WEBVTT - MINI: Jack's Hypnotherapy

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to them, Christian no Common Show podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>So yesterday I sent Jack off to see a performance

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<v Speaker 2>hypnotherapist because he has a big golf game on today

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<v Speaker 2>against your in laws, and also your wife is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be Then you've only started golf a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've been playing for a month only I'm very bad,

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<v Speaker 3>and no matter what I do with my in laws,

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<v Speaker 3>I always feel like I'm having to prove myself. Even

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<v Speaker 3>though I've been married to Bianca next year for ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder how many son in laws and I speak

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<v Speaker 2>as one myself still feel that I've been managed to

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<v Speaker 2>say up for twenty five years. Right, it's worked out

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<v Speaker 2>very well between us. Still, when I see her mother

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<v Speaker 2>in law, who is now followed in my coach, I

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<v Speaker 2>was moved out here stalking us. I know sometimes she

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<v Speaker 2>still looks through me like this guy can't believe she's

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<v Speaker 2>still with this boast.

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<v Speaker 3>It never feels like you've got the job, always feels

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm probation. At any moment, they can sit you

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<v Speaker 3>down and go, hey, it's not working out for us.

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<v Speaker 3>You try to hard, but goodbye.

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<v Speaker 2>Those pea plates are never coming off me Prepared so

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<v Speaker 2>you've got it's a high stakes thing you've got going

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<v Speaker 2>on to that.

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<v Speaker 3>So golf was a particularly nervous area for me because

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<v Speaker 3>they're all good at golf. They play a lot. They

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<v Speaker 3>Bianca played a lot as a junior, and I am

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<v Speaker 3>just brand new. So I thought, if anywhere I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to feel fish out feedback, they're heavy with feedback. Just

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<v Speaker 3>I always feel pressure on them to perform. So what

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<v Speaker 3>worse place to go than somewhere that they're very good

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm very bad. So up until yesterday, I was

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<v Speaker 3>very nervous about playing today. Now I can happily say

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<v Speaker 3>it's not bothering me. Really, I've seen how Jack is

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<v Speaker 3>sat differently. He's like he's got a poker in his back.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so straight and upright.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what they sending me to the hypnotherapist. What

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<v Speaker 3>I expected was he was getting my head like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like some kind of sports coach. So I'd come out

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<v Speaker 3>feeling like Roger Fedderer and I would be ready to

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<v Speaker 3>tackle the golf game. It actually done something difference where

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<v Speaker 3>it now it's just giving me confidence that no matter

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<v Speaker 3>what happens, I'm going to have a great day out there.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm not worried about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you've got the shots of maybe having a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of good shots. Yeah, because you just can to

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy the whole experience.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm relaxed, I'm not worried about it. I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 3>to prove myself. I actually feel great.

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<v Speaker 1>So we sent to see a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>If you listen to this, because Jack really got a

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<v Speaker 2>lot from it, it's called Jold Fogel from hypnotist Melbourne.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all happened. You get there, I get there.

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<v Speaker 3>At the start, I got to say I was a

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<v Speaker 3>little concerned because I pictured a hypnotherapist with like water

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<v Speaker 3>features and like quiet music and lots of maybe lots

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<v Speaker 3>of plants in the room. But on the middle of

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<v Speaker 3>it was in Victoria Parade. I could hear card noises outside,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a guy there was actually a guy using

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<v Speaker 3>a drill next door, and I was like, no way

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<v Speaker 3>am I going into trance. But fair to Joel, he

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<v Speaker 3>was able to get me super relaxed.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you remember?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't remember most of what happened when I was

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<v Speaker 3>under the trance, when I was in the trans and

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<v Speaker 3>he was doing the session, so I maybe remember five

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<v Speaker 3>or ten minutes towards the end, but we went for

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<v Speaker 3>a whole forty five minutes. You have a tried hypnotherapy, pat,

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<v Speaker 3>I have a couple of times. Yeah, all right. So

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<v Speaker 3>here's at the start of the session.

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<v Speaker 4>Send that feeling of deep.

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<v Speaker 5>Relax station down through your body, on the top of

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<v Speaker 5>your hair to the bottom of your feet.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you remember any of this?

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<v Speaker 3>I remember him, Yes, I remember the start of it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm sad at this point in a really comfy chair.

