1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: the land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Bear region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: to their elders past and present and extend that respect 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: to all Aboriginal and terrest Raid Islander peoples. Today. Hello 7 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This 8 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: is the podcast for ordinary people who want to do 9 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the R and 10 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: C Potty. Today we have at Georgie's Hotline episode. 11 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 2: These are our fun Friday. 12 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: Epps where you send in your life dilemmas and me 13 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: and a Tea provides you our unqualified two cents on 14 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: the situation. So today's Today's questions are a bit fun. 15 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: We are chatting how to find clarity, how you can 16 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 1: manifest something when the next step isn't overly clear, and 17 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: what to do when everything feels like it's going in 18 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: the wrong direction. 19 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 2: We've all been there. 20 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: We've all been there, So before we get into the show, 21 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:34,919 Speaker 1: Georgie's recommendations for the week, Guys, I'm a bit shocking 22 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: this week, Atiya. 23 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: I've just I've had a lot of work week. 24 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: It's a work week, and it's like one of those 25 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: weeks where I just feel like I've had no time 26 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: for anything. I had the launch of my Pedal and 27 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: Pup collab, the Postcards by Georgie Winter Collection, and can 28 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: I can? 29 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: I Actually, I just want to. 30 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: Say thank you because if any of you brought from 31 00:01:59,920 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: the collection, it just it went so fast, and I 32 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: honestly swear a tea it was like all my friends 33 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: and family who sold it out because so many of 34 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: you guys like bought pieces and it just I don't know, 35 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: I just feel so weird about the. 36 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,399 Speaker 2: I'm just so appreciative. 37 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: And again I just told he Tier, I had so 38 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: many like weird feelings about it because it's like because 39 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: the tears, like what do you mean you're nervous. 40 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 2: Like shut up, But I'm like, no ah, Tea, you 41 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 2: don't get it. 42 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: It's like it's a fashion collection, so it's like I've 43 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: chosen these pieces like it's quite personal, so it's like 44 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: you nailed it. But if it doesn't go well, like 45 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: I was just feeling really weird because I was like 46 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: what if I completely mistaken this, you know, everyone's style, Like, 47 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: you know, what if I completely not hit the mark here, 48 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: because like I like it, but that doesn't mean. 49 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: Other people like it, you know. 50 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: Yeah that's fair. 51 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: So I was like freaking out a. 52 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: Bit, but went really well, you guys hold out so 53 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: many of the hero pieces, but there's still a lot 54 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: of collection less so if you know, you did want 55 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: to check it out. But yeah, it's been a big 56 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: work week and then also Desert Range for and H launched, So. 57 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, been a big work week. 58 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: But I do have a recommendation. It's not something I've 59 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: already done, but it's something I'm doing this weekend. And 60 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: this has actually come from Mel who just like keeps 61 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: coming in and out of a podcast room. It's like 62 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: she's had eight red bulls. 63 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 3: Guys, it's the best. 64 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: It's so funny, and she keeps coming in and out 65 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: with these like creative marketing ideas for NH, and she 66 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: reckons last week she was not creative at all. She 67 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: was having like a creative block, and then she's like 68 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: on the weekend she went and saw Jurassic Park and 69 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: went to the movies and then like since then and 70 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: just since the weekend, like clearing her head. 71 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: She's been so creative and she's like on fire. 72 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: And so I'm like, I'm gonna go to the movies. 73 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: I'm still deciding between Top Gun and Jurassic Park. So 74 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: a tear has seen Top Gun, and yeah, what did 75 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: you think of Tia tell us? 76 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 3: I loved it As someone it goes in skeptical to 77 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: any sequel. 78 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 2: I haven't seen the first Top Gun? Does this matter? 79 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: Not really, but I'd recommend watching it before you go. 80 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: It just makes it a bit more special, like you'll 81 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 3: understand a few references, but you're also not missing out 82 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 3: if you haven't seen it. I know the storyline of 83 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 3: the first one because Tim watched it and I made 84 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 3: him explain it to me. Yeah, so you should be fine. 85 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: But the first one's a pretty good watch. 86 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: Is the second one better? 