Bit trust me when I say
Speaker 1: I have manifested things on just the feeling and I
Speaker 1: had no idea how they were going to look. But
Speaker 1: now looking back, I was like, fuck, that was the
Speaker 1: feeling I was sitting in, you know, when I was
Speaker 1: meditating or whatnot. And actually this is like a little
Speaker 1: hack something I do like, and this is me who's
Speaker 1: very tapped into my intuition and very like she's woo woo.
Speaker 1: She loves manifesting, she loves a shit. I will ask
Speaker 1: my journal questions.
Speaker 2: Oh tears looking at me.
Speaker 3: Like I'm crazy, know I that's interesting.
Speaker 1: So for instance, if I feel foggy, like, this is
Speaker 1: a great example of tea. So, guys, we are bringing
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer project back. This is our only
Speaker 1: so it's coming back. Here's giving me the hand movement
Speaker 1: of not to talk about this, but I'm just going
Speaker 1: to do it.
Speaker 3: No, it's coming back. We're not going to say the day.
Speaker 1: All right, We're not going to say the day, but
Speaker 1: it's going to be early July. I just I'd rather
Speaker 1: tell them.
Speaker 3: We're telling them the Tuesday after this episode goes up.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, lygly Jamie, keeple listening. The project is
Speaker 1: coming back. And I am very intuitive the way I
Speaker 1: do business. And so I sat down with my team
Speaker 1: and I was like, look, we have to bring back
Speaker 1: the project at least once this year because I kind
Speaker 1: of promised everyone that.
Speaker 2: And it's a live round.
Speaker 1: So live rounds are just like next level with like
Speaker 1: the growth and what happens in them and like the
Speaker 1: group of people who do the project, it's just like
Speaker 1: it is magnetic, it's next level energy. And so I'm like,
Speaker 1: I've got to do the project at least once day.
Speaker 1: So that's like if you don't know my seven week
Speaker 1: self development and manifesting. So it is coming back. We're
Speaker 1: going to have one live round. We're gonna like it's
Speaker 1: gonna be really really great. But so for so long,
Speaker 1: A Tear and Jamie are like, you know, when is
Speaker 1: it coming back? Like we're trying, like they're trying to plan, and.
Speaker 2: I just like it was foggy.
Speaker 1: I was just like I don't know, and I we
Speaker 1: set a date. Yeah, so I just end up randomly
Speaker 1: peaking a date because I was like, fuck, I gotta
Speaker 1: tell them.
Speaker 2: And but I didn't tell you guys this.
Speaker 1: But I actually then went home and every single morning
Speaker 1: when I would meditate, I would write in my journal
Speaker 1: when are we launching the project? So this is this
Speaker 1: is something I do when I feel foggy, and I
Speaker 1: literally write the question, and then I sit in that
Speaker 1: question and I meditate and I might journal literally about
Speaker 1: other things, but I will continuously write the same question.
Speaker 2: No joke.
Speaker 1: One day, it will just come to me, Like it
Speaker 1: could be two days, it could be five days, it
Speaker 1: could be three weeks. It will just come to me.
Speaker 1: But it's like it feels like it's not me, but
Speaker 1: it's clearing me. Like I don't know, it.
Speaker 3: Feels like very universe aligned, spiritual.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like yeah, my fucking angels or someone's telling me.
Speaker 1: But every big decision I've made like that and it
Speaker 1: just fucking works out great.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And like when it comes will you like, for example,
Speaker 3: for the project date, would it have been like you
Speaker 3: heard the date, someone said the date, and you're like,
Speaker 3: that's it, or is it just sort of all of
Speaker 3: a sudden, you're like, it's this date. It's the nineteenth
Speaker 3: of September.
Speaker 1: For the project. I wrote it in my journal. So
Speaker 1: I often meditate at my desk, and so I wrote
Speaker 1: it in the journal, and I had my calendar sitting
Speaker 1: up and I wrote in my journal, and I sat
Speaker 1: there for a little bit and then I just looked
Speaker 1: at my calendar and I literally was like, it's this day.