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<v Speaker 3>I got my feet up and I've got my eyes closed,

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<v Speaker 3>and it felt I felt really relaxed, but I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like there's no way I'm going to go to sleep,

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<v Speaker 3>or like.

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<v Speaker 1>It is holasorable. He's trying to be I'm too aware,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. This is the him trying to put Jackie

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<v Speaker 1>boy under into a trance.

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<v Speaker 5>And the deeper you go, the more you relax, the

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<v Speaker 5>more you're relaxed.

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<v Speaker 1>And why is he going to send you off now?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know she's just starting to go off into trance.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, yes, Joel, every word?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>So this because we were recalled the whole session and

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<v Speaker 2>we had Jackie's permission with this. Here's now some less

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<v Speaker 2>pacifix where he's actually I guess I think they call

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<v Speaker 2>it implanting or embedding how he wants you to feel and.

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<v Speaker 3>Think, yes, so anything from here, I actually haven't heard

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<v Speaker 3>all my subconscious has heard, but my memory doesn't remember

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<v Speaker 3>anything he said during the session.

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<v Speaker 2>Or according to our Queensland a producer, voodoo is what

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<v Speaker 2>he was doing here.

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<v Speaker 5>And tell yourself there is always something better to do

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<v Speaker 5>than worry about my parents.

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<v Speaker 4>In law.

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<v Speaker 5>Think there is always something better to do. The war

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<v Speaker 5>about one parents, the lot think that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>They're going, hey, yeah, yeah, it's not so good at

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<v Speaker 1>the thin.

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<v Speaker 2>There's something better to think about, what you think, father

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<v Speaker 2>in law?

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<v Speaker 5>Once more, and tell yourself there is always something better

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<v Speaker 5>to do than worry about my parents and law. Think

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<v Speaker 5>there is always something better to do. The war about

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<v Speaker 5>one parents and at think that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know what, that is funny to hear it

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<v Speaker 3>like that, But that is how I feel. Change from yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not I'm not I And now looking back on

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<v Speaker 3>how I felt yesterday, it's hard to imagine being worried

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<v Speaker 3>about walking around the golf course with them, because right now,

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<v Speaker 3>at all.

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<v Speaker 2>For an hour with the guy, there's more now about

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<v Speaker 2>the trying to become the ultimate son in law.

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<v Speaker 4>There are an amazing son in law.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give this to all son in laws.

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<v Speaker 1>I need this. I'm going to be listening to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I need this so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I got the old crow coming around Sunday, noise cancing

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<v Speaker 2>headphones on.

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<v Speaker 4>Here are so an amazing son in law. You have

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<v Speaker 4>to aremndous respect and integrity to your parents in law.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing you can deserve.

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<v Speaker 5>And you'll have the most amazing day out on the

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<v Speaker 5>golf course tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>And you'll notice your confidence and motivation are going to

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<v Speaker 4>grow with every stroke, swing or pat.

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<v Speaker 2>And now this is the last bit where you start

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<v Speaker 2>to bring Jack Brown, and I just said to beware

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<v Speaker 2>there are some strange noises that Jack's making here.

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<v Speaker 4>Well done, Jackie did amazingly. Well, Yeah you went deep,

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<v Speaker 4>my friend, you did really really well.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, it felt like coming out of a really long hibernation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was really strange.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's a little says, how are you feeling now? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine that a couple of hours, what is it twelve

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<v Speaker 1>forty five? E teeing off today.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, everything that he's saying in there is how I

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<v Speaker 3>feel differently about now. I feel like I can't wait

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<v Speaker 3>to see my in laws on the golf course. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel excited to play and not worried about.

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<v Speaker 2>It, just enjoyable potential possibility rather than oh God, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to screw it up and look bad.

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<v Speaker 3>My mind set has shifted completely.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>I highly recommend it. It would worked for me. I was

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<v Speaker 3>skeptical going in, but it definitely worked for me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Joel Fogel and you can find him

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<v Speaker 2>online hypnotist to Melbourne dot com dot au Jackie Boy,

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy your afternoon with the in laws and for all

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<v Speaker 2>this other son in laws here.

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<v Speaker 4>Are so an amazing son in law after Amanda's Respect

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