87 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: Way? Better? Oh? 88 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: Like see, it's hard because for me, the second one 89 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: I prefer just because I think it's relevant to me 90 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 3: in a way because it's newer and the references are 91 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 3: something I appreciate, whereas the old one. I love it 92 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: and it's great and it's a great film, and I 93 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: can appreciate how well it's made. But the references like 94 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 3: it was before I was born. 95 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: I forgot you're boring. 96 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: It's nineteen eighty six, it's before you were born. Oh shit. Yeah, 97 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: so Tom Cruise does look insanely he looks exactly the same. 98 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 3: Yeah does he like not exactly the same, but like 99 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 3: not like it's been what see. 100 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: I also have heard something. I also have weird feelings 101 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: about Tom Cruise because he's so fair, very problematic. 102 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 3: But this movie is great. 103 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: Like I'm I'm. 104 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: A Nicole kidnap then, so I'm like, I don't actually 105 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: know what happened there. 106 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Team Nicole. 107 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm considering it. Tim wants to see it. So 108 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: the recommendation for me guys this week is go to 109 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 1: the movies. 110 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: Meantia is saying. 111 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: Like, when you go to a cinema and like you 112 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: watch like a movie with a good storyline. 113 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel inspired. It's just the best feeling. Like 114 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 3: I feel like it just gets your create It's like 115 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 3: a jump start for your creativity. 116 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's that's my plans. 117 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: So him saying that go to the movies, gad go 118 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: to the movie. Let's get into George's hotline. 119 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 3: Had first question. I'm feeling like I have a major 120 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: block when it comes to manifesting. I know it's time 121 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: for me to step into the next thing and can 122 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 3: feel it starting, but I just don't know what it 123 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 3: is or how I can take action to get there. 124 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 3: Any tips on how to manifest this next step that 125 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 3: I can feel but can't quite see. 126 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this question. Okay, so I 127 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: chat about this in the project. Oh my god, this 128 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: fucking excites me. I literally read that question and I'm like, fuck, yes, 129 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm so excited because good shit is about to happen. Honestly, 130 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: embrace that feeling. A big thing with manifesting is do 131 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: not get caught up in needing to know exactly how 132 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: it's going to happen or exactly what it is. A 133 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: huge thing about manifesting is surrender, So you're not supposed 134 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: to know how it's going to happen. A great thing 135 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: you can do is, like, you know, list how it 136 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: could happen or what could happen and whatnot, And that's 137 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: honestly just to make you feel better as a control freak. 138 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: I do this as a control freak, but manifesting, like 139 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: the beauty of it, is surrendering and not needing to 140 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: know the how. In regards to I call this the fogginess. 141 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: So before every huge like dream milestone that has happened 142 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: to me in my life, I have experienced this feeling 143 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: where I explain, it's like fogginess where you're like, I 144 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: don't know what it is, I don't know how I'm 145 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: going to get there, but I just know I'm on 146 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: like the brink of something great. Yes, and it's it's 147 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: it's like anticipation. So you really feel that feeling. But 148 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: so for like, let me just give you story time. 149 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: So I've this when I quit my law job about 150 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: Naked Harvest. But actually when I quit my law job 151 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: to starting Naked Harvest was a year and a half. 152 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: So for a year and a half, I just I 153 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: knew I was meant for more. 154 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: I knew I. 155 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: Was meant, you know, for this big life changing thing, 156 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: but it was so foggy to me, but I just 157 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: like I knew. 158 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 2: It was there. 159 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: So a big thing with it too, is she's asking 160 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm getting like so excited. 161 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 3: Well starting. 162 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: And I'm like trying to just like talk so much. Sorry, guys, 163 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: I need to cut and fucked out. So in regards 164 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: to NH. So quit my law job and H was 165 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: a year and a half. I wasn't too specific with 166 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: like it has to be the perfect next step. I'm 167 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: all about just taking aligned action, even if it doesn't 168 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: make sense. So, for example, the steps from quitting my 169 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: law job to Naked Harvest, I did things like I 170 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: launched an ebook about intuitive eating and recipes like random 171 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: as shit, like like obviously that was what I was 172 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: into at that moment, but I wasn't like, for instance, 173 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: I knew that like my lifelong career or the next 174 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: big thing wasn't that thing or even about that thing. 