Speaker 1: And then I came back and I was like, so
Speaker 1: it's here, and Jamie, the dates changed and it's this
Speaker 1: day and they were all like, okay, but that's honestly,
Speaker 1: like that's so that's such a cool tactic and like
Speaker 1: little it's more for little things, Like I even remember
Speaker 1: when I first I'm talking about the project a lot
Speaker 1: bit like I honestly did this all with the project.
Speaker 1: But when I first put out the project, the price
Speaker 1: of the project, I remember sitting there because I do
Speaker 1: things in a way, and I sent this to a
Speaker 1: tier like things need to feel good and they need
Speaker 1: to intuitively feel right. Yeah, And so I used to
Speaker 1: then just say numbers, so I'd be like, you know,
Speaker 1: tun and fifty dollars, a thousand and fifty dollars, And
Speaker 1: then it just came to a point where I was
Speaker 1: like that's the price. I know there's like no strategy here,
Speaker 1: but I just I have a lot of trust in
Speaker 1: myself and you and your gut and my gut. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a gut thing for me. And that's honestly how
Speaker 1: I run my businesses.
Speaker 2: A couple often ask me.
Speaker 1: Questions like why, and I'll be like, I need to
Speaker 1: meditate on it.
Speaker 2: I'll talk to you.
Speaker 1: And then I'll come in and I'll be like we're
Speaker 1: doing this, and he'll be like why, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but we're doing it.
Speaker 3: This is what it said.
Speaker 2: It always works out.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Mel's honestly kind of similar. She's very intuitive, and we
Speaker 1: often cannot explain why we pick certain things.
Speaker 3: But it's just sort of like heart desires too, Like
Speaker 3: it's just put and you're like, I couldn't tell you why,
Speaker 3: but this is my life's purpose, like exactly the heart desires,
Speaker 3: but just with everything.
Speaker 2: It's just with everything.
Speaker 1: And that's like another thing, like if you need to
Speaker 1: know a specific detail about this manifestation, ask.
Speaker 2: Your journal, ask your journal, ask your journal.
Speaker 1: And a huge thing is the first reaction to what
Speaker 1: like the response. You've got to just trust it. If
Speaker 1: you think of the response and then you're like, oh wait, no,
Speaker 1: oh wait, was that actually intuitive? Or am I just
Speaker 1: think of saying you fucked it?
Speaker 3: Do you?
Speaker 1: I mean like, it's the first response and that's it,
Speaker 1: and you don't question it and you move.
Speaker 3: On and as soon as you question it, you're done.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't doubt your intuition because then it stops
Speaker 1: talking to you.
Speaker 3: I doubt my intuition a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did just want to build it back up.
Speaker 3: I had to.
Speaker 1: I used to really doubt myself growing up and in
Speaker 1: my early twenties. Yeah, oh yeah, that's like I feel
Speaker 1: like I do a whole podcast, we should actually do
Speaker 1: only twenties and just I used to like intuitively feel
Speaker 1: something and do the opposite.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's what society teaches you, though. Ye,
Speaker 3: almost to a certain extent. What school and university teaches
Speaker 3: you is that your heart is wrong and your head
Speaker 3: is right. You need to listen to your head.
Speaker 2: Yeah and yeah.
Speaker 3: Second question, do you have some advice on manifesting when
Speaker 3: everything seems to be going in the wrong direction and
Speaker 3: how to get out of a rut? And how do
Speaker 3: you push that feeling of worry or stress aside to
Speaker 3: then focus on gratitude and manifest something better.
Speaker 2: So are you ready a here? I'm about to blow
Speaker 2: your mind. Yeah, nothing's ever going wrong.
Speaker 3: I wish you guys could have just seen shocked.
Speaker 1: I was like, holy shit, But like, so what, I
Speaker 1: have a core belief that life is happening for me,
Speaker 1: never to me. So if things aren't going right and
Speaker 1: they're going in the opposite that I want them to.
