1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda gam Nation. 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 2: I don't know what my parenting style is. I think 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: it was pretty much whatever was in front of me 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: I kind of dealt with. But there are so many 5 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 2: different styles of parents outback, spiritual, gentle, unstructured, road school, influencer, etcetera, etcetera. 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 2: To unravel all of this and to try and for 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 2: all of us to glean some information about whether we're 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 2: doing the right thing or not. Parental Guidance Season two 9 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: starts again on Monday. Ali Langdon is with us as 10 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: the host. Hello, Ali, how are you? Hell? 11 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: Hello? We're back seasoned. 12 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: What kind of parent are you? 13 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 3: I think I'm perfect, in fact, so good at it. 14 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: We're not showing my parenting style because we'll just put 15 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: your water shame I'm wearing on TV. 16 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: I raise my voice. 17 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 3: I'm that parent who just, you know, calmly deals with 18 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: everything before them. 19 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 4: But unfortunately there's no video evidence today. 20 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 5: It's funny that because how old are your kids now? 21 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: Four and six? 22 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 4: Never lose my call ever, But. 23 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 5: Four and six is a great age, and I often 24 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,839 Speaker 5: think about when my kids were four and six at that. 25 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: Age, still have their moments. 26 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: Look, it's easier than you. 27 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 4: Know, it was a year ago, right, But no, I 28 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 4: mean parentings hard. Look it is, and just when you. 29 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: Think you're through the bit, we have to keep them 30 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 2: alive when they're younger. Then you hit the dangers of 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: the digital age with the teens, and I know you're 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: dealing with that too, because this is a new parenting 33 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 2: thing that we haven't had to deal with before. 34 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 3: Really, And look, we have some really amazing challenges and 35 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 3: we do all the challenges with like child psychologists and 36 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: things behind them who come up with these ideas. 37 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 4: And some of the online challenges are actually. 38 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: Terrifying and often you know a lot of parents they've 39 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 3: talked to their kids about this stuff, but then when 40 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: you actually see it in action and what can actually happen, 41 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 3: there's some pretty tough conversations that we then have around 42 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 3: those issues. So for that the show is worth watching 43 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 3: and just you know, the language you can use with 44 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: your kids. But like we you know, we saw with 45 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 3: one of the challenges, within a couple of minutes, one 46 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 3: of the kids had given up their address, wow, and 47 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 3: agreed to and this is you know, and it's so 48 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 3: it's really scary when you see it play out like that. 49 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, and a lot of the challenges. 50 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 3: We had another one where we had a delivery man 51 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: come to the door now and I'm going to talk 52 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 3: to our kids about stranger danger at the park and 53 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 3: what have you. But we've never had that discussion, and 54 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 3: it's who of the kids? Do the kids let this 55 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 3: person in? And so there's just a lot of great 56 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 3: moments and challenges which will spark conversations at home. 57 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, how do you go with your kids and screen time? 58 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 5: Because I think for your parents, you as a young 59 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 5: parent this generation, because my kids were sort of My 60 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 5: youngest I dealing with screen time with him. He's twenty, 61 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 5: but he started with that. I just look, you see 62 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 5: a little three or four year old with a tablet 63 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 5: in the hang You think, well, what's that? What's that 64 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 5: mean for the future? 65 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean our kids, you them, but we'd 66 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 3: limit it. I just had a flight back from Darwin, actually, 67 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 3: and I took my mum and the two kids, and 68 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: my mom sat with my little boy, who's six and 69 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 3: all in the flight there and on the flight back. 70 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: She never turned a screen on. She kept him entertained. 71 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: I don't think we'd even taken off. The wheels were 72 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 3: still on the ground and my four year old she 73 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,119 Speaker 3: was watching a movie, right, Because that's hard parenting. 74 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 2: We're all tired, we're all it's very hard to be 75 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 2: a vigilant parent in that regard, isn't. 76 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: It It is? 77 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 3: I mean we have rules around it at home, like 78 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 3: now in the mornings, like the TV doesn't go on 79 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 3: in the mornings, which is really nice. 80 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: We're all there together. 81 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: You're in morning too, now that I'm off. 82 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 3: It was weird the alarm going this morning out of 83 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: a habit. So we sort of manage it in that way. 84 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: But that part that's kind of ahead of It's like 85 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 3: we've got the conversations now. My six year old talks 86 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: about can I watch YouTube? It's like, Maye, how do 87 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: you know about YouTube? But the kids at school and 88 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 3: they've got older siblings, and you know, it comes in, 89 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 3: it creeps in. 90 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a And you're so busy. You've got a 91 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 5: current affair that's going well, everything's going well with that. 92 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 5: You know, I send you that you're getting the pep text. 93 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 5: I send you a pep text every now and there's 94 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 5: and you've nailed that bit. 95 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: That piece to camera. 96 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: I do. 97 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 4: I do actually really appreciate that fearback text. 98 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 99 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 4: And I also, no one on TV tells you if 100 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 4: you're doing any any good? 101 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 5: Does anyone at TV tell you? 102 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 4: They tell you they're telling you when you've stuffed. 103 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 5: To Yeah, they don't tell you that you're doing good. 104 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 5: They don't say, hey, g Alie, you nailed that piece 105 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 5: to camera. 106 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 4: No, you're the only one in my life. 107 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: That's who does that. 108 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: You come off their and there's not a text? Do 109 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 2: you think, Oh, no, I did stuff that one which 110 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: you've done. 111 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 4: For too paranoid. 112 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 3: I just stand there and I you know, I don't. 113 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: I don't look at my phone on the drive obviously, 114 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: but you know, I just as soon as I get home, 115 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 3: I pick it up and find out did jonesy text? 116 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 117 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: I feel about it. I'm sad all night. 118 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 4: If I didn't see what you've done, I lose. 119 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 5: I can't be fake, Okay, I can't be fake about it, 120 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 5: even Ali, it's great to talk to you. A parental guy. 121 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 5: In season two begins Monday seven thirty on nine. Justin 122 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 5: Colson's doing it with you as well. He knows what 123 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 5: he's talking about. When he comes to get about fifty million. 124 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: He's got six girls. He lives in. 125 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 4: Wow, it's like there's like seven lots of female energy. 126 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 3: Wow. And Justin So, I mean, I'm just surprised he's 127 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 3: not sitting in a. 128 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 4: Corner like cowering and slipping. 129 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: No, he's brilliant, he's great. 130 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 5: Well, good on you, Allien. We'll be watching you tonight 131 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 5: on ACA. 132 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: Thank you,