175 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: But I just followed the guided action and the guided steps, 176 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: and I wasn't too worried about making mistakes or you know, 177 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 1: we always say in this podcast, like it's all about 178 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: falling forward, like you cannot fuck it up as long 179 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 1: as you're listening to your intuition and you're following aligned action. 180 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: So I did the ebook, and then there was like 181 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: another thing where I started working for certain brands or 182 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: certain partnerships. And it's not like that was the end goal. 183 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: And it took a year and a half, but like 184 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: I slowly got there, but I literally got that feeling 185 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 1: a year and a half before it was clear to me, I. 186 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 3: Would have gone insane feeling that for a year and 187 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 3: a half and not knowing where I was going. 188 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: I know, but that's like, I think that's the beauty 189 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: of it. 190 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't you reckon? 191 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 3: Like it kind of drives you, like I just got 192 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 3: to get there a little bit faster. 193 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: Yes, And there's so and there's been so many times 194 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: in my life where it has just felt foggy, Like 195 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: I've even felt the same feeling with our trying to 196 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 1: conceive journey. It's really weird. I told my best friend 197 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: when me and Tim started trying, I probably fucking manifested 198 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: because I spoke these words, but I literally was like, 199 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: I know we're not going to get pregnant straight away. 200 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: I just I know there's going to be a struggle here. 201 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: I know there's going to be a lesson, but I 202 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 1: just need to hold on and like it just I 203 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: don't know how to explain it, Like I just knew 204 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: there was stuff coming, and I just like I was 205 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: all the most prepared for it because previous in my 206 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: life I had felt these feelings and knew I just 207 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: had to keep moving forward. So a big thing with 208 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: this is just have with it. Don't put too much 209 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: pressure that it has to be the like the next 210 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: step has to be the be all and end all, 211 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: like fail forward, try things, follow your intuition, follow those 212 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: little stepping stones. And a huge thing that I used 213 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: to do is there would just be random things that 214 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: happened that I was like, I need to do that thing, 215 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: like I did. 216 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: Also like a whole. 217 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: Bunch of like random courses like I yeah, and it's 218 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: I truly believe in. For instance, you know, let's say 219 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: you get a random feeling to do. 220 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 2: A pottery class, just do it, and you don't. 221 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: It's not like you want to make pottery and sell 222 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 1: it on Etsy or that's nothing to do with your 223 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: end goal. But it's maybe you go to that pottery 224 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: class and you meet someone you're supposed to meet, yes, that, 225 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: or you get an idea for a business, or you 226 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: know that There's just so many things that happen, and 227 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: I think we really get caught up in the logical 228 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: brain of I want to do this thing, and the 229 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: steps need to be A B and C and D, 230 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: and it's just not like that. And I think, for instance, 231 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: me with you know, doing that ebook the big lesson 232 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 1: that I can see now is to do that ebook. 233 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: I hired a business coach who was then very huge 234 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: in me taking a risk on myself, betting on myself, 235 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: and then me going, actually, you know what, I could 236 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: start my own business because before that I did not 237 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: have a lot of belief in myself. So there's there's 238 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: all these different things and it feels really messy. 239 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, that was scary, did you guys? 240 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 3: Hear that? Police guys. 241 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: We're in the podcast and Cooper's been up in the 242 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: roof like doing our internet. 243 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: And as he could find someone to do it. 244 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: I know, like that's like a whole thing in itself, 245 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 1: and he's like taken the roof off and so it's 246 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: it's not open now, but it's so scary. It reminds 247 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: me like the fucking grudgeals thing's gonna come out anyway. 248 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: Who what did you ever watch The Grudge? Oh my god, 249 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: A tea hasn't seen any scary movies. 250 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've not seen a single horror movie. 