Speaker 3: Go, are you supposed to be going in the opposite
Speaker 3: that you want to go.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's happening for me. So even when like
Speaker 1: bad shit happens, I go, how is this happening for me?
Speaker 1: What either lesson am I learning? Or what direction is
Speaker 1: it pushing me into?
Speaker 3: Interesting?
Speaker 1: Because if you think so, if you have a core
Speaker 1: belief that life is happening for you, like I also
Speaker 1: have a core belief that's like I can't fuck it up.
Speaker 1: And so if I'm really working towards something and it
Speaker 1: feels really hard things are going wrong, I'm like, it's
Speaker 1: not in alignment because life is meant to feel easy,
Speaker 1: it's meant to be flowy. When shit like that happens,
Speaker 1: I go, Okay, where am I not in alignment? Where
Speaker 1: am I kind of going wrong with things here?
Speaker 3: So how do you know? Like, say you're trying to
Speaker 3: get a new job and you're applying nothing's happening. Does
Speaker 3: that mean that you're applying for the wrong jobs or
Speaker 3: does that mean you should be staying in the job
Speaker 3: you're at.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So with that, I don't think not necessarily applying
Speaker 1: for the wrong jobs it means you either have to
Speaker 1: because for instance, if you get to the point where
Speaker 1: you apply for another job. It's because you don't want
Speaker 1: to work where you want to work, which that's an
Speaker 1: intuitive thing, which great, but it just means the perfect
Speaker 1: job has not come up yet. So if you went
Speaker 1: for an interview and you're like, that was my dream
Speaker 1: job and it didn't happen, it wasn't your dream job.
Speaker 3: And it shouldn't have happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but honestly, and it's like, right now, you can't
Speaker 1: see it. Right now, it feels like the world is
Speaker 1: ending and you didn't get what you want. But I
Speaker 1: guarantee you, in hindsight you'll look back and go, oh
Speaker 1: my god, thank god I didn't get that job.
Speaker 3: Because then you would never have applied for the right one.
Speaker 1: Yes, so much has happened to my life where I've
Speaker 1: wanted a certain outcome and I haven't got it. But
Speaker 1: now looking back, it was then the catalyst for something
Speaker 1: better to happen, or for me to learn a very
Speaker 1: valuable life lesson, because honestly, shit goes wrong and you think,
Speaker 1: how the you know, how the.
Speaker 3: Fuck could this ever ever be a good thing?
Speaker 1: Yes, and like obviously there is just shitty things that
Speaker 1: happen in this world. There's just shitty things. And I'm
Speaker 1: a big believer in your karmic role. So this is
Speaker 1: like a whole other conversation, but I believe that you know,
Speaker 1: you come to this earth and you have like a
Speaker 1: sole agreement with your soul to live out whatever happens,
Speaker 1: and you actually fully know your life before you live it,
Speaker 1: and then you're a baby and you forget it and
Speaker 1: you go through and you know, learn your lessons and
Speaker 1: do your things.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So for instance, you know, cause I've had the question
Speaker 1: of like, you know, the whole everything happens for a reason,
Speaker 1: and I've had someone come and be like, so what
Speaker 1: do you mean, like when really bad things happen, like
Speaker 1: people getting murdered or you know, just like why did
Speaker 1: that happen? And obviously lack it's you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to be like everything happens through reason, But that
Speaker 1: was that person's cal mac journey for whatever reason. Maybe
Speaker 1: it was a past life, maybe you know whatever. Like
Speaker 1: I don't like to get too into it, but also
Speaker 1: it helps me in processing.
Speaker 2: My own life.
Speaker 1: So for example, you know, when I had my miscarriage,
Speaker 1: I obviously didn't go, oh, yeah, everything happens for a reason.
Speaker 2: I'm all good like.