251 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 2: Okay, good, honestly keep doing that. 252 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: Anyway, back to the question, Yeah, did I answer that? 253 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so. And I think also as well, 254 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: something that helps me because I've had this feeling a 255 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 3: few times. Is just focus on how you want to 256 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 3: feel and not what you'll be doing. Yes, love, get 257 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 3: clear on the feeling. 258 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: This is actually something also chat about in the project 259 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 1: because lots of people will join the project and they 260 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 1: will be like, I don't actually know what I'm manifesting. 261 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm not clear on the business I want to start 262 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 1: or blah blah blah. But they just know them meant 263 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: for more or they want a better life. And I 264 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: say to them, honestly, that is so fine. Do not 265 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: get caught up in. 266 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 3: These like I need this job, I need this car. 267 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 1: Do not get caught up in the details, because manifesting 268 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: is all about the frequency and the vibration. So if 269 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: you are clear on how you want to feel, that 270 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: is honestly all you need. Like obviously visualization helps with 271 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: vision boards and whatnot. Bit trust me when I say 272 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: I have manifested things on just the feeling and I 273 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: had no idea how they were going to look. But 274 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: now looking back, I was like, fuck, that was the 275 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: feeling I was sitting in, you know, when I was 276 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: meditating or whatnot. And actually this is like a little 277 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: hack something I do like, and this is me who's 278 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: very tapped into my intuition and very like she's woo woo. 279 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: She loves manifesting, she loves a shit. I will ask 280 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: my journal questions. 281 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 2: Oh tears looking at me. 282 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 3: Like I'm crazy, know I that's interesting. 283 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: So for instance, if I feel foggy, like, this is 284 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: a great example of tea. So, guys, we are bringing 285 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer project back. This is our only 286 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: so it's coming back. Here's giving me the hand movement 287 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: of not to talk about this, but I'm just going 288 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: to do it. 289 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 3: No, it's coming back. We're not going to say the day. 290 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: All right, We're not going to say the day, but 291 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: it's going to be early July. I just I'd rather 292 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: tell them. 293 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 3: We're telling them the Tuesday after this episode goes up. 294 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: All right, guys, lygly Jamie, keeple listening. The project is 295 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: coming back. And I am very intuitive the way I 296 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: do business. And so I sat down with my team 297 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, look, we have to bring back 298 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: the project at least once this year because I kind 299 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: of promised everyone that. 300 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 2: And it's a live round. 301 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: So live rounds are just like next level with like 302 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: the growth and what happens in them and like the 303 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: group of people who do the project, it's just like 304 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: it is magnetic, it's next level energy. And so I'm like, 305 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: I've got to do the project at least once day. 306 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: So that's like if you don't know my seven week 307 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 1: self development and manifesting. So it is coming back. We're 308 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: going to have one live round. We're gonna like it's 309 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: gonna be really really great. But so for so long, 310 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: A Tear and Jamie are like, you know, when is 311 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: it coming back? Like we're trying, like they're trying to plan, and. 312 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 2: I just like it was foggy. 313 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 1: I was just like I don't know, and I we 314 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 1: set a date. Yeah, so I just end up randomly 315 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: peaking a date because I was like, fuck, I gotta 316 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: tell them. 317 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: And but I didn't tell you guys this. 318 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: But I actually then went home and every single morning 319 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: when I would meditate, I would write in my journal 320 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: when are we launching the project? So this is this 321 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: is something I do when I feel foggy, and I 322 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: literally write the question, and then I sit in that 323 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: question and I meditate and I might journal literally about 324 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: other things, but I will continuously write the same question. 325 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: No joke. 326 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: One day, it will just come to me, Like it 327 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: could be two days, it could be five days, it 328 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: could be three weeks. It will just come to me. 329 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: But it's like it feels like it's not me, but 330 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: it's clearing me. Like I don't know, it. 331 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 3: Feels like very universe aligned, spiritual. 332 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, like yeah, my fucking angels or someone's telling me. 333 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: But every big decision I've made like that and it 334 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 1: just fucking works out great. 335 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 3: Wow. 336 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 337 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 3: And like when it comes will you like, for example, 338 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 3: for the project date, would it have been like you 339 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 3: heard the date, someone said the date, and you're like, 340 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 3: that's it, or is it just sort of all of 341 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 3: a sudden, you're like, it's this date. It's the nineteenth 342 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 3: of September. 343 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: For the project. I wrote it in my journal. So 344 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: I often meditate at my desk, and so I wrote 345 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 1: it in the journal, and I had my calendar sitting 346 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 1: up and I wrote in my journal, and I sat 347 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: there for a little bit and then I just looked 348 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 1: at my calendar and I literally was like, it's this day. 349 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: And then I came back and I was like, so 350 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: it's here, and Jamie, the dates changed and it's this 351 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: day and they were all like, okay, but that's honestly, 352 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: like that's so that's such a cool tactic and like 353 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 1: little it's more for little things, Like I even remember 354 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: when I first I'm talking about the project a lot 355 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: bit like I honestly did this all with the project. 356 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: But when I first put out the project, the price 357 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: of the project, I remember sitting there because I do 358 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: things in a way, and I sent this to a 359 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: tier like things need to feel good and they need 360 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: to intuitively feel right. Yeah, And so I used to 361 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: then just say numbers, so I'd be like, you know, 362 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: tun and fifty dollars, a thousand and fifty dollars, And 363 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: then it just came to a point where I was 364 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: like that's the price. I know there's like no strategy here, 365 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: but I just I have a lot of trust in 366 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: myself and you and your gut and my gut. Yeah, 367 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 1: it's a gut thing for me. And that's honestly how 368 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: I run my businesses. 369 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 2: A couple often ask me. 370 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: Questions like why, and I'll be like, I need to 371 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: meditate on it. 372 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 2: I'll talk to you. 373 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: And then I'll come in and I'll be like we're 374 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 1: doing this, and he'll be like why, and I'm like, 375 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: I don't know, but we're doing it. 376 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 3: This is what it said. 377 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: It always works out. 378 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god. 379 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 1: Mel's honestly kind of similar. She's very intuitive, and we 380 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 1: often cannot explain why we pick certain things. 381 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 3: But it's just sort of like heart desires too, Like 382 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 3: it's just put and you're like, I couldn't tell you why, 383 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: but this is my life's purpose, like exactly the heart desires, 384 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 3: but just with everything. 385 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 2: It's just with everything. 386 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: And that's like another thing, like if you need to 387 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 1: know a specific detail about this manifestation, ask. 388 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: Your journal, ask your journal, ask your journal. 389 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: And a huge thing is the first reaction to what 390 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: like the response. You've got to just trust it. If 391 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: you think of the response and then you're like, oh wait, no, 392 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: oh wait, was that actually intuitive? Or am I just 393 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: think of saying you fucked it? 394 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 3: Do you? 395 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: I mean like, it's the first response and that's it, 396 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: and you don't question it and you move. 397 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 3: On and as soon as you question it, you're done. 398 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't doubt your intuition because then it stops 399 00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: talking to you. 400 00:19:58,480 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 3: I doubt my intuition a lot. 401 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did just want to build it back up. 402 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 3: I had to. 403 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 1: I used to really doubt myself growing up and in 404 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: my early twenties. Yeah, oh yeah, that's like I feel 405 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: like I do a whole podcast, we should actually do 406 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 1: only twenties and just I used to like intuitively feel 407 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: something and do the opposite. 408 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 3: I feel like that's what society teaches you, though. Ye, 409 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 3: almost to a certain extent. What school and university teaches 410 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 3: you is that your heart is wrong and your head 411 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 3: is right. You need to listen to your head. 412 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,679 Speaker 2: Yeah and yeah. 413 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 3: Second question, do you have some advice on manifesting when 414 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 3: everything seems to be going in the wrong direction and 415 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 3: how to get out of a rut? And how do 416 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 3: you push that feeling of worry or stress aside to 417 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 3: then focus on gratitude and manifest something better. 418 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 2: So are you ready a here? I'm about to blow 419 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 2: your mind. Yeah, nothing's ever going wrong. 420 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: I wish you guys could have just seen shocked. 