Speaker 3: I, you know, could you imagine?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was the saddest, you know, moment of
Speaker 1: my life and I had to process my emotions and
Speaker 1: I had to go through everything. Now in hindsight, I
Speaker 1: can see that it meant to, you know, happen because
Speaker 1: I've got my beautiful Ivy Sunday girl. And also there
Speaker 1: was just a huge lesson that I learnt there and
Speaker 1: that grew me as a person and I've evolved into
Speaker 1: a different person that I truly believe that I needed
Speaker 1: to go through in order to be a good mother. Yeap,
Speaker 1: So does that kind of make sense where? And if
Speaker 1: you think about it, if you go through life and
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, everything's going wrong, nothing's going my way,
Speaker 1: can you not see how.
Speaker 3: Negative people are just such glass half a mea and.
Speaker 1: So victim, Like they just think their life is the
Speaker 1: worst life ever and no one's got it worse than them.
Speaker 1: And I just think, imagine going through life like that,
Speaker 1: You're constantly going to attract more of that, because like
Speaker 1: attracts life.
Speaker 2: So if you.
Speaker 1: Constantly go through life going oh, things are going wrong,
Speaker 1: things are shit, You're just going to attract more of that.
Speaker 1: So if you know quote unquote bad things can happen,
Speaker 1: or things that are like not ideal or not in
Speaker 1: your situation. Imagine how different it would be if you
Speaker 1: reacted in the way of, yes, there's this shit, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna ignore it. I'm not talking about like toxic
Speaker 1: positivity process. It go through the motions. But what lesson
Speaker 1: did this then? Like, you know, teach me so I
Speaker 1: can grow as a person, so I can evolve, and
Speaker 1: you know what life actually happens for me. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna let this get me down. I'm gonna keep moving
Speaker 1: forward because good shit's about to happen. Look at those
Speaker 1: two people, Yeah, huge, Imagine the life this person has
Speaker 1: compared to that person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that story. My mum used to tell
Speaker 3: it to me all the time when I was little,
Speaker 3: about these two guys. I think they were like stuck
Speaker 3: in a tower or a prison or something, and one
Speaker 3: of them nice, great, sorry one of them they both
Speaker 3: looked out the same window, and one of them always
Speaker 3: looked up into the stars, and the other one always
Speaker 3: looked down into the mud. And it was like the
Speaker 3: one who looked up in the stars was always happy,
Speaker 3: in positive and inspired, and the one that looked down
Speaker 3: to the mud, just hated everything.
Speaker 2: Perspective is everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So going back to the question, because we died,
Speaker 1: we love to ramble. I think you need to change
Speaker 1: this narrative. I think you need to go why are
Speaker 1: things going on the quote unquote wrong direction? And how
Speaker 1: can I actually see this as a beautiful growing moment
Speaker 1: in my life?
Speaker 3: And where is it leading you? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Where is it leading?
Speaker 1: And I think maybe I think sometimes we're so set
Speaker 1: on a certain outcome that we get tunnel vision and
Speaker 1: we get blinded from like the signs.
Speaker 2: They've got a.
Speaker 1: Big sign, They're like look over here and your tunnel vision. Oh,
Speaker 1: didn't get that job?
Speaker 3: Do you know that? Hell?
Speaker 1: And so I think it's about maybe putting your blinders
Speaker 1: and like down and going Okay, what has happened in
Speaker 1: the past, getting reflective.
Speaker 3: Looking around you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is this maybe teaching me? What direction am
Speaker 1: I kind of getting pushed into? How do I feel
Speaker 1: about this? You know, swapping the narrative from not so
Speaker 1: much this negative to this new positive and going from there.
Speaker 2: Love and sorry.
Speaker 1: Just to answer the very last question about how can
Speaker 1: I push that feeling of warry and stress aside and
Speaker 1: focus on gratitude and manifest something better. I've kind of
Speaker 1: just answered that, but it's change your narrative, write a
Speaker 1: new story, because you can do that at any stage. Guys,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. We're just going to leave it
Speaker 1: at two questions today because we really went deep. I
Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed it. God, I love talking about manifest
Speaker 1: me too.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm going to go home and I don't know, meditate.
Speaker 2: Ask my journal something.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
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