421 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: I was like, holy shit, But like, so what, I 422 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: have a core belief that life is happening for me, 423 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: never to me. So if things aren't going right and 424 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: they're going in the opposite that I want them to. 425 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 3: Go, are you supposed to be going in the opposite 426 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 3: that you want to go. 427 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's happening for me. So even when like 428 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: bad shit happens, I go, how is this happening for me? 429 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: What either lesson am I learning? Or what direction is 430 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: it pushing me into? 431 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 3: Interesting? 432 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: Because if you think so, if you have a core 433 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: belief that life is happening for you, like I also 434 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: have a core belief that's like I can't fuck it up. 435 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 1: And so if I'm really working towards something and it 436 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: feels really hard things are going wrong, I'm like, it's 437 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: not in alignment because life is meant to feel easy, 438 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: it's meant to be flowy. When shit like that happens, 439 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: I go, Okay, where am I not in alignment? Where 440 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: am I kind of going wrong with things here? 441 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: So how do you know? Like, say you're trying to 442 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 3: get a new job and you're applying nothing's happening. Does 443 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 3: that mean that you're applying for the wrong jobs or 444 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 3: does that mean you should be staying in the job 445 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 3: you're at. 446 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, So with that, I don't think not necessarily applying 447 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 1: for the wrong jobs it means you either have to 448 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 1: because for instance, if you get to the point where 449 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: you apply for another job. It's because you don't want 450 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 1: to work where you want to work, which that's an 451 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: intuitive thing, which great, but it just means the perfect 452 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: job has not come up yet. So if you went 453 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: for an interview and you're like, that was my dream 454 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 1: job and it didn't happen, it wasn't your dream job. 455 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 3: And it shouldn't have happened. 456 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but honestly, and it's like, right now, you can't 457 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 1: see it. Right now, it feels like the world is 458 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: ending and you didn't get what you want. But I 459 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 1: guarantee you, in hindsight you'll look back and go, oh 460 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: my god, thank god I didn't get that job. 461 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 3: Because then you would never have applied for the right one. 462 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: Yes, so much has happened to my life where I've 463 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: wanted a certain outcome and I haven't got it. But 464 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 1: now looking back, it was then the catalyst for something 465 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: better to happen, or for me to learn a very 466 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,919 Speaker 1: valuable life lesson, because honestly, shit goes wrong and you think, 467 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: how the you know, how the. 468 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 3: Fuck could this ever ever be a good thing? 469 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 1: Yes, and like obviously there is just shitty things that 470 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: happen in this world. There's just shitty things. And I'm 471 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: a big believer in your karmic role. So this is 472 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: like a whole other conversation, but I believe that you know, 473 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: you come to this earth and you have like a 474 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,879 Speaker 1: sole agreement with your soul to live out whatever happens, 475 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 1: and you actually fully know your life before you live it, 476 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: and then you're a baby and you forget it and 477 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: you go through and you know, learn your lessons and 478 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: do your things. 479 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 480 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: So for instance, you know, cause I've had the question 481 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: of like, you know, the whole everything happens for a reason, 482 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 1: and I've had someone come and be like, so what 483 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: do you mean, like when really bad things happen, like 484 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: people getting murdered or you know, just like why did 485 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: that happen? And obviously lack it's you know, I'm not 486 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: going to be like everything happens through reason, But that 487 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: was that person's cal mac journey for whatever reason. Maybe 488 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: it was a past life, maybe you know whatever. Like 489 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 1: I don't like to get too into it, but also 490 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: it helps me in processing. 491 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 2: My own life. 492 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: So for example, you know, when I had my miscarriage, 493 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: I obviously didn't go, oh, yeah, everything happens for a reason. 494 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 2: I'm all good like. 495 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 3: I, you know, could you imagine? 496 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was the saddest, you know, moment of 497 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: my life and I had to process my emotions and 498 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: I had to go through everything. Now in hindsight, I 499 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: can see that it meant to, you know, happen because 500 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: I've got my beautiful Ivy Sunday girl. And also there 501 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: was just a huge lesson that I learnt there and 502 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: that grew me as a person and I've evolved into 503 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 1: a different person that I truly believe that I needed 504 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: to go through in order to be a good mother. Yeap, 505 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 1: So does that kind of make sense where? And if 506 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: you think about it, if you go through life and 507 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:30,360 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, everything's going wrong, nothing's going my way, 508 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 1: can you not see how. 509 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 3: Negative people are just such glass half a mea and. 510 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: So victim, Like they just think their life is the 511 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: worst life ever and no one's got it worse than them. 512 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: And I just think, imagine going through life like that, 513 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: You're constantly going to attract more of that, because like 514 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 1: attracts life. 515 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 2: So if you. 516 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 1: Constantly go through life going oh, things are going wrong, 517 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: things are shit, You're just going to attract more of that. 518 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: So if you know quote unquote bad things can happen, 519 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: or things that are like not ideal or not in 520 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 1: your situation. Imagine how different it would be if you 521 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 1: reacted in the way of, yes, there's this shit, I'm 522 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 1: not gonna ignore it. I'm not talking about like toxic 523 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: positivity process. It go through the motions. But what lesson 524 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 1: did this then? Like, you know, teach me so I 525 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: can grow as a person, so I can evolve, and 526 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: you know what life actually happens for me. I'm not 527 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 1: gonna let this get me down. I'm gonna keep moving 528 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,360 Speaker 1: forward because good shit's about to happen. Look at those 529 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: two people, Yeah, huge, Imagine the life this person has 530 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,199 Speaker 1: compared to that person. 531 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that story. My mum used to tell 532 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 3: it to me all the time when I was little, 533 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 3: about these two guys. I think they were like stuck 534 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 3: in a tower or a prison or something, and one 535 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 3: of them nice, great, sorry one of them they both 536 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 3: looked out the same window, and one of them always 537 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 3: looked up into the stars, and the other one always 538 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 3: looked down into the mud. And it was like the 539 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 3: one who looked up in the stars was always happy, 540 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 3: in positive and inspired, and the one that looked down 541 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 3: to the mud, just hated everything. 542 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 2: Perspective is everything. 543 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, So going back to the question, because we died, 544 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: we love to ramble. I think you need to change 545 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: this narrative. I think you need to go why are 546 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 1: things going on the quote unquote wrong direction? And how 547 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 1: can I actually see this as a beautiful growing moment 548 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,199 Speaker 1: in my life? 549 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 3: And where is it leading you? Yeah? 550 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: Where is it leading? 551 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 1: And I think maybe I think sometimes we're so set 552 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: on a certain outcome that we get tunnel vision and 553 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,880 Speaker 1: we get blinded from like the signs. 554 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: They've got a. 555 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: Big sign, They're like look over here and your tunnel vision. Oh, 556 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 1: didn't get that job? 557 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 3: Do you know that? Hell? 558 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: And so I think it's about maybe putting your blinders 559 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: and like down and going Okay, what has happened in 560 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,199 Speaker 1: the past, getting reflective. 561 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 3: Looking around you? 562 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, what is this maybe teaching me? What direction am 563 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: I kind of getting pushed into? How do I feel 564 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: about this? You know, swapping the narrative from not so 565 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: much this negative to this new positive and going from there. 566 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 2: Love and sorry. 567 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,120 Speaker 1: Just to answer the very last question about how can 568 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: I push that feeling of warry and stress aside and 569 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: focus on gratitude and manifest something better. I've kind of 570 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: just answered that, but it's change your narrative, write a 571 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 1: new story, because you can do that at any stage. Guys, 572 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: thank you so much. We're just going to leave it 573 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 1: at two questions today because we really went deep. I 574 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed it. God, I love talking about manifest 575 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: me too. 576 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm going to go home and I don't know, meditate. 577 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 2: Ask my journal something. 578 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 579 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of 580 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer podcast. 581 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 2: If you enjoyed it and. 582 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: Want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Rise 583 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: Andconquer dot podcast and join our Facebook discussion group, a 584 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquered podcast community. 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